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| – | Why do men push for 50/50 relationship when women find most men unattractive?At least the women in my age group, make more than men in my age group. More women are college graduates than men. Women are the new bread winners. 50/50 split is being generous. Stay at home dads are going to be common at this rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 2 | If you let your girlfriend go on an all girls vacation, don't cry to anyone when she cheats on youI let my ex in our 6 year relationship go on vacations with her girl friends and she never cheated while on them. She cheated at her house with a “gay friend”. Women who will cheat will end up cheating regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 07:46 PM |
| 1 | We often talk here about how successful, high-performing women want educated and successful men, but do most educated and successful men want ambitious women?I don’t care, I would be just as happy dating a doctor as I would be dating a woman who works at McDonald’s. Just don’t cheat on me and scratch my head when we’re in bed watching tv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:23 AM |
| 0 | Would men actually be happy if dating were easy?It was easy in 2019 and yeah times were pretty good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 01:17 AM |
| 21 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?Women think they’ll find their millionaire husband here. So if your average and make less than a 100k a year you might have some trouble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:24 AM |
| 12 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menThat’s a problem I have, I have a ton of friends but I’m in mostly male dominated activities. I think about starting to drink again to meet women but hate how alcohol makes me feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 34 | Can you explain why it is far easier for women to have casual sex than for men?I had a 400 lbs roommate that was sexually frustrated one night and asked some guy on the street if he wanted to fuck, he said yes and she got laid. That would never work with a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:42 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulThats always the signal I’m waiting for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:24 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulI guess when you add the smile with strong eye contact I consider it fuck eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 01:56 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulI guess you’ve never had mutual eye contact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 01:48 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulExactly why I’ve never chased down a woman after smiling back. Hard to explain but strong eye contact when a women is walking by | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 01:45 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulI approach women everyday with a smile and fuck eyes. 10 percent of the time they give it back and I kind of just wait for them to turn around for the look back as they’re walking for me to to actually say something. But I’ve never gotten the turn around. I’m also at work when I use this tactic and can’t just holler at every women that walks by without fear of loosing my job. I’m a doorman at a manhattan hotel so have to be careful how I approach women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 01:39 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulI always wait for them to look back for my cue to run them down but they never give the look back. So I just always figured they were just flattered by the attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 01:27 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulEven when they give you the fuck eyes and a smile they keep walking away. Do they want me to run them down like a creep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.Hell even my cousin who’s white, over 6ft tall and graduated from a big university said he’s starting to have trouble recently. I think it may be social media. Women see all these other women they don’t even know in a “perfect relationship” and are pretty much competing with other women to have the perfect man and don’t want to compromise and feel like they settled for less. It’s just tough out here these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.I’ll find someone eventually. I’m pretty much hoping for a waitress or someone else that’s in the service industry. I definitely haven’t given up, I just work on myself and don’t let it get me down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.In the last 5 years since being single I’ve only been on 2 dates out of 50 that smoke weed. Most the women I match with are lawyers doctors and career women. Which is cool that I can attract high quality women but I’m definitely not a high quality man. I can get laid but they don’t see me as relationship material | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.I don’t think so, I never had trouble until a couple years ago. My problem dating is my work schedule. Hard to get Monday and Tuesday night dates going and anytime I try to meet up after work after 11pm women just think I’m trying to hook up. I feel like women want the perfect man and don’t want to compromise. I’m definitely not undateable because I’ve been in a long term relationship that I’m still close with but her problem with dating me was my work schedule and weed habit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | “I’ll take Anyone at this Point”I wouldn’t take anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantI feel this. I’ve been single for 4 years now and I’m pretty content. My standards now are no fat women, and has to be just as cute or cuter than the other 2 women in my life so I’m not tempted to cheat. If it happens, hell yeah but if it doesn’t at least I didn’t waste my time with a woman I’m not 100% attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 01:15 AM |
| – | Why do ladies often assume I'm not interested if I don't try to jump their bones on the 1st or 2nd date?So this is why dating has sucked the last year or so. I decided to take it easy and just be a gentleman and haven’t gotten lucky once since I started this way of dating. Glad I finally got confirmation to always try to go to their house after a date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Guys complaining about no dates/marriage perspective. Do you realize how cool is being single?I don’t mind the other stuff but it’s the always having a trip booked that I don’t miss about being in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:24 PM |
| 14 | Do you think there are more men willing to be house husbands or more women will to have house husbands?I’m one of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI don’t think so. At least not men in my age group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themJunior said it to Tony and then I think he used it on Ritchie hahah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:08 PM |
| 22 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themTrust me, the gay men that compliment me would love to fuck me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:45 AM |
| 28 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI get flattered when gay men compliment me and I’m not even gay. Women only care for the top men to give them compliments, any regular guy is considered a creep. As a man appreciates any affection given to him because we don’t get it often. You’re like a lady with a virginia ham under her arm, crying the blues because you have no bread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:41 AM |
| 29 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI don’t prefer fat women. Pretty much saying I’d rather a bunch of women I don’t care for stroking my ego than zero women stroking my ego. Whenever you have a lonely night you could get any one of those 100 ain’t shit men to at least comfort you for the night. I just have my hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:31 AM |
| 27 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI wouldn’t mind having 100 fat women begging for my 8=D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | when is a woman actually good enough to commit to?I learned to not ask about sexual history during my last relationship. Plus I’m 30 and expecting a woman my age to be a virgin is pretty unrealistic. I would be turned off if the woman is stuck up but a stuck up woman wouldn’t last with me anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | when is a woman actually good enough to commit to?As long as she takes care of herself I can commit. She can be thick or skinny but has to be healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | " If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert." this is worst attempt at equalizing men and women's issues in datingI eat out every woman I’ve been with and I still have trouble. But I’m average and don’t have a career and also not career Oriented | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Turning 30 and worried about losing desirability from men.I actually get more attracted to women as they age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.I think women are even worse when it comes to having friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life.Not 100% true. I have a lot of friends, get out every day and have had trouble dating starting a year and a half ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Women don't save money because they expect the man to take care of themWhere I live women my age make more than men my age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the main reason men are single 2023From my experience women are looking for career men. If your not looking to advance career wise, women think you have no ambition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 08:26 PM |
| 14 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemEveryone thinks they can do better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else find that most truly weird people you know are often in relationships?The nerds went to college and got good jobs. Women like men with money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:59 AM |
| 1 | If a woman in her 20s is not overweight is she automatically a 7 or above?Faces matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | It's time to face the facts: Women want to be approached. Men aren't doing it. #MeToo is a convenient scapegoatI approach women every day. I get way more action off dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance?I refuse to give big women a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Every time I’ve split the bill on a date I got laid that night. Have never gotten laid after paying for everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.The 45 year olds I know have no trouble picking up 20 year old women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:51 PM |
| 34 | CMV : As a man the best strategy to achieve success in dating is to approach it as one big jokeWhen I go about it this way it’s always a good date. Just need to learn how to treat the women I want to be with like the ones I don’t want to be with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?I guess the harshest public rejections I’ve had we’re from the uglier women I’ve approached in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Why do low quality guys just not lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?Tried lowering my standards and 5s and 6s are my superficial than a 7 or a 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 10:10 PM |
| – | Do you feel that some people's dating standards have gotten out of hand?I’m the young guy on the side unfortunately. Hoping one day they’ll marry one of these grandpas and divorce them and I’ll get the house and divorce settlement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 06:35 PM |
| – | Do you feel that some people's dating standards have gotten out of hand?That’s why these 20 year old women end up dating grandpas with ED issues. What 20 or 30 year old has his own place, makes over 200k these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 15 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityThis is it 100% my ex left me because I didn’t make enough money so she started dating a doctor 15 years older than her and shared him with another woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityI’ve yet to match with a hospitality worker unfortunately. Every date I’ve been on since being single has either been a doctor, surgeon, lawyer, lab technician and once a beer sales person. Still looking tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityMy problem is women don’t want to wait until midnight when I get off work to go on a date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sexI don’t watch porn and my sex life drastically changed after the pandemic. It’s not porn. Women took their pussy back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 11:57 PM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterOral is my favorite activity in bed and eating out bigger women isn’t as appealing to me. And I can put up with a shitty attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What’s worse: being an overweight woman or a broke man?I got laid more as a broke man than I have now that I have money. Being a broke man isn’t that tough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:34 PM |
| 33 | How do celebrities actually find date ?Celebs are at parties and social gatherings often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Most guys don't like fake nails or heavy makeup. Guys, what do you do "for yourself" even though you know women find it unattractive?My weed smoking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.I had to raise my standards after a while. last 3 have either been some type of doctor or lawyer. Problem is I’m the opposite of a doctor or lawyer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.I wouldn’t say underdressed but I definitely questioned their outfits as well, but to myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.First time was at home and had a girl over. She called me out for wearing my everyday clothes and not wearing jogging pants or pajamas. Next time was on second date with a girl at a dim lit Mexican restaurant, was wearing slacks and a polo. Which is what I wear every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 02:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women don't have a reason to complain about men not putting in effort.I got called out multiple times for dressing too nice for a first date and now I dress how I would if I were to meet up with friends. Matched with this women 3 different times and would have good convos every time and when I would try and figure out a date to meet she would ghost me and message the next day like nothing happened and the cycle would continue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 02:08 AM |
| 8 | Money is SEVERELY overratedSchedule, use to work 9 to 5 weekends off. Now I work 3pm to 11pm Monday and Tuesday off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 12 | Money is SEVERELY overratedMy dating life was better when I was making 25k a year. I’m making almost 3 times that now and I’m having an even harder time now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?I would kill myself if I had a family life without sex. I don’t have sex now but at least I get to do what I want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 09:06 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Their valued because that Pusey is untapped Like a fresh spring in the middle of a jungle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:15 AM |
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