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| -4 | Potential LTR says I'm not "tuned up with my emotions" and "should learn to be vulnerable"Think we are learning that your current girl likes a semi broken emotionally closed off partner. Can tell by her actions, submissive and sexually available. However what makes her attracted to you also makes her uncomfortable. She is going to try as hard as possible to “fix” you so she doesn’t have to be uncomfortable anymore. Once you’re fixed she can’t put you to work and only worry about duty sex once a month. Beta traits aren’t bad on their own, it’s simply building up comfort. Example being… | /r/askMRP | 25/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | How would you approach a joint bank?Well buying a house for someone else puts a huge burden on you and your wife finances. Don’t think it’s unreasonable for her to want to have some input on the matter. However this depends a lot on your income level and how much this will affect retirement. I have always been an advocate for joint accounts when married. It’s half hers anyways so might as well have viability on her spending. Make it’s easier to budget and plan and there are too many stories of wife’s running up debt and the husban… | /r/askMRP | 18/11/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Wife mad because I "destroying her dreams" and "her life"Think the only answer to a threat like this is to call her bluff. A bigger houses and nicer furniture will never make anyone happier for long. I can also assure you that her getting divorce only makes that dream much harder. Only option here is to stand your ground. If she wanted bigger and better right now she should have told you years ago so you could make a plan. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with jealousy of another woman?First I wouldn’t leave to go drinking, I would make it something productive like hitting the gym. Even something as simply as doing a project in a garage is enough. He can take the kids to go get ice cream or do something fun without her. This will all of course piss her off and come off as being a selfish asshole which is the point. There is nothing more powerful than your girl being pissed at you and you not caring in the least. She will try to throw everything at you to get an emotional respo… | /r/askMRP | 18/11/24 05:14 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with jealousy of another woman?If you set it as a known boundary that it’s one warning and after that you hanging it’s not too harsh. I would make the lag time to be longer than 30 min, for me I would be at least a couple hours if not the rest of the day. Got to make it sting a little more than just a minor inconvenience. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with jealousy of another woman?Just be mindful that this conversation doesn’t get emotional on your end. State the facts and broken record or fog like you’re talking about the news. She is feeding on the drama so be sure not to add to her fix. | /r/askMRP | 15/11/24 04:42 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with jealousy of another woman?Any idea why she is fixated on her? Is she Jealous about anyone else? Has she actually met this woman or is she just some imaginary threat she has only seen in pictures. When she is having these daily “jealously crisis” is she getting your full attention. Are you working hard to try to convince her she has nothing to worry about? Because if so then just stop positively reinforcing this behavior by giving her attention. My wife used to have manufactured crisis that I thought it was my job to fix.… | /r/askMRP | 14/11/24 09:47 PM |
| 27 | How to deal with jealousy of another woman?Not your problem it’s your fiancées. Can’t control how she feels and she will just need to get over it: Ever considered that you have sex every day because she is worried about you wanting to fuck your partners sister? | /r/askMRP | 14/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How to react to wives showing disrespect?Respect has to be earned. You’re not at the point where she cares what you think about her outfit. You need to figure out why. Don’t see a reason to cancel and ruin your night over her being a bit bratty. Just make a joke about how ugly the pants are and move on. She the one who has to walk around looking like shit not you. Your frame control is terrible and you’re willing to victim puke all over the place over even a minor slight. Why should she respect any man who is so easy to manipulate? | /r/askMRP | 14/11/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on making the life of ex-wife happy and easy?Leave her enough so the kids are taken care of and have a solid place to live. Desperate women end up with wolfs and that not great for your kids. Who gives a shit who she is fucking it’s none of your business? Who are you fucking? | /r/askMRP | 13/11/24 01:32 AM |
| 5 | How to react to wives showing disrespect?Sounds like she has great frame control. She definitely passed your shit tests on what to wear and who going to drive. Held strong and ended ups going out shopping by herself and enjoying her day. she got everything she wanted and had a pleasant day not having to deal with her needy husband. All while you ate a sandwich and stayed at home like a bitch. How about you worry about what you can control. Stop giving her complete control over how your day is going to go. Covert contract abound and com… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Wife says she puts out enoughPregnancy is when all the rules flip. during my nice guy phase our sex life improved while she was pregnant and first 6 months after. Guess she was craving someone who was a safe bet. If your sex life was good before then it should go back to normal a few months after the baby starts sleeping through the night. | /r/askMRP | 28/10/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | My Wife's Workaholism is Hurting Our RelationshipMaybe she has to stay for 3 months but that doesn’t mean she has to work more hours or care. Sure don’t burn bridges but no need kill your self to impress a boss that you’re leaving. They will also be offloading work as quickly as possible to adjust to the new normal. | /r/askMRP | 24/10/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | My Wife's Workaholism is Hurting Our RelationshipSound like she agrees with you but as she said that’s easier said than done. Find a lot of workers have a problem with telling their boss no or saying it’s not possible without additional staff. Boss will keep piling on work until they are told you can’t handle more and maintain standards. Best strategy for her is to have a conversation with her boss saying the current work life balance isn’t working. Ideally they didn’t realize she was working so much and they give her options to resolve the is… | /r/askMRP | 24/10/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What does the RP think about GF being in Pageantry?Very niche issue that most guys don’t ever have to deal with. That being said it’s has more to do with your boundaries and frame control. Key is how she reacts to finding out you don’t like her joining. Does she immediately offer to give it up or does she keeping doing it anyway. Fact you’re asking us tells me you have either not told her. Which begs the question why haven’t you said anything? (fear of her emotions, her leaving , and fear being labeled controlling). Second you told her and she i… | /r/askMRP | 24/10/24 11:09 AM |
| 5 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongGirl wants to fuck you it doesn’t matter what time she has to get up in the morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Wife proposed an open marriage. Would you say this is same as, or worse than, ILYBINILWY?Translation I want to cheat on you and not feel bad about it or have consequences. Still think I might be able to land a better guy but not really sure. Don’t want to give up my security until I find out. Personally if my wife wanted to open the marriage on her end I would have filed paper work the next day. That’s just me. I am all for STFU in most cases but I wouldn’t in this situation. Simple statement if you ask me to open our marriage ever again we’re done. Then be fully willing to actually… | /r/askMRP | 10/10/24 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy and Women who leave for LGBT partnersSometimes men cheat on 10s with a random 5 just because it’s different (Hugh grant). Case when dealing with generalities is there are always exceptions to any rule. There is no logical reason to monkey branch down but it happens. Really just sounds like you dodged a bullet because theirs no accounting for crazy. Wouldn’t get too hung up on hypergamy. Lesson here is the game is never over and always seek to improve your position. My wife might trade me in if I don’t have my shit together so I act… | /r/askMRP | 10/10/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How to make Alpha your default state?Way that work for me was learning how to fight. Nothing builds up your confidence more than knowing you can handle yourself. I would suggest a mixed martial arts school that offers a mix of stand up and ground training. Do about six months of stand up training then get a blue belt in bjj (2 years). Congrats you can now fight better than 99% of men in the country. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Please criticize my use of the tools and enforcing boundaries.I wouldnt have told her why you couldn’t see her that night. i have plans for the rest of the week how about xyz time next week. Leave it at that. More mystery here the better it’s actuality counter productive for you to tell her what you’re doing. What you’re doing is called deering (Defend, explain, excuse or rationalize). Weak behavior so say less. Last thing you want to do here is cave to bad behavior. Because she will do it again and again to get her way in the future. Her emotions aren’t y… | /r/askMRP | 09/10/24 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Is there a definitive guide to dread?Key is to not to state boundaries but simply enforce them every time. I think of it like how you train a dog. I don’t sit down and have a conversation about how they should act. I wait until they act out of pocket and instantly correct. Do it enough and remain consistent and you get good behaviors. You don’t need to yell or argue etc. Most women are very aware they are acting up. They are far more socially calibrated than men. She wants to be with a man who just naturally shuts that bs down imme… | /r/askMRP | 09/10/24 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Is there a definitive guide to dread?If she is so bad why are you still with her? Unless you’re married or have kids walking away is the best option here. It’s very important you figure out why you’re with someone who treats you poorly and instead of walking away you want to fix her. Don’t figure that out you will just find yourself here again with the next girl. Rian stone book is good but you need to work the basics first. Dread isn’t something that will work if you don’t have the basics down. | /r/askMRP | 09/10/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Just how poorly am I doing?Just in case he doesn’t follow the link Edit 1- Warning: Use of even mild Dread during pregnancy has been reported to be fatal to a marriage. Oddly enough wife being pregnant is when being a beta is actually to your advantage attraction wise. My wife was way more attracted to me while and just after pregnancy before I found red pill. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/24 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with boundaries without losing frameReally depends on the boundary and is she aware of this boundary. If it’s a covert boundary (one that hasn’t been expressed by you verbally) then it’s completely different situation. Just remember threating her is a sign of weakness, especially if you don’t follow through. Best to simply state your displeasure in | /r/askMRP | 28/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Update: A cry for help: I left (and then came back)Nothing wrong with having a shared account as any spouse is due half of all current assets anyway. Sure she could withdraw all the cash but that would look real bad in front of the judge. In the US leaving the house before the divorce is settled is a big no no unless there is physical abuse. If you planning on a divorce you should have some money put to the side as seed money but with the knowledge that wife is getting half of those funds. Last thing you want to do is hide money in a divorce as … | /r/askMRP | 28/08/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Nuclear shit tests or shitty comfort test?Memory of a gold fish it didn’t happen unless she brings it up. If she does make it a point to remind her how little her little tantrum affected you. Simply what are we talking about again? Normally when my wife acts bratty after piss her off I make it a point to be extra happy and charming with her and the kids. Take a page from women’s play Book “any emotional response from her Is a win”. If you get emotional in a conversation/argument she wins and loses attraction, if she gets emotional and y… | /r/askMRP | 28/08/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Just how poorly am I doing?Be very careful with dread while your wife is pregnant. Less is more here, by all means hit the gym, dress better, grooming etc. However I would leave direct dread for after she has the baby +6m. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Just how poorly am I doing?Would say initiated 50% of the time is a good sign. Deferring to your leadership and wanting to spend time with you are good as well. Might be as simple as reading Sex God Method and adding some spice to things up to fix the star fish sex. With caveat that she is pregnant sex might not improve much as it’s just uncomfortable so it’s hard to get immersion. Dominance isn’t exactly the best when pregnant either so might want to add this in slowly. Guess my question is why your here and what problem… | /r/askMRP | 28/08/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What if I'm not amused right now?Ever consider simply telling her stop doing it? AM or AA and STFU are great options. But if it always comes up then just tell her it’s annoying and you will no longer be responding to comments like that. 100% point to piss her off but just broken record and let her be pissed for a while. Least she won’t be asking you bait question for a few days. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife reading romance novels.Actually was a tv show, season one of Bridgeton. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | A cry for helpEither you leaving a whole bunch out of this story or your wife sounds a bit unhinged. Locking your spouse out of the house for wanting to take a 30min piano lesson once a week is pretty crazy. Guess my question really is when she says you’re never available does she have a point. Are you irresponsible? Because if you’re not handling things at home or spending time with your kids then that might be your problem. Ps you can watch videos on YouTube to learn how to play piano for free. I learned ho… | /r/askMRP | 16/08/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | A cry for helpAre you happy with your life and living on your terms? If yes then it’s a success. Not possible to really have specific standards for success as every man goals are different. | /r/askMRP | 16/08/24 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Screening for True Compatibility Beyond Lay CountWould you hang out with her if you weren’t fucking because you enjoy her company? If so then you have a girl worth dating. Problem for filtering girls by “lay count” is it’s dependent on them being honest. Women are acutely aware of the stigma and so have every incentive to lie. There is really no way to know her lay count for sure unless she is a virgin. If a girls is in your age range and is still a virgin that comes with risks of their own. Every neighborhood bike I knew in high school moved … | /r/askMRP | 09/07/24 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Wife reading romance novels.One time my wife watched a movie and got horny from the sex scene woke me up and fuck my brains out. At no point was I like hey don’t watch that movie again. She told me when she was waking me up. After I fucked her brains I add the movie to my list. Watch it on my own time, she basically told me exactly what turns her on. Why not learn from it rather than get insecure? Read the one she likes most and make it happen. | /r/askMRP | 26/06/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Does being sexually-submissive make MRP not work?You can do what ever the hell you want in the bed room. Fixing your fitness, covert contracts, and frame control will improve your relationship. Most men find that their women respond well to dominate men in the bed. Which is why it tough as the standard. However that doesn’t means it the only way to have sex or you won’t make progress. | /r/askMRP | 18/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Wife has love letters and photos hidden away of her exLifting for over 15 years wake up with zero pain (40 yrs old) Easiest way to avoid serious injury is to avoid lifting too heavy. Basically don’t try to squat or dead lift 500lb. Personally I see no need to go over 3 plates for any lift. Either do more reps or slow down or do a more difficult lift. Anything over 3 plates is ego lifting and it’s only a matter of time when you get hurt. I also like to take breaks from any particular exercise program. For a year or two I’ll lift 5x5, then start trai… | /r/askMRP | 03/06/24 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Wife has love letters and photos hidden away of her exDivorce rape is real for the 1% of men who have huge incomes and SAHM wives. Likely not the case in your situation. She will get half there is no changing that but you should already have known that from the start. Call a lawyer for a free consult in your area with a list of your assets, debt, and incomes. Then ask about what you could expects. You will likely be pleasantly surprised. Take what you would have to pay her and build out a budget. You will likely find your disposable income will lik… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Leg day turns into horny day?Obviously it’s because she can sense you’re not a pussy and skipping leg day. Girls don’t fuck guys who skip leg day. Something I notice when I squat heavy is all my other lifts improve that week. To the point where I now do legs early in the week and back and bi before the weekend. I know there are studies that show t levels increase when lifting very heavy. You’re likely also in a better mood after lifting heavy and nice and sweaty. Wouldn’t worry about the why so much as simply noting the beh… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/24 02:25 PM |
| 2 | How is post divorce life for you guys?Ironically the ideal situation for a man in a divorce is for her to find someone else. When a women is happy and wants to move on she will simply want the process to end ASAP. Far less likely for her to go for blood and drag things out if she is happy. In a divorce time is money so the longer it goes on the worse things get. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | How is post divorce life for you guys?I can see why you would say that but that doesn’t make me wrong. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How is post divorce life for you guys?Maybe not legally, but she will make it much more painful and expensive out of spite. Women don’t care if they go bankrupt because there will aways be someone to bail them out in the end. No problem morally with the guy cheating but if it’s already over anyway just leave. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | How is post divorce life for you guys?This something he wants to discuss with his lawyer first. Getting caught cheating can have a significant impact on a divorce. | /r/askMRP | 03/04/24 03:46 PM |
| 3 | A disasterclass in frameBased on your last post it implies that you have only been reading and doing the work for a few months. No one just reads the material and gets it all down right away. Takes time to leaned and they apply everything in your life. Then more time to see what’s working and what isn’t with your girl and make the required changes. I’ll take a wild guess and say you went Rambo the first couple months and overcorrected. Confused comfort tests with shit tests and she is lashing out. Other than the fact y… | /r/askMRP | 01/04/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | What did I do wrong?Read no more mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty again. Your way to conflict avoidant and care way too much about how your wife will react. Best way to get out of this is to put a couple wins on the board. winning doesn’t revolve around her feelings. It all about have you achieved your goal without getting emotional. She can get pissed and give you a week of silent treatment and it’s still a win for you. All you have to do is get what you want and control your emotions and not apologize.… | /r/askMRP | 27/03/24 03:49 PM |
| 5 | What did I do wrong?Your essentially failing shit tests because you’re scared of confrontation. You’re way to scared of her emotions and she can tell. Now she is forced to be the captain of the ship and she doesn’t want the responsibility. Think of it from her POV subconsciously. She depend on you for protection yet you are too scared to stand up to her. Viking raid the village she thinks you won’t do anything but run. Why wouldn’t you because your scared of a verbal argument with her. The test get worse over time … | /r/askMRP | 25/03/24 04:15 PM |
| 5 | What did I do wrong?“Interview prep and working on myself”. Does she have a reason to be angry by this respond? Is shit not getting done because your working on yourself? If you have things handled then who cares if she mad. Called wife multiple times to come down and she complains. Call her one time and if she doesn’t come then throw it out. If she complains about what you made, fog and tell her she is free to make what ever she wants. Your not angry because you just made breakfast for you and your kids. Her eatin… | /r/askMRP | 25/03/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What redpill book best represents the movement?“No more mr nice guy” and “when I say no I feel guilty” are the core books. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Way of The Superior Man QuestionIt’s like similar to fogging saying things like “I can see why you are so upset by xyz, I would be pissed off too” Really this is super easy just sit there and listen. Make eye contact and nod and if she is sad give her a hug or a kiss after she vents. If you not sure what to do just STFU and make eye contact so she knows you’re listening. Don’t offer suggestions unless she asks. It’s all how did that make you feel, what did you do next, I bet you felt xyz (angery, hurt, betrayed etc) | /r/askMRP | 19/03/24 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Sexually unsatisfiedIt’s a 3 year relationship, if you’re not happy already then just leave. Earlier the better because your just wasting your time. I wouldn’t put more then a couple month work trying to turn things around for GF. Male Lions don’t complain they have to initiating with females. Just how the game is in long term relationships. | /r/askMRP | 17/03/24 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Snapchat and marriageDon’t say a word unless you have enough evidence to make your decision. At that point it should be I found xyz and here are the divorce papers best of luck with your BF. Hit the gym and get yourself prepared as if she was cheating. Speak to a lawyer and follow their instructions. If you need to search for evidence there are good sources out there on what to look for to confirm. Use your anger for motivation to hit the gym and get yourself mentally stronger. Start running dread and live your life… | /r/askMRP | 15/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Snapchat and marriageYour right as she has zero incentive to tell you the truth. Unless you have very strong evidence and even then they will do what’s called drip feeding. Goes something like this, yes we text but we are just friend, sure we exchanged flirty messages but that it, we did exchange nudes but nothing physical, we did kiss but nothing else happens, we did oral but no sex, we had sex but I don’t love him. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat and marriageEasy fix is put a plan together. Good news is normally most lawyers give you the first meeting for free. Be prepared and have all the relevant information you will need (income, investments, real estate etc.) and have an end goal in mind. Ask him what to do if she is cheating and your best strategy assuming the worst. Also try to get an estimate of the cost of a split. I would recommend this for anyone as it take away a lot of the fear. You will be surprised that you will prob end up better off … | /r/askMRP | 15/03/24 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together.Well there is the fundamental issue, you’re trying to solve her problem for her. Where you need to get is her solving the problem on her owns because she knows she has too to keep you. How you do this is through dread and getting your shit together to the point where you don’t need her anymore. | /r/askMRP | 12/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together.Wow that is my story to a T. Where you able to turn it around? Dread was the only thing that seemed to work in my situation. | /r/askMRP | 12/03/24 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together.I would speak to a lawyer immediately to see what the situation looks like and what you should do if she serves you. Always good to have an idea what might happen so you can prepare. Then assume it’s going to happen so act accordingly. Basically act like you would if she was already gone. You take care of yourself, the kids and everything that needs to get done around the house. If she helps that great but you want to learn to be self sufficient. For me getting ride of Oneitis was tough. After y… | /r/askMRP | 12/03/24 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Reading sidebar and been unplugging. Need help finding this article/bookNothing wrong with wanting a women in your life. Just don’t make women your sole focus. You don’t need to change you identity. Simply become the best version of yourself and focus on what makes you happy. Red pill isn’t about shaming men. It’s about men becoming impervious to shaming from other people. As you no longer give a shit what people think about you. Live life on your own terms and owning the consequences of your choices. You need to hit the gym and get your reading done because your id… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/24 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Just spent a week in hospital and not close to done.I would focus on getting yourself healed up first before worrying too much about MRP. Take the down time to maybe do some reading but I wouldn’t focus on implementing anything right now. Stay strong and stay positive, Best of luck brother | /r/askMRP | 10/03/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Reading sidebar and been unplugging. Need help finding this article/bookGuys are always looking for the 7 easy steps to fix your marriage. | /r/askMRP | 09/03/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Reading sidebar and been unplugging. Need help finding this article/bookIf your just starting out why do you think you need to read this particular article? | /r/askMRP | 08/03/24 07:23 PM |
| 13 | Setting boundaries: Overt communication vs STFU & Doing?You will be tempted to hide the bad, a classic nice guy trait. Simple own your decision and tell her flat out what your doing. Ideally without letting yourself get emotional. Danger her is you risk deering (explaining why). You don’t owe her an explanation, you have a mission and are taken the actions you decided are necessary to achieve that goal. If she wants you to change course then she needs to sell that to you. Will she get angry? Maybe, but you’re not scared of her emotions are you? Attem… | /r/askMRP | 08/03/24 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”Key here is to understand you don’t have to get everything just right to have the relationships you want. You make a mistake just owns it and move forward. Even years into the journey I realized I fucked something up and had to change course. Master the basics and internalize to the point where you can trust you will just react properly without even having to think about it anymore. Don’t want to get decision paralysis and over think every interaction or worry about doing everything right. You’r… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 09:51 PM |
| 2 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”For every three give her one response. That way she is always working for your attention. Your instinct is correct that the need to respond to every message is a nice guy tendency. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”It depends do you find these text annoying and want them to stop? Or do you just want to be able to respond correctly? There is a difference on how to handle each situation. If you want them to stop then simply stop reinforcing the behavior. Your currency is your attention so simply don’t engage. She ask why say “you’re focusing on work and we can talk when I get home”. If it keeps up even after you pull attention then time to set a boundary (no calls or text while I am at work unless it’s an em… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 01:47 PM |
| 9 | How to Manage GFs “Complaints”Seems like your handling this well. Your responses are playful and redirect the complaints. Maybe just make sure to let the message sit for a while before responding. I typically don’t respond to all texts as I am pretty busy at work. Has the added effect of adding a little anxiety. I | /r/askMRP | 06/03/24 01:34 PM |
| 2 | To what extent do I need to avoid red pilling my woman?There is no reason to discuss the red pill with wife. Personally I don’t discuss it with anyone at all. Treat it like how you treat your sex life with previous partners. Although these experiences will be with you forever it is never a good idea to discuss them with your partner. There is only downside. You don’t need to spread the word to other men, as they will find it on their own when they’re ready. As for everything else it’s simple answer is to have frame. Live your life on your terms not … | /r/askMRP | 05/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Observation. AWALT.Same could be said about men going on Reddit and getting told to leave their wife because she got fat. There are shitty people out there. AWALT is a concept to get the idea your women women is special out of your head. Assume she is just as shitty as anyone else out there until she proves otherwise. Simple as that. My best friend mom stuck by his dad for 30 yrs while a diseases killed him slowly (Parkinsons). Took care of him until the day he died and never complained. Having seen it I can’t say… | /r/askMRP | 22/02/24 10:12 PM |
| 3 | LTRs lose interest overtime. Please adviseI’m only know because I did the same things. It’s a surprising common story these days. Read the side bar and that will get your headed in the right direction. NMMNG was the book that helped me the most. I listen to the auto book every year and still get something new each time. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/24 06:35 PM |
| 13 | LTRs lose interest overtime. Please adviseFundamentally this comes down to you having lack of frame. Frame is very easy when you have little to no emotional attachment to a women. She acts up you simply next her. Not so easy when you love the women. Now a lot will come down to what behaviors your exhibiting that are unappealing. Since you didn’t give details I’ll have to guess. You have an emotional attachment want to be nice to her. You become worried about her feeling being hurt or worse her getting angry with you. You want to be depe… | /r/askMRP | 15/02/24 05:25 PM |
| 3 | First LTR in a while.. lying.Body count doesn’t matter nearly as much is how she treats you. If she is invested and the sex is good then why worry about something that can’t be changed. Why I never recommend asking a girl her body count. She is going to lie either way so what’s the point? Do some research on the concept of Madonna/whore complex. Then just STFU and lift and stop it with the validation and needy behavior. Because your two months in of course it’s all blow jobs and wild sex. You keep this bs up and the honey m… | /r/askMRP | 08/02/24 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Man-Child looking for ways to stop taking shit tests from wife so personallyRealized it’s yours unattractive behavior that causing her to shit test you. Why get mad at her for acting according to her nature and her filling the frame you provided. Like a women getting butt hurt you don’t initiate sex after she’s gain 150lb. Naturally you’re not going to want to fuck a land whale. As for what to focus on first. Master the basics STFU and lift. While you’re STFU start identifying shit test and working on passing or at least not failing. Then covert contract (NMMNG) and avo… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/24 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on showing vulnerabilityFind this is similar to that dynamic of alpha and beta traits. You want a good balance but two much either way your effecting your goals. I would lean far to being less emotional around your wife. However there is a time and place to let out your frustration and let her get a peak inside. I normally vent post event. Hard project at work I’ll talk to her about how challenging it was at the time but I am glad I was able to get it done. Key is to avoid the wanting her to feel bad for you. You have … | /r/askMRP | 31/01/24 12:32 PM |
| 14 | Vagiphobia example in NMMNGHeard of married men do this and it’s called catch and release. You don’t want to actually cheat on your wife but want to test your game. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/24 12:48 AM |
| 4 | How far to push my jealous gf?She has to learn to deal with her jealousy on her own. I wouldn’t go with out of my way to make her jealous but also be sure not to reward bad behavior. With constant nagging I would use broken record. If it’s keep up simply withdraw attention. However there isn’t much you can do to stop her being jealous and keep the hot sex. She knows you have the ability to cheat, causes her anxiety and that naturally increase her sex drive to lock you down. Plus perfect is boring and there are much worse thi… | /r/askMRP | 23/01/24 05:48 PM |
| 6 | Any advice for how to read the sidebar with a degree of privacy?You’re missing the core of the reading NMMNG and WISNIFG are the most important books to read. Why they are listed as the first books anyone should read. Where did you get day bang. I can’t find a copy | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for how to read the sidebar with a degree of privacy?I have kindle app to read and audible to listen to books. I would always say it’s better to have a hard copy if you can. No more mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty have no stigma and I like to be able to reference them when I can. I actually gave WISNIFG to my wife to read as she tends to have trouble saying no to our children. If your concerns about someone seeing them just be sure you kindle or audible account isn’t linked to an account someone else has access too. As they would be ab… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Oddly enough it’s liberals who are always going on about how everything is political. Why we have cancel culture and all that other bs that going on these days. Bet you’re the first to call them snow flakes and bitch about it yet you push the very same idea. You’re right American wasn’t founded on freedom of choice. Living your life how you see fit with limited interference from the government. We all know those free thinking capitalists who are only looking out for their own pockets make life w… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Covert contract?There is a saying in this group that your wife is the most responsible teenager in your house. I have always found this to be true. Your wife is likely working towards your mutual benefit but not in the direction your want her to go. She sees rearing the child as her main goal. She has her own covert contract “if I take care of the kid so my husband can focus on work, I can let the house cleaning slip a little and he won’t mind. Besides he gets to sleep and get out of the house each day. This my… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Covert contract?Lot of this sounds like a leadership problem to me. She either doesn’t know the expectation or she does and just isn’t getting them done. Both are on you as a leader to resolve. First is easy simply tell her your standards and give her the tools needed to meet them. If she knows the standard and isn’t getting them done. It’s either she just can’t keep up with the work load and needs help. Or she is testing boundaries and needs to be checked. Lot that goes in to determining that is what are your … | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Covert contract?One of those situation where it depends on how your approach her staying home. If you discuss her staying home and lay out what you expect to be done. Then it isn’t a covert contract. If she stays home andsits around and does nothing all day. You stew about her not doing her part but she has no idea what you want her to do. Then it’s a covert contract. If your doing something expecting your wife to react a certain way in response but haven’t made your expectations clear it’s most likely a covert… | /r/askMRP | 19/01/24 03:20 PM |
| 2 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Naw the married red pill would tear him apart. But more than likely just instant ban him. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/24 09:43 PM |
| 8 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Red pill: metaphors go right over his head. Neo: No they don’t I would catch them, I have great reflexes. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/24 05:19 PM |
| 8 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?When you say you need religion I can only assume you mean yours. Red pill has zero to do with politics as you can have any believe system you want. Focus is making yourself happy and achieving your goals. That’s not limited to one party. There is no moralizing here so live however want. Red pill is about giving you the knowledge you need to achieve those goals in the real world. How you choose to apply that knowledge is up to you. I can only assume your on the spectrum based on your obsession wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/24 04:06 PM |
| 17 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Red pill is fundamentally waking up to the reality of the situation and not the story we have been told. Accomplishing this through the pursuit of knowledge. It fits perfectly into the teaching of this forum and easy way for new people understand that fundamental concept. No one is saying live your life based off of a movie. No one is saying the red pill teachings are based on matrix movie. It’s one scene from a popular movie to explain a concept so they used its to help market the idea. Not tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Telling how much I make to wife?If you don’t want to tell her that up to you. Either way just stick to your guns on the issue. Find it odd that she can’t figure out how to get that info on her own. Assuming you file taxes together she would have access to that information in the next couple months anyway. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What beginner routine did you start with and are you happy with the one you picked?I heard when people want to insult someone they project their own insecurity? Have you tried TRT it might help? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Issues with bitterness with my LTRCouple books that helped me was “models”, rian stones book “frame”, I would wait until after she has the baby for his dread book. As mentioned before dread is toxic to relationships when women is pregnant or with new born. Neither are side bar material but the are really good. I would also suggest stop doom scrolling red pill content on social media. Avoid fresh and fit, perl, what ever etc. Its all just rage bate holding women accountable bs that won’t help you. Then whenever you feel yourself … | /r/askMRP | 10/01/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What beginner routine did you start with and are you happy with the one you picked?Doesn’t matter how good your routine is if it’s done inconsistently. Shitty workout done consistently will out perform the most optimized program done inconsistently. Yes that means going to the gym even if you think you will have a shitty workout. Shitty workout is better then nothing. That being said. It depend on your goals. To add strength then classic 5x5 workout program will work great. If your going to dead lift get a trainer and make sure you have perfect form. If you want more size then… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Issues with bitterness with my LTRAlso I was making edits and adding some useful stuff when your responded “I would do some research on red pill while wife is pregnant. Rian stone has some good stuff on subject. Then when I start to feel the bitterness I remember she is just acting according to her nature. Everything she has been doing is a subconscious response to my weakness and validating behavior. That my wife wanted to fuck me but honestly didn’t know why her desire dried up. Then when I started fixing my shit it suddenly r… | /r/askMRP | 09/01/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Issues with bitterness with my LTRIts not pausing anything. Your always going to need to be congruent and pass shit/comfort tests. Still using this time to hit the gym and get through all the material. IO and frame won’t change and still need to be developed. Just going to take some slight adjustments to how you would normally define a shit test and keeping dread to a minimum. Example Wife asking you to get off the couch to grab her a glass of water is a shit test if she isn’t pregnant. I would tell her your legs aren’t broken. … | /r/askMRP | 09/01/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Issues with bitterness with my LTRRelationships will always require good amount of alpha and beta behavior. Mix will very per relationship but it’s much closer to 55/45. There is a misconception that beta traits are bad. Simple not true as most are actually good things. Like everything in life, too much of a good thing can throw you out of balance. Good beta traits Giving Her an O during sex High income Good father Able to fix things around the house Trustworthy Competent You don’t want to go Rambo, look this up in RP and make s… | /r/askMRP | 09/01/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Issues with bitterness with my LTR“Pregnancy related” Maybe you should put that at the beginning my man because it’s a huge factor. Women who normally crave alpha tendencies switch to wanting more comfort while pregnant. Makes sense since she is literally as vulnerable as she will ever be in her life. Now your prob have been beta most of your relationships (I was) and right as she becomes pregnant and needs the comfort your now adding in lots of alpha. You have epically shitty timing my friend. You need to be sure your passing c… | /r/askMRP | 09/01/24 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Selecting a gymNothing says you have to drop 2k on a rack system. Dicks sporting goods have sets that are relatively cheap that will work just fine ($300 to $600) or about 4 months of a gym membership. Get you started at least and you can sell it when you want to upgrade. Spend your money on a good bar and weights that will last a lone times. You can also do a lot with rings, kettle bell and dumbbells. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/24 04:19 PM |
| 14 | Alpha Widows and Dead Bedrooms is not entirely a choice for them.Women can’t help what their attracted to anymore then men can. I can say I want a girl with no ink and a low body count. But let’s not pretend I wouldn’t go home with a girl with both. What makes men attractive to women is a mix of conscious and unconscious considerations that women don’t even understand fully. Why when you ask them what they give a list of BS, but it’s s list they believe. For men it’s easy because what we want is easy to observe. While there is much more to it for women, genet… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/24 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Field Report: The InterviewI would give sex god method a read as well and will give you some great ideas. Remeber it’s about changing things up and it doesn’t always have to escalate. Idea is she has no idea what to expect because around 20% of the time you throw a curve ball. You can have normal loving sex, next time it’s scene above, the. another might be you talking didty to her during normal sex, another being loving and sweet while you have rough sex. One time it’s takes a while. The next you just bend her over and f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/12/23 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Can obligated compliance turn into genuine compliance?If you don’t want to get married don’t. Things don’t magically get better once there is a ring on her finger. Takes 2 to 5 years of hard work to build enough muscle. You want to look good quickly get your diet dialed in while your hitting the gym. As for weight lifting best advice I ever heard is a shitty workout done consistently is better then the best workout in the world done when inconsistently. I’m short go to the gym even when you think the workout will be shit. Shitty workout is better t… | /r/askMRP | 29/12/23 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Can obligated compliance turn into genuine compliance?Some question for you Are you in shape? Never seen an out of shape women with an in shape men. No being skinny isn’t in shape. My guess is you skinny fat at best. How much leadership do you provide? Rhetorical question because we know you doing a shit job here. Are you masculine? Guessing not so much because your post screams neediness. What are you doing to build attraction? Women are like water and fill the frame they are put into. What she is telling you is your frame is dog shit. She may com… | /r/askMRP | 29/12/23 07:02 PM |
| 11 | Wife behaviorSimple answer would to not hangs out with this friend around her anymore. Any conversation would be counter productive because she isn’t doing this consciously. You most likely give off obvious displays of attraction around a women you find beautiful. Just how we are and can’t be changed unless your every aware. She will simply blow it off as you being insecure (she is right by the way) so better off just moving on. Good news is you now know what she finds attractive in a man. Get to work becaus… | /r/askMRP | 20/12/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Neglectful Husband, and Wife Wants a DivorceStart with just not criticizing her and take some of shit off her plate. You have basically not been a leader and when she steps up reluctantly to take the lead you shit on her. Simple answer is stop doing that. Start taking things off her plate and be happy for any help she provides. It’s rare for me to actually feel bad for the wife but your a real piece of work. She thinks she is getting a high value man because you tricked her with PUA. Then your lazy and don’t lead, over critical of her act… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Neglectful Husband, and Wife Wants a DivorceYou have kids, would you want them to shack up with someone like you? My guess is no, so act accordingly. I’ll leave it to everyone else to point out all your bs and try to give you some action items. To make it short your the classic drunk captain. Look at the days of dread post and start doing everything on that list. Good news is if you can’t afford a lawyer then neither can she. Which mean you have time to prepare. You can get a free consult with a few lawyer to get an idea of what a split w… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Advice on dealing with depressive wife who seems to want me to manage her emotionsShort answer is you don’t deal with her problems that her job. She knows this and most women actually get irritated when men try to fix the problem they were venting about for an hour. Save yourself a lot of time by simply listening to her problems. Unless she actually asks for your advice during my provide any solutions, she doesn’t want them anyway. Then before she get into her brain dump simply tell her she has certain time limit as you need to get xyz done. Yes this will piss her off but tha… | /r/askMRP | 12/12/23 09:47 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?Why getting jealous as you know she is still fucking her husband? Probably right after you fuck her or maybe before. Any women that can’t be trusted is only worth a pump and dumb. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | How should I handle this situation where a hookup was canceled but then uncancelled?Lot of this changes when dealing with a married women. Canceling with her friend who may know her husband and going out anyway would be suspicious and could result in her getting caught. Since your not seeking something long term it’s doesn’t matter as much. You want to fuck her then just reschedule, less mind games needed with a women who is pigeon holed as a plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Separation Prep question and suggestions [request].Don’t take internet advice here speak to a lawyer. Follow their instruction over anyone hear That being said the reason most people say not to leave as it sets the precedent of the wife owning the home. Only exception for this would be in cases of violence. Also sets precedent of wife having custody of the children. Bear in mind even after you leave your still responsible for paying mortgage and other bills. Financially it make much more sense to get split while living together. So if you don’t … | /r/askMRP | 06/12/23 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Oneitis from an evolutionary perspectiveI would say we have our own form of hypergamy. Simply put hypergamy is driving to have the best possible partner for long term survival of their kids. Trading in for a better partner if one becomes available. For men that doesn’t change as it’s consistently young and hot. With their being little to no advantage switching that strategy. As young hot women have the best possible chance of surviving birth etc. If a man can get a hotter younger girl most will. For women that changes over time, young… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Thought I had frame, maybe I dontFirst things first start hitting the gym now. Read all of the side bar and STFU until your done with most of them. Then after a few month read them all again. You missed things on the first read trust me. You have a lot of work to do my friend. While your studying you need to decide if you want to work or not. If you want to work then put your kids in daycare full time and work. She doesn’t like that then she can cut her hours. If you don’t want to work then sell the company and stay home. If yo… | /r/askMRP | 04/12/23 10:37 PM |
| 30 | Oneitis from an evolutionary perspectiveBecause having a father who falls in loves and stays with the mother of his kids increases the chances of his kids surviving. You may end up with less children but each child has a better chance of survival. Falling in love and getting oneitis with a women is a survival instinct. Beneficial back in the day but not so much now in modern dating. Guys who fell in love and stuck around had a better chances of continuing their blood line. As they were there to protect their children from lions, bears… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 07:50 PM |
| 3 | How to mrp with chronic painIdea is to show up at the gym consistently and do the best job possible can. Why there is no one prescribed workout for everyone on the red pill. I normally wouldn’t suggest this but in your case I would hire a personal trainer. Preferably someone who knows how to deal with pain in work outs. Or possible go to your doc and see if you can get physically therapy to help. Not sure what kind of pain we are talking (joint, muscle, etc) Lyme disease causes. Maybe using machines instead of free weights… | /r/askMRP | 04/12/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What is love after swallowing TRP?I always have an exit plan and I am 100% willing to walk away in certain situations. I spoke to a lawyer in my area so I know what our divorce would look like even with no plans to split. Just so I always know what to expect. I don’t expect this to ever change for me. Doesn’t mean I don’t love my wife, just that I am pragmatic. After learning about women’s natures I was angry like most men are at first. Eventually I learned not to blame her for her nature, it’s a waste of time. Why put any energ… | /r/askMRP | 29/11/23 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Fogged but that escalated into "Stop placating me." then to "Apologize."Would help to have more details on the conversation and how it took place. But a couple things you can do in most situations like this. She is going to be angry either way so might as well have fun with the situation. Key is not getting emotional, you angry is a win for her so don’t let get to you. Conversation is over and STFU. “I am done talking about this”. Grab your gym bag get in a workout or anything else that get you out of the house. Then when you come home act like nothing happened (gol… | /r/askMRP | 28/11/23 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Sex frequency situationIt’s a good sign though that she can turn it on when your alway. Tells me it’s not a lack of desire or relationship related. I know for my wife a big issue was that time when the kids would randomly come down at night when they were “scared”. She was horrified at the thought of them coming down and catching us. Once I put a stop to that behavior it resolved after a couple weeks. Could be something that simple that’s killing immersion. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/23 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Sex frequency situationSounds like she is getting the fucking out of her system while away from home. Like a camel filling up on water before a long trip through the desert. She figuring if she front loads the sex going a week or two isn’t a problem. Either go on more work trip or figure out a way so she can relax like your away from home. Kids to bed earlier, fuck after the kids are on the bus in the morning before work. Work from home and fuck on your lunch break while kids are at daycare. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/23 01:40 AM |
| 12 | Sex frequency situationI am high value so I should get my needs met and live a problem free life. Wild guess and say she hasn’t verbally agreed to fuck you every day? Are you expecting to be fucked every day and getting frustrated she doesn’t hold up her end of the bargain? A bargain she doesn’t know exists and has no idea of your expectations. That my friend is a covert contract. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Asset ProtectionThen the simple answer is if you get married do so with a women who is a high earner. Her bringing just as many assets to the table zero out your risk. High earner then to bunch up so it shouldn’t be hard to find a women in your field. If you live in a country with those rules there has to be a legal way to protect assets. The rich people would make sure of that to protect their legacies. Consult a high end attorney in your area with a specialty in wealth management. I would just focus on findin… | /r/askMRP | 08/11/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Asset ProtectionCourt finding out your hiding money is a great way to lose all your money real fast. Trust me they know all the tricks and they will catch you. Consult a lawyer and follow their instructions on best way to protect your assets in you country/state. Not some random people online. If they catch you hiding money your prenuptial agreement will get thrown out. Pre martial assets aren’t part of a divorce it’s only everything earned after marriage that is split. Prenups are enforceable and if you actual… | /r/askMRP | 08/11/23 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill therapyThere is a great therapist that can be found at your local gym. If you need a specialist for anger issues try boxing. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/23 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Lack of sex after first kid?Best to see it as an opportunity to identify covert contracts, maintain frame. I will say we had some of our best sex once we got past the late nights and teething. Just keep thing positive and don’t take it personally and it passes. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | First, Buy A Black Fedora. Any reports?It’s not new to me, also never said anything about peacocking replacing a good gym routine. Money, muscles and game and this would fall under game. It’s important to be well balanced, don’t worry you will get there. | /r/askMRP | 08/11/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Walking out and leaving for the nightYour first mistake is getting into an argument, it’s a waste of time. Use the quite time to read the side bar and hit the gym. You have a lot to learn. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | First, Buy A Black Fedora. Any reports?Not mutually exclusive. It’s called peacocking look it up. Wearing something unusual to grab attention and conversation piece. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Haven't talked in 5 daysNormal to get into a fight and get the silent treatment here or there. Normally I would just go out of my way to enjoy the silence. I have always like a bit of quiet time. For me the deal breaker would be her treatment of your kids. Bearing in mind this is what she does in front of you, her best behavior. I would be very concerned about what is happening when your not there. This is a red line for me and her taking out her anger at you on your kids is a very bad sign. You either need to have a s… | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Lack of sex after first kid?For us it took about two years for things to get back to normal. Breast feeding and lack of sleep take a toll. No excuse to let yourself slip or become needy and bitter. If you actually have your shit together then it should be temporary and resolve over time. Took a couple years for things to get back to normal. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 08:32 PM |
| 0 | First, Buy A Black Fedora. Any reports?That’s the whole point is other people will think it a stupid and will attract ridicule. Someone who is willing to face that down and hold frame will come off as attractive. Ever see what Prince wore on stage. He looked like a gay pirate half the time but probably had more threesomes then we had sex in our lives. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I STFU or address disrespect?You really think chad picked your wife up for a baby shower. 99% sure it was moms car pooling so relax. This accusation makes you sound unstable so I would keep it to yourself unless you actually have evidence. | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | First, Buy A Black Fedora. Any reports?Difference is their is no risk in wearing a Rolex. I could go to a bar in the city and see 3 or 4 Rolex but not see one fedora. Whole point is being willing to risk catching shit and not caring | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Discord or chat? Is there any recommended YouTube channels?Found Rian stone channel to be very helpful. Has some good videos on the side bar and his sat morning shows are good. Great way to gets some of the basics down and get refreshers on the books you already read. Also adds context and provides some additional context and examples that are very helpful. In the youtube sat show when it goes live you can ask questions in the chat. If you join Patreon you can post questions or your field report and he will read it on air and give you direct feedback (T… | /r/askMRP | 07/11/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Restarting life Redill. Balancing kinoMy final bit of advice is avoid the “I’ll show her, I won’t initiate sex for xyz time so she knows how it feels”. This is something you have to avoided at all costs. This will only make your anger worse and the hit to her self esteem just makes her want sex even less. Took me better part of a year to fix the damage. | /r/askMRP | 06/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Restarting life Redill. Balancing kinoI would also look up Rian stone on YouTube and watch his side bar series on NMMNG. He also has some great material on getting ride of your anger. I still have a lot of anger and bitterness pop up and he gives you some good ideas on how to channel it effectively. Book of pook and models (not on side bar) I found a great ways to deal with anger and neediness. Trust me she knows when you want sex. I called it shaping the battle field, she knows it’s coming so she starts dropping hints and prepping … | /r/askMRP | 04/11/23 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Restarting life Redill. Balancing kinoYes to all, so pick one and focus on that for a month. Like saying I want to be a body builder which muscle group should I focus on first. Answer is which ever one is your weakest point. Just like lifting you don’t need to be fancy at first just focus on the basics. Covert contracts, frame, IO, shit test, comfort tests. Covert contract and shit test while you re read NMMNG. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Restarting life Redill. Balancing kinoHow long have you been working? Rule of thumb it takes at least of month of solid work for every year of marriage. Starting from the time you finished reading and property apply the knowledge. Not unusual for things to get worse before they start to improve. It took almost a year for things to start happening for me. I would suggest rereading NMMNG as it seems you still dealing with cover contracts. Lot of care taking going and your in the victim triangle. Also your post screams neediness. “Wife… | /r/askMRP | 04/11/23 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Wife wants to go out with no explanationOnly time I would ever take issue with my wife going out is if it’s a girls night out or girls weekend. Other than that I don’t feel the need to escort my wife everywhere. | /r/askMRP | 03/11/23 12:34 PM |
| 3 | When is too late to punish bad behavior and disrespect?Even if you fucked up it’s nothing that can’t be fixed. No one gets this right the first time. Really you STFU so avoided any major mistakes. Not a win but you didn’t lose either. Gold fish is you bring home the point that her outbursts have zero effect on you. That her acting out has do little effect on you you don’t even remember. If you can’t manage to goldfish and get over her acting out then the only option is to own it. She knows your pissed and you know your pissed so the worst play is wh… | /r/askMRP | 03/11/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Victim Puke- Infertility, SeparatingLet see start a new life or stay with the girl who is never going to get over her infertility. Most likely drive you thousands of dollars into debt for IVF and still maybe never have children. Your lucky she made the choice for you so it’s easy. Talk to a lawyer and get the divorce finalized and get out there. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | When is too late to punish bad behavior and disrespect?Basically what you saying is you trained her to act poorly to get attention. She wants some attention all she has to do is be disrespectfully until your pissed and she gets to have a puppy on her lap the rest of the night apologizing. Going forward when she is acting right give her some positive feedback (attention, fun etc). Bad behavior should be met with her sitting by herself because you out doing something productive. Question have you ever been disrespectful to her? If not that your homewo… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/23 07:24 PM |
| 3 | When is too late to punish bad behavior and disrespect?It’s like training a dog you want to correct bad behavior immediately. First you need to handle your family drama. That shit getting back to her is on you. Would be like you finding out she was telling her friend you have a small dick or a trash in bed. Family talking about how she isn’t keeping her husband happy is that bad to her. Tell her you will take care of it and make sure it’s handled. When she started being disrespectful and you left the room right away. Actually a good move. Lot of peo… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/23 07:14 PM |
| 15 | Wife wants to go out with no explanationSound like a power play on her part to see how you respond. Most likely due to your sudden changes in attitude and new focus on fitness. Doubtful it’s anything nefarious as she wouldn’t be that obvious. Wife going behind your back would have a better reason not just out. Either way there are a few way to play this but it’s important to not let this you emotional. Say fine and act like it’s no big deal and she goes. Safest rout and comes off as secure. No worry about having to hold frame or STFU.… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Is Sex the End Game?“Is it possible to give your wife the best sex in her life and still be a needy bitch” Simple answer is yes. There are no rule that says that being beta means you’re bad in bed. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | "Solve the fight" - learning from a mistakeBroken record works great here. Wasn’t my intention to hurt your feeling but I didn’t nothing wrong so I will not apologize. Then just repeat I did nothing wrong, I am not going to apologize. Her not accepting your answer is her problem and we can talk about this later in person. Don’t you worry this will definitely come up again in the future. I have gotten the it’s not what you said but how you said it speech and she wants an apology. Usually when she knows she is wrong but needs deflect. End … | /r/askMRP | 30/10/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Behavioral Changes Before Main EventI would think of it like an economic bubble. If you think you know it’s coming it isn’t and when everything appears to be going great it happens. It could be as simple as her catching a women hotter and younger than her checking you out but you didn’t even notice. | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Talk to me nice or don't talk at all.My favorite part is when you point out her scared face. Great job you managed to scare a girl, pussy. | /r/askMRP | 31/08/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it as simple as choosing power?Sounds like you need to do less writing and more time at the gym. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/23 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants to have a heart to heart ritual. Advice?Why you mad at her she was just acting within her nature? There is a saying “Women act only as shitty as you let them” You should only be angry at yourself because it was you how should have handled things from beginning. Can’t change the past so just use this anger at the gym and move forward. Keep reading with a major focus on NMMNG and WISNIFG. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants to have a heart to heart ritual. Advice?I would tell her I have mouth to penis ritual you want to try. Might take a couple weeks of practice to get right. I would tell her I don’t need a ritual to deal with any issues in our relationship. If she has a problem she is welcome to share them and blow some candles out if it makes you feel better. If I had something to talk about I would have already brought it up so it’s going to be pretty one sided. From your post I would say it’s a good sign your girl is working on improving thing and it… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Wife is sexual but doesn’t actually want sex?Another thing I would start following 3 for 1 rule on this none sexual intimacy. For every three things she does for you (scratch head, back rub etc) you give her one back. This will set the frame is she is putting in more work then you. As for your anger look at it this way. She is actually validating you and it’s a good sign she find you attractive. | /r/askMRP | 30/08/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Wife is sexual but doesn’t actually want sex?I would suggest your separate the none sexual intimacy and sex completely. Don’t assume if your getting none sexual intimacy it’s a green light or she owes you for getting you going (covert contract). The only reason your irritated by this behavior is she isn’t holding her end of the covert contract. Then you start going through the victim triangle mentioned in NMMNG. Any of the below sound familiar? Activity gives hope of getting something in return (covert contract) 2.when not given payment ge… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/23 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Wife is sexual but doesn’t actually want sex?“You know if you’re going to act like this at least you can do is get me off” This sounds weak a shit and comes off needy. Unless this was more agree and amplify and said I a joking manor. All you have done her is negatively reinforced none sexual intimacy. Rian stone has a couple videos on this subject that are pretty good. Thinks like back rubs, showing together without the expectation of sex is good. Make actual initiations easier and is actual foreplay and gets her motor going. I would sugge… | /r/askMRP | 25/08/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Covert ContractsThe real problem with covert contracts is the bitterness you feel when they don’t hold up their end of the contract. Key is doing things to improve yourself while dropping the bitterness because you expect nothing but you getting closer to your goal I can lift weights and lose weight expecting my wife to fuck me again (validation). It’s good that I am getting in shape but if I get mad when she won’t sleep with me and I quite it’s counter productive. She see you get in shape then tests the new yo… | /r/askMRP | 25/08/23 01:19 AM |
| 17 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.Why did she tell you this? From a women POV she has to know this will harm your relationship. It’s nothing she can change so I don’t see a point in telling you. Just seems like we’re missing some details on why this is all this sudden coming out Then ask yourself if you’re able to get over the fact this happened. Only you can answer this question and you should take your time in coming up with the answer. If not then it best to plan your exit and start working on getting your shit together. If y… | /r/askMRP | 13/08/23 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past.Extreme jealousy is normally projection. No women is more jealous then one who is cheating or has cheated on a partner. | /r/askMRP | 13/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 15 | Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexuallyMarried 18 years means at least 18 month of consistent work before she starts to believe your changes are real. First thing is doesn’t matter what she says. This comment is based on her emotions at that point in time only. She is protecting herself because she doesn’t want to get her hopes up just for your to stop fucking her again. She will need to know these changes are real before that will change. Honestly you sound like you were a fucking loser for 18 year and now you expect her to just let… | /r/askMRP | 12/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Normal to no longer be attracted to your spouse?Went though the same thing when I realized I was doing shit ton of work just have sex with my lazy overweight 40yr women. I made the mistake of going full retard and throwing everything out the window and making things way worse. Took me a while to realize I had a major covert contract (doing the work for sex) and not improving my life for myself. Then took a year of hard work to repair the damage. My advice would be to keep doing the work and wait this out. Maybe re read NMMNG and a few of the … | /r/askMRP | 12/08/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with really tough timesStay on your mission. From your post doesn’t sound like she is complaining. If that’s the case when work is done set some time to decompress together. When my wife is stepping up to support my mission I make it a point to reward this behavior. Lot of guy often get so focused on crushing shitty behavior they sometimes forget give rewards to their girl for acting right. | /r/askMRP | 08/08/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How does MRP compare to dating in an LTR?You could and what will happen is she will perform just good enough to keep you around. At best it works for a short period of time. Best thing to do is lift and read the side bar. Then as your read though the material start improving. Sure you could just walk always but you will just run into the same thing with the next girl. Plenty of guys go Rambo and divorce their wife’s. Only to immediately get with a new girl who is “different”. Then after 6 months they are back here saying she is doing t… | /r/askMRP | 20/07/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice before this eveningAnytime my wife rain checks me, I just assume it’s like any other initiation and I could get rejected again. For some reason my wife loved to rain check and then push it out again out of the blue. It almost seems like she was trying to see if I still have IO even if she “owes” me one. If she does then just smile say something funny and go to your class. Memory of a gol fish and just assume any rain check promise won’t be kept. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Feelings vs factsWISNIFG is a great book on dealing with situations. I’m most emotional responses I default to fogging or broken record. Without more details on how the conversations go it’s hard to provide a good answer to your question. | /r/askMRP | 14/07/23 03:52 AM |
| 8 | Leaving the houseDoesn’t sound like a main event (her breaking down and plainly asking what she can do to keep you while she sobs uncontrollably). Sounds like she called you a bitch and you might be getting a divorce. Call a lawyer and do a free consult and do exactly what they tell you. If you have time call a few of the best lawyers in your area because once they talk to you she can’t use them (conflict of interest). Then I would be reading the side bar and lifting. | /r/askMRP | 14/07/23 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Basic Question about covert contractsI agree that taking action itself isn’t a covert contact. What makes it a covert contract is if you expect something in return from your wife. Why we drill in new guys head your doing this for yourself and not to get a pat on your head. Nope lifting and dieting are great. Only is a problem if it’s done with the expectation your wife will respond a certain way. Really all comes down to what is why your taking the action. If it’s for yourself (not CC) if your doing it so your wife will fuck you (C… | /r/askMRP | 14/07/23 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Basic Question about covert contractsJust because it works doesn’t mean it isn’t a CC. They aren’t mutually exclusive, and was the whole point of my post. OP asked why does Rian recommend pulling attention to get a positive response from his wife when that is a CC. My point is that it is a CC by definition, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work. The idea that just because it’s a CC means it’s a failed strategy is incorrect. If it’s a successful it’s utilized (rule zero) even if it’s a CC. OP question is actually very observant and … | /r/askMRP | 12/07/23 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Basic Question about covert contractsNo, nothing I have written has insinuated otherwise. | /r/askMRP | 12/07/23 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Basic Question about covert contractsI agree it works and she doesn’t have to agree to the term which is why “not” is in the definition. The fact your doing something she doesn’t know about with the intention of changing her behavior is a covert contract. Take the following two statements as examples. -If I do dishes and clean she will give me sex -If I am more alpha and hold frame she will give me sex Both are CC, only difference between the two statement above is the being alpha and having frame actually works while choir play is… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Basic Question about covert contractsIf I work hard to become attractive, I will get my need met and live a problem free life. A covert contract is an agreement that you believe exists, even if you have not actually communicated it to your partner, and gotten their consent. If you are making improvements to your life for the soul purpose of getting a certain response from your wife and don’t make the terms known to her it’s by definition a covert contract. To clarify I don’t believe it’s a bad covert contract as it’s gets you start… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Basic Question about covert contractsIts a covert contract in the sense your expecting a change in behavior while not expressly telling her. Difference is your not doing something for her benefit and expecting something in return so it’s not a nice guy CC. Following read pilled teachings with the goals of getting sex from your wife is technically a covert contract. It all comes down to why you making these changes in your life. Do you measure success in your self improvement by how many times you get laid a month? I always consider… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Practical Boundary Enforcement HelpOr maybe she is only acting as shitty as you let her and your post hoc justifying why. | /r/askMRP | 10/07/23 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Practical Boundary Enforcement HelpWomen act only as shitty as you let them. Broken record and fogging are your friend here. With little or no emotional response possible as she is fishing for an anger response. Her anxiety is pushing her to test you to see if your strong enough to tell her to fuck off. Nothing personal and is why she seems to only do it at the worst possible moments. She is picking up on your stress and that is triggering her test. You don’t load dishwasher correctly: Her: you did xyz wrong, load it this way You… | /r/askMRP | 10/07/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Bad feeling my gf cheated at a concert- am I being insecure or are my doubts valid?If you going to be on the phone with her and face timing the whole time why not just go to the concert? Better question is you didn’t have anything better to do then sit on the phone and baby sit your girl? Always found this need to talk on the phone and face time when GF is out to come off weak. Plus is doesn’t matter if she is going to cheat all the monitoring in the world won’t help. Better to just be the man a women would be crazy to cheat on because you can’t be replaced. The whole I don’t … | /r/askMRP | 10/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Your wife gets first crack at your libidoHow long have you been working through the material? Have you read though the side bar multiple times yet? Our response are dependent on how long you been doing the work. First few months- good news you got the hardest and longest lead time work done (income and fitness). Now it’s just about reading and changing your mindset. Read though side bar once then do it again about 6 months later. While you read make sure your style is on point and keep hitting the gym. Then it’s a matter of learn and a… | /r/askMRP | 10/07/23 07:06 PM |
| 3 | How does MRP compare to dating in an LTR?Actions not words. It’s almost always a bad idea tell a girl you want more sex. Fundamental principle here is you can’t negotiate desire. At best she will give you star fish sex for a few months. I am going to take a wild guess that you haven’t read the side bar. Since this a basic principle you would have picked up on in the reading. Before you start trying to implement dread it may be a good idea to get a handle on the basics first. | /r/askMRP | 07/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How did I handle this night (our anniversary) and where to go from here?She pre staging rejections because she is picking up on your covert contract. Although you say you were not butt hurt your actions say other wise. Confirming her suspicions that you were only being pleasant to try to get laid and once you didn’t get what you wanted. If she asks you about her hair tell her what you really think about it. Your too early on to be trying to punish bad behavior. Pulling affection and attention from someone who want neither won’t work. You will just come off as but hu… | /r/askMRP | 06/07/23 08:54 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to my wife's genuine anger at my sexual advances?Not sure your level of autism so it might be a good idea to reflect on how you’re initiating. There is a line between playfully initiating and coming on way too strong. Lot of guys have a tendency to overcorrect and go way to alpha too quickly without building up to it over time. Going from meekly asking pretty please to throwing her over your shoulder and carrying her into your room for sex the next month is too drastic of a change. Mainly because it’s no congruent with how she currently percei… | /r/askMRP | 05/07/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Caught her in a lieIf you can’t trust her enough to pay you back $100 do you really want to keep fucking her. I would simply ghost her with no allusions of her coming crawling back begging for your forgiveness. No covert contract or holding her accountable as she shouldn’t matter enough to you to give her a second thought. Block her on everything and delete her number from your phone and be done with it. Be happy it only cost you a $100 and just replace her with someone better. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Bodycount ObsessionThere is a difference between finding a great girl and having a solid relationship. And finding a girl who you think is your soul mate and you will do anything to keep her no mater how she treats you (oneitis). From your post it doesn’t sound like oneitis to me. If she is meeting your needs and you don’t feel the need to spin plates then don’t. Key is having a line that if she crosses you’re willing to walk as you mentioned. If it’s not broken don’t fix it. I would just take note of your relatio… | /r/askMRP | 28/06/23 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Bodycount ObsessionThere is a reason one of the iron rules is never reveal your body count or talk about your sexual history. My guess is this is coming from her insecurities which isn’t a bad thing. This anxiety actually increase her desire to please you as she is competing with her imagination. Sounds like you kind of hit the jack pot with this one so just keep deflecting. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Advice/Tips on safeguarding RP LitRead the books on a kindle app or have them mailed to your office. Good news the most important books NMMNG and WISNIFG don’t need to be hidden. | /r/askMRP | 24/06/23 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Medium is the Message or Good ExcuseThink everyone goes through that at some point. Check out Rian stone material as he has a way of explaining the material in a way that reduced my anger phase and paranoia. The red pill is a lot to take in all at once and why STFU is so important when you first start out. It’s so easy to get angry and fuck things up. | /r/askMRP | 22/06/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Sincere question: what initially drew you to this movement?For me it was my wife stop wanting sex with me and I couldn’t figure out why. Read some of the significant material and showed me what I was doing wrong and was able to save my marriage. There are toxic aspects of red pill but books like “no more mr nice guy” and “when I say no i feel guilty” greatly improved my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Medium is the Message or Good ExcuseDoes she know? | /r/askMRP | 21/06/23 05:08 PM |
| 8 | Medium is the Message or Good ExcuseThere is really no way to know for sure. Your gut feeling may have more to do with your recent reading material then her actual behavior. At this point without any evidence your just going to drive yourself crazy with what if’s. My suggestion would be to forget about it and keep up your reading and hitting the gym hard. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/23 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel like fucking my wifeWell if your having too much sex and everything else is going well. Best way to stop that is get her pregnant. Trust me there will be a couple years where she won’t be waking you up at night. If the actual sex is too much have her pull out a toy and get her off. Should only take you 5 min and just fuck her a few time per week. You get your rest and she gets off. Or just change the time of sex. If your tired from work get in some morning sex. Friend of mine had a wife like this and would complain… | /r/askMRP | 19/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | I don't feel like fucking my wifeI was already bald so it was a no brainer for me. I can attest that you feel 20 yrs old again and want to fuck every day. Workouts stop making you sore, minor injuries heal quicker, and started to do better at work (increased income by 20%) For OP will add a significant side effect is you might become infertile. So be sure to get her knocked up and have all the babies out of your system. | /r/askMRP | 19/06/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR talking shit things behind my back - how to deal with this women crap?Everything on the financial side seems reasonable As for the her talking bad about you. Simple conversation just like finances. Let her know you expect this to stop going forward. No threats and try to keep your emotions out of it. Your not trying to argue your simply laying out a reasonable boundary. If she tries to get in a fight just WISNIFG, broken record and fog. | /r/askMRP | 17/06/23 02:36 AM |
| 4 | I have a new kind of energy. Is this what's called frame?Might be worth a reread of at least to core texts. I found rereading after a few years of improvement added a lot of new insight. | /r/askMRP | 16/06/23 03:30 PM |
| 7 | I have a new kind of energy. Is this what's called frame?You problem is you are needy and seek validation once you get attached. Which is why the same thing seems to happen over and over again with each relationship. You get involved with a girl, she thinks she is getting a none needy guy because you don’t care about her yet. This changes once you catch feelings and you go from zero to 100. Resulting in her lose attraction and leave or start to shit test you. This come out as her saying things that would piss off a needy or validation seeking guy. She… | /r/askMRP | 16/06/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Fiance told me she’s never had any sexual desire in generalThese days if you’re not over weight, have a little game and a decent job you will have zero problem finding a decent girl. Been my experience girls rarely if ever show overt interest in guys. Takes experience to see the signals because girls are subtle and fear rejection way more than guys. Unless your a top 1% guy girls won’t openly go after you. Right now you need to be doing a lot of reading. Your frame has been shot to shit because of this issue. Time to focus on building yourself back up c… | /r/askMRP | 16/06/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Fiance told me she’s never had any sexual desire in generalThe key to this situation is if she is actively trying to fix the issue. Not just booking appointment but actually doing work to fix the problem (booking, follow up etc). There is a difference between her saying I don’t get turn on I give up vs I can’t get turned on, I know something is wrong and I will do everything I can to resolve the issue. If she is actively trying to fix the problem I would give her a chance. During that time I would be hitting the gym, reading the side bar and working on … | /r/askMRP | 16/06/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | LTR talking shit things behind my back - how to deal with this women crap?If everything is good but these two issues then it might be easier just to fix these two problems and move on. Hell most of this can be fixed in a conversation and some boundary enforcement. People around here tend to be quick to pull the eject cord. I am of the mind of doing everything you can to fix the problem with the girl you have so even if doesn’t work out at least you won’t make the same mistake again. | /r/askMRP | 14/06/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | LTR talking shit things behind my back - how to deal with this women crap?Is the shit she said behind your back true? If she has a point then get to work on those areas. If sex and relationship is good and what she said is bs I would chalk it up to locker room talk. Sometimes girls just sit around and bitch about there man and if they have nothing they just make it up to fit in. As for money I would start a completely new policy. Since she can’t be trusted to give you honest assessment she needs to pay half the bills. Everything split down the middle and none of this … | /r/askMRP | 14/06/23 11:02 PM |
| 6 | STFU vs NMMNG AdviceNo book is perfect and I just found out doing is more effective than talking. I don’t recommend talking about your improvements, let your actions do the talking. | /r/askMRP | 14/06/23 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Ditch Western WomenDidn’t read but let me save you time. Women are women no matter where they are from. If you can’t handle an American girl and think somehow a eastern block or Asian tiger mom won’t wipe the floor with you your dead wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 3 | What's the point of an LTR?Shit test mostly go away after a while. I actually miss them because they are a great way to manufacture some outrage to keep that emotional rollercoaster going. | /r/askMRP | 12/06/23 12:53 PM |
| 6 | To Move Out or Not Move OutCOVID’s been over for a year. Plenty of signs saying help wanted everywhere. No reason you can’t have a second job. Take some responsibility for your shit. Even in your response your blaming your wife/Covid. I messed up by giving her all the power and she fucked it up and Covid killed my job. Not my fault guess I am cool with living in my car again because my wife is terrible. Maybe just maybe she is acting this way because your a shit leader. Who sat on his ass when his career went away. Forced… | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up big time, advise moving forwardHonestly sounds like she solved the problem for you. Your free now and don’t have to deal with her crazy bs. My question for you is have you learned you lesson. Read the side bar, start lifting. Really only thing to look out for at this point is her trying to crawl back and taking her back. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 04:04 PM |
| 7 | To Move Out or Not Move OutHow are you 33 years old and at the point if you leave you are living out of a car? You’re a grown as man with kids. Get your shit together | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 03:58 PM |
| 5 | To Move Out or Not Move OutSpeak to a lawyer asap and do exactly what they say. If she is using the safety/happiness of your kids as leverage that is immediate cause for divorce. Don’t listen to legal advice from people online, it’s important to follow your lawyers instruction even if it doesn’t fall in line with RP. You can’t out alpha the government so in a divorce it’s actually in your best interest to come off as beta. Read the side bar (focus on divorce material) and lifting. Start putting aside money for when you le… | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | To Move Out or Not Move OutWhy go into debt? Even if she has to take on half it’s still better to have no consumer debt. Not a great idea to fuck your credit when you may need to get a new house/apartment. Just seem like shit advice and this guy should speak to a lawyer. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 6 | My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in lifePeople often forget the covert contact of following the red pill teaching and all my problems will be solved and live a problem free life. If I do XYZ I’ll get my girl back, or my women will finally want to fuck me, or I will increase my body count. Took me years to realize I needed to be growing and taking control of my life for me. Not to get validation from women or anyone else for that matter. That red pill is simply about getting a better understanding of the game we all play and playing th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/23 03:03 PM |
| – | Going down on womenDo you like eating pussy? If so do it, if you don’t then don’t. Giving a girl an orgasm is beta trait. Satisfying your girl provides comfort. It’s all about balance and no man is all alpha or beta. Issues come up when your too much of one or the other (In jail or hen pecked). Most men end up here because they are too beta and almost everyone overcorrect a until they find balance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Power Struggle and InitiationsYes it’s purely to practice OI. Because you know it’s coming you already have a response and it really won’t effect you. You don’t have to fake an OI because it will be natural. No matter how much you think you hide your disappointment or frustration from a rejection women can read you like a book. She is most likely used to you being frustrated so all this sudden you don’t care it will take her off guard. Hamster starts running why doesn’t he care he always is pissed. What changed? Worst case s… | /r/askMRP | 02/06/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | The sex patternGet snipped and problem with condoms is solved. Worth having the conversation with the wife to confirm she would be comfortable with no run after the snip. Besides cycle tracking makes it so you can’t have sex when she is ovulating which is when you get the best sex. I remember when my wife was off of BC and we ended up having sex without a rubber and both of us where pretty stressed out for the rest of the month. | /r/askMRP | 01/06/23 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Power Struggle and InitiationsShe only has power because you care so much when you initiate. Acting butt hurt after a rejection only shows her the power she has over you. She loses that power once your stop caring if she rejects you. There is a time and place for removing attention and affection but I make it a point not to do it after a failed initiation. Women know this pisses us off and pulling affection and attention then just comes off as needy. Best to work dread once you have a handle on basics and OI. One thing that … | /r/askMRP | 31/05/23 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?I agree it’s hard to find a girl that’s into this kind of lifestyle. However if he is attractive enough he will eventually find one. Best thing would be to simply own it, take his time finding the right girl. Say it’s no more unlikely then finding a girl into 3 ways or into one sided open relationship. Have a standard and stick to it, they disrespect your or start to treat you like shit then walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Do I tell wife about Viagra?Avoid hiding the bad (NMMNG). You have a medical condition that your addressing. Tell her if you want too or don’t that’s up to you. If she finds it just own it and move on. I would recommend getting you hormones checked as your ED may be fixed by HRT. fixing the problem at the cause rather than treating the symptoms. Started having issues myself and started HRT and things have been working even better than before. Never hurts to hit the gym and drop some weight. | /r/askMRP | 31/05/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do I gravitate towards more motherly women?Do what makes you happy. If you like girls that have their shit together and are a bit of a challenge nothing wrong with that. Doesn’t mean you can’t control the frame and follow principles to make yourself attractive. I always found that the underlining message of the red pill is to live your life in your terms. Figure out what you want and not what you think some internet strangers on a message board say you should. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 02:33 AM |
| 2 | ILYBINILWY received todayTalking to the lawyer doesn’t mean you have to start the divorce. You just getting a consult to understand what it would look like if does happen. I have done the same even though my marriage is solid. That can change in an instant and I like being prepared. Important to understand how to protect your assets so they are already in position before the split. Truth is if she wants a divorce it’s going to happen. It’s better to know the lay of the land before you get gut punched and become emotiona… | /r/askMRP | 30/05/23 11:47 PM |
| 3 | ILYBINILWY received todayDon’t listen to any legal advice on here. Speak to a lawyer in your area. Legal info changes based on a lot of factors so you need to consult a lawyer. Most initial consults are free. Find the best lawyers in your area and consult a few. Have your questions ready and everything they need to know (income, retirement, real estate , debt etc). Let them know you ideal outcome and listen to their advice. After you get a few opinions you should know what to do. You may be pleasantly surprised based on… | /r/askMRP | 28/05/23 08:48 PM |
| 10 | ILYBINILWY received todayWhat typically comes next is she want to take a break. She moves out for a time but then suddenly comes back and wants to work it out. During the break she goes to the other guy to get him to commit. Turns out he just fucking her for fun and won’t trust a girl who cheats on her husband. Takes a few week of her trying to convince him before she realized it isn’t happening. Panics when she realizes she will end up along and get very angry if you won’t take her back. Has she ever asked for nudes be… | /r/askMRP | 27/05/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Female emotional connection required for sexThank you for posting there is a lot of good stuff in these posts | /r/askMRP | 25/05/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Female emotional connection required for sexShe doesn’t feel like having sex at that moment and is trying to rationalize why. No different then I would want to have sex more if the house was clean. You’re right not to listen to what she says and look at what she does, but thats way easier said than done. Could be boredom or just her reacting to losing control of the frame. Good news is your doing enough to start her hamster going. Ironically women are unhappy because they control the frame but instinctively want to maintain that control i… | /r/askMRP | 25/05/23 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Compliance testsResponse that worked for me is “I am your husband not your butler” You have to hold the boundary and if you say no you have to stick to it. Took only a couple weeks and my wife stopped. She can bitch all she wants but you just broken record “I am not your servant”. If she keeps it up do something productive like go to the gym. Key is not letting her get you emotional and just broken record. She knows she is wrong and will try to guilt you or piss you off. This is childish behavior so treat her l… | /r/askMRP | 25/05/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Sticky situation - need opinion from other menWell if my girl promised to stop drinking. Then a few weeks later went on a girls night, got wasted and didn’t come home until the next morning I would have left too. Only option you have is if she breaks up with you simply say “sorry it’s come to this and I wish you the best”. Then don’t text or call her unless it has to do with giving her shit back or logistics of her moving out. May have a chance for her to come back later on after you get your shit together. Then take a few months off drinki… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/23 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Advice for First Threesome (FMF)What would concern me is she has tried to hook up with you in the past behind your wife’s back. Means there are some emotions here and she is connected to your wife. Not some random girl you can both just forget about. I would be very careful not to end alone with her or if she is obviously trying to get you or your wife wasted. Personally if your relationship with your wife is solid I wouldn’t risk it over an hour of fun. I would put zero effort into trying to make this happen. Focus on having … | /r/askMRP | 22/05/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Explaining my wifes behaviour from a RP perspective and advice on how to “re-evoke” this.Problem is your waking right into a covert contract. If I do xyz I’ll get that enthusiastic sex I dream of and life will be problem free (no more mr nice guy). You will end up trying to measure your success based on her sexual behavior. This will come through to her as needy and validation seeking behavior and will be counter productive to your goals. My advice is start reading and focusing on the basics. Go to the gym tonight and start going consistently lifting heavy (3 day a week min). Any pr… | /r/askMRP | 19/05/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Went through my GF phone and now I need advice/insightMaybe but I just don’t see someone who has it shit together going through his girls phone. If his 2nd paragraph was true why would he need too? Oddly enough all the stuff he found is pretty much what I would assume my girl would have at some point. I am sure she has looked up Ex, she has probably been with a guy who has a bigger dick and that she has slept with more than 12 guys. She most likely had a hoe phase etc. Difference is I really don’t give a shit because I have looked up Ex, I have bee… | /r/askMRP | 12/05/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to approach long overdue conversations while staying in FrameThe biggest covert contract I found is if I follow the red pill teachings and my wife will suddenly want to fuck me. The day your not doing all this for her validation (sex) is the day your on the right track. There is no need for a conversation. Your making improvement to your life for you not as some covert contract for her love and respect. | /r/askMRP | 11/05/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Sex initiation guidelines?One of my favorite is if she is in the shower just get naked and join her. You don’t ask, you just jump in hand her the soap and ask her to get your back. When I started I didn’t initiate the first couple of times. First time she may protest or ask what your doing. Just say something smart like it’s better for the environment. Thing married man sex life has a few other good ones. | /r/askMRP | 11/05/23 09:08 PM |
| 13 | Wife wanted an exception to the ruleFunny how sometime women really just want you to tell them no. Sounds like your wife just wanted to be told no so she doesn’t have to feel bad about not “helping”. Overall think you handled this well. | /r/askMRP | 11/05/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | ILYBINILWY speechKind of hard to give any actionable advice with no details on your relationship. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/23 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Went through my GF phone and now I need advice/insightDoes anything in his post scream alpha to you? All I am getting from it is zero frame and validation seeking. | /r/askMRP | 09/05/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Went through my GF phone and now I need advice/insightWho cares. You never talk to your friends about a girl you fucked in the past? Sound more like your ego is hurting because you don’t think you measure. Body count of 12 is nothing these days at 26. As long as she is doing all that same stuff for you then why do you give a shit? I would get being pissed off if she is all reserved and only into missionary and you find out she was a freak before. Stop going through your girls phone like a bitch. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Whats does "I never loved you mean"?Means she is getting ready to leave you. Best thing for you to do is get prepared for that event. As you get ready you need to read the side bar and hit the gym. There is a saying here that the stay plan is the same as the go plan. STFU, get your diet locked in and hit the gym hard. Figure out what you want to walk away with and call a few of the best divorce lawyers in your areas and do the free consultation. Then follow their instructions to the letter if you decide to file. Many lawyer will s… | /r/askMRP | 19/03/23 12:56 AM |
| 1 | FNGFind this odd since she isn’t even living with you. You doing all of them as she isn’t there. Yeah it funny because she prob actually believes this is true. But you can do all the chores and when you go to collect there is always some reason why she just can’t. Why chore play is pointless. I normally come back with something stupid like “I don’t work for sex but I do for BJ paid in advance”. Something that lets her know how stupid it is to say chores = sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/23 03:01 AM |
| 34 | Intelligence and attractivenessTrust me it’s not because you’re too smart. Most likely is because your boring. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 11:43 PM |
| 4 | in No more mr nice guy , the author mentions doing a sex mortaorium for 3-6 months and tell his partnerBecause if you don’t fix your shit it’s just going to happen again with the next girl. You think this is her fault and that’s where your wrong. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/23 11:26 PM |
| 2 | in No more mr nice guy , the author mentions doing a sex mortaorium for 3-6 months and tell his partnerYour post reeks of neediness, covert contracts and victim pukes. Maybe focus on fixing that first. I’ll save you a year of trouble. The faster you realize this is about becoming a better man not getting more sex the better. Because thinking your going to read all the books and follow all the red pill teaching and your wife will suddenly want to fuck you. That my friend that is the ultimate covert contract. Realize she owes you nothing and that your fixing your shit so you can live a happy life w… | /r/askMRP | 15/03/23 11:21 PM |
| 12 | My(M32) wife(F43) has gone cold on me again and I don't know what to do anymore.Have you figured out that talking to her about your sex life has zero impact? First lesson is you can’t negotiate desire so stop talking about how you feel and get to work. Work on what you ask? Read the side bar and hit the gym. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Boundary enforcement/ lies. Did I Rambo?Good thing about older women is they tend to have better incomes. If they make around the same money you will be surprised even with full custody. Me and my wife make around the same income and spoke to a lawyer and would look around $300 a month. I end up with two great kids and better off financially the I would have been if was single for last 10 years. Don’t plan on divorcing just went to see what it would look like if I did. Only time you get screwed is if she is a stay at home mom. | /r/askMRP | 13/03/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Advice from a 17 Year LTR and 3 kidsThis is covered in NMMNG quite well. If the wife is doing that pisses you off let her know. First they already know your mad and will mostly likely ask you why. This is the point when the nice guy will hide his anger and get resentful. Girl knows your pissed and assumes your hiding it because you afraid her. Don’t hide the bad and let her know why your pissed. No need to DEER. | /r/askMRP | 08/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Boundary enforcement/ lies. Did I Rambo?If she hasn’t called you after a day crying with snot bubbles coming out her nose then you have your answer. She either doesn’t care you’re leaving or thinks your going to come crawling back. Either way it’s time to go. I would have advised talking to a lawyer before leaving as you have now set the precedent of her having full custody of the kids. Either way speak to a lawyer asap and follow their instructions. Yes that mean if they tell you to go home and say sorry just to buy time until you fi… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Observations of a dying manReally highlights that covert contract. If your providing resources, protection and leadership expecting to receive a certain kindof treatment back in you moment of need you may be disappointed. You should do this because you want too not because you expect a return. The other side is a buddy of mine dad died of horrible disease few years back. The disease that once you have is a death sentence to drags on for decades as you slowly lose function and lastly your mind. His wife stayed by him and t… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/23 04:34 PM |
| 3 | How much easier does money make it?My best friend is a natural with at least a 150 lay count. He never travels as he hates flying. He can tell a story and the be the center of attention at any party. Natural sales man who can talk for hours and always has some new crazy story to tell. Not about where you go or been. It’s about how much fun your having and the crazy situations you get into. Ps half his story’s are exaggerated or have changed over the years (I was there for most of them), he never let the truth get in the way of a … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/23 03:08 PM |
| 3 | How much easier does money make it?Reason for frat is status and social proof as well. You will have a large group of friend and always have interesting shit going on. worth it in the long run | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/23 03:04 PM |
| 5 | How much easier does money make it?First get a job and get your own place or share an apartment with a friend. Plenty of people have jobs during school you will be fine. If your waiting tables try to get a job at a high end place. Money isn’t the issue as it’s never about the money it what it buys status and adventure. You can have both with minimum money and girls realize most guys are broke while in school. So you have to be smart. You can be well dressed on a budget (dappered.com), you can make friends with the bartender (stat… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/23 02:50 PM |
| 2 | NMMNG: Read with her? Or no?Yeah it’s a great book and I reread it every year and get something new each time. Actually helped me a lot on my career. I would def not get her involved. As you making a lot of positive changes in your life out of nowhere will get her hamster going. However if she were to find your copy then you don’t hide the bad. I would also recommend Rian stones side bar series on YouTube. He is pretty good at breaking end concepts down and giving real world examples. Especially on going Rambo and the ange… | /r/askMRP | 02/03/23 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Enforce Boundary or Let It GoI would let it slide considering the situation. I would actually be concerned if my wife didn’t drop everything to deal with a long time friend who is possibly threatening self harm. I would do the same for one of my friends. I typically only enforce boundaries if she does something I wouldn’t do in her situation. In this case I would have done the same and would prob be pretty pissed if my wife tried to get me to bring my kid with me. As your actually putting your kid in a dangerous situation. … | /r/askMRP | 02/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 5 | foggingI can see why you would think that (fogging) Stop being lazy and read the side bar (broken record) | /r/askMRP | 28/02/23 01:54 AM |
| 4 | foggingPerson: you shouldn’t ask for examples of fogging when there is a whole book with hundreds of examples dipshit. You: you’re right I am so dumb I sometimes think I should have been in special classes (fogging) Stop being lazy and listen to or read WISNIFG. | /r/askMRP | 27/02/23 11:55 PM |
| 16 | Wife wants a long-distance marriageHow many times have you gone to the gym this week? Have you updated your wardrobe? How many books in the side bar have you read? See a bunch of whining about things you can’t change (hight, looks, dick size) but not a lot of action. You been working on your self for 3 months. This takes years to implement. May not hurt to speak to a lawyer to find out if her leaving the country is considered abandonment. I | /r/askMRP | 18/02/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Advice for "equality" in the bedroomWomen aren’t that different than guys. You have your two pump chumps and you some just take a while to get off. Personally found that Os that take longer feel better. | /r/askMRP | 13/02/23 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Advice for "equality" in the bedroomNothing wrong with pulling out a toy to finish her off. I often like it when my wife uses a toy because the vibration feels great during sex for me and we both end up having better O’s. | /r/askMRP | 13/02/23 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Rocking the (wife's) Boat on purpose.It’s pretty much like have a control burn once a month so the whole forest doesn’t burn down after a lightning storm. I found that having a bs fight about once a quarter works well. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Rocking the (wife's) Boat on purpose.My favorite part is that your going to call her out clearly and rationally. Maybe a power point presentation on how she isn’t pulling her weight will help. If shit isn’t getting done then just get it done. Not as a covert contract but because you have standards. You can’t negotiate the desire to clean anymore then you can for sex. If this isn’t a new problem it most likely has to do with her being pregnant. I have a tendency to my wife break while pregnant, but only to a point. Minor things like… | /r/askMRP | 11/02/23 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Why no one talks about Roissy's Dread anymore?It the difference between learning a set of move vs learn the theory behind the moves. Having caned moves a way to pretend to be high value. While current theory is to become high value and the dread will take care of itself. Rian stone is currently working on a book on dread and just released one on frame. I too have fond memories of the old Athol Kay forums. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/23 01:32 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up by showing weakness, need adviceThat’s some top shelve DEERing you got there, and bonus point for fitting in so many red pill buzz words. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up by showing weakness, need adviceYou say your not seeking validation then state that losing her respect(validation) hurt. She no longer hold me on a pedestal as before(validation). She will never see me in the same light again (neediness/validation). You care too much about how she see you. Oddly enough it wasn’t your family disrespecting you that she cares about, it was how you responded. Eventually everyone gets horribly disrespected in front of their girl. You have zero control how people treat you, but you can control how y… | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | She had a meltdown and I decided it's crossing my boundaries99% of time women talk about there problems they don’t want you to fix it they just want you to listen to them bitch. Which is great because you don’t even really have to be listening and take zero effort on your part. I alway add a time limit, I only have 10m because I am headed to xyz. That way your not on the phone for an hour. Rule of thumb is if she wants you to fix it she will ask you too, if not simply assume she is just venting | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 03:56 AM |
| 2 | (FR) Posts I Wish I Read When I Started.Funny thing about bjj is everyone is going to beat up on you when you first start. I had a 125lb girl tap me out 5 times in a 3 min role my first day (220 male). You’re going to get humbled, but everyone’s been there so no one really cares. Check you ego at the door and have fun. | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Fitness test vs Nagging (aka "you're never good enough") - what's a proper response?Well first I would determine if she has a point. Are you doing a shit job? Let’s assume your doing a good job and she is just nagging. Broken record is a great tool. I do choirs to my standard, don’t like it feel free to do it yourself. Not angry or offended just stating fact. She will follow up but you have to do xyz. I do choirs to my standard. Then add a FOG, I see why you may feel that way but I do choirs to my standard. The key is to just keep repeating and STFU. If she keep pushing just go… | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 03:22 AM |
| 2 | I fucked up by showing weakness, need adviceThe fundamental goal the read pill isn’t to change how people react to you. That would be a covert contract. It’s to improve yourself to the point you don’t give a shit what people think anymore. Being your own mental point of origin is a fundamental step in the process. Why frame is rule 1 | /r/askMRP | 02/02/23 12:31 AM |
| 3 | I fucked up by showing weakness, need adviceOne if she pregnant she wouldn’t be overly attracted to a alpha she would want more beta. My guess is she was being pleasant because it’s was the first time she met your family. Even if she did leave you for him you basically just cucked your alpha brother. For someone who has been studying for 15 years your missing day one stuff. Your seeking validation from your girl and your family so much that having one slip up around them has you contemplating breaking up with your pregnant girlfriend. Doe… | /r/askMRP | 01/02/23 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Boundary Enforcement: The place is a messeither enforce the boundary, do it yourself or hire a cleaner | /r/askMRP | 23/01/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | I have an approach anxiety problem and I don't know how to fix itI always heard you should start slow. Walk up to random girl you don’t find attractive and ask her the time. Get the time, smile and walk alway, you expect nothing else. Then do that with women more and more attractive women or a group. Then move to opinion, women picking up something from grocery store ( hey, I was was thinking of trying that is it good?), get her response then smile say thanks and walk away. Focus on asking your questions with a smile, eye contact, and confident voice. I do th… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Existential emptiness afters years of red pill awareness and personal bitter experienceYou ever considered your not meant to be a loner? That maybe having a women in your life is something you need to keep you from feeling this boredom. Possible your self talking yourself into believing I am a loner as a cope with being along. Not sure why your angry but if your angry at women you have to ask why. Are you mad that the red pill is true and that women will act in their own best interest. Like women being mad a men for selecting younger women. Took me a while to get over this myself … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.You whole post is about how do I get validation from my wife (sex). I can tell that you are already writing that covert contract. If I do exactly what the internet strangers say then she will have sex with me. Start going to the gym and lifting heavy and get your diet into control. Then STFU and start reading. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/23 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Withhold affection : How effective is it and how far should one take it!Wife’s not following my orders so instead handling the issue like a man I am going to be super passive aggressive and withhold my affection. I know, I won’t give her eye contact when we cuddle that will show her. Did I mention I don’t like meaning less sex because I had so much before I got married. Like so much pussy bro. Use agree and amplify if she is being bitchy that’s what it for. Withholding affection is an advanced technique that can backfire real quick If you don’t want to fuck then don… | /r/askMRP | 18/01/23 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Got mad at a FWB/plate, dropped her and blocked her. Now shes going crazy. What do I do now? I know this is Mrp but can I get advice on what should I do? I'm feeling extremely guilty like a soft faggot and rethinking backpedalIf she turns too crazy just tell her your love her, act extra needed, negotiate desire, and cry a couple times. Most likely she is just sad she is losing her free validation and will find another guy in a few weeks. | /r/askMRP | 18/01/23 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Restarting after divorceNot sure your ready for advice since you went Rambo already. You need to get some reading done and continue your lifts. I would suggest looking up Rian Stone material on going Rambo on YouTube to make sure you don’t make this mistake again. Get your life in order post divorce then figure out what you want and go for it. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/23 11:35 PM |
| 6 | I'm angry and I dont want to be - the 5 columnsNo one gives a shit your angry. What are you doing to fix your problems? Maybe instead of taking an hour to write this bs post you could have read a good portion of one of the side bar books or perhaps hit the gym. Maybe you will continue to be angry until you actually make some real progress. STFU, read and lift. Rinse and repeat until moral improves | /r/askMRP | 12/01/23 09:15 PM |
| 10 | No More Andrew Tate ShitMarried redpill has a great side bar and I believe it’s all pretty much the same material | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/23 08:18 PM |
| 9 | Getting fed up with constant gaming / affection and no resultsYou can’t even help but bring her up again and again. My post was about you needing to own your shit and you give me a sob story about her calling you fat. You need to stop commenting and read WISNIFG and NMMNG. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/23 02:22 AM |
| 34 | Getting fed up with constant gaming / affection and no results“I feel like I am wasting my time”. If you were making these changes for yourself it wouldn’t be a waste of time. This my friend is a classic cover contact. The whole problem is your doing everything just to get her validation. I can tell because your judging the success vs fail of everything your trying based on her reaction. Does that sound like your living in your frame? When her validation is the ultimate determinant of success? You need to get your shit together for you. You should be lifti… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/23 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Getting fed up with constant gaming / affection and no resultsI was thinking that same thing with her change in behavior when it comes to getting undressed. Then all this sudden getting really hot sex out of nowhere. I hear it’s common for women to cheat then immediately have sex with her husband. Women are really shitty at keeping secretes. She will start talking about some random guy here or there. New guy at work, someone at her gym or old friend she just reconnected with. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Childfree Conundrumremember she reserves the right to change her mind at any time and is in complete control of child birth. You could change her mind and she agrees to have children once your married. Then completely change her mind once she has the ring on her finger. This of course goes both ways she may say she doesn’t want kids and after a few year change her mind and “forget” to take birth control. You simply have to ask yourself the question, if you stay with this girl are you okay with never having kids? A… | /r/askMRP | 04/01/23 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Thank you for ignoring your MSI’ll break it down, if you do anything expecting a response from anyone it’s a covert contract. I’ll get in shape so my wife will fuck me. I’ll take the wife out on our anniversary to a really nice dinner and then she will have sex with me I’ll do the dishes and clean the house so my wife will tell me I am a good boy.I’ll become more alpha so my wife will want to fuck me.I’ll follow all the red pill teachings to the letter and my wife will want to fuck me, and my life will get better. If I play … | /r/askMRP | 03/01/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The next time will be betterKeep deering I am sure proving yourself to faceless strangers on the internet will help. Maybe while you’re at the gym you can listen to WISNIFG again. | /r/askMRP | 03/01/23 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Fucked up my 20's, i am a 30yo loser.If your not divorced or just getting out of jail your not doing too bad. First thing is to figure out how to make more money. Pretty easy now a days considering the tight labor market. If you got laid a lot then I would suggest looking into sales. Most guys I know who were good with girls ended up making tons of money in sales (real estate/medical). Then it just a matter of getting your diet in line and your pretty much out of this hole. Now grow the fuck up and get to work. You don’t want to be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Experience with ClomidWorst case is you try it and it’s not a good fit. You will find it’s a piece of cake and now I actually look forward to injection days | /r/askMRP | 15/12/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Starting marriage counseling, any advice?Key is to break it up into pieces. Example would be to do reading on shit test vs comfort test. Then focus on passing all shit test that week. You will fuck up on a couple but get to the point you can spot and react well to shit test. When you have that down move to next item while still staying on top of shit test. Think problem a lot of people have is they try to do everything all at once and end up doing a shit job at everything. | /r/askMRP | 15/12/22 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Starting marriage counseling, any advice?She a 40 year old women with two kids in tow who used to be hot and has a shitty attitude. Fact is that if you landed her 12 years ago you can replace her with a younger version in about 6 months. At forty you should be way better off financially and have higher status then you did in your early thirties. Grow some balls and act like a fucking man. | /r/askMRP | 15/12/22 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Starting marriage counseling, any advice?Big surprise the negotiated desire didn’t work out for you in the long run. I am surprised this lasted 5 years. Good news is she now has a job so you most likely won’t get divorced raped. She will get half but once your married it’s not yours it’s ours no matter who made the money. I would go ahead and consult a lawyer just to get an idea of worst case. Most time the first consult is free. Do this with the best lawyers in the area. One this gives you information and two she won’t be able to use … | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Experience with ClomidSome guys come on here to shit on every OP just to get a reaction. It’s a frame test, look up Rian stone videos on WISNIFG | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Experience with ClomidStop Deering and reread WISNIFG | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Experience with ClomidI inject into my belly fat and it works great and is less painful. It’s not quite as good as into the muscle but you can compensate by an increase in dose so get to the same numbers. Then you only need insulin needles which are very small and almost painless | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Experience with ClomidLook up Jay Campbell he has a book on hormone optimization that will tell you everything you need to know and what to avoid. I followed it and have been really happy with my results. He is also on YouTube so you can get a lot from just watching that. First you need to go to a clinic that specializes in TRT. Because normal Endo won’t prescribe u less your really low. Then you should spend a couple months doing your research. Save you a little time Don’t just test your testosterone, get full blood… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 05:35 PM |
| 5 | She is always lateDon’t hide behind work if you decide to cancel the date. She will know your lying and just comes off as weak. I would either go ahead and order and eat while I wait or simply cancel. Don’t act butt hurt, your not mad you just have shit to do so you can’t afford to waste your time waiting. As for the 2nd girl i wouldn’t drop her for looking out for her own safety. I tend to cut slack for a girl not wanting to come directly to your house. They are by nature wary of isolating themselves with men un… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | cant seem to fidn things for manufactured outragePeople have a tendency to overcorrect, don’t go from never being mad to fighting every other day over stupid shit, it’s something I topically use only once every couple of months. I think of it as small burns to used to avoid large forest fires | /r/askMRP | 06/12/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | cant seem to fidn things for manufactured outrageWhat makes you think you actually have to care about the issue your going to fight about. If you don’t care it’s actually better since you don’t risk losing frame. | /r/askMRP | 06/12/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are trashLike asking how do we change men to stop liking boobs. It’s women nature and is in their own best interest to want men that can provide. Women who selected for these traits had kids that survived. The only play is to understand the game and play your card the best you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are trashI alway think about it this way. A man can improve his value and it increases over time. While women s value is based on looks alone and decreases over time. Sure she can wear makeup but it can only do so much. An objectively ugly man can work hard start a business, have confidence and amass wealth. End up with a very attractive wife. Sure it’s a lot of work but your were going to do it anyway. While an objectively ugly women is basically shit out of luck. She will find someone but there is almo… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | how woman behave after only dating chadsWell then just find another girl who is more giving. Ran into this once where girl wanted me to go down on her but didn’t do blowjobs. I slept with her once, realized it wasn’t a good fit and broke things off. Don’t care got laid, and a bad lay is still better then jerking off. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | how woman behave after only dating chadsIf you don’t want to sleep with women then don’t. I would suggest looking up Rian stone and YouTube. You seem like you have watched too much black pill crap and now you’re really angry. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 11:18 PM |
| 2 | how woman behave after only dating chadsBrother I have know two people and my life who have killed themselves and it is horrific. Don’t do that to your family and friends. If you need help talk to someone. That being said you need to work on your frame my man. A girl asking to see you naked who won’t show you anything get this kind of response from you is telling. Have you met this girl in real life? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | how woman behave after only dating chadsIt’s their nature to be passive and wait for you to initiate conversation. Not sure why that would be disgusting. Why would she want a man who doesn’t have the ball to talk to her? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Emotional Cheating, Next StepsRead your response and tell me does that sound like a strong man? “Keep my mouth shut and see how it plays out”? She has basically told you she is planning on/has cheated on you and your response is let’s wait this thing out. I agree on STFU but you don’t have time to waste waiting to see what is going to happen. You need to be taking actions to get your shit together. Have you been to the gym yet? | /r/askMRP | 30/11/22 08:45 PM |
| 3 | If you agree with Briffault's law, you should file for legal separation soon after marriage and a parenting plan when she is pregnantTell me you have zero experience with women without telling me you have zero experience with women? “There are time in a women’s life when she will agree to a man terms without question” | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | If you agree with Briffault's law, you should file for legal separation soon after marriage and a parenting plan when she is pregnantYou’re telling me a women has no use for a man after a few years of marriage. Are you married or in a long term relationship? I can assure you women need men even more as they age. As men age they accumulate more money and status and your quality of life improves. As long as your getting your shit done there is no reason to expect her to just up and leave. If she does good, you can trade up to a younger model. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 2 | If you agree with Briffault's law, you should file for legal separation soon after marriage and a parenting plan when she is pregnantSounds good in theory but I don’t think any women in her right mind would sign. You would basically be getting married then divorced in a few months. Sure you can write this off as well at least I am not losing half in the divorce or you could just not get married. Although I think it’s a great way to get a women to stop asking you to get married. I’ll marry you but we will be filing a separation agreement where I get xyz. I can assure you there is zero chance she will ask again. I would also po… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Emotional Cheating, Next StepsBrother she could take off of work and drive to this guy. Fuck for two hours and come back and you would never know. You can’t be sure you just don’t want to believe it. You could check bank accounts and credit cards to see if she bought anything near where this guy lives. My guess is she stopped to get gas or a drink on the way there or back. Things like her gas consumption going up (fill up once a week to twice a week). Also is the message history she let you see seem to start out of no where?… | /r/askMRP | 29/11/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Getting her to lose the weight?Working out isn’t as important as cal intake for women. You can’t control if she goes to the gym, but you can control food choice and prep. Get ride of any junk food and you plan the meals out for the week and cook it yourself if you have too. Ask her for help on your cut by only having healthy food in the house for a few months. She will eat heather because there will be no other option. Is this a lot of work? Yes, but it’s lot less work then going to divorce court. Worst case you will get a li… | /r/askMRP | 15/01/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | MRP thoughts on gaming?Does it add value to your life? Would that hour or two be better spent reading or improving the real you and not some video game characters. It’s amazing to me the guys at work all they have to talk about are video games. One day your going to be on your death bed and I doubt you will be thinking about how you wish you had more time to game. If your bored or need to unwind then go have a real adventure, make some real memories. | /r/askMRP | 03/01/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Self Inflicted dreadSo you found out and you said something to her and she “stoped”. Or when you found the exchanges they ended organically after a week? | /r/askMRP | 29/12/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Self Inflicted dreadNot sure why when you discovered the texts with her ex you didn’t shut that shit down? I don’t see any value letting something like that slide. I would also research the changes you need to make to your approach when dealing with a pregnant women. My understanding is when pregnant she stop wanting as much alpha and lean way more to beta traits. | /r/askMRP | 28/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 4 | How to handle this shit/comfort test?What helped me is when I realized I was agonizing over how to make an overweight women in her 40s want to fuck me. Then I just focused on fixing my issues and stopped using her affections as a gage of my success. | /r/askMRP | 09/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Hard time letting go of bitchassness and resentment?You have kids right? What would you do if one of your kids was on their phone all day but then gave you shit for being on your phone? Would you be so butt hurt you would post on a Internet forum? No you wouldn’t give a shit because kids are emotional and hypocritical. The fact your so bothered that your wife is pissed is the whole problem. You’re so focused on how it’s bs she is pissed, that you don’t actually wonder why you care? How dare she be pissed, we have a covert contract. Doesn’t she kn… | /r/askMRP | 14/11/21 03:35 AM |
| 3 | My wife's cold attitude is driving me nutsSpeak to a lawyer right away to see what you are dealing with. Even if you don’t end up with a divorce it’s good to know. Stay plan is the same as the go. Use this time to build up yourself physically, mentally and financially Then basically act like she is dead. Be pleasant with her but just live your life. Get the hell out of the house and have some fun. If your not sure what to do I would highly recommend joining Martial art school pref MMA, boxing or BJJ. Something you can easy join and get … | /r/askMRP | 12/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Thank you, red pill...Brother is you don’t the self discipline to read a fucking book you have bigger problems then women. Discipline is a muscle so start working it out. Think of something you hate doing like waking up early or running anything that would add value to your life but you don’t like at all. Then do that shit every day first thing in the morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Thank you, red pill...Glad to hear, would have loved to learn about this when I was in high school. I am def going to educate my son on the ways | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Shit test or is she jealous?The covert contracts insidious and are my biggest problems. If she is leaving the room after an initiation I would really consider changing your approach. I get the “no not tonight” but if she is so put off she actually leaves the room you might want to ease up a bit. We all have the tendency to over correct so be sure your not going full Rambo. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or is she jealous?Depends, are you acting like because your doing well at work she should be fucking you? That would be a covert contract she didn’t sign. She owes you nothing because you are kicking ass at work for yourself, not her right? I like the idea of the other responder. Don’t talk about raises, bonus or promotions unless she absolutely has to know. She obviously not impressed and she is picking up on the fact you think you’re owed. Her not even being aware of the raise/bonus would eliminate the covert c… | /r/askMRP | 22/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Shit test or is she jealous?What do you mean by disrespectful rejections? Superior man has something similar at the beginning of the book. Guy gets a huge bonus or something like that and wife just blows it off. Shit test to see if your seeking validation from her. Honestly she is prob just pissed that she knows she needs to up her game. It’s a lot of work to keep a successful man. | /r/askMRP | 20/10/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How to stop micromanaging?You sound like a nagging wife who gives her husband shit for not loaning the dishwasher correctly. Too bad she doesn’t know about shit test and AA. She failed that shit test big time am I right? Just accept the fact that when she helps that she isn’t going to perform to your exact standards. She isn’t a professional painter so it isn’t going to be perfect, no shit. You may have to go back and help with minor fixes and clean up. Who cares it’s still better than having to paint the whole wall your… | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if girlfriend wants to meet your parentsMean your beta. Women would never ask to meet the parents of a chad. You should probably cry and talk about how this make you feel and be as vulnerable as possible. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/21 01:12 AM |
| 3 | One step away from a cuckFirst step is stop being a fucking pussy. Who cares if she is angry? What she going to do kick your ass? Chances are she will give you the silent treatment and you get a vacation from conversations about her feels for a few day. Side bar gives you all the reading material you will need. Rian stone is also a great YouTube channel on relationships and he has videos series breaking down most of the books. Doesn’t replace reading them but is a good start: To be honest if your not married and no kids… | /r/askMRP | 15/10/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Is the reason I don't have the sex I'd like because I treat my wife and sex with her as the prize?Yes it’s your fault. I often hear that it’s the women’s job to maintain the relations. Other side of that coin is maintaining attraction is the mans job. You don’t put in effort to maintain attraction she won’t put in effort to maintain the relationship, you both end up miserable in a downward spiral. Good news is if it’s your fault you can also take responsibility and fix it. Good place to start is reading, lifting and STFU! | /r/askMRP | 12/10/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Stfu or leadership opportunity?Keep going out, but leaders don’t need hide what they are doing. This whole thing comes off like your only reason for going out was to get a emotional reaction from her. Her bad behavior should have very little effect on your plans. You’re doing fun shit and if she want join in on the fun she has to act right, if not she isn’t invited. I agree to you shutting down the disrespect but maybe watch some Rian stone field report video breakdowns videos on YouTube. I found he is really good at explaini… | /r/askMRP | 15/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Help with a Boundary IssueI would tell her flat out move back in and deal with me like an adult or I am going on the trip without you. If that would cause her to divorce you then she is going eventually. Key is being okay with either outcome, don’t bluff. If my wife took her ring off in anger, I wouldn’t let her have it back until she earned it. She doesn’t just get to decide to put it back on and move back in with no consequences. She is acting like a petulant child and she should be treated accordingly. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Getting shit together too late - Minimizing collateralalimony is normally based on possible income if she worked full time. Problem most guys get into is their wife has no education or work experience and has been a stay at home mom foe 15 year. Luckily nursed make great money and it pretty easy for them to switch from part time to full and make 80k per year. | /r/askMRP | 03/09/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | So what's the point of getting married?Your basically asking why get in relationships with women. True a girlfriend or wife can leave at a drop of the hat. Same goes for men, you decide to trade her in for a 25 yr if she gets bitchy and fat. You can go the rout of women ain’t shit crowd. I would rather just accept women’s nature, and play my hand as best I can. With the knowledge that if she decided to leave me I would have her replaced with a newer model in 6 months. Plus all the bs is worth being a father. | /r/askMRP | 31/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Getting shit together too late - Minimizing collateralFirst thing is she is no longer stay at home mom. She need to be working full time ASAP. If she is PRN I take it she is a nurse that good because she can up her hours anytime. Go see a lawyer to get a idea of what you need to do in your state and get an idea of your financial situation will be post divorce Then figure out your budget and start putting together the money you will need to make the move if it comes to that. Keep in mind any money you put away will be split. If you owned the house b… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 7 | TRP analysis of: a girlfriend calling the bouncers on her boyfriend saying he was a creep harassing herFirst it’s 2021 she can get a uber home. When the girlfriend said that’s not my boyfriend. He should have said your right I am not your boyfriend anymore. OP says there were zero red flags for 5 years then we have two in one night. 1st not my BF 2nd made he didn’t wait outside. Find that hard to belief. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to explode when STFU?Maybe one of the secondary points of STFU is to piss you off at all the covert contracts you signed. Eventually you might just stop with them all together and it gets super easy to STFU. Expect zero sympathy from your women when your sick. Anything you do for her when she is sick should be done with that understanding in mind. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR Trying To Leverage The Relationship (Relocation)Actually think you handled this well. She is using the moving talk to try to push you into moving in with her. Only thing different I would do if you haven’t already is clearly lay out your boundaries. If they are unacceptable to her then she can take a walk. No need to waste yours/her time. Women can be guilty of signing covert contracts. Why you need to be clear on your boundaries. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Any good podcast or YouTube channel recommendations?Rian stone stuff is great he just put out some great content the other day. I really like his breakdown of the field reports. | /r/askMRP | 19/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck happened?What the fuck happened is you started taking about having kids with a girl who you have only been dating for 3 months. Nothing wrong with being aligned on kids,but setting out a life plan is a little much this early. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Wife keeps asking if everything is alrightGood leaders delegate, if your knocking out some tasks and she is looking to help then give her direction. You don’t have to do everything yourself. My guess is she is getting less attention because your on mission (good). I would just make a joke about it when she asks. Make sure to smile when you respond. Smile more and flirt with her and add an ass smack for good measure. | /r/askMRP | 18/08/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong? When is it time to give up?I can attest to that. Did the work and turned things around. Then went full retard and got mad that what I was doing was working. why did I have to do all this work and all she has to do is fuck me. Realized I was being a bitch and finally got my shit back together. Luckily I internalized some of the lessons so I didn’t fully revert back to being a bitch. Pass a couple of shit tests and started working out again, turn around has been much quicker this time. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | My wife dislikes that I do not take her seriouslyCan u give examples of stuff she says that makes you laugh? | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | (married with children) Trying to regain my individuality by being more active away from home, but without the feeling of abandoning my wife with all the work around the kidsLong as he speaks the contract out loud it isn’t covert. I am going to do xyz tomorrow so if you want to xyz today while I watch the kids so you get some time off too. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | My wife dislikes that I do not take her seriouslyAre you laughing because you really think it’s funny or are you just laughing to be “alpha”? I am going to take a wild guess and say you are forcing the laugh to try to act cool but your have a touch of the T’ism and don’t really know how to apply amused mastery. Maybe spend more time STFU, lifting and reading and less time trying to be alpha. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexIncome is the only thing that matter. Any savings or investment is considered marital assets. Doesn’t matter who’s name is on the account, it’s getting split. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexBad move. If they find out about it he will get absolutely fucked in divorce court. Your going to lose half your shit don’t make it 80% because you tried to hide 10k worth of shit. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 0 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexMove her stuff out of the master bedroom seems like a desperation move to me. Reeks of a covert contract and its an extreme play right out of the gate. Without having time to build frame and learn the ropes, she is going to go ape shit and he won’t have the tools to handle it correctly. 20 bucks says he will end up out of the master bedroom and it will have set him back months on his MAP. He need to read and learn and run a MAP for a few months. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sexFirst get the idea of you have a large 401k and she doesn’t. Once you signed the marriage license it we, not hers and mine. She gets half of everything accumulated during your marriage doesn’t matters who’s name is on the account. You been married a long time and as long as she isn’t being a terrible, a dead bedroom and her losing weight isn’t that hard of a lift. Personally I would go to married red pill (I am there now) and give it a year of hard work and see what’s happens. Worse case is you … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 14 | How has MRP affected your relationship with your parents?Guy sounds like a hero putting up with her bullshit and not ending until you were grown up. Def not in his best interest and it’s not like his son appreciates his sacrifice. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | laundry and logicFirst couple Rian videos he talks about just this case. Doing it to her specs on her timeline vs your specs to your timeline. Simple answer it do it yourself. Best response would be to smile and spray her with some water. | /r/askMRP | 27/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Messed up big timeAnother posted mentioned this quote “. Women will forgive you for being an asshole over and over but she will never forgive you for being a pussy”. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to not be socially awkward in my relationship. Often get mistaken as being serious or standoffish since I'm quiet a lot of the time.When you don’t have anything to talk about just to do something fun. I would recommend mixed martial art or bjj. Get you out of the house and you get to meet new people and def have something to talk about. Never hurt to be able to handle yourself in a fight | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Wife gets disrespectful when she doesn't get what she wants.She is repeating the behavior because it get the desired effect. When she isn’t getting her way she says mean shit so you blow up. Now your the asshole and you give in because you feel bad. This is the same shit my 7 year old daughter does to my wife (doesn’t work on me). If your five year old son/daughter said something like that to you how would you respond? Then just do that. When she is saying this terrible shit to you, just imagine her as a little girl having a temper tantrum. Worst thing a… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | I think I passed a shit test for the first timeBest moved I ever made was doing a cash budget. Weekly spending is withdrawn from the bank and we each get set amount of cash. With a little budgeted on the cards for gas’s and online orders that are needed. That way she know exactly how much money she can spend. Plus I alway think it’s a strong move to physically give her the money each week. | /r/askMRP | 13/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Overheard my fiancé talking to her sister about our relationship; were LTR & engaged.Sounds like every women who bangs a stripper during her bachelorette party. if your not married to a women and shit is so bad your going on Reddit for advice to fix your relationship you run as fast as you can. | /r/askMRP | 13/06/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I think I passed a shit test for the first timeYour failure is not having her buy in to your financial goals before putting a ring on her finger. An issue that need to be corrected ASAP. She is your first officer, she need to know where the ship is going and the plan to get there. My suggestion would be to sit down with her and ask her to explain why she thinks you should spend more money on the honeymoon. Then STFU and let her talk. Let her try to convince you, them make the call. | /r/askMRP | 12/06/21 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Initiate or not initiate. Can't get my head around it.Initiate when you want and don’t hold back. If you have anything you want to get done just do it and don’t save it for after you get shot down. This put you in her frame, her shooting you down should have no effect on your day. I have a few things I do if she passes. I have a few little things I do like read or play the guitar. | /r/askMRP | 12/06/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | 60 DoD Week 1: YOU MUST LIFTThis is what weight lifting machines are for. I know this isn’t something a lot of people recommend but in your case it may be the best option. When ever I hurt my back and still want to get a pump I use machines. They don’t work as well as free weight but it’s better then nothing at all. I would also get professional help to be sure doing everything correctly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/21 02:12 AM |
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