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| 1 | Cold approaches are working for meI'm a human too and so are my neighbour's 3 kids. What's your point ? Also, talking to women with the intention of dating them is absolutely not "like talking to any other person". It's expected that you lead with a witty joke (much easier said than done), escalate physically, etc. Would you hold hands with your mates? It's normal to talk to people differently depending on who they are. We wouldn't talk to a senior the same way as a child, etc. And btw girls pedastalize guys they're attracted to… | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isNo offense dude but I call cap. There's a reason why those activities are labelled as mundane. But I see your point. I guess you're lucky for having interesting things happen to you while doing boring shit. Most people aren't that lucky though and live very ordinary lives. There's this youtuber who has been through "all that" (kidnapped, stabbed 7 times, ex gang member, etc.) which has made for some really badass stories. Sometimes it can go the other way. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 06:34 PM |
| 0 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingThe last part sounds like playing some dumb jester just to get laid. Which I'm guilty of doing sometimes. QQ. As you said, you can tell jokes and tease her. That's a great way to be likable. But there's no guarantee you're going to get laid since humor is subjective. If she doesn't genuinly laugh at most of your jokes the date simply won't go anywhere. This is especially a problem for goofy guys. Most girls prefer witty storytelling types instead, which is much harder to pull off than just makin… | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Women will respect your courageBetter yet the OGs angrypicnic or thatwasepic lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Girls don't do things by accidentNimrods aside, OP should learn about actual signs of physical attraction. eg: When she gives you a warm smile upon meeting you (where she was bored before), and it was NOT done out of courtesy. You never smiled at her to solicit a smile back, you didn't look threatening and made her smile out of fear, she wasn't trying to sell you anything or just doing her job (there can sometimes be false negatives on this though haha) When she checks you out first and strongly smiles at you for at least 10s s… | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel day game is much more effective than night game.IOIs that turn out to be false positives are outliers ime. I doubt that it happens as often as you think. Strong iois don't guarantee that she's dtf, just more likely. Don't forget that physical atttaction is important for most girls too, and IOIs are the most direct way of showing that. Many girls try hard not to give IOIs to most guys; they don't want him to get the wrong idea. That being said, your approach is still good since it creates abundance and a high tolerance for rejection. But, for … | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 06:11 PM |
| 2 | A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty.You're leaving out the part of needing raw charisma, storytelling skills, escalating right, saying something cool/creative but not excessive, not being weird, touche comebacks, avoiding awkward silences, and having an attractive voice. Improving these skills requires does the guy to be slightly self-conscious. No hate, I'm just trying to be constructive. Watch angrypicnic on Youtube and tell me that game doesn't matter. It's not the pickup line necessarily but how suave you carry the conversatio… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Never underestimate the incredible power of social proofSaving this. Such a key point. And girls can give you IOIs regardless of social proof. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Never underestimate the incredible power of social proofAmen. Truly being confident shouldn't depend on social proof shenanigans (especially if you're an introvert). | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | 1/3 of men (age >25) being celibate (within the past year) is not problematic (because it's their own fault + the society's)True, especially if you were building yourself up all these years. When you finally become a great guy on paper (which, as OP states, is especially hard in a high COL area), why should you be restricted from dating younger women? It takes time to become a catch (unless you come from a rich family or actually sell your soul in college/internships for a high paying career you dont care about instead of chasing some more passionate but lower-paying dreams. But that's a story for a different time..)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?Yep. Also, many parents only like their kids if they do well in school and get a white collar job. ie. the traditional path to success. And if they don't, then their kids don't "love" them. I've seen many people sadly brainwashed by this. The lack of parental support may also prevent the kids from achieving unconventional but more fulfilling paths of success, like trying to become a full-time Youtuber ( lots of survivorship bias though, but that's a different story). On the other hand, while ide… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!"I have a bf" is not always a test tho. Pretty girls are high in demand, so realistically they're more likely to be taken. Even if they're single, they're not worth pursuing (high chance that she just isn't relationship material). Either she's a serial dater, monkey brancher, or just into casual (pretty girls could easily get in a relationship with a great guy if she wanted to but isn't for some reason). NAWALT, but just a trend I've observed. If I were to guess, 10% pretty girls might be single… | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Social gainsFor making friends it's best to do warm approaches imo, not cold approaches. Relate with ppl at an event or mutual hobby not just bars/clubs (which tend to be veryy cliquey). eg. Easier to make friends at the gym talking about fitness or playing a team sport than some bullshit conversation about whatever at starbucks. That being said not everyone will like you! Such is life. For dating/casual it's different though since good looks and game often can override the need for deep conversation initia… | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To ItIOIs are absolutely real. Only a guy who's never physically attracted a girl wouldn't know. And it's not surprising that most guys dont get attention, most guys are not facially attractive. Also, who are you, god? LOL. Are you actually that delusional that you don't think some light flirting can hapoen at the supermarket? Speak for yourself. You don't know everybody in the world for you to make that claim. You're prolly lowkey jealous of handsome wellspoken men pulling girls, anywhere anytime (r… | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!Don't delude yourself bro. I doubt that so many truly beautiful women could have been attracted to you. Girls generally approach and escalate with guys they're interested in, not wait for the guy to do it! You're probably not even that attractive. And please don't approach girls at gyms or other public areas in the future. /s Lol all jokes aside, IOIs DO happen for any of the skeptics out there. Just as often as "friendly interest" . Only a guy who's never attracted a girl would deny this. Also,… | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 3 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!Bodycam should help with the approaches. metoo women can go fuck themselves. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please!b l a c k p i l l. A guy's looks are 95% for women. Welcome to our shallow world. | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 0 | What to do when a girl smiles at you in public?That's the way, you approach anyways regardless of whether its 50/50. Now, (unrelated to your point) this comes the cost of maybe SLIGHTLY bothering her. Alot of people don't even suggest the approach but that's rude imo and quite limiting. I don't ignore flyer people, I at least acknowledge them. When I approach someone I'm not entitled to their attention but I don't empathize with her at all if I bother her. lol so what? Getting bothered while you're busy is a part of life. If it's a clear no … | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 0 | What to do when a girl smiles at you in public?That's you and you don't speak for everyone. Guys, don't let comments like these dissuade you from approaching someone you're interested in. It's called an IOI for a reason. Some are friendly, some are flirty. | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 8 | What to do when a girl smiles at you in public?Selection bias. Sometimes a girl could smile and mean it that way. But youd never know unless you approach. I'm tired of this auto-rejection mindset lol ppl need more balls. | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 09:42 PM |
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