Khiv_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	LTR cheated. Need advice. I read "learn to eat a heterossexual male"	/r/askTRP	29/07/19 01:27 PM
17	A summary of the most attractive traits in a man? It actually might.	/r/askTRP	14/06/19 11:56 PM
7	Why do some men (and more-vocally,a lot of RP men) sh*t on the looks of 30+ year old women? I think RP men want to believe that age will bring some type of vengeance upon the women that lived lavishly in their youth. Or that it will take away the beauty that gave them a huge sexual advantage over those men in the past. It is not entirely false, though. The physiological peak for both ages is when they are younger. People forget, however, that money can buy treatments that overwrite a lot of our physiological programming. Nervertheless, as women get older it becomes harder to stay beaut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/19 12:23 AM
26	Girls on Tinder do not want to meet in person Yeah. I wonder what a logical conversation with a woman on Tinder would be like lmao (really OP I'm curious, tell me what you talk about with them). Go for a silly convesation instead OP.	/r/seduction	26/01/19 04:39 PM
3	How to deal with nihilistic feelings? Existentialism: The world is meaningless which also means that it is up to you to create all meaning in the world.	/r/askTRP	26/01/19 01:34 PM
1	Dear seddit I've been drinking and have done 1000's of approaches and coach in my down time... here are some harsh truths for you all I don't think he looks like a dick at all, really. He just pointed out some foolish stuff people do when asking (and paying) for his help in order to show us our own mistakes.	/r/seduction	25/01/19 10:12 PM
3	The internet/social media has oversaturated attention and over inflated egos. I'm pretty sure that's not why they invented it lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/19 09:29 PM
1	Men can and should vet their partners Why are there so many posts talking about male sex drive being superior to that of women? Every chick I've dated had great sex drive and I know women that can fuck muliple guys in a single day or even a single night. Have you ever observer how a woman acts near a guy she is attracted to? It's like she is throwing herself at him, they are just more subtle but they hang around the guy just waiting for him to make his move.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/19 09:11 PM
2	Can women be feminine while with a masculine man and not be dependent on him? As a man who likes submissive women, I can say that it’s positive for her to be independent, have her own life. I don’t want her to depend on me for every little thing, I just want her to enjoy my company and to give in to my desire, and I also expect to call the shots as in what is allowed or not in the relationship. Dunno if you find my way to be good, but what I’m trying to say is that you might be able to fins a balance. Be your own woman among your friends and in your career and hobbies, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/19 04:19 PM
13	GF acting sketchy with her phone Take a crap directly into her mouth maybe.	/r/askTRP	16/01/19 12:36 PM
20	I feel like unless I got a vasectomy, there's no way I could ever trust anybody in a relationship if it comes down to contraception. What to do? Lmao right? Came here just to say that. It won't reduce your T, and if it does just you get a free pass to inject yourself with it.	/r/askTRP	12/01/19 06:53 PM
1	Men's innate horniness is what put them at a disadvantage therefore technology should be created to allow them to regulate it. Women have always been the chosers man. We evolved this way. A woman can only get pregnant so many times in her life and each time is costly in terms of resources, while leaving her vulnerable as well. It might have been a problem once a woman had chosen you and married you but until then you had to compete with a line of other suitors to get her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/18 10:30 AM
4	Men's innate horniness is what put them at a disadvantage therefore technology should be created to allow them to regulate it. I agree that it would be a great tool, but remember that a lot of people don't want to work on themselves. They just want to live life ad they are and have people to share it with them. I doubt many men would go around spending money on something to make them less horny, but I think some would like the chance to turn it off as they work on themselves as you pointed out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 08:28 PM
15	Men's innate horniness is what put them at a disadvantage therefore technology should be created to allow them to regulate it. Being more horny is not what puts us at disadvantage. Think about it, if you were the king of France back in the day, would your horniness have gotten in your way? Of course that if you are SO horny that you can't do anything else other than have sex that would be unproductive, but most men aren't like that, lol. What puts us at disadvantage is the simple fact that women are the chosers. That's how sexual dynamics work in our species and it is hard to change. For the extremely attractive men you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 08:19 PM
5	In this day and age, why are there still men who are marrying women? Emotions can trump rationality. You know you shouldn't trust women but you just can't help it in that particular case. Plus there is loneliness and the fact that most men do not think themselves capable of attracting any women they want (and in many cases it is true). Many men don't want to improve themselves, most just want to live life as they always did, drink, watch TV, have shitty jobs, and they still want to have someone that wants them.	/r/askTRP	29/12/18 08:16 PM
6	Do women really wear revealing clothes to ''feel good about themselves''? Why not? I'm a male and I wear clothes to feel good about myself, lol. If I feel I look good everything in my day becomes better, even stuff unrelated to sex. Self-esteem is important for your well-being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/18 09:59 PM
14	Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever? I'll be the different guy here and say that yes and that showing these feelings is actually good. It shows you are human, and more importantly it shows you are confident because only weak people need to constantly fake strength (unless you have someone depending on you, but even then it is good to open up once in a while). What is not ok is to be frequently in a state of low mood. Women, and people in general, get bored, and even worse contaminated by your low mood. They will not want to hang ou…	/r/askTRP	03/12/18 11:13 PM
2	Askmen thread: what's something you found attractive when you were younger that you now find unattractive What exactly is wrong about it? She's a free individual, you are a free individual, you want to have sex with eachother and/or like eachother's company. I'm not talking about marrying and having babies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/18 09:43 PM
2	Askmen thread: what's something you found attractive when you were younger that you now find unattractive 30s dating college years seems completely normal to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/18 09:37 PM
1	Askmen thread: what's something you found attractive when you were younger that you now find unattractive Age 27. Lots of men admitting they liked crazy girls I've liked crazy girls, but that was despite their craziness and not because of it Lots of men admitting they liked party girls Never liked those. I like pretty women and most of them are party girls, but I'd prefer a pretty girl that was more quiet. Men admitting they liked girls who caused drama I like women that cause drama even today. Not too much drama, but I like to know that the stuff I do affect her emotions enough for her to act out. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/18 09:34 PM
1	Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't. How about taking it slow? Instead of waking up one day and saying "I'm gonna change it all" you say "today I'm gonna eat a little less sugar, today I'm gonna look one person in the eye". Next day you step it up "today I'm gonna look two people in the eye" or maybe you step up in difficulty as trying to say hi to a single stranger. I've been working out ever since I was 14 and to me most new habits are very similar to working out. You don't wake up one say and say "yeah today I'm gonna get huge",…	/r/askTRP	28/11/18 10:58 PM
0	Why do some PUAs and some of this subreddit preach "alpha male" mentality and think women like objects? These two mentalities are the main obstacles when approaching women The idea of alpha or whatever you call it is simply the idea of being a dominant person. Not everyone wants to be dominant or to be around dominant people, but in general the males in our species are thought to be the dominant ones until modern civilization. Many men feel frustrated because values of modern civilization conflict with our evolved behaviors, and much of the alpha male talk is an attempt to get those behaviors back (at least as much as you can considering the rules of current times…	/r/seduction	23/11/18 03:04 PM
1	Does the true nature of women turn you off? Yes dude, it does turn me off. I wish I could day otherwise, but I grew up as a blue pill that saw women as these special creatures. We males were the bad boys who seduced them and they were the innocent cute things and the supportive ones who stood by our side during our crazy endeavors. I believed they had the same concepts of loyalty and love as we do. I’m trying really hard, but after swallowing the pill I just can’t like women the same way and this makes me incredibly lonely. What I have re…	/r/askTRP	21/11/18 02:41 PM
2	Dating advice for men should aim to make men more sexually attractive rather than emotionally attractive The reason why seduction subs focus on whatever you call "emotional attraction" is because the key to what you call "sexual attraction" is very simple: become good looking. There, that is the only advice you need. It's not easy to follow, of course, and specific tips on how to become good looking can be found in other subs depending on what you consider good looks. However I must say that sexual attraction and emotional attraction are not different things. Feeling horny is an emotion and it is c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/18 04:39 PM
41	How to meet high quality/like minded men? I agree with this. Most people are far more interesting and complex than what they seem. If these people aren't showing you their full depth it is because they don't feel comfortable enough around you or because you yourself haven't tried to fully explore their personalities. Also many of these works of the past are romanticized. Yeah Seneca wrote a bunch of letters but there is no guarantee that his daily life was always that profound. Even if it were, you have to realize those were different t…	/r/askTRP	15/11/18 12:13 PM
1	How to let go of past resentments/regrets of missing out on dating when I was in high school/college Ah I get it. I hadn't quite understood what you meant but now I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/18 12:08 PM
1	How to let go of past resentments/regrets of missing out on dating when I was in high school/college I don't see how this is good, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/18 08:10 AM
1	Q4Men: If a woman keeps talking to you and flirting with you, at what point do you ask her out? More inside. If it's creepy in your mind it will become creepy when you concretize it. Personally I don't see anything wrong with that, maybe because of where I live. One of these days a female friend approached my male friend and said "I really wanna make out with you, do you think your girlfriend would mind? We could do a triple kiss if she wants to". This was at a normal day on campus, not in a party. But really unless you live in a country with very strict rules on sexuality then I don't see what would b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/18 02:31 PM
2	I’m an aspie. I have been practicing TRP and working hard to become more confident for a year but I still stuck with girls. Skinny with above average face but I’m going to the gym. What do I do? Anyone in a similar place? I already have above average looks and style. If you have this than your social skills should not be a problem. Don't take me wrong, your disorder could and will be a difficulty when it comes to long term relationships and to bonding with other people. For you to gain respect of other males or to ensure a lasting relationship with a woman you will need to work on your social skills and maybe to be lucky enough to find someone who is willing to accept some of your traits (not everything you will …	/r/askTRP	07/11/18 10:45 AM
23	Taking a massive break from dating apps. If you're single and going out every day of the week or at least a few days a week, you're meeting women anyway. Not every lifestyle permits that, though. I'll go out once every two weeks tops. The rest of the days is working out, dieting, sleeping well, and studying. And this is not me in monk mode.	/r/seduction	07/11/18 10:32 AM
5	Q4Men: If a woman keeps talking to you and flirting with you, at what point do you ask her out? More inside. And considering the OP it seems she already asked the author out. All he's got to do is accept. As for making your intentions known, I totally support this and since she's asked you out to a couple of events you might as well immediately tease her. A playful "Alright I'm down to go with you but only if we get to make out when we're there" should do the job. If it scared her out it's because she was just being friendly and not as into you as you thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 10:03 PM
1	what does sex "mean" to you? It means: The chick was hot and/or cool enough for me to stop whatever I was doing and go meet her. I have my hobbies and projects and I love routine. I don't break my routine to go and meet some chick that doesn't attract me in some way. She makes me comfortable. I'm a shy guy and even though I'm highly sexual I don't feel comfortable showing my interest to just about anyone. Also I get pretty nervous when I'm going to have sex with someone I don't know, and if the sex really happens and goes w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/18 10:03 AM
8	Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean? Came here to say that. Why do people overanalyze everything?	/r/seduction	31/10/18 05:31 PM
3	Quality men aren't aloof assholes. I'll have to agree here. The aloof asshole guy is certainly better than the needy loser, but I think that the real "alpha" is the genuine guy. The guy that is completely transparent about what he wants and is not ashamed of it. Going after what you want is different from being thirsty. Immediately telling a girl you are into her or making an effort to show that throught actions in different from chasing the girl repeatedly and desperatly, or from sending her a million texts even when she is clea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/18 12:05 PM
0	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High No. I enjoy stuff at the moment they are happening but if on a later day I found that I can't do that stuff anymore I would be sad. It doesn't have to be the exact same stuff. Imagine you watched a cool show and maybe one day you woke up and thought "damn I want to watch another cool show" but you find out that you can neither watch a new cool show or that previous one. Maybe all shows in world have stopped existing or maybe you have no internet/satellite connection and can't go out, or maybe yo…	/r/seduction	27/10/18 06:50 PM
1	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High Well a memory would only be fond if I felt I could do it again whenever I wanted.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 06:35 PM
3	Women don't choose from all men, they choose from the men they know I'm talking about clubs and so on. All adult women I know are able to go to them, They might chose not to go, but if they are single and wanting for a men they will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/18 06:34 PM
27	"Do not go chasing butterflies, tend to your own garden and the butterflies will come." If you get to be super attractive, like a 9, you might get approached a lot. Also if you get famous and powerful. But even if you get to that level a lot of chicks will just sit there and wait for you to approach, and not doing so will make you lose many opportunities. If you don't get to that level than you can just forget about the not approaching thing.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 11:09 AM
0	Women don't choose from all men, they choose from the men they know Not to mention they can just ask their friends to go with them on a party where they will be able to select from a wide array of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/18 11:03 AM
3	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High Knowing you are a desirable male feels good. It doesn't matter if girls gave me this or that dude, it's not about them, it's about feeling you have a skill, knowing you can do something that you like. Imagine practicing dancing and knowing you can do cool moves, you would feel better in a party; imagine studying a subject you loved, you would feel better in discussion groups on that subject. A person who knows they are cool will feel comfortable around people because they know they are likable a…	/r/seduction	26/10/18 12:48 AM
1	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High Yeah I'm just in my late twenties. However I have had experiences that show me that I don't care about memories. I've gotten really sick once and lost a lot of friends and physical prowess, and remembering my days where I had friends and felt physically well only served to depress me even more. I was only able to be happy again when I recovered, but if someone told me I would never feel that good again I don't know if I could have gone on living on just memories, I'd have to develop new interest…	/r/seduction	26/10/18 12:45 AM
4	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High By power I mean capability. When you feel you are capable of attracting a chick you will feel good. The pleasure of the sex might last a few minutes or hours. That post-sex feeling might last a week. The success of multiple successful sexual encounters will change how you think about yourself, it will make you more confident, it will make you enjoy social moments more, it will make you more comfortable around women and it will make you love yourself more.	/r/seduction	25/10/18 04:44 PM
24	Sex Will Only Ever Be A Temporary High I'll disagree. Maybe people are different, but I'm not a reminiscence type of guy. I'd like to either live a good life, chase a good life, or die. If I woke up one day to find out that I will never enjoy the stuff that I find good, I would be unable to content myself with just memories. But, like I said, people are different. However, I must say to the OP that almost every pleasure is temporary. Laughing with your friends, enjoying your hobbies, whatever. What is really permanent to me is abilit…	/r/seduction	25/10/18 04:28 PM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? I'm getting you perfectly. I'm just saying that nobody "got anything" and that being "right" or not is completely irrelevant. Like some famous quote says, expecting life to be fair to you because you are fair is like expecting a lion not to eat you because you were nice to it. Things are the way they are. I know it sucks, and I'm not saying you should just sit and accept it. Quite the contrary, I'm saying you should go and get what you want. It is up to you to decide what you think is right and …	/r/seduction	23/10/18 10:21 PM
3	Thanks to you guys Grats man! I'm happy for you.	/r/seduction	22/10/18 07:10 PM
2	How can i attract a bipolar chick? I understand. As much as we like to give advice, the truth is that as human beings sometimes we just want to experience stuff ourselves and make our own decisions. I hope you can withstand whatever happens if you get together and that you can learn from it and grow. I can't give you advice on how to attract her because I don't know how to. But good luck!	/r/askTRP	22/10/18 06:53 PM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? You are thinking from a point where you believe you were "designed", so it's hard for me to help you since I don't believe in any "designer". From my point of view, stuff just happened and here we are, or maybe there is some higher power but it doesn't give a fuck. I'm an agnostic. I'm not going to try and change your view on the universe, but at least when it comes to the smaller microcosmos of the human life it would be better if you thought instead of "people get what they are owed" that "peo…	/r/seduction	22/10/18 06:51 PM
2	Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness? Yeah, you're right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 09:55 PM
1	Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside. I liked you a lot 5 years ago Yep a lot of people did. Why should I be with you if you’re gonna leave me for aging. I never said I was going to. I have no idea what I'm going to do X years from now and neither do you. If you like me now, you should be with me now, but it's your choice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 07:40 PM
1	Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness? The IDGAF guy would roast you for your looks or bail on you last minute for pussy or cooler people. He doesn't care about your feelz. He's out for himself. It seems like a more honest way of doing things while the platonic friend girl just seems to be trying to feel good about herself. I'll respect the IDGAF attitude more than the nice one anytime (doesn't mean I will like the person, but I'll respect them more and feel better about myself too).	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 07:38 PM
1	Should I pursue this girl any further? She is clearly not interested. Don't waste your time.	/r/askTRP	21/10/18 09:39 AM
1	Girl invited me to the pool with her friends. Should I go? You are overthinking this. Go if you want to, don't go if you don't want to.	/r/askTRP	21/10/18 09:34 AM
2	How can i attract a bipolar chick? M ex in high school was very attractive but for some reason she was super into me even tho i was so awkward. We never hooked up though How is she your ex if you never hooked up? Just like everyone else said, don't involve yourself with a bipolar chick, it's not worth it no matter how hot she is or how needy you are.	/r/askTRP	21/10/18 09:31 AM
3	Is this girl trolling me? Texted me "wanna fuck?" convo screenshots inside As a 9.5 the OP should have some insane level of experience with that kind of thing. My really attractive friends get approached like this constantly.	/r/askTRP	21/10/18 09:16 AM
4	Is There A Cleanly Defined Process For Seduction? Yes: Be attractive Find someone that you find attractive Bang. But seriously, you guys are harming yourselves by trying to encompass something as complex as human sexual relationships in a series of steps. I'm not saying there isn't a series of steps, just like I'm not saying there isn't a formula for immortality or for creating human beings out of ingredients in a blender. I'm just saying there are too many factors that we don't understand in objective terms. It's like art. Given the right para…	/r/seduction	21/10/18 09:12 AM
1	Are some guys simply "not meant for women"? There is no such thing as being "meant for anything". You clearly have a lot of difficulties, and if you don't do anything about them then getting women will be hard. I'm not even saying that you can solve all of your problems, but I'm saying that if you don't try than you are deciding that you don't want to have any success with women or in life.	/r/seduction	21/10/18 09:05 AM
4	Is there any way to help the creepy guy? You've answered your own question when you said he doesn't listen to your advice. When trying to improve at anything, the first step is to admit that you have a need to improve. Stop taking responsibility for people who can't take responsibility for themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 09:02 AM
2	Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness? I consider this IDGAF attitude kinder than the feminist one. Having a girl hang out with me because she is trying to be politically correct would be the ultimate humiliation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 08:56 AM
5	Q4All: Feminists or Redpillers: who treats ugly people with more kindness? As a male I must say that no, we don't treat ugly women bad, we just treat them neutral. It's like we don't even notice they exist, even when we talk to them we don't really pay attention. If we pay attention, we forget them seconds after the interaction. One other point that I'd like to make is that every ugly chick I know has a boyfriend, has had one, or has at least made out in a party where I was at. Many of these are chicks that I wouldn't kiss if you paid me to do it. Even ugly women can g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 08:54 AM
1	Does Dressing Well Actually Raise Your SMV? Of course dude. Just remember that cute chick from high school or college that dressed like shit. Remember how you'd comment with your friends "damn if she didn't wore those baggy clothes she would actually look hot." or "She is cute, it's just that hairstyle that makes her face look worse".	/r/askTRP	21/10/18 08:49 AM
1	Q4Men: You find out that your girlfriend was ugly 3 years ago. She shows you an old picture of herself and tells you “you wouldn’t have liked me back then, I wasn’t pretty”. How do you react? Additional questions inside. What do you answer when she constantly brings up that you truly don’t like her for who she is? Tell her her looks are part of who she is. If she keeps it up just tell her to stop this and say it looks like she has self-esteem issues. What is your answer when she asks you why you didn’t indicate interest in her 5 years ago? Tell her you didn't indicate interest because you weren't interested. What is your answer when she asks you to pay? She admits that she did these things to find a man like you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/18 08:40 AM
4	11 Great Places Where You Can Meet Women You just train him to run up to attractive girls and sniff and bark at them I wonder how a chick would react if she saw my 50kg Cane Corso running and barking at her. "I'd love to give you my number but I've gotta go switch my pants" is the answer I'd get.	/r/seduction	21/10/18 08:34 AM
1	I feel like I’ve failed at live because at 27, I’m unmarried and childless. That's funny, because I'm 27, unmarried and childless, and feel like I've succeeded at life because of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/18 09:25 AM
11	Who has to work harder in dating... a really tall woman or a really short man? Came here to say that. I know a bunch of really ugly women who have no trouble finding partners, and a bunch of average or slightly below average man who do. This is just a truth, and people posted some research about it in one of the relationship/seduction communities here. When it comes to sex, women have it much easier than men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/18 08:55 AM
3	What happens when you lose "passion" for women? It happened to me once I swallowed the TRP. I guess a big part of what made me love women was the idea that they were special unicorns, and now that I know that they are just normal people I got a hole in the place where my fantasies stood. What I'm doing now is focusing on pleasures that have nothing to do with women. If I get women around me I'll fuck them, and if I can get one of them to enter my life in a supporting role I will enjoy it, but I don't think I'll be able to give myself fully to…	/r/askTRP	03/10/18 08:38 PM
1	[Q4M] What is your experience with "vulnerability", and your opinion on it? Finally something I can contribute to. As another user said, there are types of vulnerable. In one sense, it can mean "weak" and in the other it can mean "open". People respect open men, but not weak men. In every relationship where I decided it was safe to show my weakness, something bad happen. Yes, you will hear that nobody wants to date Mr. Perfect, that fake strength is unnatractive, and so on, and I agree. It is ok to show some minimal weakness, and it is okay to show some strong weakness …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/18 08:25 PM
10	Advice for a guy made unattractive by physical disability? You're a fucking winner dude, congrats on staying motivated to improve. I don't have any particular tip for you except keep lifting, keep working on yourself. I'm glad that you have a job and are taking care of your own life. You should certainly read those books, and keep socializing. The information in the books and TRP is only truly learned once you start observing it in real life. Good luck! Appearances certainly count a lot in our society, and not just when it comes to scoring women. But if…	/r/askTRP	21/09/18 11:12 PM
1	Why I Am Beginning to Have More Sympathy for "Blue Pill" I agree that it may seem funny, but to some people it really is an amazing realization. I grew up thinking women were like those in fairy tales. Even after a lot of bad experiences I thought it was a flaw of those particular women. I only realized how women really were after a lot of experiences and after reading and talking to a lot of other guys about this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/18 02:57 PM
1	Why I Am Beginning to Have More Sympathy for "Blue Pill" A lot of red pill ideas have become extremised, but I think the idea is to use the matrix analogy to diferentiate people who accept reality and people who choose to live in fantasy. Of course there is a spectrum, nothing is black and white, and of course not everyone chooses to believe in a fantasy (just like almost everyone in The Matrix has not chosen to live in that fictional world).	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/18 12:19 PM
4	You can do it! I did this in the beginning of the year and it was so liberating. I had been liking this girl for over one year and thought she was out of my league, but she said yes! It didn't work out between us, but this simple act was the start of a big change, and today, 6 months later, I'm a completely different guy; I've made more progress in these 6 months than in years of just reading stuff and playing scenarios in my head.	/r/seduction	19/09/18 11:04 AM
2	Men aim too high which gives them a false feeling of rejection If you are getting rejected by someone you want, it is still a real feeling of rejection. Men never said they felt rejected by all women in the planet or by humanity as a whole. If I want to date the Scarlett Johansson and she says no, I will feel rejected and it will be an honest feeling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 07:35 PM
1	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value You missed the part where I said "if they are attractive enouogh". Honestly I doubt even 30% of people are attractive, so I actually underestimated the numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 07:33 PM
1	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value Sure: http://www.scielo.br/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S1415-790X2011000500015 Put the results section on google translator if you want to know the full story, but for a quick summary, they studied 68k teenagers in the last year of middle school (or whatver you call the year that comes before highschool). The first line in the results says that 30% of them had sexual intercourse at least once. The study encompasses people from different ethnicities and different socioeconomical classes, so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 05:14 PM
2	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value I get your point but where I live there is a mix of ethnicities, and at least here you don't see a difference of n count based on that. The exception is when the person comes from a family from western values or a very religious family that tries and succeeds (because many families try and fail) to control the person's life. For example I had one friend whose father was chinese and he was really controlling in some aspects (more related to studying, but it's just one example). Apart from that, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 08:21 AM
2	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value Sure but I said "where I live" and you called bullshit lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/18 08:17 AM
1	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value For North Americans maybe. Also do notice that I mentioned attractiveness. At this age it is usually the more attractive people getting laid, while at university age any average chump can do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/18 07:17 PM
3	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value I do realize some cultures manage to control how much sex people have, but in the Western world this is pretty rare. Where I live you will find reams of pregnant 12 yo in the poor areas and most people in middle to upper class will have an active sex life at age 14 or so (if they are attractive enough).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/18 05:48 PM
0	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value This phenomenon where some guy projects himself to the girls past is real, and I have even done it when I was younger. I don't really know why that happens, but it does seem that after a point in a relationship a man starts to feel like every aspect of his partner's life affects him. It's something I had to fight against and that fortunately I have surpassed, but it does happen and I think it is more common than most men admit. On another persepective, though, an n-count might be a way of access…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/18 08:50 AM
9	An obsession with a girl's n count a sign of low value anything over ten is a bit of a red flag You'll have to date 15 year olds forever then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/18 08:40 AM
7	My level of confidence is directly tied to my amount of success I'm having with women at any given moment.. How do I get out this mindset? First you need to know that this is normal. Most confident people have acquired this confidence by having success at something repeatedly at a young age. For example from age 3 to 18 I have always done well on classes even without studying. After that, I had some trouble here and there in college, but a lot of our personality and core beliefs get sedimented when we are younger, it would take a lot of failures to change that. It's the same with guys. Some of them did well with women even as child…	/r/seduction	15/09/18 08:36 AM
1	Im 17 and I cant stop eating unhealthy/junk food. Please help me on how can i start eating healthy I cant stop eating unhealthy food Is there a guy poining a guy at you and making you eat it? If you don't eat it, will you have some acute disorder? If not, then you can stop it. If you honestly do not have the will to stop it yourself then you have an eating disorder and need to go find a psychologist right now before it becomes worse.	/r/askTRP	12/09/18 05:13 PM
17	Yes!! Nobody gives a shit!! Just approach! If you offer something that adds value to someone else's life (it can be emotional value, intelectual, etc) then they will give a shit. I think the idea of "nobody gives a shit" is more like: nobody is putting you and your feelings and your actions in their main thoughts. Again, once you add something to their lives this might change.	/r/seduction	12/09/18 08:31 AM
1	How do you cut losers out of your life without coming off bitter, entitled, selfish, superior. Why are you so worried about what people will think of you, especially if they are losers?	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 10:12 PM
0	I don’t wanna be a sucker and spend so much time and money on a girl who doesn’t sleep with with me, but then I don’t want a hoe. What’s the happy medium? No woman is wife material. Also what makes you think a virgin would be "wife material"? Maybe she is staying virgin because of some religious or cultural conviction, while deep down she craves for the cocks of any men she talks to.	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 10:05 AM
7	Flirting with girl that's sleeping in the same room as me at hostel. How to close? spend another 5 nights with some terrified chick And how is that going to harm you?	/r/askTRP	07/09/18 10:02 PM
1	Does age matter if you look and act younger? Dude unless you have really shit genetics or shit habits there should be no difference between 26 and 20 in terms of looks and energy. Women are full of ideas on how men should act, but why would you want to act the way they tell you? If you want to fuck a chick and it's legal, just do it. If you are 60 and want to fuck a 16 year old and it's consensual and legal, go for it. Who cares what the other 60 year-old women will think of you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/18 08:14 AM
0	No more Mr.nice guy activity n°23 Like everyone else said this is a normal, healthy fear. Something we evolved because in the ancient times it could have meant instant death or crippling. The solution? Go for chicks without guys, which are plenty, or slowly work to overcome the fear. Exposition to the situation will desensitize you over time.	/r/askTRP	04/09/18 07:50 AM
12	How do I last longer?? LMAO!	/r/askTRP	03/09/18 07:58 AM
4	In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality? Reasons an attractive girl might want to go on dating apps: She is insecure: self-confidence depends a lot on your mind. You could have a thousand signals that show you are attractive but your brain could ignore them or downplay them, while at the same time letting the few signals that you are not attractive influence you more. She might use dating apps just for validation or as a safer way to try and get a date. There is always someone above in the food chain: an attractive girl will have a guy…	/r/seduction	29/08/18 11:49 AM
3	My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual men Yeah, call them whatever you want, I'm just saying that men that posed as hetero did this.	/r/askTRP	28/08/18 09:22 PM
16	My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual men Came here to say that. I have gay friends and sometimes I go with a group to gay clubs and girls in our group will often make out with gay guys in said clubs. Some of my gay friends will make out with girls, especially when drunk, and even fuck them. I've seen some of my heterossexual friends kissing men when drunk. In other words, life is more than black and white, people will do whatever the fuck they want (sometimes they need an excuse like being drunk or the other party being "gay"), and you…	/r/askTRP	27/08/18 07:01 PM
19	a few months into my reboot and waking up, women are starting to notice me more Nothing weird about wanting girls that are hot and legal. Bonus points if they are dtf college chicks.	/r/seduction	26/08/18 03:20 PM
1	Calisthenics over lifting? (is this considered breaking a core rule of the sub?) Calisthenics is great but weightlifiting was designed especially for hypertrophy. The most important movements from weightlifting can be done with no weights or machines, but If you want to be buff (and I mean really buff) you need to gradually increase the amount of weight you lift. Calisthenics allows you to increase repetitions or variations, but "pure calisthenics" only lets you use bodyweight, so you lose the ability to progress the load you are lifting. This makes you lose an important fac…	/r/askTRP	24/08/18 08:08 AM
1	A year of approaching women - This is what I learnt I thought the point of day game was to become able to approach women in your daily settings. For example you are going to the gym and meet a hot girl in the way (or in the gym), you are going to the grocery shop and meet a hot girl on the line, and so on.	/r/seduction	20/08/18 09:17 PM
2	6 MOST COMMON Signals Girls Give as an INVITATION to Talk to Them But if I approach a girl and talk about her tats or astronomy or whatever, how will she know that I actually want to make out with her? Isn't it better to just be clear? Saying she is pretty is at least a way of making my intentions known from the start.	/r/seduction	20/08/18 03:47 PM
4	I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups. Maybe you are right, but I thought the way of succeeding in this game was to become so badass that a) either woman would be the ones pursuing you or b) once you presented yourself as a suitor they would close the doors to the rest (at least while you are there, because once you are gone to do something else you can't predict what they will do in their spare time).	/r/seduction	19/08/18 01:12 PM
36	I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups. I just realized that I'm spending too much time and effort, and what I'm getting are lays with not so great women. As a younger guy (27 yo) who doesn't like to drink and loves working out, I sometimes think the same. This friday I just went to a party and had some success, but it felt so empty. The chicks I kissed had kissed like 3 or 4 other guys and treated me like just "one more". I'm not in this game to be just another one. Not that I'm looking for a oneitis or a serious relationship, but I'…	/r/seduction	19/08/18 11:43 AM
1	Crush on my boss... I'm not sure either. The red flag to me was the part where you said that she was old and probably into drinking and that you were afraid because you didn't want to go that way. It made it seem like she has strong influence over you. I have dated chicks that drink and shit but I've never changed my habits because of them. It doesn't seem like you want to fuck her or go out and have fun, but instead that you want her to put you into her life and take care of you and stuff. This mentality doesn't w…	/r/seduction	19/08/18 11:18 AM
1	Crush on my boss... It doesn't seem like you just have a crush, it seems you have a oneitis for your boss. This could be a really bad situation even if she was a normal girl....	/r/seduction	19/08/18 10:56 AM
0	Are muscles really that useful? Some people look much better with muscles than without. Try to imagine a very skinny Dwayne Johnson. Some people look slightly better with muscles than without. Most people will look bad with too much muscle, but "too much muscle" depends a lot on your standard for muscles. To me, Arnold and the bodybuilders from his time have the perfect amount of muscle, but the Olympia winners of today have too much. A lot of people will find Arnold's proportions ugly and exaggerated. That is why you should l…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 09:16 AM
0	Is fucking chubbys 4s and 5s better than fucking nothing? To me, fucking anyone I don't want to fuck is worse than nothing, even if no one finds out. Why? because every time I do it I am pounding the idea in my mind that I'm not good enough to get what I want.	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 09:11 AM
1	I’m not ok I'm not sure about your buddy's ideas. I would say that in different circumstances, different people would dominate or follow. A silly example of this are those movies where everyone's life depends on a videogame; the nerdy guy ends up becoming the leader. Yes, that is just a fantasy, but it explores a fact: nobody is good at everything, nobody is going to shine in every possible circumstance. The Chad from uni might reveal to be a total loser when comfronted by a criminal, for example. Having s…	/r/askTRP	19/08/18 08:19 AM
2	Q4Women: Do you expect your man to live up to your higher standards? I agree, this is a silly frame. OP, you're not going to get your wife more devoted by trying to do stuff for her. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" if you want more details, but basically this idea of getting people to like us/do stuff for us by doing stuff for them is a toxic mindset that will get you hurt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/18 08:10 AM
1	Why does trp consider lone wolfing to be this horrible thing? What’s so wrong with being independent? I don't think having a bad time is mandatory for isolated people. Our mind is awesome and it can learn to adapt to loneliness. However, by not being social you miss out a good chunk of the experiences that life has to offer, and you miss the chance to develop important skills that could make your life easier. If there is one skillset in this world that can get you anywhere, it's social skills. A social skilled guy will probably be able to get more stuff than a super genius or even a very attract…	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 02:52 PM
4	Is it just me or...... You'll be there, but he will be alone in that he will be the one feeling the pain and the imminence of death. I'm saying this because I've been really ill and even though I had loving people around me, I felt alone and desperate. Also, one thing to note is that relationships are rarely reactive. What I mean is that just because you put effort into someone, you have no guarantee that they will put it back on you. You could be a great father and raise your child well but he could still grow up giv…	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 09:12 AM
-1	Is it just me or...... I think of myself more as an existentialist than a nihilist (when we die we fade into nothing but we can still give meaning to our lives while we are living them). Well let’s say in 10 years from now you decide that you want kids. Do you think it’s a legit reason to get married with their Mother? Haha That's a good question, but even under this light I'm not sure it's a good idea to marry. Yes, the woman might help me out raise our child or she might decide to divorce and make it hard for me to …	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 09:08 AM
1	Is it just me or...... Well you don't really get much in return. I think either you accept that everything you've done dies with you (and goes to the government) or you try to leave a legacy on earth. Maybe all fo my ideas here are because I'm part of the first group. When you die, you are dead, you don't exist anymore. Any legacy that you leave or will be meaningless to you because, well, you won't be there to give meaning to anything. So I guess it really depends on your philosophies. My point is just that I'd rathe…	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 08:47 AM
2	Is it just me or...... Everyone will.	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 08:45 AM
0	Is it just me or...... I don't see how having kids is a good reason. Kids and marriage are just a bad investment, they are a way of feeding some fantasy but the cost is too high compared to what you get in return. Just use this money/time to invest in yourself. You could lift, get a great body, get plastic surgery, get a great career, and fuck 18-25 yo chicks until your penis dies. You could pay for sex regularly and it would still be cheaper than raising a kid. I don't see marrying for religion as respectful either. …	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 08:31 AM
-3	Is it just me or...... Downvoted because of clickbaity title. Should have included a title that makes it clear what the question is going to be about.	/r/askTRP	17/08/18 08:26 AM
2	Q4Men: Would You Rather "Attractive, but Low Sexdrive" or "Unattractive, but High Sexdrive" in a partner? Yeah I would imagine that a mismatch of sex drive is one thing that can make a relationship really hard to maintain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/18 07:50 PM
1	Q4Men: Would You Rather "Attractive, but Low Sexdrive" or "Unattractive, but High Sexdrive" in a partner? I don't think she should always be willing to please me like some sex machine, but I would like my partner to take pleasure in pleasing me some times, even when she doesn't feel like it. Some people might find this strange, but to me it's normal. I like seeing my partner cum, I like cuddling with her and giving her comfort or listening to her even when I don't feel like having sex, cuddling, or talking. Again, I don't think this should happen all the time, but if my partner can't enjoy doing stu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/18 02:22 PM
2	Q4Men: Would You Rather "Attractive, but Low Sexdrive" or "Unattractive, but High Sexdrive" in a partner? I've actually dated women with more sex drive then me and I did these kinds of things for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/18 02:20 PM
1	How do i become happy with being alone by myself I'm also struggling with this but I have made progress lately. It is not about stopping enojoying social events. Human beings are social beings and there is no reason for you to change that in yourself. The main point here is that you need to learn how to enjoy "alone time". Alone time is productive, it is valuable, it is when you improve yourself and reflect on your actions. You should be able to enjoy social time and alone time equally, and remember that just becuase you are spending some time…	/r/askTRP	16/08/18 02:19 PM
1	Do bio's even matter in online dating? Do bios matter? yes. Do bios matter anywhere near as much as attractiveness? no. I've never used Tinder but if I ever made a bio I would only use it to link my instagram and list (true) stuff that increase my SMV, like just a simple list with 2 or 3 cool hobbies, my area of work which is awesome, maybe some trivia like the fact that I love dogs or whatever, as long as it is true and not just some made up shit to attract people.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 02:00 PM
3	Q4Men: Would You Rather "Attractive, but Low Sexdrive" or "Unattractive, but High Sexdrive" in a partner? Sex drive for males has many other factors involved. Last time I checked it had more to do with anxiety, cardiovascular health, and medication use (SSRI's I'm looking at you) then with test. As a steroid user I can attest that it didn't change my sex drive that much. My sex drive was low to normal at my natty levels (which were pretty high at 800 ng/dl) and it increased to normal to high but not crazy at 2700 ng/dl test. Estrogen is under control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/18 01:51 PM
1	Q4Men: Would You Rather "Attractive, but Low Sexdrive" or "Unattractive, but High Sexdrive" in a partner? Attractive with low sex drive. As my girlfriend I would expect her to give me blowjobs and handjobs in order to get me off whenever she didn't want to have sex (I would do the same for a female partner if she was horny and I wasn't in the mood).	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/18 01:48 PM
3	Law 1: Never Outshine the Master, but what if I do? Why not document all the shit he does and keep it stored somewhere? One day he is going to get really fed up and insecure and will make a desperate move, then you just show all the evidence you have been collecting and explain how you never showed it before because you believed in your boss as a friend and wanted to make the team work together, and you are only showing it now because you had no other choice. He's gone, you'll get a raise, people will admire you more, you'll become even more of a…	/r/askTRP	15/08/18 03:40 PM
1	Is it Wrong to Seek Validation? 1.) Is it wrong for men to seek validation? No. 2.) Is it wrong for women to seek validation? No. However I think it is important to know when someone else is seeking validation and to know how to deal with it. Especially because some people are using you only for validation, unintentionally most of of the time, but still in a way that can harm your relationship with them, your self-image, and your general success with the opposite sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/18 11:25 AM
2	Do I need social media? I see reddit more as a discussion board then as a social media. I'm not sure what the defintion of social media is, but I'd imagine you need to be able to build a network of people around you in some way. I'm not sure if anonimity works in social media either.	/r/askTRP	14/08/18 11:16 AM
1	Do I need social media? Do you need social media to get laid? no. Is social media a good tool to helping get laid? yes, but like any other tool you need to know how to use it. But more than that, social media is part of today's modern world; having one and knowing how to use it will help you way beyond just banging women, it can help you connect and build an image for yourself. Social media isn't the demon a lot of redditors make it seem, the only problem is that some people overuse it or try to replace real social int…	/r/askTRP	14/08/18 11:14 AM
1	[Discussion] Is there a purpose nowadays? Purpose if whatever you make it be. People give their lives to great ideals because it is comfortable to have a purpose created for you. That is also why people believe in religions and stuff like that. Be better than that; create your own purpose.	/r/askTRP	14/08/18 11:12 AM
2	Is it okay for a man to not have a sense of urgency? meetup.com I wasn't even familiar with this site, it seems interesting, but I can't vouch for it. If you want something simpler, just go to gatherings at work/school, join some class like dancing or photography or whatever (choose something you really want to learn). You could even go to a local place to play DnD if you like that sort of stuff. I personally am not against "nerdy" stuff and I don't think they make you into a beta male or anything. Just make an effort to talk to people at whatever…	/r/askTRP	12/08/18 02:35 PM
1	Is it okay for a man to not have a sense of urgency? Everyone has their own time, so don't worry about other people accomplishing stuff at earlier ages. Not having a sense of urgency is ok as long as you have a goal and are working toward it. I would say that the sense of urgency can be both good and bad. It's good as in it propels you to act, but bad as in it stops you from doing things rationally and thoughtfully. If you have discipline and motivation you can act without needing urgency. As for women, I think it is wise to practice social skills…	/r/askTRP	12/08/18 01:29 PM
2	Can someone explain to me what/ how one is “purple pill”? Blue pill and Red pill would be opposite sides of one spectrum, where on end believes women are unable to commit to and love a man and therefore exist only for sex and the other end believes in disney-like love stories. You could have an opinion that mixes both of these, for example you could believe that there are no disney-like love stories and that women's love is never going to be absolute, but you could enjoy their company and build a deep relationship for as long as it lasts. I think much …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/18 11:35 AM
1	Can you guys help a lady out? Reattraction after moving too fast. Personally, I don't like any pressure in relationships. There is this chick I really liked who kept me asking stuff like "are we going somewhere" and that killed it. I thought we are somewhere, what else do you want? Relationships need to evolve on their own, you don't need to push for a change. In fact, most of the time we push for a change because we are affraid of losing the person and we think that getting them to commit gives us greater security, but this is just an illusion and it is the w…	/r/seduction	11/08/18 05:13 PM
5	Q4RP: What will you tell your sons when they get their hearts broken? "Don't worry, my child, you are stronger than you think. After all, you survived 3 attempts of an abortion."	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/18 10:56 PM
1	Purple Pill Theory: Women aren't attracted to men with money because they're attracted to money. They're attracted to men with money because of what having money implies about their character. Women are attracted to powerful men. The rich entrepeneur, the smart professor, the famous actor, the handsome man, the muscular badass, these are all powerful people, men that feel like they have something the woman (and other men) don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/18 04:55 PM
2	How do you "have fun"? You seem to have social anxiety and maybe some other disorder. It would be good to see a psychologist, I like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. You're never going to change your personality 100% (and you shouldn't) but some sort of therapy might give you strategies to face your difficulties. If you want to do this on your own, try to beat down in your head the idea that escaping from a difficult situation gives you instant gratification and relief, but reinforces your difficulties. To put it simply,…	/r/askTRP	10/08/18 10:47 AM
1	What would you tell your 17 year old self? On high doses it can do a lot of stuff. Your organs can grow too much, it can make you insulin resistant (like a type 2 diabetic), your bones can grow too much... But that depends on the dosage and individual response. I'm not recommending HGH to anyone, and I myself have never used it, but as with every drug it has pros and cons, and the effects depend on the individual.	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 11:10 AM
2	Men that don't seem to care about sex after TRP I'd like to think 30-50 would be a mans prime Socially maybe, but not physiologically.	/r/askTRP	08/08/18 11:03 PM
2	What would you tell your 17 year old self? Why? Did you get cancer from HGH? That's the only issue that I'd be afraid of, but it occurs mainly on predisposed people or those who already have some tumor waiting to grow.	/r/askTRP	08/08/18 11:01 PM
2	What would you tell your 17 year old self? Invest on yourself and try to fuck every attractive women in your way. Don't worry about what they will think, it won't affect your future.	/r/askTRP	08/08/18 11:00 PM
1	Do you think being good at sex is for low value (ugly/fat) women? You become good at whatever you practice. I would say chicks with higher sex drives, more proactivity, and more opportunities will be better in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/18 09:25 PM
2	My parents just told me “I don’t have a mean bone in my body” - makes me feel like a total beta cuck - how to develop meanness? he obeys everything they say Here is your answer. Stand up for yourself, even with your parents. Yeah you own them a lot for feeding and housing you, but you are still a human being with your own values and desires, and you need to put that forward. I'm not telling you to be disrespectful or anything, but don't be affraid to speak your mind, to disagree, etc.	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 10:40 AM
1	Being not socially skilled, unattractive, bad with girls, and overall beta, how do I deal with family members who are the complete opposite? Maybe let them know of your difficulties and ask for help? You will find that most people who are good at something like to teach that something to others. I'm not very socially skilled as well, at least I wasn't born so, but I've been making an effort to improve ever since I was a child, and today I'm much better. The best years of my life were in high school when I had a friend who was totally a natural; this friend saw my difficulties and went out of his way to help me, like a coach or someth…	/r/askTRP	06/08/18 10:28 AM
1	Beta traits. Lol, I realize what I said is controversial. Yes, it is, what I meant is that the beta male has the habit of putting other people's desires in front of his own and expects everyone else to do the same for him, then gets triggered when a person doesn't act as he expects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/18 01:14 AM
1	CMV: Men Care About A Woman's Status Huh? I'm not sure most women will agree. Maybe it depends on their age, I'm 27 and most women I know are into casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 04:32 PM
3	CMV: Men Care About A Woman's Status For sure, human beings are social beings and we care about that kind of stuff, no matter our sex. Although many men like to throw the "I don't care what the world thinks of me", I doubt that anyone who isn't completely antisocial would not enjoy the social boost of dating a well-standing woman. However, what well-standing means changes from culture to culture. It's not by chance that men in the past would seek to marry virgins, for example. This is tangential, but I think the reason many man get…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 01:03 PM
3	Beta traits. I'll disagree with most answers here, let me know what you think. 1: What exactly are "beta traits?" They are submissive traits. Some people said they are the traits of men who listen, who comfort or care about their woma(e)n, but I don't think that way. I think the beta male is the submissive guy, the one who is always trying to please despite his own feelings, who is willing to take shit and not stand for himself, who is eager to ignore his own desires (and then gets pissed when his girl doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 12:56 PM
3	CMV: Men Care About A Woman's Status You are right, we care. However, I must say this: social status does not change attractiveness. To me, social status is important because I care about my own social status. I want to go around hand to hand with a Victoria`s Secret model and have everyone think what a fucking king I am, I want to date an ambitious woman because I am ambitious, and I want someone who will help me build amazing things and not drag me down. However, when it comes to sexual attraction, I couldn't care less. I do want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/18 12:39 PM
3	Why people don't want omega males near them? So an outcast? Like someone nobody wants to hang out with because he is weird?	/r/askTRP	04/08/18 12:16 PM
3	Favorite plate broke down crying after sex This isn't the morality subreddit.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 11:39 PM
3	Why people don't want omega males near them? Wtf is an omega male? This isn't on TRP glossary of terms.	/r/askTRP	03/08/18 10:58 PM
1	Is there anything more in life than pussy, money and work? Nobody can tell you what life is about. Everyone has their theories and some of these theories have become popular enough to germinate a cult (religions, philosophical groups, etc). I myself am of the existencialist philosophy. I don't believe there is a reason we are here, or if there is one, we can't find out. There is no way to know if there is "something greater" or if this something is actually good or if it's just using us for some purpose (we could be just a computer simulation or whateve…	/r/askTRP	01/08/18 06:14 PM
1	CMV - Women don't have "higher standards" for casual sex, women have higher standards in general. I'm sorry to tell you that you are the asshole. Most people are decent. Even the hot ones. Why the personal attack? If I were an asshole I wouldn't be here trying to understand you. Far more than 5% of men are attractive. The top 5% in this case would be men who have all of the qualities you want at the same time. Attractiveness is subjective so I can't tell you who is attractive or not, but at least for women in my environment (middle class college student) I would say only 30% or so are attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/18 11:50 AM
1	CMV - Women don't have "higher standards" for casual sex, women have higher standards in general. Huh? No. Like I said, I like to have sex with attractive women. That rules out like 70% of the women I know so I wouldn't call that "rock bottom". In your case, you are going for the top 5% or something. There aren't that many attractive men, there aren't that many men who aren't assholes (most can pretend well though). I don't know how many men are good in bed since everyone is always claiming to be, but considering most men don't get much sex I would say again that only a few get to become goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/18 11:20 AM
1	CMV - Women don't have "higher standards" for casual sex, women have higher standards in general. Do you consider the standards "attractive, available, and not an asshole" to be high? Lol yeah. As a man my standards for having casual sex for woman are just attractive and hygienic. She can be annoying as fuck, married, an asshole. She can be terrible in bed, I don't mind having to teach her. Hell, she could even not be that attractive depending on the moment. And that's because I'm one of the most picky guys I know. Most of my friends will be glad to fuck any girl who's down to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/18 11:05 AM
4	Women find you way more Attractive than you Realize we might be called "handsome" time to time Speak for yourself lol. Sure, looks matter, but not as much as inner game. Keep working on that inner game. Nah, if you look good you can have shit inner game and whatever. I've seen good looking shy guys get approached directly by women like crazy, ever since I was in 5th grade. They would get love letters in school, get asked to make out in high school and in parties, and so on. I would say looks is the main thing but inner game can enchance your look…	/r/seduction	25/07/18 11:16 AM
6	Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate it Maybe this disgust I feel is wrong and I should just accept that women are sexual creatures too? This is a must regardless of your goals with women. Why? Because it is a fact, and men must accept facts instead of living in fantasy. Maybe just because she’s promiscuous doesn’t disqualify her as LTR material? Promiscuous is cultural idea. If you accept that sex only needs sexual attraction to happen, you will be fine with the fact that she has fucked a lot of people before. When I was 18 or someth…	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 07:34 PM
1	Q4Men: how would you feel if your wife/ girlfriend stopped shaving her legs? By reading the comments I see that OP is asking this from a deeper, philosophical point of view. I believe this idea of seeing the shaving of their legs as a deception comes from a "naturalistic" view on the world. I don't know much about philosophy so forgive me if I don't know the proper name, but a lot of people think we are what "nature" makes us. I take the stance that "nature" has no agency at all, it's just a set of random (or semi-random) events. It's just probability. We, humans, on the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/18 07:11 PM
1	The ultimate proof you need on lifting - The 59 year old man I met at the gym. Heya, I'm a begginer steroid user (27 yo, started 1 month ago with test). Just out of curiosity, what gear and doses do you use? I'm asking this because I want to know the difference in dosages between someone who does it for quality of life like you and people at the steroids subreddit (my previous reply got deleted because I referred to the actual subreddit, sorry about that.). Feel free to PM me if you don't want to talk about this in here.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/18 03:34 PM
2	The ultimate proof you need on lifting - The 59 year old man I met at the gym. Scientifically, weight lifting is the best for muscle growth. Realistically, whatever exercise you enjoy is the best, because what matters is that you do it consistenly for the rest of your life and that you give 100% of yourself while doing it.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/18 02:09 PM