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| 2 | Women feel they are the same value as any guy they have sex withIf they really thought this then why do they go out so sad. You put pussy on a pedestal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The best way for most men to improve their dating prospects is to make more money. The best way for most women is to lose weight. But both genders project and prioritize what the other gender is supposed to.Making a lot of money makes your dating prospects worse because women find you intimidating. Women like disposable guys for a one night stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | If men objectify women with their bodies, women objectify men with their ressources.No I just see it as natural checks and balances. Nobody has it easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 12:40 PM |
| 0 | If men objectify women with their bodies, women objectify men with their ressources.I’m starting to think you guys just wish that you were women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What significance does a social network have to you?Most of your problems come from being too picky you probably ignore 90% of women that come your way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What significance does a social network have to you?Who the hell thinks like this as a grown adult or even has time to maintain a social network you guys are stuck in high school which is part of the problem the definition of “friend” becomes way less loose and transient as you get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one.Then why do billionaires have the ugliest wives and mistresses Grimes looks like she died yesterday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 04:14 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyMost people with autism have co-morbid symptoms with mental disorders though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:03 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyHow am I armchair diagnosing criminals? It’s a known fact that most criminals have mental disorders. OP is also seeing girlfriend thru a privileged lens. A lot of people stay in relationships with prisoners due to kids, culture, debt and the fact that many of them have status inside and outside of the prison to not make life easier but harder if you choose not to go thru with what they say. You and are blinded by privilege that you see these relationships as something to envy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 02:01 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyClass dynamics, biases against marginalized groups, misunderstanding of motivations, false authority, dollar store morality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:57 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyRead my last two sentences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:35 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyhttps://www.nami.org/advocacy/policy-priorities/improving-health/mental-health-treatment-while-incarcerated/ Also said or some sort of mental issue. Plus you’re assuming that someone cares enough to go thru the hoops to get them a diagnosis. You realize how expensive it is to get diagnosed for autism (time and money). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:26 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flySo much coded language in these posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:16 PM |
| – | A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a flyMost prisoners are autistic and have some sort of mental issue though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:15 PM |
| 12 | I Cracked the answer behind the big dick and relationship material debatesMost women do want to be objectified, only to a certain extent. That’s the problem with the way Americans are taught to think no nuance. Women do care about dick size but if you have other things that you can offer (loyalty, money, skills, attention, lifestyle) it becomes less relevant. Stop trying to sell a Honda to someone who wants a Mercedes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 01:14 PM |
| 12 | Men have no options.No it’s just that people take rejection as a personal attack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why do some guys get so hostile if other guys admit to using escorts ?Jealousy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Today’s Version Masculine Ideal Is Undermining Boys’ Academic SuccessYou don’t think they are purposely making the education system easier for women so they can pay them less money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 12:58 PM |
| 3 | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenNo you don’t have to be any of those things. You just have to be dumb enough to try. Stupid people are busy acting while smart people are too busy calculating and then they miss the opportunity. Smart people and conscious people get paid to cover the mistakes of stupid people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers should actually accept the mantra they preach and "embrace the decline"Most redpillers are just spoiled brats who were never told no and coddled too much so when they get out into the world and nobody cares about them or what they have to say they throw a temper tantrum. Some of it is also due to neglect like the joker where they’re parents don’t really teach them anything or expose them to different people and situations so they lean on the media to teach them what they never learned and become one track minded. Women are just the first phase of their empire build… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Rich & famous men typically are paying for compliance: hence "pay them to leave" or "it ain't trickin if you got it"Being rich and famous are mostly illusions and fleeting. Not to mention the personality that you have to have to be famous in the first place. Most famous people are weirdos. Nobody would deal with Kanye if he worked at Jiffy Lube. What you see on tv is not a reality most women only like famous guys cause there’s millions of dollars and thousands of man hours being spent to brain wash them into liking them. Who wouldn’t get dates with that amount of resource allotment into being attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Modern monogamy has become a system that relies on men not knowing they have optionsNo it’s because it’s hard to make it in this world alone only so many hours in the day and if you spend 8 at work and and 8 sleeping it’s really hard to balance everything. Not to mention the tax and social benefits as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:38 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men complain about the friendzone because they only befriend attractive women to try to date themPeople who complain about the friendzone are bad at communicating their own needs and just expect people to “know”. They think that people can read their mind and most people are way too self centered for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:35 AM |
| – | The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for MenYeah the subconscious narrative of this sub isn’t about dating it’s exposing the lies of society. Most rich people are stupid enough to throw shit at the wall until it sticks. I would argue that society promotes the worst people to be “leaders” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | I think a lot of men were lied to as kids about love and that's why they're bitterNo people these days just have a strong sense of entitlement and think everything is supposed to be easy and convenient cause of the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 06:42 PM |
| 0 | The friend zone isn’t real. “Be honest and say no” also applies to “be honest and tell the girl you like her”.Most people are just terrible friends. And if being in the friend zone is hard being in a relationship is even harder. Most just want sex but can’t afford a call girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Theory: hookup culture is an example of the paradox of choiceHookup culture is a lie perpetuated by Hollywood due to declining birthrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Theory: hookup culture is an example of the paradox of choiceYeah cause people don’t lie on surveys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Many “avoidants” are actually just egomaniacsSo the fact that they refer to their partner as a pet isn’t red flag enough? I get people love dogs but they don’t respect them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it.Considering most people simply complain trying is 90% of the battle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 07:37 PM |
| – | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Yes there is it’s just way more subtle. You have your head in the sand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 07:37 PM |
| – | The idea that 'good and attractive men are snatched off the market quickly' is another just-world fallacy. The fact that divorce rates are highest for people in their 20s is the biggest proof.You realize women cheat and abuse men too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenI was just explaining why you don’t hear men complaining about bad sex more than women do. I can only speak on what I know. Bad sex for men feels the same way. Just like you will tolerate bad sex for emotional connection and stability we do the same thing for ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Women wield a ton of access to sex. But, it's pointless to argue about it.Go hire a prostitute and you’ll have access to sex most guys just have to much ego to fuck around like women do. They want to conquer women not simply have sex and move on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Most of someone's"personality" can't be changed.Personality is a social construct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Being called a “mommas boy” had more negative connotations than being called a “daddy’s girl”No it doesn’t it’s just that most women dont need things spelled out to them because society breaks their ego at an early age which is why they take criticism better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:42 PM |
| – | The idea that 'good and attractive men are snatched off the market quickly' is another just-world fallacy. The fact that divorce rates are highest for people in their 20s is the biggest proof.“Good” and “Attractive” in the context of building an emotional connection and being good at socializing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Who makes for better partners, men or women?Educated people make worse partners because they overthink the simplest things. Mental stability can also lead to stagnation. Relationships are in the realm of emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.A lot of these guys are simply broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:38 PM |
| -2 | The Orgasm Gap: A Double-Edged Sword for MenGuys just complain about not getting orgasms because bad sex is better than no sex and a lot of guys have sex for their egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:37 PM |
| 0 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.Successful women usually aren’t interested in socializing and dating because they are dedicated to their career and are usually feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it.It’s not about caring less it’s about trying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Bullying never goes away it’s just more subtle and accepted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Majority of "misandrists" are men.Women don’t treat each other any better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 11:32 PM |
| -1 | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menThis is a good point they think they should be at the same level as trump and Elon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Telling men they're too emotionally weak to implement RP strategies is just going to motivate them to do it moreHow many of these people do you think honestly practice what they preach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:50 AM |
| – | Women have no excuses to struggle dating but men have some excusesThere are plenty of ugly guys with girlfriends and vice. The problem is people on these dating subs want high quality partners but don’t want to compete for them. You have to accept the face that you can’t be average and expect above average results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:49 AM |
| -1 | The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over menThe manosphere is full of losers who want to see the world burn. They are not in school or don’t have any jobs so they have to the time allowance to make the content go viral through sock puppet accounts and botting views. To make a long story short when some people lose they just want to flip the game board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.No they spend all their time and resources on one girl when dating is a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withThe problem is you want it to be simple but it’s complicated. Your environment has much more to do with your numbers than you as an individual. So many people’s dating issues can be solved by simply moving to the next town over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withNo such thing as normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withIt’s not about looks dating is a numbers game people on here can’t accept that not everyone is going to like you. There are women who purposely seek out unattractive socially awkward men so that they can control the dynamic. Which is why some girls date losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | This subreddit doesn't appreciate real good men and nice guys.The problem with nice guys is that they put all their eggs into one basket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:36 PM |
| -1 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withPlenty of socially awkward people have girlfriends. Social awkwardness isn’t a personality trait it’s based on environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Most crimes are committed by men, by no gangster ever had difficulty finding women to share the spoils withThe part that you are missing is that those guys can easily have a wife if they wanted they are just going for girls that everybody wants so there is more competition. Also there are more woman that work low paid jobs than men so there is more opportunity to meet somebody than in male dominated tech fields. So they have to go out of their way to meet somebody and humans are lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:33 PM |
| 4 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is self inflictedAccurate good analysis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menYeah cause people don’t lie on surveys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:28 PM |
| 2 | I feel that TRP is a little hypocritical for obsessing over female weight but at the same time acting like women are shallow monsters for rejecting the boring guyThe only difference between a boring guy and an interesting guy is their ability to LIE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingHaving hobbies doesn’t matter but LYING about them does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | How is dating in your 40s different than 30s?Women never lower their standards that’s the biggest lie ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | If you cant admit you want a hookup, dont get angry you cant get immediate sex from your date.This is not true at all…what you have to realize is that a lot of guys lie to their friends about hooking up on the first night because guys are always in competition with each other. Also how many guys court women for months via texting and social media and then meet for the first time in real life and then say that they had sex on the first night. Also a lot of guys are expecting to fuck after a low effort coffee date while the chad bogeyman has resources to take her to Ruth Chris or on a shop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:18 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill perpetuates itself by setting men up to failNo it was always a grift to make money off telling desperate people what they want to hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Urging your lover to lose weight would be more okay if you insist on exercising and dieting with her/him.Most people still won’t take kindly to this and there are enough desperate people out there who will take them as they are. Add in the illusion of options due to bots and scammers on dating site and it’s not looking good. Plus no matter how good you lead the horse to water they still have to drink Another thing to consider is The preoccupation with dating and love these days is not pure and is solely based off how hard it is to make it as a sole income as long with the fact that standards of liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 06:01 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)I think you guys give way to much of a soapbox to teenagers with very little life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Men treat men worse than women doYea this is true but most guys give each other a pass because of the consequences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Nice guys are just assholes who felt obligated to be nice to get pussy.Dating is purely a numbers game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 08:12 PM |
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