KeyPepper7205 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	"Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst advice possible This is how organic works, you go out for an activity, and enjoy the activity, make conversation with the people around you, you make friends. Those friends know single people, they introduce you, now you have a bigger net. This bigger net catches more opportunities for you. You being friends with so-and-so lowers the bar for entry, lowers the awkward pressure of striking up conversation. Now your in the orbit are many potential partners to interact with. Sooner or later you meet someone who fee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 02:23 PM
–	"Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst advice possible Again focusing on the end result and not enjoying life is ruining the experience. It’s like when you are so focused on your party being fun you ruin it. If things are too planned and you don’t let things unfold organically it ruins it. You can throw a fun party but you can’t force a fun party. You have to focus first on enjoying life. Once you take the pressure off the situation things start happening organically. Trying to force a dynamic is always going to be a failure. You aren’t failing beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 01:04 PM
–	Why do women give themselves passes for trying to defy a "real man" but men immediately get shunned when they try and defy women? Haha, do not defy me! I will defy you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 12:08 PM
–	"Don't make dating/relationship your goal" is the worst advice possible But focusing on the end goal of dating ruins dating. Fun is the priority in flirting! Having fun with other humans is the priority. When you are having fun you are more attractive. When you are letting your guard down and just enjoying life you are at your most attractive. Women will approach you. If you look like you are only there to trap a woman to take back to your place, women clock that as inauthentic, and it’s NOT attractive. Women want to see a man being good at things, go play games. Fl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 12:06 PM
–	Poverty has the opposite effect on virginity for each gender I would argue that women in poverty are less sheltered (childcare supervision that would put them in protective situation). Being in this very vulnerable position allows them more exposure to sexual abuse, assault, sexual explicit materials/comments. So, yes they are more likely to engage in sexual behavior. Don’t think that is a gender unique thing though. Lower class males are also more likely to engage due to all the things listed above, but they aren’t at an advantage (socioeconomically) to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 11:58 AM
1	[ Removed by moderator ] Agree, some people don’t understand how to resolve conflict. You are going to find this on both sides. That being said I think women tend to grow out of this behavior faster than men. In my experience (don’t come for me, this is strictly my experience do not extrapolate) men are much slower learners when it comes to conflict resolution, and stay in a defensive stance much longer into adulthood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/26 11:50 AM
1	It's not "men act, women are", it's "men's skills are recognized, women's are taken for granted". How much “good parenting” content is made and consumed by women vs men? I can’t find exact stats on who produces and consumes more, but I as far as I can tell it’s mostly women. I think men who are consuming that content are absolutely better at it than men who do not. Self help book industry is mostly led by women. To say women aren’t actively working to improve themselves is completely incorrect. I know that men are also looking to improve themselves but I think the vast majority is physically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:26 AM
1	It's not "men act, women are", it's "men's skills are recognized, women's are taken for granted". How much “good parenting” content is made and consumed by women vs men? I can’t find exact stats on who produces and consumes more, but I as far as I can tell it’s mostly women. I think men who are consuming that content are absolutely better at it than men who do not. Self help book industry is mostly led by women. To say women aren’t actively working to improve themselves is completely incorrect. I know that men are also looking to improve themselves but I think the vast majority is physically…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/26 07:24 AM