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Im so happy for you man. Hoping for the same
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 03:11 AM
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Im so happy for you man. Hoping for the same
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 03:11 AM
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That’s awesome, man. Gives me hope.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 05:45 PM
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Thanks bro, this made me feel a lot better.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 12:09 AM
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Good advice
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 12:05 AM
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It’s been whack, but yes I’ve had a few dates. Good luck out there
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 12:04 AM
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Thanks bro you made me feel better. I am being a mopey ass today. Time to get over these feelings and clear my head.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 09:16 PM
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Great advice going forward.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:45 PM
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You summed it up perfectly. We had some amazing years and I don’t picture myself able to have that with anyone else.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:44 PM
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No kidding. But who knows what any of these women could do 10 years down the line.. i never thought my ex would be a cheater. It’s really fuckin’ with my head.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:20 PM
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Im happy for you man, I hope I get where you’re at in a year.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:10 PM
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Straight to the gym after work today, it is. 💪
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:09 PM
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Thanks Man. I resonated a lot with this. I agree, I think a lot of it is trying to reclaim what I had. All the work I put into the relationship and building our life, only for it to be gone. I’m going to spend 2025 working on myself.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 08:08 PM
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Don’t dismiss what he says he wants to do even if, in your mind you are freaking out. I have been amazed at how just trusting him even when, what he says strikes terror in me(lol) has turned out so well. A lot of his “crazy” ideas have actually become amazing. Had I dismissed them I would have missed out on intimacy with him, and the opportunity for me to enjoy what he does for us. Don’t contradict him. If you ask him his opinion and he says “A”, then you’re like well what about “B”? Don’t you t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 04:23 AM
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Just let it go and move on. Don’t hold a grudge against him for this, and pretend nothing ever happened if you wish to maintain intimacy with him. He feels comfortable enough with you to tell you how he feels. One major aspect of a red pill woman is to not try and control a Man. If you argue with his feelings about not sexting you are sending the signal that he was wrong for doing that. Simply tell him you’re hurt. Don’t start making jabs at him saying that he started it by talking sexy etc. we …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 04:08 AM
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The surrendered wife is AMAZING. Or the empowered wife(less words)
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 04:00 AM
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I’m sorry I didn’t realize it was taboo I won’t post again
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 07:20 PM
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Thank you. All great advice. Especially with the mind reading. I tell him plainly what I desire so he knows, and leave the rest up to him without telling him how to fulfill my desires or any bitching or nagging if he doesn’t fulfill them on my timetable. It’s been amazing how much he has done for us plus some, just my me telling him my desires. Some of the things he’s like “no”. And that’s just fine. He usually comes up with something much more practical, and better. It’s really built my trust a…
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 07:12 PM
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His whole family/friends said they never thought he would ever accept a gf, let alone ever get married. But perhaps he is. He has always told me. “You’re the only woman I’ve met who didn’t bug the s*** out of me. Even my own mother”. He reallyyy doesn’t care for women. I’m Quiet and mind my own business, so I think that’s why he likes me.Gotcha. I just thought I needed some male input since women often confuse respect with being considerate. Being considerate such as cleaning the house spotless,…
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 06:59 PM
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Sick. If it were a puppy they would be bitching about it.
/r/MGTOW23/05/19 06:52 PM
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Wow I loved that article! Thank you:)
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/19 03:22 AM
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So we have been dating since the summer and he hasn’t even really officially asked me to be his girlfriend, but we kind of are. He will sometimes go several days at a time without talking to me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:30 AM
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Omg that is so sad!! But crazy how pain from the past can have serious lasting consequences like this in men.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:28 AM
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Excellent advice about living in the moment and being invested while in person, thank you! I think i actually struggle with becoming emotionally unavailable as well when I’m around him sometimes because he hurts me.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 04:27 AM
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Do you think it would help to talk through things in his past like when his dad left and his ex and try to talk about his experience with them and hopefully how they made him feel? Or maybe it’s not good to being it up? What do you think
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 01:39 AM
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Good for you girl👏🏼that is what I need to do too...
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 12:45 AM
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Thank you😘
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 12:43 AM
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I do too :( and I think he knows it too.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/18 12:31 AM
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That is a really good idea. I have always been afraid of seeming pushy, but when I don’t say anything it drags on and hurts me worse. I will have to talk to him about what he wants, and allow him time to respond.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 11:36 PM
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I think I may have some sort of problem because I keep attracting these EA men..😒
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 11:31 PM
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I needed to hear that. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 11:30 PM
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How do you become emotionally available again?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 11:29 PM
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What was he like while you were dating? What made him commit to marry you?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 11:28 PM
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That is really interesting. I really wonder if I am because I had my heart shattered a couple years ago.. and I have this pattern of dating EA men since.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 05:52 PM
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Exactly! I know this is true, and I know people don’t change unless on their own terms. It’s just soo hard to let go. 😒
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 05:50 PM
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That is exactly how he is. He will just send me an obligatory good morning text almost every morning unless he wants to hang out..on Christmas he just said ‘merry Christmas’ and then I didn’t hear from him the rest of the day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 05:48 PM
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Wow thank you so much! I know in my heart I need to leave him but I’m always thinking maybe if I try xy or z I can change him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 04:11 PM
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You just described my man perfectly. That is funny you compare it to PMS because I have had that exact thought! Haha Ughh I feel like it is a dead end road some days then suddenly he will start being present and active in the relationship, then suddenly he is back to pulling away. I don’t know what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 04:05 PM
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That gives me so much hope! I know I deserve better and this guy just isn’t cutting it, even though I really like him. I’m afraid I may have to find another.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 03:57 PM
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