Kibahime Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I can NOT with men	MALE DEPRAVITY	Kibahime	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/21 06:32 AM

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1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Lol, you good bro? I'm just gonna put it out there, if you're a guy who exclusively or preferably seeks out men for advice on dating, you're working on attracting men. If that's your goal, I'm queer and I totally approve. Live your truth 😍	/r/seduction	16/07/22 06:48 PM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid Hardly relevant. Looks don't equate to worth at all and worth is not something that is determined by outside parties.	/r/seduction	16/07/22 06:23 PM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid ✨therapy✨	/r/seduction	16/07/22 06:04 PM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) It matters if women don't want to be bothered. It doesn't matter to YOU because you are not respecting us as autonomous and equal human beings. You have real world experience vs me, who literally is a woman, with women as friends and family and coworkers, and who also dates women? Like real women in real life. But it's weird to dismiss collective input from women on the internet like it's less valuable, while "coaching" men on the internet. Aight my dude. You do you. I was just offering insight …	/r/seduction	16/07/22 06:04 PM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) You think you dismantled my concerns about advocating this approach? By saying I'm negative and resentful? I'd LOVE to not be wary of men, but in a best case scenario we know these approaches are for sex and we're out here just trying to live our lives. Tinder and a bar are places where we might be looking for casual sex but even then, we generally let men know if we're interested. For anyone reading this thinking this might be good advice to begin a relationship, you said you've used this appro…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 03:51 PM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid That right there is your issue. You probably would be better served working on yourself first vs waiting for a woman for validation. If you have issues with self esteem, dating right now is probably not ideal. Exploring new hobbies and even just exploring the city you live in is a great way to make yourself a more interesting prospect AND a great way to meet people organically. You'll have common ground to strike up a conversation. I literally met an ex girlfriend sitting at the counter of this …	/r/seduction	16/07/22 07:20 AM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid Women get flooded with boring messages, something quirky and funny or thought provoking is absolutely one of the better ways to go. If everyone fizzles, try adjusting your profile. If there wasn't a lot of information to go off you might be casting the net too wide and matching with people who you don't have anything in common with. And then of course, take the initiative to carry more of the conversation. Again, we get a lot of messages and ANY conversation I don't feel like I'm carrying myself…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 07:07 AM
1	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid Omg I have ghosted so many men because ALL they have to say is "wyd?" I don't need us both here to carry the whole ass conversation. I'd rather get back to rehousing my tarantulas or learning more about doing my own nails at home or I'll dump 10 hours into building a new base in Ark. Once a guy who's an acquaintance I've known sort of for a few years messaged me. Which he never does, so I checked to profile to confirm, yep, recently single. He asked how I was doing and I told him honestly I wasn…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:57 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Assuming all men have the potential to harm and intend to pursue me purely off my physical appearance is the actual lived experience of most women, and is a form of self defense. If I gave you a box of Skittles and said don't worry, only like ten of them are toxic, you wouldn't eat ANY of the Skittles. We actually do enjoy male company enough to continue to take a needless risk but that doesn't mean throwing caution to the wind. Even when we THINK he's vetted and safe? The number of women murder…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:40 AM
1	😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches) Yeah, ew. I've never ONCE been interested in a strange man who just walked up and interrupted my day. You know women are wary of men, because they are brutalized by them constantly and don't WANT a strange man talking to them? "Do you live around here?" Why would I ever disclose that?? MAYBE if you're at a social event or something? Have SOME sort of common ground? The worst part is the "sorry if this is random", but you're not sorry and it's random because we don't know each other and it's nice…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:29 AM
2	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested THIS. I don't personally give a flying fuck about social status. When I think of a reputation being important it's purely that other women in his life have vetted him as safe, a non creep, an ally, etc. All of my hobbies are pretty introverted and I have my own little online community already. There's nothing cuter than watching someone bubble over about their passions. I feel like men just have different expectations of the world to confirm around them. I grew up playing games too but as a girl…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:19 AM
1	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested Hunting is one of the hobbies that men have a fixation with making it their ENTIRE personality. Also a lot of women are turned off by killing for sport. Interesting means like you've learned about other cultures, you understand the political atmosphere we're having to live through, you maybe like houseplants and you cannot contain your excitement over an upcoming trip. But no, we want y'all to be fulfilled vs expecting us to do so. You just have to balance that with making time for the relations…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:15 AM
1	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested My actual advice on every post. An alarming number of men are dying to know how to keep a woman's interest, man be emotionally intelligent and have some hobbies and real friendships. I don't need a man to get off, I own my home and car, be INTERESTING. Some of us are bi so you're already starting the race at a disadvantage because women are ✨lovely✨	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:09 AM
2	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested If you want to learn crucial insight into dating and relationships, might I recommend having friends around your age who are women? That you aren't trying to fuck? Why do men always ask other men what women want when women are happy to discuss 🙃 The patriarchy has a chokehold on us all lol	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:05 AM
0	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested Have you ever actually had women as friends?? The men you're describing in your hypotheticals are off-putting as fuck and the notion that all women, ESPECIALLY mature women are into "bad boys" is incel propaganda. One of the biggest markers of mature women is having outgrown the male validation phase and being fine on their own. Making space for a partner if things align well. Not playing these bullshit mind games. Mature women are too fucking tired and don't need men enough to want to participa…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 05:00 AM
1	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested Glad to see the edit on age clarification. As a 32 year old, absofuckinglutely not. On any woman who's outgrown the male validation age, probably absolutely not. Also, this is a lot of thought and effort that could be spent just like, getting to know her? Becoming a more interesting person to begin with? You shouldn't have to manufacture time spent thinking about you. Just focus on yourself and expanding your hobbies and learning about society and other cultures and stuff, literally just be inte…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 04:53 AM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? Be more interesting. You need to have something going for you, have hobbies and be more cultured. Be somebody that is emotionally intelligent and passionate about something. But don't do the thing where you start going to the gym and make it your entire personality. Try, I don't know, having friends who are women who you don't want to have sex with. And then actually listen to their input. You'd be surprised how many of the standards men try to achieve to impress women actually are just impressi…	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:07 PM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? No, and yes. Focusing all efforts into GETTING women and not enough on just being a good partner. Put your efforts into building a life that could easily accommodate a partner BEFORE entering a relationship, and work on yourself. Be emotionally intelligent, work through baggage, have healthy friendships, and have hobbies. That's your key to getting a partner. If you think the things you listed are high effort, it doesn't exactly inspire much confidence that you have what it takes to maintain a l…	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:02 PM
1	Would a Girl Want to Date a Guy Who is Good Looking but Doesn’t Have a Car? Personally? No. But that's because I only expect from a partner to meet me where I am in my life. If I don't cook, for instance, that doesn't mean I put that burden on my partner, and I'm still responsible for feeding myself at the end of the day. If they don't drive, the chances of me having to be 100% responsible for transportation and logistics, especially if it's a cishet man? Really high. I personally don't date right now because I've got too much going on working on my health, a family mem…	/r/seduction	10/07/22 12:09 AM
15	I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic. I so want to talk to this woman and find out what the problem is. It's entirely possible she's being shitty, abusive women exist absolutely. But makes you wonder if the house is ACTUALLY clean like he claims. Also is weird that he didn't mention any attempts to understand WHY she is upset. Cleaning might just be the way she vents her frustration, it may not be the root cause.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 06:40 PM
68	Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners? DUDE that part. The lack of respect for his partner is awful but the number of guys who have hit on me while with someone is like, excuse me? You think I'm fucking desperate enough to be your side chick? I have an old coworker that still texts me every few months/year to "catch up" and I always start with "how's your wife and baby?" The fuck is wrong with men	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 12:14 AM
1	Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ The comment sections of these types of videos are always SO cringe.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 12:16 AM
2	Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating” Jesus fucking christ. I'm weirdly glad that when I was in an abusive relationship that my ex just wouldn't touch me or talk to me. At least my throat and jaw weren't being damaged for ALMOST A FUCKING HOUR. And he's cheated?? I hope she finds the strength to leave soon. It's especially dangerous and scary when you're pregnant though. Like I'm sick to my stomach reading that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 09:04 AM
5	I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 Ew, wtf dude. I would have felt super unheard too. Also asking IF you wanted something. The fuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 03:40 AM
3	After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards! There is a guy who is pursuing me (respectfully, always listens to me and respects my time and my boundaries) but he is SEVEN years younger than me and I can't wrap my head around if I should shut it down or not. Now, he's not American, he's had a great father and role model and a big, blended family. He has made jokes about how he wants to settle down and have kids and how me already having one is a "bundle deal." So far, the only thing I'm a little uncomfortable with is the age difference beca…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/21 11:00 PM
1	What kind of dumbass neckbeard neggs Azealia Banks online?! LMAO! God DAMN this is... my new bible	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 09:51 PM
14	“sUB dROp” 🤦🏾‍♀️ NOT HAVING TO THINK I'm convinced severe decision fatigue is the only appeal to being a sub	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 03:51 AM
15	But only if he can't go in dry D-mannose is a fucking life saver. I've had chronic UTIs basically my whole life and antibiotics and cranberry extract do jack shit. Even ONE dose of D-mannose gives me instant relief.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 08:21 PM