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8

Is this real? Did you travel to India or is the temple in the US (assuming that's where you're from)?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 12:24 AM
6

Look at these two idiots sucking each other's dick. Especially OP and his "I'll concede". What are you conceding, he fully agrees with you. "I'm an argumentative cunt but I'll concede" lol, get your ego out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 05:42 PM
14

This is just a nightclub scene, it's not "daygame" at all. You're not doing anything wrong, just keep practicing and taking notes for the next time.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 06:23 PM
3

I just hope no one is paying for this class and it'S really just an informal thing.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:58 PM
18

How can you be teaching charisma/confidence if you just only discovered this and have not much experience with it ?
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:33 PM
1

I can guarantee you most of the time she's not ever doing it as some kind of concious mating strategy or whatever He didn't say it was a conscious mating strategy. He said it's an inconscious mating filter.
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:01 PM
4

Gender warring will not get you laid and is corrosive to your soul. Yup. You easier learn how to make light of current gender dymanics and step up when you can do something about it in the right direction or you spend your time whining about how X has it easier.
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:59 PM
1

Yeah, people can't see through a facade. She's hurting for some very confident man and you bet your ass she'll fold when he steps up.
/r/seduction18/07/19 12:55 PM
38

Not all women have that natural smoothness, this one is an outlier. But in average, it is easier for a girl to do it.
/r/seduction07/07/19 05:31 PM
2

but at the cost of ruining some guys life If your life is ruined because your gf had another dick in her, it's 100% on you.
/r/seduction04/07/19 11:43 AM
9

Seriously it's like a cheat code. Only if you use it once in a while. Abuse it and it will cheat you back.
/r/seduction04/07/19 11:39 AM
3

How do I make sure I don't miss your app when it's out?
/r/seduction24/06/19 05:31 PM
1

Then who's upvoting this stupid thread ? It's completely wrong.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:43 PM
185

You both need to go back to school, this doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:50 PM
-1

People break up all the time.
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:34 PM
0

Yeah sure but calling that an "essay" is quite the overreach.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:26 AM
6

If I was a girl working out at the gym, I wouldn't want to spend the extra 10 minutes warding off guys. I want to get my workout done and go home. Yeah and those girls don't look at guys and don't smile at them. But the reasoning "I'm not at the gym to be seduced, I'm at the gym to work out" can be applied anywhere. I'm at the grocery shop to get food, not wards off guys. I'm at the library to study, not ward off guys. I'm on the street to get somewhere, not to ward off guys. I'm a party to have…
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:52 PM
16

If you have to ask, I'm not sure you are ready to make an engaging video.
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:45 PM
3

Long game is best game. This is the answer OP is looking for.
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:38 PM
3

I think you're asking for a way to hit on someone at the gym, which is typically a big no-no. It's not a big no-no. It's the same rule as everywhere else : are you making eye contact and exchanging smiles from a distance ? If yes, you can approach without hesitation. If not, you are better off not approaching. It's valid in the gym, the comic book store, the workplace, the bus... etc.
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:37 PM
1

I woud really remove the "Guess" suggestion. Everything else in your post is applicable and inclusive while the guess link is exclusive. You can link to a proper male fashion blog or sub.
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:20 PM
6

Yeah, that Guess recommendation hurts an overall good post.
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:20 PM
22

Friendship is definitely an insult in the dating world It's not.
/r/seduction10/05/19 05:10 PM
99

The girl doesn't realize that she wasted her own time as well. She didn't... You need to STOP right now with the idea that any date that is not converted into either Sex or a Relationship is a waste of time. Meeting people without having to fuck them is incredibly underrated. To be honest, they would probably benefit of being each other friend's but people take friendship as an insult.
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:17 PM
3

Game trumps everything else.
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:15 PM
-1

I don't need to try. Get a dictionary.
/r/seduction04/05/19 02:07 AM
17

Let me know if you are ever available in the future. No, never write that.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:22 PM
4

Lol I like how your phone already has responses laid out for you. I'm low key impressed by the suggestions !
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:21 PM
19

You are wrong about exclamation points my friend. They have a purpose.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:20 PM
-2

It's the torrid that is shocking not the affair. Learn to read.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 06:10 PM
7

Great contribution.
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:03 PM
5

When we generalize that allegations of assault are being weaponized by women with impure intentions, we add to the many dangers women (and men) face in coming forward with allegations for legitimate reasons What dangers do we add by pointing out that Sexual Harrasment accusations are being cast frivolously and that they are being executed upon without any due diligence ? He's simply sayin that a girl can perceive you to be creepy enough to file a complaint which is why one should very careful an…
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:02 PM
1

It's mostly the fact that it forces you to brand yourself to have any online presence.
/r/seduction19/04/19 03:31 AM
16

For example, I cooked for a very attractive girl last week and she posted it on insta and I shared it. Then within a couple of hours two newer girls messaged me something along the lines of “why don’t you cook for me? Attention seeking is such an unattractive trait.. I'm so happy I'm not doing the social media game.
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:47 PM
1

First things first : how old are you ? You can safely ignore anyone giving you advice without knowing that. The advice cannot be the same whether you are 30 or 21.
/r/seduction11/04/19 05:20 PM
1

You're right, don't wait for her and in general, don't be waiting for any girl. All we're saying is that you don't have to take it literally if she's still firting with you and sometimes girls say that because they want to have an easy way out of the interaction if they lose interest. It's like me going on a date and not sure about the girl so I would say that I only have an hour because I have a meeting afterwards. It gives me the option to fuck off if I don't like the way the date is going. Ex…
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:35 PM
2

I'm sorry is never the best answer because that's how you lead a sorry, miserable, life.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:09 PM
0

A lot of things in seduction can apply to workplace dynamics and interview processes but not this specific case. There are a thousand examples of girls saying "I have a boyfriend" to a guy and then still going out with him, there are a few stories in this very post. There are no examples of a company rejecting your application and then changing their mind once they see how weel you took the rejection.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:08 PM
0

It's actually uncomfortable to hear because this means someone you're seeing or dating could also be out with someone else. I've been on that side of the fence too and it doesn't feel good, but it happens. It's a lot easier to face when you grow out of your insecurities and realize your own worth.
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:06 PM
1

2) she is not interested in you or maybe not interested in hooking up aswell, so please don't be a douche and leave her alone! There is a 3rd very popular reason that everybody likes ot ignore because it's the trickiest : 3/ She uses that line as a shield to be left alone and it's not meant to be taken too literally. It's the equivalent of "I have to be somehere in 2 hours" at the start of a date so you give yourself the option to leave if you don't like it even if you have nothing else planned …
/r/seduction04/04/19 05:03 PM
3

reasonable people shouldn't voice their opinion on people who kill others because there is nothing they can do to stop it from happening? Exactly. Smart people don't go aroud saying "don't kill". And especially not "don't kill, that's pathetic". So again, you are not looking for a conversation, you are just venting off your opinion. Maybe something happened to you, maybe to a friend, naybe you had a weird dream but for the love of God, insulting the people you want to address and using morals to…
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:58 PM
1

I'm saying that stealing someone's gf is a shitty thing to do and giving reasons No, you're calling people who do it pathetic because of vague morals. And secure people understand that there is nothing they can do to prevent cheating from happening and don't try to shame other guys in hopes to reduce the odds of it happening.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:27 PM
2

God I hate people like you. People with hate are always the issue. And please stop with the false borders. "Library is not for chatting up girls", "gym is not for chatting up girls", "work is not for chatting up girls", "the street is not for chatting up girls"... everyone making any statement in that vein is wrong. Everywhere is a great place to do anything. Let the girl decide whether or not she is okay being approached.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:19 PM
2

You're saying there is no group of guys totally willing to game taken girls? Where did I say that ? Did you read my answer or what ? The answer to your question is straight up in my post : There is a huge nuance between flirting with taken girls without pulling the trigger and actively trying to seduce a girl to stray out of her exclusive relationship. In other words, flirting with a taken girl and stealing her are two different things and OP is not making any nuance.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:16 PM
1

My point was that your Mom and Dad separating from an otherwise healthy family relationship due to one of them cheating could absolutely scar a child. That's not a point, that's a very specific scenario compared to how broad your message is trying to be. And even your scenario is wobbly.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:10 PM
5

How is being man enough to move on being insecure? That's not what I wrote. I'm saying that you are basically telling guys not to steal your GF. That's where the insecurity comes in. You should have 0 concern over losing your GF to another guy to start why and if you have those concernes, putting the burden on the other guys instead of yourself and the girls you are choosing to date is weak. Also calling people pathetic is really not the smartest way to adress the very people you are trying to c…
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:06 PM
-1

Because that very well may ruin your kid's life. No, Jesus, divorces don't ruin kids' lives, is this freaking /r/church ? Messy divorces and trashy people ruin kids lives. It's possible to have a great divorce and keep an oustanding relationship with the father/mother of your kids even after splitting up. That's what you should aim for : laying a healthy foundation that is not contigent on you being in love each of other forever after.
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:47 PM
4

Is there anyway to disagree with you without being downvoted to oblivion like the other guys ? There is a huge nuance between flirting with taken girls without pulling the trigger and actively trying to seduce a girl to stray out of her exclusive relationship. Your post feels like it's trying to put category 1 and 2 in the same bag since your second sentence says this : There are a group of guys who think it is okay to game on taken women And finally, this attempt at a blanket statement is paten…
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:45 PM
0

No it won't. While you should appreciate something because it could be worse, it's not the case in romantic relationships since you can always just be single instead of being with someone you are not completely into.
/r/seduction27/03/19 05:52 PM
0

That's not the flip side, that's both sides ! The guy you're responding too is just being obtuse. There is no downside to an abundance mindset.
/r/seduction27/03/19 05:50 PM
2

not that I know how to do that Same way you would do it in real life. Confidently share what's on your mind without excepting anything in return. It can be anything, whether something curious that just happened, a random thought unrelated to anything, a completely unexpected question. You can't and shouldn't force it. If you care about the girl, you will think of her and when you do think of her, make sure you are watching your emotions. Are you thinking of her with a smile on your face or are w…
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:32 PM
5

Depends who am I making recommendations to. The simple idea is that you're supposed to reach a point where you don't actively chase women and focus on other shit. And pursue girls that you deem worth the effort.
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:17 PM
12

Tbh men shouldn't be playing the numbers either. Unless you are learning the game while you're 20.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:49 PM
2

Tips on eating well enough ? It takes a ton of energy to shop and cook when you are in the stupid cycle you mentionned.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 08:55 PM
2

Being yourself doesn't work for everyone. If it did, no one would be single. Most people are not themsleves in social situations. Most people have are in LTRs while having no understading of themsleves. And most peole are dead decades before they are put in the grave. You must confuse "being yourself" with just "being there".
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:28 PM
7

Instead we get an ad against men asking women out Yeah, wtf is wrong in having the balls to say hi to a cute girl you saw on the street ? If you do it politely and respectfully, it's not fucking toxic.
/r/MensRights16/01/19 07:18 PM
7

Be yourself is at the same time the best and the worst advice ever. ​ It's the best because when you allow yourself to actually be yourself, life is simpler and happier. But it's the worst because most people don't know themselves and don't know how to be themselves. ​ So at the end of the day, the advice is meaningless for the people who need it and useless for the people who understand it.
/r/seduction15/01/19 09:42 PM
6

Start by being confortable yourself before trying to make other people confortable
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:05 AM
10

Fancy word for "touch"
/r/seduction19/08/18 01:00 AM
26

He's being negative for the sake of being negative. That's a turn off socially and anyone who's serious about being a better seduce have to abandon toxicity and negativity. The picture didn't ruin any immersion and rating her a 4 based on a low rez thumbnail is gratuitous.
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:48 PM
7

They aren't. 10s are hit on much less and most men tremble in front of them. If you're behaving in front of a 10 like you would had she been a 4, you won the game.
/r/seduction02/08/18 06:45 PM
61

She won't flake. Let's hope OP is smooth and cute IRL.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:08 PM
27

What are you doing on this sub ? This is best case scenario stuff on Tinder. Short fun and flirty convos leading to date within first few days.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:08 PM
7

No, it's the opposite, the interest level is high. But doesn't mean she's gonna be attracted to him in person.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:07 PM
217

Your mindset is cancerous and you better start working on it.
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:06 PM
18

I personally always felt this to be a stupid rule because it puts you into a mentality where even the slightest hint of disinterest from the girl can fuck up your entire emotional setup. Then you're doing it wrong. Assuming attraction works because girls pick up on that confidence. And if the girl is not interested anyway, you have to learn to laugh it off instead of being emotionnally weak.
/r/seduction17/07/18 12:51 PM
25

Fucking sue her, ask your friend to help.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:14 PM
1

Did Craig Fergusson write a book yet ?
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:29 PM
114

Don't feed the problem and get the fuck off of social media. The more men jump on that that stupid bandwagon because that's where hot girls go to, the dumber we all ge and the harder me make the market for us.
/r/seduction28/06/18 04:20 PM
9

Plus, IG is actually kind of cool No, it's the same cancer than most socia media. You are wasting time looking at what other people are doing and subconsciously comparing your life. There is not a single positive thing you can take from scrolling on a Instagram feed. There a good looking pictures but it's not like people stop to marvel at the photography. They just get their "wow, nice, double tap !" and move on.
/r/seduction28/06/18 04:18 PM
12

While you're right, he makes the excellent point that morphing your life to fit within girl's way of doing thing is a stupid thing to do.
/r/seduction28/06/18 04:13 PM
1

Number 1 is the hardest for me but everything elese is on lock down. Tips for those awesome friends ?
/r/seduction15/06/18 03:38 PM
5

I guess the point is to not be phased by their reaction then. Disengage when people are not receptive but don't give them the privilege to dictate your emotional space. There is everything on this world from rapists to saints to pedophiles to heroes to dirtbags to heartwarming people. You will meet all of them and it's unreasonable to expect everyone to be on the side of good.
/r/seduction09/06/18 08:13 PM
1

Please please please do an update on Klara. Let us know if a date happends and how it goes !! Cheers my friend.
/r/seduction04/06/18 09:35 PM
3

How cute is this Amy ?
/r/seduction24/05/18 08:00 PM
-3

Source for that statement?
/r/seduction24/05/18 02:22 AM
1

Slaves did rebel against their master's wishes and ended up winning. The fact that they were enselavedfor hundred of years doesn't mean they let it happen, it just means that the other side was much stronger.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:39 PM
1

What's in your 1k cal (second) breakfast ? And how important are all those supplements ?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:47 PM
6

You shouldn't have so many absolutes. If the conversation is flowing very well during the coffee date, it would be completely stupid to cut it short to 15-30 minutes. If 2 hours fly by and you barely noticed, it doesn't matter at all. As for leading, while it's true that you should lead, asking for her opinion on what could be next is not a "never do that". There is value in it, because you are including her voice in your decision process. It's a quality of a leader to take into account what the…
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:37 PM
6

That "how about anal" is liquid gold dude. That shut belongs in a movie.
/r/seduction08/04/18 10:31 PM
2

It's debatable.
/r/seduction04/04/18 04:01 PM
3

You shouldn't concern yourself with her opinion of you. Did you act according to how you felt? Or did you act in hopes of triggering a reaction from her (like her realizing how much of a catch you are and dropping her bf for you)? If you truly were not interested on sleeping with her while she was on a relationship, you did good. What she thinks should have 0 importance on your frame of mind.
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:38 AM
21

Pics or gtfo.
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:51 PM
2

How old are you ? And I think this would make a powerful short movie.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 05:11 PM
2

Do an update.
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:44 PM
1

No, that's a boring response that destroys the illusion. Deny responsability ("sorry, my hands have a mind of their own. I'll try and get them to behave but no promises. Let me know when they get too far"). Or just completely ignore it and smile as in "I see, this is how you want to play this". You don't have to answer everything, body language and frame is more important than anything you'll say.
/r/seduction20/02/18 07:42 PM
1

Are you sure they didn't confuse your head with your dick and mutilated your brain?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 06:37 PM
40

Bold girls who do send you a message are the best though.
/r/seduction11/02/18 06:07 PM
2

It's not his breakdown...
/r/seduction29/12/17 01:10 AM
3

Pretty close? You having sex with her?
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:33 PM
2

The skills you need for succesful cold approach include that sort of confidence.
/r/seduction14/11/17 11:53 PM
1

you 3rd point really got me thinking and I think you have a point here. I sometimes catch myself with a grimm expression because I'm frustrated/bitter and smiling is sometimes hard for me. How can I improve this? you 3rd point really got me thinking and I think you have a point here. I sometimes catch myself with a grimm expression because I'm frustrated/bitter and smiling is sometimes hard for me. How can I improve this? Occasional use of weed. Don't overdo it. The point is to see that there is…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 08:38 PM
4

This is why i smoke weed. It makes me smile and laugh so easily (without going full idiot).
/r/seduction10/11/17 05:11 PM
2

She'd be technically right. The difference between harassment and seduction is the judgment of the recipient. The people who are trying to build a science around harassment are the nutjobs.
/r/MensRights27/10/17 01:54 PM
1

Them getting feelings and me withdrawing is the the reason for that 2 week record of relationship. Sometimes, I feel broken. Anyway, here is to developing a healthy relationship with a worthy girl. That feeling when you're in the right company is like rocket fuel to my ambitions.
/r/seduction19/10/17 09:13 PM
1

So how does your lifestyle look like today, in terms of sexual relationships ? Do you have a fuck buddy ? A few of them ? Open relationships ? one night stands ? none of the above ? I'm also in my late 20s, and I also get bored of people quickly but i've never been in a relationship longer than two weeks.
/r/seduction19/10/17 06:20 PM
4

You can have both right ? Pick up and "soulmate love" ?
/r/seduction19/10/17 06:16 PM
1

He chose to play with whores. His behaviour made him an easy mark. I can't respect much in him.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:23 AM
1

Don't. Just by even entertaining these thoughts, you're endangering your sanity at work.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:31 PM
2

Have you tried the painting thing ?
/r/seduction03/10/17 12:29 AM
1

You buy the Gold thing on Tinder and you can choose who sees you. Never tried it, not sure how it works.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 08:35 PM
2

You're gonna need to be much more specific.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 01:20 PM
3

Just hang in there and be patient. Don't give up.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:16 PM
2

How many exceptionnel good looking friends could you possibly have until they stop being "exceptionnally" beautiful?
/r/seduction15/08/17 10:55 PM
6

Move on.
/r/seduction15/08/17 10:44 PM
2

No... He said "one on one". Talking to a group on WhatsApp doesn't count.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 10:35 PM
1

In my habits, yes. In my mind, no, I'm actually more in touch with my childish confident self and it's a very good thing for game.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 10:27 PM
5

What kind of move did you make at her? Did you at least make out? And why would you make a move at a 5?
/r/askTRP09/08/17 02:32 PM
1

"not anymore"
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:39 AM
2

The problem is love. I have deep feelings for her, which doesn't make it easy to make her become just a memory. You're so very lucky t be in a position where you can walk away if you choose to. You have no responsibilities towards her and there is nothing in your life that forces you to be in contact with her whatsoever. So walk away. And go full no contact to drown those feelings. They are stupid and you know it. She is not special, your brain is tricking you into thinking she is but she is not…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 02:36 PM
0

And?
/r/seduction19/03/17 05:03 PM
4

Her position is actually smart. She's probably much smarter than most people on this sub. But no; short hair, divorce, discussion of polygamy = washed up actress.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:48 AM
5

I actually want to get back on approaching people live, but I can't cold approach girls in the street. I need an environnement where people are not transiting through so that I have some social context and a longer time to break the ice. I wish there were a bar where I could just go and approach. Most young people don't go to bars by themselves though, and ladies even less. Coffee shops are full of that, since people bring work and study there. I need to look into that.
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:31 PM
1

Oh man, you haven't asked her yet but she already said no.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:48 AM
–

I have a journal, a full fledged notebook. I write entries during periods of my life, not everyday, not every week. Sometimes I write more than others. Sometime, a whole year can pass by without a single entry. I usually write when something unusual happens or is happening and I want to write down what I'm feeling. I noted that I was much more inclined to write when things weren't great. I do write after specific personal achievements but not always. Anyway, I rarely read my notes. Sometimes, I …
/r/askTRP07/01/17 02:47 AM
8

I don't have depression (I think) but I'm a regular user. It helps me get creative and social. It also shuts down any form of anxiety and anguish and let's me embrace the moment.
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:26 PM
11

Drugs are a shortcut. On drugs I can keep any conversation alive. I can keep a whole party alive. The ideas just keep flowing, the genuine curiosity is impossible to satisfy. No matter how hard i try to force myself to do this, I will end up drawing a blank sober or I'd be bored. So I still need to find a way to enjoy myself a lot when talking to people sober.
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:13 PM
1

I hope it leads somewhere. I only have experience with weed and I know the high fades and then you're back to depression.
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:10 PM
10

Still, when the high fades, chances are you'll be back to your older self. Changing is not "just swallow this drug" easy.
/r/seduction26/12/16 04:10 PM
1

TL;DW ?
/r/seduction23/11/16 06:46 PM
1

I'm in Quebec City and won't be able to move before at least 2 years...
/r/seduction19/09/16 12:32 PM
2

How did you find the people you could hang with ?
/r/seduction19/09/16 12:31 PM
40

Nervousness creeping in.
/r/seduction13/09/16 11:40 PM
1

Assume she understood. I found it understandable. Just text her back when you have a more precise plan and stop agonizing about she may or may not have read the text. And don't you dare to apologize. And beware of being too much "into this girl".
/r/seduction25/08/16 02:25 PM
3

how long has it been and how old are you ?
/r/seduction21/08/16 11:55 PM
1

I'm talking about actual fit, not downsizing (which looks pathetic).
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 01:08 PM
1

Post a picture and let's see the fit of your shirts.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:16 AM
1

I have no idea, who cares??? Everyone ? Understanding why women do what they do is at least 50% of what is taught here. Anyway, maybe I'm way off and it's quite true that a very hot 24 yo can have a lot of trouble finding a decent fuck.
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:23 PM
15

What's a "very hot 24 yo", who can have 99% of the men she runs into, doing on an antiquated online dating platform ?
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:03 PM
3

Don't be shy, how did you meet the 24yo ?
/r/seduction27/07/16 07:47 PM
1

Anyway, the key is to learn whose opinion to value. People value opinions way too highly. At the beginning of your journey, you won't know which to value. So it's best to value no single opinion. You'll make a lot of mistakes but those mistakes will turn into lessons you can use to be able to form judgment on other people opinion.
/r/seduction20/07/16 05:17 PM
0

When someone is socially awkward all it means is that they havent had enough social interactions and lack social intelligence You also become awkward if you have too much social intelligence. Instead of participating, you tend to take a backseat and watch things evolving in the direction you predicted. Your own interactions become boring because predictable and lacking any mental stimulation.
/r/seduction12/07/16 12:56 PM
9

you just have to detach yourself emotionally from the girl Most people are not in control of that. They may think they are not emotionally attached and spend more time with her and then find themselves falling in love.
/r/seduction09/07/16 02:37 AM
2

He didn't say it's not on purpose, he said it's not conscious.
/r/seduction06/07/16 10:30 PM
7

Too many people on here think body weight is enough - it isn't. Maybe it would help if you gave a source instead of making affirmations. The bodyweight sub is full of athletic, fit and strong people.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:07 PM
1

How do they handle harsh winters ?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:05 PM
1

Because the point he's trying to make is already acknowledge in the original post by Arch. The post says that that unhappy woman feels raped. Whether it's an actual rape or not (i.e. legal consequences) is completely irrelevant. You can't dismiss her feelings because the word is not legally accurate. The feelings are still there and they need to be dealt with, regardless of legal definition. So if she feels raped, then "rape" is the correct word to use because that's how she feels. And that's wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:55 AM
12

I'm not OP, just making fun of a FR where he said nothing.
/r/seduction09/05/16 06:24 PM
0

That sounds like trying too hard. Unlike confidence where you need inner confidence to convey genuine confidence, mysteriousness is simply something you choose to be by shutting up and smiling and moving on to something else instead of answering. Remember that no one is mysterious to himself (i.e. there is no inner mysteriousness) so it's completely normal to feel like there is no mystery to you.
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:25 PM
19

"I looked at her without saying anything. She gave me her number". There you go.
/r/seduction09/05/16 05:22 PM
16

Or derpyderp went into OP's history and pulled the link and there is no conspiracy.
/r/seduction07/05/16 03:52 PM
2

That's the worst part of this sub. I just hope they're a vocal minority.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:27 PM
2

He phrased it well, he'll be fine, as he should be.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:50 AM
3

Why is that ? I'm out the loop.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:38 AM
2

Is anyone using asktrp these days ?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 01:41 AM
-1

High end escorts (this is where the whole "For booking inquires only") Pretty sure that's for booking photoshoots but don't hesitate to prove me wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 01:39 AM
3

It's all tied together. He's saying that men should change to what women want, ignoring the fact that what women want is not exactly clear (and you can't just ask them). He says that all you need is to just be what one woman wants and then be set, which assumes that said woman will be satisfied with just that and which is also a way to one-it-is.
/r/seduction01/05/16 04:13 AM
1

There are so many holes in your discourse, I don't know where to start..
/r/seduction01/05/16 03:45 AM
1

What? Care to develop?
/r/seduction01/05/16 03:04 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction01/05/16 03:00 AM
3

If you need psychological help, then every man does. No matter how old you are, you can get back on the right track on your own, through action.
/r/seduction01/05/16 02:58 AM
3

It's not implying any blame. It's a truthful statement and thats it.
/r/seduction01/05/16 02:49 AM
1

Ego is overrated. Maybe. But even if it's overrated, it doesn't mean it's useless. I once nearly slept with a girl I wasn't attracted to. I would have done it if we had an available condom but I remember being disgusted by it afterwards. I changed the sheets after she left and I did my best to erase the memory. I'm happy it didn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 03:11 AM
2

Which is exactly what he's saying. They don't want to screw them but at the end of the night, if you're drunk and hopeless enough, they will do. You'll regret it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:13 AM
4

Instead, the most popular guys are smart and charming and caring first and their other qualities second. What ? Where the fuck in Europe do you live ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:11 AM
2

Even in parties or clubs I usually see men hanging out with their own friends, drinking and watching games, not desperately trying to hunt girls. It's not because they are completely uninterested. It's because they are afraid of approaching and don't believe they have what it takes to pull it off. But if you asked them 'hey, pick a girl from the bar and you'll get to go home with her', 99% of straight men will pick someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:02 AM
2

Are you serious, height isn't the only factor that puts you at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:59 AM
1

As far as the 3/10 that I lost my virginity to, I faked an abundance mentality, before I knew of the term abundance mentality. She didn't know I was a virgin until I already had her pants off. So yea, I just used basic game and treated her as You should treat any woman. It was a necessary learning step for me, and she was a chance for me to practice, without any chance of pedestalalizing nor developing onitus. What made her a 3 ? Fat ? Ugly ? A mix of both ? I can't fathom losing my V to a 3, I …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:24 AM
2

There was no sarcasm in my post, I also believe him.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 12:01 AM
1

Thanks for the write up. You made 100k+ a year by working overtime at a restaurant ? How did that "losing virginity to a 3" happen ? How did you feel about it ?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 11:25 PM
6

Please tell your tale. I wanna know how you went from virgin to 150+. Be as detailed as you fancy. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:59 PM
5

Maybe I worded that comment poorly. I read the first question and the first answer and you can find this : "It's not because they enjoy working 80 hours a week, that's for sure. No, it's because somewhere deep down they know having a great high prestige job with a six figure income is going to enhance their sexual success with women." If the goal of the whole thing was positive PR, this is not how you do it. While his answer is true, it's way too heavy hitting as an answer to a first question. I…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:10 PM
-18

I think Morpheus would have done a better job answering those questions, I'm really not convinced by the answers I'm reading.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 04:45 PM
1

It's so obviously a troll, I don't get why people bother answering.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 03:07 AM
2

Fortune as in wealth. "being in want of something" = "wanting something". So it means that single wealthy men must be looking for a wife.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 02:00 PM
3

They are hoping that it's gonna buy them life time attraction.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 01:55 PM
2

It's a simple phrase really.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 01:26 PM
5

How do you recognise a BPD girl anyway ?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 01:14 AM
1

Hey, you sound like you know your shit. I'm just curious on where does kung fu fall on the martial art-spectrum. Those guys breaking bricks with their bare hands and delivering high powered punches an inch away from an oppopent is impressive but I don't buy into the chi or chakra or whatever energy flow they're mentioning. What's your take on this ?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 01:05 AM
6

Alternatively, stop praying and asking for stuff and spend that time building your broad shoulders ans strength.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:53 AM
1

No, it's not crazy. I would have welcomed an offer like that.
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:23 PM
1

You might need to write a bit more than just that if you want help.
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:49 AM
1

Are you attractive ? And how old is the guy ?
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:48 AM
9

You're really underestimating our capacity to mess up a sure thing. I remember once I was 20, a friend I knew called me out of the blue and asked if I could offer shelter to two girls for the night. I was obviously OK with it. Anyway, they came to my apartment at the beginning of the night, it's me, my friend, another friend of ours, the two girls and one other dude who was a bit out of place. Both girls were sexy as fuck. Both solid 8s. The blonde one was all over me for some reason and I just …
/r/seduction25/03/16 02:43 AM
3

Who they are as a person IS what they are offering to you in the interaction. You're making it sound like there shouldn't any "value transaction" going on in genuine personal interaction. I believe there always is one, even between very old friends. Sometimes that value is easy to put into words and sometimes it's so subtle or so large that it isn't. But there is value being shipped around. If you laugh with them, that's value. If you talk of a topic that you find interesting, that's value. If t…
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:34 AM
2

Ask people meaningful questions about their lives and actually be interested in gaining perspective from what they have to say. I really want to believe this is possible but I'm not so sure. When I was 19, living in Europe for my studies and meeting people left and right, it felt much easier. I had so much to learn about everything, every encounter bore its load of richness. Everyone was a teacher in some way. But time has passed, I've traveled, I've met people from everywhere, I've read a lot a…
/r/seduction03/03/16 02:02 AM
3

Alright.. this might come off the wrong way but what if you do this and every single time you find yourself bored within a few minutes ? This is where I find myself must of the time : having to actively push myself to give a shit about what's going on and be a member. It's not that I'm an introvert, it's just... boring. I'm 26 and I feel like I've had these conversations over and over again. I'm so tired of having to introduce myself, asking where they work, answering what I do, where I come fro…
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:28 AM
3

Could you please develop the story. The field, the job, the connection, etc
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:36 PM
2

No, just spent 20 minutes trying everything I can think of to find a clue about the owner but nothing. Wordpress' staff won't help either.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:04 PM
1

Dude did his best to take down cached version of his blog. Message him maybe? Anyway, any TL;DR version of the answer about this new narcissism? I've read TRM Andy most everything on the sidebar and then some but I can't remember finding theories about that.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:42 PM
1

So why women became narcissistic again?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:28 PM
3

Is this for real ? Eating cheese and yogurt lowers testosterone levels ?
/r/seduction19/01/16 04:45 PM
5

The perfect romantic movie would look like this : guy meets girl guy befriends girl guy does something heroic for the girl girl loves him a lot for it girl dies before that love wears off man loves her even more now and thinks she would have loved him forever the end Think Titanic but with rose dying instead of Jack.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 08:46 PM
1

Despite being family, cousins are fair game too.
/r/seduction13/12/15 10:13 PM
1

I'm incapable of platonic love towards a woman, this is why I'm curious :D
/r/seduction13/12/15 09:37 PM
1

What would be the difference between a non-sexual romantic relationship and a genuine loving friendship between a man a woman ?
/r/seduction13/12/15 08:52 PM
1

Meaning there is no romance without sex, right ?
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:49 PM
1

How much did you pay for it ?
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:33 PM
1

sexual and/or romantic relationship. What's the difference ?
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:23 PM
3

Di you think these girls would have married a 40y old ?
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:22 PM
1

Sorry, by OIS I meant One-it-is. Usually, the inner voice goes into stuff like "I'll never find anyone like her" and "even if I did, there is next to no chance for her to like me like this one did" and, worst thing : "what can I do to win her back ?" Do you have tricks to share to override such thoughts (and the depressing feelings that come with it) by stuff like "I really don't care about her" and "she's really just another girl that happened to cross my path, nothing special in there" and mos…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:59 PM
1

Can you use this stuff to get rid of OIS thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:44 PM
1

Would you mind elaborating on your personal and professional growth in your 20s and how it would have been hindered were you in a relationship?
/r/seduction05/10/15 06:48 AM
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