Then get with a girl. You can either do it online or go out and meet someone. Staying single isn't a brag or anything, and neither being a relationship. If you're lonely and need someone to love, find a person to fill that hole in your heart.
You're avoiding women, and for what? Because your experience with your ex was bad? I could avoided all men because i saw a guy on the news rape someone, but that doesn't mean all men are like that.