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| 53 | Not a fan of the party scene | Key-Pace7150 | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 07:48 PM | |
| 11 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc? | Key-Pace7150 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:37 PM | |
| 11 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girl | Key-Pace7150 | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 03:55 PM | |
| 3 | How to pick up from live music venues? | Key-Pace7150 | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:37 AM | |
| 3 | Need advice after first date | Key-Pace7150 | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:02 AM | |
| 2 | Where do you go to find girls to date? | Key-Pace7150 | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:41 AM | |
| 1 | How to make the most of my time and meet new women? | Key-Pace7150 | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 07:24 PM |
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| 7 | Chronic Fatigue - Please helpI had chronic fatigue at 18 (29 now). Went from being a good track athlete—4:30 mile senior year—to not being able to walk up a flight of stairs without my heart rate jumping to 180 and nearly passing out. Constant muscle cramps, irregular sleep, etc. my life went to shit, slept 14-16 hours a day, didn’t have a job or go to school, felt like a failure and wished I would die bc I felt so useless and kept being told I was fine. Doctors never fixed anything for me, but a chiropractor who did a full… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Paternity Certainty: Why Men Historically Pursued Chaste WomenI’m curious about this. I’ve slept around and had no trouble getting relationships but the women I’ve dated were of varying levels of promiscuity, the least having been with 8 men and 1 woman. I’m really looking to find a “good girl” someone who hasn’t had hookups. I don’t care if she’s had a few boyfriends but ideally she’s only been with people she took seriously. I have a friend who has also slept around and attracts these kinds of girls often. We’ve jokingly called him the virgin slayer. I o… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/23 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?8 months and slightly over a year | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Do girls just not give a fuck about you?That’s just girls bro. Every now and then you’ll meet a genuinely thoughtful one that cares but most are just a roller coaster of emotion and that emotion puts them at the center of the universe. You’re merely existing in her world to give her a fun time and validate her, she’s not even thinking about the fact you live your own life and have your own world to share. It’s not good or bad, it is what it is. If you need validation find a thoughtful girl you gives a fuck. Otherwise, enjoy the vapid … | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Im gonna keep it real with you, not out of malice but because you need a reality check. You’re getting exactly what you deserve out of life. Look in the mirror and ask yourself “if I were a hot girl would I fuck me?” “If I were an employer offering a high paying position would I hire me?” The answer based on your comments and posts should be a resounding “fuck no”. But being honest is only the first step, once you’ve established you’re a 30 year old loser you can start on the path to becoming a … | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 05:59 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]If you got good grades why are you making little money? | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | would you rather have sex with one girl for life or will you keep having sex with different girlsOne primary partner for sex and romance and side girls for just sex. If it’s truly just one or the other I’d probably choose many girls | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of woman these days are participating in "sugar dating"? And how do you think it affects the dating market?I know two girls that has a sugar daddy. I know a lot of girls who’ve thought about it and have profiles to talk to potential sugar daddies. I’d say it’s on par with the amount that use only fans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 05:32 PM |
| 6 | N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme.This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:16 PM |
| 2 | A high "N count" woman is probably going to appreciate a man who is a good lover, more than a low N count woman will.....When I was a penetration virgin I knew the difference between good and bad head. Literally the first time I ever got it lmao. It doesn’t take experience to know some dude fucked you badly and it doesn’t experience to know some dude just rode you into multiple orgasms. Sex isn’t rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meWomen get pissed bc they know they can’t compete with younger women and shame men for it. Sorta how men hate on Uber successful men bc they know they can’t compete “god that guy is such a tool” aka that dude is rich/ripped/etc and I can’t compete. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Why does it seem there's many guys who do "girly activities" who get laid and many guys who do "masculine activities" who don't?I feel like this is a no brainer. I’ve been working out like crazy, doing martial arts, reading, hitting the gym, stopped drinking and hitting the bar (once in a blue moon I’ll go) and now, no girls. 3 years ago I was scrawny, couldn’t fight, alls I did was party and be social, I had a lot of casual sex. Girls should objectively like me better now, I’m more muscular, confident, smarter, able to fight but I’m less fun as I’m much more disciplined. Most girls who aren’t looking for commitment off … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | i only have less attractive women wanting to hookupDuh. We shame women for hooking up and then complain hotties aren’t giving it up for us. It can’t be both ways, bc women suffer more for promiscuity only women you’re a catch to will take the risk of negative social consequences for sex with you (bc you’re out of her league). Look for a girlfriend and you’ll get higher quality pussy. If you want quality pussy for hookups, make more money, become more charismatic and build an attractive physique | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:09 AM |
| 3 | All the good gamers I know have a genuine interest in lifeThe two best gamers I know (100+) are sociopaths that know how to sweet talk girls and make women the focus of their lives. They’re damn good at it though | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?You’re projecting this idea that by a man asking a question it automatically means “men good women bad”. Nothing like that was ever said. Nobody said anything about superior or inferior save for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?Thank you. It seems like pointing this out or even asking the question has got some women in the comments upset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?If a woman or man lies I’ll call them out for lying and/or question their motives if I believe they’re not being honest. You’re projecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?If I’m curious about something I’m going to ask a question lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?I’m all for women wearing nothing to raves. The point is clarifying the motive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?I’m all for seeing tits pussy and ass, I just don’t get why people aren’t honest about why they make the choices they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dress slutty for events like festivals, Halloween, etc?I hear that view point too, because society is restrictive and here you can be free, but if that’s really it why don’t we see more men with sheer underwear where you can see their dick and balls? I have seen men wear revealing clothes (sheer bottoms or assless chaps) but they’re usually gay, which feeds into my assumption that they’re doing it for the male gaze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go to find girls to date?I think you’re right. Ultimately I kind of knew this answer but was hoping someone had some creative solution I hadn’t thought of | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 41 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.I’m not saying my experience is the norm, but this is how my college experience went. Get to 4 year university at 23 (JC plus 2 gap years prior) with a body count of 2. I wanted a relationship. The first two girls I crushed on from class had body counts over 10 at 20-21 years old so I lost interest, never slept with them. After a few more girls I talked to I noticed a trend, a lot partied too much, a lot were low key alcoholics (binge drink weekends, always social drinking with their girls) and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesThey’re both attractive men at least in the face. They have average physiques. On is tall the other is 5’7 but always wears boots with dr Schulz to get a boost lmao Also, CA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI’m not a fan of it either. Now I’m no saint but I’m nowhere near 100 myself. I will say, seeing those two in action is something insane though, if we are out at the bar they just have some insane power over women. Btw yes I’m in the US in a college town | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 06:30 AM |
| 5 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesSome friends were hanging out and I brought up the story of that girl who put up 52 in a year and one of the girls in our group literally said “50 isn’t that much that’s like one a week”. All the guys looked at her like she was crazy lol. She deflected and said, “I have a friend that goes out multiple times a week and brings home a different guy most nights, she probably hit 50 in 2 or 3 months” 🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 06:25 AM |
| 11 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesThis is spot on. While I’m not an avid partier my whole friend group is. My roommate is literally a local DJ at the bar/house parties. That being so, I mingle with that crowd despite not really drinking or partying much myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:59 AM |
| 5 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesA poster commented that we attract what we are and I believe that is more the case. You don’t sleep around and being that you don’t live that lifestyle you’re bound to attract friends that also don’t and thus not be around these women who sleep around. As my comment highlighted I feel like I don’t know ANY women with body counts less than 10. If I met a girl I clicked with that was attractive and had slept with single digit partners I’d cuff instantly at this point lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesCompared to the guys in my immediate and residual circle he’s such a nice guy. I know 2 guys who’ve racked up over 100 bodies so to me he seems very innocent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI didn’t mean relationship in the sense of serious LTR, to clarify, but yes he saw 8 different women ranging from like days to a month or so, none were serious or lasted until he slowed down and decided to start seriously dating again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesONS one night stand. When we got to college he partied and did tinder and had some hookups after his first relationship ended. After about 8 short lived relationships/ons he went back to serious relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesDude I swear he just has an aura that attracts them to him. He met one on tinder (shocker), one at a college football game and the last at work. They’re all so sweet and loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire lives😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 3 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI’m not, doubt you would be if you met him. He’s not opposed to ONS but he generally goes for relationships and is a really good dude. Not a dog at all. Personally, I’ve noticed lower n count girls are more loyal and less dogs too. I need to break into those social groups lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 16 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI think you’re right. My buddy who’s n count is like 10-12 at 27, his last 3 girlfriends were virgins at 22, 24 and 30. I guess we attract what we are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 13 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI remember thinking 12 was a lot for a 21 year old, then my next date was 14 and then 30+ (lost count and who knows probably higher). I need to go to church lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 173 | This idea that women are racking up high body counts at a young age is greatly exaggerated, most women have fewer than 10 sexual partners in their entire livesI read the post and comments and feel like either the bubble I’m in isn’t representative of reality or the post missed the mark. The last 3 girls I’ve dated were 21 to 23 years old and their n counts were 12, 14 and 30+. Their friend groups consisted of girl with similar or far greater n counts. One girl literally had 52 guys in a year and had a tinder themed birthday party (you can’t make this up). Anyways, after going to college and meeting these girls I have to say my views on dating are very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Not a fan of the party sceneI really appreciate the kindness and wisdom | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Not a fan of the party sceneAppreciate the comment and advice, I’ll be implementing some of this in my day to day life | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Not a fan of the party sceneThis helps a lot. I’ve been hitting the gym, doing martial arts, learning to DJ amount other things and while it’s interesting I’m not putting my best foot forward in any one endeavor. Thanks for the comment and insight, I appreciate it | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Not a fan of the party sceneI’ll give it a read, I appreciate the comment and support bro 🙏 | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 08:39 PM |
| 8 | Not a fan of the party sceneThanks for the insight, it’s appreciated | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Not a fan of the party sceneConsidering moving. I guess I’m too..comfortable? I enjoy the smaller town aspect how people know each other here and are younger. Don’t like other aspects I’ve highlighted in my post. I might have to take the plunge and start over somewhere new, thanks for the comment | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 14 | Why aren't folks having sex?Because most people don’t know how to get laid. Full stop. As a guy/girl if you knew you had the capability to have sex with a desirable partner when you wanted, wouldn’t you? Many men are clueless when it comes to women, many women don’t want to fuck the kinds of men that are interested in them (in their DMs, tinder matches, etc). TLDR; Truth is many men aren’t desirable candidates and many women aren’t interested in the low value men they attract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?Personally it does matter to me. But how she got them matters too. If I find out a woman has a body count of 10 and 5 of those were boyfriends, 3 of them were people she dated but didn’t get into relationships with and 2 of them were vacation hook ups I’d be so much happier than if all 10 were tinder one night stands. How someone behaves sexually says A LOT about them in other areas of their life. “How one does anything is how one does everything” | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Tinder hookups ?Gotten 20 lays from tinder. Many have come over for wine and a movie, many dates turned into a lay. Never expected it, always was ready for it and always shot my shot to bring her back to mine if we were out for drinks | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Older men can't get women their age?If it’s a job violation it’s not illegal but prohibited and for the case of this discussion that’s similar enough to support my point. Age gap is not a “relationship violation” bc there’s no relationship police, it’s up to consenting adults to determine what they do and don’t like in a partner, age included. Some people are gold diggers and only date for status and wealth, we can say people shouldn’t do that all we want but at the end of the day the rich guy and hot girl are going to do their th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Older men can't get women their age?Right, because of legality. After 18 there are no laws preventing two consenting adults from engaging in consensual behavior. If YOU think it’s wrong YOU should abstain. If THEY don’t THEY shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Older men can't get women their age?In college almost all my girl friends in my major wanted to fuck our 45 yo professor (had an exciting life before this job, intelligent, oh and did I mention ripped?). I asked why they ALL wanted him so bad, their answer? He was a Dr. (PhD) and had ‘Daddy energy’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Older men can't get women their age?You didn’t give an explanation as to why one consenting adult shouldn’t accept the wanted consensual desire of another consenting adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 6 | Older men can't get women their age?This. I find most (NOT ALL) women speak based on their emotions. They might see a guy with a young girl and think “gross he should date someone his age” but then an attractive older guy shows up and she’s all for him. Again, not all women, but this has absolutely been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Older men can't get women their age?Lol at the comment thread. Yes, there are different levels of maturity from 18 to 23 but there are also different levels of maturity between 23 year olds. Judge the 23 year old for having a young gf if you will but I guarantee he won’t give af, he’s got a pretty young gf and she’s got an attractive older man; if they’re both mature and emotionally stable I bet they’re both happy and getting exactly what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 7 | Older men can't get women their age?My ex fucked her 40 year old teacher and my current gf wanted to fuck her 45 year old college athletics coach. My high school xc coach is married to an ex athlete 10 years his minor. Two teachers in their 40s married ex students 20ish years their minor soon after the students graduated. All instances were initiated by the females. Not saying what you said is invalid for you but I am saying that quiet a few young women I know had things for older men and actively pursued them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 05:59 PM |
| 39 | How much casual sex are the women that you know are having?At uni I was friends w a group of girls and it was average for them to have 10-20 bodies by 22. Some less some more. One fucked a teacher, one fucked a guy in the bar bathroom, one had a threesome w a guy from a bar w her friend and then denied having a threesome to her now bf (she told me she rationalized it as such, since she and her friend fucked the guy but not each other it wasn’t a threesome). That same girl literally went topless on the dance floor one night “bc it was hot” (I was in a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlI’ve gotten into it with her because of this but never said it was succinctly as you put it and I’ll definitely use that! | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlDamn she’s said like half of these lmao, although she did say it could be a girl I fucked before as long as there were no feelings bc she doesn’t have any friends she’d want to do it with | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Dating Market for a guy who just wants to settle with oneHoly shit I needed to read this | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlBroooo goth bitches are my thing how did I not know this. Ty 🙏 | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlThank you 🙏 | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlThanks for the insight | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlI appreciate your insight, she has had a girlfriend and a threesome in the past (ffm). She is truly bi, but if she pushed for a fmm threesome I’d dump her, I’m not bi and have no desire to invite another man into the bedroom. I’ve always wanted to have a threesome and believe I could pull it off if single again (had the chance twice before, fucked up both opportunities bc whiskey dick 😭) I’m not worried about this ruining the relationship bc I want to be able to enjoy the occasional ffm threesom… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlHaha goddamn, missed that one. Will read, thank you | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlThank you for the suggestion | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlUnfortunately in our area no bars are open yet or I’d be all about this, thanks for the suggestion | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlI understand the issues a threesome could cause in a relationship, it’s not that I’m unaware it’s just that I’m ok with whatever happens happening. Thank you for your suggestion! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Girlfriend is down for a threesome but doesn’t want to know the girlMaybe, I’m not stressing that tho. Have a friend in a LTR where they have a handful of threesomes a year and the relationship is healthy. Not saying that is or isn’t gonna be me, I enjoy my gf and want to enjoy another girl w her. Whether we continue the relationship isn’t going to be predicated by a threesome. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to go to a dance with another dudeGlad you handled it but you should be honest with yourself, if it were another girl that did this you’d have reacted the same. That’s ok. It’s ok to not respond perfectly, you learned your lesson. What isn’t ok is not learning from mistakes. She’s on thin ice, anything suss and “this isn’t working for me” is the way to go | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | LTR wants to go to a dance with another dudeShould have been honest with her. When she asked if it made you jealous or uncomfortable you should have said, “yeah, it makes me uncomfortable knowing you want to essentially go on a date when you’re in a relationship with me but if that’s what you want to do I’m not going to stop you.” Then let her actions determine if she’s nexted. As for your current situation, she’s nexted, no question. She willingly accepted a date from another man thinking she could get away with it. She knew she fucked u… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 05:04 PM |
| – | Men will continue to suffer in silence as long as women prioritize confidence over emotional opennessTrue, but since I’ve held a more stoic attitude with regards to my emotions I’ve had much better success with women in and out of relationships respectively | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Men will continue to suffer in silence as long as women prioritize confidence over emotional opennessPersonally, in my past relationships I’ve found my partners asking for me to be more emotional and more open and in those same relationships when I allowed myself to be more vulnerable I was respected less and looked at as more feminine. I don’t share my problems or struggles with my partners anymore (only my male friends) and never have this issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | **TINDER LAY - SHE CAME STRAIGHT TO MY PLACE**Perfect execution with the messages. Most guys take women’s anxieties about meeting as a sign of rejection when often they’re just nervous to meet a man off the internet. Now, we’ve all got to know, what’s the bio man?? | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What is the percentage of cheaters in your female friend group?When you’re getting to know a girl (or guy for that matter) don’t let the rose colored lenses dictate how you view them, meet their friends. Seriously, the people they spend the most time with invariably affect the individual you’re seeing, whether they like it or not. We like to think we’re individuals completely in control but the truth is we are incredibly adaptable to both our environment and the people in it, she’s going to pick up tendencies like her friends, think like her friends and act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/21 12:36 PM |
| 47 | Q4All: When it comes to casual sex, why does it seem like people are living in two different worlds?It has to do with standards, social skills, confidence and attractiveness. I am a male that falls into group 1. I’m attractive enough, have worked very hard on my social skills, physique and confidence. A lot of my friends are in group 2. I was in group 2 until about 23 when I met a friend that was a lady killer. Most of my friends thought he was an asshole but I didn’t care, I wanted to know “the secret”. I pretty much learned everything I could from this man and spent most of my time with him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?I actually have had the complete opposite experience lol. Not to discount your story, I believe that’s true for a lot of girls, but for me, when seeking casual sex a lot of the women Ive been with would love it when I escalated things and they got a bit rough. Nothing insane, but things like choking, slapping, hair pulling, rough sex and spitting in their mouth/on their face. The freakiest girl I had casual sex with I ended up dating and about 2 months into the relationship the sex stopped being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 09:18 PM |
| 5 | She said she didn’t want it the next day am I a rapist?You put your dick in the wrong hole while you were drunk. You didn’t rape anybody, you accidentally fucked her asshole which probably annoyed her/turned her off. Let it go, don’t get that drunk again. Move on | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 129 | Getting Feedback From Women Instead Of Trying To Get Them To Like YouLast part is spot on, I had oneitis for a girl my freshman year of college. Chased her out of having any chance with her. Slept with her roommate, suddenly my crush started to hit me up. Focusing on the girls who are actually interested can make you look valuable and attract other women. Crazy but it works | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 03:50 AM |
| 13 | Got beaten upYou’re missing the point. You want to know how to fight so you can avoid fights unless you’re forced to. You got your ass kicked. It’s happened to me and to lots of people, use it as motivation to learn how to defend yourself | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Should I take the opportunity to lose my virginity to a ~5/10?I’m saying if it’s important for you to like the girl you lose your virginity to, don’t fuck her. If it doesn’t matter to you, do it and learn from the experience. It’s up to you whether or not you let yourself get attached to this girl | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:07 AM |
| 13 | Got beaten upUnderstood. Who gives a damn about what other people think of you though, that’s your first issue. If your pride was hurt you need to deal with that but forget about the people that saw. Let it go, learn from this, don’t let it happen again | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:06 AM |
| 17 | Got beaten upFirst things first, be honest with yourself, did you escalate things? What role did you play in your ass whooping? There’s probably some responsibility you’re avoiding to take. Next, start going to the gym and training BJJ or Muay Thai. Seriously. Not because you want to go out looking for fights, not to be more alpha, but so that when shit hits the fan it’s you who’s in control of the physical situation not some other asshole. Lastly, go to the party. If he’s there he’s there. If you played a r… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Should I take the opportunity to lose my virginity to a ~5/10?If you don’t have any hang ups about having to have an emotional connection with girls you have sex with than yes, do it so that it’s no longer something you’re stuck on | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Girl keeps calling me her best friendThis. Put her on the back burner. You’re giving her to much attention. Put that attention towards other girls and if she’s even remotely interested she will notice | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 4 | How to keep 18 year old plateNo problem my guy, just know you’re the prize and she’s lucky to be with a guy who’s taking the time to actively make this more interesting for both himself and her. Remember, you’re in control and you’re golden! | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 5 | How to keep 18 year old plateShe asked you when you want to see her next so she wants you to take control. Text her two days before you intend to meet up and say, “Hey, I want to see you again this ‘x day’, I can’t stop thinking about the way you blah blah blah”...you get the idea | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | How to handle a double date?If the other guy bails, this 1000% | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 11 | How to keep 18 year old plateText her less if it’s getting dry. Tell her when you want to see her and keep it playful/sexual “I can’t wait to do xyz to you again” she should pick up on whatever energy you’re putting off. Casual conversation is useless with a girl you’ve got nothing in common with | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityThis, red pill teaches men the truth about female nature and dispels the Disney narrative so many believe (if I treat her nice, like a queen, then she’ll like me!). The problem is when men think that they are immune to the same principles you listed above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I’m kinda losing it boys. Talk some sense into me please.https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 07:49 AM |
| 8 | Movie recommendations that portray real masculinityJust watched Once Upon a Time in Hollywood and Brad Pitt’s character, Cliff, embodies masculine qualities like non reactivity, frame control over social and physical situations and is a physical specimen. Great movie, check it out | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Need advice after first dateI know this is true and fucking hate it... | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Need advice after first dateI know you’re right...I just don’t want you to be. The last 3 years have been a journey from getting no girls to getting really successful (2 9 mo relationships I ended and a series of plates in between). I’m tired of high n count girls that all act the same. I’m fooling myself into thinking I’ve actually met a good one :/ | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 0 | Need advice after first dateShe went as far as to show me all the other matches she’s got and her rejecting the guys (I was the last guy she messaged surprisingly) which is why I thought “ok a genuine good girl” which is a massive turn on. Thanks for the comment | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Need advice after first dateYou’re right, I’m on vacation this week so I’ve had time to dwell. Thanks for the comment | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Need advice after first dateHer aunt went to bed early (she’s a nurse) so we cuddled and watched an episode of a show on Netflix to end the night, definitely not super sexy but some physical interaction. Made sure to touch her and tease her throughout the night too (ain’t wasn’t helicopter parenting). Regardless, you may be right. Thanks for the input | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Fucking Ex-Plates Sister. Lie or nah?The only advice you need ^ | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 08:21 AM |
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