| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 182 | Restraining order served | QUEEN SH*T | Kbarre629 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 26 | Seeking optimism | SEEKING ADVICE | Kbarre629 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 20 | Red flag? | SEEKING ADVICE | Kbarre629 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:50 AM |
| 7 | Venting to Ladies | LESSON LEARNED | Kbarre629 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Quick question - asked the guy I am seeing if it watches porn and he said yes. Would you ladies break it off right away after hearing this info? Do men ever get out of it? Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Is it a red flag if a guy tells you it is a con that you’re separated? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Yeah it’s weird because he contacts my family and friend but did it in a way where he isn’t trying to talk to me? But obviously he wants them to tell me to get my attention and bother me :( that makes total sense being careful with advice. I need to report these incidents ASAP. He also did serve a bit of jail time and got bailed out. I really hope this pulls though. Thanks again and glad you are safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020This is all very helpful thank you. My lawyer told me that it might actually be in my upper hand if I do not have a lawyer. He said he thinks that my husband may be wasting his time with us but of course as always I’m still nervous. I will definitely take into account for these tips that you gave me. Thankfully my friend sent me screenshots and the video that he sent to my friend since the restraining order has been in place and I will request from my father everything that he has written to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020Thanks it looks like in California it is within 60 days so he will be in the clear. I don’t know what to do other than try to get pro Bono help. I’m scared and didn’t know this was even possible. He has been contacting my dad and my good friend after the restraining order ridiculous long messages. Also, I moved addresses since the last order was granted. I don’t even know what to do because I haven’t gotten any paperwork in the mail and how will they know where I am? Will I get in trouble? Thank… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020This is extremely helpful and I thank you so much for taking the time to give me these suggestions. I’m going to do some research on these points to see what is possible from here. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020My restraining order finally went through a couple of months ago against my abusive husband. I finally started to have peace these last few months without him contacting me and harassing me. I just learned today from my lawyer he is appealing the restraining order I got granted and I will need to go back to court. What can I do? My lawyer said it is because he probably doesn’t want to lose his green card. I surely cannot afford a lawyer again and I was really enjoying my peace. Im stronger than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Let a bot run through a dating site and match me with 9870 guys. Here are the resultsThis is amazing , thanks for sharing ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:44 AM |
| 3 | How did you guys feel when your ex treated the next better than he treated you?Thank you for saying this 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020That makes perfect sense , thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: turn off direct messages in settings! It keeps the creeps away!Where is this in the settings and how do you get there ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I sent my husband to jailYay congrats! I sent my STBXH to jail also after he kicked me in our bed and I had enough. It will all get better from here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 07:24 PM |
| 8 | CondomsPreach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Restraining order servedThank you so much ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Restraining order servedThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Restraining order servedThank you so much // what if I can’t afford a lawyer? I have no idea if he is going to have one. Im alone and will be lucky if one of my girlfriends will come with me for support. My hearing is on Thursday where I will see him in person for the first time in 6 months. This is overwhelming. I don’t have any divorce papers or separation papers yet. Thank you so much for messaging me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Restraining order servedThank you so much // what if I can’t afford a lawyer? I have no idea if he is going to have one. Im alone and will be lucky if one of my girlfriends will come with me for support. My hearing is on Thursday where I will see him in person for the first time in 6 months. This is overwhelming. I don’t have any divorce papers or separation papers yet. Thank you so much for messaging me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightHahaha this is awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Never let a LVM know that you are angry with him. Men simply don't fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, men seem to actively enjoy it.I really like this thank you for sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Restraining order servedYes I’m interested thanks ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 9 | I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!Wow how do women live like this? Yikes ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Restraining order servedThanks this gives me hope. It’s hard on me emotionally but I know it’s worth it — that’s very happy to hear about your daughter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Restraining order servedThanks so much! I have my dog and good call in the camera. XO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 6 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.Ew — she gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Red flag?I agree - I’m sick to my stomach with how people really don’t care at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Red flag?I realize this now — thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Red flag?Will do — many thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Red flag?Thank you! Would you happen to have any articles on litmus test? I find it very interesting and something I’d like to learn more about — thank you so much for your help and advise ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Red flag?Thank you so much and I’m soooo glad I found this channel. When I posted this in dating over thrifty I was surprise by the amount of people saying that I was overreacting — I felt like I was going crazy Update last night when he reached out to me liking my Instagram posts and texting me I casually slipped in and told him “I wanted to ask if next time you could lock the door, no matter how tired I am “ It was very randomly placed the way I said this which indicated this has been on my mind, which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Red flag?Thank you so much and I’m soooo glad I found this channel. When I posted this in dating over thrifty I was surprise by the amount of people saying that I was overreacting — I felt like I was going crazy Update last night when he reached out to me liking my Instagram posts and texting me I casually slipped in and told him “I wanted to ask if next time you could lock the door, no matter how tired I am “ It was very randomly placed the way I said this which indicated this has been on my mind, which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:23 PM |
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