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| 1 | Bela Delgado on tiktok- I think everyone here needs to hear this. | Key_Chef_3314 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:16 PM |
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| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Only have an ass when I consistently train😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?5’3 but the calorie conundrum is still dismal down here- I can’t imagine maintenance at 4’11. I used to be a competitive swimmer so I was all skin and bones no matter how much I ate. The absolute shock I felt when I quit and found out that I was indeed capable of gaining weight (skinny fat after years of only cardio physique😍). You’re right about the eating clean and staying active- at some point you’ve gotta grow up and learn to live your life in a healthy way, without restricting like a maniac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Oh you’re absolutely right in that fit girls will go for fit guys. I also feel like fitness in particular is highly correlated with financial stability because you need the time on your hands to count calories, regularly go to the gym, and obsess over a half inch of bloat around your waist- and it all goes hand in hand with being accepted by others in your circle. I feel like the girls in my yoga, pilates, soulcycle, barre classes and such all have very similar lifestyles to me and date people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:43 PM |
| 8 | CMV : I’m starting to see the effect of dating app filters translate into the real worldI really don’t believe in dating apps and personally think it’s the most embarrassing way to meet a “significant other”. That being said, every single guy who approached me and asked me out or started flirting with me at a party- or even asked to be partners for a group project in class for that matter, was 6 ft+ or indistinguishably close if not an athlete or a friend of a friend. I think a lot of it has to do with confidence and what men are indoctrinated into believing about the way women per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?At my leanest, I had the lowest standards💀 Not that I looked worse when I wasnt training every day, but I feel like a lot of gym girls aren’t looking for “swole” guys as much as they are for decently lean guys. I personally have a weakness for humor and charisma over conventional attractiveness so I’ve been attracted to guys who’ve arguably never seen the inside of a gym lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Victoria’s Secret and such have successfully branded what’s considered attractive for ages and no matter how many men tell me they like a girl with (healthy) curves over eleven line abs, I can’t bring myself to believe it for some irrational reason🥲 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Exactly, I wish the poor women who struggled with weight loss (not due to hormonal issues) understood the simplicity of calories in vs calories out. It would save them a lot of misery and put the bs weight loss gimmick industry out of business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?A girl should be so lucky😪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?I feel like lots of people, including other women, assume we’re “naturally skinny” because we’ve just been conditioned to eat less by our mothers, or grew up not eating very much and it ultimately developed into a habit as an adult. It’s just more common in women because we don’t have as much pressure to “grow tall” or “get swole” growing up like men do and we aren’t expected to eat as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?I’ve been the same way most of my life but the reality is not that we somehow defy the laws of thermodynamics, we just don’t eat as much as we think we do (even if it’s “unhealthy food”). We ultimately end up burning everything we consume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:39 PM |
| 5 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Lots of chubby girls at party schools too lol, alcohol has way too many calories for something that tastes so horrid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Honestly I feel like a lot of college girls (more than guys) are overweight because of improper stress management. I felt the pressure to be thin wayyy more when I was isolated on my parents beach house for a semester with my almond mom and her trophy wife clique- more than I ever did in college surrounded by lots of fluffy white girls who were cute and not intimidating like the women who have the time and energy to dedicate their entire life to looking perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Amen. There’s nothing more unattractive than an insecure girl sucking in and contorting her perfectly normal body to look a smidge more photogenic (I speak from experience and posing comfortably will always look a million times better imo- still working on that lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Hey friend, I just want to say that if you’re ever feeling hopeless or dejected about your dating prospects and love life due to the internet (especially fringe communities like this PPD)- you’ve scrolled too far and it’s time to take a break. Dating, attraction, and love is the literal opposite of what dating apps make it out to be. Several people I’ve found myself attracted to are people I would have never “swiped right” on based solely on looks. And I’ve rarely felt “the spark” with most of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Fat distribution can make a huge difference but most people can’t avoid the puffy face that comes with excess fat even if most of their weight is stored in “desirable” places :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?I’ve had mostly women (and some guys) tell me they prefer a girl with a healthy bit of meat on her bones over a girl that’s very lean/“skinny”. I feel like the latter is considered more universally attractive though. I’ve always thought women telling me it’s ok to have a bmi above 18.5 were trying to make themselves feel better and change the standard💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you think of the fact that women still have the tendency of dating up financially?Ah yes society’s greatest pitfall, access to education. Also, “hyper educated”…really? Lmfaoo sorry this isn’t Rome circa 1616, but I’m sure the catholic church cunts who wanted to barbecue Galileo appreciate the show of support for their school of thoughtlessness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Is confidence really tied to dick size?I disagree. Confidence comes from the rhetoric you’re raised with and the beliefs you “choose” to internalize. Personally, I struggle deeply with confidence despite my accomplishments and fortunate upbringing. I know several beautiful or handsome, talented, and accomplished peers of mine (especially affluent ones) struggle similarly with self esteem because of their parents’ expectations and constant criticism. I will admit, the status, accomplishments, money, and whatnot do help to put on the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Male VS Female Fitness Mega-ThreadF19 MTWTFS 5:00am 3K run or 500m freestyle swim MWTFSS 11:00am yoga MWF 6:00pm - 7:30pm weight training or pilates TR soul cycle whenever I have time I think all humans look more attractive at a healthy weight, BMI, and body fat percentage. Both men and women look healthier and more fit with more muscle mass regardless of weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Women's standards are very reasonableI don’t dispute that, but the probability of finding someone who does meet your standards is many orders of magnitude larger. So even if the probability of a someone somewhere in the US meeting your standards is 0.085% it doesn’t mean your standards are unreasonable if your born and bred within that 0.085%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:38 AM |
| -1 | Women's standards are very reasonableThis is hilariously unreasonable considering it doesn’t account for the status of the girl and the social circle that would put her in. Every single one of my guy friends meets the standard of “not obese” and in essence “makes over $500k” because it’s a fraction of their liquid assets. This is bound to happen when you attend prestigious schools and live in high income areas because influential families that tend to hold onto at least one of their inherited estates and send generation after gener… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:12 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you prefer to get asked out directly or indirectly?B all the way, it’s usually obvious enough when there’s chemistry and sexual tension between two people so proposing we do something together that will eventually end up with us alone in a room together feels way more organic and exciting. Maybe it’s just me, but being asked out on a date like it’s an eighteenth century courtship between two people who barely know each other makes me cringe- especially if we don’t already have chemistry or a flirty/playful relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?real life example💔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?It’s because you need to be able to relate to the person you’re in a relationship with- it only makes sense to have at least the similarity of lifestyle you were brought up in, which is determined by ses. The life struggles of the upper east sider that had a major depressive episode over having to settle for Cornell because they didn’t get into Columbia would come across as straight up offensive to a person from any other economic class but met with empathy, or at the very least familiarity by s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] Q4ALL: How much do economics and class factor into all this?I think about this whenever the whole hypergamy and af/bb nonsense comes up. It’s much more common in elite circles for men that come from powerful families to marry a woman that’s at the very least in the same tax bracket if not a woman that comes from another influential family in their network. I find that it’s mostly men that have accumulated their wealth in recent years (“new money”), and on their own merit, that settle for women with little to no assets. Maybe it’s because they are still a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about shaving?Hahaha European wax center full body $360 + tip lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about shaving?I got laser hair removal because I personally preferred waxing to shaving and I figured if I’m already paying $400 a wax I should just go ahead make it permanent with laser instead, great investment if you’re someone who prefers to be hair free be it for comfort of aesthetic reasons. It was a combination of both for me but I’ll admit I mostly did it because I didn’t want to have to keep waxing and wanted be able to wear a bikini without any planning or forethought about hair removal- which I ful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Lololol yeah such a shame I’m pouring millions into ur countries economy for education and assets while your neckbeard ass is defending the archaic puritan views of the monarchs your people ran from💂🏻♂️👑 Come on now, not very patriotic of you🥺🏈 As for being expelled from your shithole country, I’ll gladly hop back over to my native Canada where I have protected reproductive rights🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?I’m over the educating, and I have time just not the patience or good will…jeez keep up man. This is purely for my own amusement🤡 Sorry I’m not immersed enough into the no bitches sphere to understand what Pinko’s supposed to mean😫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?People also used to think you could sail off the edge of the earth and tried to barbecue the guy who tried to correct them🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 10 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?This is such a poor understanding of sexuality and intercourse, it’s quite sad if I’m being honest. Insufficient sex education is to blame I guess. Regardless, sexual intercourse is NOT an action performed by one party unto another- the term INTERCOURSE itself is defined as “communication or dealings BETWEEN individuals or groups.” thus an interchange occurring between two parties. What you are describing as one party “getting smashed” by another is closer in definition to an assault or attack- … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Ah okay, it’s all starting to make sense now. I don’t have the patience nor the good will to educate the willfully ignorant. Good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?Please learn the definition of sexual intercourse before claiming your twisted ideology is something universally accepted. Regardless of how commonly held this misinformed position is, it is flawed by definition and demonstrates a tragically poor understanding of simple biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 14 | Is sex inherently degrading for women?This is such a poor understanding of sexuality and intercourse, it’s quite sad if I’m being honest. Insufficient sex education is to blame I guess. Regardless, sexual intercourse is NOT an action performed by one party unto another- the term INTERCOURSE itself is defined as “communication or dealings BETWEEN individuals or groups.” thus an interchange occurring between two parties. What you are describing as one party “getting fucked” by another is closer in definition to an assault or attack- d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALLmao I honestly can’t even blame you here. These women who are supposedly unhappy about your behavior and insisting you change for them must really not have options because the only logical thing to do in their situation is move on and find someone that actually meets their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALPersonally I think it’s pathetic if a) he can’t go a week without sex and b) he’s both not interested enough in me and too desperate to wait for an organic moment to have sex, so I would probable pump & dump and be on my way. Men that get it on the reg never act desperate especially when it comes to someone they’re actually interested in, they know how to play the long game. Just because I won’t tell a guy how to act doesn’t mean I’d hesitate to drop him if he seems like loser to me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALFurther, sexual compatibility being the foundation of a relationship is really not a sustainable model for long term relationships because orgasm triggered neurotransmitters flooding your brain is going to make you miss red flags and let things slide that would otherwise be nonnegotiable- hence bad framework for something serious like marriage. Additionally, he can fuck whoever he wants and get sex from whatever side piece he desires until we declare exclusivity- so I’m not restricting anyone’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:10 PM |
| 9 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALJust because I want to jump his bones doesn’t mean I should- impulse control is a valuable trait in adulthood. Also, how is A WEEK too much time to “waste” building a relationship with someone who is a perfect match in every other aspect?? I also seriously doubt that if you both have a healthy sexual history with several partners then anything that’s lacking sexually couldn’t just be resolved with healthy conversation and experimenting. Once again, I seriously doubt two sexually experienced indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 12:00 PM |
| 10 | Making a man wait for sex is an AWFUL strategy that ENCOURAGES him to pump and dump you and see sex as an END GOALNot this again lol. I just said this on another post but I’ll say it again- both men and women don’t rush into things with people they see a real future with. I personally (and literally all the college aged women I know) will “pump and dump” guys we’re quick to sleep with. The guys I sleep with without caring to get to know first and building respect for each other with are guys that are nothing more than a pretty face and abs. There are plenty of attractive guys, but only so many that have a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Some women are ring pop women and some women are diamond ring women and there's nothing wrong with that.This is absurd lol. Either this a just a blatant double standard or OP and those who agree are so far deep into this delusion that they honestly can’t see through the bs. Both men and women don’t rush into things with people the see a future with. I would most definitely not introduce the guy I sleep with on first meeting to my parents, because he’s probably not a catch and I only slept with him to scratch an itch- nothing more than an attractive face at best. It’s incredibly hard to find a matc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?I guess it’s more like I can see an aesthetically innocuous guy- like I have no opinion or feelings towards his looks, but if he can bring a room to life with his social skills (not really just a personality trait but something that requires skill, practice, and initiative on top of being extroverted) then I develop an interest in him. I guess the physical attributes then play a role in whether that attraction is simply platonic or more than that. The 10 who has never really worked on his people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | What makes a man "hookup material" versus "Boyfriend/Husband material"?Personally, a man that’s hookup material to me would probably also be relationship material if I was looking for a relationship; but like most girls my age, I’m not. I say that because personality and social skills often play a significant role in whether or not I want to hu with someone. A lot of men here seem to think that all hot guys get casual sex, but from my experience as a college student who’s friendly and more than friendly with guys from several frats, it’s the quick witted ones with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 26 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithIs this satire lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI think ripping open your taint and vagina, sacrificing mobility for several months, having to accept the greatly reduced quality of life that comes with the hundreds of potential side effects of pregnancy, depression, hormone induced mood swings and potentially death during child birth that occurs at an oddly higher rate for women of color in the US, is quite disingenuous to call an “inconvenience”. If you are comfortable with having your taint ripped open through to your anus and relying on di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | We're out here dodging bullets. Who the fuck would want to be with a woman that thinks like this?!Lmao your definitely right, but I must have been high off my ass to come preach this sermon on an anti feminist sub no less. It was a monologue of passion and I don’t think I’d have the energy to even write this essay again elsewhere let alone organize it. I will keep ur point in mind for the future though, and ty for being respectful lol. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | so is this how evil looks like ?So is to celebrate restrictions that will force disenfranchised poor women to become incubators for children they don’t want / can’t care for; deeming both parties to misery. Pretty sick that rich women will still have access to reproductive rights but those who can’t pay to travel to another state will suffer. Ripping open your vagina and taint or having you abdominal muscles ripped open and stitched back together is no easy feat to recover from. I do agree that announcements on social media ar… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | so is this how evil looks like ?that’s quite literally the point, the choice to not have a child you can’t/won’t care for. Save yourself and the progeny the misery. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | We're out here dodging bullets. Who the fuck would want to be with a woman that thinks like this?!Statistically, it leads to higher maternal death rate due to unsafe abortions and no decrease in abortion rates (back ally/diy) :/ | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | We're out here dodging bullets. Who the fuck would want to be with a woman that thinks like this?!When men’s birth control was shot down for having the same side effects as female birth control, I don’t think it’s an issue of responsibility when it comes to women not wanting to rely on hormonal birth control; rather an active decision made by women unable to handle the mood swings, weight gain, blood clots- or whatever else makes it an unmanageable option for them. Abortion is not birth control, and it’s disingenuous to suggest women use it as such or intend to use it as such. I don’t know i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/05/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Mom thanks Starbucks worker for looking out for her daughter. If it was a woman who talked to her, it wouldn't be the same.She didn’t call the cops did she? She simply left it up to the girl to decide if she needs help or not. The man was not hurt, slighted, or even publicly acknowledged in any manner. It’s laughable that you consider this discrimination when women around the globe are disproportionately denied rights, killed, raped, and sold as property by (selective, not ALL) men who face no consequences for decades if it at all. Discrimination plagues SEVERAL marginalized groups, it is not a gendered issue. I emp… | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 04:04 PM |
| -2 | Mom thanks Starbucks worker for looking out for her daughter. If it was a woman who talked to her, it wouldn't be the same.I completely agree. Users on this sub love to go on about “biological differences” between men and women, and how men are inherently “stronger”. So by their logic it’s quite obvious why decent members of society would offer an out to women being approached by unfamiliar men. It’s not so much about antagonizing the man as it is a concern for the girl’s safety. It was discreet and not insulting to the man in any publicly perceivable way. It’s interesting that women’s safety is less important to th… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 11:55 AM |
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