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| 2 | I've been doing pickup for almost 15 years and now I feel convinced that its a scam and/or a waste of time?Sounds like you’re trying to hard to be a pick up artist and not just being a genuine guy. Women can smell it from a mile away. They’re probably instantly turned off by you. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:39 PM |
| 580 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..You quickly learn they aren’t actually 10/10 | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Where to find potential prospects?I don’t have a strategy. I just talk to anyone and everyone in public and it works out | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Where to find potential prospects?I don’t need more 😅😅 | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Where to find potential prospects?Sorry, “I attract a lot of women and sleep with them.” | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Where to find potential prospects?I pick up a lot of women, I just call them women lol | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 04:56 PM |
| 10 | Where to find potential prospects?First off, quit referring to them as prospects and you may have better luck | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Just as easy. I’m in my mid 30s, I’ve gotten dates with 26 year olds and I’ve gotten dates from women in their upper 40s. | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How can I approach a girl in a club that has a group of friends and isn’t willing to roll away alone?Talk to all of them? They’re just people too man | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?Yep exactly. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Same-Day Hookups – How Did You Do It?The most recent I remember… Was running errands, middle of the day on a Saturday. Decided to get some lunch at a restaurant/bar I heard about that was new. Bar was full except for 1 seat at the end, I sat there. There was an older woman next to me, watching college football. I’m usually friendly with anyone at the bar and I’m into football so we started talking. I finished lunch and she asked what I was doing after this. I said prob just going home and maybe hit the pool at my apartment. She ask… | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?That’s not even a high number | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Hittin' on someone IRLTalk to her like she’s a regular person, because that’s what she is. I’m sure you’ve talked to women before. Just because you find them attractive shouldn’t make you nervous. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Best peacocking items for 2022I don’t wear bizarre items to get attention, but I do have a handful of t shirts with interesting designs or sayings that people approach me about. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Playlist for sex ?!120-128bpm | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Picking up a bartender?Sounds like she’s just being nice to not hurt your feelings as you’re a semi regular. Don’t think she’s interested. If she was, you would have hung out already. When you said she’ll hang out if she’s “not too busy” is a tell tale sign. She made plans to go out with her friends but not you, so she’s not that busy. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach success!I’m in the states and I call them Jimmys | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?That’s the thing, it’s better to not have any mindset or ‘plan’. Just be a social person, people are naturally attracted to that and with enough practice, talking to an attractive woman will be like talking to anyone else. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?Have you ever approached a random guy on the street and tried to get his number so you could have a beer with him? Of course not, cause it’s creepy to approach random people in the street no matter what gender they are. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?Rejection rates are high in every environment. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:56 AM |
| 7 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?What do you mean by “going to work”? You don’t think it’s possible to walk up to another human being and make conversation ? | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:54 AM |
| 8 | Do you just walk up to women on the street and talk?You can’t walk around thinking “I need to find an attractive woman and approach her.” Just become more social with all sorts of people. Get comfortable talking to strangers in general. Eventually you’ll bump into an attractive woman and it’ll be natural to strike conversation | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 01:49 AM |
| 22 | No kissing, no sex, but she wants dry humpingShe’s on her period or has a wiener. Good luck | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth chasing after women within 1k+ followers if you don’t have a solid Instagram presence?Who cares | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?Ugh that’s me too | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Early 30s is the magic number. I’m nearly 33, I’ve got women in their early 20s, all the way up to a 55 year old. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?Yes, many times. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?This | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?Older women are much better! | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl i've been dating for 2 weeks has started to send me a lot of heart emojis, what do i do?Send her eggplant emojis | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 02:31 PM |
| 42 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Make sexual comments | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?I usually just cuddle on the couch, watch a movie put my arm around her, when I’m ready I’ll grab her face and start kissing. Works every time. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dormSmash | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meYep exactly! | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 97 | I failed to pull a 10 last night but she didn't reject meSounds like you failed. When she said “yeah let’s go” that’s when you say no more, grab her hand and lead the way. That’s taking charge. And don’t rate girls. It’s all subjective. A 10 to you might be a 7 to someone else. Instead of doing that, just think, do I find her attractive? If the answer is yes then go for it. You thinking she’s a 10 makes you more nervous, like she should be held to a higher standard than other women. Treat all women the same no matter their “number” | /r/seduction | 31/08/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are bullshitHaha I had something like that happen. Met a girl on dating app, not exactly “my type” but she was cool so we made plans for a date. When the time came I got ghosted. No biggie. So I bartend at a pretty popular country dancing bar, and about a month later she comes in. I can tell she recognizes me but doesn’t say anything. Maybe 2-3 days roll by and she somehow matches me again on the dating app. She messages me and says “do you work at _____?” I’m like “well yes I do, I asked you on a date befo… | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Dating apps are bullshitWhat about the 3 full days you have not working? | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 06:01 AM |
| -2 | How are you all getting girls out from online game with Corona? (US)Grab food to go, coffee, meet at a park. I’ve had girls come straight over and I’ve also gone to their places. I’ve had a handful willing to meet, just be patient | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Got ghosted online dating constantly?You probably didn’t do anything. What I’ve noticed from OLD is girls are hyper aware of red flags, for the most part. They have so many options that if you say any little comment that they don’t like they’ll just dismiss you and move onto the next. Hell im the same way. It’s also a number game. I currently am texting 15 girls from bumble at the same time, crazy I know. Odds are I’ll end up meeting maybe 2-3 of them. I know women get 10x more matches than me, think of how many guys they could pos… | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsIt’s not the size of your boat but rather the motion of the ocean | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsI never said I banged them. OPs “success” percentage is based on getting a date. If I really think about it, I probably sleep with more girls than I actually get to take on a date. I am a good looking dude. 6’1’’, heavily tattooed, very muscular, naturally tan skin. I get told I’m handsome or good looking on a very regular basis. Leo DiCaprio would bang 10/10 of those women. If we’re talking about sleeping with them as the only goal, and I already got their phone number, my percents would probab… | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 2 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsEveryone is a stranger until you meet them. My 40-60% IS complete strangers. I just dont go waste half my day with the sole purpose of “picking up women.” I live my life and if a woman I’m attracted to is around I’ll go for it. I’m not a professional PUA, I’m a normal dude who talks to women like they’re people, not some game I’m trying to play. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsFind something new you have interest in that may have more women in it. I don’t know man, I don’t think like that. I do things I want to do and meeting women just happens. They know when a guy is doing something just to pick up women. Now, if your goal is to sleep with as many women as possible, then your strategy is the way to go. I’ve been through that phase now I’m looking for somebody to settle down with. By living my best life and bettering myself through new experiences, I’ve met a lot mor… | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsSounds like you’re just jealous. I also don’t go out for the purpose of meeting women. I meet them organically. I don’t meet 30 women in a single day, that’s nonsense. But I might meet 5 in a two week span and I’ll get 3 dates out of that no problem. Still beats your numbers | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 04:28 AM |
| 0 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsYou get results by living your best life. Not going out on the prowl with a sole goal of picking up women. Your results are complete garbage. 2.5% is a joke. I don’t “daygame” like you do and I don’t compile data to know my percents, but I’m guessing mine is in the 40-60% range. I can safely say I go on dates with 1 out of 2 women I get a phone number from. You clearly suck at spittin game and you shouldn’t be giving advice in the first place. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsSomebody is mad | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 7 | I did 27 approaches in 367 minutes of daygame infield. Here are my resultsThe problem is you’re doing the salsa classes just to pick up women. That’s not attractive. You do the salsa classes because you want to learn salsa. You join a coed volleyball league because you like to play volleyball. You get my point. Do things you truly enjoy doing and if there just so happens to be a woman you’re interested in then the odds will be in your favor. What you’re doing is why women think men are pigs. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I’m curious, do you guys pick up your Tinder dates or just meet up?Your tinder dates give you that option? I’ve been on quite a few dates from online, never picked one up. Always had to meet up. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 05:49 AM |
| 7 | Cheap drinks?Local dive bar happy hour | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Should i tell a girl that i'm virgin?Girls like an honest man | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 01:41 AM |
| 4 | What is the best thing to ask for after a cold approach (snap, phone #, IG) ?The best line is: “Is there a phone number I can reach you at?” Because the answer is always yes. Everybody has a cell phone. Now, she might hesitate and make up an excuse, but in my experience that’s uncommon. I’ve even had girls give me their number then apologize later for giving me it for one reason or another lol | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 12:25 AM |
| 0 | How to get Laid 23 y.o. femaleThat analogy doesn’t even make sense to the conversation. That’s like a girl saying “I would never roofie somebody, so why would I protect my drink?” Good try though. If you’re not threat whatsoever, why would anything of the sort even cross your mind? I have no problem inviting girls over to my place on a first or second date. I know boundaries. I would never put a girl in harms way. Now if I invite her and she says “no I don’t feel comfortable doing that this soon.” I respectfully say “oh not … | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | How to get Laid 23 y.o. femaleGuys who aren’t psychopaths don’t even consider the girls safety because they would never put a woman in danger. I’ve never put a woman in a dangerous situation so it doesn’t even cross my mind as something she’s thinking about. But yes, if the interest is strictly to get laid, lowering standards and being straight forward about your intentions is the best bet . | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | TextingNobody is “too busy” to not send a text for 2 weeks. Sounds like you’re not that interested. | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | TextingSo you haven’t used your phone in 2 weeks? | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How would you address why you don't have anything on facebook/no friends on it? Say she asks you for your facebook or searches you, only to find a blank page with your name on it“Not that I don’t have time for it, I just like to apply my time towards more important things in life” I recently deactivated my Instagram, deleted Snapchat 3 years ago, and currently only have Facebook with 68 friends that are my close friends, family, and business acquaintances. I would delete my Facebook but it’s connected to my business account that gets me work. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend?Go to a country bar dance lessons night. Tons of good lookin women, usually in shape, learning to dance just like you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Where to have sex when living with both parents and not having a car?Wait until parents are asleep and sneak her into your place. Just don’t be loud | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys game besides bars and clubs?Can’t win em all | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Where do you guys game besides bars and clubs?But did you smash? | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Swallow this.I feel ya on that. I can definitely look back and see some opportunities I didn’t take advantage of or even try. Just gotta shoot my shot more often. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Swallow this.Not blaming the world. I just think I’ve had shitty luck lately. I frequently go to the gym, hike, concerts, comedy shows, movies, restaurants, you name it I do it. I’ve approached women in every situation. I just think I’m afraid to commit. I don’t believe in marriage so that’s a big turn off for women. My parents were divorced when I was 6 months old so I didn’t know any difference. I’m not religious at all either. I spent 4 years bartending and during that time became sort of a womanizer. At … | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Swallow this.I do everything that normal people do like go to the mall, restaurants, concerts, etc. If I see a girl that interests me I have no problem approaching her and asking for a number. What I don’t do is go out to a place specifically to try and meet women. Not my thing. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Swallow this.Where do you recommend oh so wise one? | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Swallow this.It’s hard to enjoy yourself sitting at a bar watching tv when you can’t even hear the sound. I don’t dance nor would I like to, not my thing. I do enjoy shooting pool and darts but again, a bar is not a place I like to hang out on weekends. | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Swallow this.What if you don’t drink? Are you suppose to go out and drink sodas? I’ve done it and it’s incredibly boring. Not many other options to meet people on a Friday Saturday night except the bar, especially by yourself | /r/seduction | 22/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Some strange things I've noticed about my approach anxietyI feel the same exact way OP. I’m a good looking, very in shape, tall and confident man. When I see a girl I find attractive I just freeze and can’t think how to approach. I use to bartend for 4 years and my confidence doing that was through the roof. Maybe it was the position of power? I would consistently get 3-4 phone numbers a night from 8s and above. I would talk to groups of 4+ women at a time with nothing but confidence, making them smile/laugh and just killin it. That was almost 2 years … | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 10:09 PM |
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