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33

Social assassination, nailed it. Especially if this similar scenario has played out ten other times.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 03:51 PM
1

Going back to the way things were is not the answer. Continue to improve in any aspect you can. Strive to be better, always.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 02:58 AM
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You’ll never get an apology. Just proceed as you normally do.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 02:25 PM
2

That’s not how the legal system works
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:12 PM
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Studies show that most Physicians actually refuse end of life care themselves because they’ve seen that prolonged medical support is a waste of resources and very painful the majority of time. It’s not “medical science” that prevents this. Legal ramifications prevent this and no one is going to risk their license and everything they worked for, until the law has been clarified.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 03:30 PM
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This is the best approach in my opinion. I have to remind myself of this very often especially when work gets extremely stressful. People actively look for weaknesses in your armor and use it for their own gain
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:38 PM
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Own it, and don't let it happen again
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 10:32 PM
1

Scenario 2 is completely understandable and I'm glad you have someone to lean on in during those rare instances you are vulnerable. But more importantly ya dun goofed. The first scenario you described in which you showed vulnerability was a situation that could have been and should have been avoided. You showed extremely poor judgement and then to make matters worse, you lost your frame when you needed it the most. But then you come here and attempt to spin the story as how showing vulnerability…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/17 12:09 AM
2

Thomas Edison was told he was too stupid to learn anything. It took him one thousand attempts at the light bulb before he got it right. Henry Ford failed and went broke five times before he succeeded with the automobile. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team. Success is simply getting up one more time than you fall.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:51 PM
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Weighing in from a medical background, and this should not be in lieu of your own personal physician, but condoms are 98-99% effective in reduction of transmission of HIV and sexually transmitted infections. These are spread via contact from bodily fluids. It is not transmitted if your skin barrier is intact (E.G. your testicles and pelvis).
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:15 PM
3

This is great advice. I hope everyone here sees this and digests it. The advent of Snapchat and social media has taken "keeping up with the joneses" to the next level in regards to frivolous spending.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:48 PM
6

You need to recalibrate. The pleasure is in the hustle, not in the byproduct ("indicator of success"). One foot in front of the next, if you bench 95 pounds today, take pleasure in benching 100 tomorrow. Don't quit because you aren't benching 225. It's about the progress, not the end result
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 10:32 PM
2

The two letters behind your name help tip those scales. The average man gets far less social acknowledgement.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:17 PM
1

The no contact for 24 hours is a huge red flag. It doesn't get any bigger than that. Always trust your gut. Same thing happened to me at a much younger age during my college years. Gf at the time didn't call for over 24 hours after having gone to a party. Our next conversation a day later was how she was taken advantage of. Trust your gut
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/17 10:56 PM
1

Not wanting to have sex is not a sign of disrespect. I'll agree with the second sign. The way to approach it is to hand her a broom and tell her to clean her mess. You avoided direct confrontation and took it as a sign of disrespect when she didn't do what you wanted her to do in your mind. That's weak. Drop her off to her house and she can find her own way to wherever she needed to go. Kicking her out of your car was a punishment that didn't fit the crime.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:29 AM
6

In the north, people love the race but hate the individual. In the south, people hate the race but love the individual
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 11:46 AM
1

Like with anything worth while in life, it all comes down to time spent sharpening your skill set. You spend hours, days, and weeks prepping for exams. Apply that same strategy pursuing companionship. Spend time building your social circles, pick up a hobby, go out and make new friends. That being said, finding a girl will not fill the void. You have to come to terms with the fact that we are on our own in this life. Learn to find your happiness within yourself, because at the end of the day eve…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 07:06 PM
13

If you are the best person in the room, you're in the wrong room
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 04:30 PM
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This feeling is a great tool to motivate you to better yourself, but it comes at a great price. I've seen many colleagues as med students and attendings let themselves be consumed by this to the point where it stunts all of their social relationships. Most certainly a double edged sword.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 11:54 PM
5

This is fantastic and a good refresher. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:16 AM
1

Right on. I had guessed interventional cards or vascular. IR is nice, get to play with catheters for a few hours and then golf clubs the rest of the day.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 04:01 AM
1

Agree wholeheartedly. Just out of curiosity, what sorts of interventions do you perform?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 11:13 PM
1

I meant when it comes to exercise. When it comes to business and careers they are some of the hardest working people I know.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 09:07 PM
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The motto is glory without effort. They think wearing trendy styles will mask their poor body habitus
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:16 PM
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I've taken a particular interest in this subject after having been around it and read about this here. I had no idea this was an issue as a friend of mine is Indian and goes to the gym and is pretty attractive and has dated all types of women. Things will start changing as he was telling me that Bollywood stars are now getting shredded for roles. This will permeate through the culture and body building will become more important.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 06:11 PM
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This is false. Everyone has a right to refuse treatment. Anyone can ask for the ventilator to be discontinued. There will not be any manslaughter charges. When someone cannot express wishes on their own, and they do not have a living will/durable power of attorney, the next of kin is the spouse, and if not spouse then kids. The next of kin will make decisions based on what he or she feels represents the patient. The only time criminal activity can be claimed is if you feel the medical staff have…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 02:26 AM
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Just to add my two cents, heart failure, fatal arrhythmias, acute coronary syndrome, stroke, and prostate cancer. Took care of an ex-body builder, would never have guessed he lifted a day in his life. So many complications at the young age of 55 from steroid use.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 11:59 PM
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I think that you need to define what "enjoy [your] life means." Your feelings of burnout may stem from the fact that your definition of "enjoy life" is defined by others. I assure you that those who are successful (exceptions always exist and I'm not talking about them) are not working less than 40 hours a week.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:12 PM
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The second you allow yourself to become complacent is the very second you begin the descent into mediocrity. The descent doesn't stop at mediocrity either, it continues until you hit rock bottom, and now you are working twice as hard to catch up to the level you once were.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 03:10 AM
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It has to be both. One does not exclude the other.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 02:57 PM
1

depends on your definition of mastery. It takes a lifetime to achieve mastery in any given craft. The level of dedication and patience it takes to reach mastery will take so much time and effort that it is extremely difficult to be proficient in multiple things. Pick one thing, and keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:07 PM
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Think for yourself, behave as others do. Write whatever it takes to do well in school. Do as well as you can though high school and college because this will put you in the best possible situation. Putting a target on your back at such a young age for disagreeing is dangerous. Now is not the time for that. Grind hard.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:53 PM
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The wage gap will be an eternal battle and will never close because it doesn't exist to the degree everyone believes it does. The issue, whether fair or not, is that women have to take time off to start and have families. For unknown reasons, no one likes to acknowledge averages. On average women work fewer hours than men. This is because the burden of children and families fall on them. There are plenty of females who work more than men and get paid more, and plenty of men who work less and get…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:40 PM
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I'll bite. What you went through is tough and unfair, but at the end of the day the responsibility and onus falls squarely on your shoulders; that's okay, because you will be a better and stronger person once you get past the anger. Your story should have ended after you called her ten times and she cancelled on you. If you were coming to meet your future wife for the first time, she had better be on her best behavior and greeting you on time with or without sweets in her hand. The fact that you…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:47 PM
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Reminds me of a story about a pilot who started out flying a small plane. While flying he looked above him and saw bigger planes above him and thought how nice it must be to fly those. As he climbed the ranks and flew bigger planes at higher altitudes, he had far greater responsibilities. While he was flying the biggest plane at the highest altitude he looked below and saw another pilot just starting out in a small engine plane. He wished he could go back and fly the small engine freely without …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:14 PM
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There is an art to practicing medicine, especially in an age where we are pressured to see and treat patients in a window of ten to fifteen minutes. I see your message in that one has to be accountable for one's health (this is key). I think we can agree on the fact that once all the potential life threatening etiologies of back pain, depression, muscle aches/fatigue are excluded, your advice becomes applicable. Not everyone that comes into a clinic needs stool samples and blood work. In the set…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:45 PM
7

Also a physician. This is terrible advice. For anyone reading, go see a professional doctor of medicine for any ailments. There are multiple diagnostic and therapeutic options in addition to guidance in prevention. An ounce of prevention is a pound of cure.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:35 PM
1

I wrote an email, when I was 19, in a letter format. She showed her new boyfriend within a day of receiving it. I learned two lessons that day: never share your feelings and trust no one. Always wrote in an unsaved word document from them on, and never saved.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 10:35 PM
3

It works differently in medicine. As a physician just keep training and specializing into a niche so only a small percentage of physicians in the country do what you do.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:03 PM
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There's a fine balance. As someone who devoted the entirety of my 20s into developing a skill very few have, I can most certainly say it's a balance between living in the now and investing in the future. Don't get caught up in the YOLO message, it can be very detrimental as it begins to bleed out into every aspect of your life; be it your social life, the gym, or your education. I may not have partied as hard as most 20 year olds, but the trade off is I never again have to worry about money. Bal…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 02:09 PM
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"The only way you can "win" an argument with a woman is to convince her she doesn't feel the way that she does." This is probably the most concise way to describe the subject matter. Well done
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:22 PM
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Home gym in a storage unit, wow that thought hadn't crossed my mind ever. That idea viable? Have you done it?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 04:40 AM
1

I've been down this line of thinking, and it's a road to nowhere. Everyone has a different path, don't worry about who is doing what and if he'd be in a better position. Maybe he made it to Med school and burned out or got depressed and failed out and now has loans to repay without a degree. Maybe he makes it all the way through and resents himself for it. Spend more time worrying about your board exams.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:25 PM
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It means you aren't going to stick around long enough to see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:07 PM
1

Careful not to reveal too much. There are only a handful of six year programs around the country. Avoid hooking up with people in your same class. They will be your colleagues in time, and they may be your downfall when it comes to trying to look good on rotations.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:46 AM
1

Well said. Not only does the work (notes and follow ups) come home with you but the decisions you make that have positive and negative affects weigh on your shoulders. You can't turn it off
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:40 AM
1

Cool post. Good to see a thread opening up on this topic and one I wish I had when I went through. I'm further along now and it's been some time since I was in school and internship but I'm available to answer any questions. Basic rule: never quit lifting. There will be times when you can't make it for an entire month. But get back on a schedule as quickly as you can. When you fall of make sure your diet remains on point. Edit: also medicine is undergoing huge changes and there will be huge favo…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:33 AM
2

A lot of this is going to be contextual (and there's no way of knowing unless I were there) however, it sounds like she kissed you to throw you a bone and try to keep you around as a friend.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:02 PM
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One of the worst places to die is in the hospital, alone, with multiple IV lines, tubes, and medical equipment plugged into every orifice. Alarm bells are ringing and the frequent hydraulic sound of a ventilator going in the background. If anything, they did this man a favor bringing him home. I watch death on almost a daily basis and for many, death is a much better option than the decimated condition their medical illness leaves them with. At the end of the day though, it comes for us all
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 10:20 PM
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What I meant is to watch for shady behavior. New password on phone, hiding things, inconsistent stories. You won't be able to see their interactions first hand but you can watch for all the red flags that come with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 01:50 PM
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Hard to answer your question without knowing more. But there are certainly some glaring red flags that you have picked up on. At the end of the day, she will cheat if she wants to. You really have to work on yourself and elevate your value. No way around that. Don't mention anything just keep your eyes and ears open and keep working on yourself. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 05:21 AM
1

You can't. I face this all the time. Plenty of things I could do myself, but the opportunity cost is too high
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:06 PM
1

Being a physician makes no sense from a purely financial standpoint. We go into it to help people and to try and make a difference; it's not just a job, it becomes who you are. You can make just as much money, if not a lot more, doing many other things and taking on the burden of a physician just isn't worth the headache if you don't have a passion for it. That being said, the majority of us would refuse to work for a salary of 120k.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:12 AM
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You talk too much. You shouldn't have to tell her that 5 girls did a double take. You shouldn't have to tell her that you can "easily" get it from other women. That is an aura you need to project without having to say it. A rich man doesn't have to tell you he is rich, he just lives his life. Also don't compare your relationship to anyone else's (your friend could be hyping/exaggerating his relationship up). A comparison will always result in unhappiness
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/16 11:04 AM
1

I hope you become one as well. It's a great profession
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 02:39 AM
3

These are rules I live by as well. Your comment is extremely under rated. Well thought out and concise.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 12:25 PM
1

Respect is always earned. Always. Totally agree with the apathy.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:03 PM
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Good post, I agree with your overall message. I've said this before and I'll say it again. Indian guys (the ones who complain), want the glory without the effort. They are the ones who show up to gym, chat it up for 30 minutes, and have a post workout meal at Taco Bell. I had no idea that this Indian victim mentality was a thing until I began reading TRP. This mentality is a cancer to actual growth and progression. Blaming your parents for your situation is immature at best and pathetic at worst…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 02:00 AM
2

Depression is terrible disorder. Navigate these waters very carefully. Highly functioning people with suicidal ideations are very hard to predict as they can hide their intentions well. I lost someone very close to me to depression. The signs were subtle and I missed them, even though I have been trained to find them. As a public service announcement, if anyone is suicidal and has a plan (ex: looking for a gun, or jumping out in front of traffic) they need to be brought to the hospital immediate…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/16 10:44 AM
2

The reason this becomes an issue is because people lack their own personal mission in college. They try to live up to the expectations that have been laid out by the media and others. Don't compare yourself to others. Compare yourself to yourself. Everyone is on a different path.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 12:56 PM
1

I think both of your views are closer than you both realize, with the hinge point on the meaning of the word frugal.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 04:12 PM
3

I can't give you any recommendations because I haven't gone down that road nor am I willing to. I doubt that many (if any) of the posters here will agree with what you have proposed. Unsolicited advice: from my experiences, this almost never works the way you think it will. It rarely stops after just one time, and sets a precedent to push your boundaries more and more. But proceed at your own risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 03:42 PM
1

Seems like you have already made up your mind. I don't understand why you are posting on the Internet, and secondly, why post here? I'm sure there are plenty of other subreddits that can give you much more insightful information than this one when it comes to this topic, now that you have chosen to proceed.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 03:25 PM
113

Growing up, my father always told me to compare myself to myself. Happiness comes from setting a goal and shattering it. Unhappiness comes from trying to accomplish someone else's goal.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 04:34 PM
2

This is accurate advice. Be true to yourself. If they ask what you do and you feel like playing around, be elusive. If you feel like giving a straight answer, then give a straight answer. Making music in order to tell women you are a musician is a symptom of a much larger problem.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 12:03 PM
1

"...Appear soft...I can understand where they are coming from but I'm not sure how to change it" Your entire problem lies within this one sentence. Take the time to reflect, you'll grow more if you come to the conclusion yourself.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:38 AM
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Ignore it, not worth your time to bring it up. She capitalized on the perks of both the relationship and the perks of being single. She flew too close to the sun. Move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:31 AM
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These kind of posts, although well intentioned, often do more harm than good by spreading misinformation. TSH is just a number and must always be used in clinical context, which is why we spend over a decade in training alone. The reference range of normal can vary depending on the assays used and the hospitals using them. Recommending iodine supplements haphazardly can cause iodine toxicity.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 09:14 PM
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Your edit is correct. Also because physicians, as a group, have lost their backbone and have allowed the government, insurance companies, and pharmaceutical corporations to get in between what matters most, the patient-physician relationship. We don't have a uniform group that defends us from additional regulation, increased liability, and pay reductions for no apparent reason. We also shoulder the responsibility of PA and NP oversight (meaning if something goes wrong when they manage a patient,…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:29 PM
4

Wholeheartedly agree, with the exception of dermatology. The females within that subspecialty have a different level of savagery.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:55 PM
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This does not happen as blatantly here in the US. However in general, women gravitate to lifestyle specialties over specialties that are more time invasive; many times they work part time in these relatively easier specialties while their partners take grueling hours and call. I've been meaning to post about how blue pilled this profession has become
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:12 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You have to allow yourself to go through the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. There is no particular order to these stages and you may spend longer in one stage than another. You may go through all five, you may go through only one. However you must allow yourself to grieve and only when you reach acceptance can you truly begin to rebuild yourself. "...to be master of oneself, and never waver in one's resolve; to be cheerful when…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 03:11 AM
1

I have seen things that many would consider worse than death, including people who have fallen from trees and fractured their necks. Paralysis, a lengthy hospital stay, and a tracheostomy, forcing the family to take care of you every day for the remainder of your thirty to forty years. The worst part of it was the part where they made too much money to qualify for Medicaid/Medicare so they had to sell everything (including the house) in order to qualify for the insurance to pay for the hospital …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/16 11:16 PM
7

Your values should allow you to accomplish what you can to the best of your abilities. You should seek mastery, not status, as status follows mastery.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 05:22 PM
14

You run the risk of accusations by cutting contact immediately. I would wean her off slowly and placate her, making sure to have it documented in texts that both of you were excited and in the moment. Then when things are calm delete her number and never go back.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:00 PM
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Solid advice that works in different areas as well. When I was an intern, I noticed that whenever I would speak slower and deeper, my Attendings would not question my information and decisions as frequently. Controlling the tempo of speech gives the perception of being calm, collected, and confident; and perception is reality.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:36 PM
2

Just own it. You got one because you felt it was needed. She requires no further answer or explanation for any of your decisions.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 03:17 PM
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The key is to be genuinely interested and ask questions about the topic, but don't over do it. This will help you gain knowledge so you have some ground to speak on if the topic ever comes up again. The other approach is to patiently wait for a chance to redirect the conversation.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:01 PM
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The patients we see based on appointments are called outpatients. We see them frequently, run some tests and write prescriptions so we don't have to see them emergently, in the hospital. If you ever get the chance, try to shadow a physician and you'll see that we not only save lives but have deep and meaningful bonds with our patients. Females do work statistically significantly fewer hours per week, and therefore make less. Wage discrimination is often cited, but can never be corrected, because…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:18 PM
3

Exactly
/r/askTRP21/07/16 08:41 PM
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Foolish, in this day and age.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:19 PM
1

A dissection of a corpse, is by definition an autopsy. It is a great way to ascertain and provide information for similar events in the future. Helps us all learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/16 05:37 PM
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Anyone who mentions this sort of fantasy is automatically out as wife potential. Either she has done this in the past and is trying to feel out your reaction or, as the other posters have mentioned, she wants to play around before settling in. This is a red flag and your risk for a break up has increased. Keep your guard up and try and sort out if this is something she has been involved with before or if this is just a fantasy. Slowly begin to distance yourself until you have an answer.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 01:22 AM
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The way I looked at undergrad, and the way many of my colleagues looked at it, was as an investment into yourself. You want to diversify your portfolio into social/leisure, academic, and fitness. You want to invest in each of these depending on your long term goals. If you invest heavily in one, it comes at the expense of another. Too much social/leisure will come at the expense of your academics and even your fitness. Too much investment in your academic life and it comes at the expense of your…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:10 PM
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I've been told I'm not allowed to do that anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:54 PM
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I don't think you understood my comment, as I'm not disagreeing with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 03:57 PM
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Making quite a few assumptions, they aren't post wall single moms. I don't have time for their issues. Also a physician is a provider by definition. We provide care for those who are ill. Loud and proud. Just have to be careful that it's not taken advantage of, on any level. Also yes, they do send those images as a way to snare someone in my position, if you allow yourself to fall for it. Again depends on how you carry yourself
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 01:53 PM
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Definitely both. I've had some text me naked selfies right off the bat and others who try to play the provider game. It all depends on how you carry yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:57 AM
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Can confirm. After the addition of those two letters behind my name, the amount of interest that has been shown has noticeably increased to the point where I am approached multiple times a week at work.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 03:53 AM
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This is a great response and is dead on with the exception of the developmental disorder. It's difficult to make that diagnosis in real life let alone from one post on the Internet. But the rest of your comment is the exact advice OP needs to read and digest.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:06 PM
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Just to expand on this, everything is relative. Boring or fun are both relative and are in the eye of the beholder. One of the issues is that she is surrounded by people who are single and who go out regularly. The grass is always greener on the other side. I'm sure she pines for their lifestyle without seeing the downsides and the instability that comes with it. I am a firm believer in keeping things simple. The question that needs an answer is "are you happy keeping her along for the ride?" If…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 02:04 AM
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2-6 drinks every other night is hazardous to your health. More than four drinks in one sitting or more than fourteen in one week, as a male, puts you at high risk for alcoholism and is not recommended by the national institute of health. Do with that information what you will.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:55 PM
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I never understood the obsession with "white women." I think it's absurd that this has become so heavily about race, in the year 2016. We should be beyond this by now. I disagree with a lot of what you have to say. Doing drugs. Really? It may be a quick way to score, but it's a dangerous path and a quick way to self destruction. Positive reinforcement with illicit substances is a painful feedback loop to break. Switching your career to cater to a certain race is lunacy. You risk your own financi…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 03:34 AM
1

Understood. Caught me off guard as I didn't see my comment coming off as such and certainly wasn't intended that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:20 PM
1

No one is shaming, just my personal preference. But let's not get caught up with that and agree on the message delivered. No need for threats
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:08 PM
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Completely agree with the message, although it could have done without the profanities. OP is making a huge mistake and it is awfully convenient that his ex shows up at an opportune time. Poster may love the child as one of his own, and his ex knows this and is exploiting this. Just remember, she didn't consider that in the equation when she left. I always like to look at risks versus benefits. Could there be a benefit, sure, but the risks to your mental and financial health outweigh any potenti…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 01:16 PM
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The real issue at hand, which I have seen with many Indian-Americans, is that they all want the success without putting in the work. They will come to the gym, take a few pictures to post on social media to show how much they work out, never to be seen again. Then they complain about genetics being the reason they cannot put on any muscle. This same concept applies to women. They want the most attractive, but don't want to put in the work. They take the quickest solution, by shopping at express …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:16 PM
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Irrespective of race, the goal is to achieve the best that you can achieve. This is what TRP offers, a real picture of how to improve yourself. Blaming Indian parents is not an answer either, it is a rationalization. Troubleshoot what you don't like, and find a solution.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:11 PM
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You are a good man. I've seen the worst things happen to the best people, and the best things happen to the worst people. And everything in between. Dealing with metastatic cancer is way beyond the realm of MRP, however, I would take the building blocks that MRP provides and use it to forge your own path. Lead your family, your wife, as you are doing. Have a close male friend that you can confide your emotions to, as you will be emotional and is expected in these situations. Most importantly, be…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 05:54 PM
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This is the way it's done. Set a boundary and be willing to withdraw attention or willing to walk away should your partner cross that line.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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