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His issue is either lack of experience or inability to pick up on social cues quickly. It takes time and lots of conversations for a man to intuit when a woman is interested and when she's just being sociable.
/r/seduction16/10/24 10:02 AM
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I disagree, humour has served me well in seduction. Moderate smiling helps to break the ice during approach and mid-conversation. The trick for me is to use it sparingly especially at the beginning. It's better to let her know who you are before you start letting loose with the jokes. A joke can be a great opener when done right. It can also backfire if ill timed or inappropriate. I find that humour works best as an icebreaker or a way to come up for air. The latter refers to when you're diving …
/r/seduction16/10/24 09:48 AM
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This is a very mature response that's so hard to find on Reddit. I'd begun to think that this site is simply full of adolescent incels. Daygame is hard indeed, especially when you're starting out. It gets easier with time and eventually enables you to grow as a masculine social being.
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:20 AM
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This is 100% cuck mentality. I've learned from experience that women respect and are attracted to men who adapt and take action instead of complaining. Dating is difficult nowadays. So many women have been brainwashed by social media into shallow, entitled and immature adults. This however doesn't mean that we should give up on dating or blame it on feminism. I've dated a lot of perfectly normal, feminine women who don't buy into toxic feminism. It's hard to find them but totally worth the effor…
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:30 AM
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It's not 'backwards'. The reason I prefer other men's opinions over those of women is because it actually works. I started getting laid regularly when I stopped following traditional ideas from Hollywood and women's magazines. These sources rarely tell you to stop pedestalizing a woman, project your intent, escalate or other useful methods that actually work. Cosmo advice is terrible and will either send you on a dry spell, put you in the friend zone or force you to compromise your self respect …
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:00 AM
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I hate to agree with him but it's true that women give the worst dating advice. I wouldn't listen to a woman's advice on seduction if it was the last option I had. You all tend to mislead men into thinking that being an undesirable nice guy caricature is the way to go. Honestly I don't know why you women do this, it's counterproductive even for you.
/r/seduction12/10/24 04:48 PM
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Agreed, we must temper our regardation.
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:09 PM
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This is true, counter-intuitive and kind of sad. A lot of men go through hoops to learn seduction, start approaching and finally start getting laid on the regular. Then their self respect and esteem begin to tank and they're confused about what went wrong. Usually, success equals higher self respect and esteem but the more you get laid, the less you love yourself. I think that's why guys that get lots of women eventually seek LTRs, trying to get free of the paradox of more sex, less self respect…
/r/seduction26/09/24 12:13 PM
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No offense taken. My comments are meant to reflect the nature of this subreddit. Regarding the special days, it's true that men don't really care about them. Aside from my birthday, I hardly remember anything else, anniversaries and what not. However, being in a LTR showed me that women do. As a result, I noted the days and set up reminders so that forgetting them would cease to be a source of unnecessary conflicts. This sub however tends to focus on the seduction bit, the how of getting laid. S…
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:12 AM
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Old style romance was meant to protect the woman from social shame and stigma. Nowadays the scene is different, women no longer need to fear the stigma of promiscuity in most places. As such, we need to shed the romcom idea of romance and embrace the reality of game as the best way to win the modern woman.
/r/seduction19/09/24 03:24 PM
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Some on here say romance has died and I must disagree. It's not romance that has died, it's the definition, the how of it. In the past most women were more conservative since they had more to lose in terms of reputation. Thus, the men had to walk barefoot on eggshells to avoid rejection. This defined romance in the past, but as society advanced the stigma associated with promiscuous sex changed. Nowadays the norm is to slut around so the rules have changed. A woman will hardly be offended if you…
/r/seduction19/09/24 03:17 PM
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What's that even mean? Are you 12?
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:39 AM
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It's very difficult to stop it. Women are naturals at deception and manipulation. A woman can fuck your brother in your own bed and act like nothing happened when you come home from work. It's better not to know. To improve your chances of being selected for bearing kids, do self improvement. Work out, make more money, dress well, improve game, stay informed and increase your all round skills. However, this just increases your chances. There's no guaranteed way of avoiding being the ultimate cuc…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:06 AM
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You can never, ever trust what a woman says. They all have an inborn aptitude for game whereas men have to learn game. Her actions always give away her true desires and intentions.
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:32 AM
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A study in my country revealed that more than 50% of men were raising children who had none of their DNA. Women do this often, they like your ability to raise a family but don't want their children to look like you. Thus they select a masculine, albeit irresponsible father and tie you down as the gullible, unaware dad. This happens subconsciously for the most part but consciously they have all kinds of ways of justifying their behavior to themselves.
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:54 PM
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A woman will always fuck the first guy and friend zone the "sweet nerd". You can take that to the bank. Better to be an asshole than a simp in real world dating.
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:42 PM
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Your honesty is refreshing. I get it, long dry spells can bring out the risk taker in all of us.
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:41 PM
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If anything, it's the exact opposite. On a date, being fun, humorous and emotionally intelligent vastly increases your chances of creating the sexual tension necessary to get laid. It's only when you act superior, entitled and spout useless facts and philosophy that you turn her off. It comes off as false pride, which reveals neediness and insecurity
/r/seduction05/09/24 07:09 AM
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Best answer yet, in my view.
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:57 AM
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One of my priorities in dating is to make her feel safe while simultaneously creating sexual tension. This is a complex balance but I'm getting better with every encounter. It's hard work but it actually works.
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:39 AM
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Be honest, would you really enjoy it if giving an enthusiastic yes was the norm? No build up, no engaging conversation, no flirting, no nothing, just "Hi, my name is Dickson Everhard, wanna fuck?"
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:26 AM
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There's this assumption many members of this subreddit have, that the ideal man is irrationally horny and ever ready to fuck. It really pisses me off because it's simply not true. The sex addicted fuck boy is the exception to the rule, not the majority. It's actually sad since such a mentality creates an aura of shadiness and desperation which actually makes it much harder to get laid.
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:20 AM
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Porn. That's why. Probably the source of this entire thread.
/r/seduction05/09/24 05:11 AM
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True. Porn is toxic and has really warped the expectations of young minds. I think the existence of this thread is proof of that. In porn it's basically anything goes, no investment in terms of self care, confidence, education or ground work. This creates a terrible entitlement mindset that is a real handicap to getting laid.
/r/seduction05/09/24 04:59 AM
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Great analogy. Too bad guys who struggle with women never seem to realize this.
/r/seduction04/09/24 07:59 PM
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Exactly. It's sort of a fake it till you make it kind of thing
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:55 PM
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The opposite is true. A man with a scarcity mentality develops a negative frame of desperation that causes him to be friend zoned by women.
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:33 PM
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A frame is a set of behaviors, self-beliefs and actions that you intentionally follow to "frame" how people view you. It's also determined by your self worth and boundaries e.g. I don't get fazed by shit tests, I agree & amplify etc. In seduction, this frame determines your boundaries, limits and expectations with women. That's why one guy believes that women take months to give it up while another believes that same day lays are the norm. In reality, both guys are right and their experience wit…
/r/seduction29/08/24 12:23 PM
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Yikes, what's with the giant wall of text?
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:41 AM
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Sure you're not trolling?
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:09 AM
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😂😂
/r/seduction29/08/24 06:06 AM
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Yeah, women are masters at setting and holding frame. They're like the actors who remain in character all the way up to the dvd release. This is one seduction tactic I actually learnt from women, master setting and maintaining your frame throughout the interaction, even into marriage and beyond.
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:57 AM
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I think for a woman, respect is more important than love. A woman loves her children but only respects her man. Do something to lose the respect of your woman and you'll see what I mean. If you're an unmotivated loser, a woman will not respect you and good luck on her giving it up. To them it's about the sexual attraction you create in them and the respect they feel due to your value. It's never about love with a woman, I think that's all Hollywood and crappy romance novels.
/r/seduction29/08/24 05:18 AM
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You might want to try changing why you do things. For example, go to the gym to improve your health by working on your body. Improve your social skills to relate better with others and improve your chances of making and keeping real friends. Learn seduction skills to make a woman feel more comfortable and trusting around you. This has always gotten me excellent results. Like it's about her, not you, even though it's actually about you. It's easy to fall into the default thinking of "must get lai…
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:57 PM
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This got me 😂😂
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:11 PM
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I don't get it. You're 28, 15 years of shagging means you started gaming at 13 years of age. Am I missing something here?
/r/seduction25/08/24 10:26 AM
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Don't pedestalize relationships though. They are a lot more complex than the pump n dump lifestyle. There's a lot of meaning if you find a like-minded woman and pursue it right. However, after the honeymoon phase you will realize that maintaining a relationship with a woman is much harder once familiarity sets in.
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:25 AM
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Still gotta get laid though.
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:22 AM
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If only the budding fuckbois on this sub knew. I struggled for years with this numbers obsession. The result was that with every lay my self worth decayed instead of getting a boost. Eventually I was hit by depression and it took therapy to rid me of the idea that sleeping around is the gold standard for a man.
/r/seduction24/08/24 11:59 AM
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This is my observation as well, the numbers obsession. There are real world consequences to this mentality as the OP has proven. Sex without connections is fun for the hedonist but eventually our human need for real connections takes over. Some members on here make it sound like seduction means devoting your precious limited time to gaming and screwing 1000+ women. The truth is that we are just human, hardwired to crave real connections. My own experience shows me that the pump n' dump routine e…
/r/seduction24/08/24 11:42 AM
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This is hard-hitting but it's true. I get why you're being down votted but I have to agree. As men we're sold this lie that if you sleep with 150+ women you'll finally gain happiness, respect and validation. That all it takes is one more lay and you'll finally be happy and love yourself. Few on this subreddit are aware of the depression that comes with this lifestyle. It's similar to any other addiction which all end in low self-esteem and depression. I have felt like this after living a life of…
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:38 AM
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CIT. Ha ha. You tree house dwellers and your clever abbreviations. Hilarious.
/r/seduction24/08/24 09:23 AM
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Excellent analogies, most guys fear rejection so they think hitting on an average girl will protect them. Also, guys tend to assume that an exceptionally attractive woman cannot possibly be single or in their 'league'. As such, most 9s & 10s end up being approached much less than their average counterparts.
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:36 AM
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No, when you master the sword you very much still need the sword. That's why you master the damn sword. Otherwise you go half cocked into battle and another master swordsman cuts your prick off.
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:47 AM
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Lesson 2: Buy the ebook "How to use emojis for idiots" available on Amazon for $1.25
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:42 AM
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Seriously what's with all the emojis? Are you a robot? Beep boop
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:38 AM
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Why? Like really, why violate the girl's privacy by telling someone who knows her that he slept with her? Kiss and tell is a sure way to make potential lovers avoid you like the plague. Posting anonymously on Reddit is fine but irl never, ever, kiss and tell. I'm assuming she's a grown woman who doesn't need to check with her relatives before screwing someone.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:39 AM
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Seriously? It's not like he's going to screw his own cousin. Why should he mind when she's actually chosen to date someone he's vetted and trusted as a friend? It would be a plus to me since a friend will avoid hurting her partly out of loyalty to me.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:33 AM
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My thoughts exactly. This mentality that your friend should not date your relatives up to the fifteenth cousin is juvenile. Personally I wouldn't care, in fact on the positive side she's dating someone I know and trust as opposed to a stranger who might be a creep. It's not like you'll ever sleep with your sister or cousin so why get all jealous and controlling over their sex lives? If anything, it should be none of our business.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:28 AM
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