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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherWhy not set a strong example for your girls by leaving him now though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 57 | Sometimes I feel a little bad being single and then I read something like this and know I’m better off😂I would rather die alone honestly. Never in my life will I ever subject myself to that, never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 280 | bad tripI wish every day I wasn’t attracted to men, it’s truly my biggest flaw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Great adviceSuuuuper off topic but her eyebrows???? They are literally perfection I’m obsessed with this queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 102 | I’m so disgusted and sad for his wifeHe said in the comments that she knows about the affair. I’m sure he made it out to be her fault, probably told her that he cheated because she “couldn’t give him what he needed”. I just feel so bad for her because with her specific illnesses I’m sure she’s probably blaming herself :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 72 | I’m so disgusted and sad for his wifeWhat makes it more fucked up is he actually got mostly support in the comments. People felt sorry for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 164 | I’m so disgusted and sad for his wifeWhen he said that him switching meds was the reason for his affair my eyes rolled so far back into my head they almost got stuck. It’s obvious from the rest of the post that he’s just a pos man and I highly doubt meds or alcohol had anything to do with it, he just sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 151 | She Gets ItIn an AskReddit thread that made it to popular one of the comments was about a horror movie called Dead Girl. Just reading the plot on Wikipedia made me nauseated it was basically just torture porn. Absolutely disgusting I’m grateful I’ve never seen it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:03 AM |
| 153 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.Ooh it’s me lol! I made an edit to my original comment responding to that first one to clarify exactly where dude was neglecting his children by being locked up in a room with another woman, while leaving his child to take care of her siblings on her own. The OP is honestly such a queen and all of her comments in response are giving me life, I wish her all the best and imma keep defending her from all the misogynistic assholes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 47 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.I blocked and deleted an ex friend of mine from every single platform. We were like two peas in a pod from the day we set foot on campus, then comes sophomore year and she treats me like shit because she decided that the first man to pay attention to her was more important than our friendship. She hurt me so badly and at such a difficult time in my life, our mutual friends have always asked if I would consider repairing the friendship and my response is always absolutely not. Even if she came to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:23 PM |
| 117 | My parents tried grooming me, but I wasn’t having ANY of it!My mother taught me how to cook, clean and instilled in me all the skills needed to be a good wife, and she did a good job because I turned out to be incredible housewife material. The jokes on them though because I have zero intention of being a housewife and I have made it very clear that I plan to be single for as long as I see fit. I grew up feeling some type of way that my mom and I did all the cleaning and cooking while my dad and brother did nothing but eat the food and add to the mess. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:45 AM |
| 201 | Online dating be like...😂I watched this video, didn’t realize what sub I was in and thought “FDS would love this” ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 133 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.And you can run and tell THAT, homeboy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:09 PM |
| 138 | Reminder...I DID! Lol with the caption “Just leaving this here for anyone who needs to see it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:56 PM |
| 211 | Reminder...There’s this one girl I wish I could send this to, but we’re not friends like that :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 18 | YasssIt’s because the bar is in hell so we do mental gymnastics to convince ourselves it’s not as bad as it really is. It’s slim pickings out here sis, we just gotta learn to be ok with going hungry for a bit until we can reach the good fruit at the top of the tree as opposed to settling for the spoiled, maggot ridden, bruised nasty ass fruit that you can just pick up off the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Trip over a guy? (who?) Not I, that's really not my style. I'm too fly 💅🏾. Amindi - Love Em Leave Em (feat. Kari Faux)Today my dad told me that a significant other is an essential thing in life, I told him that I’m perfectly happy being single for as long as I need to be. Then I found this song and it just really hit, wanted to share with y’all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 43 | Getting real tired of this “Would you rather cry in a Rolls or an insert less expensive vehicle here” talk. The only tears in your relationship should be tears of mf joy 👏🏾 know your worth ladies and secure your own bagGive me an industrious man who truly loves and values me over a rich one who treats me like shit any day tbh. I don’t think a HVM has to be wealthy, they need to be driven, responsible and hardworking. I’m so tired of seeing these celebrity girlfriends and wives constantly getting publicly humiliated and then acting like nothing happened. This particular girlfriend recently got to add being cheated on with a pornstar (who her man PAID to sleep with) to her list of relationship woes. This might s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:51 PM |
| 13 | I leveled up, I can't be stopped. I wish you luck though 👸🏾. Back to the Streets by Saweetie ft Jhené Aiko AKA my newest anthemIn my brain she’s wishing him luck finding someone as bomb as she is, but we all know he won’t 💅🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 106 | This is literally my mood each time I read posts on r/relationship_adviceThat sub and the one about breaking moms are literally the best things to read if you need a reminder for why you should NEVER settle. Never ever ever settle y’all or else you’ll end up looking like a clown on Reddit ranting about a man who’s more trouble than he’s worth! Shooooot couldn’t be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:34 PM |
| 32 | I leveled up, I can't be stopped. I wish you luck though 👸🏾. Back to the Streets by Saweetie ft Jhené Aiko AKA my newest anthemThe energy this song has is just so fun and empowering. These are (in my opinion) some of the best lines in the song! My ex used to act like he owned me Ain't enough just to treat me like a trophy I had that, passed that, knew I had to trash that Bounced on his ass, turn that boy into a flashback I'm a 5 star b*tch with the price tag Gotta find me somebody that could match that Yeah, you know I leveled up I can't be stopped I wish you luck though Consider yourself blessed You got to fuck with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Another one of my newest anthems!!! Spin ‘em back to the STREETS! 👏🏾The energy this song has is just so fun and empowering. These are (in my opinion) some of the best lines in the song! My ex used to act like he owned me Ain't enough just to treat me like a trophy I had that, passed that, knew I had to trash that Bounced on his ass, turn that boy into a flashback I'm a 5 star b*tch with the price tag Gotta find me somebody that could match that Yeah, you know I leveled up I can't be stopped I wish you luck though Consider yourself blessed You got to fuck with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:23 PM |
| 5 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?Hopefully it won’t be you for long! The hardest thing to do is simply becoming aware of the situation you’re in, and it looks like you’re already there so congrats sis! I believe that you can level up and we’ll definitely be rooting you on while you do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:31 AM |
| 4 | With all this talk about learning to love being single, I wanted to share my newest anthem with you guys!And you know my girl Jhene said all that needed to be said on her verse 👏🏾 Yeah, you know I do this shit on my own Pockets long, I'm so grown, I'm so godly Even when alone, I'm never lonely Only call him up when I am horny Yeah, I'm that bitch and I know it (and I know it) And I don't even need nobody else to notice I be ridin' through the hood bumpin' my own shit Headed to the crib right by the ocean Yeah, I did it, I did it, I do it all by myself, yeah I get it, I get it, don't need nobody els… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 77 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?I wish this were true tbh. Currently witnessing a very smart woman completely play herself repeatedly. Was in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man, broke up, spent hours crying and complaining about how he treated her etc etc. Not only is she back with him, she let herself get downgraded. He is no longer calling it a relationship, they’re just “seeing where things go”. She’s doing all her previous gf duties without the gf title. It’s sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 08:17 PM |
| 5 | This pickme is gonna get herself killing some dayI think she’s quoting a meme or something? I swear I saw one of those videos and a girl holds someone back and says exactly that. But also that’s me giving sis the benefit of the doubt cause the video could’ve been making fun of women like her 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:26 AM |
| 303 | Being single is okay!As someone who’s never been in a relationship I LOVE this. When I was younger I would feel horrible about not feeling comfortable dating, I would agonize over finding a guy to date and would even cry as all my friends starting getting into relationships. It was a horrible feeling. But now I’m just chilling and it’s literally the most amazing thing ever. Like the joy I feel from living alone and being single is just ‘chef’s kiss’! I’m confident that a relationship couldn’t give me this same overw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 40 | She’s certainly not wrongIt’s from A Different World! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:51 AM |
| 109 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Loooooool he built like a milk dud I am screaminggggg! I swiped to his picture and honestly died, the audacity chile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 17 | Ladies can I have some input please? Why do you think we go for NVM/LVM? Utter useless scrotes , narcissists, cheap, porn sick, cheaters, ghosters? What do I need to work on for myself until I can get therapy?Girl are you me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Men don't see us as human and are already actively working to take our rights away. But what is liberal feminism doing instead of securing our rights? Exactly they are teaching men how to "safely" strangle women🙄. I won't ever talk about men's issues, I will make sure I secure my right first.The last one made me laugh, these men are truly delusional. Women in advanced countries aren’t “unfulfilled” because of greater technology and more freedom. We’re “unfulfilled” because that technology and freedom helped us acquire education, financial stability, etc which made us realize that y’all are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | My ex and sons fathers porn usage ruined all of our lives.I am sending you so much love! It will get better. I’m proud of you for putting your foot down. Just keep pushing, stay firm in your convictions and just remember that you’re doing it for you and your son. Stay strong queen! But also don’t confuse staying strong with keeping everything inside. Keep going to therapy and honestly it sounds like you’re doing everything right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 18 | OMG All that for $20?? 😩🤮He’s basically saying, if she pulls up and he ‘doesn’t like her vibe’, he’s gonna be upset that he spent the money in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 33 | To answer your question, "Does FDS hate men?"I 100% agree with you this space is so important, but the thing is, they already know. They fully understand what we stand for and what we’re doing. They know. I think it’s an important message to tell women who are new to FDS that we don’t hate men. But the male lurkers all know, and it infuriates them. You could explain it to them a million times and they would still have the brigades, they would still attack us, they don’t need explanations because they already know. The reason they create su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Refers to my last post hereActive in r/antifeminists.... ok buddy just say you hate women and go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm just focusing on myself!I’m on a diet and the one thing I’ve been missing the most is butter..... why was butter the first word I saw I’m going crazy 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 27 | To answer your question, "Does FDS hate men?"Exactly this! Like this is a lovely, well written post, but the male lurkers are grown ass men. We shouldn’t even need to explain anything to them, the ones who think FDS is a cult of man haters are the LVM we don’t want anyways. They don’t need to be coddled and we don’t need to explain a damn thing to them. If they can’t see their own faults that’s their problem. Let them be mad and fume while we level up, less posts dedicated to men and more posts dedicated to other queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 7 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂This is the face I make reading this AITA posts or those breakingmom posts complaining about trash men while they still stay with said trash men. The look of utter shock, confusion, and disgust. Like why sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 16 | Nothing but factsThis!!! I haven’t watched 365 but I remember all the excitement on social media about it. I read the wiki synopsis and was in shock. Everywhere I looked on Instagram girls and women were raving about this movie, how it was so hot and how they wished a hot mafia guy would kidnap them. And it’s really sad how they managed to romanticize literal kidnapping and abuse. That movie could be an episode of law and order svu but instead we have girls wishing it would happen to them, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 39 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportAt this point to people like that I’m just like, “Just say you hate women and go.” Because that’s really all it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 109 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportSo let me get this straight, she’s shaming and attacking the woman for trying to get the father of her child to support the baby, but not the man who has fathered more children than I can count on one hand and isn’t supporting them? I have my own grievances with the mom because of all the drama I’ve heard about this particular situation, but I’m so tired of everyone forgetting that it took TWO people to make that child. Like imagine being a woman and calling another woman disgusting and sad in s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 49 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!It’s so funny because the men that complain about FDS, they rant until they turn blue about how we’re judgmental bitches and horrible cunts as if that’s going to change our minds? Like do they really think that attacking us is going to make us go “Yup you men are absolutely right, thank you for calling me an ugly whore femcel I’m absolutely going to lower my standards and date you now. ” ??? I just can’t understand why anyone would be so stupid to think that the best way to “criticize” this sub … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 28 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻(Nicki Minaj voice) you can’t get rid of me b*tch!!! Lol still here stay mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:39 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about the term "Bitch."Personally it’s one of my favorite words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 27 | Successful woman is making $200k+, her husband willingly chose to get a job in a field that would destroy his wife's entire carrier, despite she asked him not to. Now he accused her of being selfish and put money before their marriage. LOLRight! Honestly I sometimes feel guilty because I get more mad at the women putting up with the bs than the actual men in a lot of these stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 16 | My husband got these for me for my birthday—only spoke once about these, he remembered and shopped on his own, and more...You are truly living your best life. Like this is actual goals, happy birthday queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:57 PM |
| 20 | The men of the MGTOW movement aim to live their lives with no female contact. The idea began on the fringes of the internet – so how has it made it all the way to the White House?Honestly if these men want to remove themselves from women I’m here for it. Because I am 100% sure any many who believes in this isn’t a man I want anywhere near me. So bye bye, hasta la vista, go buy an uncharted island and take all the other trash men with you. Trust you’re doing us women a favor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 41 | Ab so lu te ly worthless. I felt like a generous goddess today so I told him off instead of just blocking him outright as is tradition. You can't polish a turd to make a sparkly diamond, unfortunately.“You don’t have the power to hurt me bc I do not care about you” THAT LINE WAS EVERYTHING!!! Yesss queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:14 PM |
| 331 | Pathetic malesThey complain about their wives constantlyyy. “Ball and chain” etc. But most if not all of them would be so completely and utterly lost without the woman in their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:36 AM |
| 29 | Straight from the horse’s mouth!! These men WANT us to employ FDS principles ladies!!!! 💅🏽 I’ve added captions of important points outlined in our lovely handbook under each picture.They don’t want us to, they just know that we’d be better off if we did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:02 PM |
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