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| 15 | Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Discuss Porn, Power, and the Collapse of MasculinityEeeeee so excited this sub is coming back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/25 12:33 AM |
| 39 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 65 -HerHax Cybersecurity Researchers Dispel Myths About AirTag StalkingAre we back now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 46 | my red flagsGod same. I miss when I had a phone that literally couldn’t have snapchat 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 11:38 AM |
| 17 | What options are there for kicking out a LVM who refuses to leave?Don’t suppose you have a recipe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 27 | Any experiences with a “wolf in sheep’s clothing”, a man pretending to be a feminist…He was a complete coward tbh, so I’d love to see that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:14 AM |
| 94 | Any experiences with a “wolf in sheep’s clothing”, a man pretending to be a feminist…Oh god yes. My ex did this, it was laughable. Said that women were cutting off potential friendships by not being welcoming to guys approaching them in public | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 01:29 AM |
| 16 | How are you leveling up?I’m recovering from my chronic illness amazingly well now for the first time. I do a martial art and train 3-6 hours a week. I’ve switched up my diet, sorted my sleeping pattern and I’m drinking more water I went part time at uni to make my workload less because I care for elderly parents, and now my grades are consistently high and my mental health is so much better too. I also have more time for hobbies, so I’ve been able to finish my garden and get back into language learning. I’ve invested m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 26 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.You deserve so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 4 | Hansel-and-Greteling my way out of a toxic relationshipThis is what helped me leave my most recent ex. Absolute lifesaver | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:10 PM |
| 33 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?This is definitely a good reason to go nuclear. I wouldn’t be even slightly polite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 24 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careYou have my sympathy x I hope you’re doing better now and I hope your bf heals up soon It took them 8 years to diagnose me with one of the most common chronic illnesses, and their suggested remedy for my pain? “Read stories and listen to nice music”. Even my dad balked at that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?That’s the one :) hands down favourite Christmas film ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Any halfway decent Christmas films?Klaus is beautiful. It’s one of my favourite films ever, never mind the fact it’s a Christmas film. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 06:49 PM |
| 15 | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentPlease please report him. Make that fuss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:50 PM |
| 7 | IMO, there's no fixed way to determine whether a man you're dating is actually good.My ex was nice to animals and he still pinned me to a kitchen door by the throat soooo… yeah not the best indicator sadly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 11 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.Block and delete. Where would this go if you don’t? Nowhere good I don’t think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:22 PM |
| 3 | The self-aware LVMOh the posts I could write about this shit… it’s awful, and I’m never falling for it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Same, it was my therapist who made me realise too. Oh well, least we both got out and into therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 12 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?I wish I’d known this before I dated my last boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 06:38 PM |
| 55 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyMy therapist made me realise that my ex was very manipulative and that it was ridiculous to think all the times he hurt me were the accidents he said they were. She also pointed out that I had never once broken or damaged anything of his, but he had broken something of mine by being careless and stupid and had very nearly destroyed treasures sentimental items that link me to my grandmother and had never even apologised. She basically made me realise that I wasn’t asking too much, like he always … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:42 AM |
| 2 | If it wasn't for this community ladies, I wouldn't be experiencing this. #LiveYourBestLife #Don'tSettleForLess ❤️Yessss go you! Enjoy it ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:09 AM |
| 24 | My ex posted all about our breakup on redditI’ve been avoiding all reminders of my awful awful ex but a friend of mine still reads his stuff for a laugh - it’s truly pathetic stuff. Of course he’s telling all the online readers how wonderful he was and how I gaslit him and how mean I am, and they’re lapping it up. Conveniently I’m sure he forgets to mention how he was violent, manipulative, sexually abusive and a variety of other things which would explain and justify my reactions to being pushed further and further. Tbh though I don’t ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Men will try to make you look crazy for lashing out at them after they ignore your boundaries over and over.My ex was like this, and the further away from him I get the more glad I get that he’s an ex. I only wish I’d broken it off with him before I’d even got together with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Male nurse gives abortion pill to his friend, who force feeds it to his pregnant partner. Thankfully he received jail time and lost his nursing license. Men will never stick up for you. Bros before..... well you know.I know. I hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:48 PM |
| 57 | Male nurse gives abortion pill to his friend, who force feeds it to his pregnant partner. Thankfully he received jail time and lost his nursing license. Men will never stick up for you. Bros before..... well you know.Three years is not enough, but at least he actually got jail time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:26 PM |
| 9 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himI love it when they turn up to a coffee date they invited me on in sticking clothes, expect me to pay, and then spent the whole thing lecturing me on my politics. Actual excerpt “All countries are terrible both in politics and environmentalism. Even the slightly better ones were built on evil and capitalism!” “Ok, how many foreign countries have you lived in to experience how terrible their politics are?” “Well none but I don’t need to because I can use google. Why? You haven’t either!” “…. You … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, do you consider seeing a man once a week (every Saturday) as fulfilling dating?I wouldn’t be. I did something similar a while ago and lasted a whole four weeks before I just couldn’t put up with it anymore. It felt too low effort to me - if he wanted to he would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 12 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.This is so heartbreaking and so rage inducing. I’m so so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Beware of the over-helperJesus are you dating my ex? It started like that for me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:52 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?fixing my sleeping pattern starting to work out more often and looking into getting back into actual sports trying to organise my time better to get coursework done earlier reassessing my life goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Coercive Control: an "almost invisible set of behaviors that don’t fit within the widespread but misinformed view that domestic violence requires bruises and black eyes"Coercive control was made illegal and included under the legal definition for domestic violence where I live a few years ago. Unfortunately, they suck at actually prosecuting it and the process of reporting is still all over the place, traumatic and drawn out. I know they can’t just throw charges and convictions around, but god I wish they’d take victims more seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Is the transitioning stage always this hard?This is exactly how you weed out the people you don’t want in your life, so you can start filling it with better. The truly healthy friendships won’t suffer from you laying down boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 01:20 AM |
| 144 | An old but good one on “forgetting the wallet” and restaurants.I went on a first date a couple of years ago with someone who had specifically messaged me after an event and asked if I wanted to get coffee sometime. We got to the cafe and when asked how we were paying he just looked at me. I’m immensely proud of how annoyed and stubborn my 19yr old self was, because I smiled brightly and said “you can get this one”. He looked shocked and irritated. The date was so awful it was actually funny, and with hindsight I should’ve just left but oh well - baby steps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 08:36 PM |
| 30 | Guy tried negging me and got frustrated when I didn’t care. Story time ☕️I’m kinda shocked that your friend enabled his behaviour though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Don’t talk to any of your exes. ANY.Ugh have we dated the same person? My ex was like this. I gave him far too many chances trying to explain what he needed to change and after not being listened to for so long I broke it off. He had the audacity to pull a shocked pikachu face and say I should’ve made him understand and that it was my job to put things in a way he could understand them 🤦♂️🙄 somehow, this man actually got engaged recently. I’m so glad it wasn’t to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | HVM will respect your time; LVM have no worries making you wait around for them because they have no respect for you.Yessss. Go you I hate when guys act as though my time is something to be taken for granted. I study full time and am setting up a business all while dealing with caring duties and my own health issues. I have no time for men who can’t even organise themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:37 PM |
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