KickinInShangers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	"Our greatest fears lie in anticipation."		KickinInShangers	/r/seduction	21/05/13 07:53 PM
8	How to leave 'em wanting more?		KickinInShangers	/r/seduction	14/02/13 08:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Letting off of the gas works, especially if you came off strong early on There was a quote on here some days before that I've recently subscribed to: "Stand outside and face the sun. From there, there will be a shadow behind you. Run away from your shadow, the shadow will chase you. Run towards your shadow, and your shadow will run from you." The key here though is to "stand outside" part. You can't wait to be chased, you have to put yourself out there. Good on you for doing just that. Keep being awesome, make your intentions clear, and let em decide whether or not t…	/r/seduction	22/02/13 06:15 PM
1	The 20 Rules For First Dates "Glad you like it." smirk	/r/seduction	19/02/13 08:58 PM
1	Today an HB7 who works at this restaurant I ate at for lunch put her number on my to-go box. How do I react? "Hey, this cute waitress wrote her number on my to-go box, think I should text her?" Text. Schedule. Clooooose.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 08:49 PM
3	The friend-zone is not always bad. After reading that story with what sounded like elevator music behind it, I was extremely pleased when my scrolling brought me to your comment. Brava.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 05:41 AM
5	For those of you who had vicious approach anxiety, what did you do to finally cold approach a girl? I think it was James Marshall who had good advice on this. Along with the three second rule, just feel your center, put your weight in your feet, and walk in a direct path. When you get there, say "Hi". Boom done. Focus on your balance and weight; the hardest part truly is that first step, but once you have literal moving momentum, it's surprisingly easy.	/r/seduction	16/02/13 12:05 AM
12	Interesting feedback after valentines and f closing.. Hi. I'm here to validate your response. In my honest opinion, you played it perfectly. Validation complete.	/r/seduction	15/02/13 06:32 PM
3	How to leave 'em wanting more? Ah yes, the ol' George Costanza.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 10:32 PM
2	5 Ways You're Accidentally Making Everyone Hate You I dunno man, this article being on Cracked kinda lowers it's legitimacy. I'm not about to take advice from the site that is also highlighting "The 5 Craziest Things People Are Doing With Dead Animals." That being said, I now know what I'm doing the next time I find an intact raccoon pelt: fuckin art.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 09:28 PM
2	How To Create Sexual Tension Ya, the people who are here LEARNING how to do this... Not the experts. Said with gravitas, confidence, and a smirk, shit like this works. The actual post is much more eloquent, while the root comment here has turned it into 1337speak gobeldeygook. Bring her home or blowout, boys. Stop pussyfootin around.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 09:16 PM
0	[FR] report from the other side- girl meeting a PUA Oh it's on.	/r/seduction	14/02/13 05:02 PM
6	[FR] First try, # closed an HB10. Had text game and initiated kino. What next? Here's what I gathered: She's a "10". This means she gets constant attention from men, from cat calls to random remarks to stare downs from street rats. Women such as these appreciate an honest, upfront approach and being treated as an equal. You mentioned something about a "stop pestering you" comment which gives the impression that you already value your time less than hers, and it needs to be the opposite. You'll see her in class often and attraction will wane while you pussyfoot around the r…	/r/seduction	13/02/13 11:21 PM
5	[FR] First try, # closed an HB10. Had text game and initiated kino. What next? You're on the cusp of the friend zone or being straight up ignored, bud. Make your intentions clear quick or watch her go by the wayside.	/r/seduction	13/02/13 09:43 PM
1	"The rating scale is a pedestal. The concept of “high value” is a pedestal. Coming up with special lines is a pedestal. ... Believing you have to treat her differently in any way is a pedestal." I've noticed, again and again, that my approaches go smoother with more attractive women. I've encountered the same. Being a burgeoning handsome fella, if I don't receive at least minor IOI's (hold eye contact, smile, etc) I tend to lose attraction and eject fairly early. The thing is, this only happens with less attractive, unconfident women! Chances are they are attracted but don't know how to accurately show it. The good looking and by proxy confident women aka alpha females are much easier t…	/r/seduction	11/02/13 05:40 PM
1	[FR] Sedditors, Please don't ever do these things when you're out. They pretended not to notice our bulges heh heh heh.	/r/seduction	05/02/13 03:20 PM
6	I feel the need to apologize for women Truthfully, this subreddit has many facades that masquerade as "game". Routines, lingo, psychology, methods, etc are all quite superficial when it comes to real seduction, and this is exemplified by how the community as a whole has and is developing. Seduction is not about memorizing a magic bullet opener, proceeding through a linear list of escalation methods, and hoping Ms. Right Now will validate you, like you, and fuck you. Seduction is purely making you into your best self. I've lurked here…	/r/seduction	01/02/13 10:04 PM
2	Lost & Afraid of Succeeding. Thank you for this; I believe you've accurately put into words exactly what I've been feeling. Great new job, financial stability, working out regularly, great interactions with strangers, but on the inside I still cant quite let go of that kid in highschool that was honestly a giant pussy. I too feel myself on the brink of change, but like you, am lost. I recently lost my virginity while simultaneously finding out I'm an absolute beast in the sack and have the capacity to be good with women, ye…	/r/seduction	11/01/13 07:17 AM
1	Unexpected make out session http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzG66ETRnD8	/r/seduction	10/12/12 05:59 PM
1	[FR] #close, 2x dates and then my oddest rejection ever. Act 2 seriously needs a nerf; it's like a brick wall. Came for the FR, stayed for the Diablo. Good times.	/r/seduction	07/06/12 02:19 AM
1	Flaking after having an awesome time I'm actually experiencing this right now. Awesome night, hot and heavy making out, even got her home but I didn't push through the LMR. Now, radio silence. The fuck...	/r/seduction	08/05/12 08:03 PM
5	Yet another thank you to you guys. Fuck. Yes. It's funny how simple it all is in the end.	/r/seduction	06/05/12 12:40 PM
3	Gaming foreign girls (without strong english skills) Im in this exact situation now with a french girl and having success making a sexual joke and when she's like "what?", i get real close and explain it to her in great detail while looking into her eyes/kino. This works for anything. For example, offhand i made a gattaca reference knowing she would have no idea what i was talking about. I then went along to describe the scene where the woman goes to the gene bank or whatever and swabs her lips to see if the man she just kissed is genetically supe…	/r/seduction	06/05/12 12:24 PM
4	FR #3 Beach day game: solo HB 9 #close Well played my friend. Day game is definitely something I need to get into, but for some reason I have this inner anxiety telling me I may be getting in the way of their routine. I guess the key is to go to places where someone is already in "leisure mode" like your beach. Interesting indeed.	/r/seduction	06/05/12 09:52 AM