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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	STBX's Lawyer "fired" her...		Ker_Splish	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 05:29 AM

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3	STBX's Lawyer "fired" her... Admittedly I've been perhaps a little too generous as far as supporting her during all of this. My work schedule is ridiculous and I can't practically take my son full time, leaving the STBX with a means to keep on standing there with her hand out. Should know about another job with better schedule in the next couple weeks, would be a game changer if I was only working day shifts while the boy was in school. Then I could "smoke her out" so to speak...	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 08:28 PM
3	STBX's Lawyer "fired" her... It was explained to me that striking her plea would make it like she never responded to the petition. Once I'm out of the picture she's gotta get a job, I'm sure she's not overly fond of that idea.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 12:13 PM
5	STBX's Lawyer "fired" her... Thanks for the reply and encouraging words bro. I'll ask my lawyer, he's been pretty cool so far about asking simple questions without the meter running.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/21 09:22 AM
4	Is this a reason to get divorced? If she’s willing to lie about small things that’ll eventually turn into lies about big things.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/21 07:35 AM
6	Mornings suck This will pass. Practice self care, temporarily mute the nastiest parts of your inner critic. Don't crawl too deep into a bottle though, many get stuck. Take deep breaths, focus on how the air feels. In and out. Live day to day, hour to hour if you've got to, but just keep breathing. Let that time and distance soak into those bloody wounds and heal them. I promise that if you don't let your brain tell you how to feel (should be the other way around, easier said then done) you'll get past this an…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/21 03:42 PM
7	Mornings suck There's not a damn thing you can do in the present moment to change the way events in the past happened man. So, assuming you're roughly 50% responsible for the breakup, what could you possibly do about it now? Nothing. Sunk cost. Initiate emergency self (and kid) preservation procedures; get yourself lined out so you can be a better steward of your own (and consequently your dependent's, if any) life. The thoughts will try their damnedest to kill you. Slowly. Painfully. Don't let them. Our brai…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/21 03:12 PM
11	Dating low SMV females Objectively so do the high SMV women. I think it's in the plumbing.	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 09:07 PM
8	Q for Divorced/Separated parents. If you could go back and time and not meet the person you separated from and gave you your children,would you? Even though that would mean you would of never have had your current kids. Not a huge fan of my ex, but I do love the shit outta my son. Wouldn't give him up for anything.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/04/21 09:45 AM
27	The Second Effort Second effort man, try again	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/21 09:31 AM
8	Junior in HS not sure what to do with life. Adulthood and life are endless loops of delayed gratification. We train out bodies and minds, apply discipline and groom ourselves to be the very best representation of our vital essence and most positive version of ourselves. Until you become an adult with your own place you've gotta play by mom and dad's rules. Get laser focused, stay disciplined, and get your grades back first so you can get some more freedom. While you're working on your grades, consider talking to a school counselor (or an …	/r/askTRP	19/01/21 10:13 AM
2	A quick rant. Stop playing victim. It takes time to realize that no matter how much effort one person puts in, no matter how badly you want to make it work, if the other person has checked out there's nothing you can do besides break camp and hit the trail. You didn't fail, your marriage did. There's a distinction here. Nobody's perfect, but that includes our spouses, they are equally as culpable in the dissolution. Whether or not they're willing to be honest with themselves? That's another story.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/20 06:17 AM
2	A quick rant. Stop playing victim. This right here. Months and months later she'll still be trying to play the victim on social media and the peanut gallery will stop pandering to her martyrdom.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/20 06:13 AM
2	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? Your husband is wrong here. You researching the law or hiring a lawyer is no different than learning martial arts or hiring a bodyguard to defend yourself physically. Frankly it sounds like you're going to have trouble representing yourself and advocating for a fair outcome. If you've been conditioned to kowtow to his every demand for years, regardless of how unreasonable they are, you're gonna need a lawyer honey.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 04:00 AM
1	What exactly is fair (the opposite of "divorce raped")? I've got a similar situation, but my soon to be ex (who was a stay at home wife) was unfaithful. Even though she was unfaithful, barely cooked and cleaned, and did the bare minimum required to get our kids (one hers, one ours) to school, I'm pretty sure she's going to be compensated for up to half of all "marital" assets; home equity, my retirement, any savings we have (ha!) Etc. In my particular circumstance I'm pressing for no alimony based on the marital misconduct, with a fallback position o…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/20 03:49 AM
5	Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself. Dude...delete the gym, hire a lawyer and tell your ex girlfriend to sue Facebook. I've seen it all over in this sub, the guys swear by it... In seriousness though, I hope your day gets better bro. You've got this.	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/20 08:34 AM
2	Good Vibes Only Brothers Mine's still in the house. Her lawyer has postponed the conference twice now, I'm never gonna get this shit overwith. Have a drink for me gentlemen.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/20 11:38 AM
2	Had my first date ever - A field report by an autist I know right? Why the farp would we want to help some guy evaluate his date and see where his strengths and weaknesses were? Like us meat swingers are supposed to stick together because the feminine imperative seeks to drive a wedge between men of all stripes or something.../s Dude's just figuring stuff out bro, let the man get some feedback. It probably won't kill the sub. Probably. Right?	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/20 12:07 PM
11	After feminist cry sexism over BBC pay, official review uncovers more underpaid men than women You can't wake someone who is pretending to be asleep. (Navajo proverb I think)	/r/MensRights	31/01/18 09:42 PM
1	Women at Google were so upset over memo citing biological differences that they skipped work, ironically confirming the stereotype by getting super-emotional and calling in sick over a man saying something they didn't like. 🤦🤦 🤷¯\_(ツ)_/¯🤷 It's neat because further down here you can actually see the written equivalent of a disagreement-turned-fistfight at a bar and pinpoint the exact moment one person threw the drink in the other person's face lol...	/r/MensRights	09/08/17 04:39 PM
7	Man works himself to death for his family, still treated like a shit. Yeah that's where I'm at myself, if the wife is getting all dramatic and insists we're sleeping separately then her ass gets the couch. The bed's mine, I fucking paid for both and I'll sleep where I'm gonna sleep. Also, if I maintain frame I'll often catch her sneaking back into the bedroom in search of forgiveness and weiner, which I "reluctantly provide" lol...	/r/TheRedPill	12/07/17 07:58 AM
12	College tells construction crew to take down "Men Working" sign deemed 'sexist', even though it was accurate as the crew included zero women \| Though women don't want to do dirty, manual labor jobs themselves, they still want to control how men do them Word. Also, let's not forget that the sign on my street saying SLOW CHILDREN PLAYING is incredibly disrespectful and hurtful to my little retarded inbred kids /s 😁	/r/MensRights	23/01/17 09:06 PM
3	Googles doodle for International Mens Day Cool! TIL....	/r/MensRights	20/11/16 01:00 AM
3	Googles doodle for International Mens Day I have no idea what an octothorpe is, and at this point I'm scared to ask...	/r/MensRights	20/11/16 12:43 AM
8	Ugly skank rapes a child, get arrested; bail set to $10,000 Shouldn't matter that it's an ugly skank, it's just as wrong if a cute skank rapes a kid; male or female, black or purple, California or Kentucky, wrong is wrong.	/r/PussyPassDenied	04/06/15 11:27 PM
4	Ex-wife who received billion dollar divorce settlement -- and appealed because she said it wasn't enough -- has her appeal dismissed due to greed. Don't take it personally man. Nobody on the internet knows you from a hole in the dirt, and they don't care. You're a couple of sentences on a website, not even a human really. If it makes you feel any better, none of the shit you're going through is going to matter in 5 years anyway; it's gonna suck for now but it will fuel your desire, your HUNGER for success in years following if you apply yourself and get that skrilla. Best of luck dood.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/15 11:04 AM
3	The war on gamers continues (Christina Hoff Sommers) Yeah, my wife pretty much has a permanent "thing" for the master chief, so... She's like a level 130-something in Halo 3 and I hardly get any Xbox time anymore. Guess I'll keep browsing Reddit.	/r/MensRights	10/03/15 09:29 AM
2	Student Banned from Areas of Campus for Resembling Classmate's Rapist This HAS to be fake...someone tell me this is fake?	/r/MensRights	19/02/15 09:01 AM
0	This is wrong Care to provide some proof, or are you simply content to spew unverifiable garbage?	/r/MensRights	11/08/14 08:57 AM
1	A woman hurt me, a woman helped me. Why I stopped calling myself a feminist. I completely agree. The instant you stop learning, you start dying. Learning is great, but in the situation you described the offender should also be eager to learn exactly WHY you are not a person to fuck with. It might seem a bit harsh on the surface, but I firmly believe that one must periodically fight fire with fire in the spirit of self preservation. I will concede, however, that you seemed to have handled the entire situation a bit more gracefully than I would have. You have superhuman pa…	/r/MensRights	09/08/14 10:56 AM
2	A woman hurt me, a woman helped me. Why I stopped calling myself a feminist. I understand. I've met all kinds (genders, ethnicities, cultural persuasions, viewpoints, religions) that I do not agree with. I'm just all for calling a spade a spade, and not enabling a person, regardless of their perception of themselves, when they act a masochistic fool. For the record, I think women are wonderful, and they should be able to enjoy everything that life affords a similarly psychologically equipped man. In the spirit of equality, however, they must take the good with the bad. F…	/r/MensRights	09/08/14 10:50 AM
7	A woman hurt me, a woman helped me. Why I stopped calling myself a feminist. Let's explore this rationally: You refuse my amorous advances, and I begin a smear campaign to turn the other members of a group we are both a part of against you. You are now supposed to just let my idiocy slide, and use this as an interpretation device to analyze future encounters with assholes like me? Does not compute, please help me out here.	/r/MensRights	09/08/14 09:17 AM
7	A woman hurt me, a woman helped me. Why I stopped calling myself a feminist. Here's an idea: if you EVER find yourself in a situation like this again, publicly call out the slandering harpy who besmirched your good name. (Remember to do so in a fashion that does not interrupt the activity/class/seminar/etc while it is actively being conducted, but do it.) Force her to regurgitate her bullshit for you while in the public eye, so you can loudly and publicly refute (and possibly mock) her for her insipidity. EDIT: For the record, if I find evidence of people talking shit be…	/r/MensRights	09/08/14 09:12 AM
1	"You cannot be sexist toward men." "What is is? I did not have sexual relations with that woman." -Slick Willie "Bill" Clinton (politicians ftw rofl)	/r/MensRights	22/06/14 08:24 PM
2	"You cannot be sexist toward men." racism Nope sorry. Not reserved specifically for use by us crackers. (W8, was that racist?) :D sexism Am I allowed to call bullshit on this part? This dictionary specifically sez "especially against women" u wot?	/r/MensRights	22/06/14 08:18 PM
2	I was a boy that was "taught not to rape" by his mother, let me tell you exactly why and how that has harmed me throughout my life. Dude that sucks...thank you for sharing your story. I hope you can someday find peace with yourself and your surroundings. Best of luck man.	/r/MensRights	12/03/14 12:55 AM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. K thx bye :) No hard feelings. Hope to discuss more stuff with you in the future. Have a good one.	/r/MensRights	15/01/14 04:51 AM
16	I used to enjoy reading the movie reviews on Badass Digest until I saw that I was "prebanned." (SARCASM) nope, nope, nope.... That person said black, using the word black in ANY context is automatic racism. Don't you know that modern society can't take a joke?! (SARCASM)	/r/MensRights	14/01/14 04:48 AM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. No, my friend. You can believe whatever you want. It doesn't matter what kind of opposing, plausible viewpoints are placed in front of you, you always manage to stubbornly cling to your own beliefs. You've got moxie, to quote that guy from Rocky. If I might ask, how would you define a stupid opinion? Would it happen to be one that you are vehemently and juxtapositionally opposed to, or simply one with no viable application to the current discussion? I'll go out on a limb here: I'm generally agai…	/r/MensRights	14/01/14 04:07 AM
0	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Everybody can agree, from a human rights standpoint, that what the Nazis did in WWII to the Jews was bad. Everybody can agree that, from a human rights standpoint, the inclusion of the Bill of Rights in the US Constitution was good. The areas in between are subject to discussion. That's not my decision, and I'm sorry if I don't completely agree with you, but that's how it is. Ethics and morality are closely intertwined with human rights. Any discussion of one is inherently about all three. That …	/r/MensRights	12/01/14 09:57 PM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Not for lack of trying. I tried to have a discussion. You are unable to have them. I can see things from your point of view, yet you cannot fathom an alternate. That is why there was "never a discussion." EDIT: Isn't it sad that we don't have anything better to do than try to get the last word on each other? :P	/r/MensRights	12/01/14 09:18 PM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Point proven. Thank you for that, sir.	/r/MensRights	12/01/14 08:14 PM
0	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. I can see that you're unwilling to accept ANY viewpoint or opinion other than your own. Sorry your parents had you circumcised. I'm done talking to your dense ass. Maybe, just maybe, you could consider a few different viewpoints before you go full-blown ignorant troll. You seem to be a reasonably intelligent person, but like someone with autism or other communications/cognitive disabilities you can be intelligent as fuck, but nobody would know because you cannot communicate your viewpoints effec…	/r/MensRights	12/01/14 07:14 PM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Seriously, why are you supposed to be born with a foreskin, man? Is it because it's "normal?" ...because one person's perception of "normal" is "weird" to another person. The reason I asked, is because things that form on a fetus during gestation could be considered by many as "normal," and in no way would they be slated for removal. I'm going to pose another hypothetical question, but I want to assure you I'm not trying to make you look stupid or demean your beliefs in any way. If you had a chi…	/r/MensRights	12/01/14 02:07 AM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. This hypothetical just demonstrates your ignorance. Can you pose a hypothetical that does not demonstrate ignorance? Would it be fair to assume that, at least occasionally, someone is simply using it as a tool to encourage someone to look at something from another perspective? Let's explore this for a moment then: Why are you "supposed to" be born with a foreskin? no one is supposed to be born with a cleft lip, club foot, and 12 fingers, and if someone is shame on the obviously related parents. …	/r/MensRights	11/01/14 04:17 AM
0	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Finally, we get to the crux of your argument!! Yaaaay, 2 points! I'm even gonna upvote you because you're finally providing evidence!! BODILY INTEGRITY IS A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT. Yes. I wholeheartedly agree. Where could medical necessity or other extenuating circumstances outweigh the ethical benefits of bodily integrity? (Hypothetical question) If your child were born with a skin tag, or an extra finger, or arm, or other "less than desirable" physical trait, would you beat yourself up for weeks/mo…	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 10:57 PM
-1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. If you can't understand this, don't even bother replying. Oh, I understand. You have nothing to offer in the way of logic or rational formation/presentation of facts, so you're gonna throw a temper tantrum like a toddler in Walmart. Good form, man. Good form. A hyperlink to a random "medicine" website that makes no mention of circumcision is not a citation. http://www.medicinenet.com/circumcision_the_medical_pros_and_cons/article.htm#circumcision_medical_pros_and_cons_facts This is exactly what …	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 05:38 AM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. That's what's happening. If you've been cut and really don't care one way or another, you're pretty much a communist hippie who supports puppy kicking, fetal rape, and devil worship. Who needs the circus when you have Reddit?	/r/MensRights	09/01/14 04:54 AM
1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. OP: Don't beat yourself up man. It's not going to kill him. If you so choose, when you and your SO have another son, you can leave him natural, and let him decide for himself at a certain age. If you're upset that you didn't give him the option, think of all the options that could be hazardous in the hands of a person who does not have the proper frame of reference to make a decision: I want the red light to mean GO!! But I want to shave my butt and walk backwards, I think it'll make me unique. …	/r/MensRights	08/01/14 03:12 AM
-1	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. The references are wrong. Prove that the references are wrong. You can't. Show me proof or concede the argument. Why do you suppose not having part of some skin will not prevent something? Do you have a specific study highlighting how this particular scientific discovery is bunk? If you do show me, if you don't, then concede the argument. How many people who have never seen a car before in their entire lives have died in auto accidents? Not very many. Show me instances of undiscovered South Amer…	/r/MensRights	08/01/14 02:53 AM
-2	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. I just really, really hate trolls man. I make it my personal mission to belittle and shame them into account deletion. If you can't muster up the courage to say something to someone's face (which, in 99% of cases is what's happening) then you shouldn't vomit it onto the internet to feel like some kind of superior being. These folks should have their IP's traced, and their discussions posted on their grandparent's refrigerator, maybe then they could keep their disagreements intelligent and civil.…	/r/MensRights	07/01/14 03:43 AM
-2	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. Alright, since we're obviously taking all the evidence out of context, we'll try this again, hopefully from a more adult standpoint: I included a website for reference that purposefully shows both pros and cons. I left it to the reader to figure out which pile o' evidence was larger (hint hint troll, it was the PRO pile.) The foreskin has nothing at all to do with chance to transmit or contract sexual diseases. Bullshit. The references I provided stated the exact contrary to your position. Learn…	/r/MensRights	07/01/14 03:38 AM
-4	Confession: I had my son circumcised as a newborn before I understood how awful a practice it was, and now I feel sick to my stomach whenever I think about it. So then, the OP is entitled to his opinion, but this guy is not? You're OBVIOUSLY entitled to yours... Until arrogant fucks like you get elected to public office, and wrestle control of a child's appearance from their parents, this is the decision of the parent, not an internet forum. Here's some food for thought, maybe you can educate yourself. Circumcision is reversable. Hopefully your bitch ass troll mouth is too. :P	/r/MensRights	06/01/14 12:58 PM
1	Female cleaner came into rest room behind me and stared at men using a urinal. I have complained. Hey, did you still want to sit in with me in my auto body class? EDIT: 'cause I'd just LOVE to take you to school again... God bless you, troll.	/r/MensRights	04/09/13 02:58 AM
1	Female cleaner came into rest room behind me and stared at men using a urinal. I have complained. You beat me to it, Sir. You stalking me? :D	/r/MensRights	04/09/13 02:50 AM