| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 417 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful women | Field Report | KevinLuWX | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 08:05 AM |
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| 1 | how often should you have sex?If I live with my partner every day it's around 2 times a day. But since we meet once per week, it's 2-3 times per week. | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Some tips with regards to sexual health?Always use condoms if it's just a hook up. | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Had insane chemistry with a girl on my flight, didn’t ask for her IG, found it later — should I message her?I did this once, it worked out fine. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 05:25 AM |
| 2 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?You're not her first choice. She's leading you on as a back up incase the guy she's fucking on the other side dumps her. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenWhat makes you think it's a joke? | /r/seduction | 01/04/26 07:48 AM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenPhase 1 & 2: 23-24 Phase 3: 24-25 Phase 4: 25-26 | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 05:30 AM |
| 15 | You Fixed Your Body and Bank Account - But Still No GirlsWomen don't see the full picture until it's complete. When I had no game, they saw me as a somewhat interesting nerd. Most of these things kind of fly over their heads. When I glowed up and developed aura, they see me as a leader and visionary genius living an adventurous life, who is also emotionally available and authentic. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 11:12 AM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenWow I’m really sorry man. But yeah your chances aren’t good with the way things are right now. Have you considered plastic surgery? You need to get yourself to at least a 2/10 first before you start worrying about the autism part. Seduction skills are about converting opportunities, it’s useless if there are no opportunities to convert. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 07:43 AM |
| 3 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenExcept most women aren’t interested in dating autistic men though. They aren't, but they won't be able to tell when an autistic man is socially adept and has game. The trace amounts of difference usually gets interpreted it in a positive way such as "unique" and "interesting". In your case, your lack of success is probably almost entirely due to your looks, which sucks because there's not much you can change about it. I do find it hard to imagine that anyone can be a 0/10 without some sort of di… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenI'll be a realistic. If you're really ugly then yeah you're in trouble even if you don't have autism. The point of the post is that autism alone isn't a disqualifying factor in dating and there are ways to work through the shortcomings caused by autism. The shortcomings caused by ugliness is a separate issue to address. Obviously being ugly makes it much harder to gain dating experience to work through autism so you'll just have to focus more on casual social situations. If you can elevate yours… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:02 AM |
| 3 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?Girls like to touch my emotional support biceps. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenNothing. I had better options and was ready to commit to a relationship, so had to cut her loose. I don't like hooking up before immediately cutting her loose due to my principles. It's not fair for her or my current girlfriend who I was seeing around the same time. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenWell you're assuming I don't have a lot of these things women want. I'm decently successful, leader type, athletic, interesting to talk to, and have a fun digital nomad life. The issue is that women don't see the full picture when the guy has no aura. Back then they saw me as an average looking and somewhat interesting nerd. Once I've glowed up and developed my aura. All the plus gets amplified. They see me as this good looking visionary genius living an adventurous life who is also emotionally … | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 12:16 AM |
| 6 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenPlenty of negative experience before phase 3-4. Getting dumped for being clingy, friendzoned, and blowing it up by physically escalating at the wrong time. Some of these cases are so painful I still get anxiety 2 years later when thinking back on it. The positive reinforcement only started coming in after brute forcing a large quantity of dates and addressing my insecurities. Going on lots of dates with people you find attractive but not quite up to your standards is a nice stepping stone. Try t… | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 11:07 PM |
| 4 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenI consumed content from David Zhan as a starting point. He helped figure out the right mentality and some of the key parts I’m doing wrong but it’s not in English. In the end I think it’s the quantity of practice I accumulated in dates that realized the progress. I honestly prefer going to in person events since I’m more charming in person than photogenic. I also don’t have to worry about the girls not looking like their photos (happens a lot in dating apps). Cold approach is still a thing. It’s… | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenHave options. Easier said than done but I try to have at least 3 or 4 alternatives at a time to keep my anxious attachment under control. Or the alternative is to get good at cold approach, increase the abundance significantly. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 10:48 PM |
| 15 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenIt's kind of true. My first girlfriend is neurodivergent and she was like totally into me from the beginning even though I had no game at the time. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:32 PM |
| 4 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenI'll say that it's possible that I'm more physically attractive than the rating I give myself. I truly believe I'm about 6.5 but the compliments I've been receiving has me reconsidering. Half of the girls I meet flat out say I'm very good looking on the first date. The dilemma is whether the attraction came from looks alone or the feeling they get from talking to me. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:26 PM |
| 1 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenDo consider that one of the girl I rate as a 7 is an actress and model, so likely attractive by most people’s standards. Definitely not “boogerwolves”. And I’ve bagged plenty more girls that are more attractive than that model. https://prnt.sc/Lyz2fYkBF3Ga | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenBetween phase 1 and phase 2. Met my girlfriend and 3 other on dating apps. 2 from in-person singles event. 1 from mutuals. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:10 PM |
| 3 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenMix of timeleft, mutuals, and dating app. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 01:07 PM |
| 12 | How I went from an autistic 24-year-old virgin to being chased by beautiful womenI'm curious what makes you think my writing sounds like chatGPT? | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 09:33 AM |
| 1 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.If the date went well, most likely she doesn’t find you as attractive as in your photos. | /r/seduction | 17/03/26 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I am 25 now and never been with a girl. :(I've had this issue for a long time. Physical escalation with playfulness is the key, you mess with her, say unfiltered stuff, roleplay. Trading secrets game is fun as well. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Older Woman going ColdPull back but hint the door is open. That's your best chance of saving this. If you start trying to convince her, it will just prove that her intuition is correct in her mind. | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 11:44 AM |
| 2 | What's the most women you've had in your roster at any given time?6 but I narrowed it down within 2 weeks. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 02:04 PM |
| 1 | My ex acting she's a loyal. Give practical advicesYour past relationship sounds like a simp relationship where you're being used either for your emotional comfort or money. 2 years of no sex is insane. Every girl I date (even the shy conservative ones) lusts for sex once we're on the bed, they just hide the thirst before that to avoid looking slutty. The only possible answer here is she has no sexual desire for you. Odds are your ex has been going out banging other guys while in relationship with you. If you want to finally bang your ex, you ne… | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 08:02 AM |
| 0 | How to get a girlfriend?Yes, once I banged my first 8, the rest weren't so hard. However, to bang my first 8 I needed a strong seduction game. I'm not tall, white, or particularly good looking. I don't have 8s handed to me on a silver platter like the white frat boys. The point is that with seduction game, I'm able to bang hot girls despite being relatively mid in physical appearance. It will take more work for people with autism to develop a seduction game but it's possible. I'll be writing a detailed post on how I re… | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girlfriend?I'm autistic as well with ADHD. I disagree with your implication that seduction techniques don't work. They totally do. I went from virgin at 24 years old to pulling high quality women. It took a lot of work by myself and work with a dating coach but it's possible. I made it. Just because you didn't put in the correct effort and results doesn't mean it's impossible. Obviously if you lack superficial qualities that are attractive, you're not gonna be drowning in hot chicks even with perfect seduc… | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 11:16 PM |
| 3 | My issue is knowing when and how to escalate.Here's how I did it with my current girlfriend during our 2nd date. Go on a hiking date (preferably off trail). Escalation can only happen when the convo vibe has reached a certain level of connection. Shoulder touches. I sat on park bench next to her, deliberately close but just short of touching her shoulder. First I set the mood by chatting about past relationships. Once it got deep and the vibe was good, I leaned a bit over until our shoulder is touching. She doesn't move away, so that's a g… | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 09:54 PM |
| 15 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedCan you repost the texting for comfort thing? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed.Based on what I'm reading, you might give off insecure vibes. This is a huge turn off for women, because they instinctively want an emotionally stable man that can lead and take care of them, not babysit an emotionally unstable boy who needs consoling. I've asked many women about this and the answer is universal ~ even my current girlfriend who is a super empath agrees. Trauma dumping about how lonely you are is the last thing you want to do on a first date. It's not like girls don't like to tal… | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Tons of matches and first dates through Hinge but no relationship yet. Dejected and depressed.I used to be mildly socially awkward with mediocre convo skills and I still got 2nd dates 90% of the time. If your success rate is lower than that then it's one of these 3 things... There something about you or something you do that is a turn off. You're not nearly as physically attractive in real life as in the photos. Could be a looks issue or you lied about your height. Your date has decided on someone else or no longer pursues a relationship. This happens less than 10% of the time. So your i… | /r/seduction | 02/02/26 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Finally approachedI try to be playful and the light shoves/touches naturally happens. But it's hard for me to get into that zone, especially when dating up. That's why I'm a lurker here. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Finally approachedI'm not a pro or anything, just pointing out that someone who isn't single at a given moment isn't a lost cause most of the time. | /r/seduction | 01/01/26 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Finally approachedI've kept in touch with girls like this and a few ended up hooking up with me once their relationship ended. | /r/seduction | 31/12/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity about not having first kissTilt your head a little bit. I had the same worry for the longest time but picked it up in like 20 seconds. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 04:56 PM |
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