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Thank you for the PSA. I will respectfully follow it and I will stop posting. A while ago when I found the sub I had a rule for myself that I will post comments only if I feel like my male POV adds something of value. I have generally received good feedback, but over time I found myself posting more and more and sometimes it has been thoughts & comments of lesser value. Sometimes I realized that myself and deleted them. In any case, this is your space and and it is more natural for me to find mi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 01:45 AM
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Being happy & encouraging is enough.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 02:04 AM
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You are purposefully oversimplifying it. It's not simply "ageing" - humans also age from when they're 6 years old to when they're 10 years old. The wall is the age at which you are permanently past your peak. This is not the same age for all women, but it exists for all of them.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:08 AM
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You just called the entirety of /r/TheRedPill incels.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 06:09 PM
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Like others, I also recommend the Easy Peasy Method. Just follow it to the T. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 09:39 PM
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I seriously doubt you can't step away for two minutes to turn on the washing machine. I already said I have been able to do certain house chores, at times. But we are talking about OP's man, not me, in this thread, though I appreciate the curiosity.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 07:52 AM
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i can rotate laundry while i work, go to the gym at lunchtime, have a walk on my less demanding meetings, slouch around in yoga pants and a business shirt instead of dealing with a skirt and heels, put dinner in a slowcooker at lunchtime so it's ready for dinner. Good for you. I have also done some of these things while working, at times, though my WFH job is not as relaxed as yours (I have no such thing as "less demanding meetings"). My job as a fitness trainer is nothing but nonstop meetings, …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 07:35 AM
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Now, allow me to also share an opinion from the POV of a man, who works WFH full time in a high paying job - it is not easy. Onlookers may think it is less stressful, great for work/life balance, no commute, all that. I say, it is closer to bringing your home to work, rather than your work home. When your office is always nearby when you're home, the residual stress from work never really goes away, and it becomes more difficult to disconnect from work completely. Now, from experience I will say…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 01:35 AM
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What has he done that matches narcissistic behavior?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 12:08 AM
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As mentioned, I am good to help anyone willing to put in the work. So ask away.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 03:40 AM
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I am a man and a weight loss coach, so here's my 2 cents on this. Currently I'm in nun mode, hoping to lose 35-40 pounds over the next 6-8 months. Firstly, congratulations on starting this journey. This will have a massive effect on your life in every sense, more than you can imagine. My question is, will a 30-40 pound difference really make a difference in terms of my attractiveness? This is a massive amount of extra weight. When this topic comes up it's more and more relevant to extremely obes…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 04:17 PM
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My answer was vague on purpose - I am a man and our experiences are bound to be different. What personally helped me was reading Marcus Aurelius' book "Meditations", just to form the correct state of mind of living life according to nature and respecting the natural truths. I've heard many women also praise the book and stoicism. In my case I had to get my immense fixation to control everything in life in check. I had immense anger at how there was seemingly no sense or logic behind women's whim…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 10:04 AM
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Has anyone gone through "anger phase" after being redpilled"? The answer is clearly yes, hence it being called a "phase" in the community. Phases are by definition something temporary. Phases also tend to be something necessary. Anger is how many of us process information that can be difficult, even shocking. It can be healthy, as long as it's channeled into something meaningful. Given the subreddit - that something should be self-improvement. My best advice is getting completely rid of any guil…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 09:41 AM
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He needs to start fasting. See if you can have him look into the Snake Diet YouTube channel. I am a man and I also had weight issues- I lost 70 lbs on the Snake Diet and I can confirm that it was 100% healthy. I combined it with weightlifting but even just walking 30 minutes a day is enough exercise to lose the weight.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 11:09 AM
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This is great and I am happy for you! He probably thinks the same - by getting physical with him more often, he now feels that you've also become more affectionate with him. It's always a two way street.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 01:26 AM
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Agreed, despite that the bar for relationship forums is through the floor. The response to anything remotely challenging in any relationship to these people is some jambled mess of the words "red flag, toxic, abusive" and demeaning slurs for men & women (especially men). Reality check - relationships aren't fun 100% of the time. A lasting relationship will have its fun moments and its challenging moments. Both parties will need to make sacrifices. A woman sacrifices her body to give the biggest …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 08:27 PM
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To make a man actually fall in love with you you will have to trigger his protective instinct somehow. Men want to protect and love vulnerable women and find domineering “independent “ women unattractive. Women who see themselves as extremely intelligent are in some danger of coming across as domineering and masculine. Humility is key. Men who flaunt their competency can also be insufferable. You can be smart, have intellectual pursuits and still be soft, feminine and a follower. But men very mu…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/22 11:40 AM
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Indeed. Personally I never found Emma Watson attractive at all. I do not find 'sass' attractive as a trait, and in her it's very obviously not an act for her roles, it's a core trait that she maintains. I like women who learn humility and project kindness and warmness, not superiority over others. Emma Watson evidently likes to wear her suits and be that "girlboss" every feminist dreams about being.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 10:15 AM
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The pic you are referring to is making the rounds because Emma Watson is also known as a man hating feminist, so naturally anti-feminists will use this chance to mock her. Personally I think this is pathetic and I actually pity Emma Watson. She had her childhood stolen from her by Hollywood and hardly got to see anything resembling normality in her life. A cocktail of drugs, alcohol and meds will make you look like a dessicated corpse on a bad day. Also I quickly thought of Brandon Fraser when I…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 12:19 AM
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My parents were never apart for more than a day for the first 32 years of their marriage. Not even different cities. It was still difficult the first time it had to happen. It’s strange how trust doesn’t seem to grow further beyond a certain point. But as the cliche goes, marriage is about trust. I see a lot of people saying he’s making an excuse but so what? I think striving to approve of everything your man does is a lot more marriage degrading than a man travelling alone. Dig around in histor…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 02:02 AM
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Men fall in love when their protective instinct is triggerred. This is why a man is more likely to fall in love with a woman if she shows vulnerability. So, for a woman vulnerability is a key part of love, while for a man it is responsibility to care for the vulnerable being that is a woman. Likewise, a woman must care for the vulnerable child that she has born, and is why often it is said that the most true & pure love is that of a woman to a child.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 10:29 AM
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Just like sex on the first date makes a woman look easy, access to a man’s resources early on has the same effect. I do think that most men are open to the idea of paying for dates, but are simply anxious about being taken advantage of. This is rampant in online dating- women literally using Tinder for free dinners and money (“can I borrow 500$? Need it for rent pay you back next week deletes number next day, matches a new guy rince repeat”)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 11:21 PM
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Dumping him and finding a good man will always be better than dominating a weak man and trying to control him into a better version of himself. That never works and will always perpetuate misery, both for the man and the woman.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 05:30 AM
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Conservative men accept that women & men are different, and therefore will accept women as they are. This does mean that (genuinely) conservative men will be less judgemental.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/21 05:26 AM
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What an insane level of disrespect. What's worse is that I can't even figure out an outcome that may have worked out in her favor. So, she berates her man and tries to dominate him - it works. He bites his tongue, lets her figure out her own way out of 25,000 in debt, despite she accumulated it in the first place, while continuing to financially support her and indirectly taking care of the debt anyway. Why would she want a man that has bent to her temper tantrum anyway? It's still a loss, for h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 04:28 AM
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Any career that has to do with working with children - preschool teacher, elementary school teacher, pediatritian. Also, any kind of nurse.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 02:12 AM
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There's no point in calling him disgusting and calling her a victim when they're already a married couple. They should work it out. I gave my honest idea on how.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 11:01 PM
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It's probably not finances. It's probably the prospect of such a radical change overwhelming him. A change of environment, with less noise and less responcibilities will let him think this over clearly and probably see he would like a child as well. See if you can be among nature together with peace and quiet anytime soon.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 07:57 PM
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Unless your man lives in fantasyland and is completely oblivious about female anatomy, he's probably aware that most women's breasts sag to some degree. Men do like breasts, and usually love any kind of breasts. Something I've noticed about men & titties - every guy I have known, including myself, changed "preferences" for breasts in their life. Preferences always changed to more closely suit who I was dating at the time. I liked looking at breasts on the larger size as a teenager, but then I me…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 11:42 PM
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We experience love by our protective instinct being triggered. A woman with an innocent look, slender frame, glistening puppy eyes in need of help with something is the most attractive and loveable thing in the world to a man. So, you can probably also understand why men aren’t all that interested in a tough, financially successful female CEO who’s a feminist and can fix her sink alone.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 01:05 AM
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You are aware he’s in demand, but do you know if he shares your marriage and children life goals? Find out. Ask him to just chill somewhere over a coffee or something and see how he feels about these things- point the conversation towards life goals and dreaming it up, you can make it fun. Be candid and say that in this day and age you would like to devote your life to family and see how he feels about this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 02:25 PM
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He probably knew you were lying and giving him the trickle truth as soon as you started. I have no idea if your situation is salvageable at all, but get with your man and have a calm conversation with him, as two adults. As much as the situation is distressing to you, explain why you were acting the way you were and that you strongly regret it and hate the situation it has created. Then say that you are going to have eyes only for your man and not lead other men on and accept their attention. He…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 02:07 PM
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The way I see it - on one hand, life today is radically different than it was for our parents. Now it's virtually impossible to buy a home, even on two decent incomes. It's harder and harder to retain a quality of life when having children. On the other hand, I think our way of thinking has become more childish than of our parents. My parents had me at the cusp of the fall of the Berlin wall, my dad had a small school teacher salary and my mom was freshly out of high school - my dad is 6 years o…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 08:57 PM
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Keeping busy is the best way to do it, plus eating small. The people who stay slim all their life eat quickly and lightly, and spend big chunks of the day fasting. I recommend a good nutritious breakfast in the morning, something like eggs, bacon, or fruit, then fasting through the day, then eating a tiny snack just before going to bed. As long as it is tiny, it'll actually help you sleep. Give the above 2 weeks. It takes around a couple of weeks to completely get used to an eating regimen and a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 11:31 PM
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Be around kind, humble and honest people. Get into creative hobbies. Pray to God. Read the Bible. Treat yourself well and be kind to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/21 11:40 PM
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No. Female sexuality is much more "fluid" than male sexuality. On average, bisexual women are much more common than bisexual men (for men it's much more likely to be full-on straight or full-on gay). This also means it's more common for women to go "in" and "out" of a homosexual phase - if a guy likes guys as a young adult, he's probably gay, while for a woman that's not how it might end up being. Also, let's face it, out of all types of humans on Earth, few things are more attractive/aesthetica…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 10:01 PM
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That is understandable and luckily seems like a workable issue for the most part. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 01:59 PM
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I'm having a bit of trouble telling whether you even want this, from how the post is worded. Seems like you want to have your cake and eat it too ("submitting" while still having actual control over everything). Here's what I mean: He is making progress and plans, but it isn't what I would do If he'd do it exactly the way you'd envision it, would it really be him leading? Or would it be him being a proxy for your ideas and plans? You haven't actually started internalizing the idea of it in the f…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 04:22 AM
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The notion of it being possible for someone to be "behind" in hookups seems ridiculous to me. Is there some kind of quota for how many times people have to have random sex nowadays? You can talk to and date men to try to find a good man, without hooking up. Men won't outright admit it, but they will still overwhelmingly prefer a woman with no sexual history to an "experienced" woman. Hence why women who are looking to marry make themselves look "pure" with longer skirts, and also lie about their…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/21 03:12 AM
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How you look is not the only thing that is important to a man, but it's the number 1 most important thing. Nowadays most men are so lonely that they'll even settle for fat women, but to any man that has any standards, being fat is going to be a dealbreaker. Why? Because it's repulsive. It's repulsive on men too, but the "largeness" of look and silhouette is more tolerable on a man than on a woman, because men are meant to be "large" (though more like a bear than a walrus), while women aren't. Al…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/21 08:56 PM
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That's my bad, should have checked the username before I responded. And you're totally right about that. It's part of a really creepy and godawful new trend to psychoanalyze and psychologize everything. Now every single behavior that seems even slightly strange is called a mental condition of some kind, and I feel terribly bad for the children that have to endure this kind of brainwashing. Back in the day when we were growing up (I am 30, a guy), it was considered normal that some girls were "to…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 05:46 PM
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It's totally okay and normal for you to feel this way sometimes and that doesn't make you any less of a girl. Femininity comes in different shapes and sizes and you will find your own way that makes you happy, with time. Just remember that you have support here, and that more people than you know went through the same.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 03:10 PM
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not sure if HVM since HVM would have figured out this purely physical issue on his own, I'd think He is figuring it out. He needs the rest and he's putting himself first, as a man. Surely this is something you respect? RPW perspective would be trusting him that given enough time, he'll have reached a full solution to this by himself. If you want to earn his commitment you'll have to support him through this adjustment and avoid being a net drain to his energy at all cost. And once you have that …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 11:02 AM
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Also, feeling weird at the notion of being a girl sounds a bit like gender dysphoria Please stop it with the casual psychoanalyzing. It's disturbing. What OP is going through is a normal part of growing up and little of what you said brings any reassurance or support.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 04:29 PM
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It is impossible to make a foolproof plan for your entire life. Sometimes both you and your husband do everything right and things still go wrong. People don't change over months, rarely over years, but people sure as hell can change over decades. Also, what if you cheat on him with your boss, who's more affluent, intelligent and powerful? You have to take into account your own fallibility as well and realize you also have comparable shortcomings that you also have to keep in check. RedPill does…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 09:38 PM
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Yes, but it's hard for me to imagine an honest standpoint that would ask this in this way unless you've never seen /r/TheRedPill . It's this sub, but 1000 more aggressive about the self-improvement. No sympathy is offered there, the answer to everything is "start lifting today", "try harder", "read more" or "improve your looks/dress game".
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 02:49 PM
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Women are told that men are wired to chase and it's a mistake to text first. Men are told that approaching first all the time shows you're needy, have no abundance, or is conducive to training yourself to seek female validation. Like others said, just be normal. Do what makes sense. Both of the above seem ridiculous to me at this point, as is having a rule about "texting first/texting second". Seems arbitrary.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 08:52 AM
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Yes, there are. What is RP in its essence, if not male (and female) self-improvement? Not sure why you made the question so deliberately broad.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 05:10 AM
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Gay men treat overweight men the same way straight men treat overweight women. It’s simply the fact that looks are the most important thing to men when it comes to attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 01:49 AM
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Well if he's been like that before (prioritizes himself, is driven towards his goals) he'll be like that again. People change over decades, not over months. Listen to what people on this sub have to say on inspiring him and encouraging him to be stronger and more masculine. There's many good threads on this topic. Women have to realize that you have a lot of power and there isn't a single man out there who isn't affected by your words and your behavior, if he's remotely interested in you. You ca…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/21 12:21 AM
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Sounds like you'd like him to prioritize you, but also for him to behave as if he prioritizes himself and his mission above all else. To be quite frank I am not quite sure if any man could pull this off.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 11:44 PM
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You're absolutely right. Be ruthless. Sympathy, like respect, has to be earned. Men deserve neither goodwill nor trust. And also, things only ever happen to you, you never cause them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:13 PM
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I swear sometimes I feel like half of what people say in this sub is some variation of the phrase "It's just sex, what's the big deal". As if sex isn't fundamentally why we're here and why every single one of us even exists. And as if humans can remain sane without physical touch and intimacy. To men, sex is a form of self-expression. Not a healthy thing to be obsessed with, I agree. There's many other things men should want, but it's not possible to put sex at the bottom of the list, or anywher…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:55 PM
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The answer is no. In plain terms, women want to be wanted, men want to be needed. In threads focused on casual sex/ONS you'll see that women will rarely say they are all that fond of these, and I do believe they say the truth. However, if you have not shown to be a strong man, yet you demand commitment, you will look doubly weak in her eyes. Commitment is something she must demand, not the other way around. If you've given her complete power, complete control of the direction of the relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:26 AM
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Not uncommon, but if that happens the friendship is usually over, or wasn't meant to be in the first place. Men can't be friends with women they're strongly attracted to, and women always want something more from men they're fucking. Exceptions exist to every rule, but that's how it is 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:36 AM
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Sadly a lot of the women who actually enjoy the experience of being chased by a man are incredibly fickle and emotionally immature. They love leading men on, only to boost their own self esteem and then either reject him or continue feigning interest in order to use him for validation and favors. Men don't really get good at identifying women who are like this until they get burned at least once, or see a friend who was burned like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 09:49 PM
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Personally I think that people in committed long term relationships should stay faithful to one another. I also think that women are most definitely not able to compartmentalize sex the same way men can, so it can be a cruel thing to do and cause a lot of emotional pain. This seems like a bit of a twisted reading of how true patriarchal societies used to work, which is also how my country was until not that long ago. Basically when marrying their wife, the condition men would face would be to al…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:47 PM
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You are not blue pill. You seem like you would fit in quite well over at r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:11 AM
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Be open, genuine and non-judgemental and most women will be candid and honest with you. And usually you'll find out if she's that type long before she straight up states it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:35 PM
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People will lie, either straight up or by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:28 PM
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It does happen more often than you'd think, but only high value women do this. The ones that are really in touch with their "deep femininity" and as a result are attuned to these things and when it can become something more than a mere hookup. I've seen a friend of mine who's a high value woman (engaged, very attractive, 10/10 looks & personality), set up a friend of mine with a friend of hers, which ended up becoming a lasting relationship. Both the man & woman being set up were 6/10 I'd say, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 10:06 PM
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supposed “dealbreakers" there’s often a very thin line between a preference and a deal breaker so that’s something to take note of. No there isn't. Something either is a dealbreaker or it's not. There isn't a "line" between yes and no, that's a logical absurdity. If someone says something is a dealbreaker, but it ended up not being one, they were dishonest. But we don't go calling everyone dishonest right off the bat because that is rude. If a woman says that anything below 6'' is a dealbreaker,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:47 PM
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I disagree that they aren't masculine. They are quite masculine, they take on a bit of a stage role. Given their music is aimed at teens, they act like teenage boys, while having the bodies of full grown men. They obviously lift, and they are very dedicated to their craft. I see very few straight up feminine traits in them, I guess one I could call is having a hairless body, neck to toes. Also the make-up and accessories, but I am a bit confused by things like clear skin and clean nails consider…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:00 PM
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/r/redditmoment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 10:27 PM
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Taking random jabs at religion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:27 PM
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religious weirdo Redditors just can't help it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:18 PM
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Outliers are relevant. And this is more common than you'd think, as I mentioned. I'm not going to preface all of my comments and posts on here with NAWALT and NAMALT just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 07:04 PM
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Back in my RP days I remember how utterly shocked I was at the rate at which assault convicts have their girlfriends visit them in prison to give them blowjobs. Many of whom got in jail for assaulting the very person who's licking cum off their cock during visit time. When you've lived in fantasyland for 20 years of your life, reality is going to seem even weirder than the literal fiction that was fed to you as the real world. I actually do sympathize with women, due to how they were fed an equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:17 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:26 PM
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FDS endorses blackmail and fraud, and calls male children "future rapists/abusers". I hope you enjoy the great company they keep over there, if men on here seem unsympathetic. Men are in a tricky spot. On one hand when they defend women, sympathize and act kindly, they're called a variant of "white knight" or "simp", by both men and women. When men don't do the above, they're some variant of cold, uncaring monster. Next thing you'll say is that "there has to be balance". I'd say go ahead and pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:10 PM
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Do you think there are subtle differences that manifest between 17 and 24 years of age? (late teens/early adulthood)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 05:15 PM
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Are you really asking me how an 18 year old teenager can be both fully developed and still have some childlike exterior characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 04:31 PM
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A common thing I've noticed you /u/questionasker012 do is post threads that err on the side of apples & oranges, with the occasional straw man. Very commonly conflating sexual value with relationship value, which aren't connected apart from both being something to look for in a partner. Just as people aren't sexually attrated to degrees, degrees aren't required to have sex with a person. Ultimately you're being dishonest, as usual. You very cleverly picked out the male tendency to find late teen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:59 PM
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They see how he's "bad" towards everyone else and doesn't have a care in the world. Then he notices her and she is immediately drawn to how he's nice(er) to her than everyone else and wants to screw her. To that girl, that legit makes her feel special and she really thinks he'll change for her. She doesn't actually want to be abused, women are a bit silly and genuinely think he won't abuse her when she enters that relationship. He inevitably does, but she takes the abuse because hope dies last a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:39 PM
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I think a lot of the users of this sub, including OP, dramatically underestimate how varied male sexuality is, and how much it can fluctuate through a man's life. I mean, we're on the internet and male sexual interests aren't limited to what can be illustrated by PornHub categories. It goes way further than that. An ugly woman can seem quite normal to a lot of guys compared to what you will undoubtedly find a lot of men find sexually attractive, that can be disturbing. A lot of people will dismi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:52 AM
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It's normal for there to be a disconnect. Most people don't actually deserve what they want. It's widespread in both genders. You end up with what you're able to attract, and what you're able to keep. More often than not that's not going to be what you actually want, to the dismay of many women & men. Not saying everyone's standards are outlandish, there's people out there who would be happy with an average partner. But the opposite can be a problem too, having standards too low will also stop y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 02:35 AM
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Why are you asking a forum which is supposedly half redpillers “are you toxic”? What kind of answer do you think you will get? I would not be considered redpill by many RP users, mostly because I promote tradition and marriage as viable goals for a man in life, something that is disagreed on until this day in RP circles. Still, there’s married redpill and redpill women, both of which are marriage focused. So Redpill isn’t a single thing but many things. As for if it’s toxic, I reject that word a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:23 AM
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I just work all day. I have a career and also a side gig, and I also study in my spare time. I go out with a small circle of friends when I feel like I need the break, but honestly I don’t have much of a social life and I am content with that. My work feels more engaging and fulfilling than entertainment so I guess I am lucky. I do want to marry and build a family, but I have decided that I will take that step when i have created something that will have a life of its own, so I don’t have to run…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:09 AM
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ITT: women who have never cheated and never would
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:56 AM
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Every time birth rates come up the comments on here remind me of the utter misanthropy that permeates this website, and the entire west. How on Earth people are convinced the planet is overpopulated is beyond me, when the entirety of mankind can fit on the isles of New Zealand at a population density of the average metropolis. The world isn't overpopulated and neither is the increase of population bad for the environment. The cities are the culpirt. And yeah, Eastern European countries such as S…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 12:26 AM
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I'll second discussion places for religious women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 05:47 PM
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I guess the part I am sceptical about is how likely it is for them to have a "drought" long enough to settle for Billy? Chad & Brad can and will fuck a different girl each night if they have the abundance, so on the weekly they can spin 7 women as plates at a time, theoretically. I would assume most women are fine with sex a few times per week, so let's up that a bit courtesy of "the pill" to something resembling the male sex drive. Still not sure how possible it can be for a woman to go for any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:52 AM
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To me it's dystopian. Women & men should love each other, not let machines take over life for them. I am of the opinion that men should get stronger and manage what's stopping them from being able to settle down early, whether that's porn, or games, or low T, or any other scourge currently making men weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:23 AM
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I don't think women being hornier would mean they'll start giving the loser a chance. And they shouldn't, because these men are supposed to get stronger, not get pity sex. Women will go through the same steps, give Chad a booty call, if he hangs up give Brad a call, if all else fails get on a dating app, go through the 100 matches in 5 minutes and if no luck just buzzz buzzz time with the vibrator. Same as before Billy Beta won't even cross her mind, because he hasn't shown himself to be fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 01:06 AM
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Women will complain vocally about minor trivial things when they want to be reassured that they made the right choice with you. Very rarely will they be sure that you're indeed the "bestest man in the whole world" and early on they're likely to be dubious. So to avoid buyer's remorse they'll keep checking on you to see if you're a good captain. So no, she's actually not incredibly devastated that you missed the -30% cheese sticks when you were over at the supermarket earlier. She's bitching abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:52 AM
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I swear most of PPD is between the ages of 16-22 If that were the case how would you fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:33 AM
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Well, good luck establishing your dystopian society I guess. Not sure what else I can say. This is basically the female equivalent of the incels who keep saying they can't wait for the fully sentient sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:21 AM
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Yeah, male intentions on reddit are only ever interpreted in the least charitable possible way, it's borderline cartoony actually. If you demand regular sex from your marriage, you're a tyrannical rapist. But if you're not getting any without demanding it, you probably suck in bed, or you aren't a good husband. Furthermore, it's just sex, so what's the big deal, stop being such a sex crazed maniac, go see a therapist. And also you're probably bad at telling when she's in the mood, because men do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 12:18 AM
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How many women in the world choose to have children via this method? For how many women is this currently an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:44 PM
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Nowhere did I say it wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 10:13 PM
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Because believe it or not some people still want to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:35 PM
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Not all but I'll give you a couple, since I feel talkative today. The statement "I stopped having any and all respect for men after I saw the categories in porn sites". The only other response that rivals that one is "To men I am nothing but a porn category"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:34 PM
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Step 1. Take an RP statement Step 2. Oversimplify it to the point of it becoming a caricature, then present it as the opinion all RP users hold. Step 3. Ask RP users why they have such retarded opinions. For example, take "Women's SMV generally peaks in their 20s and tends to go down through their 30s, with RMV following a different dynamic" and turn that into "Women's SMV suddenly becomes 0 after 30, so why bother ever with an LTR, go sleep with college girls since that's obviously what RP men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 08:21 PM
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As someone who wants to live a traditional life, a traditional spouse is most fitting. If not, at the very least one that has concepts of gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:02 PM
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I might consider it if books were part of the deal, but as it is now I would go insane mere months in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:06 AM
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Like half of my comments on this sub were anti-porn at one point, needless to say I am for the complete ban of this filth and yes, men can't be trusted with it. Though I do appreciate that women go through the same epiphany about the true nature of the opposite sex that we men go through. It's rough, but I guess inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:23 AM
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That could very well be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:05 AM
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I'm a guy who went from 265 lbs to 180 lbs, ages ago, so I cut almost as much as you need to cut now. I kept the fat off pretty well since. I became very active, though I still have my occasional bouts of just sitting around at home all day. I occasionally train friends & family, to keep myself going. The things that helped me do it were: 1) I weighed myself everyday and looked myself in the mirror everyday. 2) I started fasting. The YouTube channel that helped me a lot was "Snake Diet" (still e…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 01:00 AM
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Not a forum that'll ever be exclusive to just women, or just men so you'll have to suck it up. We're a big dysfunctional family here and don't get me started on the female quirks we men put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 12:11 AM
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I did not say or suggest you're incorrect, I legitimately believe what you're saying is true, with the caveat that I presented. I have lived it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:48 PM
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Yes. I also think that women should only marry when they deeply love their husband and have immense respect for him. Men should only marry when they're attracted to their wife. Under the above conditions, sex shouldn't be torture, even if one side doesn't really feel like it all that much at times. In the same vein the man will go to work when he doesn't feel like it. In marriage lots of things will happen that the spouse will have to do when they don't feel like it. Teach the child a lesson. Fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:44 PM
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Women's respect is powerful, I agree, but only when it lasts. It can end at any moment for any arbitrary reason, and this is one thing men will never be able to wrap their heads around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:28 PM
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It just depends on the friend Pull out your phone and text that guy if he wants to hook up and see how he responds. If you're remotely attractive and he's not gay, he'll agree to it. It's about you, not about them. You want to have guys around you who are "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:24 PM
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Seems like marriage to you is only 1 step away from casual sex, given you have no concept of marital duties, and think that spouses should only do things when they feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:05 PM
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As some of the others said, they marry young. And you may notice they also tend to have many kids, so yes, religious men do fuck. As for the religions and cultures where male priests have to abstain - well, that's very few men, there aren't that many priests. Though men with enormous self control do exist, as difficult as it is to imagine this in our sex crazed culture. That's not even just religious people. Nikola Tesla was agnostic and he notoriously abstained completely from sex and masturbat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:39 PM
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Because being Zuckerberg comes with an ungodly amount of power and influence, by virtue of knowing powerful people and having access to anything and anywhere in the world you want, by the snap of a finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:31 PM
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I like how marriage didn't even cross your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:27 PM
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All other traits being equal sure, but that's never the case. In life you have to give something up to get something else. A career means she may not have had time for as many hobbies, and certainly with having time to be creative, or to do volunteering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:23 PM
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It's true though. It's almost in living memory here in Central/Eastern Europe that women were fine with their man being occasionally unfaithful, as long as he comes home to his family in the evening. And as long as he doesn't dishonor her by being public with his misstress, in which case he's getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:18 PM
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Cute, but I'll pass, not my fetish, though more power to you as I am sure it's been a good ride. You keep editing your comments there. As for being bitter, I'm not the one throwing a hissy fit trying to convince people sports are feminine. You wouldn't be reacting the way you did if it was something that was self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:08 PM
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Is that a bot account or what? Nowhere did I mention divorce in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:04 PM
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Found the chick that picked up soccer so she can get with the entire male soccer team. Proves my point that in 2021 people have lost grasp of any concepts of gender roles or what's feminine and what's masculine behavior. Let's me know how it goes with being masculine to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 09:03 PM
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Look at yourself in the mirror undressed and ask yourself if you like what you see (in skinny / fat terms). You should be able to see if there's any room for improvement. BMI isn't incredibly useful to gauge body composition, as fat, water and muscle all weigh differently per square inch. Let's take 2 people, with the same age, genetics, race, height side by side, but have them have different diets, activity, workout regimen and even sleep patterns. One can look toned, and the other can look "sk…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 08:56 PM
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Just coming to mention that DEXA scans can be altered by water contents and water intake. Like, getting a dexa scan showing you at 25% body fat, drinking a glass of water and coming back and it showing 26%. DEXA scans are still useful, but be mindful of that and be sure to have one done on you while being at least overnight fasted, if not 14 to 16 hours fasted.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 08:45 PM
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That being bossy, assertive, dressing like a guy, having male hobbies like video games or soccer will make her more attractive to men. Sometimes it happens, but what I can guarantee you will happen is that she'll attract low testosterone bitchy men with a "tomboy gf" fetish. This includes women who think having a degree and money gives them an edge with high value men. Reality is men don't give a fuck about these things. Bottom line is blue pill women make themselves attractive to the wrong kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:39 PM
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On a surface level it will look like expectations of men have sharply risen as of late. In the past it was enough to be a honest man with a job who is (fairly) faithful to his wife, doesn't drink too much and doesn't bring shame to his family. However there's more to this. Men in the past were much more masculine. Free testosterone in the blood and grip strength in men have plummeted as of late. Zoomers in their late teens have the testosterone levels of an 80 year old woman (not even exaggarati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:19 PM
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We're perfectly aware you lot spend a lot of time in front of your mirrors. There's never been a problem with that. When aging is discussed a lot of it has to do with aged women acting like they have the same appeal they had 10 years ago. Which is never the case, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:11 PM
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What's the question, why do RP men say mean things like "women age like milk"? Because TheRedPill subreddit and its neighboring subs are male spaces where men will engage in male banter and locker room talk. Sometimes when speaking outside of the sub, in a sub like this one men will still use these phrases because they're used to them, and you will inevitably be offended. As for why they are obsessed with aging women, they aren't really. Aging women aren't on anyone's radar over there, RP is pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:54 AM
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A patriarchal, family oriented society, where everything is family based. Each family is a sovereign unit, with 1 vote per family, man as the provider and the woman as the homecarer. The ideal society would be suitable for the above, where a single income can provide for a whole family and children can be homeschooled, or go to religious schools, or go to secular schools, depending on the background and choice of the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:58 PM
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I agree, we need more physical abuse against men, women should never feel accountable for violence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:08 AM
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I've seen quite a few examples of women in late teens/early adulthood still having no idea how much stronger men are than women. This biological reality just isn't taught anymore, or shown anywhere. Thankfully they usually have this realization in non-violent situations, like wrestling with their boyfriend or something, where he'll hear his phone ringing and push her off to pick it up. She'll feel instantly overpowered and probably her reality will be crushed for a few days. Men are on average 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 12:05 AM
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I specifically said physically abuse. Throw a hit, get hit in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:54 PM
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Women who physically abuse men should be met with retaliation to the abuse and have sense beaten into them. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 11:31 PM
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TRP men are focused on getting into relationships with biological women, who have no mental illnesses and are attractive. You can imagine how severely autistic gay crossdressers don't really match the above description. If a guy wants a relationship with an autistic gay crossdresser that's fine but that goes into fetish territory, which TRP mostly ignores. The goal there is to find a mentally healthy girl, while improving your own mental & physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 10:46 PM
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"People are attracted to what they're attracted to" - okay, given that this is true, there's no point in further discussion of these dynamics, or this sub, or the other subs, or any discussion of dating strategy at all. The thing is, it's not true. Many women will say that after leveling up their game in make-up, they started doing better. Men who learned pick-up finally got laid. I'd say the whole point of these subs and the "pills" is how they showed a lot of these things can in fact be "min-m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 08:45 PM
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It was Margaret Atwood, she wrote the book where women are very sad and very oppressed by the Patriarchy, which made men want this to be real life. Feminists also read it and thought this is a really bad way to live, so they tried as hard as possible to be puritanical as hell and to restrict female sexuality, female nudity in culture and to advance a competitive liberal capitalist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:43 PM
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If the econ you're contesting is some Chicago school shit or whatever, then I can't for the life of me understand why you wouldn't want people to be aspirational and strive for an upper-middle class living, with housewives and all. Anyway, it wasn't just the USA that had stay at home moms as the standard. I come from an Eastern European country, part of the Visegrad, that was devastated in two world wars and some extra ruin in between as well and until 20 years ago stay at home housewives were t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 11:35 PM
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Explain how doubling the volume of candidates for jobs doesn't depress wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:43 PM
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Are you saying that real tradcon men don't exist, or? What would a real tradcon man want, as opposed to what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:18 PM
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Women entering the workplace some decades ago basically cut earnings per person in this world by half. This is the reason why an average income isn't enough to support a family anymore. Previously it was, now it wasn't. There's other factors as well but the sheer number of people for hire compared to before is among the largest ones. Redpill men do not want to marry anymore unless it's to have kids. Some of us do not believe raising kids is good for the kids if both parents work full time. One p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:15 PM
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You just strawmanned a whole bunch of men posting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:37 PM
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Viewing things purely biologically is only seing half the picture. A human being can survive (biologically) for the entirety of their natural life on 6 glasses of water, 1 meal a day, clean air and some sunlight. Outside of that they just need clothes (depending on weather/location can be optional) and shelter. Are we going to call everything outside of the above "nice to have"? Because I don't see a difference between calling community a "nice to have" and sex a "nice to have". There's survival…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:01 PM
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I would only ever disclose my net worth to a woman if we're in an LTR, married and about to have kids. And if she's expressed a desire to be a housewife with me as a provider. Anything short of that is not her business to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:30 PM
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Be strictly business professional, if I have to interact with her at all. If I don't, then ghost and move on. Also, try not to mess with coworkers, because that almost never works out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 01:27 PM
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Yes, on a metaphysical level
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 10:07 AM
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Absolutely all human relations are transactional. Some say that the only selfless love is that between a woman and her child. There's even particularly nihilistic schools of thought (if you want to get really blackpilled) that say that women don't even love their children unreservedly. They expect to have control, and receive obedience. Hence why you see women openly hate and resent children who are wholly and completely disobedient, and they will punish and exercise total tyranny over the child…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:27 PM
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Don't ever compliment women's appearance, there's absolutely no point. They'll think you're a creep, or that you have ulterior motives, or that you just want to get in their pants. Instead compliment their behavior, their skills, their taste in music/film/whatever, their mannerisms. Things that take effort or they're consciously doing. There's plenty of ways to do this without being a simp, certainly to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 10:07 PM
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I'm as disgusted by all the porn & gaming addicted losers as everyone else. I just also can't help but feel bad for them because... few people do. Like, if at least a few of us don't have empathy for these poor lost souls, virtually no one in the world will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:13 PM
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I am aware. More of them are dead bedrooms than you think. Men search for a relationship for the sex, but stay for the extra income and the companionship. Porn addiction doesn't go away when you have access to regular sex, and I can't count how many times I've heard stories of relationships falling apart because of fucking porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:52 PM
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HardER was a bit iffy for me. Given how easy it is for women to get sex, the way you said it didn't exactly make it as clear as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:48 PM
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The average man goes months without feeling physical touch by another person and you people are still at it. Holy fucking blackpills, you really don't consider most men human beings. That is, you see the fuckboys being fuckboys and cooming, and you assume that's most men, when in reality most men are pathetic porn addicts who sit at home all day and have no hope for the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:50 PM
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Attributing malice to all those poor fuckers who are addicted to porn is one way to go about it. Still, I can't help but notice that the feminist framing always assumes that women only react to situations, and never ever create them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:47 PM
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By my own standards there's barely any person on this planet who hasn't cheated in some form. Porn addicts cheat all the time (yes, I consider porn cheating). I'm willing to elaborate on this if someone asks me, but the modern porn addict will imagine sexual scenarios with every single woman he sees, and no, that's not just "being a man". Women here will vouch for me that porn-free men behave demonstrably differently around women. Women are constantly cheating due to so many of them having tried…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 06:37 PM
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Absolutely not. Neither men nor women should watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 04:34 PM
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I don't know man, why is gravity evil? It makes us go splat if we jump off a cliff. Hypergamy is basically the same. It's not good or evil it's a force of nature. Men hate it because they are usually on the receiving end of it. They're the ones who get cheated on, and thanks to hypergamy it'll happen when men are at their lowest. The guy will lose his job due to his company facing a lawsuit or whatever and his wife will branch swing to an old friend who happens to have kept his job and she'll al…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:42 PM
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You see this because you're able to empathize with men, due to you being a man. Women can't. To women most men barely even exist, beyond being automatons that exist to make her life easier. Do you think about the feelings of your diesel engine when you rev it, or your coffee maker? It's roughly the same for women when you ask if they think about the feelings of the guy who helps her with homework, or a coworker who lends her his keycard when she forgets it at home. That is, she doesn't see the v…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:22 PM
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He will take charge if you let him. That also means not taking it upon yourself to dictate the pace of the relationship. Some guys prefer to take it slow, or are just very busy. If he's not taking charge when it's time to plan or during the dates, he's not interested, or he's not that type of guy. Either way probably not going to work.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 08:40 PM
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OP mentioned her n-count is low, so we'll have to take her word for it. I get what you mean, though, and yeah, casual sex is even worse than past boyfriends, because an LTR wasn't even attempted there.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 08:12 PM
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Yes I am fully aware that most men watch porn, and that women would find it quite difficult to find one who doesn't in some shape or form. I acknowledged this elsewhere in this now deleted thread. This is also the point that all the porn advocates made in this thread, as if something being widespread means that it is suddenly good or normal. I know that there is no better argument to be made, though. "Just accept it, everyone does it" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:23 PM
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Past boyfriends are a negative for most men, so this would make this a green flag, not a red one. I can't help but notice that you didn't mention any positives about yourself in your post, apart from how independent you are and how you have two academic degrees. Neither of these things are something men care about at all, though it is good that you're able to take care of yourself & have hobbies while you're single. You're in the right place. Keep reading this sub, keep cultivating your feminity…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/21 03:59 PM
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A brief search of the keywords "porn induced ed" yields many articles describing the condition, as well as various pieces of research. This isn't anything new and your calling it pseudo-religious and religious is openly willfully ignorant. I'm not going to point you to any specific article or make any attempts to give you knowledge on the topic, as you've expressed no interest and you can do so yourself anytime you wish. I'll just say that certain connections between habitual use of porn and hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:31 PM
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You're either being willfully ignorant or you're just arguing for the sake of arguing. I suggest you make yourself familiar with how common porn induced ED is. And how outlandishly rare it is for people to give themselves hypertension due to overdoing the salt intake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 09:45 AM
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Salt doesn't lead to ED. You can tell these empty copes around, or you can stop watching porn and have 1 less burden down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:21 PM
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Men are willing to be flexible with their standards when they're horny and the opportunity is there. Others will never have any standards at all and have sex with anything that moves and is female. For some even the "female" part is optional, they'll settle for anything that's a warm body. The above is probably why so many women seem fine with eating their way to a double chin. Personally I think it's a tragedy and men should absolutely stop having sex with fat women. Same way women should stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 05:08 PM
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People in this community acting like this is the first time they see people being their absolute worst on social media. "Here's a twitter post of people being mean, discuss." What kind of discussion is there to come out of it, exactly? It's two people who are very conventionally attractive being happy and derping around. They were fuck buddies at the time and they've since decided to be fuck buddies officially later as well. Makes for a good story to give the lonely fucks out there hopium as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:42 PM
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What's "cringe" is not answering the question, but I know that's asking a lot from someone whose idea of arguing is misrepresenting people's words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:26 PM
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I didn't say that anywhere, nor did I even imply it. Redditors and lack of basic reading skills, name a more iconic duo. Notice the word necessary in Porn isn't necessary for masturbation unless you're already an addict. It means that guys who can't rub one out without porn are addicted. Where in my comment did you even get that idea? That somehow when men masturbate with porn automatically become addicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:12 PM
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So porn isn't used for masturbation? Do you know how dicks work? Believe it or not there are still men out there who aren't completely desensitized and can "rub one out" without the help from porn. Porn isn't necessary for masturbation unless you're already an addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:22 PM
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Of course sex toys for women are a problem. Men will never be able to compete with vibrators that can make a woman orgasm 10 times in a single session. Men get tired, can get sick, can have a bad mood and have a varying libido. Sex toys are always there and only need their batteries changed ocasionally. And just like men can get desensitized to sex and normal looking women, women can get desensitized over time from sex toy use. Not to mention any other potential health hazards, like what plastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:15 PM
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I didn't really touch on the implications porn has on women, because that'd have made my response really long. Porn is a huge problem for women (as users) as well, with how sex toys have evolved to basically look like cute little accessories women can put in their purse and have zero shame or judgement. And yeah, the weird "alien dildos" are a red herring, and not really the main problem, contrary to what some reddit users may think. It's simple, slick looking vibrator thingies that bring a quic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:58 AM
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Thank you kindly for your response, and yes, that does make sense. To me & my idea of masculinity, this is what men desire the most from a relationship apart from regular sex. The examples you provided are spot on and are what I often think about when I try to imagine the kind of wife I would like to have. You could say that our vetting process is said "taming process", or more accurately, seeing how women react to it. The unfit ones should leave fairly soon, while the fit ones should stay, perh…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 11:46 AM
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This is a topic that I find immensely interesting and would love more discussion/theory on that front. Women always expect and hope a man will change in their selection process. Men are turned off marriage due to this prospect and how they see it changed their friends who married before them. Is it that women find the idea of changing/taming a man exciting, but don't actually want to "win", or for it to ever happen? I do think so. But as a man I find the idea of being perpetually challenged by m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 01:45 PM
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I did. That was the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 09:09 AM
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There are two main reasons for this. One, a lot of men tend to be late bloomers. So, for a woman who wants a mature partner, or more mature than her, who has his shit together, her chances will be better with a man who's in his 30s or early 40s. Two, most women still prefer to date up instead of down. I am sure that we'll all agree that a woman who makes 6 figures won't be happy with a guy who brings home a lot less than her. Women tend to resent men who are less successful and who, in their eye…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:32 AM
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Men who can't handle being a man and having these troubles have long since killed themselves over it, and have probably not told anyone about it. I'll explain, and give examples. Alcohol addiction, and alcohol abuse are a fairly common coping mechanism. Any kind of addiction taken to a ridiculous extreme - playing some stupid game 14 hours a day, jerking off to porn 6 times a day, eating nothing but Cheetos and pizza for weeks on end. Both men and women have addictions, but only men take it as f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 07:28 PM
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Because I find women with a hairless body to the toe inherently more sexually attractive and feminine. Increased sexual dimorphism, all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:23 PM
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Physically: Slim shape, long hair with a hairless body, pale/white complexion. Nothing else, I don't really have a type, I like the kind of body my girl has, as long as she has the above characteristics. Sorry, fat, lots of hair and darker skin are all dealbreakers for me. Personality wise: I like sensitive women, with a calm, kind demeanor. Women who are smiling, act in an endearing manner and bring their warmth everywhere they go are women who will always stand out to me as relationship materi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:55 PM
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That's a good question. I actually haven't thought too much on whether things like carousel riding or alcoholism are feminine or masculine. I guess they're still feminine, in a way in which they haven't integrated their feminity, but instead have embraced the chaos and are living a terrible life of acting on primal impulses and hedonism. I do think Eastern European women can still be womanly, don't get me wrong, even when they're doing typically male stuff such as electrical engineering. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:49 AM
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In that case, if that's what people are referring to, they would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:41 AM
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I would move if this is what my prospective spouse wants, or if she needs to in order to pursue studies or a goal she has. I am fine with going to the USA, or anywhere else really as long as it's safe, has clean air & water and access to food & medicine for us to survive. As for moving countries to find a woman, it's "Black Pill" thing, telling western men who have too low of an SMV to move to East Asia where men on average will be shorter and poorer than him. But I have also noticed people sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:54 PM
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I will tell you why men do. This is a problem only at bar ONS situations, if you have sex with a guy who you don't know outside of that evening, or vacation environment, or dating app or whatever. In that situation, you've given up the sex without any talk of or desire for commitment from either party. The guy has zero reason to care about the prospective kid, because for all he knows you fucked a different guy each day and he has no idea or guarantee the kid is even going to be his own. And I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:32 PM
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Then I can partially relieve you by saying that there is an idea that transcends all the "Pills", and that is the idea that relationships are a constant struggle for dominance. If a power vacuum is created at any point in a relationship and you don't fill it, she will fill it. This is an idea that Red Pill agrees with, Feminists agree with and Blue Pill at the very least acknowledges. Red Pill holds the dominant view that "if you're not winning, you're losing", Feminists will say that the woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 06:43 PM
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Do you think feminists are redeemable? A lot of them actually are. Experienced redpillers say that a lot of the passionate feminists are strangely submissive sexually. As long as they still have that femininity in them and let you take charge, it can be made to work. Just make it clear from the start that your goals in life involve creating a family and raising children, if she's intimidated by that enough to leave, let her, if not, then give it a shot. And yeah, it's true what they say, women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:24 PM
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I personally find both unintelligent and highly intelligent women unattractive. The former I find way too easy to dominate and as a result the lack of challenge becomes a turn off, not to mention the thought of having unintelligent children. Highly intelligent women from my experience all act like complete spergs, by which I mean they aren't feminine. For every Sharon Stone there are thousands of women with the same high IQ, but without even a hint of kindness, sweetness or compassion. Like, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:24 PM
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