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ConversationKevintheDreamer/r/seduction24/02/22 05:34 PM
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ConversationKevintheDreamer/r/seduction07/03/22 10:26 PM
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But also, don’t TRY to be nonchalant. Be it. Don’t let it give off the douchebag who doesn’t care vibe. More like, “I’m focused on me, whether you stay or go, whether you pleasure me or not, I’m still gonna be happy & on point”… that’s nonchalance, when even if things don’t work out; they don’t phase you. It shows a lot of maturity and that will be the game changer for your inexperience. One thing is making a girl think “He’s only gonna keep trying to fuck. Eh, I’ll wait. Eh, idk yet. He’s prob …
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:26 AM
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PM if you need more advice
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:01 AM
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She knows you’re probably only going to be doing anything sexual with her (scarcity = more obvious vs abundance = mysterious) If she has any experience, your inexperience is very obvious. If she knows you’re inexperienced, then yeah she’s just chilling. My advice is stop focusing on getting anything back from her, but instead be nonchalant about it, stop caring about anything sexual. It’s like you’re so horny, to her it’s probably just funny, instead of a turn on. One other thing, something I le…
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:59 AM
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It’s never too late. You should ease this person into your intentions, but also be transparent and discuss your opinions. I’d recommend talking about relationships in general, then start talking about you and her & what you guys like/think you’re looking for. Make sure it’s a casual conversation, get deeper into it by asking philosophical questions about relationships, fwbs, etc… You could start off and say, “How do you think apps like Tinder and social media has changed the dynamics for people …
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:20 PM
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No, only talk to girls you actually like. Also, the key to being a true man is having the ability to be alone. Enjoying the quality time of being by yourself without feeling this deep depressing loneliness will allow yourself to be away from women and not to be constantly thinking about them. The key to being alone is to keep yourself occupied with your purpose, career, physique, therapy, meditation, whatever it is. Taking control of your life is key to avoiding girls from taking over yours. Als…
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:14 PM
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That's up to you. If we are being honest with ourselves, I think we both know at the end of the day it's probably not going to work considering you both are on different paths (if you are looking for the one)... Also, if you end up being FWB, you're gonna get hurt. There are only a few guys out there who know exactly how to lead and manage a casual relationship or a sexual FWB without breaking your heart. You've grown feelings for him but at the same time, I don't think you should just give it u…
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:55 PM
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Duhhhhhhhhhh, of course they love it, and of course it’s part of foreplay… but eating out every girl you meet just isn’t smart. And sometimes girls with yeast infections don’t smell bad, most of the time they do but not all the time. And on top of that, most girls do not know they have an infection lol, it’s only when they have symptoms such as more discharge or inflammation that they go get it checked out, which both are not guaranteed to show. The only thing im disagreeing with you about is ea…
/r/seduction16/03/22 01:51 PM
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You could literally get most of them.. Oral chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and herpes. Also, just because they can “easily” be cured doesn’t mean I should go out & lick every vagina I encounter…
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:40 AM
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Going down on every girl you’ve been with is not the best of choices my friend lol
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:34 PM
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Bro how old are you
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:31 PM
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You’re good 😂
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:17 PM
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sighs… I approached a 16 year old who looked older, never said I got her number. Once she told me her age, I backed off and told her have a good day. I was 19.
/r/seduction15/03/22 06:15 PM
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Facts, but it was good move to ask for the time & give the compliment. It sets up to talk to her more afterwards since you guys have already exchanged words before. Just be really chill about it, be a natural. And don’t get nervous about it either because the focus should be “I want to build or form a better social circle”, not “I want to fuck this girl”…
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:33 PM
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Yeah but make sure you’re super casual about it. I think the key here is to NOT look like you’re TRYING to be friends with them, you just became friends with them because you have good energy. Know what I mean?
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:25 PM
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Grind! lay on your back and tell her to get on top of you, make out and caress her, smack dat ass bro! i love doing this when a girl is only wearing her panties and it def turns up the sexual tension. lol no but seriously, eating a girl out is not that bad, i personally love doing it. But I ONLY do it when I know that the girl is ALL for me. 100% of my girls in my rotation are only having sex with me and I know that. Just don't mess with hoes, simple. If you're messing with girls who are promisc…
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:17 PM
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I'd say don't eat a girl out unless you're 100% sure she's not getting dicked down by other guy(s), and always use protection unless you're getting into something serious (then you can go raw but still use protection too). Also, foreplay is your way of getting a girl to be sexually crazed about you. Worst thing you could do is just try to put it in after 5 minutes of making out.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:59 PM
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this gave me a good laugh
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:57 PM
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My reply is gonna be long, just to let you know. So usually say on a first date, I’m talking to a girl in the car & she tells me she’s only looking for a serious relationship… I express my perspectives on dating & casual dating in a way that feels like a persuasive presentation of ideas in a comfortable and relaxed energy. Basically, I make my desires transparent but not pushy & weird, for example, the conversation would go like this: “When I first meet a person, I never have expectations or int…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:53 PM
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🧢
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:30 PM
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You can start now but don’t be surprised if it’s challenging to find girls your age, I’m 20 and I’ve approached girls who were 24 or 16, so it’s not gonna work everytime. My best advice is to wait until you’re 18 and in college, that’s gonna be your playground. Focus more on walking around and talking to strangers in general, focus on being able to ease into conversation with people without looking like a weirdo. Also, approaching at your school could be good but the problem is that word goes ar…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:28 PM
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If I’m being honest, using Snapchat as a form of communication with a girl is the worst way. Get her number and plan a date on iMessage, go out with her, then when you know she’s really attracted to you, you can communicate on Snap every now and then. Neck/collarbone pics are cool too or if you have a good physique, normal mirror pics are fine. Now, gauging interest is something that should be super simple. If a girl is texting back dry, not asking you questions in return, responding late and no…
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:22 PM
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From my experience, it really does not matter when the sex happens as long as the girl is very interested in you. I’m way more of a casual guy, and everytime a girl tells me “I only want a serious relationship”, I call B.S… It’s pretty easy to convince a woman why casual dating is much better & less risky & even if they want a relationship, they’ll settle for what they can get from you if you’ve built the attraction. What’s one more casual relationship? She’ll think, “Why not one more?” Now, if …
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:17 PM
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You’re being so systematically logical about it, that in the process you’re ruining your chances… Yes, sometimes it’s good to have a baseline foundation for your Tinder game and all that but the whole “Swipe as much as I can and wait for the ladies to respond first” is gonna lower your number of potential partners (which to me doesn’t make sense on ‘saving time’, how much time can you save by texting first? 30 seconds?)… Next, you try to get their contact (which should ONLY be their phone number…
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:27 AM
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Fair points, thanks!
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:51 AM
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A lot of girls tell me the opposite tho
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:45 AM
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also another thing, you can’t let people step all over you, not even your friends. Learning this lesson will be essential to becoming an adult.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:40 PM
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Just ignore them. It seems like you don’t want to kick them to the curb, maybe they’ve been friends w you for a long time. I think you should just ignore them or be straight up, I’m 20 and whenever I tell my friends I’m taking a break from girls to focus on myself, they HAVE to respect that. It’s the grind, it’s the hustle. They be like “that’s cool that’s cool”, and even then I’ve always been the one who’s pulled the most girls or has been seeing more girls. So they have the chance to try and b…
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:39 PM
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I’ve actually approached a few girls at my university gym and I can honestly say it feels so much easier because my heart is already pumping, I’m already feeling adrenaline so I literally can’t feel the difference between anxiety/nervousness (something I’ve battled to overcome throughout my journey) and getting a nice pump from my workout. I haven’t had any hookups from it, just some dates w/ low value girls but it’s fun anyway. I usually just say I was curious about her ethnicity and talk from …
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:44 AM
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Best thing is hearing you have a good rotation. Honestly, you could hit the DM but I'd be alittle specific about the timing. If you say, "Hey lets meet up next time I'm in ____" and then 2 weeks go by and you ask her, she might be like "Yeah I can't this week." So I'd say be alittle specific about the time frame of when you're going to be there so you can make the plan. Maybe do that over iMessage though? ​ Maybe hitting the DM by saying, "Hey, it was cool meeting you last night. I was thinking …
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:35 PM
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Hey man, key here is that you have to feel for it. So, one rule you can go by is making sure you're not moving your head. Don't look AWAY when you're talking to the person, but rather just move your eyes. So imagine she said something that was bizarre or funny, you could give that funny confused facial expression and look to somewhere else and then bring your eyes back to hers. Don't move your head, just your eyes. You can break it every now and then, but make sure the eye contact is slightly pr…
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:01 PM
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Okay my brother, I need you to read this carefully... ​ Rule #1: Never doubt yourself. "Finding it hard to believe she finds me physically attractive" is insecurity! Big NO NO! I find myself doing it too sometimes but you gotta realize this, she just spent two DATES with you, gave you her time and attention. Girls don't just do that with guys they are friends with and if they are, they ALWAYS let the guy know "Hey, this is NOT a date, okay?"... And who cares if she gets tons of swipes on her pro…
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:52 PM
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I've had ups and downs with this problem, and I've learned the more I know the girl (due to multiple dates, sex, hangouts, etc...), the more easier it is for me to have good conversations over text. Now, I don't usually text a lot in the beginning because I like to take initiative and get them to know me in person first... So, after you're over that hump, there's some things I like to do. ​ For example, if I feel like I have nothing to talk about during text and don't wanna be dry or cold, I mig…
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:30 PM
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The problem is that she's hiding it, & that could affect the communicational dynamics of our relationship.
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:13 PM
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I think it's more comfortable to be with the really insecure girls because your spot in their life is pretty secure vs. a overly cocky girl who can replace you at any moment. Gotta flip the script with those type of girls.
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:07 PM
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Facts. Girls post on Snap for guys (simps) to slide up and give compliments. I was with one of my girls yesterday and showed her a Snapchat story of a girl who posted a pic of herself back in highschool saying how ugly she looked with vomit emojis. I asked my girl, "Why tf did she post a photo she thought was ugly?" And my girl replied, "Because then people will slide up and say 'Nooo you look fine as hell' or 'You look cute what are you talking about'".... It's stupid.
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:10 PM
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Another thing you could do is when she says that, you can ask her to call you. Then on the phone, you can explain (not too deeply) that you just want to do it one-on-one because that's the best way to get to know somebody in your opinion. If she's interested, she'll agree. I've had to do this several times and it has worked.
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:03 PM
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Like Labryinth said, don't put too much effort into this. From where you're coming from, it sounds like it's coming from a place of scarcity. If you have other girls, you wouldn't have made this post. Continue to build up your rotation and focus on yourself, she'll notice (as you continue to be her friend). I think the best thing you could do is just let her know. Say the convo went like this: Her: Hey, are you free any time this week? You: Yeah, I'm free this Friday. I've been thinking about ch…
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:59 PM
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And if she doesn't want to give you her number, she's not that interested in you which = low interest = more stress = less confidence = wasting time = NOT GOOD FOR YOU
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:50 PM
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First mistake: Using Snapchat as a method of communication with a girl you are interested in. 2nd mistake: Continuing to snap her for a week without getting her number to text her on iMessage 3rd mistake: Responding after roof pics Angelo, the best way to get girls is by texting them and not using Snap. As I know you know this already, girls snap a bunch of guys. Shoot, she may have sent that close up breast pic to three guys at the same time. Like the other guy said, she uses the app for valida…
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:50 PM
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Just tell your mom. She'll go to the car and leave you behind, you'll talk to the girl and hit it off. Get the number, go to the car, and if your mom bugs you about it then just eat it lol. It's worth the number, right?
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:44 PM
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