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KeroKeroKeroppi/r/seduction17/07/12 02:09 AM
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6

I have a feeling Logan is scamming The Observer harder than any of these supposed women.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:03 AM
2

You should do this with everyone in the group BUT her....
/r/seduction19/04/13 05:39 AM
6

Hah, thought that girl was writing about me for a minute there :p
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 05:31 AM
0

This is simply the fate of random grindy guy. I would try to avoid this plotline altogether. The spin is good, but you need a little push-pull. If she goes to grind you, tease her, and say she should buy you dinner first, you are a classy guy.... Give her a lock-in prop, and tell her to come find you later when she needs to go. Or identify who her friends are and go make an intro BEFORE she leaves and befriend the group. Better yet, get off the dance floor, and go somewhere you can actually buil…
/r/seduction14/04/13 11:47 PM
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Doh, already read all of these :/ Loved most of them.
/r/seduction09/03/13 09:28 AM
1

Really man. The infomarketing world is extremely lucrative right now. I highly recommend it if you are at all charismatic.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:59 PM
1

6k is actually about right for this kind of coaching. I personally wouldn't pay it either, but I feel like we have a bunch of guys reacting to sticker-shock of what is a pretty reasonable and standard pricing scheme for high-end personal coaching.
/r/seduction08/03/13 05:37 PM
3

Juggling multiple girls, and hooking up with other girls in FRONT of girls you have hooked up with before are kind of completely different topics. Personally, I think you are in a great situation to start setting up threesomes.
/r/seduction01/03/13 06:26 PM
2

Eh, your taller than 50% of guys, I know plenty of Asian players. Girls in clubs often try hard NOT to make eye contact with anyone. You have to approach without it.
/r/seduction27/02/13 06:33 AM
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"I drunk 3 beers, 3 long islands and some shots" Haha Holy shit!!! I guess thats one way to combat anxiety..
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:57 AM
3

They say "There are no stupid questions".. But.. Jesus Christ...
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:09 AM
1

"If you like Asian girls, you’ll love China" heh.
/r/seduction26/01/13 02:46 AM
1

Yeah, I also wear a lot of large women's sunglasses and I think it works well. Not for the bar/club scene obviously though :p
/r/seduction25/01/13 12:04 AM
1

I don't peacock that much anymore... But, when I first started I did some really outrageous peacocking (spirithood with a unicorn horn attached, etc), and it really broke down my barriers and gave me some amazing reference experiences and I have MUCH less AA as a result.
/r/seduction24/01/13 11:55 PM
2

Tyler is fucking hilarious, really can't get enough of his rants.
/r/seduction24/01/13 10:05 PM
3

Logistics didnt work out and things cool off. It happens.
/r/seduction04/01/13 07:15 AM
11

Came in expecting a "crazy situation" Instead got: "I fistbumped a guy at a bar, embarrassing my friend".
/r/seduction04/01/13 07:12 AM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=js2nPCsJOzQ
/r/seduction03/01/13 07:03 PM
2

You should close either-way. Whether she remember your name or not is irrelevant. This is just a set up for teasing. If she does, you have left quite the impression, or is she is stalking you or whatever. If she doesn't then she is rude, or scatter-brained, or blonde or whatever. And you close.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:57 PM
2

You meet them in the smoking area. Have conversation, and go out for food afterwards, which then moves to the afterparty at your place. Picking up ON the floor DURING the show, is extremely difficult.. But still doable. You approach from the side/front, dance for a few minutes, then say "lets get some air/have a smoke, etc" go to the smoking area, have a conversation, get the number, and make plans to get food after the show.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:54 PM
2

Like everything, you just have to go through with it a few times, and get rejected a few times in order to get over this. Honestly, rejection for a k-close is almost never that bad. Its usually just a "haha! nice try!", and you give a "what a scamp I am look" and move on like its no big deal.
/r/seduction20/12/12 07:28 PM
5

32 here, and I think this is the sweet spot for gaming as a man. Everyone wants your dick.. With no drinking/smoking and lots of excercise i think i can pull this off well into my 40s :p
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:55 PM
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"I wasn't really trying to get anywhere with the first one" It didn't work. You got nowhere with her. You have never used this game to get anywhere with a girl. You tried it three times, and still have not had sex. It did not work. What kind of fucked up mind games are you pulling on yourself to get the opposite conclusion? Why are you posting a technique on something that you have never used to seduce a girl?
/r/seduction18/12/12 09:19 PM
-5

So you kinda left out the most important point. You field tested this game and: IT DIDNT WORK.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:57 PM
7

I definitely target Asian Raver Girls. And yeah, over time, I get more and more experience with them, I'm more passionate about meeting them, and success goes up.. But, since there are plenty of them, and I like them, I don't really see the problem. And also, I think the experience really does translate over into other social groups pretty easily. Yeah your calibration is off at first, and you need to readjust for the new social group, but experience is experience.
/r/seduction11/12/12 02:10 AM
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The guy did the OPPOSITE of cock block you actually. Gave you a funny situation, and us vs him mentality, a perfect opening to ask her out, a memorable moment etc. and YOU Fucked it up. YOU alone. Does it make you feel better to think if he wasn't there you would have had the courage to get her number and fuck the shit out of her? Well you are wrong, you would have pussied out then too. Maybe even earlier without that guy taking up time, because you 'ran out of stuff to say'. You waited for her …
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:08 AM
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Looks cool though, maybe I can be a trendsetter :P
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:34 AM
1

Don't you have to BOTH be on snapchat for this to work? Seems kind of unlikely? Just downloaded and checked it out and zero people in my huge contact list are using it :p
/r/seduction05/12/12 11:10 PM
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Unfortunately, the way they word that highly romanticizes the Sigma male, such that I think a huge amount of men will identify with it, which starts to make it kind of worthless as a classification.
/r/seduction12/10/12 01:25 AM
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Why are you so insecure about it? If she wants other guys, then she can go get with other guys and you will get a new, younger model. Why would you ever be threatened by some random guy in her grill at a bar? You could spin her around and fingerbang her right there in front of him.... Laugh and get him to buy you some free drinks. You should be loving your friends drooling after your girl, who they will never have. And even if someday in the future they do, youve already moved onto something bet…
/r/seduction10/10/12 06:01 PM
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Try to kiss her, or ask her out on a date. You don't need to know a moment before.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:54 PM
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I have not found it to really matter at all. As long as you have a definitive style, I am able to attract girls from a huge variety of different types of social groups. And it can cause interesting conversation. If I approach a preppy girl dressed like a burner, then there is a lot to talk about why I am dressed this way. :p
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:44 PM
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I, personally always loved this... Guys hitting on her, getting her hot and horny and feeling sexualized.. At the end of the night I was the one taking her home and banging her. Always felt like victory. Also, keeping a non-jealousy highly sexualized kind of attitude eventually opened up mff threesome opportunities.
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:27 AM
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Thoughts: If a relationship lasts 10 years and then you breakup, did it really fail? Is a relationship only successful if it ends via death?
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:50 PM
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Would you consider a non-monogamous committed relationship? Or do you just really feel that women are unable to commit even in this circumstance?
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:43 PM
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Yes of course. If you really break it down then its the ONLY thing that's neccessary
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:18 PM
6

Why do you equate this with feminism? About half the feminists I know are happily non-monogamous. I actually think feminism is especially supportive of breaking away from the traditional relationship structure as the traditional structure is often used to the detriment of women...
/r/seduction09/10/12 07:13 PM
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Stop worrying about hiding them from eachother... Be open and honest about your intentions. Every girl I am dating knows I am dating multiple girls. Usually,I just leave it at that and nothing else is said. But sometimes some girls actually like hearing about my dating life and will even like give advice and help me pick out clothes haha :p The bottom line is, that if you are increasing the quality of their life there is nothing to feel guilty about. And, they most likely have other boys they ar…
/r/seduction09/10/12 06:36 PM
2

The thing is... like 90% of desirable girls always seem to "have a boyfriend".... But that isn't necessarily a total block. I know girls who tell guys at bars they "have a boyfriend" when they are referring to some guy they have been on 2 dates with, who she isn't exclusive with and would never use the term 'boyfriend' to his face. I also know a lot of girls who NEVER are single, because they start looking for a new boy before they ditch their old one. I usually push through it, and their willin…
/r/seduction09/10/12 02:50 AM
5

I hear a lot of hate on peacocking with fuzzy hats as well :p Which also stems from The Game and the PUA show.
/r/seduction08/10/12 11:23 PM
1

I grew up there and concur :p
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:54 AM
1

Totally normal. You don't really need to know anything special, I know a lot of girls around that age who exclusively date guys 30+.
/r/seduction06/10/12 12:16 AM
8

love != monogamy.
/r/seduction06/10/12 12:03 AM
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Want to point out that this is not a binary option of wanting monogamy/love or just wanting to score. I know many who are not monogamous, but have found what you are looking for. Nothing wrong with what you seek though, good luck finding it, there are many other here on your same journey. My advice for your quest: happiness is always going to be elusive if you are looking for someone else to create it for you. You need to find it within yourself before you are able to truly share it with someone…
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:35 PM
3

I get "adorable" and "cute" all the time, and I used to get hung up and worried about this. I mean who wants to fuck "adorable". I was wrong. Now I own it. It's who I am so being consistent with that ends up creating a ton of attraction.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:34 PM
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I thought this guy sounded like a total asshole.. I read through the comments and most people seem to think the opposite of me though, so whatever.
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:18 AM
2

Doesn't really seem like a useful exercise.
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:44 PM
3

My life is full of amazing, deep love. I am truly blessed. Traditional monogamy is not the only path to happiness.
/r/seduction04/10/12 11:30 PM
6

Personally, was never able to dance at clubs... Until I tried Molly one time, which allowed me to let go and just have fun. Now, I can remember and channel that feeling when sober.
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:41 PM
2

You just gotta take the plunge and jump in. It will never get less scary the more you think about it. Hold your breath, prepare to make yourself a little vulnerable, and take the plunge.
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:40 PM
1

I personally only dance to kill time. I do all my openers at the bar, near the entrance, or in the smoking area. Dance to have fun :) and bring that energy out with you to other parts of the club you feel more comfortable practicing pickup in (and thats less noisy).
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:37 PM
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Totally have to disagree here... As soon as a girl starts evaluating you as boyfriend material you are fighting a huge uphill battle compared to fun one-night stand material. Girls are much more willing to sleep with the hot, fun, stranger thats sweeping them away in the moment.. But, once they start thinking of you as boyfriend material than a TON of other shit kicks in: -Will my friends like him? -Do we live close enough together? -We cant be in a relationship because of our work association. …
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:25 PM
5

Everyone feels a bit odd at 14. You sound like a normal 14 year old from your description. Revel in and celebrate what makes you different. Be confident and don't apologize for it. Get out there and be social and your social skills will come with practice.
/r/seduction03/10/12 11:54 PM
2

Cool story. Not going to use it as an opener any time soon though, people will just be looking for an escape route around halfway through (takes me 60 seconds to say the entire speech) but I'll give it a try while in rapport sometimes :p
/r/seduction02/10/12 12:16 AM
2

So, how do you know you have herpes of the mouth? Did you have sores? Did they do a blood test or swab test of a sore? I'm guessing you had no sores, but got a blood test and got diagnosed with HSV1 and are just assuming its of the mouth?
/r/seduction20/09/12 12:29 AM
9

wrong. Herpes can spread when you are completely asymptomatic via a process called Viral Shedding. Also, since he was diagnosed via a blood test and has no symptoms he doesnt even know WHERE he has herpes (both HSV1 and HSV2 can infect multiple places on the body, mouth or genitals being most common, but not the only places). edit: actually he does say 'of the mouth', but I got the impression he had no sores.. asked for more info.
/r/seduction20/09/12 12:03 AM
1

Even poor movie stars get laid fyi :p (and its funny how people think everyone in movies is rich). Fame is a whole 'nother ballgame than rich.
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:58 PM
3

I am wealthy and succesful, and I almost never reveal it during pick up. When people ask me what I do I tell them I'm a hobo, or I tell them about my hobbies instead.. Women are more likely to sleep with me if they think I am just some loser. Once, they realize "who I am", its like a switch fucking flips and they are evaluating me on a whole different plane. They are trying to figure out how to boyfriend me. This has a whole host of problems, such as their standards going way up, and their sex t…
/r/seduction17/09/12 08:55 PM
1

Wtf, I'm not following this post at all..
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:55 AM
2

I feel like its so damn common to lie about your age. It seems like there is always "the conversation" when you start getting serious "so whats your real age, anyways?". Maybe this is an LA / entertainment industry thing though. Really not a big deal, just tell her you were insecure and lied about your age when you first met. Have a laugh over it.
/r/seduction16/09/12 10:52 AM
1

wat is this?
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:55 AM
2

So true, haha! highly recommend this book which helped me learn to deal with that craziness: http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576 fair warning: its kinda out there at times, but still good stuff.
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:49 PM
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Do you have good close male friends? I felt the same way with you, and I had like 100% female friends, lovers, etc. Honestly, it sounds like you may be overdosing on feminine energy and need to recooperate your masculine energy. (Omg i sound so new-agey).. Take a break. Focus on yourself and your life purpose. Accomplish things, grow, improve. Hang out with your bros. After a while that need for the feminine will assert itself again and maybe then you will have more personal insight and strength…
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:44 PM
1

I want some FRs!! What age groups do you tend to go after? I know I am going to be downright lecherous at your age, lol, cant wait (OK I can, but still). :P~~~~~
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:37 PM
3

Well sounds like you already tried it once. How did that go?
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:35 PM
1

Just let it go man. You are not going to win this one, and there are much better places to go anyhow. Come back in a month or two and they will have forgotten all about you. The fact is you will be unable to find any manager works at that mall who will defend picking up girls there, especially since so many of their clientelle will be UNDERAGE. And they are totally within their rights to kick you out for doing so. Just move on. No big deal.
/r/seduction14/09/12 11:24 PM
1

How's it working out for ya?
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:27 PM
3

"totally adorable"
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:17 PM
5

31 Seems to be the perfect age for dating women. The entire spectrum is open to me, and I can still pull of 24 or 31 depending on how I dress.
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:04 PM
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Maybe the HB6, was his HB10 :p There is no accounting for taste, and there is more to people than their physical appearance. And I find it interesting how you advise people NOT to get physical when you talk about how well it worked on you. But yeah, I agree with your basic premise. Women want a guy who has options. Its true. And nothing breeds attraction like a love triangle, that seems to be true as well. BUT, Women also hate feeling like you will fuck anything that moves, and they are just the…
/r/seduction14/09/12 04:01 PM
1

Do we have any stories to tell of seeing people ask people out???? And you are reallllly overthinking a sales person being nice to you. Dude you need to GET OFF THIS FORUM STAT. You are way too much in your head right now. Like you said, asking people out is no big deal. Go out there and do it. It looks like you are frozen in a hyper-analytical state right now, and these realizations you are having are not the same thing as action. Get out there and dont come back until you can give us a post ab…
/r/seduction14/09/12 03:54 PM
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http://www.flickr.com/photos/michaelholden/7938697846/
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:07 PM
2

I think its less about dressing nicely or well and more about having a distinct style and acting confidently.. I have a disheveled hobo-chic that is far from 'nice' but works great for me. I have my crazy chest hair mane poking out, around all these deep-v waxed LA guys, and mixing this with my insane confidence just seems to intrigue people.
/r/seduction12/09/12 11:29 PM
2

Abundance didn't help me. But I did find something that tid: Wrote a letter to that person.. I stapled it to the wall of a beautiful temple... A few days later, watched the temple burn to the ground in complete silence. It was like a giant weight was lifted off of my shoulders. Every time my mind begins to drift again to that dark place, I think of the temple burning up, and my pain and emotional baggage burning away with it.
/r/seduction12/09/12 11:18 PM
1

When you go from not having great success in relationships, to suddenly dating a lot, it is a lot of fun to talk about it and share it with your friends. The chase, the drama, the sex, the love, etc etc. It's too bad that this isn't up your alley and you can't share in the excitement with him. But, your just friends, and I don't get a hard on for all of my friends excitements either. I just am like "look dude, I'm not really interested in all of this stuff, lets talk another time".
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:54 PM
1

I sometimes wear them to clubs. Not a big deal. Occasionally a girl teases me for them, which I only take as a good sign and part of rapport.
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:04 PM
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Only real rules I have: 1) Always contact the next day after sex and let them know you had a great time. Women often feel especially vulnerable in this period, so they often appreciate someone who goes out of their way to make them feel special during it. 2) No text chit-chat during seduction phase. Keep it very sparse. Flirty comment and set up a meet. Nothing more.
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:01 PM
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I meet such amazing women. And its such an absolute pleasure to be able to spend quality time with them and feel that connection and learn something new about myself and about life. It is hard to give up that potential. Sex can be a very intimate thing, and many of these connections just don't seem to be made without it. It can be scary to just have to commit to one person and feel like you are giving up on all future possible connections and growth opportunities for life. On the otherhand, havi…
/r/seduction10/09/12 10:44 PM
2

you are misusing the term "whiskey dick"
/r/seduction10/09/12 04:42 PM
4

never ever pickup. But, yeah I still approach them. Trying to build a social group and meet a lot of people when I go out and get a momentum, and that involves a lot of opening of people I am not trying to pick up. I try to pick up girls based on their looks, and then start screening them for other qualities when we start a rapport.
/r/seduction09/09/12 01:39 AM
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Hard to tell, but sounds like you are friendzoning yourself to me. She probably left disapointed that she left a party, met one guy who seemed cool, but wasn't very interested in her. And didn't hook up with anyone or get a potential future date. Its very possible she even hooked up with one of the 5 guys trailing her when she left the party, now that she was worked up and socialized, and then basically rejected by you. Now she wants to have some fun. Escalate. Show your intentions. You didn't w…
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:19 PM
1

Man I love David Wain... Stella was brilliant.
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:13 PM
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I get that, and I guess it does make sense to isolate and really focus on one part of your game at a time. Thinking about too much makes you unnatural which sucks. I would just worry about stagnating and not moving on and escalating once you have this down to a reasonable level, which is what I fear I see too much of in this subreddit.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:38 PM
3

Meow loudly to myself. They good ones always meow back.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:31 PM
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really? You think watching football, watching movies, and going to a CS tournament is "interesting things"? "wanting to write screenplays"? really? This is boring shit everyone has in their life. But, StubbA makes it interesting by being passionate about it and telling stories about it. Im sure you have stuff just as interesting in your life. Tell it with passion and it sounds interesting and amazing.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:20 PM
2

So, did this work out well for you? You have FRs of you going out and getting dates now that you have overcome AA this way? The results in the field part of your post is missing.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:15 PM
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I don't have AA, so I may be wrong here, but I would not give this advice to my friends who do suffer from AA. Since you were not trying to seduce, you were trying to just have a small platonic entertaining interaction, doesn't this just shift the AA away to when you are trying to actually hook up with girls? I have plenty of friends who have no problems going up and talking to girls and friendzoning themselves. But they still have AA if they are going up and talking to girls and trying to prese…
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:13 PM
1

So your mouth and fingers became flaccid as well?
/r/seduction06/09/12 10:29 PM
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forgot the [BR] tag.
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:55 PM
2

Have 20-something girls even heard of elimidate?
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:46 PM
1

you were stigmatized by a UTI??? You know that condoms actually INCREASE the rate of UTIs right? Its not an STD, you usually give it to yourself.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:21 PM
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I personally just think you are overthinking things and in your head too much. Just relax and don't take things too seriously yet.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:18 PM
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I thrive in groups of girls personally.. Not really sure why.. Its probably because I come off as kind of a gay bff in those situations. Which sounds like it would be a bad thing, but I also have a very sexual frame, so it ends up working out for me... I usually start roleplaying with one of the girls, and try to convince her friends lies about us. Like we went to high school together, and remember the time.. omg we cant bring that up... etc.. Often, offer to help them pick up guys, play kill, m…
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:47 PM
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I dug it. I chase, and I woo. It is part of my game. Most girls are incredibly passive and need some chasing.
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:40 PM
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I always just ignore it. Its most her just trying to set up a get out of jail free card in case the date goes badly. If I recognize that it does exist, then that just gives it more reality and even puts a little pressure on her to go ahead and use it even if the date is going well. Just pretend it doesnt exist, and it probably wont.
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:39 PM
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I do protected vaginal and anal, and unprotected fellatio and cunningliness. I have had the condom come off/break several times though. I get STD tested monthly, which is unfortunately, quite expensive, since I additionally test for HSV. Never had a pregnancy scare (I almost never finish in the condom, instead in their mouth like 95% of the time.). I always ask girls what their STD status is and they always say they are 100% clean (which is pretty much a statistical impossibility with my numbers…
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:21 PM
1

thewhitemexi: How many times, and how often have you been tested for STDs? Were your tests covered by your insurance?
/r/seduction23/08/12 05:16 PM
2

You are asking the wrong question. You got in state to flirt and did it fine. You are not losing this one now because of bad flirting the second time, but because she is bored because you are failing to escalate and being too immediately available. You've made her interested with your initial flirty FB conversations, but her attraction is going to wane fast and she is going to be bored and gone. Your next message on FB should be to set up a physical meet up. Start to kill the random chit-chat an…
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:31 AM
1

I would just mention at some point during the date, casually, that you don't do long distance relationships. If you guys end up sleeping together, she will be doing it with that knowledge in mind. No need to make a big deal out of it, though.
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:26 AM
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How is that a rude thing to say? I use the line she did all the time on people I am friendzoning who I believe might have a romantic interest in me. She is being upfront and honest about her intentions so that she doesn't lead him on or use him. What would be rude would be letting him take her on a date when she knows she isn't interested. That would be manipulative. Instead she is being straight up. More women (and men) should be this way.
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:22 AM
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This obviously is not a good sign. Usually means you didn't build enough attraction before asking them out. Or sometimes it just means you came on strong and she is truly monogomous with someone else right now. Either way you are not in a good spot. Usually going on the "date" anyways is not a good thing to do because it is usually just means you are admitting that you will never be with her, but you are so needy you will go see her anyways just on the offchance you can sneak something in. This …
/r/seduction23/08/12 03:09 AM
1

If you are interested in seducing her, then cancel. It most likely a waste of time, because she is not interested and your time is better spent seducing people who are. And even if there is a possibility there, cancelling is still the best move long shot move you have in actually seducing her. If you want to build a platonic friendship, then what do you want from us? That isn't a seduction question, and you don't need us to give you permission to build a platonic friendship. But your question so…
/r/seduction23/08/12 02:43 AM
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I would cancel.
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:50 AM
2

I went through this, and just kept acting like it wasn't a big deal. It finally happened, and it wasn't a big deal. She made me pass about a bajillion shit tests first though. I always kept it light hearted, and above all I was always very discreet.
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:44 AM
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Fucking hilarious post. I agree with a lot of it, but not all. (I skipped right up to the 9's and 10's and learned a lot from failure and success). Are you really fat? I have a great image of a fat Asian John Candy right now running his mouth at 200mph. If this in any way describes you, we MUST go out sometime ;)
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:33 PM
1

Im not Asian, but I used to think this as well. Until I met Asian guy after Asian guy after Asian guy with mad game with high quality women, and finally realized it was just racism making me think this. Hopefully I know better now.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:31 PM
1

You mean girls you havn't spoken with yet from across the room? Initial conversation? First Date? While you are balls deep? what? What are you going to do with this information? Wait to see one of those signs before approaching? Wait to see one of those signs before escalating? Fuck that.
/r/seduction21/08/12 08:28 PM
1

You are watching too many movies.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:53 PM
1

'In my reality, those are commonalities, as common as going to the grocery store.' You are 27.. So I'm hoping this is as common as going to the grocery store.. From my anecdotal experience 27 is about the age where it begins to be.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:51 PM
3

I almost never meet girls on the dance floor. Meet them at the bar, in the smoking area, in line, on the side, etc. Dancing area is too loud, and too full of creepy single guys. Just use it to kill time or to bring a girl there and escalate.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:40 PM
1

Not if you are over 19
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:39 PM
2

Honestly, I am in a similar situation and found that I am better off not revealing this kind of thing at first. People are trying to impress women all the time with this stuff, and there are always a ton of people richer and more successful than you trying it. But, the truth is, often, I will have more success if they think I'm a loser hobo dropout. If they start hearing about how I am a "catch" then a switch flips and I go from "potential hookup" to "potential boyfriend". No girl wants to sleep…
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:30 PM
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Here the OP is blasting rumors she has heard about PUA without ever actually reading anything on this subreddit. Read through the first few pages and count the number of times people are advocating using 'negging' or lying about wanting to be in a relationship in order to get a ONS, and then come back here and apologize.
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:31 AM
2

Completely unacceptable. I would not put up with that shit from my friends for even a moment. Of course, I use those words and phrases in the bedroom sometimes, but I would keep that language strictly isolated to that area, and only if requested. I would probably respond with "C'mon man, no need for that kind of talk. Have some respect man".
/r/seduction17/08/12 11:52 PM
3

This book is a little "out there" (you should never allow your woman to make you cum??), but despite that, I still feel it is a MUST READ for any man in a relationship with a feminine person.
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:41 AM
2

Watch the official RSD video that answers this question: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LckdmM-9RE I found it pretty good.
/r/seduction16/08/12 08:06 PM
5

This is not creepy. You are in your head too much. I would text within 48 hours.
/r/seduction15/08/12 12:24 AM
5

This is some insane paranoia right here. This subreddit seems to be obsessed with getting beat up in bars, and its completely ludicrous.
/r/seduction11/08/12 02:06 AM
1

What's wrong with B? :D
/r/seduction09/08/12 08:14 PM
14

I actually ask this a lot, and say I get the "blowjobs" answer a good 20-30% of the time. Its almost definitely the most common answer I get. However, it has never ended with me back at their place in 10 minutes haha.. Guess my game isnt as good asyours!
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:16 PM
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I used this for speed dating and DESTROYED. This question is THE BOMB. I always follow it up by cold reading their personality for it. Almost every single girl says Raptor. So I say: "Oh, so you know what you want and are not afraid to go after it, even though people underestimate you sometimes. Also, you love bacon" Sometimes they say an herbivore like brontosauras so i can say "You are sensitive and soft-hearted, but are a strong person at your core". blah blah blah. Girls love the mix of play…
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:14 PM
3

Ran this routine today, hope you dont mind. It killed! We had a good laugh and bonding moment over it. Thanks!
/r/seduction07/08/12 03:30 AM
5

If flirting and sexual escalation isn't fun you are doing it wrong bro. It should be fun, or its going to just be unnatural.
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:13 AM
4

Asking doesn't really help. Most people I've met are very undereducated on STDs and have pretty much rarely or never been tested. But, they will happily tell you they are STD free! Also, you pretty much just have to resign yourself to the small possibility of getting herpes. You can catch it with a condom, from completely asymptomatic people, and the tests for asymptomatic people suck.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:04 AM
1

Read an experiment that was linked on /r/sex about propositions for different levels of intimacy between men and women. (These happened during the daytime on a college campus). on an instant proposition for sex, not a single women in the study ever said yes. Too lazy to find a link at the moment :p I bet if this was a girl propositioning a girl though, it could be possible. Removing that innate fear of physical violence would go a long way.
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:25 AM
3

So did you personally see differences in the field when you changed your language here? Personally, I haven't found these types of small changes in vocal language to make any difference whatsoever.
/r/seduction02/08/12 09:17 AM
1

I do the exact opposite. I go in slap the guy on the shoulder and open him first. Just ask how they know eachother once the conversation starts. I have a lot more luck NOT insulting anyone, and instead integrating myself into whatever social circle is already there. End up being able to instantly get report with any other female friends in the group that show up as they assume I know someone well there.
/r/seduction01/08/12 06:00 AM
2

On the contrary, in my experience its actually a better ratio than most clubs/bars.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:54 PM
3

Im in my 30s and honestly think I have a huge advantage over guys in their 20s, and I follow pretty typical PUA stuff.
/r/seduction31/07/12 11:17 PM
2

Did anyone else think of Stuart Smalley when reading this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-DIETlxquzY
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:56 PM
1

Yeah worked great for me. Not so much on the floor besides a bad insta-date at comic-con. But, the afterparties were simply amazing.
/r/seduction31/07/12 09:35 PM
2

Havn't found this to be true at all. In fact, it reeks of misogyny and sour grapes. Beautiful women are some of the best people I know.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:58 PM
2

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/GoodCopBadCop
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:45 AM
1

These sound more like tips to get over AA? Or are they supposed to be tips to reduce boredom of approaching? Because I have never found approaching to be "boring".
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:44 AM
7

Then the answer is "Yes, that would be creepy". Even if it wasn't its very unlikely you will receive any kind of real or satisfactory answer.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:53 AM
1

Instead, why not invite her out (+ maybe her boy) nightcrawling with you?
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:33 AM
1

Real one I use all the time: "Hey, I think we are the only 2 people drinking water in this place, Cheers!"
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:16 AM
1

How old are you? Care to post before/after shots? (Perhaps blur your eyes?) Honestly, even living in LA I meet girls all the time who have had work done, but never a man who has (or who will admit to it, I guess?) so I doubt you will meet many others who have done this for pickup. I am lucky enough to have a naturally attractive face, and it certainly helps, but its simply not enough. Much uglier wings with better game can out-pull me any day. I bet it will improve your game though, at the very …
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:07 AM
2

Actually the way I broke this was by peacocking really outrageous stuff. I would go out wearing a spirit hood, or fuzzy light up leg warmers, or a unicorn horn, stuff like that. Everyone is already looking at me and judging me. Essentially wearing a costume forced me to not give a fuck and just do whatever I wanted and talk to anyone and be as nutty as I wanted to be. And gave every set an instant topic of conversation. Once I knew what that felt like, and had that feeling, I was able to channel…
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:19 PM
1

Probably nowhere you can take it from here, she probably isn't interested. But, what I do with these numbers is still send a text inviting them out to whatever awesome show or party or whatever Im doing the next time im doing it, before dropping them from my book.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:53 PM
5

Relationships. Sex. Random craziness. In these situations, I stop trying to have a conversation and look for opportunities for us to have a mini-adventure or crazy roleplaying together. People will say to just drop them, but I think a LOT of guys would be well advised to run through a dozen or so vapid, dim party girls before making this decision. It can be fun, and fill your brain with awesome spank-bank memories. And honestly, sometimes these girls come off as dumb party girls who cant make co…
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:51 PM
2

Great post. This sounds like a decent routine. I've also found women tend to respond very well to the cold reading done early on! Maybe its conditioning from so many romantic comedies hee hee. Your quotes are worded awkwardly though for English, but of course people shouldn't be trying to quote it word for word and should be integrating it into their own speech patterns, so I think this is fine. But two sections I think are especially confusing your message: "Hey, I know this is surprising. But …
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:46 PM
1

Judging from a lot of the strangely worded stuff in this FR I'm guessing this was not happening in English and the author is translating for our benefit, or he is not a native speaker.
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:11 AM
2

Yeah so a year ago I was your same age and exact same relationship position. The standard poly response to this is to be open and honest immediately. This is great advice, but it will totally kill most of your opportunities to actually have sex as a man, so you may have to make the choice to violate that. Basically, most women if you tell them you are in an open relationship or are poly will run away screaming. Even if they are totally down for a ONS or FWB or even CHEATING with a married man, t…
/r/seduction21/07/12 12:59 AM
3

Honestly, I completely ignore it and it was never an issue. Maybe when they are evaluating you as a boyfriend it becomes an issue, but usually my interactions with older women are highly sexualized, and being younger is not seen as a bad thing in those interactions.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:03 PM
1

In this case I didnt offer to pay and she didn't ask me to. I personally don't think it matters either way, as long as you don't make a big deal of it either way. I make a lot more money than most girls I date, so when I take them to more expensive places they wouldn't normally go to, I usually pay.
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:32 PM
1

Haha, I really appreciate this after my weekend there trying the same thing.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:31 PM
2

I have a cat and its awesome. It actually often becomes another excuse to go back to my place to meet her. BUT, it seems like half the fucking girls in LA are allergic, which is fucking annoying.
/r/seduction17/07/12 07:18 PM
2

Honestly, Im a little supplment crazy, so yeah.. But here is what I take these that helps with pickup -Piracetam + Choline (for conversation) -Caffeine + L-Theanine (for energy) for Testerone and sex drive: -Fermented cod liver oil : http://www.amazon.com/Royal-Butter-Fermented-Liver-Blend/dp/B002M06SMU -vitamin D - -Zinc -L-Arginine For sleep: -5-htp -melatonin Other random stuff I take -reservatrol -selenium -green tea extract -ginko biloba -Magnesium -IP-6
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:59 PM
2

I don't think you are as blown out as you think you are for a day-2. In my experience they are often just as concerned that THEY "blew it" good luck!
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:40 PM
2

I personally dont f-close with drunk girls I just met so have been in this situation often, and have turned it into some awesome day 2 f-closes with some "white knight-ish" lines such as: "I just didn't trust myself alone with you.."
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:18 PM
4

I have found myself falling into this pattern sometimes. You hook a girl, things are going great, and then you begin 'following' and just tagging along with the group, and the attraction begins to dwindle. When I start noticing this now, I try to just act more like a leader. There are always times when the group is struggling, trying to decide what to do, when to go. Step up and be decisive and make a call to action. Also, don't be afraid to just leave and rejoin at a later time. Go find your ow…
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:15 PM
2

Thanks for the analysis.
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:00 PM
3

Yeah I have the same problem here is what I do: -Caffeine and lots of it.. Lots of 5-hour energy when going out -l-theanine supplement when taken with caffeine reduces negative side effects. -I take a supplement called Piracetam when going out. Helps get into the conversation mindset. -I take a couple of random daily supplements -- fish oil, vit D, Zinc.. -Black out curtains in my bedroom. Helps me get more, deeper sleep. -I avoid eating grains, gluten and sugar when possible. This stuff makes m…
/r/seduction17/07/12 04:14 PM
2

He was married :p
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:19 AM
1

I think I actually had a problem with smiling too much heh. Now, when I'm in a conversation I try to be a bit more stoic and make them earn my smile.. Not sure, If I'm just overthinking things though :p
/r/seduction17/07/12 03:15 AM
1

Thanks for the advice, maybe I'll try that if I get into a similar situation in the future. I don't have much experience with day game. I felt like these girls were getting so much attention from so many guys, that I just had to go super-hard to break through to them. But, you are right, I should have pulled back and just tried to have a real person to person moment once I had won her over. Thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction17/07/12 03:12 AM
1

Love your saidin analogy.. Its funny, the book Overachievement talks about the exact same thing with the positive and powerful effects of nervousness: http://www.amazon.com/Overachievement-Science-Working-Less-Accomplish/dp/B000NJMMTK/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1342491997&sr=8-1&keywords=overachievement
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:27 AM
4

I used to feel this way. But no longer. Many people simply DO NOT USE VOICE anymore to talk with anyone but customer service.
/r/seduction16/07/12 10:17 PM
1

I think Im_a_rapist is getting trolled here.
/r/seduction16/07/12 10:16 PM
1

upvote for LoL!
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:24 AM
1

Rogaine works very well for me.
/r/seduction14/07/12 12:24 AM
4

I almost never say anything when going in for a kiss... Silence, eye contact, and body language is best. Although thinking about it, I sometimes do a soft "Hi" with face really close, then they say "Hi" and you kiss. End of the night f-closes, the classics seem to work best: -"Lets get out of here" -"I'm not quite ready for this night to end". -"Lets go", "Where?", "Adventure."
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:58 PM
1

But that IS how I hit on hot girls haha :p
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:57 PM
2

Same thing I usually do. works fine. Instead of calling though, I usually text something and sign my name on it. What works better, but harder to pull off, is to take her phone and text yourself, often something slightly sexual as if it came from her. Then I sometimes respond as if she is coming on too strong, and it often goes into some sexual roleplay.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:56 PM
5

It's all in your head.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:53 PM
2

Hank never expressed interest once, he just shut her down over and over. This will work great on occasion, but most women are not going to be the ones to make the first move, and you have to chase a bit. Otherwise, I thought it was pretty decent game.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:45 PM
6

This is great. The only problem I have with it is Hank is 100% push, and no pull. Sexual tension just doesn't automagically appear out of nowhere, you often need to kick it off somehow.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:43 PM
1

Doesn't help, unfortunately.
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:09 PM
1

Congrats bro. Beware the backslide; you can stay strong. Something I have learned about this: Abundance doesnt help for SHIT in getting over oneitis. I could bang 1000 girls, but being around the oneitis will still cause me to flip the neediness switch. "I did all this for youuuuuu" mentality. You have to find completeness in yourself, not look outside for validation.
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:08 PM
2

Look, I've tried 1000 different ways of building attraction over text with a girl who won't text back... Almost nothing has worked consistently. The only answer I've found so far is NOT to text back. Which means you will just lose many of these girls. But, still seems to have the highest success rate. Which is pretty dang frustrating, but there it is. She has her reasons.
/r/seduction12/07/12 10:52 PM
2

I do this with smaller groups of girls.. but 20 seems like impossible to manage... What do you have a mailing list or something? And really if you actually want 20 hot girls to show up, you really need to be inviting out 30+. And with a group that large, especially women, how the fuck do you get them to all roll in with you at the same time at the club? With 20 girls, how are you not going to get them to bring GUYS with them? Easy enough to tell a couple girls not to invite anyone but TWENTY+ pe…
/r/seduction12/07/12 10:38 PM
1

I've tried the long 30 seconds of story telling before, and I usually get a confused "What??". The shorter quips work much better for me. Or just a small sound-bite from a larger story.
/r/seduction12/07/12 09:11 PM
3

I often respond, "Actually, she is my adopted little sister".
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:46 PM
0

Who cares if they think that? The worst they are going to say is "Wow that guy is an awesome drunk!" You are really overthinking what OTHER people MIGHT think of you. DGAF!! Being social, flirty, charismatic, and meeting beautiful women are not the negative aspects people associate with being drunk. Are you puking, stumbling, slurring your words, getting into fights? No? Then nobody is going to think that. Also, you could not drink..... I often blame my enthusiastic behavior on 5-hour energy hah…
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:32 PM
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Why would you care?
/r/seduction12/07/12 06:21 PM
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