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Who says I'm not and what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:08 PM
0

I'm not going to change the subject to what you want to debate about just because you want to. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:13 PM
-4

Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:10 PM
-1

I'm not talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:12 PM
-2

Men's labor in courtship is hiding their true nature and being phony. Yes it is certainly a mountainous task to fleece a woman into marriage or whatever. The ritual itself is expensive. I haven't an ounce of sympathy nor desire to make it easier on them. I like that women are becoming more discerning and "no-bullshit".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:02 AM
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"Renfield...I don't care" - Dracula, Dead and Loving It
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:34 AM
0

And now the name calling. LOL are you playing along on purpose? This is what men always do: accuse, shift blame, nitpick, and then come the personal insults and threats. This right here is why women don't care about helping you. Go rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:20 PM
1

That's between them and God. I'm talking about the guy right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:18 PM
1

"That's the problem, you assume" -accusation. "You wonder why people don't come to you for aid" -accusation. "You think anybody is going to ask you for help if you bla bla bla" -passing blame Being nice to people isn't helping them. I have no tolerance for victimhood. If you ask me for help you're going to get what you get. Whining like you just did is a sure way to get nothing, besides maybe a middle finger. 🖕
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:41 PM
1

I would assume that anything added to that particular show is just there to be shocking and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:29 PM
1

You're doing it right now. Maybe stop that, and then people will assume good about you instead of bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:23 PM
1

Game of Thrones is insufferable. I don't mean like that. I'm saying nudity should be no big deal. Not shocking, not sexual, just a natural part of life, like how real life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:19 PM
3

I mean, unless a woman is opening her legs you don't really see the genitals. With males it's all out there. I have noticed that they even hide male animal genitals. Like, why? Completely nude bodies are common in classical art. I think it should be normalized in media, in normal healthy sexual contexts and non sexual contexts as well. Sex isn't immoral. Bodies aren't immoral. Making body parts taboo and hidden speaks of a perverse mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:21 PM
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They show full front and back female nudity, and full back nudity of males (butts). I am saying why not full front and back nudity of both sexes? Nudity is part of life and a flaccid peen just existing isn't sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:48 PM
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I don't mean in a sexualized way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:15 PM
4

Yes he is. And your scenario nothing to do with the post so I'm not going to engage with it. Get back on topic or don't respond again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:34 PM
12

We need more penises in movies. I've seen a hand full, in indie and foreign films mostly. American media is prudish and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:29 PM
3

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:23 PM
5

No but it's to be expected. Guy should have know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:01 PM
5

No one can help if you don't listen and all you do is make accusations and pass blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:00 PM
2

The guy is wrong to do that and the women are right to complain. I'm talking about your post about women not helping men in the way that the men apparently want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:59 PM
26

They want to have their bitching and moaning validated. If they actually got help it would get in the way of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:03 PM
21

That's because he said things that were offensive and completely inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:01 PM
23

You think that people are bullying you when they are just standing up for themselves or trying to get you to understand something. And nobody can help someone who refuses to help themselves. My message to men who need help: talk less and listen more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:00 PM
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I don't give a rat's ass and that's not even what I'm talking about. You're not going to mansplain to me my own lived experience, nor any other woman's. Now go waste someone else's time with your 🐂💩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:18 AM
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I am familiar with your user account. Go take your bullshit elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:15 AM
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I'm only going to say this once more so you'd better fucking listen this time: it has nothing to do with attractiveness. You are not a woman, you're not a woman who dates men. You should defer to people like me who actually know what the fuck they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:35 PM
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I'm not talking about women on rotation with fuckbois, am I. Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:28 PM
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Oh well. You chose your path.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:26 PM
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Even if that were true it wouldn't matter. All types of guys, all ages m, shapes, sizes and colors will do this. It's about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:24 PM
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I have ADD. Think I wasn't bullied? Grow the fuck up. You are not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:22 PM
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No they have options. They choose this behavior and it's predatory. They specifically target women and girls with low self esteem or less experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:20 PM
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Deny it an try to minimize it all you want, I know what I've experienced and so do countless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:18 PM
2

Them doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:16 PM
18

Men string women along A LOT and they use manipulation tactics to keep them, regardless of how attractive the women are. Some guys have almost a desperate need for validation from humiliating women (and others in general).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:14 AM
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Very inaccurate. Men will string certain women along and commit to others, sometimes even at the same time. There are numerous old timey slurs for men who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:12 AM
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You're talking about stuff that happened when you were a kid as if it's relevant to your life today. Are you being for real?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:25 PM
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People have tried and the result was some pretty severe child abuse perpetrated by the non-biological "parents" or whatever they'd be called.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:29 PM
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In what setting are you being hit where you can't press assault charges? Adults don't hit each other for laughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:12 PM
1

You are choosing to alienate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:14 PM
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I am saying you deserve whatever because of how you behave and your attitudes. Respect has to be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:12 PM
0

Why is it so hard to just not be a piece of crap? Just treat others asyou would have them treat you. No jestering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:28 PM
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Or you could try not alienating others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:28 PM
1

Nope. That's a fictional world that you believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:37 AM
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It's not crisis either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:31 AM
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That's his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:30 AM
1

Yes everyone is able to have sex (provided that they're physically able). Everyone is capable of finding a partner to marry and have kids with. In fact it's never been as easy and convenient thanks to the internet. I promise you, put yourself on the market, offer the things that the opposite sex wants, and someone will bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:35 AM
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There is no dating/mating crisis, anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:33 AM
1

Again, who's problem is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:31 AM
1

Any man can find a woman who prefers him if he wants to. That's the bottom line. The rest of what you said is neither here nor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:31 AM
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If anything women's standards are more lax than ever. Most women just want an equal partnership and men can't even provide that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:27 AM
1

Who's problem is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:18 PM
1

Irrelevant. These guys are trying to claim that they're involuntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:28 PM
0

I'm not talking about prehistory or the bronze age middle east where they have polygamy. In the modern west almost everyone gets married and has kids. Quot making excuses not to join the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:27 PM
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That's bullshit. Humans are made to fuck and reproduce. Some just choose not to. There's no such thing as luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:25 PM
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Different women are attracted to different types of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:23 PM
1

USA. Ages late 20's to mid 40's. Blue collar to middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:21 PM
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Most men aren't under 30. And most people over 30 are married. Quit being to zoomer-centric. You're just making excuses for your failure because you don't want to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:16 PM
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LOL don't whine at me. Funny enough you sound just like my one co worker who always bitches about his wife and daughter and then acts like a victim when his own poor choices come to bite him in the ass. Nobody hates you. You are not worth hating. Get over yourself cry baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:32 PM
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Statistically most men date, fuck, get married and have children. Every has to put themselves out there to get results, be it in dating, employment or making friends. You guys are here complaining about not getting any rewards when you're not even having a presence in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:30 PM
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I'm not coming from any position. I'm talking about real people. I even gave you examples like my co workers. You're just choosing to be ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:18 PM
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Do you not keep track of what you say in your own comments? I'm not showing shit for you and I don't have to do what you say. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:17 PM
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They don't have to be attractive or tall. They can be short, ugly, annoying, bad smelling and borderline retarded/crazy. Most of the guys I work with are all of the above and they are married. Why any woman would choose to be around them I have no clue. But it just goes to show that if you want a mate you can get one if you put yourself out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:59 PM
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I don't care what you're interested in. Men are not victims for not being chosen. Nobody is even thinking about you guys, and I guarantee nobody is treating you badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:55 PM
-1

There are women that you can pay for that service you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:53 PM
3

I've gotten gosted by dudes for that. A lot of men think dating is a free escort service.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:52 PM
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What "resources"? These guys don't have shit that anybody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:41 PM
2

Men need to become better partners then. Currently women are not seeing them as monogamy material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:40 PM
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We wouldn't have so many single mothers if men actually gave a damn about anything besides fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:39 PM
3

Women are treated as lesser just for being born female. It gets worse as they age or gain weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:37 PM
-3

If you're losing then obviously you're doing things wrong. Anyone can get a partner. The fact that so many abusive jerks, fuckups and morons have partners and offspring is proof of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:36 PM
1

Where do you live where hundreds of people are shouting at each other? Sounds like a place I'd like to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:21 PM
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Men's frustrations and desires are their own problem. Women are not responsible for them. And nowhere did I say "appease" women. I said treat them like regular human beings. Don't know why that's such a big ask for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:14 PM
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Women don't leave because of boredom or any of the silly reasons that men cite. They leave for serious reasons that the men refuse to acknowledge, such as emotional neglect, lack of respect, not listening, etc. The phenomenon you are witnessing is avoidance of accountability on the men's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:46 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:43 PM
0

Women's complaints are valid and men's aren't. Women want men who are not their partners to stop seeing them in a sexual way and to just treat them like normal people. There would be no problems between men and women if men would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:42 PM
0

Most men aren't attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:33 PM
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Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:05 PM
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If you don't want to be branded an immature catty bitch, then don't act like one. They literally used to dunk women in rivers for being shit stirrers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:25 PM
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Money can't buy class, or basic decency. I never claimed it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:23 PM
1

Let other people decide for themselves how to handle it or if it even needs handling. Ganging up is cowardly and people are just going to see you as someone that they shouldn't trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:30 PM
1

That's fine but don't try to turn your friends or associates against someone. Not only will it eventually backfire it's just low class behavior. I been there, done that and wouldn't recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:27 PM
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After numerous conversations offering empathy and understanding only to have it met with arguing and mansplaining, yeah I do. Psychologists have a name for when people don't actually want empathy and just want to be the victim so that they can emotionally manipulate. I can't remember the term for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:25 PM
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"Just agree with me, accept what I say unquestioningly, and take accountability/blame for all my problems"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:43 PM
5

"the social fabric", your"circles" 🙄 So you make your dislike of the person everyone else's problem too. Careful with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:30 PM
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They extend it to men that they associate with. Why should they have anything for strangers and men that they want nothing to do with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:27 PM
1

I feel like common sense should factor in at least a little bit. In this case you should probably listen to woman B and not the teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:13 PM
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Men don't care about women's hobbies either. They think our's are all stupid. I like fishing and rock climbing. Men who are also into fishing and rock climbing overlook me to get with the hot chick who's hobbies are decorating the house, and looking hot. "Physical attraction" you said it yourself. Dumb, impractical priorities. Her looks aren't going to pay the bills if you happen to lose your job or get hurt and she has to step up and support the household on just her income.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:04 PM
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She was probably also wanted by predators and pervs, as all women are basically from the time we hit puberty. That's nothing to envy BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:53 PM
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Most people, male and female, deal with those things as part of life. I don't know why men won't listen to women's experiences. It seems men are the ones willfully lacking empathy and understanding in this area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:49 PM
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It sounds like guys, at least in your circles, have dumb priorities. Pray tell what they actually do care about? Cause it doesn't sound like they care about who women are as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:41 PM
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That dude needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:08 PM
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Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:11 PM
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Whenever women's views contradict men's, we are lying apparently. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:08 PM
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Maybe you're lying 🤷‍♀️. That's your own problem and nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:08 PM
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Whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:06 PM
-2

It wasn't even women making those posts. It's all bots/teenagers/fetishists/Reddit employees. Remember what site you are on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:22 AM
1

What forums are these? I have frequent women's forums and relationship advice spaces for the last twenty years and I have NEVER seen height or penis size mentioned even once. There are a thousand things women talk about in these spaces. Men's physical attributes are not even a topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:18 AM
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Guys lie more. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:55 PM
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It probably wasn't false. Guys always take their buddies side over a woman's. Even if he's guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:26 PM
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Cause people's genitalia be hanging out in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:26 PM
2

Women don't need men to tell us how we look. We have eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:03 PM
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Six years and counting. It's very easy to let the years fly by. I understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:00 PM
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Women need to cover up more, just in general. Partnered women should listen and not have this "I do what I want and you're just insecure if it bothers you!" attitude. That's the attitude of a single person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:55 PM
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Men invented that tradition. It's called patriarchy. You should broaden your horizons and listen to all the women who say they prefer going Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:25 PM
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They don't get pushback from anybody except incels on the Internet, and I don't think they care, assuming that they'd even be aware of it. People are not hiding nor lying about their standards. Folks in the real world are simply not neurotic like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:24 PM
-1

Never get laid then. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 05:21 PM
-1

Nobody is using y'all for your money that you don't even have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:39 PM
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Not so much. People mostly self identify as incels, and then play the victim when people associate them with terrorists and those who want to strip women of human rights but that's a whole other conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 08:38 PM
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Cause they don't love you. Edit: they don't use you either. They want nothing to do with guys like you so what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:22 PM
1

She is smarter than y'all. Take notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:19 PM
-6

I seldom see women using that as an insult. Usually it's guys teasing each other calling each other "virgin", "gay", etc. You should ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:10 PM
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They're not doing that though. Nobody feels guilt for rejecting someone over looks, height or personality. It's not a morality issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:42 PM
0

That's not the point. They don't consider themselves undesirable, so why shouldn't they have high standards? Why would they try to hide them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:50 PM
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That's not logical at all. And I'm pretty sure that people with high standards don't consider themselves less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:45 PM
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It's good to have high standards. Why would anyone try to conceal it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:39 PM
2

Men are threatening women with violence. Every woman alive has had a guy do this. You don't even know one man who's been falsely accused of rape. But you probably know an actual rapist if we're looking at statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:46 PM
2

Nobody is falsely accusing guys of rape. Do you think women would willingly admit that they had physical contact with you guys? Men are the biggest threat to other men, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:38 PM
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Even women who don't get make attention don't value it very much. There's no problem to be solved. You're acting like women should value men's attention. Why? What does male attention add to a woman's life? As others are saying it's an unwelcome nuisance at best, intimidating and scary at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:46 PM
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Some men DO expect praise for it. They'll flat out threaten women with violence and then act like we should be thankful because they didn't actually commit the violence. Maybe you don't act like that but some guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:30 PM
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Stupid ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:27 AM
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Oh no I'm a bigot? 😱 Get lost that only works on boomers and zoomers with internalized guilt. I feel absolutely nothing about making you feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:24 AM
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I was asking why women should do a single goddamn thing in order benefit men. It was a rhetorical question. They shouldn't. Women shouldn't touch bi guys, or most straight guys either. Be selective ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:18 AM
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Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:59 AM
0

I'm cool with shit talking. I'll shit talk you back. But I'm not going to validate your predatory bullshit by explaining a goddam thing to you. Understand? Women shouldn't date bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:59 AM
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Okay I guess it bears saying: treat men and women as equals and treat all people as you would want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:50 AM
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You misquoted me on the first half. Don't be a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:47 AM
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I don't think women should date bi men. I don't need to explain anything to the likes of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:46 AM
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I didn't say that. Perverted old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:55 PM
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I tired stressed out brain misread a sentence. LOL sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:55 PM
3

Why should they? How would that benefit the women in any way? I just advise women and girls not to touch these guys, it's a lot simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:46 PM
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He refuses to answer that. Instead he goes "I'm asking what you think compassion means." Pointless post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:00 PM
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You're saying women need to do something then telling them it's their job to figure out what that is. Pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:59 PM
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No they don't. They literally just tell men to treat them as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:58 PM
4

Okay then stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:57 PM
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Can you imagine what these people's childhoods were like? Their parents must have lukewarm towards each other. Very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:55 PM
2

Countless men slander women over rejection too. They all do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:53 PM
2

You teach others how to treat you. Chad doesn't keep people around who don't treat him well. From my observation rapists and abusers don't really get very good treatment. The people around them are doormats and while they fear their partner, they don't respect them and they'll cheat and run around too. Toxic people end up in toxic relationships. I don't know what the rest of your post is trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:49 PM
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Then your post is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:37 PM
4

The world doesn't owe anyone sympathy or compassion. I don't know why you expect it. Cry to your mom or something, I'm sure she'll feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:35 PM
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They don't want empathy or compassion from us. They want us to agree with them and do what they want us to do, and take the blame for their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:33 PM
4

Talk about that stuff to your guy friends, not women. It's not like you guys ever listen to women's advice anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:32 PM
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Men don't need anything from women. It's not women's job to alleviate, acknowledge or respect men's dating problems. Nor vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:29 PM
2

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:36 PM
1

They're just being nice hoping that you'll get bored and go away. Nobody likes you. You're dumb if you think they're even pretending to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:57 PM
1

Never heard of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:54 PM
2

Nobody is pretending to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:52 PM
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98% of human beings are aggravating as fuck. Roughly half are male. So it's actually less than 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:50 PM
2

No we don't like when men try that. We either like a guy or we don't. We decide that, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:40 PM
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Most people hate other people's kids and only like their own. Most people dislike other human beings but they like their friends. Why wouldn't the same hold true for romantic partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:36 PM
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It's this way with every species of animal and humans are animals. The males initiate most things most of the time. Besides, men don't respect women who chase or who try too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:33 PM
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Men need to understand that yes, penises can hurt us. The equivalent conversation would be for a guy to tell a girl to be careful riding him because one time a girl landed wrong and it hurt his dick. There's probably a more sensitive way to go about explaining this but whatever. Everyone these days needs to get over themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:02 PM
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Your girl didn't do anything wrong. I can't tell you to not be ridiculous and insecure about this because it sounds like you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:28 PM
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Older women don't reminisce about having to deal with men and all their heartaches and disappointments. Unless they truly loved their husbands and they died rather than get divorced, most women are happy to forget that mess and pretend it never happened. Attractive women receive positive sexual attention more often than not. Unattractive women do still receive sexual attention, but it's negative. It can be degrading if not outright scary. Decentering men is about not falling for the fairy tale. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:19 PM
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Both sides should want a successful partner as a safety net while at the same time being your own safety net in case the relationship fails. That's just smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:08 PM
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Most feminists and progressives are PRO lgbt. That doesn't mean that they ARE lgbt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 06:00 PM
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I'm no progressive but I'm pretty sure straight women of all affiliations prefer to date and marry straight men. It's not more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:58 PM
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Human beings have sex when, how and with whom they want. Is that a foreign concept to you? And also nowhere in OPs story did he say if Jude asked this girl if she might like to hook up with him. You miss all the shots you don't take. That doesn't sound like you guys winning to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:53 PM
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Men have preferred bigger women since neolithic times. Obsession with thinness is a modern invention. Thanks, gay fashion designers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 05:42 PM
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Literally I can. Show me one thing in your life and I can tell you what corporate swamp it came out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:48 PM
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The shooting thing comes down to having lower blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:41 PM
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I literal grew up in Las Vegas since I waa a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:40 PM
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I would give the "Online friends are not real friends" anywhere online, and it would be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:07 PM
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Oh I'm not solely focusing on gaming. Trust me I have a lot to say but videogames are the topic of the post and one of my most disliked things in this world haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:04 PM
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Did you pay real money for your avatar?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:02 PM
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Videogames are uniquely addictive is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:59 PM
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People you knew from gaming or online are not really your friends. They're not going to hang out with you when you're in a crisis, they're not going to meet your parents, they're not going to help you move your furniture to you're new place, nor let you couch surf with them until you find one, they're not going to hook you up with a job prospect if you become unemployed, and they're not going to drink with you on New Year's Eve. They will forget your name as soon as they decide to play a differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:53 PM
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I spend most of my time on my phone because of work, either networking or answering emails. Looking for a way out honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:48 PM
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Women don't want to watch Netflix all day. Netflix is fuking garbage. Men love it though for some reason. Maybe I should have just said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:46 PM
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You misunderstood me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:41 PM
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It's complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:36 PM
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You're a doofus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:35 PM
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"I work on my feet all week I don't want to go on a hike this weekend. I don't want to go dancing or skate on the lake. I don't want to go to that concert or sports game. I don't want to play with the dog with you. Let's just watch TV and have sex all weekend." - every boyfriend I've ever had. 🙄 Meanwhile I work a very physical job in a warehouse and my feet and back hurt yet I still like to do ACTIVE activities and then have sex afterwards haha. Are men just lazy or are we meeting lazy people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:34 PM
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Take your bs elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:25 PM
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Most people should be spending most of the time on activities that produce something, nourishes us, builds us, builds those around us, helps us rest, ect. We shouldn't be escaping into vices every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:24 PM
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They pursue happiness with guys who can not offer that. Most men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:20 PM
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We're out there getting after it and you're not I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:17 PM
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I admit it directly. I hate videogames. I hate consumerism. I hate non productive hobbies that distract my partner away from me. I've had partners who were into martial arts, woodworking, building musical instruments and teaching music, writing, sports, sports coaching, things that built the self and sense of community. Videogame are isolating. They're actually worse than gambling because at least gambling contributes to the local economy and usually have to donate a portion to important causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:15 PM
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Oh women admit it. Why wouldn't we admit it? We tell guys to their faces that we hate that shit but they don't listen. Just like guts who tell women that they hate Tiktok trends but their girlfriends don't listen. Get you a gamer girl. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:10 PM
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I grew up as videogames and home computers were becoming mainstream and witnessed the culture shift towards consumerism and screen addiction. This was right about the time when people were stopping smoking, starting to eat healthier and exercise more and then BOOM! Don't believe me just look at how soft and doughy average boys and men are now. And most need to wear glasses all the time. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:05 PM
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I wouldn't call this a dopamine trap. Some days we learn practical information and other days we just hate ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:58 PM
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I know how dopamine works. I've studied how it works in the brain my whole life, given that I have problems with it due to how my brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:57 PM
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More power to those who got lucky and didn't give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:54 PM
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They are hoping to be the lucky few that don't end up disappointed. Hope is women's biggest downfall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:51 PM
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I wouldn't ever date a gamer, a gambler, a stoner or an alcoholic. I wouldn't give my own sons videogames. Hobbies and dopamine traps are not the same things. The equivalency for girls might be Tiktok and shopping. I would protect my daughters from those. I'm fine with closing doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:41 PM
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Happiness is an internal choice. If your videogames make you just as happy as someone you gave your physical body to, that's on you. And it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:38 PM
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You've never had a deep connection with a sexual partner if you think you're just as happy without them as with. That's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:28 PM
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More men are competing so it makes sense that more top competitors are men. Women have physiological advantages in shooting for example which is why I brought it up. Ultra endurance is fascinating on a lot of fronts. Humans are really REALLY good at endurance, better than nearly all other animals. Think of how many kids that could have been great were told in school "You're too fat to run. Try out for football" or "Sorry there's no girl's cross country team. Why not do volleyball?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:26 PM
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Lovers, spouses, friends and family members are always special. If you're willing to settle for just being used then sucks to be you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:23 PM
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Women are better marksmen. Women are closing the gap as endurance athletes and are projected to surpass men. There are quite a few sports where women excel over men due to physical differences that do not include height, arm span, physical power and speed. Calling either sex superior athletically absolutely is diminishing the accomplishments of the athletes like you said. Sexism is holding us back. As an anecdotal story I was in school track and they had absolutely abysmally loe expectations for…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:03 PM
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My blue pill experience: My first boyfriend and I were kinda like that. We were both in our early 30's, had some sexual experience but no serious relationships yet. Our personalities clicked because we had similar interests and I suppose we were willing to just give it a chance. I don't think either of us were attracted physically at first, but it grew. We both put in work, such as showering more, going to the gym and keeping the house tidier. The relationship didn't work out because we fought t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:51 PM
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Tell your therapist this stuff. This post is about making friends with dudes so that you're not as lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:32 PM
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There is no right way to approach women who don't want to be approached. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:16 PM
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You need to ask them the hard questions. I know a lot of men who complain a lot and act the victim, but have no good excuses for why they didn't fight for their kids. Listen to how they talk also. They talk about how bad their ex is, how much money it's costing them, but do they ever talk about the toll it's taking on the kid? It's blatantly obvious where these guys' priorities are. If you don't believe me ask an attorney that does these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:58 AM
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Sad LOL. Men fight wars over money and titles but 9/10 they don't even show up to custody hearings. Women are doing it all, finalizing the paperwork, and taking on responsibility. If men gave a shit about their offspring the world would be completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:13 AM
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Women don't choose to be single mothers. Men bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:58 AM
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I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:57 AM
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Thanks for mansplaining what I already know. Men change once they've been married and had kids. There's no way to predict it. Yes even the most educated, successful, intelligent men are pig ignorant when it comes to the female body or they think that they're ready to deal with being a husband and father when they're really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 11:57 PM
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That's not Disney nor what any normal people are saying. You made that up yourself. But hey if you don't want to learn how women work, by all means don't have them as friends. You sound like an anti-social complainer that they would probably try to help and quickly get exasperated with due to your negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:04 PM
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What is the Disney way? Make sure you're really in love before you commit? Don't be dishonest because that makes makes you the villain? What is inside matters more than what's outside? Be true to yourself? Seems like sage advice to me. BTW it's okay to have friends. The boys and men who are struggling for lack of role models are the ones who would really benefit from more friends especially of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:53 PM
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That's an unreasonable assumption. Why would they do that? What possible motivation could they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:32 PM
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I've been reading different articles and they don't explain how this is possible. Maybe some women have unusual anatomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:19 PM
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I would think that the pubic bone would not permit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:09 PM
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The clit is situated over the public bone. Normally the vag stretches the other way and if it tears it does so towards the anus. I don't see how it would be possible for it to stretch the other way with that bone in the way but now I'm going to have to look this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:08 PM
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I would hope HVM would be more intelligent and mature than that. It's not like there's a real difference between and virgin and a non.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:59 PM
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If it hurts you guys are doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:56 PM
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Why would a virgin woman want to get with a guy who has no morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:54 PM
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Women like a range of body types. Those celebrities you mentioned are at the upper limit to how much muscle I would prefer. None of us like bony scrawny dudes nor doughy dudes with child-bearing hips. All the men in my family are broad shouldered. I have those genes myself and have broader shoulders than most women. My torso is V shaped. It would look weird for me to get with a slender dude and our potential kids would come out looking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:06 PM
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OP you are a slut yourself and you admitted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:55 PM
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Men have stupid priorities according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:53 PM
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I don't think that's physically possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:45 PM
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It absolutely is men's fault. 100% of pregnancy are caused by men. If a man chooses to not be attracted to his wife after she gives him children then he's an ungrateful piece of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:43 PM
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Have lots of babies. Don't gain even one pound of weight. Don't look tired and ragged from lack of sleep. Tits are never allowed to sag. No loose skin from pregnant belly allowed! 6. Vagina must be fully healed and ready to go again within six weeks. Your male doctor said that's as long as it takes 7. Don't be emotional from hormones. It's all in your silly little head, just choose to be happy and in the mood to sex your husband as much as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:28 PM
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If it's not Timmy's fault that he's not doing what he should be doing, who's fault is it? It sucks to suck, I know. The alternative is not pretending to be someone you are not because a predatory ideological cult told you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:20 PM
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I like to think that I have good listening and observational skills. It's pretty easy to spot hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 07:22 PM
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And every person rich or poor has to deal with them. Middle and working class women don't think much of wealthy powerful men, I promise you that. And it's not because those men are unattainable it's because they make everybody's life objectively worse. You should hear what these women have to say on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:27 AM
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It's not a power move dude. This is not a competition. Women don't want attention from men just for the heck of it. They want acknowledgement and love from their partners, mutual support from friends and relatives, and basic respect from the general population. If a woman wants male attention in ANY OTHER CONTEXT it is because she's selling something. Also, a lot of men think that women are seeking attention when they are not. Existing in public and looking pretty is not a solicitation for atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:09 PM
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No. You think having a supportive family that you get along with is a power move?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:06 PM
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Oh we're fine. Men are the ones who got their feelings hurt by this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:43 PM
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Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:42 PM
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That's another thing we don't need them for. You should look up the stats on women who have never orgasmed with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:42 PM
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No they haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:41 PM
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Danny Devito apparently has a legendary schlong LOL. And doesn't he have a wife and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:40 PM
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Family support, friends and connections, lack of debt, steady employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:36 PM
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Oh well. We have to survive. Feelings take the back seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:35 PM
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There is sound logic to misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:26 AM
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Really? They let me have them? Well damn I've been paying bills all my life like a sucker!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 06:23 AM
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The man who marries and has lots of children on his woman is the winner. The Chad who pulls lots of women and keeps none may as well just be masturbating with another person in the room because that's essentially what casual sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:42 PM
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An astounding number of men think that women were saying that they'd rather date the bear, or that women would rather get eaten by a bear than date a man. They flunked this test of logic. I'd just let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:39 PM
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We'll either get what we want or go without. Might as well shoot for exactly what we want and nothing else/less.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:59 PM
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Listen to women when they tell you that they prefer to go dutch. It's more common than you think. Also some men like to pay for dates. That's not patriarchy, it's called "being nice". I don't know what point you're trying to argue here. If men want women's time, sex and companionship then they need to offer what women want. The men who don't measure up don't get. Women are literally leaving these men the hell alone. That's the opposite of entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:33 PM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:28 PM
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How is it ironic? Men can do as they please and women can do the same. It doesn't need to be impactful. It's not schtick. Women don't want patriarchy, women want men to bring something meaningful to the relationship, to pull their own weight and not make life harder, and if they can't do that well they can stay on the shelf.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:48 PM
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The "Nice guys" are just worse at it. And they can't take rejection. I don't think that women are as selfish and manipulative in relationships as men generally are, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:17 PM
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Women also do not care if men aren't interested in them. In fact it would make our lives a lot less stressful if they weren't. Please go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:08 PM
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He wasn't an asshole at the start. Don't you understand how manipulators (which most men are) operate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:07 PM
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What the hell are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:06 PM
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Yeah and then they eventually break up or divorce the guy and/or stop sleeping with him. Turns out it's not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:42 PM
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That's because of proximity. They're all threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:40 PM
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It's not bitter nor hatred. It's indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:12 PM
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They're introverted. There's your answer. You'll never get a job if you don't network and submit applications.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:07 PM
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Women aren't pushing for patriarchy. We got our bag and are walking away from men altogether. We don't need you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:03 PM
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Just because your dad beat your mom doesn't mean that everyone has that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:02 PM
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Speaking of divorced, that's your relationship with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:17 PM
1

That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 01:16 PM
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I said women have generally never had a choice when it comes to being taken by powerful men. I never specified "actual" rape although that happens a lot and is not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:17 AM
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She probably will at some point. He's been through a few wives. It's almost like he's a normal person and the power didn't really make much difference to the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:14 AM
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Something something 1 in 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:13 AM
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Not necessarily. Look, everyone is an uggo to someone and everyone is beautiful to someone. I mean just look at how fashion and architecture change constantly. There is no consensus on what is ugly and what is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:11 AM
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outside of rape You're not a history student I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:08 AM
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Not only are children entitled to parental care, they are entitled to a family. They need a mother and father figure, other children, elders, and extended family in order to develop properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:47 AM
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No, the ones that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:40 AM
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Women date, marry and have children with uggos too, a lot. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:39 AM
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You assume those women had a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:38 AM
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No they don't, they just don't want you, for whatever reason or none in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:41 AM
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There's a problem with that data: there's no way to measure attractiveness because it's 100% subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:40 AM
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That's your perception, not their's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:39 AM
1

Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:31 AM
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That pandemic turned so many people into lazy materialistic slobs! It makes me wonder if that's why gen Z are so vain and particular about things. I think they're trying to find balance between being chronically online which is a millennial thing and having real lives outside. Maybe dating apps will fall out of favor with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:25 AM
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Women are not attracted to power. Power is men's obsession. Women are attracted to safety and security, real or perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:19 AM
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Women don't think in terms of levels and there's no such thing as looks match. That's just not how humans work. Thank God.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:18 AM
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Having a successful partner is practical and men would be smarter if they cared about that more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:04 PM
1

In that case looks are even less important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 10:57 PM
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Financial risks. She would face homelessness if she were to leave. They have kids together. All kinds of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:21 PM
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Why is this any concern of your's?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:18 PM
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I don't have a premise. I stated my preferences. Now kindly get wrecked before I report.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 10:05 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:20 PM
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Don't bother strangers, it's annoying at best. Be honest with your intentions and don't pretend to be someone's friend just to get something from them. Where's the conflict between these two statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:35 PM
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If they want a partner they'll have to settle for what they can get. Everyone does. I won't date men who have fathered children, regardless of custody situation or whether they ever see the kid. I'm fine with not having a partner if that's the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:40 PM
1

You must live in a better looking area than me haha! Lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 11:05 PM
1

It's pathetic not to have a social circle. People who have to use apps are still single for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:09 PM
1

That's kind of pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:37 PM
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I'm not even talking about him and I don't care what he does. I'm talking about what women prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:36 PM
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You keep bringing up women, not me. I stand by what I said. Men on dating apps are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:35 PM
1

Have you seen these profiles lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:33 PM
1

Are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:24 PM
1

I don't care dude. I'm not talking about that, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:23 PM
2

I've only ever used Match and they only show you the gender that you select in your settings. I'm not a lesbian, so. What's your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:31 PM
1

There's married dudes on there trying to hook up. It's a shit show. My advice to normal guys would be to avoid online dating at least the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:28 PM
6

That's really silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:25 PM
2

Okay. What do you want me to do with that information?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:24 PM
5

Okay well the only other option is do nothing and get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:52 PM
1

I have no idea. I've never looked at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:52 PM
1

I have yet to encounter that. These guys just want a quick hook up with the least amount of effort. That's extremely unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:51 PM
3

Women have always been in the workforce. I don't think these guys paid attention in history class.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:49 PM
3

Women are not causing problems for men. Women are literally trying to avoid men as much as possible. You even outlined it in your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:47 PM
3

Is it necessary to try and rationalize this? Men pass blame onto women for all of their problems. Always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:37 PM
2

Women manage their time better and are less lazy than men, on average. Guys who make time and put forth effort to socialize have lots of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:36 PM
3

Women aren't the problem. They just don't like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:10 PM
3

Through mutual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:01 PM
6

If you don't know someone how do you know you like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:00 PM
2

Hiking club would be a good place to get to know women and become acquainted. That's the first step. Other places might be parties and social events. I don't think most women like being "hit on".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:55 PM
0

Just a side note: there are no "decent-to-attractive" men on dating apps. That's why they're on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:50 PM
-1

Men are inherently disloyal when it comes to sex at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:18 PM
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No they're really not. Normal humans don't act the way you're describing. I don't think you spend much time offline around real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:54 PM
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I offered a rebuttal AND some personal advice. If it's not good enough for you that's not my problem. Get good or fail. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 08:53 PM
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Quit trying to avoid accountability. 99% of men and women both date who they want as often as they want. You incels are a tiny, vocal, minority. Women don't chase men because it's not the gender role. Women make themselves available to men they are interested in, and the men chase them. Maybe if you understood this you'd get more dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:08 PM
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No the behavior is different. I saw it when I lived in a trailer park vs. the suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:06 PM
1

Most single men who bother to date, date multiple women at once and then go steady with just one, and then it either becomes serious or they break ot off after awhile. This is normal human courtship and it hasn't ever changed. Women don't chase men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:15 PM
1

What country are you from where people change partners week to week? Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:13 PM
1

I don't know where you get this from. That is not what I've observed in reality, except maybe in some really bad ghetto or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 07:12 PM
1

In the early stages of dating, yes. The women are seeing other men too, BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:15 AM
1

Most people in the dating stage are dating more than one person at least at the beginning. Men and women. That site exists so that women who want to move beyond that stage can figure out if their guy is on the same page as them. It would be nice if people could just be honest and communicate about this stuff but, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:14 AM
0

That's not sharing, that's just casual sex. Most people don't spend their lives doing that and are monogamous for the majority of their sex-having years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:11 AM
12

Women are not "sharing" on a widespread level. Nor would they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 05:54 PM
5

If you like paying for dates then do so and if you don't like it, don't. Am I missing something here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:40 PM
1

It depends. I would say that cooking a special meal for your boyfriend or girlfriend is a loving gesture. But heating up his TV dinner every night and packing his lunch is wife duty. Girlfriends shouldn't be doing housewife stuff. I had a friend out of high school who would do her boyfriend's laundry and clean his apartment for him. They didn't live together yet. Drove me bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:32 PM
4

Young conservative people (men and women) are having the most sex, relationships, and marriages. Conservatives are the majority of the developed world. They are the majority of people having kids. So I don't know where you get the notion that they're social pariahs or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:00 PM
1

Going to meet up with someone you only know through social media is a really bad idea. And no, I don't know anybody who does that. People meet each other in person first and then add each other online, if they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:58 PM
1

That's how it is though. The guys are just there playing too. Or trying to hook up/cheat/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:41 PM
2

Dating apps are 100% strangers cold approaching. Women by and large don't prefer that. Women prefer to date men we are acquainted with in real life. Think about it, do you have any close friends who you met online? Not likely. That's just not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:35 PM
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Most kids don't have absentee fathers. Their mother and father are married. 🤷‍♀️ My point was that women have the choice of not having to deal with children and sark triad men, and more and more are going that route.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:19 PM
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Abortion kills 0 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:53 PM
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The falling birth rates thing kinda proves that false.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:48 PM
1

You attract lousy people, sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:45 PM
1

Deal with the feelings and let it go, or leave the friendship. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:28 PM
-3

Yeah going the confession route is wrong. Both parties should be feeling the chemistry and showing signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:09 PM
1

Women don't assume the guy had ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:08 PM
-5

Women don't do that. And yeah no duh, people like who they like. I'm saying if she didn't even like the guy as a friend it's less likely that she'll ever like him any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:07 PM
3

Women are saying you shouldn't be friends with an ulterior motive. The men who women like started off as 100% platonic friends and then the interest/attraction grew between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:39 PM
1

Guy, IDK what you're talking about. And I don't care. Do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:35 PM
1

Your dad should have said this more to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:31 AM
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You only need a utility bill showing your residence. No ID or social security number is required to get welfare. Why do you think it's right of fair for people to come in who can't stand on their own two feet and take resources? Is it America's job to support the whole world?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:51 PM
1

Your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:40 PM
1

There were no lies. She caught him on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:31 PM
0

Do you have autism or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:23 PM
1

The only thing we've found out is that America puts money first and workers last.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:22 PM
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Die alone then. I already told you that. Women are not responsible for your feelings and trying to hold them accountable just shows how twisted you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:19 PM
2

My statement is correct. Learn how to be a human please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:18 PM
1

All that shit you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:17 PM
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Women don't complain about size. Quite the opposite. Men are insecure about their dicks and that's what this whole thing is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:12 PM
0

Because we're human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:10 PM
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They choose that path. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:10 PM
1

The world needs to learn to respect workers. The customer is not always right. She did a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:09 PM
1

Instead of listening to politicians, try talking to some undocumented. You are dead wrong about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:06 PM
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The only one who thinks it's settling is you. You are choosing to be unhappy. That's your problem. Other men feel differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:05 PM
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K well die alone I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:03 PM
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That's a stupid thing to get hung up about. She's with the guy now and that's all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:02 PM
1

It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:02 PM
-1

I picked a side. The driver was 100% in the right. Quit being a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:01 PM
-4

She was doing her job. And she reported a piece if shit to law enforcement and shamed him socially. She did the right thing. Every driver should be like her and the court should rule in her favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:01 PM
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Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:59 PM
1

They don't have to follow those instructions and they frequently don't. Delivery drivers show up in random places. Have you ever ordered food in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:59 PM
1

It's funny that people think those instructions are ever followed. Half these drivers don't even speak English.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:58 PM
-1

No I'm just an adult in the work world. You guys are the ones who sound like kids. "The instructions said put it outside" yeah that's not how it works. Delivery drivers do whatever and half of them don't even understand the English language. You don't order them to come to your house and then lay there naked with the door open. Some of you need basic life lessons I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:56 PM
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Men are the only people who complain about penis size. You guys go so far as to make statues with small ones so no one feels insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:57 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:53 AM
1

Stop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:53 AM
1

Because his door was open and she was looking for payment. Helloo?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:51 AM
-2

Step 1 when you order delivery: be awake Step 2: don't be naked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:49 AM
0

You are not the victim. My apartment complex had an old lady who does that. Nobody wants to see you. If you have delivery coming be intelligent and put clothes on because they might need to talk to you if there's a problem with the order.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:48 AM
-1

Because that's her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:45 AM
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I order delivery a few times a year. When I do, I don't pass out naked until AFTER they have brought my food and left. It's called not being a retarded animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:44 AM
-2

Do what you want and see how that works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:42 AM
-2

She didn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:41 AM
-3

Again, no critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:08 AM
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You don't understand women's anatomy or how they think. And women were definitely getting it on left and right in the 1950's, ask your grandma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:03 AM
-1

That's not how that works. And yeah, they do it all the time. They stand naked near windows and open doors and coax people to look in. Have you ever had a job that did deliveries or house calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:02 AM
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It's sad that you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:51 PM
-8

Let's not treat a grown man like a helpless child who doesn't know what they're doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:50 PM
-24

It's pretty sad how little critical thinking some Redditors have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:49 PM
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If you have to "play" then you weren't all that great to begin with. I'm sorry your love life is so phony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:22 PM
-33

Hopefully she gets the charges dropped or dismissed or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:21 PM
-3

It's in the story. Hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:21 PM
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Men didn't have small dicks in your dad's day? Sorry...LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 11:19 PM
-4

Yep and even when women do get evidence, like this case, it's turned around on them. So many cases of this and of women being prosecuted for physically defending themselves against the attacker. The justice system favors criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:30 PM
-42

Actually he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:28 PM
-15

Because he flashed her and she wanted proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:28 PM
-6

If you leave your door any level of ajar whilst half naked and expecting someone to knock at saud door, it'd better be the milkman. She wasn't in the wrong. I'm interested to know who the guy was. Sounds like typical sex offender shit that happens in the neighborhood I used to deliver at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:28 PM
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That's just an excuse to psych yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:17 PM
1

I did not. Re-read the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:16 PM
6

That's not female sexuality, that's just manosphere misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:18 PM
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Again, who cares? That's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:58 PM
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It's institutional. It's all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:57 PM
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Okay but seriously, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:40 PM
6

If you're talking about exploitation or violent porn or something then that's a different matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:25 PM
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Men cover for their buddies who are rapists and pedophiles. They allow crimes to go unpunished unless their hands are absolutely forced. I see it all over the world, all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 03:17 PM
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I don't think Asians give a fuck about stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:49 PM
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I never see men calling other men out for literally everything. There's a bro code or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:48 PM
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Men can and do go passport bro. Nobody is stopping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:47 PM
1

If they're trying to get pregnant, maybe. Most women throughout history and today avoid sex on those days specifically to avoid getting pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:47 PM
0

Why even be stressed about this? Learn what your lady likes, ask her what the guy did that was so awesome, and then do that. Don't be a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:43 PM
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Why don't men call out other men who fetishize Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:41 PM
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We DO call those women predatory. We even warn dudes that these women might just be after citizenship and/his money. We warn these dudes that Eastern women are not as submissive as they think, and that her family is going to have very strict and traditional expectations of him. Do these guys listen? IDK. And it's also not hypocritical if Western women don't want to date Asian men LOL. Where are you coming from OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:36 PM
0

Women do not lie about sex, this ain't the 1600's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:28 PM
0

What a load of crap! Women mostly have sex in relationships and we're not out there hunting men down for sex just because we're horny or ovulating. Real people don't do this. Good grief!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:28 PM
1

No, you said women who say they won't fuck that guy are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:26 PM
4

Maybe it's a skill issue on your part. Woman A will fuck that hot sinner guy because he's hot. Woman B won't, because for her the sin part is a turn off. You think that woman B is bullshitting because of what you see woman A. doing. The flaw lies in your logic, not the women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:25 PM
9

Feminism advocates that women celebrate their cycles and embrace their natural sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:17 PM
2

*this comment is based on a true story. Not your's, but a story nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:16 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:47 PM
2

I went to a parochial school and feminism was a bad word there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:45 PM
2

I'm pretty sure baby murderers go to prison if they are caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:12 PM
-3

*Impotent rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:11 PM
0

"Feminism made me/men do it!" - this post in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:29 PM
8

No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:27 PM
5

We know why some women are more afraid of men than bears and we know why some men feel entitled to dominate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:26 PM
-1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:15 PM
-1

Name one advantage women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:15 PM
7

If they had been told "No. Stop talking" more often maybe they wouldn't become such spoiled entitled adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:15 PM
4

Average men aren't loveless NEETs. Average men have had a few relationships, eventually get married and start families. The guys you're talking about are a small minority of below average men who haven't figured out a way to compensate for being below average. Remember that below average men get pussy too. Bottom of the barrel men get laid all the time. They even get married and make bottom of the barrel kids. You're trying to normalize a specific set of personal issues and deflect blame. Trust …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 08:05 PM
1

Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:55 PM
1

Not necessarily. Fat people pair up too. He has to offer what she wants and only she knows what that is. Men think that fat women are easy targets. They are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:35 PM
1

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:34 PM
0

300lb women don't want these raggedy dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:08 PM
1

Toxic people are usually very adept at acting nice. They fool a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:58 PM
4

If I'm gonna fuck someone they need to be fuckable. That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:54 PM
-1

Personality and looks mattered all along. Just not as much for hookups. Nothing ever changed and it's just a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:24 PM
-6

If he's not assertive or attractive, what exactly makes him good?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:15 PM
3

Niceness is the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:21 PM
8

I DO get to dictate who I invite into my life. If his priorities don't align with mine, he can keep walking. That's not me controlling him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:05 PM
8

These guys should receive scorn because their priorities are out of whack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:45 PM
-8

If men aren't willing to lift a finger to fight for these issues why should women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:03 PM
-4

Body shaming men is accepted because men accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:44 PM
4

Because those guys are toxic and annoying. I think they thrive on the negative attention. This is why I never go after people's looks. It's a cheap shot and it also gives them an excuse to not look inwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:39 PM
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Women live decades of their lives alone and they carry on and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:05 PM
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Women aren't like men and are smart enough to not be obsessed with sex I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:02 PM
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Are they actually working hard or just filling all their time with menial work?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 01:58 PM
1

It's not smart it's just cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:47 PM
1

If they don't ever want a family that's fine I guess. Be selfish if you want, it's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:43 PM
0

No feelings are involved here. I just stated some true facts. If you think the truth looks racist, well...oh fucking well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:41 PM
1

Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:39 PM
1

Because if you don't fight that's pathetic and you're guaranteed to lose. Who wants to be a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:39 PM
1

Chad is well rounded. That's how he got to be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:38 PM
1

They have no fear and know that they won't be deported. They all commit welfare fraud, among other crimes. Most are involved with gangs. Tons are sex offenders. You must not live in a sanctuary city, or a poor area of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:37 PM
1

You and your aunt don't live in the barrio.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:20 AM
3

I have done research and that's not true at all. The biggest deterrent to crime is being in a wealthy, high trust community. Incidentally the schools in those neighborhoods also perform better. Guess why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:19 AM
-1

I think it's just a matter of not wanting to grow up and face life as an adult actually. Young men used to like to drive fast cars (and many still do) and it has always been expensive, dangerous and kinda impractical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:17 AM
2

I said nothing about hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:15 AM
1

If you don't want to get divorced, then don't get divorced. Stay married and don't piss off your spouse. I'm not saying it's easy but it is that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:13 AM
-1

Scuse me? Um...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 01:12 AM
-2

How does it get "taken away"? Anyone could have their life ruined by a car accident at any moment. We still drive every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:37 PM
-2

Yeah but, the Christians don't steal my job, or my bike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:35 PM
-2

Which one would you rather have as a neighbor? Be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:34 PM
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We're not victims. We are tax payers, workers and have families that we are responsible for. We're tired of being called victims by the left, and made into actual victims of crime because of leftist policies that favor criminals. Hope that cleared some things up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:32 PM
-8

That's the wrong way to be looking at life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:12 PM
-10

They want instant rewards and don't care about being well rounded men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:11 PM
-3

Flashforward to today: all my friends from HS and college who worked super hard actually have something to show for it now. And the ones who didn't, don't, and are now falling through the cracks as things get harder for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:06 PM
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Why are you telling me to wake up when you're the one not seeing this problem? I'm telling you about it. If you're just going to dismiss me then there's no conversation to be had.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:51 PM
0

You shouldn't be in this sub then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:41 PM
0

Reality, not Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:40 PM
0

Okay, so what do you have to back it up? Otherwise you're just sexually harassing them. Piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:40 PM
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The guys who do volunteering and crap like that end up being the biggest phonies of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:39 PM
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Make more guy friends and acquaintances in the 29-55 age range and you'll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:38 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:36 PM
-1

Men don't respect women who approach. It's seen a desperate or slutty. I don't expect that to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:49 PM
6

Better have something to back up those accusations towards the other user, bub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:43 PM
2

Why are you dating around if you have a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:42 PM
0

Then have some face to face interactions you guys geeze this ain't complicated! I'll even help you: stop yelling at women to "choose better". We all know that really means "choose me". And I know that y'all have an illegitimate kid somewhere that you never bother to see, or you see them once every three years and post pictures of it on your social media and dating profiles acting like you're the world's best dad. Almost every guy in my generation has done this. None of you are "better" so what a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:39 PM
3

This comment section got political FAST. Note to self: "Never bring up France."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:32 PM
1

None of your essay has anything to do with what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:09 PM
1

Women go for the best they can get because they CAN. Apparently men don't mind wrinkles after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:06 PM
2

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:22 AM
1

That's what we had originally in places like Reddit. This site is a dark corner of the world where stuff like that used to proliferate. Please don't play dumb with me right now, I'm not in the mood. You know very well that it's not about censoring opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:03 PM
1

They were/are spreading it in those spaces and making things a million times worse. What started out as a semi-joke has cost real human lives and gotten the defense department involved. That's why they get shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 10:29 PM
0

You think men should have spaces where they ramp up the bigotry and encourage each other to commit violence? Sorry but no group is allowed to have that, if it can be prevented.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:11 PM
6

Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:12 PM
1

No idea what you're talking about and it has nothing to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:11 PM
2

Explain to me why you're pro-rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:31 PM
4

No clue what you're talking about there and I don't really care either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:17 PM
1

Okay? Live with your sinful thoughts then. Just don't make them our problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:16 PM
4

No clue what you're talking about. I do not espouse red pill/conservative/etc. beliefs. I am against girls getting hurt and their time wasted by creepy, worthless, predatory losers and I always will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:14 PM
1

You should be able to see a body in its natural form without turning into an instinct-driven animal. You have a frontal lobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:53 PM
4

A 20 year old getting with an 18 year old is sus under most circumstances. You should probably leave women alone altogether dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:49 PM
8

Oh, they don't stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:46 PM
3

In terms of molesting boys or just in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:22 PM
7

I didn't even say anything close to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:21 PM
2

I and others are going to shame the hell out of them and make them social outcasts, and there's nothing you can do to stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:19 PM
12

Yep. 18 year old males have been known to go after girls 15 and younger. Every one of them will try it if they can. We were all warned about this growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:26 PM
5

There's no reason to be having sex if a serious relationship isn't on the table. 24 year old man should already have a serious girlfriend or fiance at the very least. Why is he hanging out with highschool girls? Cause he's a piece of 💩 and women his ownage don't want him, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:25 PM
13

They know male nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:11 PM
1

Conventional wisdom and science show that is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:09 PM
9

18 year old is still highschool and a 24 year old could already have a college degree and a career. There's a power imbalance there. Think back to how immature and naive you were at 18 vs. 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 04:07 PM
-1

Men's only spaces like where? Bohemian Grove? Boy Scouts? The Catholic Church? Think for a moment why people might want those things shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:50 PM
2

Why are men so lazy? All relationships have demands and you do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:46 PM
1

Women will always win because men really are like they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:45 PM
1

It's the topic of the post (fucking). And no, autistics are not victims. But that mentality is a good example of what I'm talking about. The world isn't responsible for making people happy. It is 100% on each of us to figure that out for ourselves. Everybody struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:56 PM
2

As long as the men are not aggressive/predatory, or abandoning their children then I don't think women care what men do. We don't want y'all either LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:27 PM
0

You're not victims just because nobody wants to fuck you guys. Good Lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:25 PM
1

Everybody is born dead weight. What we become is our choice. Get better and do better. Or else don't bother being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:23 PM
2

It's pointless to be angry at something you can't change and is nobody's fault. With these guys in particular, I suspect, that 99.9% of the time it is something they could change that's holding them back. Short ugly people pass on short ugly genes all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:21 PM
3

Yeah. I did. Did you ever take an English or literature class?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 08:18 PM
1

Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:45 PM
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LOL treat people like what? What did I do? I'm not going to continue fucking someone I've lost attraction to if that's what you mean. Oh how awful of me!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:14 PM
3

What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:10 PM
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Well it is too much to ask me, and it might be to others. As I said I'm not the guy's therapist and he'd better have his shit together before coming to me, or it will be a big turn-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:10 PM
1

I have no clue what you just asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:49 PM
0

There's a reason for that. Women are responsible for fixing men's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:30 PM
0

Well you see there's the self, and you develop it. Therapy, books, networking and finding good role models can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:28 PM
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If you'd but read their comments throughout the comment section they explained that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:27 PM
5

It depends on the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:23 PM
0

Self-development.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:23 PM
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If my partner got scared at any point I would stop the show and that would be it. I'm not their therapist. What's with this idea that a sexual partner is supposed to be a therapist, a friend, a teacher, a coach, a parent, etc.? Miss me with that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:14 PM
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No, they're not saying anything about that. You're goddamn stupid or a troll. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:12 PM
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I'm not the one that made the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:11 PM
1

No that is not the point of the post at all and nowhere did they say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:52 PM
2

No one is trying to dictate feelings. Nevertheless their anger is not justified and they're just being a little bitch. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:51 PM
1

It's not a bad reason. Whatever reason someone has to reject another person is always 100% perfectly justified. Even "I'm just not into this, there's no reason why" is perfectly valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:28 PM
-3

They didn't compare women to God. You misunderstood the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:27 PM
0

The post isn't about divorce so that's irrelevant, although I disagree with what you said. OP isn't talking about women's nature, only nature in a general sense. Women are not the reason that men fail. Men fail because of men, but they like to blame women for it and then get mad. Perhaps they should be looking inwards. Just my suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:26 PM
2

You either succeed or you fail. Doesn't matter how much you tried. These guys are failures and have to recon with that. Getting mad at the world is just pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:19 PM
2

What do you mean "women don't want to give him this thing for a bad reason"? He's bad? Well, he should be mad at himself for being bad then, not the women. Expecting them to change their values and desires for his sake is not legitimate, logical or reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:16 PM
1

That's not a sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:58 PM
0

They're mad at everything except the one thing they should be mad at: themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:58 PM
4

Violence is considered a negative trait for a reason. Women choosing to leave men alone isn't a negative. It is neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:56 PM
3

Men are equally if not more selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:53 PM
5

His anger is not rational and there's no logical reason that anyone SHOULD be attracted to him, be he tall or short. Having people want you is a privilege not a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:50 PM
-3

The women are monkeys too in the analogy, you dumb apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:48 PM
4

IRL as well. You will never see a woman insulting a random man's appearance in public. But men do it to women frequently and aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:47 PM
0

Men definitely do that. Unlike men, women don't continue to act like they did in middle school for their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:46 PM
7

Not women's nature, just nature. Would you willingly marry some inbred who's teeth are sticking out of her face? No you would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:40 PM
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So it's "the Internet" vs. you. I'm going to side with the Internet because it has eons of history to back it up. Money doesn't just help win mates it makes everything in life run smoother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:24 PM
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They don't. Women with high body counts do not care what men or anybody thinks, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:16 PM
1

WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:14 PM
1

Oh okay. I glossed over that part I guess because nothing like that exists in reality. And I don't understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:51 PM
7

Correct. Their shittiness has no bearing on the cheating partner's decision to cheat. Sorry you don't understand the basic concept of accountability. Actually you would fall right in line with things I've heard some dumbass pastors say about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:51 PM
0

What millionaire? Did you reply the the wrong person? The porn actor is the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:50 PM
7

Nope, only the cheater. Their actions are 100% their responsibility and their's alone. I think you know this so may as well stop playing devil's advocate. You're not very good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:01 PM
1

You're not damned if you do and damned if you don't. You're only damned if you don't try. Approach who you think might like you, and you'll find someone eventually. That's how literally everyone makes connections in life. Have you guys ever had a friend, job, girlfriend, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:48 PM
10

If you cheat then you're not great, you are in fact shit and always were. Dems da facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:46 PM
1

K. That's still the only way to do it. So I don't understand why you're asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:07 PM
1

You have to shoot your shot and see how she responds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:59 PM
2

K well it's not women's job to train men in how to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:58 PM
1

But there's a victim in the situation. He's getting off while doing the victimizing. It's not a fantasy anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:46 PM
-1

If my jujitsu opponent tells me they're nervous I'm going to destroy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 05:43 PM
6

Perhaps that's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:37 PM
1

You are wrong, and slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:36 PM
1

Yes and?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:28 PM
1

You're just a low effort troll. Can't even compose an intelligent sounding post that is believable. Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:19 PM
1

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:10 PM
-1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:43 PM
2

18 isn't fully grown yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:31 PM
5

That's the delusion they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:04 PM
5

It's not a fantasy is it, if the man is paying to look at actual 18 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:58 PM
-4

Those emotions are his problem and he should keep them to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:52 PM
1

Hotness serves no purpose. You have to be strong in this world or else you won't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:51 PM
1

This topic has been posted on average once every two weeks and it gets soundly debunked every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:50 PM
0

Women from other countries don't need you either, they need citizenship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:49 PM
2

Approach women who you think might like you until you find ones that do. That's how you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 01:48 PM
1

Rape isn't the default in humans either but female orgasms are so there must be a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:57 PM
1

Female orgasms evolved to help them pick out the males that are the most invested. It also helps us to, you know, actually want to have sex in the first place. Coercion is a cheat strategy that any species can employ. Rape is the most convenient way to make babies. Cannibalism is the most convenient way to get calories. Yet these are not the default behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:33 PM
2

No. Because it's legitimately stressful. But women are willing to deal with stress from relationships because the alternative is isolation. Women have always been the more social sex. Having a family is more stressful than being alone but women are the backbone of families and always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:19 PM
1

Humans are the opposite of those bullet points and consequently our mating practices are more complicated than any other animal's. So complicated that we can't even cone to a consensus. If only our babies didn't have such big heads and take forever to grow up haha. Edit: that's not to imply that sexual coercion is favorable. But at least we could be like penguins or something and just pick a mate for life. Or be promiscuous like monkeys. It would be less stressful. IDK what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:14 PM
3

I've never heard it ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:12 PM
9

Your flair says man so I don't know how you could know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:11 PM
1

Almost any species COULD do this. Why don't roosters boss the hens around? Why don't male grizzlies dominate female grizzlies? Why aren't bull elephants the leaders of the herd while the matriarchs are? It seems that in nature there's more to it than force.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:32 PM
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Great, apologize. Again, we don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:44 PM
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Maybe you should quit acting up. The only one up in their feelings here is you. We don't understand or care why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:41 PM
2

Not all women have options. And you can't charm people. You're either likeable or you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:15 PM
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You should see how emotional he got with me in the replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:04 PM
6

Oh. Well, maybe he'll get one some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:57 PM
6

Why would she even keep in contact with some random dudes that just want sex when she doesn't? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:43 PM
15

Correct. When someone isn't into you, you move on and look for someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:39 PM
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No I was telling YOU not to be emotional. I expressed zero emotions. Are you gonna answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:32 PM
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I didn't say anything about vibes. Don't be emotional now. In who's opinion is he a good husband and father? The wife's or his own? Because that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:05 PM
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Maybe if he actually were a good husband the wife wouldn't need to be on antidepressants. This happens in A LOT of marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:03 PM
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I am representative if all women, just as much as the ones that you allegedly know. If you're going to try to call me a liar or a hypocrite I'm going to call you on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:04 PM
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Go find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:03 PM
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Maybe put down the videogames and go play outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:02 PM
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You have to look in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:52 PM
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What's the issue then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:52 PM
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Except I haven't done any of those things and I'm willing to bet that others are going to chime in any minute saying they haven't either. How many women do you actually know with ex con boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:45 PM
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Do that with women and you'll get a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:43 PM
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How to get a date: find people who want to date and ask them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:39 PM
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No, they just ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:37 PM
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It sounds like the men's advice never works either. It's almost as if every situation is unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:36 PM
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The post jas nothing to do with that. I wonder if any of you actually read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:34 PM
1

Nope, I didn't say any of that. Maybe you got me confused with another user.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:23 PM
1

No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:59 PM
0

I think that is because men take things to extremes. Whether it's women's body proportions or male body building, you see this. I would agree that men's obsession with certain body parts needs to be tempered a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:08 PM
0

No they look like their ugly parents. You haven't seen an ugly husband or dad? Spend more time around people, I'm serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:22 PM
1

I drew furry smut for money. It paid for my books in college LOL. Nowadays I can't even look at that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:07 PM
1

I've literally never seen that but I see fat, smelly ugly couples everywhere. So apparently being clean and attractive isn't universally important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:05 PM
1

Ugly men get laid, married and have kids. Where do you think all the ugly babies come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:59 PM
1

A lobster? Now I'm intrigued LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:06 PM
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*yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:04 PM
1

The Full Monty!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:04 PM
5

Men pitch a fit whenever videogames and movies portray less than attractive female leads. But yeah okay, men aren't the superficial ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:47 PM
0

LOL why??? Who were they showing it to besides God? Next time you're in a locker room or public shower gave a look around out of the corner of your eye. I know many women who have never shaved anything once in their lives including their legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 03:30 PM
1

The USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:53 PM
-8

That's because most men don't take care of themselves or dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:30 PM
4

Normal women don't lazer or wax their hair off, good grief. Porn has created that illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:22 PM
-2

I meet my own standards and would date myself if I could haha. Aren't most people generally looking for an approximate version of themselves in another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:11 PM
3

You might do that but other guys don't. We'll find the one we want or just go without and that's fine too. There's no such thing as a "looks match".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:06 PM
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It wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:43 PM
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Is this your manifesto or something? What does it have to do with this sub? And please don't post a part 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:44 PM
3

Doesn't sound like it's working though, or else you'd have landed one and we wouldn't be having this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:48 PM
8

You're not actually a good person if you're being fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 06:36 PM
7

Men's frustration comes from them thinking that they have to be psychopathic to get dates. It doesn't occur to them that you can be charming, confident charismatic while also being honest, loyal and respectful. They're hung up on tropes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:44 PM
4

I'm apolitical but I will never date a liberal or leftist man again. By default they will all be right of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:23 PM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:21 PM
3

Not interested. I already made the points I was interested in making.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:00 PM
11

See? This is what I'm talking about. And this is why you aren't worthy of trying to debate or reason with and nobody should listen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:59 PM
18

I'm not going to derail the conversation by answering that. The manosphere is wrong about hypergamy and about 80% of other things. If anyone challenges them they'll just be called names. At this pont I think we should just quarantine them and try to keep them out of the mainstream as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:40 PM
17

And I've never known even one woman who did that. But if you tell these guys that, they won't believe you or they'll jump through hoops to dismiss it, luke they do with everything. That's not even a conversation, let alone a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:34 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:32 PM
21

They're 100% wrong about hypergamy. But they'll never give up on that tired topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:13 PM
6

These guys are never going to change their minds on anything. They don't want a debate but they won't pass up a chance to mansplain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:08 PM
1

That's because there are not enough good, handsome men to go around. Most men just want to screw around and then get serious when they decide they want a mommy bang maid. The good ones get snatched up early.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:46 PM
0

That's fine. Just go pay someone who's in that profession and leave the rest of us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:41 PM
2

Is anyone miserable because they haven't had luck on some app? The more I hear about them the less it sounds like we're missing out by not using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:35 PM
5

We get it from all sides. It's tiring. And it's a reason why I hate politics and avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:54 PM
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Nah I don't even need to try. You're a hateful bigot narcissist and a professional victim. You've admitted it. Saying "I was taught to be this way" isn't a good excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:22 PM
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I doubt it. They probably can't tell if you're a boy or a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:14 PM
-1

They don't think that. You just want to be the victim. That's narcissism. They probably just leave you alone hoping one day you'll come around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:12 PM
1

Get the fuck out of my inbox before I report all your b.s. as spam, which is what it is. I've got like ten messages from you. Weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:07 PM
1

You ain't shit. Now shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:06 PM
-5

They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:05 PM
0

Read all my comment in the thread. You seem to think I said something I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:04 PM
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They probably think that based on how you act and your hateful nature. You just use the queer thing as a convenient excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:03 PM
1

Not in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:02 PM
36

The left infantilizes women. We are naive little children and men are the bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:56 PM
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That makes you garbage too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:53 PM
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I don't think you need to worry about them wanting to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:38 PM
0

No angst here. You didn't read what I wrote and you're just trying to start an argument. Better stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:30 PM
0

Sounds like you didn't bother to read and understand what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:26 PM
1

You started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:23 PM
-1

Because women are getting tired of shitty men bothering them. Just go pay for a hooker and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:47 PM
1

You don't know what her standards were before. You don't sound very attractive if I'm being honest. Your brother in law is probably a catch compared to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:46 PM
2

All of Catholicism is horse shit - Martin Luther, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:42 PM
1

Yes that's the whole point. People need to stop idolizing their grandparents. The only thing that was better in those days was the economy and that was because of a bloody war.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:41 PM
1

Excuse me? Who do you think you're talking to? Better people than you will reject you right off the bat because they can tell you're immature. They're rolling their eyes at you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:40 PM
1

Nope. He's a loser and a little bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:39 PM
2

I didn't even claim that but have fun thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:14 PM
-1

Yeah, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:00 PM
1

Lunch where? Middle school?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:42 PM
-1

In my almost half century of existence I've never seen a woman make a scene to embarrass a man in public. And I'm in the club/music scene. Where is this happening besides videos posted online? If anything it's more embarrassing for a woman to have to reject a man in front of people. I do have friends who start drama with dudes and the post it on social media. We all think they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:39 PM
-1

When have you ever actually seen someone do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:27 PM
-1

Not mentally healthy. And probably not sexually healthy either because they tend to contract stuff. I've lived with a sex addict and I could go into depth about the psychology of it but I don't like typing walls of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:14 PM
-1

I've dated mostly spiritual men who are into fitness and martial arts, including a martial arts instructor and a professional violin maker. I didn't meet them through either of those activities. I don't do them but the fact that they do them is what's attractive. All of these past lovers of mine are happily married now. They didn't have to wait on the shelf. Good men don't. Part of being a good person is being socially well adjusted and intelligent enough to have diverse interests. Good guys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:12 PM
-4

Healthy well adjusted people prefer to have sex within a relationship, even if it's just a fuck buddy. Due to our physical anatomy women don't even tend to enjoy hook ups with random men. And the men who do it don't care about their partners, they're just acting out what they've seen in porn 9 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:59 PM
4

I'm fine with this. Let the escorts deal with these guys. They at least get compensated for it. Hookup culture needs to just die already. No amount of game or effort is going to convince a woman to put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:40 PM
0

Neither sex are passive. People who want partners get them. And if the guy has a problem with a woman who has been with other men before him, he's not a good guy. Late bloomer + insecure = immature man-child/time-waster. Good guys are smart enough to balance their time between socializing, finding a life partner, professional networking, and working. They probably also have some hobbies and a spiritual side too. Maybe they're educated about politics. This stuff is interesting to women. These guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:33 PM
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Nope. You're wrong and frankly, a freak. If you're going to call me or my friends weird I will rightly tell you to blow it out your ass. Go do that and fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 04:28 PM
1

The people that I choose to be part of my life aren't weird. And they're also not stupid like you. Men are the ones raping and abusing other men BTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:10 PM
1

I don't want a damn thing from you. You blew it with the bad attitude. If you want others to treat you like a person, then act like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:07 PM
1

Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:05 PM
1

I don't care what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:05 PM
0

Maybe he'll stay attracted but he'll still cheat regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:03 PM
0

It's not mind rot. Women get hurt and let down by every man in their lives, starting with their dads. For better or worse it is now considered acceptable to vent your trauma openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:01 PM
0

You don't know any single mothers and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:57 PM
0

Most men don't want to commit. The ones that do, already did so in their 20's. What's leftover are clowns and women have to accept that and learn to be happy single. Or marry a divorced man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:56 PM
-1

Good men get married young. They get snatched right up. Women who want that don't wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:54 PM
1

These dudes can stay forever alone then. Everyone tries to date people that they find attractive, especially when young. As you get older you become more mature (hopefully) and your priorities are more practical. These guys kind of sound like they never grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:53 PM
1

This isn't the timeline I've seen with actual people. Women who want families meet their husbands in college usually and get married right after graduation or thereabouts. Leftover men stay leftover. The women their age who are still single and childless are that way by design and they don't want these guys either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:50 PM
0

"Hell it’s quite easy to find women here even admitting that they used to date for fun and now date for stability and security" Yeah that's called growing up and having more mature priorities. Men never grow up. There's 50 year olds on OLD clowning on young women in their inboxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:47 PM
-1

"What women in their right mind would say "yeah I fucked hot guys until I couldn't anymore and found you to commit because i know if I give u sex once a week or month you'll give me whatever I want". Will never happen" That's because women literally aren't doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:45 PM
1

Grandpa wasn't "kind, loving, respectful" towards grandma. He was a financial support and a roof ober her head so that she wouldn't have to be a spinster living her whole life under her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:44 PM
1

I never said that was an exhaustive list, I was giving examples. How about don't bite my head off next time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:38 PM
1

Dude quit whining at me already. I ain't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:37 PM
-2

Women think bi and gay men are great. They'll gladly support you and be your friend. Doesn't mean they want to shag though. There's no irony in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:12 PM
-2

You can have empathy for people, wish them the best, hope that they receive the help that they need and still not want them anywhere near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:11 PM
0

Every autistic woman I've ever known was a massive a-hole and a pain in the neck. Food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:09 PM
1

You probably weren't making the effort, like you said. Npt everyone is going to like you, no matter what you are. If you wanted a girlfriend/boyfriend/polycule you could have one. I see these types of people in them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:03 PM
1

I don't think harmless men get caught in it honestly. There are malicious sociopaths who have game, and there are malicious sociopaths who are furry gamer spergs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:51 PM
0

Your parents failed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:48 PM
2

I understand that. Catholicism is horse shit for believing that. All this actually accomplishes is to ruin people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:47 PM
1

That's down to the individual. Women do things like go to social events, make themselves up nice, be open, conversational and friendly. 95% of the guys are staring at their phones. 🙄 Can't do much with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:39 PM
1

Men do make videos like that and if they want to poison their minds with all that negativity that's their problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:37 PM
1

No, that isn't correct. Men who are timid and reclusive aren't amazing. They are dull, weird and well, cowardly. It is men's fault for not approaching. It is men's fault for being too forward or perverted. It is men's fault for being misogynistic and abusive. Every individual controls his own behavior, no one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 01:35 PM
1

Unless someone ASKS for help and are serious about making changes, don't offer it. It's patronizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:30 PM
4

Eastern European women are so beautiful I figured I wouldn't stand a chance with a Slavic dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:59 PM
2

IDK man, that's a quandary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:47 PM
2

You might want to ask them first hand, like I have. Do this and then report back with your findings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:47 PM
1

They're female?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:46 PM
1

You asked a question and I answered it. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:45 PM
0

He probably has at least one redeeming characteristic, and you have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:42 PM
-1

Do bears SA people? Enslave people? Torture their enemies? Bomb whole cities? Commit acts or terrorism, etc. etc? Men are objectively, factually, worse than bears. Feminists will never complain about men leaving women alone, they literally want that. But regular women who are single and searching are lamenting the fact that there aren't good men approaching women, only bad ones. You missed a bit of nuance there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:41 PM
2

None of them say THAT I promise you. No seriously. Ask them. Make a poll, or look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:37 PM
15

Nope. Men end them more. Women just make it legal. Look at the reasons that women say that they file.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:11 PM
9

That fact doesn't need to be excused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:10 PM
1

That's not really true but it's also neither here nor there. Are you a grown man by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:09 PM
3

Sorry kiddo but no. If I want to buy your favorite game, the company that makes it will gladly take my money. They may even decide to change the game to make it more appealing to customers like me so that they can make more money. If you don't like it buy something else. They owe you nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:55 PM
3

I was talking about the autistic ones mainly. But yeah old dudes have no business dating either, especially dating young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:45 PM
0

I mean one sex is 99.999% of the rapists out there. They're the ones I'm going to watch out for and not so much the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:43 PM
2

Games are for everyone not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:39 PM
0

Being cautious and avoidant isn't dehumanizing. Men are not the victims in this. Women are showing respect for potential danger as every living thing does for survival. It's their right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:35 PM
1

That is a poorly animated video of a cartoon child. WTF does it have to do with womanhood? Are you mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:32 PM
16

No, that's men leaving and women saying "Don't come back" and filing paperwork to that effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:27 PM
22

That's not women leaving. That's women saying enough is enough to shit men who checked out of the relationship a long time ago. Women usually end up with responsibility for any kids that they might have. You'd be surprised at how few dads even want custody. It's fucking sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:26 PM
6

None of that sounds peachy to me. What woman would put up with let alone desire someone like that in her life? It sounds like trying to handle a wild animal inside the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:23 PM
3

Who wants to nag a grown man to go to the dentist? Women don't need that bullcrap in our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:21 PM
1

That's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:16 PM
18

Neither of them should be fathers and women should avoid these men like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:11 PM
13

Not many women do that. Usually it's men who leave or get kicked out. Even autistic women are more likely to be loyal to their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:08 PM
1

Men consent to potential fatherhood when they choose to cum inside a vagina. Every child, every abortion, was first the choice of a man. But as with everything in this world it seems women are the ones who have to deal with the fallout of a man's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:58 PM
3

What disturbs me about Catholics is they won't let women use birth control or get abortions but they'll dump living children into orphanages and sometimes literal dumpsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:48 PM
1

Every woman has a built in creep detector but it doesn't always work perfectly. Some guys are obvious creeps that get vetted out immediately. They're the ones that get incensed when they see women get taken advantage of by the more covert creeps. They don't actually care about single mothers. As usual, they think it's unfair that women choose other men besides them, whatever the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:44 PM
1

I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:23 PM
1

Men who give up are who's problem? Not mine. Not society's. It's not women's job to help men. You can't help those who won't help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:14 PM
1

Originally only land-owning men over 30 or something had the right to vote. Then ex-slaves and suffragettes fought and got their rights. The government decided it was simpler to just make suffrage universal across all races, classes and sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:10 PM
3

Dude I'm not reading all that. You're full of it and everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:24 PM
6

It's not women's job to tell men how to be. If we reject you, that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:11 PM
-3

Keep telling yourself that. Whatever makes you feel better. Just a suggestion, instead of complaining about women, why not try helping men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:08 PM
-3

Trust me women don't expect men to care about women's problems. We know they never, ever will. Women do care about women's problems though and that's why they make progress and men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:55 PM
7

I feel pretty educated on this issue. I used to listen to a lot of podcasts and audiobooks about it. There's a lot of good common sense advice to men and boys on how to be more social and not be lonely. So why don't they do it instead of expecting mommy to fix things for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:42 PM
-9

Why should women care about men's problems when men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:40 PM
9

The conclusion is your game is whack and you should be more like a Brazilian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:01 PM
1

A lot of us are worn out. I have to deal with hostile strangers all day every day and what little tolerance I had is long gone. I'm still polite and cordial, and try to make the interactions as succinct as possible. The women on social media who are annoyed by ugly guys approaching them are all very beautiful and are probably fatigued by men bothering them in general. These are our feelings and they're neither right nor wrong. Humans didn't evolve meeting strangers every day like we do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:44 PM
3

I never said to be rude. The other guy was trying to say that women aren't allowed to be creeped out based on a guy's looks and that we all have to feel equally receptive towards all men. Which is an insane take.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:42 PM
1

The original topic of the conversation was feminism and women moving forward without men which encompasses what I'm talking about. These days they call it "de-centering".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:36 PM
7

Quite the opposite! These women could walk outside while it's raining men, and they'll open up an umbrella. They're single by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:19 PM
1

Money tends to make everything else fall into place, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:15 PM
2

They're not miserable. A good career, friends and family, hobbies, church, some pets or kids if she can afford them, are all fulfilling things. Some of us keep it simple and just work and take care of our families and homes. You're right life is just a little blip, so why not fill it with love and adventures? Unlike men, women tend to build when they get the opportunity. Women are more pro-social than men. So expect that generations of women will just be happier and more fulfilled rather than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:12 PM
1

People who aren't pieces of shit tend to get depressed by being lazy I guess. Life needs to have meaning, and love, or it's not worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:08 PM
3

No feminism will move forward and the men who can't handle it will tantrum like they always do. Men will be left behind. Oh look, they are being left behind as we speak!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 PM
4

No, they don't. Just the criminal ladies and mentally fucked up ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:47 PM
3

Yeah because it's supposed to be the husband's role to be the main provider. Due to sexism and cheapness on the part of employers women's careers and finances take a hit when they give birth. So fathers are supposed to step up. But alas, modern men are lazy and do as little as possible while expecting everything. So women have to juggle both rolls at once. No wonder birth rates are dropping.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:46 PM
3

Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:42 PM
2

I don't think they're saying that the person approaching should see themselves as unattractive. It's about them not finding the men attractive and not wanting to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:15 PM
1

It's not just me darlin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:04 PM
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GTFO of my inbox then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:02 PM
1

They don't reveal that they're worthless until after it's too late. Are you familiar with this game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:01 PM
3

Most people don't want strangers bothering them. If the stranger is ugly that's just one more reason on top of all the others. Again, this is pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:00 PM
2

Untrue. I already explained why and I'm not the kind to repeat myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:58 PM
3

Too many, unfortunately. I observe my friends in their relationships too. I think I know one happy couple in my generation and I'm hoping and praying that there's nothing dark under the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:56 PM
2

Most single moms have the kids out of wedlock. Point being, they figured out that the guy was worthless and sent him on his way. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:55 PM
2

Nobody is entitled to a warm reception. Disliking being approached is not disrespectful. On a personal note I feel absolutely disgusted and threatened whenever strangers talk to me because I'm somewhat of an introvert. That's perfectly normal and fine and I don't need to change, not for you, not for any of these random dudes, not for anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:54 PM
1

Nobody knows you exist outside of Reddit? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:50 PM
4

They're certainly trying to be. Every day it gets chipped away a little more. Mostly by capitalism that reduces all humans to units of currency but hey, any port in a storm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:50 PM
1

Yeah, you did claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:47 PM
1

The men were unattractive to those women. Well, actually, let's put on our thinking caps for a minute. If these are social media posts, especially the kind that are shot vertically and posted in short format, it's more than likely clickbait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:45 PM
3

Hm, no. Men don't appreciate women. They appreciate what they can get from a female body. The guy's looks or social media are irrelevant because they're all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:43 PM
-1

We want to find good partners and keep them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:42 PM
3

I'd say it's actually married women making that mistake, since they keep ya around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:41 PM
12

Can you blame anybody on this Earth for choosing work, money and a comfortable life over listening to you bitch at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:33 PM
9

Men can either resent it or grow up. They're no longer the center of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:29 PM
1

Then how do you know how attractive most of them are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:10 PM
2

Nah most guys are just kinda horrible and we are no longer obligated to put up with it LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:10 PM
-1

I've observed this first hand. These guys react to a lack of success by putting in less and less effort. Eventually they're putting in negative effort and sitting there wondering why they are celibate LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:05 PM
0

Those women aren't shaming you. They've never even met you. Their content isn't even meant for men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 PM
1

Are you attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:53 PM
4

Where are all these amazing guys? In my experience less than 1% are decent or attractive. They're all immature and selfish and the ones that aren't are crazy. The good ones are already taken, I'm happy for them and wish them the absolute best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:46 PM
9

The women who get with dark triad men are dark triad themselves. Regular women are not "settling" for criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:35 PM
1

The vast majority of men don't meet my standards. You have to score 10/10 on my list of requirements for me to consider you as a prospect. I will marry my 10/10 one day. Absolutely no woman cares that the B, C, and D student men find them attractive. We don't look at them that way. Someone's grandpa thinking I'm cute doesn't boost my ego LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:27 PM
1

Having the abortion is being responsible. Women have responsibility by default if they get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:01 PM
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No. Quit trolling before you get reported. This is your warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:47 PM
1

In the real world they don't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:47 PM
1

And why do we have the means to do so? Oh right, because women work. Maybe you should actually grow a brain so that you can be in that, instead of your rectum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:46 PM
1

They are quote "Not looking for anything serious".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:45 PM
2

People with kids are not chewed "up hotdogs that have been spat out multiple times."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:54 PM
-2

Women don't need men to accommodate them. They're just as if not more capable of the work themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:53 PM
1

It depends on the generation I guess but when I was younger we were told that "Let's go out for coffee" meant he was asking to take you to bed. I don't know if it's true or not. All the first dates I've been on have been meeting up at an activity we both already do, like a concert or a party, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:50 PM
1

It's their excuse not to have accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:10 PM
1

It's almost like these types of men are the actual majority or something. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:09 PM
1

Women do go for men who collect lizards and some women collect reptiles themselves. People are individuals like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:08 PM
1

And they're never going to get it, because these women are hip to what the men are trying to do and aren't interested in being used like that. Been there done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:32 PM
6

Your neighbor is happy and partnered, has lots of friends and is even able to play wing-man, and this breaks your heart? LOL that's a "you problem" if ever there was one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:24 PM
2

Over 40 it gets harder and harder to find men who aren't just interested in sex, as if it wasn't hard enough for young women. Many older women don't bother because it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:21 PM
2

Welcome to the South!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:07 PM
3

Self-contradiction and hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:24 PM
-1

His ex and her family might use such an insult but everyone else and society will blame her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:50 PM
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Want to get reported?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:44 PM
1

Not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:44 PM
-1

Men can and do pull this very thing. And they criticize women for doing it. Yes the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:39 PM
5

Since when do women require men's input on the matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:17 PM
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Excuse me fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:16 PM
3

K then. No more babies and humans can go extinct 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:15 PM
0

DEI isn't for women. It's for minorities and freaks. But I digress... 99% of working women don't get any paid maternal leave. If society wants women to have more babies then these issues need to be addressed. Otherwise women will either choose poverty (and welfare) so that they can raise their children, or they'll choose their careers and have cats/dogs. Those are the options available to the middle class and below.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:54 PM
2

No they don't. Men are more than happy to work as much as possible and make as much money as possible even if it means never being home. Women, being the ones that give birth, don't get this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:49 PM
5

Men have the authority to fix all of those issues. It's called personal agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:19 PM
5

The fact that women are punished financially and professionally for motherhood shows the dual-responsibility women have in society. I can either be a success and rise to the top at work, or take time off to be a mom. It's my responsibility to choose one or the other because nobody is going to do the work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:12 PM
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Men don't really have any social responsibility. Nobody bats an eye at guys who have kids that they never see, in fact they're mire likely to have sympathy (for the father not the children). People feel sorry for men who are forced to pay child support. And it's not like men are being drafted into war anymore so what responsibility is he even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:01 PM
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I'm in charge of the femininity in my household. He can take care of the masculine things. Men who are even the least but feminine are unattractive. Too much hyper masculinity isn't good either. Just be a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:49 PM
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Most men don't pay attention to personality, they pay attention to looks. Even after you know them for years they will ascribe a personality to you rather than actually knowing the real you. Men are famous for putting their own priorities as first, last and only and ignoring everything else. But speaking personally, if I'm going through 50 guys it's not because I'm interested in getting to know them on a deep level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:24 PM
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Nah dude you're just making shit up and being rude LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:19 PM
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I'll tell you something someone wise told me: the only human being who thinks you're special just for being you is your mother, and possibly not if you had lots of siblings.
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