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| 18 | The forgotten voice of sexual violenceI'm doing ok. I left the country permanently, and it took about five years to stop having regular panic attacks whenever I saw or heard the abuser's name. Still, she got away with it, and to this day she still plays the role of the "victim who broke the chains". In her own words, "she's strong and independent. Nobody can tell her to take any responsibility for anything, only she can decide". The court and the social services agreed to that. If she says that she's right, then she's right. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 05:54 PM |
| 77 | The forgotten voice of sexual violenceIt happened to me. 8th of November 2017, at 5:50 AM. I tried to report it, the social services laughed in my face. The police threatened to arrest me for having done it, all they needed was her word that it was my fault. I was left alone, nobody cared. And it was my abusive wife who did it, so I had to live under the same roof and be bullied by her, while the played the victim. When I stood up to her, and told her to stay away from me, the police came after me, based on her false accusations. Go… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | (Ireland) Man’s wife wouldn’t let him shower in case he was meeting someone after work, court hears. Family Law Court grants Protection Order to man as he fears for safety and mental health due to alleged abuse from ‘paranoid’ wifeWhile in Ireland, I received a stern complaint from Tusla because I had left my 7 years old in front of the TV while I went out in the garden, 20 metres away, for about 20 minutes. They called it child neglect. When I found out that the mother would leave the child unattended for hours, while going out, I filed a report as well. They scolded me for being too dramatic ("surely she left someone with the child", which wasn't the case) and then they informed the mother that I was trying to make a fu… | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?One can still leave before running out of money. If the only options are jail, slavery, suicide or running away, the decision seems fairly obvious. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?A lawyer has already been involved to lower the amount, which is 40% higher than I should be paying. This has been dragging for years already. I won't end up sleeping in a car, because I have none, and I won't get arrested either. The latter would simply mean not paying anything at all, so it's a stupid idea for them as well. If I were to live in the US, I would simply get a Visa and leave the country. I wouldn't even consider becoming a victim of their rotten system. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 5 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?Probably, stop paying the whole child support and insist to have the overpayments refunded. Can't get money out of an empty wallet. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 07:30 PM |
| 16 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?I have no choice, but burn through the savings. While they last, and that won't be long. Let's just say that, based on my calculations, I will have to work for another 20 years before I can have enough for a down-payment for a small property for myself, as almost everything I had has been burned. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 31 | Men who are paying a huge chunk of your income on child support, how do you cope?I don't cope, I just have to ignore it. About 50% of my income goes in taxes, 50% of what's left goes in child support (which is way too high, and I filed a request to lower it two years ago). Then, 130% of what's left goes to pay for subsistence. Every month, the balance is -600/700. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Who's got the most insane alimony law?My vote goes to Ireland, where claims for alimony and splitting of savings can be filed and reviewed at any time even after the divorce is finalised. That is, if John and Jane divorce, and John wins the lottery 10 years after the divorce, Jane is entitled to file a claim for a share of that. The likelihood of her receiving anything is entirely dependent on the judge, who has complete freedom in deciding about it. The right to file a claim only ceases when the person marries again (i.e. becomes s… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Men also cry: The silent scourge of men sexually abused by spousesI can confirm. When my ex was unemployed (for years), she complained that I should have paid her a "housewife salary". Note: I was the one taking care of the household chores and spending most of the time with the kids, she focused on hobbies and socialising, "for her mental health". She cried financial abuse when I asked her to contain her frivolous spending sprees (paid by me) and, when I made her aware of the risk of losing everything if anything happened to me, as the sole source of income (… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | (Ireland) "Over 200 male applicants for international protection remained without accommodation last week, [parliamentary] committee hears. As of May 24, all adult women and couples seeking accommodation since January were accommodated" (This is based on a state policy decision: see comments)My experience indicates that they don't care about fathers, either. I left Ireland precisely for that reason. Years spent providing for the family and raising the kids myself, while the madam stayed unemployed and focused on hobbies while she looked for a "nice job". Things couldn't last, the separation came and I had hundreds of pages to back my case, all thrown out in favour of a couple of lines written by her on a piece of paper during the hearing in the family court. Cherry on top, I receive… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | If it were truly about equality, why aren't feminists trying to make it so that the default awarding of primary physical custody is not always given to the woman?I'm in a similar position myself. I've been the primary carer for my kids since they were born, as well as the household keeper (she didn't like housekeeping) and the main bread winner (two to three jobs). At the time of separation, I received a Schrödinger feedback from the authorities: - The Agency for families and children said that they had never seen a father doing so much for the family, while the mother took it easy. They clearly stated that all their social workers expect to work with mo… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | If it were truly about equality, why aren't feminists trying to make it so that the default awarding of primary physical custody is not always given to the woman?Translation: I'm ready and willing to damage my own child for my personal financial gain. I would simply argue, in court, that she can use the extra spare time, when the child is with you, to get a second job. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 10:43 AM |
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