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Its location dependent bro, go to a diverse place like new york or any major city everyone dates everyone there. Improve your grooming.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 02:21 PM
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GET off the internet and go meet some people. Your online toooooo much. Women arnt that picky in real life.
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:40 AM
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Simps are crazy bro
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:38 AM
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Dont do anything creep or weird then
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:17 AM
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Depends hwo big your coolege mine had 40 thousand people
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:03 AM
1

U have to approach random women i go to college campuses
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:01 AM
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Its a numbers game. You need to meet alot of women to know which ones are the quality ones. When you meet a quality chick who improves your life you wont go back.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:39 AM
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It wasnt in one day it was over the course of half a year. No i didnt know them. People generally act the same if your polite and smile. Grow thick skin women generally are empathetic and understand how hard it is to approach so they wont be mean as long as you can pick up on body language and can tell shes done speaking. If you cant tell leave abruptly then. Any thing but an excited yes is a no.
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:23 AM
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U have to take a chance bro. Stop valuing random people’s opinions of you. I approach over 200 an got rejected on the spot by 150, about 35 ghost and 5 flakes
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:11 AM
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Approcahing is like the bread and butter of dating. Everything means nothing without it. U know how many girls i had to approach to get dates, not many but i still had to do it.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:57 AM
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You have to dress well, shave and smell good and also wear matching color clothes that are form fitting. Then approach and tell them waht you want politly
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:21 AM
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One of my first approaches a girl said eww. I almost cried then went back out approaching again and been more successful. As long as you keep improving yourself you’ll get better
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:42 AM
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Be direct ,make sure she knows its a date and have no expectations
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:39 AM
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Women appriciate a guy who can dress more then a guy that looks good.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:29 AM
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Follow that. White shoes with black jeans and white or black shirt. Almost anything goes with black jeans and white sneakers.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:29 AM
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https://i.pinimg.com/originals/ee/6c/51/ee6c5162639632c5ec69c2b54d9d1af5.png
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:28 AM
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Thats great numbers and you have to realise women deal with hella guys they can affor to be flaky
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:26 AM
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Matching colors and make sure it fits so it can show off your body. One of the reasons tights are awsome is because they fit well.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:00 AM
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Stereotypes can work too. So every guy has a girl who is into his type. Thick white women like black guys, asian girls like white guys and so on. finding out a pairing you usually see can help u minimize the amount of women you have to go through.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:53 AM
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Theres a difference between looking good and being good looking. Girls want the former. Nice hair cut, clean teeth,smell nice and nice outfit
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:02 AM
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U need to make a woman feel somthing when you interact with her. Always agreeing doesnt make her feel anything.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:20 AM
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Bro cold appraoch is like being a real estate agent. The floor can be lower then a regualr job but the ceiling is also higher then a regaulr job too. If you put the work in you pull all types of women in less time then it takes to cultivate a social circle.
/r/seduction29/06/22 05:17 AM
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You have to look at approaching woman like the stock market if everyone is doing it its too late. Daygame works because most guys dont do it and you stand out. Not to mention you dont only meet party girls when you day game. I meant book worms doing daygame.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:56 AM
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Talk to more women. Your mind will eventually stop prioritizing her. You think shes special cause your not interacting and dating mutiple women. Once u had back to back dates you stop caring about any one woman’s opinion of you. Its like working at a retail store and having mutiple customers at your checkout line by the end of the day you wont remeber the first person you rung out.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:04 AM
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Bro your gonna have to fail alot. Its a game. Thats why cold approach is so important cause you need more tries at bat.Everyone has more then one potential partner out there you just have to find them and deal with the ones that armt feeling you.
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:42 PM
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I agree i dont like social circle much because u have to be likable.
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:04 AM
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U gotta keep at it i got over 200 rejections and i plan to get more
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:44 AM
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Thats a good point. Another thing is relationships besides sex are also are used for people to validate themselves as attarctive to the opposite sex. Women usually know their attarctive to the opposite sex without being in a realtionship because guys arent as passive about showing there intrest. Guys usually dont know cause girls are so passive so usually a guy wants to be in a relationship with a girl so he feels attractive. Since girls can get dick when they want outside of a relationship and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:32 AM
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Then stop approaching 6s and approach only 10s eventually somthingnwill happen
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:16 AM
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Its normal but understand thats why cold approach works over dating websites , because the barrier of entry is so high the competition is low. You get way hotter girls from cold approach then from online dating.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:51 PM
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Watch ag hayden vids i learned from him. Mr locario too he goes in depth about how to handle your feelings after rejction.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:49 PM
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Makes sense because women take up alot if time and attention, you cant do both all the time. Going on dates, cold approach and just spending time with them is time consuming and thats not even mentioning when their on yur mind when your doing other stuff.
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:32 AM
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Definitely therapy. Op you have to do something to change your circumstance only you have that power we dont. I deal with anxiety which made dating hell but still had to learn to cope so i can get what i want you have to also or your gonna continue to hate yourself.
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:25 AM
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For me the flakes and ghosting was whatever i became indifferent to it. My problem was motivating myself to go up to a new girl and start all over. that was what got to me and it still does. When i see a girl and think of approaching all i can do is think of the percentage she gives me her number the percentage she respnds the percentage she goes on the date, etc. i got tired of it so i paused for a bit. But this is the only method i can think of for hot girls.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:32 PM
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Yup it took its toll on me too thats why i took a break. I plan to start back up but im waiting i guess. I cant go back though my confidence with women went up tem fold and now i know women like me which is awsome. I use to be insecure about the topic of dating, now im not.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:28 PM
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I know the feeling i went through a mild depression im just now climbing out of. It can be rough coming to terms with so many people not wanting you in there life but it was worth it knowing i had control of my dating life which i so desperately wanted. If i want a date with a cute chick i have the means to get now.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:21 PM
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Yup when you feel good you give off vibes that are postive like you smile more your more conversational which women love.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:18 PM
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Not with women bro. They have so many options that they look for reasons to disqualify a guy and not look back. Go after women who make it easy bro not the ones who play games. Ive heard it time and again and it never works out for the guy.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:06 PM
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Dont take things too serious is another way to put it.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:52 AM
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Seduction is about finding the girls who are into you and finding ways not to fuck it up. Seduction is not about turning girls who arent into you into girls who are. The good thing is there is more then enough women out there that will be into you.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:50 AM
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Maybe not exactly how he said it but the gist of it is true. With women you have to move fast or someone else will. Unless the girl is really feeling she will move on to someone more decisive.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:44 AM
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Yup this is it all the indicators.
/r/seduction15/05/22 10:07 AM
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I heard this theory before about how women get bored in long term relationships thats why they end them usually. i wonder how true it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:01 PM
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Ah passive aggression a womans favorite weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:55 AM
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Thing is with guys no matter how good looking you are you have to get rejected alot either way so looks atop mattering after a while.with women looks corealte to how much your approached
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:35 AM
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Just keep going its a numbers game sometimes its nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:17 PM
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True i heard that too but from my experience hot women have options even if its not overwhelming.
/r/seduction10/05/22 07:08 AM
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Women notice. I got way more attetion from women when i started lifting its just that you dont need it to get women its just another attractive quality for you. Its like women dont need a big butt to get a guy but men do notice when they have one and it does make them more attarctive to people who like that. I belive compounding qualities that make me attractive so i have more options. Also you attarcte what you are. I like girls in shape so the best way to get a girl in shape is to be in shape …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:31 AM
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Move on happen to me last week talk to more girls itll get your mind off it.
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:24 AM
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Great post but some guys will continue to live in delusion or belive small sample sizes they may have witnessed. Guys most relationships start with the guy putting himself out there first, woman are overwhelmingly passive. Usually the more likely the girl is to start the relationship the more unattractive she usually is because pretty girls dont have to because enough confident guys do it for them.
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:22 AM
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I needed to read that. Ive been slowing down cold approach beause my mental health. Like I understand theres nothing wrong with me when i get rejected but for some reason subconsciously it bleeded into to my day to day life. I have this weird anxiety that im in danger of being rejected by people ive known for years and idk why.
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:27 AM
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Im not picky so that works for me . But i do it on college campuses
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:52 AM
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Girl* i was typing too fast. My point is some women are picky and some arnt your job as a man is to find the ones who arnt and deal with them.
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:19 AM
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Im 5’7 once you had success with girls you realize its not a big issue for them. Some care just like you care abiut the length of hair your gilr has but its not big for a lot of them
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:47 AM
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Also dont be fooled into thinking that people who love themselves always feel that love. I love myself but i have hours through the day that i feel like i aint shit. No one feels the same consistently all the time.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:22 AM
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Everytime you ask a girl out its a leap of faith. You have to get comfortable living uncomfortable.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:12 AM
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I didnt know a girl was gonna find me funny or think my outfit looked good but i took the chance and was repaid for it.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:11 AM
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I guess your one of those people that need success to build your confidence. For me i used my confidence in my humor to get me started. I didnt like my looks for a while but i knew how to dress and was funny so i cold approached got rejected alot but eventually found success. Confidence doesn’t have to come from anything tangible really its faith really.
/r/seduction08/05/22 12:10 AM
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Do things that make u feel better about yourself. Workout, dont procrastinate or whatever it is that makes you feel accomplished personally.
/r/seduction07/05/22 11:52 PM
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He means women have to have one of those two not guys you misunderstood what he said. Guys bring more to the table that makes them attractive to women. He listed it out your humor, your looks or brain or money. Having one csn get you a woman having all or majority can get you consistent women. Unlike guys women look for feelings so if your somewhat her type maybe not the most attarctive and yiu make her feel somthing your good.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:58 PM
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How many girls are you talking to? It took me asking out 20 girls before i got two back to back dates. I dont think some of you guys realise how many women you have to talk to. Ive cold approached over 200 women to get the girls i got.
/r/seduction06/05/22 10:54 PM
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Stop i know what your doijg bro, i know it feels good to shit on yourself but ehat your doing is conditioning yourself to think even worse about who you are by constantly writing bad things about who you are.
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:06 PM
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Tough love but its definitely needed. Yes improve yourself bro but do that while hollering at girls. There are plenty of mentally ill unmotivated guys out there with hot girlfriends and you would look at those plain guys and wonder why does she like him? Alot of girls dont even want the top guys becuase the girls dont have the self esteem to handle the situation. Remeber girls have low self esteem too thats why so many of them roll with losers because it makes the girl feel better about herself …
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:06 PM
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The workers dont mind you asking gurls out at the gym
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:09 AM
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How was approaching in the gym.
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:07 AM
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Day game bro. Getting a girl is about standing out and day game you do that cause so many people dont do ut
/r/seduction27/04/22 01:42 AM
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This right here
/r/seduction16/04/22 07:39 AM
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I gotta remember this
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:09 PM
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Yup if i would have knew this in high man sheesh
/r/seduction15/04/22 08:05 PM
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Hell look up ag hayden cold approaches on youtube thats how i learned
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:39 PM
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Bro ive done plenty of cold approaches on campus and im a semester out after graduating. Women follow your lead if you dont act weird then they wont see u as weird. Just say your auditing a graduate class keep it shirt and simple. Everone is stuck in tgere own heads especially young college women just ask them out have a nornal convo asking what there major is tgen move on.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:38 PM
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Great summary
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:27 AM
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Man go get yours bro, all is fear in love and war.
/r/seduction11/03/22 08:19 AM
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Mindfulness and not feeding into negative thoughts just because they pop up. Also not looking toward anyone to tell you that your the shit its beliving it yoursef wether anyone else thinks so.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:34 AM
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Girls who like you want to see you as soon as possible
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:30 AM
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U move on bro. Girls who like you make it obvious.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:29 AM
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No i heard about this before, women really do reject guys who they feel maybe too good for them because of their low self esteem. Think of it like how a guy wont approch a girl who is a 10 because he just assumes she wont like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:25 AM
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Tbh its lack options for the average guy thats why. The more options u have the more you can start being picky. Those guys probably arnt getting that many matches so eh a childfree lady is better then no lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:05 AM
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Yea i agree i think women are m ore willing to stuggle in silence and accept the situation compared to guys who either complain or go out and actively change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:40 AM
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You have to learn to follow your own tune. I did it at the mall too
/r/seduction28/02/22 07:25 AM
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You have to stay confident and act as this your usual activity, women are followers they follow the mans energy in the interaction most times.
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:24 AM
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I got so many creepy looks bro daygaming but you have to learn not to care
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:22 AM
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College campus and i am dircet look up ag hayden on youtube and mr locario. Ag hayden goes into the ins and outs of day game and mr locario talks about the importance of self esteem and maintaing a belief abiut yourself dispite what outside factors may try to force you to belive
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:20 AM
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Nope, its all about being comfortable with your self. I cold approach during the day during a set amount of time at a specific location, the only reason i even go there is to talk to women and guess what the women dont know that. As long as your comfortable with yourself so will other people be with you and the ones that arnt can piss off.
/r/seduction27/02/22 10:10 PM
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Own your insecurities thats it. broke guys get hot girls. You dont need all that material stuff to get women you just need to be able to deal with rejection, carry a conversation and approach. The only thing all girls really find unattractive is low self esteem. You thinking you need all of that is a sign of it. I use to feel insecure about my race then I accepted and got with attactive women. They dont care if you show you dont.
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:35 PM
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Drop your ego bro. Accept people are gonna think whatever they want about you and dont allow it to stop you from doing you. Caring if your creep is your ego talking. If you wanna get good at getting girls u have to be vulnerable and allow people to make judgements anout you.
/r/seduction27/02/22 09:31 PM
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Bro same happen to me lmao i dont women take it seriously though as long as your nice
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:55 AM
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Yea i went on dates with girls doing it. I only had to talk to 16 women. Step your appearance and mouthpiece up
/r/seduction26/02/22 03:03 AM
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Exactly women love guys who sit back and listen. Silence is better then saying somthing dumb. Keep it simple ask hows there day, then exchange names then ask them out to an activity and already have the day and time planned. Girls know if they want you by your look and when you first open your mouth. Your not changing any minds really your just discovering the ones that want you. Awsome you deceeded to take your dating life into your hands instead of being passive
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:24 AM
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College girls are overated if you ask me theyre all over the place and fickle. Some one your age would probably be better
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:19 PM
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U dont need any of that stuff to get a girl u just need a girl who will accept you without it and some will and some wont. Getting all that stuff wont magically get you a girl. No matter what you have to put yourself out there and get rejected until you find a girl who wants to be with you thats it wverything else is window dressing.
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:15 AM
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Keep approaching but work on your weight as well they both go hand in hand.
/r/seduction20/02/22 01:22 AM
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Bro i walk and say excuse me i wanted to say i thought you look cute today. Its not the words its the vibe you give off, you have to say what lever opener you have with confidence and then the girl will feed off you. Its like a comedian with a joke half the process of telling a joke is the delivery. Also your dress game got to be good dont be afraid to stand out. I wear a silver cross on my neck.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:50 PM
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At college and im 23. Guys need to realize how much works it takes to get women. Young women are flaky as hell so you need to talk to a large number of them to find the one intrested.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:16 PM
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Dating takes work most people are lazy daters that take what they can get. Me cold approaching made it where every date ive been on was with a girl i was attracted to. I also work overnight. U make time for the stuff that matters.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:14 PM
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Wow bro i did 13 in one day and got a date . U need double digets in 1 day.
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:10 PM
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Yea i think he is. I started cold approach and im black and ive gotten dates
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:12 PM
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In my expericne it didnt matter i txted each girl a couple hours after the number was given.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:54 AM
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Thats the spirt. When i read this post title i was like ah i rmeber when i was that naive. Women are fickle its a numbers game bro take solace knowijg your not alone.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:51 AM
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Great post and depressing
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:39 PM
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Great post i learned this day gaming. Women follow your lead most of the time in the interaction if you come off as unconfidemt then she will treat u that way.
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:23 PM
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Say she likes how you look and sees you on tinder what will make you stand out from other attactive guys, all she has is a picture to go off of meeting her in person shows her who you really are.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:48 AM
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You do stand out more day gameing and she will remeber you and she more then likey wont have friends around. And looks do matter but not as much as online cause your personality can make up for it more.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:38 AM
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Broo!! I was thinking the same thing i had dates ruined because i made a lame joke, or acted a little nervous once.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:56 AM
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Hes really good amd has alot of vids showing him actually doing pick up instead of just talking about it
/r/seduction24/12/21 01:21 PM
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Ag hayden teaches pratical stuff and infield which is really valuable he got me started cold approaching. Mr locario taught me more about a womans mind and just methods on maintaing high confidence even in the face Of rejection. Todd V too because he got me even more into cold approach.
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:19 AM
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I say if you like it wear it. Peacocking is about standing out and showing your style. Women love outfits on people that says somthing about them. Some people may say try hard but my answer to that is their not trying hard enough if this outfit is considered try hard. That outfit says somthing about you so i say wear it, not to mention you seem to like it so that should be reason enough. When Picking up women you have to learn to stop seaking validation from others only from yourself.
/r/seduction22/12/21 11:57 AM
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How do i get my followers up
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:25 AM
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Its irrational because she probably knows but what can she do about it,nothing. I have the same irrational fear when day gaming at college but you have to realize people are so focus on themselves they really dont care about what you do as long as its legal which cold approach is.
/r/seduction12/12/21 11:32 PM
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Wow this is a good post, im cringing at all the mistakes i made not following this. The grooming is the only one i never fell prey too.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:21 AM
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Bro girls will never truly understand its not worth explaining,its like them trying to get us to understand why having periods is so hard, you never know till you experience it.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:08 PM
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Hes right tho if you read tgrough my post history ive been through the same thing i did about 112 approaches and got over 30 numbers and about 3 dates. Even though most of interactions were postive i still carried the mean glares and the blow outs with me and all it did was make me wanna quit. Being in the present will make you more postive.
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:05 PM
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Listen to him bro you go through alot of women before you find the ones intrested. Dont gove the ones not intrested anymore thought energy they don’t deserve it. Get your numbers up and show intent to a lot of girls thay should weed alot of them out.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:56 AM
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Yup applies with having kids too, no one really cares what you decide.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:41 PM
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Approch in real life and yes i know it sucks, just dont take it serious. This is how it is for the whole guy gender. Theres no mythical guy out there not dealing with this bs. Guys who succeed at dating are the ones that push through the BS and dont let it effect there self esteem. When girls flake or ghost it doesnt say anything about who you are as a person.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:15 PM
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Bro looks mean nothing in the end a girl doesnt get off from looks alone. If you approach shes not feeling you for whatever reason looks aint gonna save you.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:27 AM
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Bro its life nothing is perfect and screw her for making you feel like things had to be. The learning curve for dating as a guy is harder so dont beat yourself up. What you did is natural for a person excited in there first relationship.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:03 PM
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You dont get rid of it you just always push through it. Learn to love the butterflies think of it like the start of a roller coaster it make you feel alive.
/r/seduction04/12/21 11:11 PM
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Yea but we know those guys are just coping with getting no female attention . However we still like to act like women who do the same thing are actually happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:56 AM
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Stop fronting being alone by choice and just being alone cause no one wants to get with you are two different things and if a person is the latter no matter the gender their going to feel a type of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 02:54 AM
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U can either debate with me online or find out for yourself im just talking from my experience i got dates with pretty girls doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:40 PM
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Its because your vibe and emergy can be picked up on in person not online. Also it shows you have confidence and dont care what others think which is sexy to anyone. Add on to the fact you stand out. Girls dont get cold approached alot so when it happens they remeber.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:24 AM
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Bro girls are passive they will rarly ever come to you even if they like you. Approach then and get use to it.
/r/seduction24/11/21 01:41 PM
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No you have to dress well and meet women in real life while women are picky no matter where u try to hook up with them at in real life you have more of a cushion to show your personality which helps.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:27 AM
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Talk to more girls and dont be afriad to fail some girls wont like you and that is okay.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:35 PM
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Overthinking it too much people wont notice or wont care.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:33 PM
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Yup this 👆 right here you cant think to hard about an individual woman they come in go. Tak to mutiple to prevent oneitis
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:32 AM
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Yup happen to me on two different first dates one lost intrest over txt after she got home and the other while one the date. Shit just happens and there/ nothing you can do just dont beat your self up bro it happens sooo much thats why you have to talk to mutiple women and not put all you eggs in one basket because there fickle behavior will cause them to naturally drop off.
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:44 AM
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Yeah i think thats what it is. People are afraid to be in uncomfortable situations but just because it’s uncomfortable doenst mean its unnatural.
/r/seduction09/11/21 04:34 AM
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Listen to him man op as a fellow cold approacher he breaks it down
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:13 PM
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Or ag hayden my favorite
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:08 AM
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Ag hayden and james tusk, tood v are my go tos they got me to start cold approching
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:20 AM
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Yup im glad u found out for yourself which a lot guys need to do. Cold approach allows you to live abdunantly with women. You dont feel so locked in to only talking to semi attractive women at your job or class or wherever u think is the only socially acceptable place when you can do anywhere.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:14 AM
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Hes getting downvoted because women armt that cruel. Girls like approaches as long as your dircet and show intent. While she may not be intrested in you most times they dont want reject harshly so they say biyfriend or some other excuse. Cold approach allows you to truly live abdunantly which you need to do with how flalky women can be.
/r/seduction06/11/21 12:17 AM
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The flaky part is apart of the game bro thats just how women are in dating. I dont think there is a easy solution just depends on where your meeting them i guess like if ur meeting them at bars expect her to be a drinker or dont be suprised if she is but besides location you just gotta keep at it till you find a great girl.
/r/seduction04/11/21 09:06 AM
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Yup save time and move on bro
/r/seduction02/11/21 11:28 AM
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No thats what makes it so funny you realise what women say online isnt what they say in person. 98 percent of the reactions were postive even when they weren’t intrested watch ag hayden day game vids that’s usually how my sessions go. People usually feed off your energy and follow your lead with the interaction even if they armt intrested. If your kind and postive and show intrest in what they are saying they will be receptive. Girls love postive attention just know when to back out it better to…
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:32 PM
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I thought you looked cute and then ask how there day is going
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:15 PM
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Rule number 2 dont care about others perceptions of you.
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:14 PM
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Rule number 1 u need to realize no one cares as much as you do. Plenty of people of all ages walk around on campus i just grab a book bag just say im a grad student or visting a friend and thats if they ask most times it doesnt unless i gear the conversation towards that
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:20 AM
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23 so i guess im still around college age
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:18 AM
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Yup that all i cold approach at. College is the best place because of the volume which u need not to mention everyone is so wrapped up in what there doing that they dont care about what your doing. Its a perfect place just be respectful i got a number of dates with girls doing cold approach at a college.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:24 AM
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Attention whore move on bro
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:00 AM
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Nope.Alwaysys go direct atleast in day game. You want the interation to be short and to the point make some jokes and just lay it out there. I know your gonna feel vulnerable but its either you or the girl im telling you girls will never put themselves out there like that.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:47 PM
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Excuse me i just wanted to say I thought u looked cute today. 98 percent would say thank u and smile and then i would ask how there college experience is going then they begin to talk my ear off then i ask if they wanna meet later for a bite to eat and then they decide.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:02 AM
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Charge her to the game we all been there bro.
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:08 AM
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I would say put yourself where there is a large volume of attractive women and even if u dont approach the fustration that will build from just watching them walk by will build to the point you should take some action.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:59 PM
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Bro its not about what they want. Yes be respectful and bail if they give you cues they aren’t intrested becuase more then likly they wont say it out right leave me alone. However your not gonna get what u want out of cold approach if you keep worrying about what someone else thinks. Its not illegal bro so just do it cause it wont matter in the end.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:06 PM
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Bro thats the hang up for most people. Im 23 in your predicament because of the same fear atleast i use to then i got fustrated and started cold approach it changed my dating life around i now been on a number of dates with attractive women.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:55 PM
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Be outcome dependent and enjoy the moment ie what happens, happens. My first couple dates i had those same thoughts but now im starting to realize how many women there are and i dont have to be so restricted in how i think. If you miss out on sex with this particular woman so what theres always another in the end whether u get it or not itll just be a memory so just have fun and stop thinking so much. I understand your thinking tho i started cold approach last month and got 100 approaches in. Wo…
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:39 AM
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It happens just move same happen to me
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:57 AM
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Abundance mentality bro, they dont care about you so dont care about them and move on each girl u meet u start from zero.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:54 AM
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Bro like 90 percent of 21 year okds are living with there parents.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:01 AM
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Understand you will get a lot of rejections but also understand women like being approxhed overall as long as your respectful and know when to bow out if shes showing signs of no intrest. Its lonly road your walking because everyone is so anti social these days but its also a very gratifying one too. You can look at my post history if u wanna see my experience with cold approach. Ive been doing it for a month in a half and gotten more dates then i ever have and yeah i also got alot of rejections…
/r/seduction26/10/21 11:19 PM
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“Especially because im not even good looking i think”., thats your self esteem talking. Plenty of guys have different taste in women is it so hard to belive your hot in somebody’s eyes. Liking somebody off appearance is one of the purest forms of intentions a person can have in this messed up world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:05 PM
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Exactly too many guys are afriad to lose so much that they wont try, but when you realise losing in this context doesnt really mean much cause your not losing anything .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:53 PM
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Exactly u dont need it to work makority of times. The average man has 7 partners in there liftime u can get way more then that by cold approaching and u can be attracted to all of them and not feel like your settleing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:47 PM
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Not true unless your really weird women dont care
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:27 PM
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My stats are about 68 approaches around 25 numbers or social media contacts and 3 dates. Probably a 20% response rate.
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:37 AM
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Its about the sheer volume compared to social cirlce with 6 potential girls vs 1000s. Yeah u may have a higher chance with those 6 girls but what happens if they all reject u or one does and you alienate yourself from the group. Not to mention all of the women u cold approach wont see you the same way sure some will see u as a player and others a creep but some will see u as a fun confident guy they want around. Dating is a numbers game no matter watter what method you use cold apporach is good …
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:16 AM
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How about dates? Not trying to sound judgemental i just wanna know a standard i measure my results aganist cause i somtimes wonder if this is the thing to do for dates.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:02 AM
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Im thinking of doing this to curb my flake rate.
/r/seduction25/10/21 12:58 AM
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Well people dont care if ur wearing them they are more forcused on themselves. Now whether it effects if u will approach or not well thats up to u.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:54 PM
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Wow i feel like im reading somthing right out my own head. I started about a month and a half ago too and feel the same way 60-70 approaches and only 3 first dates and no second ones and 20 somthing numbers that amount to nothing. The name of the game is staying optimistic bro. You have to love the process more then the end goal. A date or girlfriend or sex is the exception not the norm. Take pride in knowing your taking your life into your own hands instead of sitting back and letting what happ…
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:49 PM
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Its better then what if and not to mention you get a rush by feeling like you can do anything after its over.
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:48 PM
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Shout out to you bro. I just started cold approach too about a month ago and i had the same revelation. Im glad u decided to take your dating life into your own hands. I am average looking but never had any real sexual interactions with women and thiught somthing was wrong with me but after watching some vids then finally initating i learned it was me being to passive with my dating life that was holding me back. Even though im still a virgin ive been on three dates in the span of about 5 weeks …
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:08 AM
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Yup this guy has to realize everyone views things differently. Maybe u see yourself as creepy but the girl doesnt. Either way it wont matter u wont see most of them again so who cares what they think.
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:07 PM
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This is basically the answer. Getting girls is like being a real estate agent its all on you really. You have to get leads and that means showing intent and going up to girls and saying your attracted to them letting the chips fall where they might. Yea you’ll be rejected but it wont matter when your with the girl u like.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:17 PM
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Yea most will say no but some will say yes. U wont care about the nos of girls you’ll never see again once your hanging with the others
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:58 AM
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The drop off/flake rate is the usual. If i approach 15 ill get about 7 numbers and 2 will txt back and 1 will end up actually going on the date.
/r/seduction18/10/21 02:50 AM
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Yea it sucks when they agree in person but no repsonse through txt, i understand why but it still sucks. Dont even get me started on the girls who will give you a death glare for even approaching.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:42 AM
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Varies one day i got up to 20 one day and other days i wasnt feeling as confident and did about 9.
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:17 AM
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2 dates over 20 somthing numbers, about 60-75 percent had boyfriends 10 to 15 percent were not intrested. And the rest gave numbers and some didnt respond others planned a date but flaked. Overall it makes u realise how much a numbers game dating women is so it’s important to get as many tries at bat as you can. Probably 55 out of the 60 were all knock out pretty women who i wound’nt have a hope of matching with online. Talking to them in person i think adds points to your attractiveness cause i…
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:12 AM
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2 days a week
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:06 AM
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In a month
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:05 AM
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Hes right i started cold approaching and im up to 60 now and I honestly cant understand having a crush on an individual girl anymore.
/r/seduction16/10/21 12:02 AM
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I agree i got lucky during my first 2 weeks of cold approaching and got 2 yes girls and went on dates. I thought it would always be that easy now im in week 4 and 30 plus approaches later and its been alot harder finding as many girls who are as compliant.
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:51 PM
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I agree the best options any guy has is just leave and find someone new.
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:04 PM
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Tell me about it 12 appraoachew today and 6 off the rip rejections and 6 ghost. Shit makes me feel lame. But whats the alternative bro we just have to keep trying.
/r/seduction13/10/21 03:53 AM
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Be okay with failing because its better then not trying. You learn through failure most comedians bomb on there first sets.
/r/seduction13/10/21 01:45 AM
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Great phrase at the end.
/r/seduction12/10/21 11:29 AM
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Girls who want you make it obvious bro never settle for less just move on i know its hard to hear.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:23 AM
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Cold appraoching girls at college. I start by complimenting a random guys outfit after getting thanked i feel good enough to walk up to a random girl and talk to her. By the 10 th approach i feel like im chris rock out there and james bond rolled into one. Only bad thing is when the momentum is broken by a girl who ignores me or is stand offish then i have to start over again.
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:19 AM
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Its not always you she might have just been a goofy girl. There will be another brother.
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:37 PM
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Just say you thought she was cute keep it simple and then ask how her day is.
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:29 AM
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Just keep approching bro im in a cold streak right now too after getting two dates earlier in the month from cold approach. How do your conversations usually go maybe we can get a better idea on how to help you.
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:28 AM
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Exactly guys and girls play by different rules. To maintain my ability to get girls after the relationship is done i will talk to girls while in the relationship. Girls can act moral because they dont have to work as hard for relationships from the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:42 AM
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Momentum is ur biggest ally while out talk to a guy or someone your not attracted to that good interaction will make you feel a sense of eutphoria like you can approach anyone then let that carry to the bad bitches
/r/askTRP06/10/21 10:41 PM
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What benefits a man then if he does reach that threshold or is the woman always at an advantage.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 11:16 AM
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Idk why people are downvoting you what your saying is true. The barrier of entry for a guy to get into dating is higher.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 11:13 AM
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You can still be serious and cold approach. No matter how your demeanor is its a numbers game. A girl who likes you wont mind that your serious and girls who don’t probably wouldnt like you if you were joky either.
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:16 PM
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Thanks man i really needed to read this. Its a tough pill to swallow but medicine isnt always easy to take. Every girl i meant is always on her phone so i should take the hint when they take forever to respond.Damn it really sucks to think about.
/r/seduction04/10/21 07:39 PM
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I appreciate u did that but u should reappy look to approch more girls especially one without a bf so u dont develop oneetis
/r/seduction03/10/21 12:14 PM
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It varies but one of the best things about cold approach is it puts your destiny in your hands. Depending on your age id do college or mall or a park.i started two weeks ago did around 50 approaches since i got two dates planned and around 12-17 contacts. Legit 70 to 80 percent of the woman had boyfriends and the numbers i got the conversation flamed out or they didn’t respond. Each day i go out if i do a minimum of 15 apparoaches I usually can expect to get a receptive girl willing to gonon a d…
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:26 AM
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I find the opposite to be true. Day game its easier to stand out during the day and women seem more then happy to talk most of the time. Night game women are with friends which makes it harder to pull not to mention loud music is harder to talk through
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:48 AM
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Just walk around the campus and cold approach with your best outfit on that maybe better cause u wont be risking your employment
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:15 AM
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Im a big fan of ag hayden he got me to start cold approach.
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:44 AM
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Who upvotes this stuff la is the best place to cold approach
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:36 AM
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Always ask for number bro
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:35 AM
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Yes preach. Im trying out cold approch but after every rejection i come here and get deteerd i think maybe i shouldnt try anymore and wait, but reading your commoent reminded me why i startee cold approach in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 11:40 AM
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How many in one day bro? Im hoping to get my appraches up.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:06 PM
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There are to many hoes out there to get stuck on one girl. Women are not finite.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:04 PM
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Move on bro girls dont think over guys they reject so why should you think about them much they aint special there are other girls.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:00 PM
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Lmao shout out to you for approaching at least you got a funny story
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:30 AM
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I have to keep telling myself this and i know i wont see them again but its hard making my brain understand that they dont matter.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:27 PM
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Jesus i appreciate you wrote all that now i know what to “look foward to” damn it sounds so ass. So many approaches just to get date and then its still more work.
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:08 AM
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Bro it doesnt have anything to do with you its them just move on. Its gonna suck for the next couple days but time is a healer let the emotions wash over you dont try to hide from them and then get back on the saddle every guy goes through this.
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:00 AM
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Dont listen to them if you do you will be waiting to far in between for a girl to approach. Dust your self off and just try again we all been through it i was at a party this weekend and went 0-8 shit just happens all you can do is try.
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:49 AM
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I think he was being sarcastic
/r/seduction16/08/21 04:25 PM
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Props for approaching you should always get that. My only thing is give them a light compliment then push and pull them by insulting then apologizing that makes u stand out.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:04 AM
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Rejection is the norm you cant always control it. Take pride in knowing you took your life in your own hands and made a move.
/r/seduction07/08/21 04:29 AM
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Excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:44 PM
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The excuses they comd up with, see how when its the womens fault its always directed back at the guy rarely are they the root.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 04:41 PM
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The problem is some people never grow out of believing the things they were taught when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:35 PM
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No. The only thing not doing that prevents me from is dealing with girls that play too many games.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:46 AM
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That sounds like some childish games that i dont have time for.
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:09 PM
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Yup love that saying.
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:59 PM
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