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Women are objects obviously. Only men get the luxury of being seen as a human
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:29 PM
1

Men already do that now. fight for shared custody and then turn around and dump the kid on the girlfriend, mother, sister etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:34 AM
3

They can open jars and I can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:49 PM
2

No kids whatsoever. Once the relationship reaches its natural expiration, we part ways with no strings attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:36 AM
2

Don’t reproduce. With that attitude, you’re not doing the world any favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:15 PM
9

A high value man takes care of his own kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:54 PM
1

Sounds like a dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:52 PM
7

This seems like a dream tbh. All the upsides of a relationship without any of the downsides that slowly kill a relationship. No more constantly badgering for sex, no need to cook or clean for a man, no more resentment due to perceived unequal chore distribution, still having the companionship you desire. All of those tiny things that add up over time that slowly kill the desire in a relationship would be eliminated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:57 PM
15

A man who can’t dominate other men usually jump at the chance to dominate a woman, and that’s for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:13 AM
7

No. Not to mention the women in your preferred age range have the most options when it comes to men, you wouldn’t stand a chance. I’m out of that range and still would say no. You’re an older man attracted to younger women, but you don’t even have the money to lure them in. There’s no reason why your circumstances can’t change in the future, but as it stands now, yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:07 AM
3

No one is seriously still pining over a boy they dated in high school. As you get older and gain more experience, you experience better, they become distant memories
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:03 PM
1

That’s still a big range though. 30 yr old man dating a 25 yr old isn’t the same as him dating a 18 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:05 AM
1

No. We were both in relationships and I’m not that type of woman. It was just playful flirting. I just enjoyed the nice “scenery” while it lasted, then moved on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:16 AM
11

Yes. Its only happened once though. He was tall and very handsome. The minute I laid my eyes on him I was shook. He turned out to be a really nice guy to. I’ve seen attractive, cute, handsome men before, even in passing. But he was the first to ever make me stop in my tracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:41 AM
3

No. It’s all based on his approach. Even if I’m not interested. How he handles rejection will say a lot about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:53 AM
3

Even if you want to go down that route, it’s the MALES in Chicago that’s giving it that unsavory reputation, not the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:07 AM
10

Simple. Single women =something wrong with me/not chosen Single men= something wrong with women for not picking me. I could be wrong but has there been a female Elliot Rodgers,Tres Genco, Scott Beierle?? When men are frustrated and angry with the world justified or not they’re more likely to take out that frustration outwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:11 PM
2

Don’t quote me on this, but I think there was a study done, and it showed that girls did better in single sex schools, while boys did worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:58 AM
5

You’re really shocked by how men choose to behave on the internet? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:28 AM
4

Companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:36 PM
24

If you’re not getting what you want from a relationship then leave. It’s that simple. To me being “stuck” with someone that makes you feel alone is worse then just being alone. You wouldn’t invest money in something that’s actively losing you money. Your time is your biggest investment. The last thing I want is to be 80+ looking back on my life full of regret, too late to change anything. That includes investing your time with people you choose to be in your life. Choose Wisely
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:32 AM
5

That’s the sort of person that only goes to McDonald’s everywhere they go even on vacation. No matter where in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:15 PM
2

It’s still cheating. You can’t just change the definition of words. Is it incredibly unfair? Yes. But still cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:05 PM
11

I know you didn’t ask me, but I’m also a black woman. The best I can can say is to play to your strengths. Trying to look like other women(esp. other races) will only hurt you in the long run. Don’t be a poor imitation of someone else. I personally wear natural looking weave and extensions, and natural makeup. I wasn’t blessed with the curves that are typically popular in the BC, I’ve always been slim/skinny. I started wearing clothes that accentuate the shape I have instead of the shape I wish …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:15 PM
30

What kind of women do you see Drake out with or associate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:26 PM
1

I’ve had casual sex before only twice. But it was with men that I already knew for awhile. It takes me a good while to warm up to people generally speaking. That’s why I’ve never been one for one night stands, or hooking up with guys at parties,bars, clubs etc. Outside of them and relationships I went years without having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:51 PM
13

Let me translate. “ That’s the youngest person I can find to fuck without having to worry about going to jail”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:01 AM
24

Why is child care even negotiable? He’s the one that got you pregnant. Why would any man not want to be an active participant in their child(ren) lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:07 AM
16

Men need to compliment each other more. Women are very open about building each other up and complimenting each other, which makes them less starved for compliments as a whole. Men need to be the change they want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:39 AM
5

It’s a gender bias. If all things are equal single dads are looked upon more favorable than single mothers. Single dads are seen as heroes whereas single moms are considered failures. If there’s a custody agreement in place, the mom is usually the custodial parent anyway. It’s obviously easier to date when you only have your kids on the weekends and holidays.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:58 PM
12

Chores need to be done regardless to whatever job you have. If that same doctor lived alone they would still need to be done regardless. It’s only when a woman enters the picture, suddenly they become incapable. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:20 PM
22

Both people need to do their share regardless to their jobs. They both live there, so their both equally responsible. He’s not “helping” it’s his responsibility. Not only does she have to do her fair share, she also has to play manager mommy and delegate tasks, even though he has functional eyes and should be able to see what needs to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:02 AM
2

One could argue that a man with 50 previous relationships has trouble either committing or choosing a partner wisely. If you’re familiar with the definition of insanity then 50 failed relationships doesn’t look good. I’d enjoy the free vacation, but there would be no reason to take a man like that seriously. If a woman had 50 boyfriends and none of them committed to her, you’d be looking at her funny too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:29 PM
2

You cut through the BS by straight up asking what a man is looking for. If he’s unwilling or unable to give you a straight answer you cut him off. There’s no reason to drag out a relationship that might ultimately lead to nowhere. A man who knows what he’s looking for will also not want his own time wasted on the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:21 PM
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When a man is serious about you, then you don’t need to ask anyway. Even if you do ask, if he gives you anything but a definitive answer, he’s not worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:47 AM
1

No. Just let him down gently. There’s no reason to be mean or rude unless he has it coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:31 PM
3

Pants that accentuate that fat ass😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:35 AM
5

Not necessarily. You can have your license for years and still be a terrible driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 08:46 PM
19

How he treats women he’s not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:11 PM
25

Getting dick from a middle age man with hypertension and a receding hairline isn’t a flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:56 PM
1

The cut off age is 35 well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:53 PM
2

My parents have been married for 32 years. My dad has provided for us well. Seeing the way my dad treats my mom(esp during a time where she was sick) gives me hope. We got to travel every year during summer break. It’s kept me from a lot of unnecessary heart ache. It’s kept my standards high. It’s taught me the men can be great when they choose to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:08 PM
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Imagine being a simp for the opinions of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:49 PM
8

We watch gay porn actually. Just swinging dicks everywhere. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:24 PM
5

You can still make your own money and be with a man that provides. They don’t have to be mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 10:39 PM
12

The burden of sex,pregnancy, and child rearing mostly fall on women anyways. Regardless of what a man chooses to do. Seeing as how a lot of men already skip out on child support (both financially and physically) makes it hard for me to sympathize. The average CS payment is only around $400 a month anyway. Most women aren’t making off like thieves in the night. Raising a mans child completely by yourself ends up being a liability more than anything. It takes more than just money to effectively ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:16 PM
9

You can accomplish anything you put your mind to.👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:47 AM
4

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 06:20 PM
19

Neither sound like a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:11 PM
2

A man who instead of settling down at a reasonable age, decides to sow his wild oats until he can’t anymore, gets too old and is now looking to settle down because he’s going to need a nurse with a purse to take care of him. These are usually the men that try hit on nurses in retirement homes, the ones that have nothing to show for themselves in their old age, no family to visit them, the ones that like to brag about how they used to be “playas” back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 06:55 PM
2

In the fake scenario, going to the same place every month would be the red flag not the destination itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:07 AM
3

Periods
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:37 PM
14

No. You’re absolutely incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:45 AM
5

No. I have more important things to do with my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:20 PM
13

It’s definitely a gender bias. Single dads are regarded as heroes but single moms are seen as failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:11 PM
8

This is why abortion needs to be fully legal and easily accessible to all women. Can you imagine the pain and struggle to raise a child especially a son all by yourself, just so he can grow up, turn around and look down on you for all the sacrifices you’ve made for him? More women need to start selectively breeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 12:02 PM
7

It’s called projection. Ask any healthcare worker that works with the elderly who is more often dying alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:13 PM
1

The part that stood out to me was the fact that it was going well while he was taking her advice, but became completely undone after he started listening to the “misogynistic” friend. His friends abrasive advice is likely coming from a place of desperation. Since the guys a late bloomer he has more time to seemingly make up for. Feeding into that same desperation. On one hand the boyfriend says that women only like a man other women like. But the SAME advice he and Jessica gave him then repelled…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:32 PM
2

If you’re a good person in general and good partner to all your exes despite how the relationship might have ended, there would be no need to change things up. There’s no reason to assume the woman is the reason the prior relationships ended, or that they ended on bad terms to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:41 AM
8

If they feel that way then going by their logic women should completely avoid men who were raised by single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:32 PM
11

Who cares? Only thing that matters is if I would have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:16 AM
11

Did you seriously compare nausea, bloody diarrhea, headaches, breast tenderness, cramps, bloating, light headedness,mood swings, fatigue and dizziness to getting blue balls? 🤦🏿‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:43 PM
1

You married a 16 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:26 PM
1

Very common. The concept of a “starter wife” is there for a reason. Women aren’t the only ones that trade up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:49 PM
3

Those men usually view women as a utility. Living apart means he has to cook and clean for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:16 AM
2

I prefer A all the way. Mostly because I can know where I stand with the man in question. Also I can avoid men who use “hanging out” as a cover for a date without having the balls to actually ask you out. I don’t like to wonder is this a date or not? I’ve had men dance around using the actual word “date”. It’s small I know, but if a man can’t be forthcoming with his intentions from the very beginning, then that sets a bad precedent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:17 AM
2

You can have sex with many people. You only marry one person. Also you don’t need to use sex to keep a man when he has no issue with giving it out freely anyway. If a woman is deciding to add a +1 to her body count either way then the man might as well be worth it. Sometimes a woman just needs to let off a little steam too. We aren’t fantasizing about introducing these men to our dads over Thanksgiving dinner, we just want to get off. It’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:21 AM
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Anytime a video goes viral of a man doing his daughters hair. Or how men out with their babies is usually this big spectacle. I can go on. But that’s the issue. When men like you meet the bare minimum or even excel it’s then turn into this BIG deal because the bar is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:45 PM
2

Call me a prude but excessive porn use in a man is a red flag. It rots the brain. Porn is the first introduction to sex young boys get before they even know how to talk to a girl, or even fully understand the implications of what it means to lay down with a woman. We’re long past the days of sneaking your dads topless magazines or taking a peek at the lingerie catalogs. Young boys shouldn’t be seeing the choking,slapping, hitting, spitting etc..of women. Women can also definitely tell when a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:25 PM
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It’s sort of funny how you have more of an issue with a man stepping up, then you do a man abandoning his responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:42 AM
2

Hulk Smash
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:33 PM
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Isn’t it obvious? If a woman has spent decades of her life being the main caretaker of the family, shes probably tired of it all by the time she gets to her 60s, and less likely to want to do it all over again. If you’re a man in his 60s and you’ve had decades of home cooked meals, haven’t touched a stove in eons, then yeah he’s going to be desperately looking for the next woman to take care of him. And if he can’t get one he burdens his daughter to feed him(never the sons).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:28 PM
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Why would you approach someone you’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:35 AM
8

What’s that old saying? Men are the head, but women are the neck that turns the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:09 PM
1

No I wouldn’t expect him to. Unless I’m in a situation where I’m in physical danger from another man then yes. It’s less of an expectation, I choose to surround myself with men who already have that natural instinct to try and protect me. I wouldn’t want him or any man to unnecessarily put his life in danger trying to be mr. Macho man save the day then ending up getting himself killed or seriously hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:07 PM
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Ive witnessed men be downright hostile and rude to women they deem unattractive. To a lot of them if you’re unfuckable you might as well not exist. They fail to give those women basic human respect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:41 PM
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Being a woman in this world isn’t easy, but you couldn’t pay me enough to be a man. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:56 PM
3

If anything they make a compelling argument for abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:49 AM
1

It would depend on what those boxes are exactly. Are they shallow requirements? Like a height preference or is it a character trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:32 AM
1

HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎊🎈🎁🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 05:52 PM
3

As someone who also grew up in a religious cult. The sexual shaming women go through is hard to break free from. Even after I left the religion, it was hard to truly feel comfortable in those scenarios. Religious trauma is no joke. My suggestion is go at her pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:08 PM
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If all you want is NSA sex, you’re a big boy you can say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:50 PM
1

Women need to stop rewarding those type of women with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:32 PM
17

Pursue women who also are open to no strings attached sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:30 PM
1

She’s interested in sex, just not sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 05:47 PM
14

No, it’s because they know better than to lash out in situations where they’re likely to get their ass kicked. It’s easier to pick on the weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:21 AM
15

Lol! Yet when men are rejected in other areas of life they know how to control their emotions. Do they routinely lash out when they don’t get the desired job they wanted? What if someone took their parking spot? restaurant ran out of favorite menu item? Why is it that when other things in life don’t go their way they know how to behave?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:18 AM
6

I don’t trust men to keep up with a daily pill. I can’t even remember to take a pill everyday, that’s why I opted for the depo shot. If they come out with alternative forms of BC like they do for women then maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:57 AM
1

Why do you think child indoctrination is a thing? It’s because young minds are the easiest to mold and influence. The old person by that point in their lives will (presumably) have had a lifetime of making good decisions. (Teens usually don’t)Thats why the decline is noticeable, their behavior is a sharp contrast to how they normally acted. Truth is anyone at any age can fall prey to manipulation, that’s why cults,scams, and MLMs are so popular. It’s just those two demographics are usually the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:51 PM
2

We can acknowledge the reverse, like a younger person taking advantage of an old person through romance scams, due to their declining cognitive function. The part of the brain that influences the decision making degenerates. This is also the same part of the brain that’s not fully developed in 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:11 PM
1

If you had a positive childhood, then you can choose the good qualities your parents have and seek to find a partner with those same traits. Personalities vary, but shared core values are more important. Especially if you’re thinking of starting your own family with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 02:38 AM
1

I personally prefer phone calls. Texting endlessly about nothing bores me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:18 PM
1

Well as they say, growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:59 PM
11

A.. Men are replaceable too by the way. Literally everyone is.. A true respectable man wouldn’t hold that over your head anyway. So why should that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:31 PM
3

Just to fill you in (no pun intended) it’s the sexual desire to be bred. They don’t actually want to be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:27 AM
3

No. To me that’s different than specifically going to a bar, taking shots etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:27 PM
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Men who insist on drinking/smoking on first dates is a red flag to me. The goal is usually the same, to lower inhibitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:12 PM
1

If you’re talking about Covid? Couldn’t I just wait until they got over it? What difference would it make if I just waited 1-2 weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:50 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:06 AM
2

I would argue it’s worse, because you can see the potential he has to be a good boyfriend, but he’s purposely refusing to give it to you for whatever reason. It’d be different if she were having sex with the neighborhood fuckboi. There are no delusions of grandeur. What you see with him is what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:07 PM
1

Putting your salary in your profile is the dumbest thing you can do. Also if a good majority of the men in your area make similar incomes, you can’t use your money to stand out. It’s not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:47 PM
1

He’s dead. People die everyday. Time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:44 PM
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I think everyone men and women should collectively stop judging each other based on our ability to “get” someone of the opposite sex. The constant pressure will get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:05 PM
2

The man that lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:25 AM
1

The word “simp” was first made up and popularized by black people. And just like anything else we do, it gets adopted by the larger white society and watered down and ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:41 AM
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As a black woman all you need to do is look out around the community and see firsthand how chaining yourself to the wrong man with a child is literally the worst thing you can do. God forbid you have a daughter that ends up settling like you, or worse a son that grows up just like your boyfriend. Can you confidently say with your chest that you’d want your daughter to be with a man like your boyfriend??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:38 PM
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Speaking as a black woman, there’s generally more pressure on the women to “preserve the race/culture” even though the men are allowed to sow his wild oats. Black women are taught to put being black first before being a woman, black men are taught the opposite. It’s a conditioning thats hard to break out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:38 AM
5

The answer is to not deal with them. It’s fruitless to exhaust yourself trying to convince people all the time about why they’re wrong. And that includes everyone in your life, not just a Ron’s tic partner. Sometimes it’s best to let people stew in their own ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:38 AM
22

Remember the tradition where the woman was given the paycheck and was in charge of the family finances. I do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:48 PM
5

Depends on the woman. I’m introverted so I naturally prefer having my own space.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:41 PM
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I’m only speaking on the women who value having kids only if married. Some men don’t want marriage because they want to be able to have the option of leaving at any time. It’s obviously far easier to dump a girlfriend then it is to divorce a woman. It just seems unwise to tie yourself to such a man through a child. If men want to have that option, then living separately should in theory help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 07:18 PM
4

Black men like him make exceptions to the rules, when the woman is non-black.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:34 PM
0

Wouldn’t abortion handle both of those issues??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:28 PM
42

No kids and no living together. Those two alone will eliminate a lot of headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:25 PM
1

That’s not even what that post is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:52 AM
3

Money is important in relationships. It’s not just about the amount the man makes. Is he good with money? Is he in massive debt? How good is he at saving? Does he believe in saving for a rainy day? Does he save for his(our) future? Does he always have to borrow money? Does he invest? Does he live above his means? Is he stingy/generous? Etc.. After the honeymoon phase wears off, true compatibility in all matters is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:31 PM
0

Because for a lot of men it’s easier to cheat and/or check out of the marriage then it is to leave. At the end of the day even when he doesn’t love or like her anymore his “legacies” are still being raised,he’s still getting a home cooked meal, and his dirty underwear is still being cleaned. Why would he go back to eating 7/11 nachos everyday and sleeping on a futon? Lol Usually the only time the man leaves first, there’s already another woman lined up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:34 AM
4

Or how about this, we stop making fun of women for experiencing literally the most natural thing to exist in the universe. Men,women,plants,animals, even the stars in the sky all age and die out eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:23 AM
1

Be funny
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:48 PM
3

So you can afford a BMW but not a proper date? Not even a cheap date? Do you like her enough to at least pretend to give a shit?
/r/seduction26/04/22 03:46 PM
1

Personally I like hairy men. As long as it’s well managed and not unruly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:33 PM
1

It’s only a red flag for a woman who wishes to be married some day. A woman who has no desire for marriage wouldn’t take issue
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:58 PM
1

We all were born alone and we all will most likely die alone. Even if a woman gets married, she’s more likely to outlive her husband, so she’ll still die alone. In my opinion it’s better to be alone, then stuck with someone who makes you feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:54 AM
193

Dick is free and in abundance. A rich older woman who has plenty of disposable income who looks relatively good for her age, doesn’t need to pay. There are more than enough men who will give it up for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:42 PM
1

When I’m burdened with deep issues that can and should only be fixed with a professional mental health professional. Since men are conditioned to bottle everything up, the minute they get into a relationship, that woman becomes an emotional dumpster for everything that’s wrong with him. That’s not healthy. But that’s different than a man who’s emotionally well adjusted, but goes through a period of grief,sadness, fear etc.. due to any particular event
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:44 PM
64

That’s an unfortunate reality for most if not all women. I was around 13 myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:15 PM
19

A. I have nothing to hide, and no need to lie about the decisions I choose to make about my own body. I also would appreciate him not telling family unless we’re planning on keeping it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:14 PM
2

Being the best doesn’t matter if other things outside of the sex isn’t good. Good sex can cover a multitude of issues but it can’t cover everything. As long as a man is willing to listen to how I like things and willing to learn to improve I won’t mind the average man. Sex just like any other skill can be improved upon. For context the biggest guy had subpar cunnilingus skills, but my last ex wasn’t the biggest but his cunnilingus skills were fantastic and was eager to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:48 AM
1

I wonder how men would see her differently if it were her and another woman, as opposed to two men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:49 PM
2

No. No baby daddies allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:18 PM
2

Stay at Home Mom
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:32 PM
64

I feel the same sometimes. Then reading stories of husbands suddenly switching up after 10+ years into a marriage seemingly out of nowhere just exacerbates the anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 04:24 AM
1

Your sister probably grew up or was raised to view men and masculinity a certain way and is now projecting that on you. Any (normal) mom would be proud of having a smart and academically gifted child, maybe perhaps she fears he isn’t well rounded enough. He may be book smart, but how are his social skills? Does he exercise his body as much as he does his mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:41 AM
11

No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:14 AM
3

No she ghosted you because there was something about you that turned her off or creeped her out. I know it’s a bitter pill to swallow, but it’s the truth. If everything else was fine otherwise and she did find someone else. She would’ve just let you down gently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:12 PM
44

At least another woman got to claim him on her taxes for 18 years. What do I get out of babying a man? Besides high blood pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 02:27 AM
163

Russell first wife cheated on him actually. These men who criticize him conveniently leave that part out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 10:10 PM
1

And yet that creepy loser ended up with a woman actually agreeing to be his wife. You can definitely tell these shows were written by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:52 PM
6

I thought it was supposed to be the other way around? I’ve heard of men giving their wives push presents, after they give birth. WTF is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:47 PM
1

Gay men and women still grow up in a society where gender norms are enforced. Assuming they’re raised by heterosexual parents who probably also partake in traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:27 AM
1

We live in a society that prioritizes a woman’s youth and beauty above anything else she might offer, are we really surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:38 PM
2

There’s a difference between unsolicited dick pics, and when a woman actually ASKS AND WANTS your dick picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:20 PM
1

None of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:42 AM
2

Isn’t beauty in the eyes of the beholder?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:36 PM
5

I don’t mind being friendly with a man. But i prefer my close friendships to be with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:05 PM
17

I’m willing to wager there are more women out there who regret having kids, then they’re women who regret not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:18 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 01:13 PM
3

My dealbreakers *Overly macho/mean attitude or demeanor *How does he treat other people and women whom he’s not attracted to? *Does he Monkey Branch from girl to girl, relationship to relationship? *Does he care about his own sexual health? Does he insist on a condom? Does he voluntarily get himself tested without being prompted? *Does he respect a woman’s right to say no, even if she withdraws consent? Does he manipulate, pressure, or coerce (throw tantrums) for sex? I can go on but my point is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:20 PM
3

Uh no. Some women might accept a tattooed man only if other things about him personally check out. But go out of their way to snag one? Nah. I mean context matters what kind of tattoos does he have? Exs name?prison/gang affiliation? Nazi/symbolism? Face tattoo? Etc. Is he able to be gainfully employed with his tattoos? You gain more insight into a man once you can glean why he chose what he chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:06 PM
1

No. Being a woman isn’t easy(neither is a man) but I wouldn’t have it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:46 AM
1

Most people are of average looks anyways, and that’s okay. They can bump themselves up or down the attractive scale depending on certain factors e.g dress and grooming, diet, exercise etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:45 AM
2

Getting involved in MMA is a choice. No one chooses to get older. That’s not a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:15 PM
44

If this is proposed to protect men from having to pay for a child that isn’t his, then it should also be used to make sure the right man is actually paying. Seems unfair to have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:35 PM
6

I wouldn’t feel comfortable being with a man that fucks his friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:52 AM
9

No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:32 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:41 PM
1

Not for me personally. But if I were to end up in that way I’d prefer NOT to live together.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:18 AM
5

Look up red pill content. Study the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:45 PM
0

No. But I’ll only make an exception if the difference is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:44 PM
7

It’s all BS! And then you have men who have the audacity to flap their useless gums, then they usually look like they’re about to give birth themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:04 PM
10

I feel the same way. I love having my own place, and going and coming as I please. I would also hate to inadvertently falling into the “wife” role of cooking and cleaning up after a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:09 PM
203

I’d rather cook rice one grain at a time, before I ever propose to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:34 PM
3

If you end up splitting up, don’t let him get his greedy hands on any of the money you’ve worked hard for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:38 PM
51

Vet all men equally regardless of race. I can honestly say as a black woman, don’t go into it jaded based on the interactions of men from your own race. There are scrubs of every race. If he fetishizes you, makes weird insensitive comments. Stereotypes your race. Cancel him. ALSO what are his thoughts on the issues people of your race go through? (ESP. WOC) Is he sympathetic? Is he understanding? Or is it not a big deal? Does he consider you “one of the good ones?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:30 PM
55

After 11 years and a child, he was never planning on proposing. This proposal smells more like a “ well he’s taking too long, so let me force his hand and see what he says”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:25 PM
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