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Noooo! Dear Lord there is bad advice everywhere on here. You are exemplifing desperation mindset. Its a real term. You should also know that this sub is very well past its prime, filled only wih AFCs these days. Join us over at /r/TheRedPill, but be prepared for a stern talking to.
/r/seduction08/08/15 06:52 PM
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EC - Emotional Connection S1 - Seduction 1, refers to the different phases of seduction laid out by Mystery in the Mystery Method Nah its not that, its just some of my own inner demons. Mom problems growing up.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:42 PM
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Oh, no Im not that guy. Theres a disclaimer at the very beginning of the post, for everyone who reads the post. Yes, in the past I have been in the situation to be the "other guy." I never phase shifted, so I never even went into EC. Instead I just let the attraction sit, and I hope its still there next time I see her and she is ready for a new partner. I didnt actively work over a period of time to keep the attraction there. In all cases, the attraction (or spark, as they call it) was still the…
/r/seduction28/07/15 08:05 AM
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Honestly I dont read too much into it. If she keeps bringing him up, either I have misstepped and she feels threatened, or she is in love--both of which signal my ejection from the situation. Rarely, she is unaware of how much she is speaking of him, and that means that something is wrong in the relationship and she feels a weight she wants to lift, but there are other tell-tale signs that will affirm that. If that is the case, well Ill just keep true to my Game and not press the issue. If she w…
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:09 AM
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Hey man that works for you. And I would add that focusing on successes, not matter how small, no matter how many failures they are complemented with, and then building off thise successes breeds more success. I believe its really the optimistic mindset. But yes, if she keeps bringing up her boyfriend, or just brings him up unprovoked, it is a clear IOD or possible LMR, depending on where you are in the pick up. I just believe that if the BF gets mentioned in passing, in a way that isnt a deliber…
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:32 PM
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I agree. What do I think about that girl? Or what do I think about her bringing up her boyfriend?
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:22 PM
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It happens man.
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:01 PM
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Oh My Gato just fuck off dude. Youre not contributing anything to this discussion.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:15 PM
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Cool, thanks.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:10 PM
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Congrats on your success!
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:00 PM
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Youre taking notes, right? Thats AMOGING.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:00 PM
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Different thoughts for differents tots. We all have different standards and we enjoy different women. My standards find myself around women who go from one SO to the next, the clubbing girl isnt part of my scene. Its important to stay away from a desperation mindset, regardless of the scene you choose to sarge in, so approaching multiple women is always a good thing. But our sarging techniques will vary based on where we run Game and who our standards dictate we run Game on. One of the beautiful…
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:59 PM
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It's pretty clear you are.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:51 PM
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Why are you even in this thread?
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:50 PM
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Lol ice cold... I was never a fan of the AMOGING technique either. I have routines to neutralize AMOGING when I see it.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:49 PM
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Good. The less said about him the better. Im not focused on HIM or THEM. Im focused on ME and US.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:48 PM
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Not appreciated from emotional women who dont understand the male perspective of seduction, such as yourself. I dont know why you chose to troll this thread, this entire sub is based off things youll never understand, so its only going to upset you.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:47 PM
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You are trying to really to them hoping they complain about their bf and pick up the pieces to fuck them No, Im not.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:45 PM
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Jesus Christ, NO! Did you read the post? 100% succes does NOT mean we fucked right afterwards. It means that it successfully disarms her BF guard and allows me to continue running my Game. ANY PUA KNOWS THAT BF DESTROYERS ONLY EXIST TO ACCOMPLISH THIS, NOT TO MAKE HER BREAK UP WITH HIM INSTANTLY. And if you ARE fucking girls with husbands/boyfriends, then they are just that; girls. You go have all the fun you want, but my standards discriminate against girls like that. Like I said in the post, I…
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:36 PM
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Yes! Works great as a false disqualifier when you find the situation getting a little sticky, or if the girl is a bit aggressive in assuming that everyone is trying to get with her. False disqualifiers are so, so important during the attraction phase.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:32 PM
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Look, I understand your hesitations, but I dont think youve received the points made in this post/thread, and Im starting to become skeptical that youve read the post at all. Like I said, its not destroying the BF, its destroying the GUARD she will have with every guy BECAUSE she has a BF. I also get the impression you have an inclination to be pessimistic and critical, and for that reason Im just gonna agree to disagree with you.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:29 PM
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Hahah nice. A little different approach than my theory uses, but effective nonetheless. I think this would classify more as AMOGING
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:25 PM
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Yes! I agree with you, but in different terms. I agree that allowing yourself to have oneitis over this girl (which you sound susceptible to) is a terrible idea! But theres no harm in bumping into her at the store, throwing down some Attraction game and then planting that seed for the future. When she mentions her boyfriend, just gloss over it and keep running your Game. Maybe you stay in light contact after the fact, being friendly to maintain the attraction you already built. Then when shes re…
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:23 PM
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Ahhhhh got it. I thought that was the universally accepted word for that acronym, haha
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:18 PM
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Agreed. Another redditor made the argument thats its too much work to be on that list.. but its not. So long as you dont have oneitis with this girl, then why not be on this girls 'jump ship' list and go about your life sarging other women? Theres plenty of value in that.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:17 PM
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Thank you!! I was starting to get a little frustrated with some other redditors' pessimism on here.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:16 PM
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Thats even a little too far for me. I try to refrain from giving any attention to him at all. Hes not my business. My Game is my business.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:15 PM
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Wait, what effort? Thats the point of this BF destroyer, it requires no effort. It WOULD be too much effort to sit and WAIT for her, but I dont do that. It is uncommon for me to fall victim to oneitis these days. Planting seeds never hurts.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:13 PM
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Works everytime
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:11 PM
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Trust me Why? Sounds like you run as soon as she mentions a SO. Which honestly sounds like a personal problem, because like I said in this post, HB8s and above are almost never fully single. This is common knowledge.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:10 PM
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Yeah wtf is that? Some redditors are just like that, I guess? He clearly didnt read the post.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:07 PM
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If you feel down, then experience the feeling and move on. Whats the goal here? How can /r/seduction be of service? My speculative side tells me you should read the sidebar and/or look into a subreddit like /r/CasualConversation
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:06 AM
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ITT: Its risky, either tread lightly or dont jump in. Taking the plunge will likely result in massive waves. Also, Mcjob is a word.
/r/seduction27/07/15 09:02 AM
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Wait, what? I didnt mean to imply best-friending the girl before you fuck her.
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:49 AM
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Spot on. We see eye to eye on this.
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:48 AM
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Oh no. Rereading this post I believe I explained it correctly, too The only way to successfully get past the guard a woman will have up if she has a BF is to take the neutral path. This line takes the neutral path every time. And your cynicism is just that; cynical. It feels like you are imagining it going down like this: HB: "Well I had a great weekend, my boyfriend and I went to the beach, we saw Nickelback, hes so great blah blah." Me: body language shifts, responds quickly, dully "Yeah, he s…
/r/seduction27/07/15 08:34 AM
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Too many to count, honestly. Ive used it exclusively since 2011, and it has yet to fail. IMO, the key to a BF destroyer is staying neutral, because its a shit test as soon as she brings him up. This one has achieved that result for me every time.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:32 AM
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Yes, I feel this is what peacocking has matured into. Not so much the neon pink shirts and black fingernails and fuzzy tophats of the early-millennium days
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:23 AM
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Running isnt a date, imo. I used to run with my girlfriend, and we didnt really talk much, just focused on the run. Its more of something you do when you already have the strong rapport established. When the comfort and attraction are at a constant, she wont need any guidance to not feel judged for being sweaty or smelly or not talking or anything like that. Id plan something else.
/r/seduction27/07/15 07:16 AM
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Best of luck to you. I encourage you to test the field frequently, allow yourself to fail, find your AFC tendencies, and post FRs (Field Reports) often so you can discuss them with fellow students of seduction.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:46 AM
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Im only saying this is something I have found to be true for me, from the Game I have ran over the years. In Mystery Method, Mystery refers to men as "creatures of logic," and women as "creatures of emotion." He goes on to briefly explain the existential implications of this. The latter of those statements really hit home with me, as all my life the women who surrounded me have had impeccable intuition. After I accepted their intuition to be a truth, I crafted my Game to play into that. The resu…
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:34 AM
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Average Frustrated Chump. Its a term that defines a guy who acts on anti-PUA (Pick Up Artist) impulses, amongst other things. Its a very general term. I'd suggest looking at the sidebar for things like this, and if you want to learn more about PUAs and AFCs, a simple Google search or visit to websites like www.seductionbase.com (website is a little out-dated) will help you better understand terms like that.
/r/seduction27/07/15 06:09 AM
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Well thank you
/r/seduction26/07/15 05:53 PM
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There ya go. Chin up
/r/seduction26/07/15 01:53 PM
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Flirting isnt (insert innuendo here) wink Flirting is speaking/doing something, anything with a partner (whether you are targeting them to be a friend or otherwise) for the sake of calibrating each others tendencies. It sounds like you are just starting out, and these questions are too vague to answer. Start with the sidebar link for inner game, them head to the FAQ's. Go out, practice, fall on your face, then come back with specific questions. Youre goofy and you have hobbies, youre in good sha…
/r/seduction26/07/15 09:20 AM
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Yeah, agreed. But being instantly redirected to the sidebar is discouraging, especially when you just had an AFC night. Talking to people helps. Maybe in the future we give a quick 2 cents, highlight a couple links in the sidebar OP should read, and then invite them to come back and discuss their AFC night with the new knowledge of what they read in the sidebar. I just feel for the guy. We've all been there. This community could do potentially do something great if we all resolved to put a littl…
/r/seduction26/07/15 09:08 AM
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This is important, OP. Disinterest by itself is not a DHV or an attraction-builder, it must be coupled with something. In the case of having one guy be try-hard and the other one being fully disinterested, it is a literal push-pull in front of the woman. The try-hard guy gets the attention, loses the attraction with his action, and her focus shifts to his friend that is doing his own thing. Suddenly she is thinking, "well guy A is trying to interest me, obviously Im interesting, what is guy B's …
/r/seduction26/07/15 08:49 AM
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Yeah man, sounds like things didnt go too well. From this story, she led the interaction between you two, leaving you primarily with responses and no initiations. If it were me, I wouldve told her I was a chimney after she made that remark about how smoking is gross. Sounds like you did a lot of qualifying yourself to her, when you should have been doing the opposite. If you want to take the corny approach, as I like to do sometimes, then an alternate line could have gone as such: "Do you smoke?…
/r/seduction26/07/15 08:33 AM
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No idea why this got upvoted so much. Literally just watched 33 minutes of vapid beating around the bush and no real content before I closed it. This video is shit.
/r/seduction14/07/15 05:28 AM
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Douchey article. It should be common sense to anyone aspiring to be a PUA that good body posture = good energy, and therefore a predisposition to positive energy. It should also be common sense that saying like "this guy just dumped a girl to fuck other girls, and still has sex with his ex. Ding ding ding!!! Wooo!!! Winner!!!" is about as AFC as you get. This article was not written by somebody who has inner game, who is in tune with the value he can give to others, who plays well with others be…
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:51 AM
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All animosity aside, you just dont get it. And if a guy runs solid Game on you, he will call you "buddy" or "sport" at the early stages of his pickup, and it will work.
/r/seduction10/05/15 05:14 AM
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Its not to convey romantic interest. Thats the point. These nickname arent sexy names, theyre just quick names used at that beginning of pickup that a guy would say to any other friend of his.
/r/seduction10/05/15 05:11 AM
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What was the lowest point of your life? How did you get out of it?
/r/seduction09/05/15 09:15 PM
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Push/Pull isnt something you consciously do--well, it is, but not entirely. Its a state of mind. Like a user explained previously in this thread, you assert your intentions and desires confidently, but not in a creepy way. For example, you make good eye contact, you fearlessly compliment her when you want to, all while giving off an impression that she still has to qualify herself to you. The thing that will set you apart from every other guy just trying to get some is that you will be engaging,…
/r/seduction09/05/15 08:26 PM
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Are... are you... are you suggesting MODERATION?!?! WHAAAAT?!!?!?!?!
/r/seduction21/08/14 10:14 AM
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I dont even think it falls under that. He clearly has his confidence levels up, which is stellar (atta boy OP), but this is actually pretty far from Game. Using a cheesy line to give a girl an IOI before shes done anything to deserve it--an IOI on looks nontheless (cringe)--is actually pretty AFC. The precedent is set for this date to be average. OP can change it, sure, but the PUA thing to do here would've been to disarm and disqualify (something like "Ill give you a pass this time since we're …
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:41 PM
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I dont see anything Game about this. You were kind and strong and number closed. Good job. But youre gonna inevitably shoot yourself in the foot if you keep overanalyzing interactions like these andseeing stuff that isnt there (e.g., "reversing power dynamics)
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:08 PM
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