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| 0 | Ladies and Gents of Seddit, where and when do you cross the line with people? | Keranu | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 01:34 AM |
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| 1 | So... how do you guys avoid getting girlfriends all the time?I straight up tell them what i'm in for, you cant jive with that well then goodbye | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 06:06 AM |
| 2 | This subreddit is stressing me outthis, every top post may have different content but they drive home the same message, be yourself and love that. that's it, yeah sure you may need to work on things here and there, but work on them because you want to, not cause it'll attract women. I myself just started working out again, gettin some gains and the ladies are noticing, do I care? alittle sure, but fuck that in the end result cause I'm gettin some gains, getting stronger, more energy and that's my focus, not bulking up for the ba… | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 06:33 AM |
| 9 | All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play.This, I wish it would of known this at 16, rather than trying to learn it at 24 | /r/seduction | 29/07/15 10:10 PM |
| 3 | my big success! ... and how to stay alpha?You went off the rails homie, or atleast didn't take the right approach from 'Models', you're using the fact that you now have sex as a gauge to how cool you are, when a girl doesn't pitch back mid range your ego gets hurt and your "alpha levels" go down, the problem is you placed all your value into the woman, you treat her like a crown to be won and in doing so You've downed your own worth. Just because you managed to fuck her doesn't mean your VIP now, that's the main message I got from seddi… | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Because of you guys, I got my first GF. Thank you!!Kinda sappy with the bf drop line but the results ended good either way, congrats | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Is the "boyfriend drop" ever positive?I see it as challenge accepted if you need to pointlessly make known your bf. "Oh we fuckin, you just don't know it yet" | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Is the "boyfriend drop" ever positive?That must be a great feeling because you introduce her to the fear of not fucking you | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The main reason YOU are failing, A.K.A where to actually meet women and have a good time doing it.I seriously need to start going out and applying this stuff, starting to see the same stuff all the time on seddit in terms of what you need to do and how to do it, and that's bad when you spend more time on seddit than actually applying it | /r/seduction | 14/07/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Stoner not a drinker. Where should I go to be social and meet girls?If I get too high I get anxious, normally 1 or 2 solid puffs will get me comfortable high | /r/seduction | 12/07/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Stoner not a drinker. Where should I go to be social and meet girls?same for me, I've had many a girl turn up her nose because I smoke | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Stoner not a drinker. Where should I go to be social and meet girls?I dunno how anyone could game while high, it throws me way too off. I would have to know her already to pull that off and be used to how she acts and responds | /r/seduction | 10/07/15 02:47 AM |
| 1 | "To the single guys, my thoughts" , a post about loneliness and overcoming it.it is, i'm still coming to grips with it myself. its never fun to admit you're lonely. It feels like you're showing your weak side especially since saying you're lonely doesn't get the highest praise from ppl, and its even more damaging when you try to force your way out of it, because then it gets mixed in with whatever actions you do. sigh I should really get back into meditation again | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:52 AM |
| 3 | "To the single guys, my thoughts" , a post about loneliness and overcoming it.yeah kinda sucks when you realize that, and even worse when you realize it was your only reason too | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 05:20 AM |
| 0 | "There's this one girl I really like," Syndrome. The answer is always, "Meet more women."I dont involve myself with such ppl, nor are they worth the effort. Please dont try to act holier than thou based on another person's observation. It'll get you nowhere, focus on yourself rather than trying to change me | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 09:10 AM |
| -1 | "There's this one girl I really like," Syndrome. The answer is always, "Meet more women."I wasn't saying you in general, just observing what I mostly see, I understand your reasoning somewhat, but on paper and sometimes in the delivery it makes you sound arrogant. There's a nice way and mean way to everything, if you're not interested I get that and yes putting them down gently is what's needed, but I've seen girls just flat out destroy a guy that didnt deserve it only because she thought he was run of the mill and not worth her precious time at the same time as joe blow treats her … | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 08:48 AM |
| -4 | "There's this one girl I really like," Syndrome. The answer is always, "Meet more women."Most females are, I've seen bottom barrel ones act like they're hot shit just cause one guy decided to actually invest in her while all the others brushed her off, talks all day about being used/betrayed/whatever the fuck, but doesnt give a chance to the dude who actually shows even a hint of respect and interest and writes it off as needy or creepy, had to scold one of my best friends' many a time because she has that mentality | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Do any other introverts feel they need to put on a facade?Exactly, nothing here really caters to those who work best in a quiet isolated setting, they say fake it till you make it, but I cant fake a completely reversed version of myself, eventually I'll lose power and my real persona will start to leak through. I find it very annoying that you have to be loud and outgoing to even get a non guaranteed shot, this is no ones fault, but ppl need to learn that there are some ppl who simple dont work like that, they say be yourself with confidence, I am myse… | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Go talk to an old personI dunno why you're being downvoted, its the truth. I can talk to old ppl easy cause I dont want anything from them, I talk to girls for the end result of getting laid. Two totally different approaches and the mindset, emotion, stress level, is not the same. Yeah they can give advice, but when you're in the thick of the fight how much advice Edgar or Betty gave you is gonna help? No matter where you get the advice from, its still just advice. One source isnt higher up than the other just because … | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop worrying about losing the girl?Honestly man, give it time. You guys are still on shakey ground and you dont wanna do something ignorant to prove your love for her, keep your head above water. Yes you have strong feelings for each other, but look deeper and see what drove you apart in the first place. The thing that makes relationships saveable is exploring the pros and cons of it. Yeah I bet the pros were great! the highlight of your life! but what about the cons, the reasons why you guys fought and what you fought over. You … | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so easy to not give a s*%# around an average girl but so hard to not give a s*%# around a hot girl?ah ok, i see now where you're coming from | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 07:03 AM |
| 2 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?thank you kind sir | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 07:02 AM |
| 2 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?Lol now if can only practice on my actual game then I'll be a guru :) | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so easy to not give a s*%# around an average girl but so hard to not give a s*%# around a hot girl?I didnt mean it as the end all be all for every hot girl to be dumb, but a good chunk of them are brain dead, but since you're turned on by looks, you throw that out the window and delude yourself into thinking she's smart, but once again I'm not labeling every hot girl to be dumb, just like every average girl is smart. Just wanted to make it clear for OP | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 05:44 AM |
| 3 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?lol I guess, I think you're giving me too much credit cause I'm not the type of guy I want to be, I'm just very laid back so things like sex talk dont phase me, I dont see sex as a big deal so I'm very open talking about my experiences and mishaps | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?not really, not too long ago I was bringing my co-worker home, what started as her ranting about her ex turned into her asking me about the craziest things I've done sexually, some girls it comes easier than others | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop worrying about losing the girl?Its ok man, for the longest time I was the same way, but I just got real on myself and took some time away from women to figure that out, I'm still shakey in some aspects but I'm very happy to see that this has helped | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 05:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you stop worrying about losing the girl?Honestly there's gonna be a moment of panic, to not have any would be weird. You gotta realize the big picture, yes this girl is with you and you two choose to be together, but you dont own her and each individual is their own person, so there's gonna be days where she may be less active with you and may wanna be by herself or with friends, that's nothing to fear. unless the relationship is being crippled by you being afraid and her pulling away then its just regular couple stuff, and realize du… | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so easy to not give a s*%# around an average girl but so hard to not give a s*%# around a hot girl?had a gf back in 09. chubby, nerd, had a gut, not well endowed at all. That girl rocked the fuck outta my dick. give the normals a shot too, not only may it surprise you but also it'll help to lower the hot girls down a peg if a(n) average girls can do better than her | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get ladies when getting messed up on drugs at a festival?its cool if you wanna quick smash and dash, but I agree. macking with a sweaty, dirty, barely in the realm of logical thought, girl doesn't seem all that great. unless you wanna bust a nut that much | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How do you stop worrying about losing the girl?funny cause I'm the opposite, I'm a completely mess while single, but in a relationship I'm all hands on deck with 50+ years of experience lol I'm not the most perfect bf but I know the ends of outs of relationships way better than singlehood of myself | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?Not bad, but something for me to keep in mind in case i start to see signs, I try not to pinpoint the habits of one girl onto another, but certain things keep my ears perked up | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:15 AM |
| 5 | Why is it so easy to not give a s*%# around an average girl but so hard to not give a s*%# around a hot girl?because you are not attracted to an average girl, you see them as just people and therefore you can control yourself. with a hot girl I think you're too caught up with the fact that you want to fuck her and in thinking that you dictate your actions around that, which leads to you being an awkward mess because you dont want her to realize that you're like every other guy who wants to smash that ass. In my opinion, learn that girls have layers (shrek anyone?) a girl can be hot on the surface, but … | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?yep, tease bait up the ass in her phone. I see it as red flagish if she has a shitton of apps that more or less do the same thing. Kik, Insta, Snapchat, etc | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:04 AM |
| 2 | They say women are just as horny as guys. In what way do you see women demonstrating this?wishful thinking... I find it hilarious when women say that guys wouldnt be down if they acted the same way we do. are you fucking kidding me? I would personally love if a girl came up to me and announced that she was interested or thought I was cute, hell even if you wanna aim the other way and say catcalling, I wouldnt mind that either, its flattering to say the least and a girl who is confident enough to do so is a different kind of sexy in my book, she may not be blazing hot but she has the … | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop worrying about losing the girl?"I'm not talking about if you're just hooking up or casually talking to a girl. I mean in a full blown relationship where you legitimately love the girl." Well there goes my reason for being here | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 03:56 AM |
| 20 | When I'm alone I fantasize about women; when I'm with women, all my sexual desires fade away.That's your brain trying to pull you out the deep end before you drown, unfortunately the brain likes to pull this crap of wanting something but fears failure or unknown so it creates a failsafe in case you go too far and need out. For example, You've heard about this party for a month, you really wanna go cause of all the cute girls there and despite your shyness you wanna make a move, come the night of the aprty and suddenly that age old "I gotta make an excuse to just stay home" option comes … | /r/seduction | 04/05/15 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out.Yes, unless you havent made your intentions clear, but if you did then yeah its a waste cause excuses only last so long before you start to see a pattern | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Every woman wants to feel attractive, sexy, and desired. Very few want to feel like a piece of meat!Hey it would be a nice change | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 10:14 PM |
| -3 | Some OkCupid tips I've learned over the yearsYeah as if trying to get pussy off the internet isn't bad enough | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Ladies and Gents of Seddit, where and when do you cross the line with people?Thank you :) I only ask because I'm a rather jump first ask later dude, or atleast I used to be, so I've had many relationships where I just jumped in without even seeing if we're compatible, that's why I have a bit of trouble breaking down exactly what I'm looking for | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Every woman wants to feel attractive, sexy, and desired. Very few want to feel like a piece of meat!Damn son! | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Every woman wants to feel attractive, sexy, and desired. Very few want to feel like a piece of meat!Yeah I'm just going off my preference, not actual fact | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Every woman wants to feel attractive, sexy, and desired. Very few want to feel like a piece of meat!Just once I wanna see the flip side of this, a girl just yelling out "DAMN BABY! I SURE WANNA RIDE THAT DICK!" I heard this behind closed doors, but never out in the blue. Personally I would find it flattering if a girl catcalled me. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 01:45 AM |
| 2 | lonely and undatableI accept that title with grace | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 08:51 PM |
| 4 | lonely and undatableYou asked for help, we gave you advice. You can act like this doesn't phase you all you want, but at the end of the day you're still doing the same shit with no results, you choose to come here and ask advice, so to ask and then disregard and act like you're better makes you look like a pathetic jackass, clearly you need some other help since seduction breeds the same type of ppl, enjoy your sad life homie | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | A lesson from a friend: you attract what you are.I mostly see it as bad if you intend to keep the person around, I've dealt with low self esteem girls for obvious shallow reasons but if I'm looking for a gf, then I'll swerve that shit as the day is long. I have a bit of self esteem Issues myself, but I try my very best to avoid "baggage" girls. I guess you can still say that's cause of low self esteem though shrug | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | lonely and undatableBecause your posts reeks of low self esteem and self pity, 4 outta the 5 things you listed are completely fixable, yet your sitting there posting trying to get answers. You're 40, great you have life experience. You're obese, get off your fat ass and work out. You live at home and are unemployed, it's not impossible for you to get a job if you give a little of a fuck, that and you say that you spend money on sex services. Congrats for blowing your tiny bit of money on assisted masturbation rathe… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 04:58 PM |
| 1 | What the hell is wrong with me? I'm single and constantly fear getting cheated onAwesome point sir, I'm the same as OP, I would like a relationship but fear in the back of my head that it's a waste of time, but like you said I've burned more dinners than actual times I picked up a cookbook, I see all the time on seddit how this read and that read atleast puts you in a good mindset, I should seriously start paying attention to that and read rather than just wishing someone would come along. Thank you again | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 01:16 PM |
| 1 | When do you guys call it quits/break off the pursuit?My coworker loves flaking, she's hot but that shit is major annoying, especially when all you ever talk about is how "we don't hang out" | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How honest should I be with my intentions?This is a good answer as I ask myself often how far should I go, this is a great basis to go by. Call it the 'Hi Ladder' | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-Closethis, this one fact is what freaks me from using tinder or anything related, the farthest i go is OKC | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 03:26 AM |
| 6 | [FR] What an almost 19 year old learned from sleeping with three +20 girls in a week.This helps when you're already in the zone, If you're in the zone I assume that all this is second nature because at that point you have her attention on you, once the attention is gained, this shit becomes a cakewalk. Not raggin on you OP but maybe you can give us a clue about your approach, your pickup tactic, your general motives. Tell any guy a story about a girl you slept with and he isnt concerned with the sex part as he already knows what happens there, he wants to hear how it all tied to… | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 03:22 AM |
| 2 | What is your tried and true seduction move?You damn right | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 08:18 PM |
| 9 | What is your tried and true seduction move?Alcohol that leads into drunk talk which leads into drunk sex talk, which leads into actual sex | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 03:32 PM |
| 4 | "What does sex mean to you?" Shit TestIt means giving me a temporary stress relief on the highest level. If I'm dating you then its a different reason, but for a random lay yeah. Like Louis CK said "Every guy has a PI level on his dick, if that level reaches critical mass then ppl are gonna start dying, my wife hates having sex with me, but she knows if she doesnt do something than I may explode and take out ppl with me" | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Seddit has improved my confidence and social skill over the last year, but how can I take the next step and start getting girls?I think you just gotta kool-aid man that shit bro, you doubt yourself, but you can easily flip that around and say "nah fuck this, I'm going in NOW". From what I'm gathering you still feel a tiny fear of rejection, its cool. I've finally hit the point where I'm comfortable around girls and even then I still have that "what if she rejects me" thought in the back of my head, however every day is different. Sometimes that mentality gets me, Sometimes I'm like no fuck this I can do it. Spin the whee… | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend question... i touch my gf's ass whenever i feel like it. you should do the same | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Now i know how hot girls feel. (Being Treated Like a Sex Object)Seriously man, (black guy here too). Its on you to give yourself that validation, if what you said is the case then almost every girl is a bitter ice bitch but that's not the case, most girls find their their validation despite being hot, its just the mantle they're placed on makes them somewhat develop that "icy" mentality, not only that but you went somewhere where your skin color isnt seen often, I believe its a 1.5% over there of blacks, so unlike seeing hot girls who exist in many forms and… | /r/seduction | 15/03/15 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Sedditors living with their parents, where do you pull?lol i knew someone was gonna get a kick outta that | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | For guys that approach consistently, have you ever felt inferior?you're putting her on a pedastal, that's problem number 1 right there. As perfect as she is to you dude, at some point during the day she'll belch or dig a wedgie out her ass. The point is, all the normal disgusting shit humans do on a daily basis are things that she does too, see her as a regular person and you'll be amazed on how much that image you built up melts away | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:41 AM |
| 25 | Sedditors living with their parents, where do you pull?If her place is free then her place it is, if not then my house, my parents dont mind if I have a girl over, but me having sex with her is soemthing I can pull undercover very well, sure we have to sacrifice sounds and going all out, but hey it gets the job done. but if she insists on going Norman Bates on my dick then my car | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:35 AM |
| 0 | What's your line or trick to find out if she has a boyfriend?Normally I'll ask her to join me somewhere 1 on 1 (movies, night stroll, etc) Most of the time if she says yes without thought then she's single, because she isnt going through that mental of "let me quickly think of a way to bring my bf into this to shut this dude down", if she kinda lingers and plays around with an answer then I assume she's dating or has someone else of interest BUT! I read on seddit somewhere that a loser will only stop at hearing she has a bf, a winner will include the bf i… | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Do people on Seddit mostly learn seduction for one night stands or long term relationships? For those of you who use it for one night stands do you ever intentionally lead the girl on, making her think that the relationship could lead to more?Yes, but I dont recommend it, in my experience it lead to me being in an empty relationship that eventually leads to a nasty breakup cause we werent clear on goals. My last relationship ended this way, I wanted sex, she wanted more i guess. now I'm just up front with women, if all i want from you is a 1 night stand, I may not say it straight from day 1, but you'll know the score before we become confused on feelings and whatnot | /r/seduction | 09/11/14 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Results, Performance and masturbation. What are your experiences?OP despite what everyone else is saying, it all comes down to you bro. There are guys out there who wank it raw and still get laid up the ass, masturbation becomes a universal problem when it messes with things that you naturally need to get done ( IE, jacking off while driving, etc), but masturbation is a topic that gets a different response out of different people, in my case I used to be a fiend with porn, it was only when I had a big question mark above my head when I was in bed with a girl … | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 09:04 AM |
| 2 | looking for advice regarding older women/age gapI can only hope to find a 40 something yr old, so tired of these stuck up 20 something's | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Opinions on "stealing" a girl from her boyfriendSolid advice mah man, dismantle his hype. I'll remember that | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on "stealing" a girl from her boyfriendexactly, if I feel like I'm close I dont even bring up a bf cause at that point having a bf would of stopped her | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 04:55 AM |
| 1 | looking for advice regarding older women/age gap42? dude if you dont hop on that, The oldest I've gotten is 26 while being 23 >_> | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What if you have more value than the girl?I need to remember this, often times I become enamored with a girl's looks, only to find out that past her looks she hasn't got shit going on for herself. I'm really tired of getting into these empty relationships | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Becoming Beta when Smoking WeedI find this to be true, but I also find it easier to engage in convo if im high and someone talks to me | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Sedditors who have improved. What have you done or changed that has had the most positive impact on your game?Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Sedditors who have improved. What have you done or changed that has had the most positive impact on your game?number 7 is solid advice, i'll remember that cause if she rejects me then i seek friendship as a secondary prize when in realilty i could care less if we were friends or not, its earned me alot of pointless friendships, I'm glad someone finally says "I'm in this for the sex and sex only" | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 09:51 PM |
| 3 | An update on my experiment: AKA, how i stopped being a "nice guy"This helps so much, I myself am currently trying to restore my self esteem that was lost through an ex, like you all the things I thought I had slowly faded, and eventually I found myself alone, fast forward about 4 years and I'm doing much better, but I havent taken the last and most important step yet...actively dealing with my problems rather than just read or avoiding them away, I'm trying but its still tough, I'm glad someone has a success story I can look to when I'm kicking myself down in… | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 06:31 AM |
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