Kemmo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM.	Ask Red Pill	Kemmo	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 02:47 PM

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1	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. I agree absolutely with your point on the caveman mind, and it's obviously a big buttons for some girls. As i said, ropes, riding crop, any props or tools, will never be a competitor for me in her minds, because all of that is only a tool i use to launch her mind into orbit. That what's BDSM (and rough sex actually) is really about, fuck a girl, obviously, but mainly her mind, that's why rough sex (and in extenso BDSM) tend to be so deep etc .... experience. During a play (for sub wired to perce…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/13 12:06 PM
1	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. We all know that this is an extreme turn on for women but as for tying up girls with rope weird dildos pissing etc all bullshit I think - just plain weird serves no purpose. Actually it's exactly the same psychological process as the things you said earlier. Being dominant turn on most of the women because that assert dominance, masculinity, etc ... Rope may be used for humiliation or helplessness purpose. The first is somewhat specific and not for every girl, but the second is actually quite co…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/13 12:30 AM
1	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. That's why BDSM is not for every one. The good point are kind of obvious, but like someone said "with great power [over someone], comes great responsability [over someone]". So yeah, it's the price to pay. Sometime you have to take time to maintain your relationship. Sometime you say it out loud that you want to do something else. But it's true that it's a real "job" : Organize things, meet people, buy stuffs, take care of your sub. For me it's not that boring or annoying (sometimes maybe, but n…	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/13 12:21 AM
2	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. I may agree with you on that. Fetlife is filled with white knight because of wanabee who sees BDSM as an easy road to get pussies. But as many community, we have creeper, hardcore feminist, "attention whores". etc ... Maybe the blue pill come from the fact that for a lot of BDSMers, consent is a mandatory thing, and screen people for that (i do actually, due to a lot of disfonctionnal sub who look for BDSM but not for the right reason). I do not say that Red Pill promote non-consente, but as you…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:43 PM
3	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. Let me preface saying that BDSM is not for everyone. If you have interest in BDSM, like i said in another comment, i think BDSM play could give you confidence and assertiveness in other area in your life. You can have a closeted BDSM relationship (only in the bedroom), but you cannot control how the confidence you will gain from that (and you will), will affect you outside the bedroom. I have seen some very "nice guy" transform themselves while practicing BDSM. BDSM have an interristing side eff…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:07 PM
2	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. You're right on the roleplay and extreme. But actually in our relationship the play tend to leak on reality. Some man here come to start as beta and achieve alphaness, I see it the otherway around. I make it a play experiencing very extreme thing, and it spill on our everyday life. See that as the pinnacle of "Fake it til you have it". you must maintain a very strong Frame (almost not human in some sense) in this sort of play, and surely it influence other part of your life. As for the drag woma…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 04:01 PM
1	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. That's why i said i prefer the psychological side of things. By themselves, ropes, canes and riding crop don't have a meaning to me. They are tool to achieve a certain state of mind in my sub. My girl actually told me upfront that, we met in a bdsm chatroom. I knew her taste in that long before knowing her name. But that's not the case for every sub, some need to be trained to make them vocalized what they really need. That's an interresting thing actually, they try to fight their needs with wha…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:52 PM
2	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. That's not that uncommon. I see a lot of people like that. To take the other side, I know sub girl who are very assertive and may i say aggressive in their day to day life. Releasing control from time to tiime is often their rationale. A lot of dominant male i know are actually very beta in their everyday life. Beta isn't the good term, more like "not aggressive alpha".	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:46 PM
1	Similarities between RedPill and BDSM. /r/BDSMcommunity is the main place to go for ressources (/r/bdsm have some too, but is more pictures and videos) http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html : A good one, with some ressources (BDSM for nice guy is a common link) http://www.submissiveguide.com/ : By a female submissive, cover a lot of subjects, interresting. For the book part, the core of my collection is : "SM 101" by Wiseman, "Screw the roses, send me the thornes" by Miller and Devon, "The control book" by Masters.	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/13 03:39 PM