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| 36 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?I'm here to learn about what went wrong when I was willing (too eagerly) to have a male partner. 1 divorce and a dramatic break-up after... I just want to retrospectively correct my lack of boundaries. I'm aware of the existence of HVM but I'm just not interested in the effort or a relationship right now. Maybe when my children grow up I'll change my mind, but hopefully I'll be happy enough by myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:49 AM |
| 10 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!I guess I function as "the one who got away" for someone. I fell for it after going through my divorce, I was (am?) so depressed I couldn't even shower. We found each other after no contact for 20 years, very romantic /s. The familiarity, the poisonous sweet talk, the fake comforting, I was too week to resist. But then reality hit and his behavior played out EXACTLY like every sane level headed person can prophetizise. He would never shut the fuck up about his past relationships, how I rUiNeD hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 60 | I think he told on himselfThat's my marriage. I thought the tug-of-war on everything from picking bread to choosing schools for our children was normal until I realized I was never actually calling any shots, my career was destroyed beyond repair and not even my neighbors knew my name. I'm mourning for 15 years I spent depressed and alone, wondering how the hell I ended up like this after graduating with honors, having a phone full of friendly messages and spending my money on whatever I wanted. He went after me to elimi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Late Miss USA, having previously written a heartbreaking essay about turning 30, dies by suicide at 30 years old. Women being worthless at 30 is an idea perpetuated by the manosphere, yet they dare say FDS is toxic?I'm so happy I've managed to stay alive long enough to have gray hairs on my head, it breaks my heart in a million pieces to hear about this. My wrinkles, scars, cavities, the weight I gained, everything I've learned... these are my achievements; everything is so much better as I get older!!! I can't imagine how overwhelming and inescapable the negativity that surrounds celebrities is for them to be robbed of the joy and privilege of getting older. I hope her tragic death haunts the people who l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 62 | I am a 40 years old and haven’t dated for 2 years and for the first time in my life, felt at peace with it.I'm new to everything reddit-wise and I assume the type of comment I'm writing must be boring and overplayed but I have to say it. This post, this "story time" and just a handful of other stories here have changed my life in a few minutes, more than years of therapy and a not so supportive support system. I've been standing on the edge of the worst depressive spell in decades and just when I was about DONE with my life, I found this place. Thank you to everyone sharing their experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:40 PM |
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