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I never said I know them. I said we men are hard up to find a girl that hasn’t fucked half the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:44 AM
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I actually swipe left on most women. I only swipe right on girls that put effort into their profile and actually list what they’re looking for without retarded standards like: “Must be over 6ft” or the other classic: “Must own your own home.” I swipe right if they have down to Earth standards like: “Looking to build a future together” or “Want someone to watch movies with and cook together in the kitchen while singing songs terribly.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 05:42 AM
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Just saying that you’re wrong about compatibility because as a man we are hard up to even find a somewhat normal girl that hasn’t been railed by half the town never mind one that isn’t egotistical and thinks they’re God’s gift to the world and are absolute 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:35 AM
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Me browsing dating profiles of women and more than a few say: “Entertain me.” So it’s not about compatibility it’s about ego and how self centered a lot of people are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:03 PM
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This is stupid. If every man out there gets in shape and gets buff plus gets a great job then women will just raise the bar again. As the new average man would be buff and in good shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:26 PM
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Every girl you ever date you’re paying for sex. Lets be honest. Men date for connection sure, the root of dating is sex though and is often the primary motivator for men. Since men often pay for dates, pay for things during the relationship and the fact most relationships now seem to be purely transactional every guy out there pays for sex. The difference with a hooker is you pay her to leave. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:41 PM
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Not sure anymore haven’t used it since 2021. It stood out as you could message anyone you wanted. You can just browse profiles at your leisure on there. However the experience sucked as a man as I’d message dozens and hardly get responses plus in 2021 they updated it so that I could only message 1 woman a day. Considering the info I already said of messaging dozens at a time for little responses 1 a day was futile so I uninstalled. Not sure how it’s changed since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:43 PM
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Plenty Of Fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:28 PM
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I’m mid thirties. Yeah, I couldn’t tell you which demographic is more interested in a married woman. As for other dating apps that could work. I only have experience on Tinder, Bumble and POF.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:21 PM
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Hmm I wasn’t sure how you stated it in your profile or what you told these men while talking. There is hope. Just not likely for anything of substance most men if they are interested and know you’re married are only gonna be in it for sex and then bounce. So you gotta be aware that witth your standards plus being poly you’re gonna be filtering out probably over 90% of men. Plus I don’t know your locale or the population in your area. As for the type of men that would actually be into poly? Not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:44 PM
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What I’ve seen in the comments from you is in addition to your heavy screening of men and very low distance you allow. You’re also poly and already married. That may be another big problem for you as well. Men that are well rounded, have good personalities and aren’t muscular aren’t usually going to want to waste their time talking to or dating someone who’s already married. Probably over 2/3 of men aren’t into having a girl they’re talking to or dating getting fucked by other men. So you being …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:39 PM
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Easiest way is just know that if they’re not you then their opinions are completely irrelevant. They could die in the next five minutes and you’d just step over them and carry on with your day as if it didn’t happen. Complete apathy to everyone that isn’t you is the way to go. If a girl is attractive go up and strike a convo. If she turns out to not be interested? Who gives a fuck. Forget her dumbass and continue on to the next one. Problem solved. Dating as a man is 150% a numbers game. You’ll …
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:14 AM
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A lot of it for me is likely locale that’s true. Side not: why not just say the word “lie” instead of “cap”? Literally same amount of fuckin’ letters. Lol
/r/seduction09/02/26 01:05 AM
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No need ti divorce. Separation is a thing you know. If you never plan to marry again why divorce? I know a few ex couples that are technically still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:51 PM
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By your logic you’re single when married too. I’m not sure if you know this but you can break up and ditch your husband/wife on a moments notice too bud. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:06 PM
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Well don’t wait until you’re 35 to start dating. At this age all it will be is damaged women and single moms. Only woman in the last year that wanted to date me had four kids man. FOUR kids with at least two different dads. I said fuck that. Not to mention every date you do get is a just a fuckin’ job interview at my age. No one dates to date for fun anymore it’s all. Pretty much all business at least that’s been my experience.
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:59 PM
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Ahhh okay. I don’t browse too many reddits such as this aside from Bumble or Tinder where it’s just people looking for advice on their dating profile which I see men and women give them advice on photos, prompts, intros etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:55 PM
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To be fair this subreddit is called “Purple Pill Debate” not “Purple Pill Helpline”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:51 PM
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Incel means involuntarily celibate. If you’re pulling girls and getting laid it’s impossible that you’re an incel in any way, shape or form.
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:08 PM
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As a man you can go months or years without getting a date only to get a bad date. I’d rather have dozens of dating options than one or two a year that both have the same chance of being bad as what women get. If 9/10 dates women get are bad than 9/10 dates men get are bad too only we get far far less dates so for us it’s effectives 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:03 AM
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I don’t have screenshots as I’m not them or a girl but a lot of my women friends get a lot of attention on dating apps too. It’s literally an average experience for women. Not sure why you’re trying to disagree so hard for. If they don’t work for you as a woman than it’s either your locale, you’re REALLY unattractive or something on your profile is driving them away (men tend to swipe right on fucking anything though so that one is doubtful).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:52 PM
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Yup. OP here has it completely backwards. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:50 AM
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Nope. I’ve seem some pretty fat less attractive dudes that I know aren’t wealthy with some decently attractive girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:47 AM
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The way women fawn over crime documentaries and shit I’d say no. Actually be a sociopath. The murderer type. They’ll love you. Look at that famous joker killer that murdered 2 women. They fuckin’ love that guy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:03 AM
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It’s relevant because women always like to argue that only men are perverts and will be 35 trying to date a 20yr old. Facts are women are just as bad if not worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 06:43 AM
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Women get mad about age gaps and yet 99% of teachers in high school and middle school that fuck their students are women. Lol All I ever see if female teachers getting caught fucking their students multiple times a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:15 PM
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Not gonna lie I’ve often wondered how many times I’ve met murderers. Probably at least a few times. Went to high school with a guy that later committed manslaughter which is pretty close to murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:24 PM
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Red Pill wouldn’t exist and have the influence it does if millions of men didn’t experience and witness red pill rhetoric happening around them first hand. I’m not red pill and yet I see things that give its arguments validity pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:39 PM
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Guess I’ll trade in video games for alcoholism and drug addiction. Women seem to love that shit. Lol Maybe I’ll even have a side hobby of selling drugs too. Video games aren’t that bad of a hobby. Better than a lot of other things us men could be doing with our spare time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 11:11 PM
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The top 10% of men don’t want commitment because they can get their dick sucked by different women every week. As a result they like women that sleep around tend to lose the ability to truly connect with someone. In a way they become a relationship sociopath. Same thing happens to women with high body counts. They get bored easily and always need new people or excitement to stay happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 02:13 AM
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Give it another 50-80 years and America will be muslim anyways and this will be opposite. UK is already getting there. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 09:49 PM
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Even if they do start showing you attention then what’s it matter? They’re gonna have likely a kid or two and be unable or unwilling to have more. Even if you don’t want kids at that point if you want to date you’ll likely have to date someone who has kids. Might as well stay single. Fuck it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:26 AM
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Modern dating doesn’t suck because of red pill and monosphere. It sucks because of social media and dating apps. Red pill is just a side effect of that. Let’s be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:27 PM
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Read number 2: “2. a man whose wife is sexually unfaithful; a cuckold.” That’s the real definition. The first one is a modern one that isn’t what it actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:53 AM
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Bro, a cuck is a man that gets off watching his wife get fucked by other dudes. A cuck is not a guy who always agrees or says yes to his wife. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:08 PM
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No, I more or less said they often choose guys that have lots of options and then blame men for their own choices in men. To be fair I’ve seen men do the same shit. Choose party girls and then get mad when they ditch them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:05 AM
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i said a lot of the ones I see. Not world wide bro. Go be a good little mommy’s boy elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:01 AM
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Gotta ask: What is gold pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:06 AM
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That seems to be true unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:05 AM
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I never said men hold themselves accountable or not. I explained what accountability is and that there’s a lot of women that blame men for their problems when they’ve made that problem themselves. My own brother is a fuckin’ deadbeat that has six kids and I do hold him accountable. I call him a retard once a month on average. There’s a lot of men that blame their ex wife or whatever for jot letting them see their kids but the facts are a lot of those same men don’t do shit to make it happen eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:31 PM
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My own brother is one such example. Always got attention from women, is 5’11 has 6 kids he never sees or cares to see. I literally had women friends that would ask if he’s single all the time. So frankly, I don’t give a fuck what you believe. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:51 PM
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Accountability is holding yourself accountable for your own decisions. Not holding an entire sex accountable for the actions of a few. I personally don’t say all women should be accountable for the dumb ones. I do however, hold single moms accountable that blame all men for their woes as they chose who to sleep with, they chose who to have the kid(s) of. They literally did that to themselves. That’s what is meant by accountability. Not all of one demographic. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:36 PM
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A lot of the ones I see are handsome guys. Useless dumb fucks, but handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:30 PM
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Why would any of us care about this at all? Women continuously date or sleep with the tall, hot guys that have lots of options and then get upset when they get abandoned? Now that’s my problem? Fuck outta here. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:16 PM
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What’s funny to me is people hale that Luigi guy that murdered someone in cold blood a hero, they also cheered and were happy that shooter shot Charlie Kirk. So I guess shootings are no longer evil either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:32 AM
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Tell that to the 70% of lesbians that divorce. The truth is, women are just as greedy and power hungry as men. They just like to try and hide it under their pretty privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:45 PM
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Lol It isn’t divorce. You’re gonna fucking tell me all the 19-25 year old single moms I see on Tinder are all divorcees? Highly doubtful. I also know a few in their thirties (these ones personally) that never married but have kids. They’re not divorcees man. Maybe a fee but I’d say less than half of single moms are divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 04:52 PM
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I would rather they just not exist in such a fucked up world we have today (I don’t have kids). Having kids now is dooming them to grow up in a world with no empathy, no compassion, endless inflation debt and poverty. Plus WWIII is around every corner potentially. If I had to choose though I’d prefer a girl. They get life on pretty much fuckin’ easy mode compared to the average boy. My opinion of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 01:54 AM
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If you look at statistics of teachers sleeping with their underage students that’s them too. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:24 PM
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Hmm thanks bud! Seems I can’t do it on mobile. Must have to do it on desktop.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:47 PM
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How do you pick no pill but add “man” to it? I’m unable to comment on posts that specify a sex to respond by the automod because my flair doesn’t say I’m a man. Only flairs I could pick were like blue pill man, red pill man and purple pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:09 PM
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Explain to me then why most teachers who sleep with their underage high school students are women? Rarely ever see men do that but I sure in the fuck see women do it a lot. Also it depends largely on the individual. Men and women are both highly sexual at times. Women tend to be just a little more subtle about it. Or at least, they used to be. These days not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:47 PM
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These men OP is referring to lose their empathy over time as they keep a roster of women never truly caring about any of them. At least, that’s my theory. Every guy I personally know that slept around a lot give zero fucks about the women they keep around for sex access. The problem is these women want to actually have a relationship and when they get tossed aside by these men it makes them embittered and hate men. I’ve seen that pattern too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:51 PM
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Looks comes first, than material wealth you can provide IE Income then confidence. I’ve seen men 6’2 with abs that have a stutter and severe self esteem issues that still pull women and it certainly isn’t their confidence. Women go out of their way to talk to him. Lol Also as you get older women’s preferences change a bit they value looks less and more what you can provide. Source: I’m in my 30s and see it first hand. You can still run into the ones that value looks above all else but as I said …
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:46 PM
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Well in some cases someone may very well have forced them to be who they are. Ever hear of child abuse? Parents can literally force you to behave a certain way, dress a certain way etc and all these things can in turn make you who you are as an adult. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:45 AM
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Right? Literally refers to poor men as “gross”. Lol The fuck was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:40 AM
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Women be like: How dare you go to that sex worker and pay for sex! You should be paying my OnlyFans to see me naked instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:53 AM
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Who cares if they do or not? Ask them out anyways and if they say no move on. Their feelings aren’t your responsibility. If you’re worried they’ll make a big deal then record it from your pocket so you have audio evidence you did nothing wrong if all you did was ask them out. You miss 100% of shots you don’t take brother.
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:25 AM
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Well obviously not. You’re likely over 25. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:47 PM
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This woman claims to dislike man that desire women as fleshlights yet likely wouldn’t hesitate to jump on a young Leonardo Dicaprio’s dick. Lol Even though he treats women like sex toys and only dates women under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:05 AM
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It’s a small town. I think the problem might be rumours. People probably talked shit saying we were sleeping together or something. I never heard any rumours about myself so that’s speculation but it would make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:48 AM
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No idea bro. I’d have been happy to become friends with their bfs too man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:00 AM
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Location plays a large roll no doubt. Heavily conservative area. A lot of “traditional” people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:06 PM
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Could be. Could very well be. Either way problem solved by just not wasting any time being more than acquaintances with them any more. To be fair it hasn’t happened a whole lot to me. Only 4 times but that was enough for me not to bother any more. It could be they had feelings for me or their boyfriend really was jealous. Who knows? 4 isn’t really enough to make a judgment call. However, 4/4 is still 100% to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:12 AM
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Every single woman I’ve EVER been friends with has ended it once they got in a relationship. By end it I mean just more or less ghosted me and stopped talking to me. When I would finally bump into them somewhere and inquire they’d straight up say they didn’t want their BF to get jealous. Lol I should point out too that these were all women I was only friends with and had no intention of sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:32 AM
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I’m not the one mad bud. Lol You’re the one that got offended by my terminology in using the word “retard”. So you stay mad “hoe”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:11 PM
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Hmm true enough. In most cases charisma is all you need. A witty, funny personality goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:00 PM
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Yeah yeah go be offended somewhere else. You got the whole internet to go be offended in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:55 PM
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Well yes and no. Due to hoeflation you still kind of have to be attractive to an extent. Don’t necessarily have to be an asshole though although a lot of women with self esteem issues get really uncomfortable when you’re nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:53 PM
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If someone gets offended by my wording that’s on them. Not my responsibility to look after someone else’s feelings. I very obviously meant idiots. Not actually disabled people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:51 PM
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Yeah, that’s true. Men do often want the easiest catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:48 PM
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Okay, I’ll change the wording: “Are mentally disabled”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:47 PM
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Shallow women are retarded. Who the fuck wants a shallow person? Lol Girls with daddy issues and no self esteem are the easiest to bang. Everyone knows this Lilith. To pretend otherwise is naivety at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:52 PM
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Between 130lbs and 160lbs. About average. They’re not overweight by anymeans or underweight. All are brunette aside from one that has dirty blondish hair (dyes it a lot but her natural is a dirty blonde/brownish). Edit: One appears like she could be about 170-180lbs. Slightly overweight but still not terrible by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:13 AM
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Why would I post photos of real people? They could browse this reddit for all I know. Lol They’re average I guess you could say. None are particularly attractive or unattractive. 3 are single moms, one has a rep as a cheater as she was married and cheated on her husband with several other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:52 AM
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No, they’re actually late 20s, early 30s. These particular ones I know personally. Not just random people on the net.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:27 AM
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Hmm I’ve seen the opposite myself. Most “single” women I know are still fucking frequently and upset the guy won’t actually date them and then lament about it on Facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:24 AM
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This is true. However hard to know when she gets overwhelmed with likes and never talks to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:26 AM
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Pretty privilege as they call it is very real for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:32 AM
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How can one just go out and date someone who fulfills all your preferences? As a man we just kind of have to take what we can get in 2025 or stay single. As a woman you might be able to be more successful at that but those men have options and tend to fuck around (pun intended) but as a man that’s of average height, average weight I gotta compete with dozens upon dozens of men within a 200km radius plus these legendary 666 men. Lol Might as well throw in the towel and settle for escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:31 AM
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What is CP? I was trying to lurk here but have no idea what that is. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:14 PM
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Uhhh yes. If you’re shooting above your own level and failing over and over but you consider all other options unattractive than yes. I guess you are supposed to date an unattractive man then or be single as at that point you are obviously the problem. The literal definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results and that’s exactly what a lot of people these days do in dating. They try over and over again for the same type of person and get used and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:42 PM
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True, that’s human nature I think though. To be envious and hate on people you perceive as better than yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:44 PM
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I suppose. The skinny ones tend to be high on themselves and not worth the effort anyways. The slightly overweight ones tend to more down to Earth, and kinder. At least, this used to be true. I’ve encountered a few lately that think they’re Scarlet Johanson in attractiveness and couldn’t be less down to Earth. Lol Way she goes I guess. Sometimes she goes, sometimes she doesn’t got. Fuckin’ way she goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:33 PM
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I think it depends on how overweight the girl is. In my area the average women is a bit overweight and I never hear men bitch about it. Most just say it means they got a bigger ass for the pushing (crude but not bullying them at least). Women on the other hand I’ve never heard say anything to their faces but like at my place of work for example I hear them talking shit about each other in the break room often. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:23 PM
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This is true. Definitely depends on location 100%. I too got bullied in school by men (I am a guy too) so yeah. Location makes sense. In my area men don’t usually talk shit about women or moms though just the ones clearly looking for a man to look after them after they had several kids with dickheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:21 PM
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I don’t understand it either. I understand when people give single moms heck when they have on their dating profile that they’re basically looking for a sugar daddy to look after their kids. But just razzing moms for no reason is ridiculous. Other women are more often than not other women’s biggest bullies Lillith. That’s the way it goes. The reason most women wear makeup or insist on the expensive nice dress to grad is to impress the other girls not the men. Same thing with slightly overweight …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:08 PM
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I’m from a small town of 15,000 or less. In the last year alone I know of two young men who committed suicide. Both were likely due to lack of success with women and a lack of purpose and validation. I can’t say for certain why they did what they did but these were very likely the reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:19 PM
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I’m pretty sure that’s what happened. Not 100% though I just remember reading about him being misdiagnosed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:00 PM
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Gone 33 bro. Still happy and still have shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:19 AM
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Just saying that’s not all that matters in life. If you think it does you need to get a life and some hobbies bud. Just because someone seems happy doesn’t mean they are is all I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:08 AM
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Got misdiagnosed with parkinsons’s I believe. Not my point. All I said is just because someone seems happy, doesn’t mean they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:07 AM
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Everyone often seems happy. Robin Williams seemed happy. Still hung himself. Just saying!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:51 PM
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Ban social media, ban dating apps. Would lower women’s ego’s and inflated sense of self worth a lot have now due to the excessive attention they receive on them. Option 2: Have a mass annihilation of several billion people to lower overall population which would significantly improve economy while simultaneously lowering women and men’s options. Obviously this is the less realistic of the two but could still happen if WWIII or a deadlier COVID happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:35 PM
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Yup. I’ve seen those posts. Lol Same with guys asking if it’s over for them because they’re still a virgin at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:48 AM
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You get it. Well done Balhaegu!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 04:43 PM
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The solution is probably the most depressing yet most realistic answer: war. We need another world war to eradicate a large portion of western society so that millions die off rapidly. That’ll open the doors for other avenues. That’s how it’s always been and always will be. That or a plague that kills far more than 0.01% needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:37 AM
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I suppose that’s true. Not an addiction I understand as I don’t use much Facebook and don’t have Twitter or Instagram at all. Facebook has a tendency of tossing me in FB jail whenever I comment on stuff whether it’s offensive or not. Lol So I rarely go on there now as there’s no point. Also deleted all dating apps as I wasn’t getting many matches and when I did they had the conversation skills of paint drying so I figured not even worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 10:08 PM
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When over 90% of people use the tool for bad there comes a time when the tool must be blamed. If this wasn’t the case things like guns, alcohol or drugs wouldn’t be illegal in certain places, times. Of course I see your argument and understand what you’re saying and I can agree to a certain extent but a lot of women also seek out that attention from men. So again you cut off the head of the snake (social media) and the problem dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:56 PM
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Social Media is the reason modern dating is shit. Not men, or women. Social Media. End of story. Nothing else needs be said on the matter. Social media includes sites like Facebook, Twitter (X), Instagram, OnlyFans, Reddit etc. Plus I’m tossing dating apps in too as they are in a way a kind of social media. Basically take away the internet and dating would likely improve again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:07 PM
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I’ve seriously contemplated it. However, it required several things including a good job waiting, a place to live that’s affordable and money to move. All that to get a relationship seems like pretty large overkill. Especially since it’s not guaranteed. A guy like me could save money to move, get the job, find the place and completely up root my entire life and have to make new friends all for naught. Doesn’t seem worth the risk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:55 AM
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I live in a small town with other small towns in a 100km radius so to be fair that 100% doesn’t help either. I’m also not down to drive 200+km just for a date with a stranger. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:38 AM
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On Bumble none of my matches have ever messaged me and all have just expired. Never tried EHarmony, Hinge or Match though so can’t speak for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:38 AM
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Me too. Even a broken clock can be correct twice a day. Doesn’t mean dating apps are good. They’re still garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:57 PM
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Amen. They’re all garbage and make people dehumanized the more they use them. People become commodities to be tossed aside after use as there’s more waiting to be found afterwards. Also encourages people to be extremely shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:21 PM
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Ahhh I should have thought of that. Doh! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:01 PM
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What is NSA? I somehow doubt is means National Security Agency. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:55 PM
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Personally I used to he friends with more women than men. However, I noticed a pattern of them getting boyfriends eventually and then ghosting me due to various whatever reasons the most common of which was them getting a bf and ghosting me out of “respect” for him. The other main reason was one that would affect a male friend too of them just moving away and going a different path in life. Either way I had 4 stop being friends with me due to getting a bf so now I just say fuck it and don’t both…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:16 PM
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Already agreed with Badger somewhere else on this post. Men do be assholes sometimes. So I’ll give you this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:43 PM
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That’s a fair argument. I’ll give you that one Badger. Men do be assholes sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:41 PM
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Obviously not. Probably as low as 15-20 to be honest. I just used a high number because. The original point remains just like the lonely men problem it’s mostly self inflicted. Be more selective of partners to avoid it or suck it up. Most of the lonely men problem is due to them probably not socializing or going out at all and then getting butthurt they can’t get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:39 PM
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Slut shaming can easily be remedied. It’s called don’t sleep with 300 men. Lol The ones who control that are women. No one forces them to have such high body counts. Lol But I digress as I personally don’t give a fuck about that. The more experienced she is the better it usually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:22 PM
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Well of course lying isn’t a good foundation. Never said it isn’t. The alternative, however is for someone in that situation will be endless rejections. At the end of the day a person has to do what they gotta do. Of course not every women will judge a 30+ year old virgin man but 90/100 probably will so by being honest they remove themselves from 90% of the dating pool. Might as well lie if it gets results. Besides not like they’re lying about a criminal past. If it works out than ignorance is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:50 AM
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So you expect them to just continue getting turned down endlessly? If they’re a 30+ year old virgin trying to date women that are all over 25 they’re going to expect you to have experience as most women don’t want to be a teacher. This goes double if they’re over 30 themselves. So the guys options are: go fuck a prostitute to get some experience to avoid this problem and then I guess lie about who they fucked so they don’t get judged for paying for it or lie about being a virgin and hope they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:36 PM
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Well telling them the truth if you’re a 30+ year old virgin is far worse. You won’t have any dates doing that shit and you certainly won’t get laid. Lying is all you have going for you at that point. That or really religious girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:54 PM
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Me seeing single moms literally everywhere I look including 18-20 year olds with sometimes 2+ kids wondering where this declining birthrate is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:38 PM
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So what you’re saying is single dads suffer more than single moms. At least single moms can still more or less get laid whenever. Single dads sure in the fuck can’t. As for quality dates? Can go either way for both sexes as single parents I’d say. Depends what each individual defines as a “quality date”. I know many men who have entered long term relationships with single moms. Hell one even ended up marrying her. The single dads I know are all still single and as soon as potential dates find ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:55 PM
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What? I highly doubt that. I know a LOT of single moms and men are still all over them. The single dads I know get absolutely zero attention from women. Some even out right tell them they won’t date a man with kids. So not sure what you’re on about. Plus my own experience it seems like 2/3 Tinder profiles I see are single moms. I can’t say how much action they get but knowing men? Probably a lot. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:37 PM
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Then wars would be fought over which leader had the better dress. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:56 PM
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Have you ever picked up a history book bud? Lol The war over Troy literally happened over a woman bro. That’s just what I can think of off hand at 6am. There’s been many wars waged over a woman dude. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:50 PM
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I stopped being friends with women after I was good friends with one for a long time and then she got a boyfriend who apparently (if you believe her) got jealous of her friendship and as a result she cut contact with me and stopped talking to me. Made me realize unless you’re going to date them or fuck them being friends with them is a waste of your god damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:38 PM
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