| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Been on a cold streak for the past 4 months. I need some pump up comments. | Escalation & Calibration | KeenActual | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 02:26 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | For those who've lost weight, especially naturally, at what point did you see a big increase in pulls?My weight has always fluctuated since I was 20 (now 43) and I always got more women in my heavier weight | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | For the men who have casual sex a lot, how physically attractive are you?Yes I am. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 10 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Women aren’t even sure how they want to be loved. But if you love them, you have to try and choose them everyday whether or not you like them that day. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:46 PM |
| 23 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?I was going to put my 2 cents but this is an accurate statement anyone will ever get. Women love sex, just as much if not more than men. But if you love them the way they want to be loved, and they are a good person, nothing else compares to the love they will give you back. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Been on a cold streak for the past 4 months. I need some pump up comments.I live in the DC area which is known for shitty dating scene. Someone striking out and dates flaking for 4 months straight is not unusual. I just been on a hot streak since moving here that after a month of no sex felt like someone poured a bucket of ice water on me lol | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Been on a cold streak for the past 4 months. I need some pump up comments.It’s funny that you mention “negative self talk” because this is the most positive version of myself. I am on a 4 month streak of waking up and reciting my affirmations and gratitudes. So I currently have no negative thoughts other than work and my dying truck lol | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I make a girl laugh?I get naked in front of them. That’s usually worth a chuckle or two. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up?Long distance runners compete, do they show up on game day and run 10 miles without any training? No. They first run 2 miles 8 months before their race. Then 3 miles, then 4, then 5, by the time they’re ready for that 10 miler, their form is great, they’re not dying for air, they may even show off doing some moves no one has ever seen before. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 11 | 18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girlThis is obviously an ad for an OF. Be honest everyone…who slid into their DMs? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Any former bad boy, player can give adviceIf you have to ask guys on the internet on how to be a “bad boy” then that life isn’t for you. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Those that dated older women, how did you pull it off?Older women have always approached me. In the age of dating apps, I’ve had 2 spend money to message me without matching first. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 04:02 AM |
| 11 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?The Hawaiians have a saying “Live for the day”. Pretty much, why would I spend my nights inside getting drunk and wasting away…when I got spend all day outside surfing, climbing mountains, 4 wheeling, scuba diving, and everything else you can do in Hawaii. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 18 | Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025?I’m 43 years old. No. I rather go to bed early and wake up early and get started on my day fresh and rested. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 12:32 PM |
| 6 | I think I'm deleting TinderI prefer dating apps because in my free time, I rather focus on my hobbies than be social. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 05:35 PM |
| 23 | How do I get laidHave you tried talking to a girl? | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way that telling a girl you're gay could actually help get you laid?That would only work on some really toxic women. | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 08:17 PM |
| -2 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?And a fragile ego as well. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone flirt based on Menstrual cycle?American education at its finest. | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I (M21) go out often but only occasionally get any action.Honestly guy you shouldn’t stress about your numbers or missing on sexual partners. Dangerous mindset in my opinion, both for your “game” and for your future relationships. Instead focus on quality over quantity. Quantity also means time together. Make a moment count, and not count the moments. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed!!Competition breeds excellence | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | lost my virginity at 33MI want to stack on top of another comment…Your penis size does not matter when you slip out especially when she’s on top. A lot of contributing factors lead to this including positioning, motion, and most importantly wetness. A lot of times when I slip out of a woman, it because she is so wet that she can’t grip me. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you’re a dom or a sub?If you have to ask, then you are a sub. | /r/seduction | 26/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 5 | How do you walk into a second date.I love that “the second date as re-entering the first date halfway through”!!!! You are continuing the same energy from the first date rather than starting over. I am stealing that!! | /r/seduction | 20/11/25 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Do not buy my bookOk. I won’t. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had a "ho phase" as a guy in their early 30s?I’m 43 and I’m starting to wind down my hoe phase. | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How to become a good talkerOk guy, you got step 1 down: be sociable. Now you just need to go out and do things so you have something to talk about. Girls like when a guy has a passion about something. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 10:10 PM |
| 9 | How to become a good talkerYup. Being a good conversationalist and being interesting are two different things. Having a personality is the best way for anyone to like you. No one likes that guy that has no hobbies and hasn’t done anything in life. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Does it feel like a loss when you’re dating a woman and she wants to break up with you and you never had sex with her?Not a loss at all because if we haven’t had sex yet, then she has no right to claim exclusivity, which means I’m sleeping with other women. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 3 | I'm older than most here I think (41). Recently single after a long marriage fell apart. Looking for advice with how to handle OLD.I wouldn’t ghost but I’d stop initiating a conversation. If she’s interested, she’ll text you back. Focus on other girls who are more engaging. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Whats the sexiest/hottest costume a guy could wear? Need costume ideas for a college hw party. Im not jacked but fit. Should I go prisoner/construction worker or is that too basic?Go as a hanging Chad. Maybe you’ll meet a slutty pumpkin. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to sleep with someone when you don't have your own place?I used to be homeless and living out of my truck in LA. Just take them to a hotel or back to their place. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 01:06 PM |
| -1 | I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31MIs this where you tell you us that women don’t go for nice guys like you? | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to date without drinkingFor a night out, no. For a get together to talk and eat…yes. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Will reading classics novels help you with flirting?Reading in general will improve your social interactions on the whole. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How to make 1st move to my fubuGuys do this to girls. Ive seen people advice this to other guys. So why get mad when a girl does this? | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Tired of the game, I want to go back in timeI am like this currently. I went hard and slutty this summer to the point I wasn’t having sex because of the enjoyment of it but because I felt like, as a man, I should be. So I am currently taking break…from pretty much everything: sex, alcohol, drugs. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head?This isn’t true. The most beautiful woman I have ever been with and still to this day in love with used to ask me how she could be better at giving head. | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 09:09 PM |
| 6 | What book changed your dating life?..(for the better)Neil Strauss aka “Style”. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 08:41 PM |
| 20 | What book changed your dating life?..(for the better)Honestly…”The Truth”. It helped me stop making my life all about sex and more on human connection. Women saw me as more genuine, and mature, and an adult rather than the F BOYS they are used to and tired of. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 05:09 PM |
| 6 | I'm not sure if I'm just a pussyYou’re not a pussy. You are just not attracted to her If anything, what she did constitutes SA. For me, I am pretty slutty and will sleep with anything that has 3 holes. But any woman that comes on that aggressive is a turn off for me | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Guilt Is Not An AphrodisiacYou mean pretending to be the nice guy doesn’t work??? | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Where are you guys finding the women on dating apps who just want sex?Thanks for the compliment but i honestly stopped caring about the game after i turned 35 | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Where are you guys finding the women on dating apps who just want sex?What’s that mean? | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Where are you guys finding the women on dating apps who just want sex?Shit dude…let’s trade. I’ve had 5 years worth of one night stands (the last 2 years I was on a streak of at least once a month). Now I want a relationship and all i get are girls who are attracted to F boys. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?Your lifestyle is boring because you want a boring life….or you are lazy. You want a fun life, surrounded by girls, you don’t get that by staying home by yourself and playing videogames. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever met that average-looking guy who’s insanely successful with women?Everyday in the mirror, my friend. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever experienced a random dude interrupt and hit on your date?I once had a guy spill his drink on me to talk to my girlfriend. I don’t know what the plan was, but I ended up taking my shirt off, and at the time I was absolutely shredded so it didn’t turn out the way he hoped. | /r/seduction | 23/06/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?That is just a cop out for not taking responsibility for your own actions. | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?That’s not why I lost her. I lost her because I became codependent, as if my happiness rested solely on her shoulders. She went on vacation that was planned before we met. I trusted her, no fear of her stepping out. But the fact she couldn’t enjoy her trip because I missed her so much I was literally depressed and she had to text and call to get me out of that situation was unfair to her. I am in a much better place since recognizing that codependency and have learned how to be happy with or wit… | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 11:21 AM |
| 97 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?I had the most beautiful girl chase me. She got me. We fell in love. And then I became clingy. Then I lost her. | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 01:16 PM |
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