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| 0 | Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worthStudy the human behaviour vs. whining about women and projecting your individual experience onto the whole womanhood is not the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 09:50 AM |
| 8 | Men are being wrongly accused of “blaming women” instead of simply “improving,”when the reality is they are rightly sick of having to work for less than they are worthHow old are you? If you are older than 15 years old, you should have already realised that generalizing more than 3,5 billion people is very very silly and totally irrational. This way of thinking will not make you happy, and it will definitely disgust women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How do redpilled men view lesbians?It's a fact, but whatever keeps you sleep at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Fertility problems are becoming more serious for both men and women, but for women it's worse. There are more and more women diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome, insulin resitancy and other stuff, which greatly effects our cycle. Our cycle is way more instabile as it was in the previous generations, which shows that something isn't alright. You guys have the same problems. The number of young men with impotence problems is increasing, and the number and quality of the sperm cells is decre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 11:07 AM |
| 3 | How do redpilled men view lesbians?It's still not clear if it's an anomaly, or a necessary phenomeon among the population. AMong the most talented geniuses in the world, homosexuality is overrepresented. Which can be interpreted in many ways (for example, gay men didn't focused so much on finding a partner for life, creating their own family, so they had more time to focus on arts, spirituality, science etc) but whatever is causing it, it's true. Or look at the gay pinguin couple who adopted a baby. Or that the first female write… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:58 AM |
| 4 | How do redpilled men view lesbians?yeah. As a feminine lesbian, who's attracted to feminine women, I'm a bit frigthened by them sometimes. They are as pushy, immature , oversensitive and creep, as the "loser guys" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?Actually the same: height. If a woman is higher than average, higher than an average man, she can find it harder to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:49 AM |
| 16 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?small boobs stay small, whatever you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Women who won't see a man who's visited prostitutes, how would you even know that they have?What's your point? That people lie anyway, so we shouldn't formulate a value system for ourselves? Of course men can lie about it, everybody can lie about everything. I don't see the point of this question. By the way many people (not just women) doesn't support prostituion in general. So not even the way they do it in Amsterdam, or other red district zones, in developed countries. Me neither. The idea that the man I'm dating with, paid for sex is just a really big turn off by many aspects. I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 08:30 AM |
| 8 | Is it true that most women in college are promiscuous?"By age 15, 20% of young males aged 15–24 had ever had sexual intercourse. By age 17, this increased to 48% of young males, and by age 20, 77% of young males had ever had sexual intercourse" "By age 15, 21% of young females aged 15–24 had ever had sexual intercourse. By age 17, this increased to 53% of young females, and by age 20, 79% of young females had ever had sexual intercourse" The difference between the genders at the age 15 is only 1%, which is actually pretty low, given the fact that f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:19 AM |
| 9 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.you intentionally missunderstood the word predatory. Predatory means manipulative, which is often (not always) the case among 40+ men who wants to date with 18-25 years old ladies. My best friend is 25, her fiancé is 45. It's a healthy relationship, but even the guy told me that he knows many men who use their wisdom as a tool to take advantage young, inexperienced girls in a relly digusting way. THis post is about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:25 AM |
| 6 | Older men (30+) who specifically want young, inexperienced women (18-23) under the pretense of them having "less baggage", actually just want women with the specific TYPE of baggage (daddy issues / parental trauma) that would make them easier targets for predatory men in the first place.It's good to sometimes see a post here which handles women like humans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Why should women care about men who value virginity when they don’t have to?Women shouldn't care about their virginity, or number of sexual partners because they want to avoid the judgement of insecure men. Confident men don't care about these things. Or if they do, they don't use double standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why?This is the problem with many people who post here. They just encourage themselves and each other with all their negativity and hatred. They losr basically all reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why?same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why?"Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time " :D that's just so so not true. Most women have problems with their confidence. Where did you get this idea? Seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Most of them find someone. The percentage of those who actually stay single for the rest of their lives are really really low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Men are basically treated as an employee in relation to women, most of the time.That's the point. You can't have an assumption like that about a big group of people (more than 3,5 billion people). There are a few character traits that are more dominant in men or women but that's it. People who talk shit about men or women, assuming that all of them are cheaters, gold diggers or whatever are just so silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 5 | How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male?it's natural. People usually choses someone from their own social level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 11:11 AM |
| 2 | How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male?There are women who wants a rich guy who take care of their material needs. There are women who wants good looking guys, who are good at sex to have someone to have fun with. There are women who wants a guy they truly connect with, to have a meaningfull relationship. There are women who wants a guy they can dominate, so they can hide their own insecurities. There are women who wants a guy who dominates them, because this is how they grow up. There are women who wants something else, and there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotWell yeah, and the sky is blue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:55 AM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?HAving a one night stand, and having a relationship is not the same. Sex with a stranger can be good, but if someone wants a relationship, it's not enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Men are basically treated as an employee in relation to women, most of the time."If men always have to provide something to ever be liked, or get their emotional needs taken care of, they are basically forced to work a second job that is becoming attractive to, mostly incredibly entitled, women, and this causes a lot of men to resent and hate on women in the same way they hate their bosses, and that is totally unhealthy. " What world do you live in? Seriously. Please just stop generalize 3,5 billion people for God's sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 10:53 AM |
| -1 | What a mess..And you guys actually believe that this is not a fake profile? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/08/21 09:36 AM |
| 1 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?A person that is low in agreeableness will not change for another person. Women do have a higher level of agreeableness, but men also change by a lot after marriage. Usually men develope a higher level of responsibility, they usually will be better at their jobs, and unlike how certain people like to present, married men are the least likely to become alcoholic or suicidal. Usually men drop their most unhealthy habbits after marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?this would be also the case for man, man are also people, yet they are fine dating a nice looking friendly feminin mc donalds worker. Yes, but men don't rely on their partners income expect unusual circumstances (injury for example). Men won't be dragged down if they settle down with a woman from a lower social statues, they will lift her up. That's just how society works. If men would stay home with the kids for a longer period of time, the opposite would be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?Well obviously there are exceptions, but in average, this is the script, the sociological standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?Na it's more than that often they have now carrers maybe earn 100.000 or let it be only 70.000 dollar, the man must obviously earn more. There are studies about this. Jordan Peterson also talked about this issue. Women tend to date across or higher. The financial situation of the men (according to these studies) doesn't have to be better, but it does have to be on a similar level. Which is kinda logical. People want to stay in the social statues they are in, or want to be higher. If you are a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about changing the legal definition of rape to include “forcing to penetrate”?The word "rape" is more wide. The legal definiton has an other part too: " The overall definition of sexual or indecent assault is an act of physical, psychological and emotional violation in the form of a sexual act, inflicted on someone without their consent. It can involve forcing or manipulating someone to witness or participate in any sexual acts. " This part includes also the case if a man is being forced to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 12 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?If by higher standards you mean that they want to have children in a short time, then you right. Younger women chosing a guy to have fun with, older women chosing a guy to be the father of their children. With the second one obviously you have to be more pickier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 0 | r/dating is mostly male, but r/datingoverthirty is mostly female. Why?Because dating for males are harder in a young age, where females are more likely to date with older men (averagly 3-5 years older), or at least men who are mentally and financly (these two often correlates) more stabile. While dating for females is harder over ther thirties since men at this age are either married, or want to date younger women. Over thirty women want to have children, want to settle down (biological clock is ticking) while men can still wait with these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 05:15 PM |
| 11 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Just incels like you care about whether or not a woman had sex before you. Decent people don't judge, and don't think that virginity is "one of her most percious assets" a woman can have. Are you a virgin? You want to wait until marriage? If not, than I just don't see who you legitimize your views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Not at all. First of all we never had communism, we had a socialist dictatorship. Secondly people with high education level were way more isolated from people who had blue collar jobs. The society of every eastern bloc countries were very segregated. Labour workes often despised highly educated people, the propaganda didn't talk nicely about doctors, engineers or even teachers, since it was this group of people who were capable to critize the system. Communism as an ideology means that there are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 6 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?I'm a woman, and I rarely see ugly men. I live in a big city, so I see many people everyday. When I see an actually ugly man usually I pay attention to him, since ugliness is not a common thing. Most men and most women are average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 0 | What makes a woman a loser?When a woman rely entirely on her boyfriend, husband. She doesn't even want to be financially independent. This makes her situation instabile, and these kind of women become toxic towards their husband/boyfriend often. When a woman only cares about how men look at her. When the only thing she cares about is to be in the focus of men. When a woman is whinig all the time about her partner, but does not communicate with them. Doesn't say if something is wrong, and doesn't make effort to change thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:39 AM |
| 1 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.of course it matters, (duh) but attraction has many many factors. Look at atleast one of the links I sent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:51 AM |
| 2 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?In Hungary we don't really care. Neither men or women. Intelligence,manners and education level are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?that's just not true :D pretty often blue collar guys are way more manly than an office worm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 3 | As women outpace men in college degrees, will blue collar men still stand a chance in the dating market?Society always changing. If the structure changes, so do the people. So yes, women will start to care less about the education level of the men.Btw an intelligent man, who is well-spoken, well-read and has a blue collar job, can be attractive as hell. One more thing. When I read posts like this I always have this feeling that the person who wrote it is angry with women, or at least think it's an unfair thing. But it's just logical. Men date lower or across. They don't like when the women is on a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.Your comprehension is not the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"?Here is the daily "let's generalize female behaviour, and attitudes, and be a victim"! I think women who have plastic surgeries without some serious issue (burn damage, badly healed nose, breast cancer etc) are also insecure. Leg lenthening surgery? Damn... I didn't even know people do that. I googled it..... You do realise that that is a far more terrible thing to do? Extremely painful and dangerous. MAybe even worse than hip surgeries. A nose job is basically nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?A new day, a new silly, martyr question on this sub.... Everybody can have, and everybody has physical preferences , please don't act like a moron. Just because certain people have crazy ideas about body positivity, fat shamening doesn't mean that the majority of people(regardless from gender) would say that it's unacceptable if someone doesn't want to date, or have sex with fat people. Not wanting to have sex with unattractive people is kinda a casual, normal thing. DOn't you hear yourself? How… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Believe me that I did hear it many times. I was in yours-like vagina many times too (maybe even yours? loool). And this wasn't disgusting? What he wrote to me? :D Where did I said anything disgusting? Where? I didn1t wrote any generalization about men (I'm not twelve) and I didn't used any nasty word at him. It's funny how usually guys who write like this call people snowflakes, but they are the biggest snowflakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 3 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.No, it's biology. Obviously attractive people will more likely date with attractive people. What's your point? Attractive men will pick up attractive women, and attractive women will let this happen. Duh. Physical Attractiveness is a big factor sure, but biologly speaking females prefer a not as attractive, but intelligent, mentally and financially (these two often correlates) stable male over a hot one who doesn't have these traits. I don't get what you were trying to say with your comment. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?No, no , no and nopeee There is a difference between open up, and whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 0 | When a person claim "Personality doesn't affect attraction", it's projection. That person doesn't value people's individual personalities.Trying to explain things to incels part 23678 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 7 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Don't generalize. It's like if I would say ugly guys are all incels. I have a friends who is below average, but she had casual sex with good looking men. Nothing more happened, but she was okay with it, since she knew from the beginning that guys like them won't date her. But guess what, she had casual sex with good looking men. That's a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:34 AM |
| 3 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.People don't work like this. There are tons of studies, theories about attraction that says that people tend to choose a mate in the same level of physical attraction. Obviously there are other variables (social status, wealth, the views on parenting, personality etc) but physical traits are a big role. Ugly people can feel actual attraction towards other not so pleasing looking people. It's logical in biological terms.: " when faced with a range of options (e.g. potential partners) or life situ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:31 AM |
| 0 | If you can’t “negotiate attraction” but aren’t that attractive yourself, you can’t blame men that are objectively out of your league for not wanting anything but sex with you.Decent women don't blame men that are "objectively out of their leauge' for not wanting anything but have sex. Being sad, blue about something doesn't mean you blaming anyone. Your entire post is the usual "you ignore nice guys" crap. If you would drop this, you would be happier, trust me. Normal people don't think about relationships, dating in your theoretic terms. If you like somebody, you want to "get them", if you get rejected, you move on. That's it. I don't know how many women you actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 08:17 AM |
| 0 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Where did I write that this guy was average? I pointed out that he was short and weak. And average man is not short and weak :D If an average man would have attacked me, I would have been in trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?A " small/skinny/scrawny looking men " is weaker than a healthy, strong woman with a good stamina. Last summer a short, weak guy attacked me and I could push him away easily, and I even punched him in the throat. He fell to the ground, I ran away. I am not an especially strong woman, I am just a bit better than the average. That was enough to protect myself from him. Also if you compare a "small/skinny/scrawny looking man" who doesn't have any martial arts experience and a woman who do have, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Are attractive guys actually less creepy?I think we usually call guys creepy when they can't accept rejection, or when a woman didn't show any sign of interest but the guy acts like she did. This obviously happens less often if you are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Well obviously a statement like this is not true for every individuals :D that's not how sociology works. However read studies about the age of settle down, having children. It's common sense that women want to have children sooner. Here is one study (but you can find plenty more) about it: http://www.appstate.edu/~steelekm/classes/psy3100/Documents/buunk2001.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Not really. Quite often women are in a situation where they want something more, a relationship and men just want to fool around. Also men usually want to settle down later in their lives, while women can't wait with these things (biological clock is ticking) so women in their thirties and late twenties gets rejected pretty often. These are pretty common scenairos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?So I can only be nice with people who I want to have sex with? :D What a fucked up way to look at society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 0 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Well without feminism I wouldn't study at a university and I wouldn't have a right to vote, so bitching about feminism is pretty unlogical. Don't blend together feminazism and feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Well since we have a cultural tradition that suggest that men should initiate things, yes, men do get rejected more than women, but only in the "first round". When we talk about a relationship, or a long term hook up, women do get rejected as much as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Most men do not have the luxury to reject someone who approaches them That's just a very untrue and sad statement. My brothers would call this statement out, or they would just laugh. How can you look down on your on gender so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:05 AM |
| -2 | Men: why do you think we don't ever get rejected by you?Because men like this aren't using logic. They are frustrated, and they project it on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | How sex surrogates are helping injured Israeli soldiershow does this have anything to do with my comment? All I did was to point out that women don't become prostitues because they love sex so much with the clients. Men who visit them usually pay for sex for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 10:44 AM |
| 2 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?Physical strength.I don't think men realise that the fact that they are stronger than us (average, there are some low stamina dude) is something that is often in our mind. When we go home at night, and a man is walking behind us (I make a knuckles from my keys, I know it's silly :D) , or when dangerous looking man (drunk, drugged, agressive etc) starst to say pervert stuff. Or when we have an intense argument with men. Or just the fact that sometimes we have ask a man to help, because something … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | How sex surrogates are helping injured Israeli soldiersflies completely in the face of the feminist argument that women like sex at all, Oh honey, prostitues aren't seeling their bodies because they enjoy the sex with the clients | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Women Denying Sex in an LTR is a Huge Double StandardFor your own happiness just stop generalizing 50% of the world's population, and don't make theories which are based on memes dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Female economic liberation happened when birth rate was already declining. Obviously the fact that women today having children later is a factor, but men also tend to become fathers later. The declining birth rate is something that has many many factors, and the fact that more and more women want a serious career is just one of them. It's not like men want to become fathers in their twenties or even thirties (men who want to wait until they are in their forties in icreasing). If you look at midd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?You’re trying to correlate having bad social skills with being a bad person. How did you make this assumption? Where did I use any derogatory terms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?Yeah, this is what women care about. Eyelids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?But being attractive is not a general, objective truth. I don't find Justin Bieber attractive at all, but many young women do. I think Joaquin Phoenix is pretty attractive, but many women don't think he is. I know these are radical examples, but what women find attractive in a pshycial sense really differs. Things like body odor, pheromone also counts. Females unconsciously "decide" whether or not mating with that certain man will result in a child with good genetics. Reducing this mysterious, c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?. All the feminist talk about "changing the beauty ideal" That's not feminist talk, there are feminists who say this, just like there are men who think women shouldn't have careers. Actual feminsim doesn't care about childish issues like these. Actual femisim cares about things like female genital mutilation among certain religious groups, regions, enforced child marriages, the right to divorce and stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?There must be a correlation, but since there is a correlation between depression and how someone looks at themselves, saying that most of the incels are actually average looking is a pretty reasonable thing to say. Also you can't separate personality and looks. There are countless men and women who aren't as attractive by the general defintion, but their attitude effects how others look at them. And you defintely can't ignore the importance of social skills either. Incels usually have pretty ser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?Eliott Rodgers, Alek Minassian were/are radical incels and they are/were not ugly at all. Also there are studies that shows that people with depression tend to describe themselves way worse than others. Here is one of them: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4640994/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 10:57 AM |
| 5 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?What you don't understand that most of the incels are not unattractive outside, but they are utterly ugly inside with their frustrations, self-hatred (which they project on women). Elliot Rodger was actually a handsome guy, but this whole incel ideology poisoned his soul. Yes, there are many ugly men and women, and for them it will be really hard to find someone. But in most cases these guys are actually look okay, yes they are not Brad Pitts, but most of women aren't Jennifer Anistons either. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?It's good to read comments like these. I really hope guys who call themselves incels can mature like you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:33 AM |
| -1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?I'm a woman and I think we shouldn't conclude things like this because of the way many men in these subreddits are thinking. There are many incels and sexually frustrated men here. They usually have very low self-esteem, and project their insecurities at women. Majority of men outside the real world don't make conspiracy theories about female attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:27 AM |
| -1 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.If homicides againts men would be largely commited by women than it would be a sex related issue. But usually men kill men, so it is not a sex related issue, they aren't getting murdered because they are men. However most of the homicides againts women are commited by men. This is why it is connected to sex. Criminology do focus on more men, just like researches about alchoholism or suicide. As I mentioned, yes, domestic violence againts men is something the society ignores, but since men have a… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.How it is condescending? Men ignoring their health is a social phenomenon. They die way more often because of preventable diseases. I don't know where you live, but in most european countries screening tests are free. Why some people just can't let others to care? I thought this subreddit is about men's rigths. Why is it problematic if I write about an issue that affects men way more than women? | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?You are a sad sad human being. What pattern with men I insisted? You are the one who thinks men and women hae these patterns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.Yep, that's also a reason ( that's obvious, I think), but pregnancy is still one of the most "expensive" healthcare "issue". | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 8 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.Oh and health spending will always be higher for women. Look at that how much of the money goes to pregnancy related issues. If you don't count those than it will not be higher. Also in average women are tend to visit the doctor more often. Men tend to ignore prostate examination, while women tend to do their mammography every year. If they visit the doctor more often, then of course health spendings will be higher for them. This phenomeon btw is something that shouldn't be ignored. Men should b… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 11:39 AM |
| -4 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.Family, children and the elderly involve men too, as far as I'm concerned. The fact that women are also named separately is not a legal advantage, it's an answer for certain social phenomenons like rape, phsycial abuse which is something that's happens to women way more often. However there certainly should be more focus on those men who are the victims of rape or abuse, no debate there. Also there are certain things that are "woman issue" like pregnancy, which is a biological and also a social … | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 0 | It's okay guys they're just not REAL feminists. /s ... I found it on IG but it seems like OP's page has been terminated or something otherwise I woulda linked it.oh come on, men and women both shit on sometimes the other sex. That's natural. I came to this subreddit to see some actual critics about femisim (because there are things that are gone in a really really bad direction) but I only see shit like this | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/04/21 10:43 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone else find emotional preaching towards men really annoyingObviously if someone who doesn't even know you messages something like "I'm here if you want to talk" that's pretty shallow, but you shouldn't project it on every women. Also women are emotionally more open. I have two childhood friend who are guys, and they usually come to me if they want to talk about something emotional. Women are more into the emotional stuff, men are more into ractional stuff. Both are needed, but sometimes it's hard to meet in the middle. Don't compare a dicsussion with a … | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 22 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.Pussy pass policies like these only exist in countries where women do actually face with some form of serious disadvantage. Think about it. In Europe men and women equality is an actual thing (I mean obviously there are still men and women priviliges, but that's just nature) and in Europe you don't see policies like these. Because they aren't needed. Also these policies are bad for men and also for women. https://scroll.in/article/988368/policies-meant-to-reduce-gender-discrimination-in-india-ca… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Tired of the bullshit narrative that India is a shit place for women. Debunking this once and for all.The privliges you listed actually supports the narrative. There is a reason why in Europe women don't have these kind of legal advantages. Sex based policies are never the sign of an equal society. https://scroll.in/article/988368/policies-meant-to-reduce-gender-discrimination-in-india-can-have-the-opposite-effect | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I love that it was a question for women but most of the answers are coming from frustrated men. You actually have to scroll down because you all either ignore, or downvote the answers from actual women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Yeah, they shouldn't, and women shouldn't feel guilty for not wanting to have sex instantly with every dude they meet, and they also shouldn't let men who think like you manipulate them into sex. Unfortunately it's a common thing insecure men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Casual sex and sex with someone we already know is different. Just because if a woman was in the mood for casual sex doesn't mean she will always want to have sex with someone she meets. Not because she doesn't attracted to the guy, but because she doesn't want casual sex. That's it, end of story. Sex with a stranger is different for a woman. Feeling safe for example a big issue, and there are men who naturally make us feel safe, and there are men who don't. We need more time. Also the sex drive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I don't care about his number, and if he cares about mine (which btw isn't high) I would probably wouldn't want to do anything with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women joining the workforce has played a role in resulting a generation of lost young men.Women joining the industrial, intellectual workforce wasn't an equality thing, it wasn't a result of liberalism. Huge changes like this are never the results of things like this. It was, and it is economically necessary. Europe and the whole world lacked in workforce. This is why women started to work in bigger numbers. In the developed world we still have huge problems with workforce. There are just not enough people. Also back in the 50's in the USA and in some Western European countries usual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?If there is a woman who you think doesn't find you attractive, who isn't having sex with you and you want to have sex then why don't you just find someone else? I just don't understand this whole issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Where did you get this information? Certainly not from women. Me and my friends doesn't care if a dude we are talking to is having sex with other women as long as we are not exclusive. If we would care we would be exclusive. If we are not dating, we aren't having sex we obviously doesn't mind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?But why should I behave in the favor of this guy? Maybe I don't want a relationship, maybe I don't want a relationship with him. Maybe I just want a one night stand with a guy who doesn't give a shit about me, because I also don't give a shit about him. I don't have to justifie my actions, certainly not for some dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?You don't think you have a low self-esteem? One of the things I learned here is that how frustrated certain men think about women, and how they view us, and how they look at sex. They look at sex as a transaction, as an unbalanced thing that is depend on women. Which is scary to be honest. Take care, and please watch videos with Jordan B Peterson https://youtu.be/NX2ep5fCJZ8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?You are the one who calls dishonest 50% of the world's population, and find it problematic if someone doesn't want to have casual all the time and get's offended easily and I'm the one who needs to grow up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?If you mention the word 'insecure' again, I will stop this conversation. This is a manipulative tactic and I am not going to stress myself. But people who talk like you are insecure. I thought this "safe place" bullshit is a gender maniac snowflake thing. This is exaclty that - different standard for different men Nope. The way you are thinking is man-centered. YOu make everything about men. Please read the first sentence I'm not entirely sure which sentence are you talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?So you generalize all women. We are all dishonest... okay... I'm not pretending to be a "good-girl" because he has some boyfriend potential. I hate the term "good-girl". I just don't want to have casual sex with everyone in the moment we meet. Sometimes I met a guy and I want to have instantly sex with him. Sometimes I don't want it to happen straight away. End of story. Why do you make theories? Why should women have a good reason for their sex drive? People are not robots, we are human beings.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I actually don't get your point here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 11:54 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Believe me I don't expect you or anyone with a mindset like that to even look at me :D I have decent men in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?If a girl fucked some rando from a club after knowing him for a few hours, she did that because she wanted to fuck a stranger. End of story. Sometimes that girl isn't in the mood to fuck a stranger. Fucking a stranger and having sex with someone you know, someone you trust is different. If from this you think that it's because she thinks "you are not as sexy for me as the other man" that's your insecurity talking. It's not unfair for you to say that you don't want to wait for her as long as you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Pardon. Correction: from your frustrated fantasy world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?So from your fantasy world. I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Where are you getting this information? Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?The saddest thing is that this way of thinking generates their undesirable attitude. They just can't realise that if you look at women like this, you will no attract them. So it's not just that they are not as desirable outside, they are even more ugly inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:36 AM |
| 5 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?You find insulting what? That having casual sex depends on our mood? It's insulting for you that sometimes I'm in the mood for casual sex but sometimes I'm not? People are not robots for God's sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Men are not animals. Many men also rather wait with sex when they want something serious. Or they just understand that for women having sex is a more complicated thing. If we actually want to connect with the guy we often need time. Mature men realise this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?"same treatment" Honey what are you talking about? Same treatment.... something just went off in your brain. How can you actually think like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Not always. I mean if we look at certain subreddits where incels, sexually frustrated men are in a high numbers you may conclude this, but fortunately the men in my life all generally cared about me. Even if we just had a one night stand. They didn't forced me to do anything, they wanted me to have a good time. I just don't deal with the douschebags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Well obviously if he doesn't tell me that he thinks like this I will not know :D. I didn't said his point isn't valid. Again, the only thing I said is that this way of thinking ( women who have casual sex = sluts) turns me off. THat's it. YOu have these theories which just doesn't make sense to me. Having casual sex while someone is single has nothing to do with being faithful. People who are having casual sex are single for a reason. They don't want a relationship. If someone wants to have a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Which continent are you from and how it affects your dating life?I'm interested in men and women too, and finding girls who are attracted to the same sex is not so easy. But the radical gender ideology didn't srewed up everything here (yet), so I' don't envy the west. Comparing dating life to my parents.... I think when my parents were at their twenties (around 1975-1985), during the socialits dictarorship it was way more rare for people to date with someone who has a different different educational, financial level than today. Hungarians in general were way … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I’m talking about all the other men. Let's not try to assume what 50% of the world's population thinks about a certain topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?most men don’t want a relationship with a promiscuous woman. How do you know this? I mean when I talk about this with men they usually say that they don't care if the girl they are seeing had casual sex, as long as the number of these occasions are not crazy (I'm not talking about men who are interested in me, I'm talking about brothers, cousins, childhood friends, collegaues) Having casual sex doesn't mean you have sex with different people everyday. It just means that in certain circumstances … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?But where did I said that I want to change how certain men think about women who have casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Men’s preferences are not going away even if you build safe spaces where they can’t be talked about. Just furthers the divide between men and women. What? :D I actually don't get what you are saying. Who talked about men's preferences? I just said that I would not have sex with a man who thinks women who have casual sex are sluts. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?What new word are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Low-Sociosexuality men consider a woman choosing another guy as a reason to "next" - here's why" Low-Sociosexuality " that's not a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?No, if I don't find you sexually attractive I turn you off. If I want to wait with sex with someone I'll still hang out with them, make out, give my attention to him, care about him in a way he will know it. If a woman doesn't give you any attention, but still teases you, then you should just leave the situation. It's not the fault of womanhood that you don't see if an individual human being leads you on. Just pay attention at the obvious signs. Does the girl talk to you as she cares? Does she w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do (some) men think women are “obligated” to sleep with them?Of course he is, there is no question there. However calling women sluts only because they are not in the mood for casual sex all the time is pretty unlogical and annoying. Sometimes they want commitment with the guy in question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I wouldn't have sex with a man who thinks women who have a big libido are sluts in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Sometimes I just want casual, meaningless sex. Maybe I'm angry, stressed, fed up with the world, I don't wanna think or whatever. In a situation like this I don't want to connect to the guy in a deeper lever. So I don't really care about the guy, I don't want to get to know him, I just wanna have sex. In these situations I'm obviously shallow, I basically only care about how the guy looks. If I want actual connection, not just a pshycial one, and I want meaningful sex, I don't want to rush it. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:05 AM |
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