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Basically got LMR again and was told it was most likely to complicate things if we did. I laughed it off and played dumb. Grabbed my shoes and peaced like the advice recommended. Something tells me she feels like she gave her power away from the booty call text last night. Not sure what to think now but something tells me it's not the last of her. Especially cause she tried to confirm if it was cool to visit my work with her friends. I'm not about that orbiter life but idk why she pulled back af…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:49 AM
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Gave me LMR again, so I left. I didnt want to hang around for that after dropping off her shit
/r/askTRP13/06/18 05:46 AM
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I'm meeting her shortly so I def will haha. Will see how this goes and adjust.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:25 AM
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Blew my mind lol I went to bed though. Will see her today to drop off remaining shit
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:37 AM
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She actually booty called me while I was about to hit the hay last night lol. I don't know what the hell this chick is doing anymore haha
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:10 AM
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Me too. I wasn't expecting that especially after being turned down on my attempt a few days ago. No way that was a sober text lol
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:47 PM
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Lmao.. pretty sure I just got a late night booty call text from my ex ltr asking if I was around. Also sending me some x's and o's. Interesting. Leaving after LMR yesterday seems to have done something. I am going to bed though lol
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:57 AM
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How could I be a plate if we don't hook up? She wants to do bf stuff without the sex lmao
/r/askTRP12/06/18 04:58 AM
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She didn't seem into getting back together necessarily though. She wouldn't rule it out but she almost wanted me for a friend and do bf shit but no sex lmao. That's why I was like "uh...". Unless she's trying to do this from a frame of her having all the power. Ie.- Be an orbiter while I fuck around some more and then eveeennntually, maybe, sorta we can link up, date, etc. Seems way more likely to me but I'm not 100% hence the confusion.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:26 AM
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Ahh, sneaky. I'm not playing that shit. I'll keep doing my own thing and being aloof until she wants to hang so bad she can't take it lol. Otherwise, I know I'll fall back in and fuck my progress. I don't want to be an orbiter for this chick. Regardless of how respectfully it ended. Why do chicks do this after break ups lol partying and self sabotage until you hate yourself seems completely backwards. I had to tell her I expected a lot more from her. I figured she'd be happy so I said it. I was …
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:07 AM
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Why do you think they come back all the time? Could it really be that it's just simply missing the person they had or it really is that they couldn't do better. This girl doesn't seem like she's back but she's trying some sort of game on me.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:09 PM
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Well to be honest man, that's what's interesting to me as well. I tried hard to follow the advice that's on here and it seems to be working. She said herself "I want to have you in my life but we can't just make out and have sex all the time we see each other. Sex means something to me." I kinda laughed when this happened and said "Yeah me too". I didn't get offended by her rejection or anything. I thought it was amusing considering how well my life is going rn and how bad hers is. The thing is,…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:48 PM
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Yeah I just kind of realized that haha. I was sitting here trying to reply to her text and realized this is not my issue.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:45 PM
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Fuck that's so shitty to realize. I thought there was some way of keeping it going but I'm not hopeful for that anymore
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:01 PM
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I am the same way where I will cut all contact entirely and peace. This time it has been different for sure.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:01 PM
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I agree in most cases but even in an amicable break up? Where nothing bad happened or arguing.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:29 PM
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Figured. If she wants to be in my life, I'm firm on it being as a plate or an LTR. But, I'd rather have an LTR with the chick she was before I went beta and she started partying so lol. I will end the convo asap and continue no contact. I feel as if she is just lonely right now. If I supplicate, I'll prob kill any chance for future lay or rekindling. What do you think?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:27 PM
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She broke up with me about 4 weeks ago now. Went NC. Didn't fight her on the break up. She has tried getting reactions out of me, showed up at my work, changed her look, always tried to engage with me via text. I kept it aloof but she is texting me these paragraphs right now about whatever is on her mind and I'm just trying to down play and end the convo.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:20 PM
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My point exactly. She's complaining and then continuing to do the shit that's causing her turmoil. This girl is prob waiting to see if some other guy she's into will date her and if not, she's hoping I'll be a back up?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 07:10 PM
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Going to shoot my ex a message probably Saturday stating I'm dropping stuff off the following evening. How do you guys recommend my vibe be? I was just going to be alpha and confident and truly happy and just get it over with. She is playing games and I want the upper hand. I would hate to look bad so to speak. I feel I am giving this more attention than it deserves but I think it's just because it's fresh to me still
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:57 AM
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That's dope, man. I will try it at some point. For now my goal is to build that abundance mentality
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:39 AM
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Thanks brother I'll keep that in mind! I always thought you needed a group of chicks for the social proof but I think any type of friends work.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:56 PM
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I remember someone once said, your vibe is contagious. You're right my dude.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 09:55 PM
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That's what a lot of things I have read have been saying. Treat them like children. You don't take offense when a child gives you shit. Why take offense when an adult looking child gives you shit? Haha I'll apply this right away.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:07 PM
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Interesting, you turn down giving numbers out?
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:05 PM
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That's wicked, man. I'm going to start that today then. No ifs, ands or buts. I'll start a report after this weekend and make sure I stay accountable. It'll be honest as possible as well.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 07:03 PM
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You're right bud, maybe I'm not going as hard as I can go. Actually, I know I'm not. I'll get right the fuck to it. Thanks bro!
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:39 AM
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Maybe I haven't given myself enough time. It has only been about 4 weeks. I'm going to bet it takes a lot longer than that. I been going through the sidebar everyday. I'll continue to do so. Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 06:25 AM
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Okay my man, I will keep that in mind from now on. I know I'm not getting the results I should be getting especially given the feedback I'm getting from all my guy friends. They are confused as to how I'm not slaying. I genuinely think it's me. All inner game and thinking numbers are good enough. I need to push outside my comfort zone now.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:37 AM
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Now that I think about this properly, I am barely spending 10 mins with these girls before bouncing around the club to find more girls. In a way, I feel like I am using bad advice I got from game way back when. I should be investing a bit more time especially when there isn't anything wrong with the interactions. 8/10 times, I'm the one leaving the convo cause I don't want to engage anymore, not the girl. Maybe this is exactly what my problem is. I think that this weekend when I go out, I'll try…
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:35 AM
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I'll get back to work on it, thanks for the push my dude.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 05:31 AM
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I will adopt that mindset and start applying it literally right now. I don't think the current way I'm doing things is beneficial by any means. The results are there but it's not consistent. It's hit and miss and the interactions I actually want to click, are usually a gamble in the sense that sometimes they do, most of the time, they don't. I will try to just spit what's on my mind in every interaction from now on. More so, say what I want to say without fear of rejection or riducule. That's fr…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:58 PM
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I like that way of thinking a lot more, I find sometimes it's easy to overthink the conversations and you try to apply all these game techniques and it just backfires. The key has to be just having fun
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:43 PM
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Damn, that's gold dude. So for newer social circles and new people in general, try to mirror their investments in the conversation. For people you have known for a bit, mirror their interests to get the convo going. From a game stand point, do you find you would lead the convo more or do you still apply this type of thinking to the conversations? In example, with new girls as opposed to girls that you have been interacting with for a while.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:37 PM
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Ah interesting, I try to engage when I want to genuinely make friends with the person but I find if I don't say too much, then it seems like I don't really care. Do you mean from the stand point of gaming chicks or convo skills in general?
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:20 PM
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Yeah not too often right now since being out of an LTR. Still getting in the swing of things again. I have forgetten what it's like to have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:18 PM
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Agreed, man. They are stellar looking. I don't have an issue going up and speaking to any girl or guy for that matter but you are right about the comfort level. Sometimes I run out of things to say and I can feel the Beta coming back out of me, just fishing for topics and regardless of how good looking I am, the neediness negates everything. I could be smiling but the girl can almost smell it lol I think maybe I need to harness the abundance mentality a lot more and just genuinely relax but I fi…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 10:03 PM
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That's kinda shitty in the sense that most of the girls I'll hit up are really good looking. I find I have no approach anxiety, leaves me stoked for later on in the week only to be surprised it doesn't lead to anything. Would you advise just getting more numbers then? If it is just a numbers thing.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:54 PM
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Let me know how it goes, man
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:49 PM
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Fuck, you know what. Now that I think about it, these girls literally never say no to giving me their number... I realize that it is easier to hand it to me than to turn it into a thing. I guess I'm not polarizing enough? I don't find I'm that hard hitting. I just have a chill vibe. Kinda flirty but maybe to friendly.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:40 PM
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I personally try to get them talking and I do the listening. I ask some open ended questions about their interests then I just use that as a branch to start spreading out from. For example: Me: "What do you like to do in your free time?" Them: "I really like to draw and watch movies?" Me: "No way, what did you think of Infinity War? Don't tell me you haven't seen it either or I'm revoking your movie buff card." I just try to have "Shooting the shit" convos with everyone. I talk like this to guys…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 09:35 PM
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Already told her I would but it's more important that I go to get the money she owes me. In the other post, I mentioned, it was one or two things. It's massive boxes of shit. I won't kiss her feet when I see her. I truthfully was just going to be myself, happy and confident. Drop it off then peace. I am not 100% over her but I haven't been chasing or anything. Genuinely trying to improve my life and it's been getting better every single day. Not going to sit here and pretend I don't care though,…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 02:45 AM
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Truthfully she said she'd email transfer
/r/askTRP03/06/18 09:22 AM
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I will do my best. Easier said than done but I will aim to fake it until I make it
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:06 AM
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My hostess made her hella jealous. Didnt even acknowledge me when she left lol
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:57 AM
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She showed up at my work with her hair and looks done how I told her to do it months ago. Shes playing games my man. This irks me. I have more respect than to do this shit. I'm not happy but now I know she is trying to get me to chase. I will not. I'm not doing this petty shit.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:17 AM
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She just messaged me asking if it's okay to come into my work tnt with a few friends. She said she can skip it if I'm working. What the hell is she trying to pull lol..
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:24 PM
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I agree. I don't want to drag this on. Just going to accept it at face value and keep chasing my dreams. Putting my sport first.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:26 PM
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I told her I'd drop the stuff off next week when I'm free. I kept it one sentence compared to her paragraphs. She got back to me and said thanks. I'm just going to go back to nc. I think this one wouldn't come back even as a potential plate regardless of how respectful the break up was.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:08 PM
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That's honestly how I feel. I was starting to get confused with people telling me to drop it off for her.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:07 PM
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I was honestly about to tell her I'd have free time later next week to drop it off lol what do you suggest? I'd like to plate this girl eventually but that's it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:53 PM
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How can you tell if that's the underlying message of what she is doing? Before trp I for sure would have replied right away and dropped her stuff off asap. I haven't even replied yet now after learning a few things.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:43 PM
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It's not a bag man. It's boxes and boxes. I can see if any of my friends could.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:44 AM
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Bro, I appreciate the advice. I don't need my stuff. Her stuff is what she wants. There is just so much of it. Thats why I don't want to drop it off. It's truly a hassle. I am starting to think I should just do it and get on with it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:28 AM
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I know where she lives and I'm not against banging on a few doors to get my cash. What's that saying? Oh ya... "Bitch better have my money." - Rihanna. That would irk me if she tried to bounce without paying me. I don't see her doing that.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:23 AM
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Should I bring up the fact that she still owes me the money. I'm sure she hasn't forgotten. It's not a little bit.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:57 AM
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Not sure I follow.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:56 AM
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That's a genuine slap of reality. I got a case of being way too fucking nice to people who genuinely don't deserve it from what you are making me realize.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:56 AM
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I guess I'll bite the bullet and deliver. Keep in mind my car cannot fit all her stuff. I will be making multiple trips
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:23 AM
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Hahaha a little savage but I guess that's one way to do it.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:17 AM
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I don't mind giving it back at all, it's just the way it is assumed and expected of me to do it. I wouldn't mind her mutual friend grabbing it at all.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:15 AM
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I agree which is fine, but the fact that I have to go out of my own way is annoying.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:14 AM
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Yes she does
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:13 AM
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She was very disrespectful. I just left a lot of details out. I agree she is not worth an LTR. Bang later maybe... maybe. Hard maybe.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:34 AM
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I think the mutual friends thing could work but none of her low value friends own vehicles and she doesn't either. Prob why she is assuming I'll still drop it off. I happen to work 5 mins away from where she lives lol
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:33 AM
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It's not my stuff that I want back, brother. Those clothes don't even fit me anymore lol. She wants her shit back from my house which I'm totally fine with(There is A LOT of it). I just don't feel the need to personally drop it off like she's asking. You're right though, as much as I think I want her back I'm very much so realizing right now, I'm in a hella good place being single, good looking, jacked and working in a place where good looking women are so ridiculously abundant. I think that's w…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:32 AM
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All good, homie! I should have clarified better but I suck at typing with this new phone lol I just find lately I'm censoring my posts out of respect on social media when I shouldn't be. It's like I'm afraid to hurt her feelings when she doesn't care about mine. I'm trying to stop so that's why I just posted it yesterday but with some respect for her at least cause I know she creeps. Beta inner game? I think that's my problem. I look alpha as fuck but that's all on the outside unfortunately.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:20 AM
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Nah, I went up there originally cause that's something I've always done alone. I took a date after dinner last night and just posted a pic of the view. I can't control what my ex creeps. My social media, I try to post whatever I want without regard for others but out of respect I kept the pic of just the view.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:16 AM
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I feel like you can do a lot in person depending on the job you have or extra-curricular/hobbies you posses. This day and age though, I kind of feel like social media is pretty much your easiest bet.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:45 AM
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This actually happens to me a lot as well..
/r/askTRP24/05/18 06:24 AM
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