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And yet people here will continue to deny female hypergamy; female dual mating strategy; and female attraction to top 10% men only. Doesn't matter what the source is; it's never good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:47 PM
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Is there anything more disgusting than female dual mating strategy ? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:35 PM
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Idk but imagine putting your parents online to rate them it’s kinda weird lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:05 AM
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But they don't. Sleep yes but date most women have to settle with someone they aren't that attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:00 PM
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Q4W : do women resent the fact they are only physically attracted to 1%-10% of men at most ? Every time I go outside I see plenty of women I am attracted to and it's nice to look at them. But I imagine it must be hard to go outside and the gender you are supposed to be attracted to all look physically repulsive to you/don't excite you at all except that rare chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:23 PM
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modern women for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:10 PM
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Just have perfect 20/20 vision guys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=560Co1gVlsI
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:02 PM
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Women's dating strategy : 'I'll settle with you if I can't find better' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nra1mvt6M50
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:48 PM
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Shy guy who can't get laid and gives the 'nice guys finish last' speech = walking red flag; stay away at all costs unless you want to lose your limbs Hot drugsdealer who beat up women and spent most of his youth in jail = I like the thrill and at least he can protect me from other dangerous men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:04 AM
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I feel like I live ideally now in a small city/suburb. My city has all basic needs like supermarkets; high schools; parks; swimming pool; gym; pubs and restaurants;.. It's not too busy but not so empty you never come across someone. The countryside/farms/forest is only a 15 minute walk from my house if I want to be in nature. The metropolitan city centre (Brussels) is only a 15 minutes train ride if I want to go shopping; clubbing; museums; events or just be around a lot of people/tourists. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:52 AM
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Suburbs > big city > countryside/small isolated town for living
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:40 AM
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The best girls are both cute (like in girl-next-door) and sexy at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:04 AM
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Incels being incels because of stacy-chasing is such bullshit. Most men are not chasing stacies as they are too intimidated by them if easy quick sex is what they are after. I have been out a couple of times with a legit stacy in my travel group. She never got approached by any men in the nightclub while all the average girls did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:58 AM
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Short answer : because it’s a male only struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:16 PM
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Saturday night drinking game : take a shot every time you come across another female tinder profile who is into yoga; vegan food; travelling and conscious living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:52 PM
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I guess Jeremy Meeks wasn't a walking red flag judging by how much money and sex offers he received from women while in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:35 PM
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> I'm pretty much invisible to the male population > I've had my fair share of casual sex from guys
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 04:12 PM
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If women have a fantasy of fixing "walking red flag men" why do they never want to fix the shy virgin Nice Guy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:52 PM
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​ <image> ​ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:37 PM
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​ <image> "I'm fat and overweight. I don't have any success at all on tinder except all the average and ugly men hitting on me but I only want chad who is out of my league." Women the meme gender time and time again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:10 PM
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Degeneracy. Before that cam girls would try to stay as incognito as possible; only use aliases; fake nationality and residence country etc; Now we have women linking their OF account on their real instagram profile like it's the most trivial thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:12 PM
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Reminds me of Lipstickalley (some sort of femcel/femaledatingstrategy forum). Men going after younger women are creepy and walking red flags. Women going after younger men are empowered and know what they want. Biologically it makes so much more sense for men going after younger women anyways than the other way around. Women love to use biology as to why they only desire top tier men ("we can get pregnant so we have to be more picky and our sex drive is lower") but neglect it when it favours men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:55 AM
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"Most women are not on tinder so they don't value hookups" "Tinder is 70% male so men value hookup culture more than women" Or could it be women only need to stay active for one week at most on dating apps before they get enough numbers or date offers for a whole year supply ? If they feel like having sex with an attractive stranger they could get that within a couple of days and delete the app afterwards while most men have to stay online for months before even getting a date. The argument that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:06 AM
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That's the problem with hypergamy and wanting a man who looks better than you. When you are in a very high bracket as a girl yourself lookswise (an 8 or 9/10) it's very rare to find a 10/10 male willing to be exclusive with you. As a 3/10 female you'll find plenty of 5/10's men as average guys are less rare than beautiful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:51 AM
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"A recent Pew Research study suggests a tectonic shift in the dating and sex life of men. The study found that among men under 30 years old, over 60 percent are single, almost double that of women in the same age bracket." https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-of-our-unions/202302/why-are-so-many-young-men-single-and-sexless ​ Over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:49 AM
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She just wasn't that attracted to his appearance. Women always find the dumbest reasons ("He was too into me") to reject men they are not physically attracted to. If chad had shown that level of interest she would be all over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:09 AM
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The dating life of women; just casually rejecting men left and right and getting free meals out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 09:03 AM
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When you are blackpilled you realize cheating is the most attractive thing you can do as a man. Nothing is more attractive to women than realizing other women want her boyfriend especially if she was starting to doubt her relationship or sex life. Think about it how much times has male infidelity actually been a direct cause of a break up in your environment ? Sure the girl will act hysterical and angry for a while but in most cases she'll just stay with the boyfriend. You don't need to actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:52 AM
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Woman confirms alpha fucks beta bucks dating strategy <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:24 PM
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Just seen White Lotus season 2. Good example on how girls only want excitement and nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:33 PM
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Yes and the point is if real life dating wasn’t also rigged against men they wouldn’t even need to go on dating apps that are even more rigged.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:28 PM
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https://youtu.be/dKmvvBelNcw?si=QAygKA82JO2kGbCD If this doesn’t make you rage quit I don’t what will. Women kan keep saying this isn’t real life but if those normal looking men got laid in real life with normal looking girls they wouldn’t even need to go online begging obese pig women for attention. Normal girls are fucking chad so they don’t need their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:17 PM
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I’ve been approached a couple of times by gay men but never by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:10 PM
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Maybe the question should have been :”Do you get approached at all by the opposite sex ?” In which case it would be no Women really cannot apprehend some men go through life completely invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:24 AM
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It's a problem for 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:24 PM
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Doesn't matter if they deviate a little from average. The point is those two women will get a lot more male attention than those two guys would get female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:16 PM
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Examples of some average male and female faces : https://i.imgur.com/aDoUtXk.jpg https://i.imgur.com/YwbK0NA.jpg These average looking women will be rated decently attractive by men and have no problem finding sex or male attention. https://i.imgur.com/w6jmCbQ.jpg https://i.imgur.com/aPMX6EA.jpg These average looking men will have no matches on tinder; be completely invisible and be rated below average by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:59 PM
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Yet those plain janes get hundreds of tinder likes a day and plenty of sex or date offers. Meanwhile the average guy gets no female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:18 PM
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Because male's attractiveness is 90% height and face which cannot be fundamentally changed unless surgery. They cannot become "hot" by losing weight like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:13 PM
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An average guy is what it is.. an average guy. Not a chad or pretty boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:04 PM
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Then I'd get no matches at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:03 PM
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It's tinder and bumble. Unless you mean the looksmax websites no they are ran by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:28 PM
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It's better to be good looking at 30 years old than at 18-20 years old. What you look like at 30 will be the base for the rest of your life. You can be good looking at 18 but descend a lot the next 10 years and look like a completely different person by 30. Most women at 30 already know if they will age fast/badly; most men at 30 already know if they will have heavy balding or not. When you are searching for the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with wait until he/she turns 30.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:18 PM
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Exactly that's the whole point of hypergamy. Now you are probably going to say I am overrating my own looks but I have been rating and analyzing looks for years on looksmax websites. I know my own rating and that of the girls who are willing to give me a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:00 PM
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I'm THAT picky that I want to date my looksmatch :-) Never said stacies are my looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:50 PM
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Wrong. I swipe right on every girl and the ones who interact with me are objectively 2-3 points below my own looks level. My looksmatch is not interested in chatting or meeting up with me. Men cannot chace "stacies" unless they are chads themselves but women can chase men who are 2-3 points above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:40 PM
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As some elaboration a slender guy with soft facial feminine features is female codeword for wanting a guy who looks pretty. Women online have always used the distinction between pretty boys and masculine chads and their preference for one group over the other as proof that they have variety in what they find attractive. Most men neither fit the pretty boy nor chad profile so again I don't know what it is even supposed to proof. Most men will never be a woman's type as averageness "man-next-door"…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:33 PM
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"I prefer pretty boys over masculine chads. See I told you women have a great variety in what type of men we find attractive!" Women the meme gender.. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:19 PM
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Yes you're describing exactly the 2 types of men women are into : prettyboys or masculine chads. Such a great variety lol. You prefer prettyboys; other women prefer chads. But where does that leave 80% of other men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:17 PM
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Women cheat up Men cheat down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:04 PM
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Plenty of studies have already proven women rate 80% of men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:44 PM
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That's true. But average looking men are still average by definition even if they are considered ugly by women; not that it matters much for them as they are put in the same bracket as ugly men anyways when it comes to sex and dating. The advantage average looking men have over ugly men is when the time comes for a woman to settle. The average looking man will have it easier and could land himself a decent looking girlfriend if he got his act together. The girlfriend will still not be sexually a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:12 PM
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Most men are not ugly. Most men are average looking. It's women's fault for rating average men as below average. Standards can be unreasonable when you are not attracted to averageness despite most women being average themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:08 PM
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Can’t buy Andrew Tate as an alpha male slayer while having a weak recessed chin. Too redpilled on looks for that. He knows his lower third is recessed that’s why he tries to hide it with beard frauding. No wonder he has to pay for female companionship. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:35 PM
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It means you are somewhere in the bottom 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:29 PM
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You go from bluepill advice (“just take care of yourselves men”) to straight up blackpill (“attraction is biological; you cannot force it and only the best most healthy men get chosen as women are extremely picky; some men will never pass the looks threshold just look at animals”)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 12:03 PM
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Basically every girl or society as a whole while growing up. And bluepill women online who want to virtue signal or simply troll/agitate men by giving out bluepill advice. “You are struggling with women ? Have you tried showering yet ?”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:31 AM
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I struggle to get consistent results. I have gone years with dry spells. The women I get to date from apps I can tell are objectively a couple of points lower than me on the looks scale and they still are very demanding and the dates are more of an interview style thing in which I have to give the “right” answer. I go to the gym; I go to the barber once every two months; I shower every day during summer; I have my own place that I keep tidy; I clean my bed sheets every two weeks; I avoid process…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:21 AM
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“Looks don’t matter guys just be confident; dress well and make her lau… OMG I just saw a really cute guy in my class how do I make him notice me ??”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:52 AM
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Looks don’t matter guys
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:25 AM
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Crazy woman physically assaults man minding his own business. Man defends himself and gets attacked and handcuffed by security. Female privilege jfl https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5HpQtWxotk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:30 AM
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Are these guys related to The Rock ? To answer the question there is no chance I could take those four guys at once . The smartest thing to do to increase the odds of survival for the both of us would be to run away; call the police/ambulance from a safe distance and yell for help. If we are both laying severly injured on the ground it might take a while before someone finds us and we might already bleed or freeze to death by then. It really depends on location though. In a big city with a lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:18 AM
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mogs me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:15 AM
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From personal observation white; tall; fit; dark haired; blue/green eyed men are the most attractive to women (Henry Cavill/Matt Bomer/...) Do you agree women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 AM
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Q4W : is it usual for you to masturbate to pictures of attractive men you know IRL ? Like pictures on their social media in which they are shirtless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:03 PM
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Fat woman swipes left on tinder : https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x6i8qmh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:45 PM
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Can confirm women are deteriorating at 30 years old and losing their biggest weapon (youthful looks). It's not an incel revenge fantasy it's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:31 PM
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Elliot Rodger actually had a couple of obsessive female fan accounts post-mortem. Not as much as good looking killers like Ted Bundy or Richard Ramirez but still more than if he wouldn't have done the crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:25 PM
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Ironic that if Elliot Rodger survived his murder rampage he would have received many fan mails and love letters from women and he would have been more popular than ever before. Women truly hate unremarkableness in men and you need things like good looks; tall height; money; status; fame (even if you get it in the worst way possible like ER) to undo the unremarkableness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:17 PM
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She's attractive; especially in the Wolf of Wall Street; but she uses a lot of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:58 PM
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I remember he got invited to pool parties with young people and instead of socializing with the girls he took his camera and just filmed everyone; giving off serial killer vibes (which he ended up being).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:57 PM
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Q4W : What would you rate Elliot Rodger ? My assessment : although apparently ER had rich parents he lived in one of the richest neighbourhoods of L.A. with some of the toughest competition. He wouldn't be able to impress the girls there with his BMW. His face was average and he was short. Again many actual chads and celebrities living in his area. Along with his mental illness he never had any chance there. I think if he moved out of L.A. he would have been able to find an average girl; but not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:47 PM
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A guy with 2 million youtube subscribers (meaning he is very likely a millionaire) and who looks like a (lower-tier) pretty boy gets dates ? Yeah there's hope for struggling average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:33 PM
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It doesn't say 93% of women never used tinder. Just that at the moment of the research 7% were active.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:51 PM
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There was an experiment conducted proving average looking women actually do get approached more than hot women because guys feel less intimidated by them. I'll try to find it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:38 PM
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Yes of course. If they feel horny they'll find a guy to fuck within one week at most and uninstall the app or become inactive until next time. If they want a relationship they should be able to set up many dates with different men within one week of swiping. If they keep on swiping for longer they'll have too many matches and messages and it will become unmanageable so most women just make a selection of the top men they got after 1-2 week of swiping at most. Men have to stay months/years before…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:25 PM
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7% of American women use tinder. That's not a niche crowd. That's millions of women. And it's not counting women who are not currently using the app but had it installed at some point in their life. I also go through big tinder breaks of many months. https://www.statista.com/statistics/814691/share-of-us-internet-users-who-use-tinder-by-gender/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:19 PM
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Of course those women are shitty. But it's still a very large part of the female gender. Tinder isn't some niche crowd. A lot of women have used tinder at some point in their lives. Average looking guys are just not attractive at all to women to the point they would rather meet and fuck a very hot criminal or pedo within the online dating dynamic. Enough experiments have proven that. Don't believe me ? Make two tinder profiles; one very hot guy who went to jail for rape or murder; and one averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:07 PM
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You say they didn't read the bio. Read the messages they sent him; they are related to his bio. You were trying to excuse their behavior because god forbid women are really as shallow as incels always proclaimed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:44 PM
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That's not something women are going to say outloud in public. They don't even realize it themselves until they come into contact with an actual chad sex offender in all the anonymity of online dating. Ask ANY of those women who matched and responded to the chad prior to the fake experiment if they would date a very good looking child rapist. All of them would say no and would be repulsed by the thought. Again women don't even realize how shallow they really are so of course they don't realize t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:36 PM
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Stop trying to deflect women's shitty online dating behavior on men. I work around children and I would 100% choose an average girl over a convicted child rapist stacy. The female tinder crowd wouldn't as a child rapist chad gets more matches and first messages than average joe. That's the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:28 PM
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You can talk about crazy women all you want but fact is a chad who is a self-admitted child rapist WILL have more matches and first messages on tinder than a regular average guy. That's the actual data. Saying all those women are Harley Quinn type psychopaths is a lazy argument. Conclusion : a good looking child rapist is more attractive than a regular average guy to the female tinder crowd. Now that doesn't conclude anything for women who aren't on tinder but it does give us some assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:19 PM
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Of course women will defend their own gender. If you read the actual first messages women sent that guy it is clearly related to his crimes so they did read his bio. And this is only a small selection. I saw the original experiment on lookism. The chad had like over 1000 matches and 40% first message rate in a 10 miles radius. But yeah I guess all those women happened to be psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:10 PM
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Psychopathy is less than 1% of women. Most of those women matching and responding to chad are not psychopaths but just regular women craving for chad due to their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:05 PM
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You'll become numb to it eventually but at first you'll look at women in a completely different way. I've tried my own chad tinder experiment. Made him a convicted criminal; woman beater going in and out of jail 24/7. I got more matches in a day than it got on my real profile in total lmao. And they certainly read the bio because their first message was usually something flirty related to the crime ("you can beat me anytime;...) or them questioning if it was a joke or not but they were still wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:01 PM
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Reminder women are willing to go out with a convicted child sex offender : https://cheezburger.com/3017733/guy-conducts-twisted-experiment-on-tinder-as-fake-child-rapist-and-gets-horrifying-results It was even posted on the local news here lmao wonder how many men got blackpilled that day about women. Disturbing thought that all those women are going to have kids one day. Wonder if they will rethink about this little convo they had with chad and feel very ashamed while looking their child in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:38 PM
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This girl actually has a funny profile. Gigachad only though. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:41 PM
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Sub 5 men are already invisible to women. No need for buttons and magic for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:52 PM
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It doesn’t. But there’s some value into searching to get as much info as possible. For example I now know the reason women aren’t lining up for me is because of my looks whereas if I didn’t do any research I might have thought there was something wrong or offputting about me because of my personality or who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:08 PM
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Chadfishing experiments definitely are a legit source of info. It shows us the true nature of women when they are interacting with very attractive men; something most men will never experience even with their wives or girlfriends. Just because it’s in an online setting doesn’t make it fake or distorted. These are still real women clearly typing out their desire to fuck chad even if his bio has many red flags. If she would have met him in real life instead of online she would still have that same…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:41 PM
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Most women will never struggle to get male attention no matter what they look like so no you shouldn’t do this for the male gaze. Women do this to be healthy and compete with other women (female gaze) because they want to be the prettiest and get the hottest man. If you have a room full of average men and 1 chad all female attention will go to the chad; the prettiest girl will get the chad and the other girls will still not be attracted to the average leftovers. If you have a room full of averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:10 AM
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What’s the point of complaining about female beauty standards if men will be attracted to and date average women who don’t match those standards anyway ? I never heard of an average looking female struggle for male attention. Meanwhile average men go through life feeling invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:02 AM
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You are acting like women are not creeping on hot IG male models. If not you should check the comments because women can be as horny as men. The points still stands it is way easier and attainable to become a female IG model than to become a male IG model.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:55 AM
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Female beauty standards are much more attainable than male beauty standards. They literally only have to put down the fork; get a healthy diet and do some basic cardio. Men need to be tall (preferably 6ft or taller) which is purely genetic. Outside of having a good diet; they need to lift weights 3-4 times a week and they need to take unhealthy steroids. Women don’t realize every hollywood action star or every IG male fitness influencer is juiced up; their bodies are not natural. The natty limit…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:33 AM
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What's the point in spreading the bluepill when there are scientific studies saying women decide within 3 seconds if they would sleep with a man or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:04 PM
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There are two rules for cold approaching : - be attractive - don't be unattractive It's all about what women see during those first three seconds (your face; body and height) I don't know why this is even a debate. If women would theoretically cold approach men I would never be bothered by a 9/10 or 10/10 girl approaching me; even if I'm in a hurry; in a bad mood or just minding my own business. If I had some important appointment within 5 minutes I would still respond friendly; have a brief con…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:16 PM
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Depends if you have autism/aspergers or just social anxiety/awkwardness. If it's the latter trial and error will fix that. If you have autism there is not much you can do as you'll never grasp social situations correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:34 PM
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Yes you still have SMV. All women do as long as they have a pussy. But do you really feel like you can compete against younger pretty girls in their prime or your younger self when it comes to desirability; especially to chad ? Or the feeling you have the world at your feet because you are a young pretty girl ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:27 PM
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That’s because they know women their age don’t want them so they just go for older women because they are less picky. You are deluded if you believe young men go for older women as a first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:56 PM
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Why would you care about losing desirability to the opposite sex though if you’re married with children ? (unless you’re divorced by now)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:55 PM
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If that's you in your avi you are lying about men never having hit on you unless you only count chad doing it or you stay in your room most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:42 PM
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You're probably have a very closed personality and body language like walking very fast on the streets or looking at the ground. Men WILL approach you if you signal open communication and body language. Just make eyecontact or some other flirty gestures with men or go to a pub and order a drink alone/go to a nightclub and dance and someone is bound to hit on you. Just smile and signal you are happy and open for social contact; some women have a resting bitchface and that scares men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:37 PM
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True and it might go both ways. A man may find it tragic she doesn't look half as good anymore while looking back at her high school or college pictures. Or it might be a reason to admire her more because deep down she's still the same human as that beautiful prime stacy from 10-15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:16 PM
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While women can certainly still be hot at 30; 40 and even 50 for me personally they lose that certain "glow" they have compared to when they are 18-25 years old. It's why at 30 years old I rarely develop a deep crush anymore on the women I am dating. I think they are attractive but that's it. I don't daydream about them at home like I did when I was younger and could date younger women. Things that make women attractive like soft glowing skin; facial fat; big sparkling eyes; thick pink lips; sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:53 PM
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Exactly. While women can certainly still be hot at 30; 40 and even 50 for me personally they lose that certain "glow" they have compared to when they are 18-25 years old. It's why at 30 years old I rarely develop a deep crush anymore on the women I am dating. I think they are attractive but that's it. I don't daydream about them at home like I did when I was younger and could date younger women. Things that make women attractive like soft glowing skin; facial fat; big sparkling eyes; thick pink …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:48 PM
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I don’t approach women because I know from my own experience of being around attractive men women will give out very obvious signals (like prolonged eye contact; smiling; playing with hair; standing close to you;..)when they want to get approached by a certain guy they see. If you don’t get those signals there is a very high probability she will reject your approach. And if you almost never get those signals well you’re not part of the small percentage of men women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:03 PM
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She's more becky than stacy imo. They are looksmatched but she still wanted chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:48 PM
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From the recent high school movies or series I watched they cast actual teenagers now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:39 PM
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You look good to me; definitely above average + fun social setting pic. I could only advise to bulk up a little. You could definitely get pretty girls IRL but it seems you already got lucky by meeting one rare unicorn through tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:02 PM
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It's rare to meet a girl above your league lookswise through online dating; definitely an exception or you underrate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:33 PM
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Just saw this movie for the first time and this is by far one of the most redpilled scenes I have seen : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHY93RaSWf4
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:11 PM
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If men have a good bone structure and don't lose their hair while taking care of themselves they can look good well into their 50's. Women no matter how much they take care of themselves will lose their neotenous features and collagen while aging. For men facial bone structure is more important for being handsome and that doesn't go away with age as long as they don't get out of shape. Of course men already have to look good from a young age to look like a silver fox later in life. But I'm sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:40 PM
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Women will become less attractive after 30 yo. In fact even after 23 yo (last year of college) I'd say most women start losing their looks already compared to their 18-20 yo prime; some more noticable than others. They still have a lot of SMV though even at 50 yo they can just make a tinder profile and get offers from men. But strictly speaking about face and body yes they hit the wall after college. All my ex-GF's looked better when I saw their facebook high school and college pics. Of course I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:10 PM
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They are more visual because only the best looking men can arouse them sexually. You think all those women settling with their average looking boyfriends are sexually attracted to them ? If men can get horny for even ugly or fat girls that means they are not visual; they have a high sex drive which is something entirely different than being visual. Women have a low sex drive so looks in men is the primary factor in what can activate that sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:43 PM
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"women are less visual" Stopped reading here. Women go absolutely primal when around a guy they find very good looking without even knowing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:24 PM
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If most men worldwide are under 6 feet why is 6ft the "standard" for being the acceptable minimum height ? We all know women often use the magical number 6 threshold for online dating; automatically weeding out majority of men. For pure analogy that's like men saying women should have at least a C cup size even though the average cup size globally is between large A and smaller B. Men are not less attractive than women. It's only that for some reason we are held to much higher standards. Women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:01 PM
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Again that makes no sense. “If you are looking for an average woman that woman is overweight”. Like wtf are you even trying to say. An overweight women is NOT average looking. She’s below average looking because her face won’t be average looking due to the excess fat. A girl can be thin and fit and still be average looking or below on the looks scale due to not having above average or exceptional facial features just as a man can be muscular but still average looking or below. A male or female c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:22 PM
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That doesn’t make sense. They are still average looking as in having an average face with a good body. The top 5% of girls are stacies with beautiful feminine faces; the ones that make your head turn around. Yeah those are out of reach to me unless I win the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:41 AM
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Are you saying not wanting fat girls as an average but otherwise fit guy is having too high standards ? As an average looking guy who does sports and goes to the gym I would be perfectly happy with an average looking sporty girl. But guess what those average girls are going after the top 5-10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:24 AM
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The problem is not so much women caring about looks. Almost all humans do. The real problem is that women only find a small percentage of men good looking. And there is not that much variety in what women consider attractive features in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:58 PM
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1 out of 3 men are not having any sex during their prime years in which they are supposed to have careless fun and/or discover what they really want sexually or romantically. Brutal. At least they can look forward to dating those same girls who are ignoring them now in 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:40 PM
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If men had some more self-respect and not have the desire to fuck anything that moves with a vagina the dating scene would become more balanced again. Now we have older or overweight women think they can land a decent guy just because he wanted easy sex; we have average women think they can land chad because he wanted sex without any effort. It's too easy to blame it on nature. I have some self-constraint. I know which league I'm in and I will only go after women who are also in that same league…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:00 AM
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You are probably trolling but the redpill is that the real results wouldn't be that different from what you are pretending; it would just be less exaggerated. But a granny would still get more matches; first messages and sex offers than a (below) average young male on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:52 AM
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This goes with everything tbh. There is just a wider variety of what is considered a physically attractive female compared to what is considered a physically attractive male. A girl with glasses : sexy secretary; shy and cute A guy with glasses : weak and beta
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:37 PM
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Lol well yeah that sucks. Could you elaborate what signs the girl was giving you for you to interpret it as interest ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:21 AM
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Unless you have difficulty reading social cues you will surely notice the difference between women giving a friendly smile to an elderly person and women giving "the eye" or the flirty look/smile to a guy they find good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:05 AM
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"It sounds like you did the soft looksmaxing and are disappointed that women aren't throwing themselves at you. " So here you are admitting soft looksmaxing doesn't make any difference. And you are right; women still don't throw themselves at me (OK I know they rarely approach men directly but they still don't give me any IOI's) despite me being the best version of myself within the realm of possibility. If I want to go further I will have to take steroids; get multiple face surgeries; leg lengt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:04 PM
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Clothes; makeup; diet; gym... that's all soft looksmaxing and very easy to do if you are not completely lazy. And even then overweight women are still being told big is beautiful. When men are being told to improve we are not speaking about stuff like getting better clothes or better haircare. It's about more fundamental stuff like getting a better jaw; more height; a bigger dick; a better face; a roided body; a more extroverted personality; no sign of autistic behavior etc. If all I had to do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:55 PM
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I can walk around a busy city centre for a whole day and not have one girl make eyecontact with me. That tells me enough about where I stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:42 PM
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Yes but at the very least it tells you that you pass her looks test. Women are not going to risk feigning attraction towards someone they are not physically attracted to; which is why they almost never make eyecontact or smile at men passing them on the street; unless it's the rare guy they find good looking. As soon as women see my face they immediately look to the ground or sideways. And I'm being told I just have to approach them LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:34 PM
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Contrary to popular belief women are the ones who make the first move. By giving out IOI's (things like eyecontact; a smile; playing with hair; light touches; standing nearby;...) they are effectively telling the guy it is OK to approach her. Repeated or prolonged eyecontact is the most usual one. Approaching a woman without first receiving any kind of IOI will end up in rejection unless you are good looking and she just didn't see your face yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:24 PM
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Because the first thing men who struggle to get sex or a relationship are told is to "improve". They aren't told to ask out more women; they are told to become better versions of themselves; making it sound like the current version of themselves is not good enough to get women which in turns demotivates them to ask out more women. And beyond some basic stuff like hygiene and sports it is extremely hard to improve your physical appearance to the point your face goes up from below average to avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:41 PM
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That's not the right way to look at it. Men are attracted to both short; medium and tall women. We just go for women shorter than ourselves because we know women are very shallow about height. Every guy knows he's gonna get rejected by asking out a taller girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 PM
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I’m not specifically into the whole milf thing. It’s just that I tend to only match older women on tinder next to overweight or plain ugly women. So I prefer older but average looking women over the 2 other categories. If I could actually match and set up a date with an average looking girl around my age I would do that. Online dating is rigged for men imo and I don’t bother approaching women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:06 PM
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I mean they are biologically programmed to do this. Dating apps or any environment with a lot of men and women like nightclubs are just a manifestation of that (majority of men competing for the attention of ANY girl; while majority of women competing for the attention of the TOP males). Can I blame women for following their biological instincts ? I don't know but sometimes it can feel very frustrating as I'm only human myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:46 AM
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I know for a fact most women in relationships are not sexually attracted to heir boyfriend or husband. There is enough data about women only finding 5-10% of men physically attractive. You think all those women in relationships lucked out and got to catch the 5% they are attracted to ? Settling is a real thing hence the "dead bedroom" expression. It doesn't mean those men aren't getting any sex from their GFs or wives; it means that she is staying for other reasons than the sexual part of the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:30 AM
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If I was born as my female version (that would make me a 5-6/10 woman) I would probably do what most of them do out of biological urge : sleep with men out of my league in the hope that one will want something long-term with me. If it works out and we fall in love and he doesn't cheat; great. If not I will have to settle with a more average male in my league eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:16 AM
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I never said women owe anything to average looking men. I am just saying it is understandable from their point of view why they eventually develop a bad attitude and why it is frustrating for them to keep hearing their personality or low confidence is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:26 AM
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You need to scrap all the escort and 'dead bedroom' sex (GF or wife settling with a guy she is not really sexually attracted to) from those numbers imo. Women settling with a guy they wouldn't have given a chance during their prime is like the majority of sexual relationships after 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:18 AM
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And yet you still fuck them and hope they will commit; even when you can sense the pump and dump coming from a mile away hoping it will be different "this time". Ever thought about the fact those average men giving off frustrated; incel energy vibes didn't start out that way but only became like that after their consistent lack of success ? Women will then say it's because of their bad attitude or lack of confidence but neglect those men were also not successful BEFORE they even became frustrate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:56 AM
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Because women can sense a bad personality lol. That's why women want to fuck good looking scumbags like Jeremy Meeks or they keep falling for the pump and dump fuckboy. The reason average men don't get laid consistently is because of looks only. Let's not pretend women have some sixth sense regarding personality. It's well known women tend to ignore all obvious red flags when dealing with a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:42 AM
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I would count myself as average looking and I had sex for the first time at 27 years old; first kiss at 24 or 25 yo during my last year of university. Never got any real female attention before that. The 3-4 women I have been to bed with were also all 5-15 years older than me. I rarely match a girl my age or younger on dating apps. It sucks that I missed out on teenage love while in high school and college sex but I never had the looks to pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:32 AM
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IMO it's safer to have no tattoos at all. My reasoning : girls who like or don't mind tattoos are not going to be turned off if you don't have any tattoos and they like the rest of you. And they are also not specifically going to be turned on by them if they don't like the rest of you. But girls who don't like tattoos (because they think it's trashy/low class/something else) might be turned off by them; especially if you have lots of them or very visible ones So you have nothing to gain by havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yes maybe it's more like the top 0,1% or even less. Some women on reddit mentioned they only come across like 1 or two guys a year they find physically attractive enough to the point they are rendered speechless and weak. And that is when they start to behave like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:01 PM
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You are probably not as attractive as you think you are. You can send your picture in PM and I can rate you. From the sound of it you are above average; but not someone women would categorize as hot at first sight. There is a difference between being simply handsome/good looking to women but not the the point you can activate their primal side which is something only the top 0.5-2% of men can do. I have known a couple of top 1% males (white; tall; good build; pretty face; blue eyes; dark hair;..…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:02 AM
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Very legit. And women still have the nerve to call men shallow and picky because we don't want to date overweight girls. I read a post on reddit about an overweight woman complaining men only wanted to date her once she was skinny and that's why she became very picky herself and only want tall guys. She didn't consider you can change weight rather easily but you cannot change height.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:49 AM
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For someone who has analyzed facial aesthetics for near a decade on redpill forums I can say this girl is NOT above average. She is not even average. Despite tons of make-up and filters her face is rather plain and her coloring is boring. Her lower third is too masculine. Her eyes are too big and the shape is odd (fish eyes). Her eyebrows are too thick for her face. She looks very masculine overall and her facial ratios are off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:07 PM
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Contrary to popular belief I believe women are more susceptible to look at male models/prettyboys on IG/tiktok and lose their attraction to more average and realistic looking males whereas men can look at pornstars/hot IG girls/... and still retain their attraction to average or normal looking women. Growing up I remember society told me it was the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:24 PM
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I agree about looks > personality but women won’t actively chase after a guy with an average face but muscular body. Thar’s a gymcel fantasy. Face > height > body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:22 AM
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I think getting into a relationship with a girl who wouldn't want to have a one night stand with you is very bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:43 PM
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I don't know about that one. It is typically women who sent love letters to convicted but attractive serial murders; rapists... and let's not forget Jeremy Meeks who got bailed out of jail by women all over the world sending him money. I have never heard of a female criminal getting money sent by men but I could be mistaken. And even then men simp for almost anything female. Women do not. So the fact women are very selective about who they are willing to simp or send money to and they still choo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:01 PM
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Plenty of women say that but they never actually fuck them. At least this is from my own anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:35 PM
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I have done catfishes with male models. Girls with "no ONS" in their bio were as sexually receptive as girls without it. So it just means : "No sex unless you are exceptionally hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:00 PM
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