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It's been about 6 years for me. I'm also in my mid 40's with 2 divorces. The first 4 years I didn't really miss it but the last 2 have been hard. I've been both reading and writing erotic fiction to fill that need. I'm at the point in my life where I'd rather be alone than get in another unfulfilling relationship so I'm not putting any effort into dating. Both my husbands pursued me so that's what I'm used to anyway. I briefly tried OLD between husbands but that didn't lead to much. I did make a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:47 PM
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Yeah, this is exactly how my ex is. He can alter his memories seconds after the event occurred. He'd be on his phone with his mom and he'd make up some excuse to get out of going to some family thing, then seconds after he got off the phone he truly believed that we had plans for whatever thing he'd just made up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 11:52 PM
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I think these women are more likely to be cheated on, not less. If they're famous then their husbands are as well and famous men have women throwing themselves at them all the time. There are women who relish the idea of stealing a famous woman's man away from her. Whereas, an average ordinary guy has to go out seeking women to cheat with, has to lie to them about being single or make up a story about being in the middle of a divorce, etc. For a normal guy there are just more obstacles to cheati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:14 AM
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And they're listening to advice from other men who are telling them that if a woman doesn't match his energy she's not as interested. These men don't know how women think. They assume women think the same way they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:56 PM
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At least they're showing you their true colors before you invest too much time in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:54 PM
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Age definitely plays a factor. When I was in my 20's and 30's working with other women the same age there were a lot of cliques and bullying. Now that I'm in my 40's and work with other women in their 40's I just don't see it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 04:10 PM
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But it was in her past. She most likely regrets it. Do we deserve to have the decisions we made when we were young and stupid hang over our heads for the rest of our lives? There was a reason she hid it from him. If she was "sex positive" she'd be bragging about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:53 PM
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Welcome to adulthood, dude. Yes, this is your life now until you retire. This is the life that most of us have because most of us were not born with silver spoons in our mouths and have to work for a living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 07:42 PM
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Back when I first commented on it 8 hours ago most of the "advice" was against her, trying to convince her there was something wrong with her for wanting "just a piece of paper". Just checked and the post has been removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:49 PM
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This is the first I've heard about there being a global problem with women's periods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:00 AM
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Up until about 10 years ago it was one of those things that only affected men over 50. It's only in recent years that I've heard of it happening among younger men. But our society is so reluctant to talk about this change, it's easier to just normalize it and convince women to lower their expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 11:53 PM
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I think the mother is just afraid her daughter will cut her out of her life if she doesn't show enough support for her relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:26 PM
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You didn't just discover all of this yesterday though. You had to have known most of this already. You just finally reached your breaking point yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:37 AM
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Ok, at first I laughed at that "being your own primary partner" line but then I thought maybe this is better. My concern with polyamorous couples is that one half of the couple usually deceives or manipulates the other half into going along with it. If you're solo at least you're not roping anyone else into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:30 PM
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Exactly, I read somewhere that when a couple is struggling with infertility it's usually because of an issue with the man's sperm. I would ask her if she knows for sure if this is a problem with her, like has a doctor actually confirmed it? He seems the type who wouldn't even bother to have his sperm tested and would probably say that's an unnecessary expense too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:46 PM
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In my experience they leave when they've got another woman lined up to take care of them. The other woman insists on it and they don't want to lose her because they've convinced themselves she's "the one" when she's really just a convenient excuse to leave an obviously dissatisfied wife. Then they wonder why "the one" starts acting the same way their wives did because they don't put any effort in once they've gotten her pinned down. It just becomes a perpetual cycle and they either never figure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:53 AM
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Because their mommies always told them they were special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:30 AM
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Back when I was on OLD 10 years ago the one phrase I got sick of seeing was "I work hard so I can play hard". That must have been more of a Gen X thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:54 AM
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Good points. I had no idea how much my first marriage was draining my energy until I got out of it. I just knew I felt tired all the time. I now get by on half the sleep that I felt I needed back then. And I did gain about 80 pounds in the first 3 years of that marriage. Part of it was bad food choices but a big part of it was having no energy to exercise because of the emotional drain of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:35 AM
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What is with grown women doing these tik tok videos? Thought it was a site for teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:17 AM
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Suddenly starts exercising a lot more than usual, like going from a completely sedentary lifestyle to walking 5 miles a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:58 PM
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So mom and mom's friend are just trying to "figure out the sex issue" instead of trying to convince her to leave this asshole? They're seriously part of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah, after my narcissistic ex I started dating men that I thought were safe because they were the exact opposite of him. They all had their red flags that I overlooked because "at least they weren't like him". So I might have avoided the narcissists but I attracted guys with other issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:41 PM
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It happens the other way around more often. The man gets the woman pregnant to trap her into the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:44 PM
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Two degrees in psychology here so I have some experience analyzing these studies: For starters, this was the result of a survey of college students. My professors often jokingly referred to psychology as "the study of the college softmore". Professors are under pressure to publish or perish so they often give their students these surveys so they can publish them. The results of the survey are accurate to the point that they reflect the views of college students at that point in time. That is all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 02:13 PM
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So the man I was married to for 8 years dumped me 3 months after I had our second child because he was having an emotional affair with a woman and she'd told him she wouldn't let it get physical until I was out of the picture. He could have just been open and honest about dumping me so he could be available to be with her but instead he told everyone it was because I'd had a 3 year long affair, had tricked him into conceiving our baby and was abusive to our older child. The divorce took about a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:25 PM
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If you've been thinking a lot about breaking up it's your mind's way of telling you that you should break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:42 PM
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They're congradulating her on her baby, not the baby daddy. You can think the baby daddy is scum and still be happy for the woman. Every child is a blessing, no matter how they come into the world. Yes, she will have a lifetime of difficulties because she is forever tied to this man through this child but she will also have a lifetime full of wonderful experiences because of the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:41 PM
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My breasts started developing at a young age so I did get a lot of looks from grown men when I was ages 11-15. I remember just wishing I would grow fat on my hips too so I would look more even. I felt like I looked like I was going to topple over because I was so top heavy. Most of that was in my head but I got some jealous looks from girls my age that contributed to it. They started rumors that I stuffed my bra, stuff like that because it didn't seem natural. If I just been fat overall it would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:08 PM
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The opposite treatment can also be a red flag. I got the "thank you for taking this boy off my hands and sorry I didn't raise him better" vibe from my 2 ex MILs. They're both still very sweet to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:53 PM
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She probably does want kids, just not with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 02:22 PM
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