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DebateKelownaZ/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:40 AM
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NOT ALL WOMEN but honestly. There are a lot of selfish nasty women out there, and they feel entitled to judge everyone and everything in their life. I just avoid them. It screws them up when they look in the mirror and think they see perfection, and I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:32 PM
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Its complicated... As a guy I meet women who are perfectly happy being single all the time. Dating and sex is always fun however most women aren't interested in pursuing a relationship. You can be friends and that's great but why commit and lose your independence. Most even semi attractive women have options for whatever might come up. Desperate guys will shower them with expensive outings and or their other friends have invited them to fun things to do. Emotions are generally seen as a hazard s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:10 AM
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Exactly. I couldn't have said it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:15 AM
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Most women will fuck around and most guys won't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:11 AM
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I think your actually right in general but it still takes that spark. Women are nicer to men outside of North America and a lot of cultures value family more than here in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:56 PM
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What it's been like is that I have a primary relationship. We both have busy lives, so why not go for a drink after work with?? . Have that freedom. We keep each other totally aware of what we are doing. She likes mini trips, getaways with her friend. Its all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:47 AM
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Why not? I don't want ownership over anyone but me. Conventional marriage is too restricted. I appreciate my wife every time we are together. Its been an honest relationship, and I value it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:27 AM
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I have both, I don't think this is an either or solution. I am in no way settling with my wife, she is amazing beautiful and I am forever in love with her. We both have friends from time to time that we have flings with. I generally require more than her but overall its the same, the thrill and pleasure of meeting someone new or having a series of deep friendships. I would describe it as emotionally monogamous for life but we have separated sex and love. We want each other to live life to the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 03:37 PM
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Yeah free thought is definitely under attack. Its okay to disagree people, in fact its crucial, without it society devolves into hatred.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 04:45 PM
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I found that women seem to be supportive of another woman getting a divorce, while men amongst themselves tell each other to work it out. Just my 2 cents on the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:47 AM
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That's definitely a part of it. I spent a lot of time looking at photo albums with him and its amazing how different they seem now that he is so weak. I've focused on 3 things. Make sure he is comfortable, make sure he is cleaned up every day, gives a little dignity to the situation and he gets whatever joys in life that are available. Basically I'm just hanging out with him but its awkward with bathroom moments for both of us. He needs a friend tho, that's basically it. Sorry for your dad too. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 03:26 AM
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Cool post as I find myself dealing with my dads final days. I appreciate your insights. Amazing how you can touch people you have never known, there is something to that, and you did that for me. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:59 AM
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I'm a late 40s guy, don't use OLD. I meet women of all ages but they are generally younger than me. I've kinda asked before and if it's less than 5ish years they see it as the same. Last year I was seeing a woman that was14 years younger than me. I asked why she didn't date men her own age and she said she is into older guys. Women older than me put themselves down for some reason. It's weird. I think a young woman feel more confident and comfortable with a successful guy at any age. That doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:27 AM
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Trophy wives have it all. WTF not? Awesome life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:59 AM
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At least she is honest. You want to find an exclusive hot woman?? Hahahahaha...That was 20 years ago bro!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 04:09 AM
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Shallow is shallow both sexes. Overall I'd say that women care less about men's emotions and men care less about womens accomplishments. Just kinda the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:41 AM
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Yeah. Its gross. Cringy to fuck her for sure. Then they blame some guy for giving them warts or whatever. Sometimes, masturbation is a much better and safer option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:57 PM
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Lol. Its so fucked up nowadays for sure. I seriously have no idea where the checklist approach to love started. If you knew what love was supposed to look like.... you would just go get it! That actually surprises me how dumb and shallow people are . Yeah, the anger is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:48 PM
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Wow. I never thought about that. Do you think that we will go back to harems and such? In the near future? Ugh.. Low value powerless men. That sounds terrible. I mean whats stopping that guy from getting passionate about... basically anything, focusing his life and efforts towards it and becoming high value? I don't get that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:16 PM
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Hmmmmm..... I gotta think on that one. I guess that kinda applies to everyone..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:06 PM
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Kinda agree that a lot of women are lazy with their appearance versus say 20 years ago. I've been around for a while.. its like its no longer cool to be feminine. I don't know about the price part, but if you mean that they don't want relationships, yeah again doesn't seem to be cool for women to be in a monogamous relationship. Different ideals and goals I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:01 PM
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Oh that's not fair. I'm far from wholesome... lol. You should look at my profile. Good troll tho, and you make a great point. Maybe i love purple pill because of how people can say shocking asshole stuff here? IDK. But im definitely addicted to the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:48 PM
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Its weird tho. I've pissed off lots of women totally unintentionally. I mean I'm trying to be respectful and all but women are a mystery to me. I just gave up caring and its worked out way better. I know who I am, and I'm not cruel or demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:41 PM
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Yup i should go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:35 AM
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Kinda a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:34 AM
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I don't know anything about that. Equality is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:30 AM
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Neat! I'd like to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:11 AM
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I'm a straight white male. No problems. I know what you mean tho. Hypergamy is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:10 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:54 AM
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Its a purple pill. Women want to say about this as well. The point is there is not so many differences as commonalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:53 AM
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Men are Men. We aren't rapists. Thats weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:49 AM
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I agree with what you said here. Ive noticed the same attitude in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:17 PM
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I've always found that women don't like it when a guy talks about his feelings. Yknow if they are sad or whatever, dealing with disappointments or struggles. Its a big turn off for most women. They don't want to see that in a "man". Its the reverse for most men towards women. Men want to know how a woman feels, and help when they are struggling. I think that's the overall reason for men making the comment that women don't love them for who they are. Again its all very general, but for many women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:08 AM
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I agree with most everything that you said, and basically i just want to go back to the OP question. Why do men not value a woman who has big numbers with other men in a nutshell. I didn't do a great job explaining this so i will try again. A man who wants to commit to a woman is fearful that she has had so many men that have given her so many varied experiences that he will never be able to compete with over time. When he has his failures or shitty days he is always aware that she has friends t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:05 AM
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Every guy who wants to commit but is unsure if she is the same will think this. As a guy we can't tell if we are special and satisfying enough that she won't cheat and leave your for a charming bigger dick. Lets face it most women do its called hypergamy. Seriously why would i invest in a slut? Same for women here. Don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:17 AM
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We are incredibly happy, raised 5 kids and its been wonderful for over 20 years. A lot of people struggle in relationships. It takes 2 people who truly care and want to give to each others happiness all the time. Hope you find yours, and either way don't worry, life is a gift itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:46 AM
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I already have a great time doing that. We have both made FWB and its awesome. Absolutely nothing lacking in our bedroom either. Many know how to enjoy life without hangups. We have done this for 15 years and its been a wonderful relationship. We never plan on ever losing each other. It's like marriage evolved. We absolutely know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 12:37 AM
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To me it was a series of breakdowns that I didn't realize I was. Yes its impregnated in how you think, but if you search for happiness and inspiration everything will fall into place. Always be yourself but part of yourself has to be open to change. Eventually you will have to learn that hyper vigilance as a child leads to overthinking. Like you my life path has been eventful.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 07:24 AM
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What's IME? And yes I agree. In common is huge, right from childhood and how we actually are, not so much interests, more values.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 03:40 AM
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I came from a well off family. I married a woman with 4 kids with absolutely zero running and hiding from a husband who was literally trying to kill her in November 2000. We have been together and very much in love since then. We raised our family's together. My family is still well off but I'm just a millworker, and I'm having a happy sucessful life. I married for love, but it was before, when having sex with someone was prized, not like today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:37 AM
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Make him stay home. Use your c card or whatever to get by. R/China_Flu
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/20 07:33 PM
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Lots of women just want a attractive guy with a big dick who knows how to use it. Really don't see a difference. It can be a lot of fun. If kindness is given respect can be earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 07:12 PM
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Thank you! We met in November 2000, been an amazing relationship, and I have been truly blessed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 05:13 PM
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I'm a older guy with positive insights about your situation. Both myself and my wife had incredibly hard upbringings and developed failed relationships with children before we met each other. We both found that it was our hardest time before we met each other and that's why we truly appreciate each other. Our lives are complete, and we made a loving family between our 6 kids. Everybody has something to give, when you find someone else who gives in the same way you will be connected deeply and ho…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/20 05:11 AM
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