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The hot and crazy matrix continues! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jHTGNPOYGQ In all seriousness shes sounds batty.
/r/seduction25/06/26 03:57 AM
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Ending a relationship via text is incredibly unclassy. Not even the time of day to have a call or even meet in person. Not excusable. Good on you on not responding. I learned myself on a previous girl I dated. Remember you can always use the Zeigarnik Effect to your advantage in these situations. Silence is the card to play. I would have dodged longterm discussions like that until her investment was higher, because I've been burned by showing my cards too early. Hangout, hookup and have fun. Kee…
/r/seduction25/06/26 03:49 AM
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Rejection is part of the process my guy. I'm 6ft white, classically attractive and very successful professionally. I blow out all the time. You should look up power laws. Once you strike gold its absolute magic. It took me 60 first dates for her and she moved my soul. I've loved and lost. Keep trying, and focus on improving like any skill. The time passes anyway. You will have had a 10 year start on me. Believe me you are in the BEST position in your life to start doing what you are doing. Small…
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:48 PM
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My only critique here is that if you have a solid profile, if you only swipe baddies you will be pushed higher. Blindly swiping gets penalized. If you curate your matches, you will move up higher. Otherwise this guy gets. Cold approach also helps you improve socially which you need anyways for dating / building social circle.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:50 PM
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Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway. We might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use. YouTube University is your friend. Tons of free content on this.
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:05 AM
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And get good pictures, there are life style / instagram photographers that can help with that. Sounds like he can afford it.
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:13 AM
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How's your logistics? Honestly being in a high density area of my city has vastly improved my mindset, opportunities and game. I didn't have my first gf till 30. Mostly because I just didn't approach like a dummy, and similar to you, took dating way too seriously. Also consider how fit you are, as the has a massive impact on your ability to close. Ideally your ability to be fit, and meet girls should all be within a 15-30 minute walk of your place.
/r/seduction26/01/26 05:53 AM
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When I held her in my arms, and I knew she loved me.
/r/seduction26/01/26 04:51 AM
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Buddy, I pray this goes well for you. It did not for me. I don't get my honey were I get my money. God speed.
/r/seduction25/01/26 10:55 PM
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Talk to other girls. The only currency you have as a man is your attention.
/r/seduction23/01/26 06:46 AM
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Scandinavian women on average take care of themselves more than USA. Obesity and other bad habits are common. Plus going to Europe for trips is a quick flight from Scandinavia. One of the most gorgeous woman I ever saw in my life was a girl working at McDonalds in Stockholm.
/r/seduction22/01/26 08:27 PM
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Thanks dude, I've heard similar sentiments.
/r/seduction21/01/26 06:04 AM
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Thanks man appreciate it. Yeah I am starting to think my advice for calls is way more nuanced. I've had my gut feeling that texting (and actively so) is more a girls vibe. Its probably amplified. My biggest issue is the conversation of number, to date. Definite dates can increase the probability, but it doesn't guarantee success. I'll have a girl give me her number, after what feels like a good interaction and she poofs. Tbh glad I have my memories of my ex. Keeps me warm after getting the cold …
/r/seduction20/01/26 06:53 AM
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Her mom got cancer and she chose to end things. I miss her.
/r/seduction19/01/26 07:36 PM
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I understand that and joke around too. However, that takes some back and forth in terms of exchanges. This is more after an initial touchpoint with a cold approach where you haven't had a chance for a full date.
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:50 PM
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I'm early 30s and get mistaken for late 20s all the time. I only started cold approaching for the first time last year. My two exes were 7 and 9 years younger than me.
/r/seduction19/01/26 06:42 PM
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Over 6ft here and terrible game lmao. I blowout all the time.
/r/seduction30/10/25 09:16 PM
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You need more polarity usually. That means lots of teasing, and being direct. Need to keep her guessing. Also more man-to-woman talk.
/r/seduction27/10/25 01:28 AM
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Say if your 45 minutes to an hour with driving and parking…
/r/seduction23/10/25 03:06 PM
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How close do you need to live near these places, especially for your target demographic?
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:42 PM
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It's literally trial by fire once you learn some routines. Kind of like learning how drive or work out. You do the reps and sets. Literally just putting yourself out there. I didn't have my first official relationship till 30. There are techniques which help to get started, then it's like improve or Jazz. Most people think I'm an extrovert at this point. Seduction (as much as I hate the term) is skill, luck and Persistence. Nature vs. Nurture often times is a limiting mindset. You go for you wan…
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:41 AM
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She had a shared birthday, and her actual birthday is this weekend. I wasn't aware of that when I scheduled the date.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:19 AM
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Yeah. We've gotten freaky a few times since.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:17 AM
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Do it, attraction is all that matters.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:32 PM
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You do not message her. She is low interest. Talk to other girls and the best is you can do is bait her with Instagram Stories of the bomb ass life you are having with or without her.
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:57 PM
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Ghosted. I do a hail Mary phone call and leave a voice mail, for an open ended invitation for a date. Separates me by having the balls to not be alongside all the other Graves in her texts
/r/seduction14/09/25 12:03 AM
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I would just watch out as you get out of the honeymoon phase it's when times are tough where the relationship reveals if it has legs. I was dating a 9 because I don't believe in tens. Circumstances ripped us apart (parental cancer), and I never heard from her again. She was avoidant. It was absolute whiplash, as it sounds much like your current situation before things went to hell. If things are going well I'd advise to do some prep in case shit hits the fan (even with no fault of your own). Alw…
/r/seduction13/09/25 10:12 AM
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I understand your point, and to each their own. ​Waiting to have this talk is like building a house without a foundation. You can make it look great, but if you find out later the ground is unstable, the whole thing is going to fall apart. ​I'm not putting the carriage before the horse... I'm checking if we're even going to the same destination. If we're not, there's no point in starting the journey. It's about being smart and respectful of both our time and emotions.
/r/seduction05/09/25 06:16 PM
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That's a good point, but for me, waiting until you're exclusive is a recipe for disaster. ​I'm not looking for a casual date... I'm looking for a long-term partner. Building a deep connection with someone and then having to break it off over a dealbreaker like this is incredibly painful for both people. I've been there, and I don't want to put anyone through that kind of heartbreak again. ​It’s not a preference, it's a fundamental life choice. I'd rather have an honest conversation early on than…
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:58 PM
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I don't "bring up" kids on any date. I ask how they see their future, or what does retirement look like, etc. I keep it playful so they don't know its a Trojan horse question to understand deal breakers. 9/10 they talk about kids or grand kids in some fashion. With apps girls will put down family plans on their profile so I can filter. Vibes can be off though in person after apps, which is less the case going in cold because I can eject if I don't care enough after talking for 10 minutes.
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:19 PM
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I wrote a long message and redacted. Only cry if you truly trust her, and it should be RARE. Be prepared for her not to like you after. It's a gamble and some women, for whatever reason, don't want their rock, their mountain, their man to express that side to them. You can still express yourself without getting to that level. Just my perspective.
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:19 PM
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I've been pleasantly surprised a few times, especially when the girl just has great energy. Photos don't do girls justice sometimes. You can always bounce early if you don't vine on a first date.
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:32 PM
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If you are at a large enough college, which is honestly the best as everyone is close to the same life stage. I'd have gone and talked to girls at cafeteria, local coffee shops, picking up groceries, malls, around campus grounds, etc. House parties are a a solid place, but I wouldn't limit yourself to just that. Plus if you can dominate cold approach, warm leads at house parties will become even easier. Talk to literally everyone, and be playful with girls in any situation to elevate your skills…
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:18 PM
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I strongly suggest learning everything about Game. Not in the sense you want to a PUA but use their techniques and Perspectives to get a girl. I'm in my 30s and missed many oppo because I was never taught HOW to talk to and approach women. HOW to look good to a woman, etc. The mistake of of wasting years on unavailable, uninterested women is absolutely real. Also waiting for something to happen is bull as a man. You have to literally approach. Women will not 99% of the time. It is formulaic if y…
/r/seduction04/08/25 03:01 PM
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Learning this in my early 30s lmao. I've success everywhere else though. Lots of missed opportunities in retrospect that I'll likely never know. Experienced wife material just couldn't hold on. Career is not everything my bros. Console myself with COVID and health not being what I'd hoped my 20s would be.
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:23 AM
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Anchors. If you have a cool view from your deck mention it during the date. Towards the end if the date ask if she wants to check it out. Could be anything. Cool hammock. Cute dog you have at home. Neat art collection. Your blue eyes white dragon first edition. Whatever. Mention it earlier in the date and then again towards when the night is closing, or on date two. You can look more up on the topic of anchors. Could also be activity based, cooking together or for her at your place can be an in.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:07 AM
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Lmao game is skill based. There is definitely natural proclivity across a population but it's not a zero sum game.
/r/seduction30/07/25 06:52 AM
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Touch grass
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:12 AM
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No, once I have affirmed mutual interest of any girl of any rating things tend to flow. I talk with 7s and 8s all the time at my new social setting I frequent. Have my eyes on some 9s I've seen. However those are warm leads, not cold leads. This is post is purely about getting good at cold approach so I can be going for 8s and 9s across all my funnels. There are different variables in cold approach that I am not used to. Getting good at cold approach should also help with my work on my warm lead…
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:31 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction30/03/25 03:54 AM
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Just dates, looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction30/03/25 03:50 AM
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My ex was a 9 but we met through a dating app. I have approach anxiety, but once I have affirmed mutual interest, especially once I am on a date I handle really well. Never done anything outside of social circle and dating apps until now. Social circle is mostly married at this point so changing my strategy to cultivate abundance.
/r/seduction30/03/25 03:48 AM
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