KeepCalmNSayYesDaddy Archive

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1	I’ve made animated summaries of 50 of the best self improvement books. I’ve made a list of the links for each of the videos so you can find and watch the summary of the book you are interested in more easily. Hope this is useful. I've read almost all of these. 😂 Thank you, I could probably use a refresher / cliff notes / executive summary now and then.	/r/seduction	17/12/20 01:37 AM
1	Cold approchaing during the pandamic? Yeap. A Whole Foods cashier wanted my tip so bad, she was in-state before I placed any groceries on the conveyor. Just talking to her she was buying temperature, ready with puppy dog eyes and giddy/hyper-giggling. She took a break and we FC. I took my mask off just before making out. She was frissskayy and not bad looking.	/r/seduction	13/12/20 05:27 PM
9	First Approach Today Great work! I was deathly afraid of girls because I stuttered, was depressed, have ADD, and had body image issues... also, didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Stayed too long / showed too much interest are the most likely issues. Keys in hand, rocking back foot, body angle, false time constraints, projected deep diaphragmatic speaking (talk as deep and relaxed as you can, makes women randy, your voice is your persona). Better to ask them out for an instadate on their break. For store worke…	/r/seduction	10/12/20 02:02 AM
-3	Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later. I just moved to ATX (Austin) and have zero friends right now. I go out every day and night to talk to and meet people. So far, zero potential platonic friends. I have however turned many heads and am working on a few new girls. Do I really need guy friends if I can LJBF former lovers and I can cold approach really easily? I don't understand why I would need anyone else if I can just charm the pants off almost any woman myself. Fuck, I just sit outside, eat my lunch, and they extra slow/short-ste…	/r/seduction	09/12/20 12:40 PM
1	My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrong I don't do texting with anyone except for places, times, SFW pics, and contacts. Phone or irl. The reasons include cyberdisinhibitionism, oversharing, and misunderstandings. I wish love could be proven intellectually, speculatively related to the frontal areas, but it seems to be stuck more primitively in the reptilian areas that aren't as rational. They might not have been as intelligent as you were. I worked with IITians and PhD CS+MDs at a top university, and there still wasn't a dating pool …	/r/seduction	08/12/20 02:01 PM
2	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. Yeah because I'm not stupid as I was paying for drinks and cover. Also, if I want in anywhere, I just bring like 5 hot girls and gangster in like I own the place. Heck, my friends and I bossed into Tao in Vegas with 1000 people waiting in line. Waiting is for chumps who don't know how to get in. Hell, bouncers often try to lure me in without cover because they know girls often follow me by a block or so like they're in heat. 😂 I was walking to the bars areas and 4 set across in the other directi…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 05:35 PM
1	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. No. I'm totally comfortable stag.	/r/seduction	07/12/20 04:21 PM
5	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. I do both day and night game. I just make my rounds outside the club/bar streets at 12:30 - 2:00 when everyone is deciding what to do after. Let everyone else get drunk and keep the bars in business.	/r/seduction	07/12/20 04:19 PM
2	Does anyone else find bars and nightclubs super awkward because nobody seems to go alone. Cool. I get pulled and propositioned on the street sometimes. Should I start charging? 😂	/r/seduction	07/12/20 04:16 PM
4	Why is cold approaching the best method? Lots and lots and lots of cold approach to get your skills jacked and ripped. 💪🧠💪 I also do tepid approach where the hotter alpha girls with better situational awareness initiate eyes / flirting and we do that for a bit before I approach, so it's not completely cold. This has a very high degree of success for me if I don't make any fatal mistakes and demonstrate status/value. It's extremely difficult to say "no" to me or make up some BS because I just give them the "I already got you and now you…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 08:13 AM
8	Tips for texting with girls? Personally, I don't do text or email because it's a penpal timesuck, a misunderstanding potential, and they have the advantage; it's only good for photos and scheduling. Voice is better. You can fast-forward the relationship with one or two long phone calls. Before all of that, if they and you weren't busy when you met them, you should've done an instadate undate (anything but coffee or tea, probably sweet like a yogurt to put you and them in a good mood) and arranged the next meeting at the end…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 07:56 AM
1	Man up and go for it! Nice!! Hell yeah!! Do the email exchange thing to be on the safe side. Regardless, it builds your validation and confidence if you had a good vibe. You know she'll call if she was giggly at the end, head tilt, she had a spring in her step, or her pupils were dilated... but she maybe too scared to call because you put the onus on her to make the next move. Heck, I would show massive confidence by skipping digits, do an instadate right then by asking if they want to grab a snack, and then say "mee…	/r/seduction	06/12/20 09:29 PM
1	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? I totally can relate. Try being attractive but having ADD ("weird"), stuttering and endogenous anxiety (physiological reason); people have expectations if you look a certain way, then you disappoint them for not fulfilling their preconceptions. For example, just stuttering ordering a juice drink from a dude cashier, then scale that up to cold-approaching someone attractive in public. I can and do nonverbally engage in flirting contests with the most attractive person anywhere all day long (the "…	/r/seduction	05/12/20 09:07 PM
5	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? So that's my problem! 🤦‍♂️ I've been doing it wrong all these years. 😉	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:16 PM
3	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? Step 1. Looking at lips is the "go" signal. I hope the giver actually knows what it means and doesn't need a roadmap. Haha. :)	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:15 PM
1	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? O. M. G. Have you tried older guys?	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:13 PM
3	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? Good signs! Congrats!	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:13 PM
1	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? Awkward means bad timing, everyone isn't relaxed, and/or the mood isn't right.	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:12 PM
4	Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward? In my view, if it's awkward the first time, then the guy is doing something wrong. (And I'm a guy.) It can be fun, playful, and enjoyable if a dude knows what he's doing, which usually means mood. If you have nerves, then both of you need to get more comfortable, maybe a glass of wine, a spliff/edible, and/or sublingual CBD tincture. Also, if you're the anxious type, I suggest warm socks during sex for you or you may have difficulties getting there. Edit: it's some sort of weird biological thing…	/r/seduction	05/12/20 03:09 PM
1	Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls. Fuck texting. I don't bother except for deets. All other texts get ignored. It's too much of an penpal situation. If I know them for a while, maybe. Hell, I don't even do digits until after I close if I met them IRL. Instadate cut short due to scheduling and then same time and place a day or two later. They don't get my non-burner digits until after I know they're not going to go stalker. If they absolutely want email, I may relent but I'm not sending them random garbage or exchanging heart-felt…	/r/seduction	02/12/20 12:01 AM
1	Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls. Yep. It has to be looked at for factors like falsification, dude's apparent mood, attractiveness, status, and experience level, and the girl's attractiveness and mood. It's all too easy to sell fake shovels to desperate dudes who will buy anything. If it can't be replicated, it's not real.	/r/seduction	01/12/20 11:44 PM
1	Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls. Absofuckinglutely. Analysis paralysis FTL. Get one's life, habits, hobbies, health, schedule, and fitness together. GTFO outside and talk to people like human beings not sex dolls (I get that shit directed at me from chicks a lot, and it feels cheap). You'd be surprised what a suit and a reverse interview of a hot barista, bartender, maitre'd, or shop owner for "business school" while maintaining a poker face and asking real questions can lead to: PAWG goods presenting, digits, and you know the …	/r/seduction	01/12/20 11:39 PM
1	Run from insecure women! Crazy vs. hot threshold. 😉	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:15 AM
2	Run from insecure women! And take the rubber with you.	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:14 AM
1	Run from insecure women! IMHO, there's a continuum of liability - useful (crazy + needy + drama + emergencies - skills) vs. relationship type vs. hot. Even for just slightly more than HIAQI, you don't want a too insecure or crazy woman because they can turn around and accuse you of a crime, steal property from you, manipulate some chump into white knighting, or a million other problems. Plus, the insecure ones tend to have all sorts of hangups, repression, fear, anxieties, cowardice, timidity, and an inability to commun…	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:12 AM
1	I asked the hot milf security guard at my work ALL women, married, bf, or not, love to be validated by being shown interest, be it hit-on, flirted-with, or complimented. ("Nice earrings" "You have the best style in this half of the building") I suggest doing the latter two more and not jumping directly to digits. After a good exchange, it's best to go with email even exchange. Remember to try to treat a woman more like a human being that you are interested in her for her specifically, and our bodies are like decorations we didn't get much sa…	/r/seduction	27/11/20 03:51 AM
1	Co-worker (F) at the grocery store There's always a way to get a couple of beers at 18 if they want to go that route. I never use it to lead to sex (too many risks), but I would use it to demonstrate resourcefulness and rule-breaking.	/r/seduction	27/11/20 03:40 AM
1	Co-worker (F) at the grocery store A couple I know met that way and had kids, even though she had a zillion orbiters as the "hot, shy girl." Laughing at your dumb jokes is a really good start. Watch her eyes and openness of posture. First, do something fun together against the rules.. use pallet jacks as scooters? frozen turkey bowling? soap and water on the floor and slide around dancing? (laughing and falling together without breaking anything is best) Then, within a day or two, instadate at work by suggesting grabbing a snack …	/r/seduction	27/11/20 03:33 AM
0	How do you deal with 10/10 looks arrogant stuck up bitches? There are two main archetypes they go for: Extremely compliant, conscientious, and "nice" (she eventually destroys these types because she gets so frustrated how unmanly he is, or she will always wear the pants) Hard-core badasses (she follows these types) The possible third option is to show you're immune to her charms by joking at her attempts or what she might attempt. High-confidence women who default to manipulation get so pissed when I don't just fall in-line or do what they want. 😂 Specia…	/r/seduction	27/11/20 03:02 AM
1	I hit a game winning three pointer at one of my high school basketball games. When someone came up to me and asked me about it, this random girl started telling them about how I hit the game winning shot. L Did you consent to this advertising? Otherwise, it sets a bad precedent in the interaction that she may seem like an employee but she's actually trying to "wear the pants" and control you. You gotta tell her what to do.	/r/seduction	27/11/20 02:58 AM
10	This post is for the “Nice guys” who can only seem to hear about the girl he likes complain about guys If a man doesn't initiate and close, he's automatically just a friend anyhow (which can be escaped but it's too much work, in most instances). Touch early, escalate gradually, and seal the deal before her time horizon on him closes forever. He can be "nice," timid and SoL, or be an "asshole" and breed her. Nature isn't fair or nice.	/r/seduction	27/11/20 02:54 AM