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Fun fact, reddit has more daily active users than Twitter. By like... A lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:49 PM
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As a guy who has FWB as well as ONS I can tell you that (in my experience) girls are much more open to trying new things with someone they trust vs someone they are hooking up with. Maybe I don't do ONS like other people, but I ask what she wants before I show up so I can prepare. Most of the time she wants something fairly vanilla (cunnilingus, missionary, doggy, etc). The primary focus in an ONS is to ensure both of us have an orgasm. Meanwhile, with my FWB the primary focus is having fun. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 12:41 PM
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The person quoted is a bitter ex who's rage-venting. That's not how it works at all in r/nonmonogamy or r/polyamory -- Just like you assumed, they are far stricter with strangers than they are with people they have a bond with. The person quoted is letting their imagination run wild and upset at how they imagine things to be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:06 AM
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That's okay and don't let anyone tell you it's not. Some of us want a lot of sex with a lot of people, some of us want a lot of sex with one person, some of us want little sex period -- all are just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:04 AM
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most guys are incapable of believing it. I love how many people assume they can speak for most members of a group because they are in said group. The person quoted sounds like a bitter ex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 07:03 AM
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When I can tell she's wearing makeup, all I can see is "chemicals and animal fat". It just... Doesn't process in my mind as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:18 AM
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A few vocal outsiders. While it is not true that 50% of all marriages end in divorce, there is still a respectable percent that do. That means the end of a BAD marriage, so how can that be a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:03 PM
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Small favor: What exactly is "hypergamy" in this context? As it doesn't feel like the oxford definition: the action of marrying a person of a superior caste or class.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:04 PM
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Is that the best you’ve got sweaty? Rule 2, you're lucky it's purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:23 AM
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r/woosh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:22 AM
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I'm dating a very masculine woman, couldn't be happier. She dresses and looks like a butch dyke lesbian and we have fun arguing over who the girls who look at us are checking out. The sex drive is the best part, imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:07 AM
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While he has a legal right to it, I do agree with the psychologists that it would be ill advised for him to actually do so. Really think about this, is the court going to put him in jail for having sex because he doesn't understand consent? how would this be enforced? That is what the court actually ruled on, not if it was a "good idea" for him to engage in sex with others when he doesn't understand what is and is not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 09:59 AM
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A grown adult is responsible for not acting upon sexual desires towards someone under the legal age. That's kind of the main point here isn't it. Find them sexy all you like (hell, fap to them in private for all it matters), but act on it and your ass belongs in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 06:32 AM
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I ask, usually it's asking so I can better predict what she is and is not into. I am going to assume you had a really bad experience with a guy recently, as I can't think of any of the guys I associate with thinking the way you suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 06:17 AM
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Rape fantasies are about wanting to be wanted intensely. They are not about wanting to be have sex forced on them against their will -- as a person's personal fantasy is consentual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 06:28 PM
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Porn or no porn, I want a woman who ENJOYS sex. That being said, I always ensure my partners have at least as many orgasms as I have. I don't know if that counts as "maintenance sex crap".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 06:09 AM
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Inquiry: what is a "Dark Triad" trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 11:07 AM
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That's called "moving on".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 03:23 PM
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Slightly unrelated, but this is very relevant: I've talked with a few couples on here through r/depression and r/toastme among other boards. Whenever bad sex comes up as a big problem, I ask them what they want sexually and why they aren't getting it. In 7/9 of my cases, it more or less boils down to not being able to ask the partner to do things out of embarrassment. One couple had been having D grade sex for 5 years, and she was considering divorce -- finally got her to talk to her husband and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:19 PM
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I had a coworker in her 50s (still quite hot at 50 FYI), she told me about her marriage of 15 years to a guy who was virtually sexless with her. Don't want to get into the details, but I am aware she is a highly sexual woman. My current girlfriend was in a relationship for 7 years, where the last 2 were 100% sexless. She took to me like a fish to water when I "practiced flirting" with her since I knew she had a BF and it was "safe" to do so. (Before you freak out, we didn't do anything sexual un…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:11 PM
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Being in any relationship has all the same benefits you listed. The vast majority of millennial are in long-term relationships with the same partner, but are simply skipping the marriage bit. (Cannot find the exact poll I base this on, but this one has similar results) https://news.gallup.com/poll/163802/marriage-importance-dropped.aspx In 2005, the Census Bureau reported 4.85 million cohabiting couples, up more than ten times from 1960, when there were 439,000 such couples. The 2002 National Su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 01:50 PM
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Anyone who merely suggested women are toxic in any way would be shot. Do you realize how unnecessarily over-compensating this is? You believe that everyone who disagrees with you should be killed? That's sort of proving the point of what "Toxic" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:58 AM
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Everything in moderation -- excess is often just as bad as absence. Toxic Masculinity is the issue, not masculinity. Generally speaking, toxic masculinity comes from rejecting the naturally feminine traits inside all males (just as all females have some naturally masculine traits).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 01:51 PM
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or free ANYTHING I think that's the main point. I do not agree with drinks = sex or w/e the OP said. But I do agree that if she is honestly looking for why guys get upset over this, it is because guys do not get free anything most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 06:53 AM
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It's because online dating is all about impression management. So having that first impression photo be perfect is so damn important that both genders will do anything to get the best photo they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 12:41 PM
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Women just have more experience at socializing then men. Girls are taught to play together, get along, and socialize from a young age. Boys are taught to "win, make them lose hard" and "hate your opponent" from a young age. It's makes men less experienced with socializing, reading social cues, and relating to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 09:24 AM
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I would have to get to know you, instead of the impression of someone sharing your handle to be able to answer that. But I am going to wager you have self-esteem issues, perhaps stemming from not wanting to come off as a disgusting "dude-brah" and inadvertently lean to the other extreme because of it. As people get to know you, the real you, your positive traits will shine through. But the problem is most people are trained to reserve complements for only when you are depressed. Maybe write your…
/r/seduction12/06/16 08:26 PM
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That is a very mature way to look at dating "IceCubeSoup". But what if I told you that the very fact you are concerned about what is fair to your potential partner IS something to offer?
/r/seduction12/06/16 09:51 AM
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Response 1 - how many: "none" (and NEVER mention any ex's ever again, as any girl other than her was a bitch or a ho. Just like all her ex boyfriends were pigs or assholes). Response 2 - how many: "none quite as amazing as you" (admitting to others, but quelling fear. You better follow up with why she is uniquely awesome though!)
/r/seduction05/06/16 11:13 PM
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When they ask how many women have you had here, they are asking "am I being played right now?" This doesn't mean they won't one night stand you, but this does mean they want to know if you are a keeper. What you need to do is calm her nerves, show her you are "in it to win it" and not just "going througj the motions". However you do this, do this with confidence. All people (women especially) are insecure. We men are expected to quell these insecurities: so do just that.
/r/seduction05/06/16 11:10 PM
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Cannot explain this eithout being offensive, so forgive me. Flaunt your socioeconomic status in how you speak and carry yourself. A balck guy who is as afluent and cultured as an ahem "white guy" is like double dipping on the foreign scale. Imagine if a girl had that uneducated cockney girl accent that's kinda sexy but was actually really smart. The same goes here: look at how popular Dante Carver is in Japan for a reference.
/r/seduction05/06/16 11:01 PM
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Look at a forced smile vs a natural smile. The forced smile uses all the muscles to a high extent, where a natural smile is more relaxed: soft. Like a 35% forced smile vs the 89% we instincitvely jump to when forcing a smile.
/r/seduction05/06/16 10:51 PM
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And if all that ends up as is one night of sex, is that a bad thing?
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:57 AM
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It isn't "using her" if she just wants sex too. This is why girls also have one night stands ya know.
/r/seduction30/05/16 09:02 PM
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Make your goals clear from the start. Women don't hate sex, we are just conditioned to believe that because so many men are selfish and unskilled st sex that girls would rather have the memory of good sex than have bad sex. It may make it easier to tell a girl you want to eat her out until she has an orgasm, and provided you do that she will most likely want more than tongue after her first orgasm.
/r/seduction30/05/16 09:01 PM
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This isn't a place to find dates, this is a place to ask for tips on how to seduce people
/r/seduction30/05/16 07:54 PM
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We men are pretty obsessed with looks, women are more obsessed with if you are a guy who is confident in his abilility to take care of her. So being a guy who knows he would be amazing for her and if she doesn't want to get to know you it is "her loss" (without being a dudebro douche about it) is the key to seduction
/r/seduction29/05/16 09:46 PM
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Move on, if the event comes up discuss it with humor and let the embarassment be an inside joke between all of you. That is all you can honestly do
/r/seduction29/05/16 02:20 AM
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Still figuring this out myself, but knowing you have desirable traits for women will significantly help you approach them with confidence. If you can approach a girl with the ethos of "I am capable of being everything you need in a man, but if you want to pass this up... well... that's your loss": then you are "the shit" as you put it (again that should be your UNSPOKEN message). What are those traits? I dunno, I am still investigating them. But I am sure knowing the value of what you bring to t…
/r/seduction29/05/16 02:07 AM
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The two key things to remember here "In a nightclub setting" and "a way for her to filter the softer/weaker guys". Good comment though
/r/seduction22/05/16 07:43 AM
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Remember that in some circumstances doing things that are not sexual can be even more passionate, intimate, and exciting as sex. So do not see it as you having to turn the heat down, so much as you need to "evenly heat" her heart
/r/seduction02/05/16 11:47 PM
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Women tend to have this strange concept that men only want them for sex and once they get it they have no reason to stick around. Spend some time with her and enjoy her company, that should help her see that the sex is a bonus instead of a basis
/r/seduction02/05/16 06:13 PM
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So we can take it to PM. But I take it you are projecting your disapproval of how society makes life easy for girls who are preceived as pretty onto the OP. The OP has not acted entitled, and has a genuine question about awlf confidence, but you are locking onto how unfair it is that she has privalage because she is pretty.
/r/seduction30/04/16 12:35 AM
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So by your logic, humans should never try and inprove themselves? Great advise troll
/r/seduction29/04/16 04:48 PM
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Then I don't really care for your book. As the difference between cakes and cake making is the difference between baking and chemistry: two wildly different things
/r/seduction29/04/16 04:46 PM
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Omg... it is not a "dating sim". It is an ANALYSIS of dating sims as a means of discussing dating science (he brings up multiple external sources to verify or refute certain practices in dating sims. Read before you knee-jerk react asshole
/r/seduction29/04/16 09:53 AM
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Remember, I am used to counseling guys, but this advise is still accurate for girls. 1: you are both stupid crazy into each other. 2: please watch this - https://youtu.be/jcgW8pNQvo0 3: now that you get why he "sends mixed signals", watch this and it's part two: https://youtu.be/9nJO7LHcPMI 4: please let me know how things go. As all too often people like me who give advise never hear how well things turned out. It'd be like watching a disney movie and having it cut 10 min before the fairytale e…
/r/seduction29/04/16 09:40 AM
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BREATH! You need the same basic dating tip that most men need: "you are asking him to hang out. Not to be your husband for eternity on day one." Men often see a girl and think WAY the fuck too far ahead. "Will she think I am weird, will she likes the things I like, "when" we have sex, will she accept my kinks". Look... you are just asking him to spend some time with you /outside/ work. Where you can get to know each other as people instead of coworkers. THAT IS IT. This does noy imply you must h…
/r/seduction29/04/16 05:15 AM
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Sadly, that is all you. No lines will work here. You need to have something to talk about with her BEYOND the fact you think she is sexy. If you don't see anything about her that you want to talk about, you should NOT approach her -- period.
/r/seduction22/04/16 09:09 AM
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The gym is a bad place for that, as women are there to exercise: not find a date. If you must act against better judgement, then do it with confidence. Walk up to her and say "Hey, I saw you and just had to come up to you and talk to you. I'm (name)" and go from there.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:21 PM
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"So... just to let you know. You can buy me a beer any time." It is a confident statement of how you KNOW you are worth her time. If that is too brazen for you. "Hey. I saw you and just had to come up and talk to you. I'm (name), what's your name?" While not as confident, this approach focuses on making her feel like the center of attention.
/r/seduction21/04/16 03:07 PM
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"What does it all mean?" By Thomad Nagel
/r/seduction20/04/16 10:10 PM
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This isn't me disagreeing, this is me honestly feelings like the OP is angry about one indivudals behavior instead of a groups. I see the OP as acting on a stereotype that most of the accused do not do. Regardless of if it is correct or not to this OP, what would such a claim be called more specifically?
/r/seduction20/04/16 09:59 PM
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I know there is an agrumentative fallacy in play here, but I am unable to pinpoint it. Do you know what it is as you have proven to be more knowlegable in logical fallicies than myself? As the OP is clearly yelling at a group when the OP wants to yell at an individual. While this is clearly projection, there is some logical fallicy in assuming that one member of a group resents all members of that group.
/r/seduction19/04/16 10:53 PM
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They are pretty close. Condedcending: speaking from superior to inferior. Patronizing: Treating with kindness that betrays a sense of superiority
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:29 PM
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1: And you have proved an authority on fallacies how? 2: The point remains that the OP is upset about something else.
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:26 PM
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Please don't do that in the futute. Reddit is meant to be searched. Without your post your searches will not be helpful to others
/r/seduction18/04/16 06:53 PM
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https://youtu.be/v5vzCmURh7o Op claims to tackle one subject, but since OP cannot win against subject A, OP make an attack on a different (weaker) problem unrelated to subject A except by the common factor of men. This is why I am asking who hurt the OP and how, as this is a post addressing someone spe ific and applying it to all men
/r/seduction18/04/16 06:52 PM
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At worst it should have sounded condescending as I am older than original poster and more experienced in the original poster.
/r/seduction18/04/16 06:42 PM
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To clarify this: "What do I have to offer a girl? What am I expecting of a girl? Does that sound like a fair trade? Why/Why-Not?"
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:46 AM
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There's no shame in asking a girl if she wants to have sex. The shame is in prioritizing your pleasure over hers. If you are talking with a girl and you seem to get along, just tell her you want to take her back to your room and give her an orgasm. You'll probably have around a 70% success rate with this tactic. With increasing sucess if you follow through and DO give her an orgasm.
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:44 AM
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Your excitement over this is adorable. Happy for you and hope you and little miss grinder have a fun time going forward
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:39 AM
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If you stub your toe you shouldn't see a doctor, if that same toe regularly hurts -- then you should see a doctor as the problem may be serious or something isn't healing right. The same goes for your head. Head doctors spent half a decade learning what can keep your mind from working as you want it to: go see one and use them to make your mind do as you desire.
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:34 AM
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Congrats. Maybe see her monday to tease her curiosity? Ask her something like "Hey, I was wondering if you like sushi" in a way of feasing a location (feel free to change the question). It will give you an excuse to talk to her other than "hey, I forgot to ask for your number" and it will also make her remember she said she wqs free tuesday for a date.
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:31 AM
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Seriously, just focus on the two of you having a good time. If you both enjoy yourselves the likelyhood of both of you "shacking up" is way higher than if you are so focused on the taking her home part you give her few reasons to want to
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:26 AM
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Okay. Who hurt you and how to motivate you to make such a straw man argument?
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:24 AM
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1: Relax. Take a breather. You like this gal, so focus on having a good time with her. After you two have had a fun day (or when a moment feels especially romantic) kiss her. 2: For bonus points (with her) if it seems like she wants to go up stairs and have sex. Pin her against the wall, look into her eyes, and then kiss her. If she doesn't seem to want to fuck on the first date that's fine, but to make her first memorable maybe try to answer her curiosity if you two will have a second date with…
/r/seduction18/04/16 10:23 AM
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Your problem is you do not feel like you are worth getting to know. Spend some time reflecting on what you have to offer and why a girl should be begging to go home with you. This will make it way easier to do the "I'm awesome and interested in you, if you are not interested that's fine because it's your loss" mindset which is at the core of game
/r/seduction18/04/16 02:45 AM
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Please remember that you cannot always win. If two people are talking, a third person interhecting will always be seen as rude. The signal the girls are sending is "we want to enjoy each others company, everyone else can fuck off" I am sure there are groups of 3 women you can find where one of them would enjoy someone to pair up with, but two? If two girls are talking, take a hint and keep on looking.
/r/seduction18/04/16 02:42 AM
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Then don't be until you feel comfortable being more intimate. There is no natural law stating "a man must be emotionally intimate with a woman within 76167 minutes or else locust shall flood the earth and chew off his nutz" or whatever else you're worried might happen. If you feel safe with her, open up. If you don't, then don't. If she asks, tell her the truth "I am not comfortable enough with you yet to talk about my feelings". Or better yet, use inclusive words: "I don't feel like we are inti…
/r/seduction18/04/16 12:40 AM
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imho: if you started off with a quick lay and it is starting to become more serious. It doesn't really matter how you become more intimate with said person
/r/seduction18/04/16 12:34 AM
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As much or as little as feels natural
/r/seduction18/04/16 12:32 AM
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Some girls just can't be attained. It sucks, let me tell you that first hand. This is the best advise for ANYONE in regards to going after girls
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:48 AM
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For the longest time in the U.S. it was believed that a man could not be raped by a woman, as the prevailing thought was that he would not have an erection if he didn't want it. Took the U.S. a long ass time to realize that is not true.
/r/MensRights28/03/16 10:45 AM
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Cannot give enough up votes for wanting a 1st hand account of the evidence
/r/MensRights28/03/16 10:43 AM
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