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Me too, but you are already losing 95% and the ones who will stay are probably not attractive/without options and you probably wouldn't be attracted to them. So yeah I think that some level of faking is unfortunetely required
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:32 PM
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- If 'Alpha Widow' is a thing, then so is 'Stacy Widow'. I know several 20's/30's+ dudes who have success with one hot chick and now simply can't see themselves with anything lesser than. I am typical "Stacy Window" which makes me more emphatic towards "Alpha Widow". In every area of my life I am 4-6/10 at best, but my recent ex was 8,5-9/10 in every area. People were shocked she is with me, even strangers. The funny thing she was extremely attracted to me (at the beginning), we had awesome conn…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:49 PM
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It sucks if you are 34 and have very little life experience in general. For example I have never traveled or driven a car (I have a drive license though). I also JUST started discovering my first hobbies now. All I did in my 20s was studying (I just finished 2 universities with two different degrees), working in industry I hated (I quit and I still haven't found a new career/job, but I don't regret quitting) and also partying a lot (which is good thing for me(. The good thing I have some cool se…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:41 AM
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No, I just want her to accept that I only eat outside (I am all day outside house anyway) or I order food
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:05 PM
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I can’t cook and I want to find a woman who can accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:49 PM
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No, trust me, they were 8-9. People were schocked I was dating them and they were even approach by some semi famous people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:45 PM
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I am 4-5/10 and I was able to date women who are 8-9/10 once in a while (I am not kidding, even strangers asked me how I did it). Of course all of them dumped me after 3-4 months, but at least I had sex and short term relationships with them. I don't know why they were even into me, because I am average/below average in every area, but the funny thing is getting them was really effortless and organic. Maybe they felt I didn't care and I was always my authentic self, which women always loved abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:58 PM
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I am 4-5/10 and I was able to date women who are 8-9/10 once in a while (I am not kidding, even strangers asked me how I did it). Of course all of them dumped me after 3-4 months, but at least I had sex and short term relationships with them. I don't know why they were even into me, because I am average/below average in every area, but the funny thing is getting them was really effortless and organic. Maybe they felt I didn't care and I was always my authentic self, which women always loved abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:57 PM
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I am quite good looking with hair, but I look awful bald. It's why I got first hair transplant in 2018 in frontal area, now I need a second to fill my crown. If I couldn't afford hair trasplant I would wear toupee (hair system) and I would never tell my girflfriend about it. Too big risk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:55 PM
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What about hair transplant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:47 PM
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What about hair transplant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:47 PM
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I am 4-5/10 and I was able to date women who are 8-9/10 once in a while (I am not kidding, even strangers asked me how I did it). Of course all of them dumped me after 3-4 months, but at least I had sex and short term relationships with them. I don't know why they were even into me, because I am average/below average in every area, but the funny thing is getting them was really effortless and organic. Maybe they felt I didn't care and I was always my authentic self, which women always loved abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:51 PM
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Fuck. I am 34 and I just started everything. It sucks that women won't give me a chance, so I am forced to dating early 20s, but I would be too old for them. Any advice? I don't to wait for love until my 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:01 PM
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What If you are already 34? I don't think there is a sense to start EVERYTHING in your life. I am also only attracted to girls in her 20s and above 7/10 scale. I am no able to lower my standards. The funny thing is that I was able somehow to get her (people were shocked how I did it), but every one of them dumped me after 3-4 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:23 PM
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The funny thing they like me PHYSICALLY in real life. Like I can get a green flags form women in real life before they know me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:32 PM
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I can't get ANY matches on dating apps, but I have had a short relationships with girls OUT OF MY LEAGUE IN EVERY WAY whom i met in "real life" very randomly. Even strangers were shocked and asked if we are a couple. Of course all of those dumped me quite quickly, but at least they were really attracted to me at first (you can't fake it) and wanted sex and relationship. But I am broken loser in every way so they probably realized I have nothing to offer and they have tons of other options
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:50 PM
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What if you just STARTED discovering/learning interests just now at 34? Is it still ok? Also I can't cook anything and I only eat outise or order food and I love it that way. I don't expect my partner to cook for me, I want her to accept me that I don't/can't cook anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:31 PM
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You can fix balding by hair transplant. It's what I did and I will do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:33 PM
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So why she even Enter a relationship with him if she wasn’t attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:40 PM
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In dating probably yes. In relationships it's much more complex. If a woman is with you in relationship she should already be attracted physically to you. My recent ex (bipolar btw.) was out of my league in every term (especially look wise, people were shocked), however she left her perfect boyfriend for me. Unfortunetly she quickly dumped, but I was extremely broken loser then: unemployed, erecticle dysfunctuon, mental issues, can't cook and drive, late bloomer (never travelled, just started di…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:12 PM
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Do you think it’s really that turn off? Do you think I need to lower my standards (I cant)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:01 PM
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What do you mean by "same boat"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:49 PM
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You are in your 30s right? Would you be able to settle for him (or even attracted to him) in your 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:55 PM
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The problem is I am already 34 and I just starting figuring out/learning skills this year. I still haven't developed myself in my 20s and I am afraid women won't give me a chance, because I should be far ahead in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:27 PM
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What if you can't find you career/passions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:27 PM
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Sorry but women in 30s and 40s will never that attractive as 20s women. The good thing I noticed that women in late 20s/early 30s started going to The gym and got nice muscles/curves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:11 PM
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What a materiał bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:12 PM
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I am 34 male loser. I don't have nothing to offer HOWEVER I was able to attract women out of my league, but yeah...they always left me after 2-4 months. But I still wonder how I was able to attract (and keep them short term) at first place. Also I don't know where to start fix my life and I am afraid it's too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:27 PM
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You would leave your boyfriend if he lost his job and wouldn't be able to find a new one in a long time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:24 PM
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What things/skills (to attract women) do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:13 PM
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Is it a sense to start doing these things in your 30s? And I mean if it's something you enjoy, not only for women (but it's probably also one of the reasons)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:50 AM
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So you left your ex for a new guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:21 PM
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What if I completely wasted 20s and I am just starting EVERYTHING at 30s. I don't want to lie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:24 PM
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I am 5/10 guy with girlfriend who is 8/10, also 7 years younger (it's not the same girl you can find in my post story btw) and is better than me in every terms and accept many dealbreakers which 90% women wouldn't accept in me. But it was just a luck and we have great chemistry/compatibility. I am happy because I am not able to lower my standard to average girl and/or who is also in her 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:22 AM
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You should see myself and my girlfriend, you would be shocked. But yeah I just got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:35 PM
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I am afraid it's me and my current girlfriend...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:49 AM
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Some people have terrible shape of head to be bald, but the same person could be really good looking with hair. Balding guys needs to save a tons of money for hair transplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:00 PM
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I had a tons of sexual experiences in 20s with girls out of my league, but no one believies because I was skinny, balding, depressed and unemployed. But I had also a lot of fun. In my 28-30 I finally got hair transplant, gain weight (more fat but I like my current look) and get a career in media. However last year at 32 I left my job in media which I hated as fuck and came back to my hometown - both these things were great decisions. Now I am in relationship with hot 9 years younger girlfriend a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:58 PM
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If woman is legal and both parties (guy over 35+ and girl in early 20s) enjoy each other, you have no reason to call guy a doof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:36 PM
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I am just not attracted to women in 30s. I am 33 by myself, but I have much younger girlfriend and I noticed that women in 20s can be still be attracted to me, which quite weird because I am not a Chad, but I recently improved myself a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:32 PM
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I meant is there a time limit for it in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:30 PM
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So you suggest that this person who will choose "making a fulfilling life" should completely give up on dating or waiting for his 40s for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:58 PM
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What if someone is already in his 30s? He/she has no time and is forced to do both things (dating and improving other areas of life) in the same time right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 04:45 PM
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Yeah, I dont now why I made her younger, maybe I wanted to made my posts more „important”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:43 PM
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I am 33 years old guy with 24 years girlfriend who looks like 20-21, so you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:21 PM
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I am 32 years old guy (I will be 33 in next two weeks) and I am seriously dating (we are almost couple) a girl who is 21. We are attracted to each and have very healthy relationship, but yeah people around don't like it because of age gap. She is also more attractive than me so it bothers society even more, but we try to not give a fuck. No, I am not wealthy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:09 PM
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Do you think it's too late for me ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:03 PM
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I think If some guys are ugly it won't matter and won't be able to impress girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:38 PM
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Yeah, good question. I am unsuccesful 33 years old guy, who just started figuring out what I want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:36 PM
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I wake up at 33 :D And it's fucked up to start everything at this age
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:12 PM
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I get it into music production last year, but probably It will never be my career, just hobby/passion after work. Also I would like to do other things - writing scripts fot games, streaming games, having my own small clothing brand/online shop etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:09 PM
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Why do you think it's to late to become a professional?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:37 PM
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I might not get exactly where I want to go because I am too old ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:36 PM
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I think women would find it pathetic that I started discovering my first hobbies last/this year at age 32/33 years old. They probably expect that I should be already skilled. I can't wait that long I want "young relationship" with girls in 20s. It's last chance for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:46 PM
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I gotten to music production this year being 32 years, but I am afraid it's too late for me ;(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:31 PM
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Not everyone is destined to find their purpose/passions. If I haven't found it by now it's quite pointless. If I find it now it will be too late to get a reward, profits for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:18 PM
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So it's too late to find purpose in 30s if you did nothing in your 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:15 PM
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What if someone wasted his 33 years of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:00 PM
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I really hope there are more girls like you. It would be awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:35 PM
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I am 33 years old. It's too late to start everything in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:34 PM
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