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Even if that's the case, I would assume the wife would have funds allocated to her and her needs? She could save some of that I believe?
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 05:24 PM
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I'd propose a joint account for things related to the household such as bills, groceries etc etc. But I also find value in each party having control over their own money. Like, you trust each other to contribute to the household, as well as trust each other to be fiscally responsible individually.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 03:52 PM
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This is something that isn't visible on the surface so I wouldn't exactly say that your attraction to them had anything to do with this aspect. I would assume that attraction faded after discovering this about them. The world is very saturated with the bad and we definitely have very few role models in terms of young healthy relationships. The difference is between fighting for what you want and believe in and just letting yourself wallow in this pit of *gestures vaguely* whatever passes as love…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 02:22 PM
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By my understanding of this quote, this type of man is uncertain about a lot of things, especially his value. OF and IG girls give instant gratification, he almost has to do nothing to get the sexual validation he needs so much so that he wouldn't care that he is disposable to them. Deep relationships are scary and maybe he feels he isn't worth the trouble. These men have very low self-esteem. Idk if I make sense
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 01:25 PM
1

This is so...weird. I can't explain how it just irks me. You doing your job as a father is not the patriarchy keeping a sister down. If you have conversations about how men can take advantage of her, and how vetting dates is an important process of dating, I don't think you would be in the wrong. Nor would you be an anti-feminist for telling her the guy she's seeing is bad news and backing that statement up with things her young eyes can't see yet. Similarly for the last bit, you can set a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:17 AM
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Yeah, my mom is 59, her youngest is 22. My dad is 60 and his youngest is 14. It's not uncommon even
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:05 AM
2

I don't think competitiveness is the issue. The issue is when a fully capable female candidate is taken out of the running simply because she's a woman. Or when male dominated spaces (and quite frankly the government) do no make accommodations for female workers that would allow women (and men when safety hazards are concerned) to be safe in those environments. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1129825/number-of-female-employees-in-south-africa-by-industry/ The above link shows you that in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:31 AM
3

I don't frequent the sub enough, solely because the number of creeps messaging teenagers was overwhelming. The subs job isn't to decrease the numbers of creepy PMs, or the sub will die out. I still think that the least an old guy can do is check the profile of the person they're trying to message and see if they're OF models or someone who would be interested in that type of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:05 PM
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I'm gonna come in with an anime: Wotakoi, Love is Hard for Otaku Our MC just moved to a new workplace, after people at her last one found out she was a major nerd. She is determined to hide that part of herself in her new work environment. Things don't go according to plan as she meets an old friend who also works there and he knows about her nerdiness. He's also a nerd (gamer leaning) so they decide to try dating each other. It's just a cute, wholesome story about a budding relationship where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:42 PM
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I mean, there will be people in all ideologies who stray from the core beliefs. This is where it takes discernment. You can't be caught up by everything people say. All I'm saying is that the radicalised (of any group) are rarely a good representation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:34 PM
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I gather you're more likely to listen to the loud minority. Just like I don't see any pushback from the misogynists over on TRP from the guys that are aligning with the true cause. Ya'll be awfully quiet when people are actively telling others to hurt and exploit women. But you being fed up doesn't change how true my statement is. There are outliers, but I think most scholars of feminism can agree that what they're doing is not it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:26 PM
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You can't take posts like that seriously as they're not based on how the real world functions. It's got nothing to do with the feminist cause. If it's looking for superiority, it's likely not femism. I think use that as your litmus test before coming onto a serious conversation and telling me about some power hungry radicals abolishing womens prisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:14 PM
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There doesn't need to be a push. There only needs to be an option. Idk about US military, but in my country it's completely voluntary as there is no draft. Women can be binwomen, they also can be sewerage workers. That is what is important to feminism. Although I will agree that there needs to be a push for equally harsh punishment, we can't be faulted as there is this (false) belief that women are delicate and need to be treated like children that feminism is trying to get rid of. I believe whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:05 PM
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It is. Bringing women up to the same level as men is not equality for both sexes? So it's not a lie. When we fight for our rights, we only hope that men can do the same for themselves. Otherwise, it isn't our job when men are technically the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:55 PM
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women angle for superiority and are super sneaky about it. All I've seen in this sub is both men and women try to one up each other. TRP in particular infers superiority by using tricks to humiliate their "opponents" in debates. I saw this a lot on KS. Is it the sneakiness you have a problem with? Because men don't ever lie to get what they want? /s you see how women prioritise their own safety, even mental safety when everything's actually fine, over men's wants and needs all the time. How is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:43 PM
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yeah, most of the time the data is misrepresented
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 08:22 PM
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That's not even the angle I was coming at it from. If my man were to lose his wealth and not be able to provide anymore like he said he would, it would essentially force me to re-enter the workspace. It would be difficult to explain a 5-10 year gap on my resume to my potential employer . However, if I never stopped working in the first place, it's highly likely we would have some savings going on that could support us (in addition to the money I'm earning) while he is getting back on his feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:26 PM
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I'm not seeking to be married. I was just saying that we cannot ignore the possibility of things not working out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:23 PM
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That's actually another good pint to raise...like what if he loses all his wealth? Could never be me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:14 PM
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People can still screw you over regardless. I'm not taking any chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:10 PM
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Even if you don't end up in an abusive situation, there is the very real possibility of things not working out and him leaving you destitute. I'm not taking that chance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 06:01 PM
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I completely agree that men as a whole need to increase their standards. I just had someone in the comments of another post on here say that you don't correct abusive behaviour from women because you gain nothing from it. Like???? Why are you staying in a detrimental environment for the sake of pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:58 PM
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I'm not sure I'm understanding your point. By telling a woman the way she's treating you is incorrect is not going to benefit you? I believe that staying in a situation that is detrimental to yourself for the sake of pussy is not going to benefit you either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:50 PM
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I have a bit of a problem with the "we never correct women because we want to fuck them". I would also argue that's a manipulation tactic. Is abuse perpetuated by women more accepted? Yes. And should it be? No. I would love it if we could play by the same rules instead of constantly trying to 1 up each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:53 PM
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This is so cute pls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:07 PM
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GottaPSoBad is not talking about your traveling. I think you're stuck thinking you have to present a certain way. Do you want an LTR? Start dating like you want an LTR and you will eventually find someone who looks the way you want and also wants what you want in life. Life and dating have more nuances than you see here on the internet, it's not as bad as you think out there. That is what they're referring to : the fact that you have internalised radical views on the internet as reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:25 AM
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Here is my perfect BF Score: Relationship Type: LTR Looks: 5. Clean (skin, hair and personal care). Similar height or above (I'm 5'4), can be be skinny (like lower side of normal BMI) or overweight- but not obese as I try to live a healthy lifestyle. Everything else is negligible. Money: 6. As long as you can support yourself. You can afford your hobbies, interests and you're happy with where you are in your career. Don't really care about status. Personality: 8. Emotionally mature and intellige…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah it's so weird because firstly, the legal stuff around marriage is the primary reason why I don't want to be married, a lot of women in this thread feel the same. And secondly, why would men just go around proposing to people without knowing them first. You have to be in an LTR first, and secondly, those things fall through sometimes. u/_revelationary pointed out how weirdly phrased this question is. I haven't seen OP respond. We'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:03 PM
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Well no because I'm not actively dating. I'm pursuing a very demanding degree, so I don't think it would be fair to date someone knowing I don't have the time for them rn. But if I clicked with someone I wouldn't ignore it. But that wasn't your question. I was just wondering whether or not your criteria for answering the question shouldn't be more specific to women who are actively dating and wanting to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:45 PM
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That's not what I was doing at all. OP asked women, which I am. I was just wondering what their criteria for answering the question was. That perhaps they needed it to be more specific to women who are actively dating and wanting to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:43 PM
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Are you assuming we are actively dating and want to be married?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:57 PM
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Yeah, agree. Perhaps I should have phrased it better. This open mindedness can still be a product of how you grew up in that sense. A closed minded (and to a lesser extent) and open minded upbringing can still bring about the opposite outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:43 PM
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I'd like to think openmindedness is one of those things that are a product of where you live, grew up and the company you keep. This is something that definitely has too much nuance to be put into two boxes you know? In my personal experience, I've been in more debates with men because that's something the men around me enjoy doing. Conversations with women seldom turned into debates unless it's my mom being a homophobe haha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:28 PM
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Hmmm. So essentially lying. I have trouble understanding why people lie and recognising when I'm being lied to, so I tend to believe that people operate the same way that I do. Which is faulty. But thank you for the civil debate of sorts. Have a good day further :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:52 PM
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Following your example, there's no way that I, as a women can go ahead and claim that I was harassed by you asking me for directions. Maybe I had my guard up for the interaction, but conflating the interaction and blowing out of proportion thus having it completely lose it's meaning is the angle that I am coming from. However, if you came up to me, asked me for directions and decided that perhaps you would ask me for my number for future interactions and I expressed I wasn't interested and you k…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:37 PM
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But that's exactly my point. Those women who have made those harassment claims are wrong because it's not harassment. Have a good day further then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:16 AM
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Meanings of words do evolve over time yes, but legally speaking (because harassment is a crime) it hasn't. So contextually, you're still incorrect. In the real world, just because some people decide to use a word incorrectly doesn't mean that it's legal meaning suddenly takes on that meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:07 AM
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Perhaps in your initial meet up, your intentions should be clear (if you're sure about your intentions when you meet them). It would save you a lot of hoping it turns into more down the road. I am a big fan of the friends to lovers pipeline but a lot of people aren't. So when you initially meet a woman, and you feel you click...maybe tell her you want to date. If she says no, move on. If she agrees, then yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:53 AM
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Yeah. I did it over text. He rejected me. It hurt like shit lol. But we're good friends still.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:40 AM
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Then you're not using the word "harassment" properly. You can say you don't like being approached by people you're not attracted to no matter how respectful they are, that's you. I'd like to believe a lot of people use words properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:36 AM
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Once again, there is a difference between being asked out and being harassed. ​ edit since people don't know what harassment is: "aggressive pressure or intimidation".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 02:05 AM
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In my experience, pick-me's get stuck in this vicious cycle of not be like the "others" >>come off as too much >> not get the desired outcome >>>> more aggression towards the "others">>> try harder rinse an repeat This makes them even more isolated an insufferable because they're so hard to be around. I used to be a pick-me as a teenager. I thought the more different I could present, the more value I would have to men because girls are all shallow and stupid lol. A shit tonne of internalised mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:03 PM
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"this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's patients"" This was fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:46 PM
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Where I'm from I usually see it with men who leave a good woman and regret it later. So I'm sure such a situation is possible. But I don't think it's as common as many people think it is. I think we are all aware that one has to sift through a lot of garbage to find a good, compatible person and it's hard work. I personally think that Jessica's need for attention is valid. And so is Zack's for space and personal growth. At that point in time they were not compatible and neither was willing to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:17 PM
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Lmao no. These women simply do not respect your time. She could have said no, she's not interested but didn't for whatever reason. That's on her. I'm gonna need people to stop encountering shitty people and equating it to some women phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:45 PM
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This reads very weirdly. Firstly, just come out and say exactly what type of woman you're referring to because I guarantee you're excluding a vast amount of the population. Some men actually have standards, so again, this all-or-nothing type beat isn't reflected in reality. You're dealt certain cards and you deal accordingly. A woman will also have to possess confidence, certain body measurements, and a salary if she wants to get anywhere in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:39 PM
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This is true. But the topic of everyday make-u is wild to me because I don't live in the west. You can wear make-up here if you want but no one is gonna be all up in arms about it because most people do it to dress up. Interesting, very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:24 PM
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I was 18. My period was so all over the place it was derailing my life. I would get frequent ovariant cysts. 2 years and three surgeries later I got the endometriosis diagnosis. Its nice having some semblance of a normal life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:08 PM
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I don't hate the manosphere because of the reasons stated above. By all means, do what makes you happy, I hate the manosphere (or a part of it) because of the people who popularize it by being absolute menaces. You can be a positive male figure in society without scamming your target audience or reducing their humanity. You can also be a good role model without encouraging contempt or hatred/abuse towards women (I'm looking at you, Andrew Tate). I also know that not every prominent figure in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:24 PM
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That's not it at all. Love bombing has the intention of either making up for abuse that has occured or doing it for the purpose of bringing it up after abuse or mistreatment has occurred. For example: " There's no way I neglect you or abuse you, look at all the nice things I've done" Spoiling someone to the point it is uncomfortable does come across as desperate and might be telling of underlying insecurities. It seldom has anything to do with how attractive a person is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:27 AM
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This isn't the sole outcome of divorce. There are options you know, and it sucks that to prove your point you're choosing to ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:26 AM
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In all honesty, I have yet to meet someone who is worth the effort. Lying is so much admin
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:49 PM
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It's awfully quiet down here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:54 PM
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Erotica is great mainly because it is not bound by reality. I can enjoy a good story with exhilarating sexual scenes that have been described immaculately. I don't have to guess what people are thinking, the men are vocal, I can enjoy niche categories that would otherwise not exist in live action porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 03:34 PM
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It depends on a lot of factors. Physically, it seems to be the general consensus that women mature faster. But from the comments I see that in different regions, maturity is measured differently. From my perspective (23 yo Black woman from an African country) I can safely say that I was thrust into maturity quite early, maturity being brought upon by having heavy responsibilities prematurely. I was picking up chores at 5 years old and looking after my younger sister a year before then. My sister…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:42 PM
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Agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:24 PM
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As someone who doesn't do hookups and is demisexual I can't answer this but; Given the info I gave in 1. It would be better to be bf material. There's are entire dimensions of someone you can enjoy besides carnal desire. I think that's pretty neat. I don't necessarily care about money or status, drinking and smoking habits are important to note. Also, compatibility. Are they open-minded? Can we discuss topics without it turning into a personal attack? Personal habits like hygiene and cleanliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:49 PM
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No you weren't, you were talking about a successful man. Perhaps our definitions of successful are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:17 AM
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Exactly. These days people date each other because they like each other and not because there's some niche that one cannot fulfill and therefore someone else needs to slot in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:58 AM
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A successful man can pay for maids and cooks. He doesn't need to date a woman to do that stuff for him. I would have to offer him more than what he can pay for, which is usually not a lot. Therefore he would actually have to like me to continue dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:54 AM
2

Nothing will top the entertainment value of comments sections such as these
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:50 AM
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Because they're shitty people. I saw a tik tok once that said that it's okay to make misandrist jokes and take misandrist actions because unlike misogyny, misandry doesn't have any systematic implications. And while that may be true, it absolutely baffled me how some women are willing to ignore and perpetuate the effects of sexism/abuse against men at an individual level because "it's not as bad as what the patriarchy has done to women".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 07:59 AM
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I found it was easier to pursue casual dating until it made me depressed so I stopped. I do get likes when I do online dating, but most of the time I end up not pursuing anything because I can't help but feel like I'm putting someone's son at a disadvantage. So I tend to turn down advances because of that. The men I have dated were average to good looking. Granted I don't really have a looks criteria because I care more about his person, but I have yet to come across a person who I thought was u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:00 AM
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I agree. But then we have to think as to what exactly made it that way...is it really women's fault that somewhere someone decided that women are nicer to look at and will therefore attract more customers? Also, I also think that companies typically do not see laborious work as something to be rewarded more (not to mention a higher occupational hazard and should be treated as such) and that should change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:59 AM
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Ah, I was confused on the whole safety thing. But my realistic preference still stands. Option 1 or 2 don't make me feel like I could be taken seriously and every interaction I would have in those situations would be fake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:55 AM
2

My apologies then, I though of safety in the physical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:53 AM
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I didn't say ALL men, I said most. I'm trying to make it as realistic as possible because life doesn't happen in extremes. Off the top of my head I would consider work environments, where more women face harassment than men, however, the job description is the same for both sexes should the job be the same. Edit: I guess my understanding of what "safe environment" means is completely off. I was thinking more in the physical sense, whereas it seems the correct interpretation was from an empathy/f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:30 AM
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Realistic view seems to be the better option. But I still fail to understand why women can't be taken seriously, be accountable and be judged based on competence, security, reliability, loyalty and initiative...and also expected to take the same pressure while still understanding that women still need safe environments in some instances because women have safety concerns that most heterosexual men do not. Also, why can't we have this hypothetical world view while understanding that men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:03 AM
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Idk about beta treatment, but the deceit to me would be unforgiveable. I'm sure he would feel betrayed and very hurt in the fact that she couldn't trust him with her past. She could say she didn't like it, but lying about not having done it is a huge red flag. Probably grounds for divorce, you can't trust someone who's willing to lie to you to further their own agenda.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/22 10:21 PM
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RP Women exist. There's an entire subreddit of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:15 PM
3

Exactly. No one is forced to stay with someone you're insecure around. If she's not passing the vibe check, find someone who does
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:13 PM
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What don't you think they're a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:03 PM
3

I'm the same way, I typically don't thirst for sex...so a relationship like that for me would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:39 PM
1

But I still feel bad , like somehow it's wrong to decline a "nice guy" because men are always claiming that we don't like them. That's exactly how they want you to feel, do that your doubts don't necessarily hold any weight and you start feeling crazy. Nice guys fail to understand that bring a decent human being is expected of everyone and shouldn't be rewarded in any way, shape or form...and being nice doesn't make you special. That being said, it sucks having to tell someone you're breaking up…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:18 PM
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There's nothing wrong about wanting to be a single dad. As long as you can finance it, and can raise your child in a way that won't be harmful to them it's all good. There's nothing to think here, given that lots of people have been raised by their dad's and are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:22 AM
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Well, there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 05:32 AM
2

Find a happy medium?? You might not be as social as your friends, but maybe be more social than you currently are. That will increase your chances or finding the girls you're interested because I'm assuming they're hanging around in those social spaces. You might not hookup with a lot of them as your friends, but the other aspects of your life won't suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:07 AM
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There's definitely a power imbalance in their relationship as far as OP is concerned. But if Lance is fine with the way his wife is dressed that has nothing to do with OP. She is very nosy and has no business in their marriage
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 11:12 AM
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In some states, like North Carolina, remove financial obligation when you absolve your parental rights
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:32 PM
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OP had us in the first half, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:23 PM
1

So terminating parental rights is completely off the table since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:16 PM
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She did that because she was a fucking pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 12:41 PM
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I don't think there should be a dogma on make up use. Everyone who feels comfortable enough to wear it should. Because it's also a daunting thing for women. I think the way forward would be opening up the space for whoever would like to dabble in it. At the end of the day, it's just cosmetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 11:15 AM
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It could be. But since men hold the opinions of other men In high regard, and sex is seen as a measure of worth, I think it's mostly that. "You're getting female attention, stop complaining". Or "what kind of man are you, she's clearly into you dude?" Are all the invalidating statements that come from other men when one refuses unwanted advances. Some that come from female perps could sound like "are you even a man?" Thus implying that solely because one is a man, they should always be on the go…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 10:14 AM
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And unfortunately, male SA victims aren't taken seriously by mostly...other men. Because apparently you're supposed to like it. So the female perps aren't held responsible. One of those things that I'll never understand. It hurts a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:44 AM
4

Unpopular opinion: Porn is really boring actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:58 AM
2

This. We might cry, but we will definitely leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:57 AM
1

Big hands. Well manicured nails. Veiny hands. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:39 AM
1

On random people I haven't said a word to, hands have a lot of appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:13 PM
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Personally it would feel worse if the sex was bad. I typically don't have sex with just anybody, I like getting to be committed to someone before that happens. If I find out I was being played for a shit lay as well I'd be livid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:12 PM
0

Again, I ask, are Americans exempt from giving up parental rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:01 PM
1

I agree, but I always though that renouncing parental rights was always an option? I'm not from the US and in my country this is something most men with unwanted kids opt for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:27 AM
1

Why is alimony a thing again? Sincerely, from a person who's country favours a clean break principle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:09 AM
1

No they don't. People should do what they see fut with their lives, and vice versa. If you as a person, feel like another person's life in that moment is worth more than your own, by all means, go for it. Otherwise, keep your heart beating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 04:43 PM
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Very rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:21 PM
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here is the link to the video. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:31 PM
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I watched a Dr Michelle video and she highlights that its important to decipher which situations require a more masculine or more feminine attitude. They are both important to implement, but you cant be 100% either one. Anyway, to answer your question...I don't think you can. But, you can stay true to yourself, even if it means standing out. Its gonna be better for you in the long run. Assert your femininity. If, over time, you feel that you're not strong g enough to withstand their influence, m…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:13 PM
2

I watched a Dr Michelle video and she highlights that its important to decipher which situations require a more masculine or more feminine attitude. They are both important to implement, but you cant be 100% either one. Anyway, to answer your question...I don't think you can. But, you can stay true to yourself, even if it means standing out. Its gonna be better for you in the long run. Assert your femininity. If, over time, you feel that you're not strong g enough to withstand their influence, m…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 08:12 PM
1

Invite link is invalid :(
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 05:13 PM
1

I'm currently a college student. Just like you were. Trust me. You go to one party or three, you've gone to them all. Im frankly tired of it. Thank goodness for covid because people seem to think drinking and dancing is the entirety of a personality at a party and you're deemed as boring if you dont do those things at a party. You didn't miss anything major. You probably avoided getting arrested for stupid shit. Or harassment. You can still have the greatest time of your life doing things you ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:49 AM
-1

I would trade my period for some awesome eyelashes and eyebrows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 02:32 PM
6

Ah yeah this. From watching my parents disastrous marriage. Sex seemed to fix things. My first sexual boyfriend didnt mind this at all lmao. I ended up so unfulfilled and broke it off 4 months later.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 05:19 AM
2

"Ah. Neat."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 09:54 AM
1

Oooooohhhh shhhiiiitttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:32 AM
2

Yeah I've never tickled anyone in a non platonic and playful way. Family, friends, kids of family and friends, partners. With partners I usually want to joke around with annoying them a little bit to help them relax or something. But other than that, never felt the urge to do it sexually no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 10:51 PM
5

I have a problem with rare. Why is he staying in a sexless relationship if sex is so important to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:06 PM
1

Social norms for many years made it easier for women to be agreeable, and therefore, being disagreeable wouldn't have benefitted us in anyway given the roles we had back then. But, I can't tell you why this is still the case for the majority. That's just how the male brain works, on estimation. You learn something new everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:09 AM
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Secondly, yet the women fell for it? Maybe the men are just more resilient liers? Perhaps men are more resilient liars. Or just lazy, since more of them were estimating rather than actually counting(from the link you have up here). Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:45 AM
-1

Oh so the study used a polygraph? An outdated piece of equipment proven to be flawed? Interesting indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 09:34 AM
2

It's a bit peculiar that you're wanting to let these women down easy. Claiming to be gay or already in a relationship are common ways we women use to stop people's advancements. And 78% of the time it doesn't work lmao. I think it's in your best interest to say "Look, I'm flattered, but I'm genuinely not interested". If she starts making a big deal about how you're not manly or probably gay or how you could pass up a chance with a dime like her...its a her problem. You're no longer involved. If …
/r/MGTOW216/01/21 07:03 AM
2

When I started college I didn't have a strategy. I just went wherever the wind blew me and I ended up in terrible relationships. I stopped dating in 2018, worked on my mental health, lost some weight, focused on my studies and started planning my future. I've decided to dip my toes into dating again. I'm refusing to sleep with people bc pandemic and bc I dont want either of us to feel used. I'm not dating anyone yet, but it's looking promising. I really want a LTR. But not wanting kids and havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:08 PM
5

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 09:28 PM
29

It's a form of male-male competition. Happens everywhere in nature. This way, the current Male can ensure that his sperm father the progeny and not that of the previous male. Examples of male male competition include long copulation periods to prevent other males from interacting with the female, guarding the female after insemination as well as infanticide. I would imagine prehistoric humans used this aspect of penile anatomy to ensure their progeny was theirs since paternity tests did not exis…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:36 AM
2

She is a shitty person, but rapists cannot be thought of as people with preferences. Think of those that rape children, or really old women and men (I'm talking 80-90 yo women, I haven't heard of any old men rape but I'm sure it happens). You really cannot try and classify the sickness of rape into preferences. I cannot tell you how much I hate this attention seeking, cystic acne looking piece of shit for trying to ruin lives.
/r/MGTOW206/01/21 04:13 AM
1

Preferences vary because variation is one of the key features of natural selection. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:07 AM
2

I was going to say the same thing about being black as in African. We don't do particularly well in the western SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:59 PM
5

I cant tell if this is satire or not. But I will say that bettering yourself should have very little to do with women. People take advantage of flimsy motives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:41 PM
1

I would genuinely like to know where this is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:20 PM
1

I'm sorry I wasnt clear, I meant consensually making a baby in the literal sense. As in, both parties are aware they are making a child and a child will result from this intercourse
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:15 PM
2

If both of you made the baby consentually, both of you must take care of it. However, if she falls pregnant and can abort (because it makes more sense at the time. I.e you dont want it) she should. Theres no reason to pay child support for a child you ensured (on your end) would not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:12 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 01:33 PM
1

Oh I see. I thoigh there was like a set number everyone just went by
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 12:53 PM
0

What is considered a high N count btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 05:02 PM
2

Idk what your definition of slut is, but it looks like a lot of immaturity to me. This isn't really the sub for this either, you'll get lots of people telling you to drop her, which I agree with. You cannot be wasting time with someone who is all over the place. I cannot tell you why she's doing any of that stuff either. High school was a very tricky time, with people trying to navigate things like relationships. My advice? Let her be. Remove yourself from the equation. You are way to young to b…
/r/MGTOW226/12/20 04:20 PM
1

Exactly. Why chance it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 06:04 AM
7

Perhaps. To be honest with you, I do not intend on having kids. But, an unattractive kid would fair better mentally knowing that both parents are there for them than an attractive one who wonders why they don't have both parents. It's an appropriate trade off. Better wellbeing > relative attractiveness. This is what I think anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:34 AM
7

Courting definitely needs a revamp for westernised societies. People are tired and overworked, and nobody has time to be jumping over hoops for someone else. I cannot tell you how many male tinder matches are happy that I message them first. I believe that in this day and age, if you're interested in someone, and its mutual, there has to be effort from both sides, otherwise it won't be sustainable. Sure it makes you feel good and loved and all What about you? How am I making you feel good and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:53 AM
1

I'm here to encourage both men and women to think independently. To rationally explore and form their own ideas, and that it's ok to end up wherever. I'm essentially here to argue against following a dogma of sorts without critical evaluation of a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 04:23 AM
9

None. I want the best for my hypothetical kids. Option 1 allows my kids to have both their parents in their lives majority of the time, however we are both still working, making a tough situation to "properly " raise kids in (I worry a lot about working while raising kids myself). Option 2 basically forces my kids to have very little access to any parents. If push comes to shove and I absolutely had to pick I would say 1. Kids do better in two parent households anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 03:52 AM
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