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ConversationKedrith/r/seduction19/01/22 02:20 AM
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Long story short, you didnt. Your personal bias and approach lead you to this type of mentality. has nothing to do with logic. It's a common thing in psycohology to reprogram minds like that. Because you were programmed (even if it was self inflicted) to have maladaptive behaviour.
/r/seduction29/10/22 10:56 AM
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You think your actual mindset wasnt learned through the same principles?
/r/seduction28/10/22 08:48 PM
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You forgot to add /s
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:57 PM
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Yes there are girls who look very fondly to those guys and when you see a girl with one of those guys you go for "ah! i knew it" diregarding all the other women wo go for different types. Basically you have a self reinforcing bias to these things. I have a large social circle and i see all types of couples. The best "chad" i'v knew dont look anything like your steretypical buff tall guy. Quite the contrary. The real player i have met have that kind of "i dont give a shit" approach to things that…
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:19 AM
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So the lesson is to dress up like santa.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:59 AM
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In general, it's a free for all between people with the same large group. I know alot of people who know each other. We fuck each other all the time. In general there is no strict rule. Sometimes a girl just want to have casual sex with someone she knows without wanting a lasting relationship. Somtimes it clicks and a relationship start.
/r/seduction07/09/22 07:12 AM
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Dude, forget the guy. He ask for consent before a kiss and beleive that if you dont you are a sexual predator. He's that kind of guy.
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:00 PM
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I beleive it was sarcasm.
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:49 AM
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Since when 5.9 is short? That's the avarage height.
/r/seduction14/08/22 09:25 AM
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It's super weird. Is like asking for a kiss, which probably every woman in existence would dislike. And is not like this is super indepth knowledge of the game or some such. We are talking about the ABC here.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:04 AM
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Dude, stop pretending like you know what you're talking about. You are too uncalibrated to know when the woman wants you to take her that's why you go for the consent (and i dont even buy that you are such a player in the first place). Pretty funny that this happened yesterday with my date; I went for it without asking for this nonsense crap and we couldnt keep each other away ever since. I know you are not gonna give up, bruise ego and so on. but dont give this crap advice please.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:57 AM
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The fuck you talking about. asking for consent is the chicken shit move. is like you dont have the confidence to take the leap, drop the crap. Seriously you do you but it's a terrible advice.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:48 AM
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I found the pussy who fall for feminist crap that no sane woman really like.
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:30 AM
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worst advice i'v read on this sub. and that's saying something...
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:57 AM
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That's some grade A bullshit and you dont know what you are talking about. i talk from personal experience. I started in the same situation as him but much older and now i have a lot of friends and have sex regularly with different girls every weeks. it didnt took not nearly as much as you think. barely a year.
/r/seduction08/08/22 10:45 AM
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Eerily familiar. In my opinion is because you are not really interested in them. You use them for validation, you think they will fill the void of your insecurity but without really caring about them. For you is always a test to see if you are good enough not to get interested in them. Or maybe scared of intimacy and dont wanna really commit. the 2 are not mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:52 AM
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I get numbers from girls in relationship all the time.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:09 AM
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If you gamed enough you'd know he's right. Numbers dont mean that much.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:43 PM
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I'm 39. Similar past experience but i made lots of friends and had sex with many girls. To be honest, girls dont care that much what kind of job you hold, what car you drives and all that crap. Yes ofc some do but they are not that common. To this day i still dont have a driving license. They just want someone decent that treat them like human beings, which is quite rare, women will tell you aswell. I meet many girls on a daily basis, but i had to work out for it. Helps that i'm attractive and s…
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:43 PM
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Dude, he's a coach and give tips!
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:12 PM
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I'm very good friend with many girls i had sex with, even those who rejected me at first. I wasnt friend with them to trying to change their mind, it just happened as we were friends (now that i think about it, they came to me asking for sex). and yes, it works. go for it. Also being in the company with women attract more women or at the very leasy make them feel comfortable.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:52 AM
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Mentally I'm in the same exact situation. Altough i go out alot and i can make freinds very easily i crave female attention so much it becomes exhausting. It's not even about sex, sex is just the ultimate form of validation, but generally i dont enjoy it that much. I had plenty of girls and i approach regularly but is never enough, all my validation comes from being liked by them. I just employ tricks to not sound needy (but when i'm quite drunk it comes out). I dont feel like doing anything for…
/r/seduction05/05/22 01:17 AM
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I honestly cant fathom how can you menage your mental sanity after that much fails (dont get me wrong, it's a compliment). I go on ruminating mode and self deprecation if i flake with a couple of girls the same night.
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:42 AM
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I know rich guys who are always on the lookout for people taking advantage of them. They get the fame of being super stingy because of it. One of them ended up marrying a not so pretty rich girl.
/r/seduction30/04/22 08:38 AM
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Umh i see. Well i guess gathering places, i'm sure there are places where people your age hang out. The thing is, you have to expose yourself. I'v been trough that, it's a nightmare at first.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:57 AM
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There is no pill that could help you, and i tried them all (not just for speaking to girls, but to overcome depression and anxiety). You just have to put yourself out there and expose yourself. It will be a hell the first months. But eventually it becomes normal.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:15 AM
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Only helps in the initial approach, it helps but if you are not confident you could well be ugly. If you are confident you can overcome being not too attractive. If you are attractive and not confident you win her initially but she gets unattracted almost instantly.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:02 AM
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I agree. i know alot of people think looks is everything and once you get it it's done. I'v been told i'm handsome so many times, i had girls throwing themself at me and told me i'm model material. Problem is i have a big problem with my self image because of body dysmorphia. I focused all my game in trying to be attractive without realizing girls are not that interested in that if you dont show confidence. I have lost so many attractive girls because i made them feel uncomfortable despite being…
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:46 AM
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coping much? Truth is, you could be broke and still get bitches.
/r/seduction30/04/22 06:38 AM
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That's a good start, it wont get much better for about... several months, also depends how you try to approach people in general not just girls. But it gets better and more rewarding after that. I was like you. Now i cant wait to go out and meet new people.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:53 PM
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I made so many freidns by going alone at clubs and bars, you just have to actively pursue meeting people. What you doing is comparable to growing muscles by just having a gym subscription.
/r/seduction18/04/22 03:19 PM
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Completely agree. The best sex i had was with chubby girls.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:47 AM
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I suspect i have ADHD, which probably because it was untreated during development led me to become NPD of which i was actually diagnosed. I'm well aware of this condition and it's nuances. Reach out how and where?
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:49 AM
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I understand this feeling very much so. Consider the fact that you might be a Narcissist. Not necessarily though, could also be low self esteem and inability to connect on emotional level because you were deprived of love and so dont know how to deal with this unknown emotion. In that case you just need more experience with people. It's a bitch, i suggest going to the Narc sub, it's quite helpful and welcoming comunity despite the image people have of us (atm i'm not sure i'm a narc anymore, alt…
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:02 AM
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So us narcissist are fucked?
/r/seduction04/03/22 12:55 AM
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Besides is not even true. I know guys with lots of women (i know one particular guy that can literally pickup a girl anywhere he goes) that dont do anything but going to bars all day. Most people dont have super interesting life and still be succesful with women.
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:09 AM
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How can you not care? It doesn't make sense. Why approaching if you don't care? You always care, more or less, if you do anything in life. That's how we works. I think you are talking shit here (no offense). It's not about caring; but not being affected by fear that much to prevent you from dealing with what you are trying to achieve.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:27 PM
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Because he values the idea of being attractive in a social scale. If an attractive woman finds him attractive than he percieve himself of higher standard. When confronted with them he understandably has alot to fear, because not attracting this girl will make him think that he's of a lower quality/social status. And no, sorry, but a 10 for him would be at worst a 9-8 for you, beauty is not subjective, taste is. There's a reason instagram model are beautyfull to everyone.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:29 AM
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I just dont know how you can enjoy constantly playing mind games like that.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:13 AM
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I get what you mean and somehow i know this stuff, yet i cant really think straight at this moment. I'm quite obsessed with her, never happened before, i dont think it was this intense even with my last ex girlfriend. and I had my fair share of relationship and hookups. I really like everything about her. Just to make sure, Do you it's over with her isnt it?
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:54 AM
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Yeah i'm quite needy but i try not to show it, i text her 1 time a day max. thing is i'm kinda obsessed with her, i cannot think of anything else (yeah i know about onities) and i'm in pain.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:53 AM
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There's loads of guys who dont live super interesting lives and a bit insecure and still are married or have girlfriends. I'm kinda tired of the duality: either chad or beta male.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:07 PM
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It wasnt a particular moment, it was a gradual thing, i slowly started stepping out and hang out with few people and going at gathering places in my city. I also got lucky that i found this amazing summer bar where you can just sit at a table with strangers and nobody bats an eye; i was there everynight. At first i sucked big time at it, i was super insecure and had constant doubts how i was supposed to behave and how to handle dealing with people. Eventually i find out that most people are not …
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:02 PM
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I'm kind of an introvert and i go out every weekened; and i feel bad if i dont. Somebody said FOMO on the thread and i gotta admit it fits. I used to be a shutdown for a long part of my life, now if i could i would go out everyday, and i did this summer, met alot of people, made many friends and met interesting girls and this just in less than a year span. Age dont matter either, i'm 39 although people think i'm much younger when they see me. Not everyday something interesting happens (girls int…
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:37 PM
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No, she's using you. Been there done that multiple times. If a girl is into you she wont care about her ex or whatever the fuck shes going trough. She's not callous, she doesnt know what she's doing, dont hold it against her but she's using you. simple as that. You wont get any intimacy with her. so unless you wanna stay friends, drop it.
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:05 PM
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Coz you have to keep trying, if it's safe it's not challenging enough. I'm amazed that during this 2 years of covid i had the most social encounters of my life, everyday i met new people and formed bond with quite a number of those, yesterday they held a birthday party for me. I was what some people would call an hikkikomori. I stayed at home all day for years, had severe depression and was riddled with debilitating anxiety. I was Diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder. Now i cant wait to …
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:38 PM
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I had a nerdy friend with money. He bought a big Mercedes. I think he's still virgin to this day. Another guy who's quite ugly and short (like really short) have a big expensive car, i never seen him with a woman. At the end of the day, it doesnt really matter that much. Unless you like golddiggers.
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:02 PM
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