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NYC, San Diego, Or Miami just visited a wingman who lives in San Francisco back in January and almost every girl I saw on the street and in Clubs was straight up chopped cheese. i’m from the Los Angeles area and even walking down the street you would see at least one really pretty girl every 20 minutes.
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:27 PM
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LOOOOOL, Don't fall into that trap. She's talking about how she feels, Same way a girl could find you the hottest guy in the world and her friends won't find you attractive at all.
/r/seduction28/04/26 05:18 AM
2

It never beats the real thing
/r/seduction03/04/26 07:43 PM
14

No results/Getting rejected after 90 approaches in 4 months is a result. if you said you were going to approach every day for four months and did zero approaches that would equal no results. keep grinding all it takes is one yes!
/r/seduction22/03/26 03:02 AM
4

can anyone chime in about Puerto Rico? I went a few months ago, but made the rookie mistake of just only going to La Placita and it was like I never left the US. I only saw locals around the mall out there or near Old San Juan.
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:25 AM
2

Probably Fourth of July in the United States
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:20 AM
4

Why are you buying a woman that's not your Wife, Mother, Daughter or Sister a car?
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:33 AM
36

Yes but that also gives you the leverage of choosing the date activities If you're purposely taking her on expensive dates and you can't afford it then you're just shooting yourself in the foot, A gold date does not need to be expensive
/r/seduction26/08/25 03:54 AM
2

Slim to none but it's possible
/r/seduction19/08/25 05:23 AM
59

It's true, I approached a 25 year old and she didn't believe me when I told her I'm 29 (I know not that big of a difference). Made me pull out my ID and everything and she thought I was 23.
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:31 PM
1

Heard Jakarta is terrible for game
/r/seduction14/08/25 05:56 PM
1

Yep this is why I always bring my own car when gaming with wingmen. Your goal is to make the close as easy as possible.
/r/seduction22/06/25 05:31 AM
21

Paul Allen?
/r/seduction29/04/25 12:00 AM
34

Thank You, I live in a tourist heavy area and there’s some nice hotel bars near my place. I think I’m going to try this strategy...
/r/seduction14/04/25 05:52 PM
2

Bouncer at a strip club
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:10 PM
13

Or be a bouncer at the local college bar
/r/seduction04/02/25 07:04 PM
3

Trust me it’s better to get blocked, If you’re like me you’ll just keep trying to check their social media to see what they have been up too.
/r/seduction23/01/25 07:26 PM
5

Lol it doesn't get you girls automatically.... But trust me it does help and really opens up your options between quality and quantity.
/r/seduction22/12/24 08:19 PM
3

Online Dating. You're welcome!
/r/seduction17/12/24 12:39 AM
2

All avenues have worked for me but I try not to rely on OLD as much. Cold approach and Night game have been my bread and butter, OLD is okay but should not be the only way you're meeting women. Located in California in the USA
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:15 PM
8

You can brother, I'm also 28 and getting dates with girls in the 21-23 age range and it is by far easier to get dates with them now than it was when I was that age. Keep grinding!
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:51 PM
4

Having fun is good Have you tried approaching the girls?
/r/seduction09/12/24 05:50 AM
1

Hot girls are a dime a dozen in San Diego
/r/seduction12/11/24 01:52 AM
5

Could have also been her Boyfriend, You wouldn't know
/r/seduction10/11/24 10:41 PM
1

Have you tried asking them.on a date and getting to know them in person?
/r/seduction06/11/24 07:19 PM
1

Funny enough with experience....If you're experienced with women it will show on dates and your date may make a comment about it
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:24 AM
1

They're not into you romantically
/r/seduction30/10/24 01:12 AM
3

Working out and not jerking off before a date has always been my secret Like others have said it will give you an edge and makes you more confident
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:51 AM
1

I think she just wanted a hook up or who knows maybe she got back together with an ex boyfriend
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:06 PM
8

Hey man if it makes you feel better, I had a great date and a great sex after with a girl, went multiple rounds, eating out, she even deep throated me and went the whole nine yards. Slept over for a few hours and she didn't want me to leave but I had work the next day so I left her place and texted her when I got home. Didn't hear anything back the next day, even double texted a few days later saying I wanted to see her again and basically got ghosted. It stung but I moved on after like 2 weeks.
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:10 AM
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Nowadays it's not a serious relationship until both parties have "the talk". and if she does bring up this topic and you do not want to be exclusive then be honest with her.
/r/seduction11/10/24 06:41 PM
1

Doesn't mean anything if you don’t get a first date with the girl
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:52 PM
47

Girls are players too, Some girls just want a hookup or like the other commentor said she's just using you as a backup
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:21 PM
1

Every Justin Marc video*
/r/seduction30/09/24 03:48 PM
-1

Are you saying this is a good thing or a bad thing? Like you're not attracted to these women right off the bat or do you think they are attractive but you're shy to approach them at first? Edit: Eitherway some practice would do you good
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:18 AM
2

One thing that helped me get over approaching women is to remember that the same girls you meet on these dating apps are the same girls you can stumble upon at a coffee shop, the mall, campus, Downtown, On a night out with her chicas etc. Dating apps are just another outlet to meet girls you normally wouldn't come across in everyday life. You can meet really cool and wholesome girls on apps and at the coffee shops or on a night out. At the same time you can meet the girl who will make your life …
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:12 AM
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Don't
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:55 AM
7

Hey Man I'm also 28 and I'm here to say yes it's possible you can still meet girls in real life but it will take some work but it gets easier.... So for some background up until the age of 24 I met girls either through Apps or my workplace (It was a popular a Amusement park so not like most work places but that's another story). Anyways after breaking up with my ex at 24 who I met from Bumble I set out on a journey to learn game, Day game, Night Game all that good stuff...... It's been a hell of…
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:37 AM
2

Quality over Quantity
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:19 PM
5

It was all a dream, I used to read word up magazine
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:38 AM
1

No, He meant his brother James the guy with a beer in his hand and a hidden erection.
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:59 PM
1

Are you actually dancing?
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:02 PM
2

I'm 28 and you can still do this
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:00 PM
1

That's life
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:31 PM
4

Reading your second half of the post I realized you were just like me before I got into learning game. Well 3 years later and after being on multiple apps, spinning plates, having hookups, doing day game and night game almost every weekend I found that a lot more girls were into me than I thought when I actually approached..... Now here's the thing: When I approached I was choosing the girl I wanted and in the past when I didn't have the confidence to approach a girl and she approached me at a b…
/r/seduction14/09/24 04:14 PM
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It helps but mainly it's so you can afford to go on dates and it does help with social status. It could also be used as a conversation topic and may reveal some traits about yourself to the girl. In general it's not that important, You can still get dates and girls while unemployed.
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:31 AM
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When I was in college I heard a story from a female friend of something similar and it was cringe af, Dude got kicked off campus by security because he was reported.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:53 AM
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This is some High School level logic
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 07:16 PM
6

what about Facebook dating?
/r/seduction06/08/24 05:28 PM
11

Always go in with a loaded gun, Same for dates
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:42 AM
19

I don’t know where you live, but mechanics make a lot more than the dude that works at McDonald’s
/r/seduction26/07/24 05:56 PM
4

At that point, it has to be your diet
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:53 PM
2

Brother you are cooked
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:37 PM
2

Seriously own it, I used to purposely swipe right on girls that I know and if we matched, I just joke about it and not take it seriously
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:02 AM
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Future - Special
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 03:41 PM
1

just curious, but what happened after that?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/23 01:34 AM
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Dude no offense but how old are you? Anyone over 23 knows a GT86 is not gonna attract gold diggers. But anyways to answer your question, Go to car meets and you'll find other girls into cars it's that simple
/r/seduction21/05/23 04:08 AM
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That's old school pickup advice too, But I have a new saying "what one woman will make difficult for you, The other will make easy for you"
/r/seduction01/05/23 02:14 AM
5

I used too, but even during night game some of the most successful approaches I had were with women who gave no choosing signals Just approach anyways
/r/seduction31/10/22 02:01 AM
5

Man I hate people who say that lol, An approach is an approach and a date is a fucking date Wether it's through Tinder, at school, fucking Target etc.
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:49 AM
1

Three months to a year? Wtf man, Are you trying to be their texting buddy or blow their back out? I have a three strike rule: After getting their info I try to set up a date and if they flake that's strike one and I still give some leeway After strike two I might ask them out one more time, Hell I even stopped pursuing after strike two and it ended up working in my favor and they would hit me up and ask to hangout
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:57 PM
1

Yeah OP doesn't, I didn't find out my ex was a virgin until 6 months into us dating but we also fucked after dating for one month She was a bit smaller than me in size so I didn't think much if how tight she was the first time we did it, But anyways that's another topic..... Just ask a guy out, don't rush sex and enjoy the fun :)
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:48 PM
1

Well buddy you're in the right place! I hit the gym 4 days a week, it's very obvious I'm into fitness but on the apps I would match with bigger girls I'm not that into. Or if I do match with a cutie sometimes we'll talk and it won't go anywhere but if I get them out on a date it's the same short lived romance But once taking "seduction" more seriously and approaching women at bars or day game you'll find that it's the best and most effective way to meet higher quality women, Dont waste your mone…
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:25 PM
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Might as well wait a couple of dates for sex, Because if you reject a girl only because she won't fuck you then you still won't get any lol That's one way of looking at it
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:21 PM
1

Yes, Go talk to another girl and don't waste your time trying to figure this one out
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:32 PM
1

I don't know about this one, Whenever I see a dudes profile while I'm swiping I ALWAYS swipe left. Always thought it was a bot or the app was glitching.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:15 PM
2

Basically what everyone else is saying, But you need to realize getting matches is half the battle You haven't truly won until you get that girl out on a date or a meet up
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:16 PM
2

Go, even if it's the first hangout or date. Shit even if you guys don't vibe you might find someone at the bar who vibes with you!
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:39 PM
1

If they don't follow you back then not really... Girls get A LOT of DM requests like hundreds, even if you were Chad with the 666 package you would still get drowned out by all the other dudes in her DMs Shit some girls even have verified dudes in the DMs, That's how my old coworker met her boyfriend and he plays for the LA Galaxy In general I've seen waaaay better results doing approaches in person or atleast meeting the girl in person first
/r/seduction28/07/22 10:23 PM
1

I made a post on here a year ago looking for one and I still get messages almost a year later I live in Southern California near LA so maybe that helped, depends on location
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:51 PM
1

Worked at Disney for 5 years, met a lot of people and they had a college program where a lot of people came from across the country to work at my area/The park Yes a lot of the employees were fucking each other
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:38 AM
1

This goes back to before I learned about Seddit, I learned this through trial and error But always go for the person you find attractive, Even if you give the girl/person you aren't 100% about a chance they can still turn out to be a really awful person and treat you like trash Ironically I found some of the prettiest girls to be actual sweethearts This goes to my second point: Dont't let her good looks be an excuse to treat you like trash
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:05 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it bro Do yourself a favor and if you have a female friend, cousin, coworker etc. Ask to look at their app and see how many likes they get, Guranteed it won't be under 100 I shit you not, I have a female friend who is maybe a 5/10, doesn't workout and gets likes from all types of dudes even the ones who look like they hit the gym twice a day Also I remember reading somewhere the ratio is 75% guys and 25% girls, comebine that with the paywall
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:01 AM
3

Nah, Would rather spend $10 and buy a girl a drink at a bar after talking to her for a bit Keyword after, even if I take a loss I still gained experience
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:56 AM
1

I've learned that I'm first attracted to a woman by her looks, Then after that it's her personality that makes or breaks the attraction You could have a 10/10 but if her personality is shit then I lose all attraction, idk why but it's just me That also helped me stop putting 10/10s on a pedestal
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:58 PM
7

From my experience it's the opposite, I live in the western world too
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:21 PM
1

Hit the gym Get haircuts frequently (every 2-3 weeks) Have good style Keep up your appearance That’s about it
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:28 AM
4

Bro you sure it was her? She looks like half the white girls that went to my school
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:25 AM
0

Looks by far I was still fucking girls while I was unemployed and when I was making minimum wage lol This was when I was 18-23, I have a good job now and hit the gym regularly but I was never pressed for pussy back then
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:34 AM
1

You just need to talk to them to ease the nerves bro i’ve had girls tell me I look intimidating but when they talk to me they thought I was a kind guy
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:33 AM
1

Hey man if you live in Southern California (OC or LA) let me know if you need a wing because I’ve been dying to scratch my pick up itch lately
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:32 AM
2

I know a guy that would approach almost any woman to get practice in so chances are they’re not all attractive
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:00 PM
6

Count to 3 and just walk over and approach, that way you can’t build up excuses in your head
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:02 PM
29

I like the taste of house keys
/r/seduction24/04/22 07:18 AM
27

Replace "Coffee" with Netflix or to listen to music and you have the modern version of that
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:29 AM
7

Just do it, worked for me one time
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:12 PM
3

She's not interested, case closed Edit: Just use the mindset of "It's a Fuck Yes or a No" to not dwell on why she's playing games and to not waste your time
/r/seduction30/03/22 05:55 PM
10

They might, But this might also be a test to see if OP is loyal to girl 1 I'm going to bet $10 it's more of a loyalty test
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:10 PM
2

Bro I have a friend like this and he even has a girlfriend, Shit pisses me off
/r/seduction28/01/22 12:15 AM
1

Solid advice bro, Thanks!
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:13 PM
2

I get what you mean bro, however I’ve been going to the same gym 4 days a week for almost a year around the same time so I always see the same people just wanted advice on how I could act on a gym crush lol
/r/seduction26/01/22 07:16 PM
1

Been there, Ask her to hangout outside of Soccer. No need to wait because this will be a hangout and then you can feel if theirs something romantic between you two and go from there
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:18 AM
4

Eh I tried asking this girl out who works at the coffee shop I frequent, I got rejected but next time I went in I was just casual and act like it didn't happen before lol Now whenever I go me and her have a little conversation and she's actually interested about what goes on in my personal life Will it lead to anything? Probably not but it was a good practice
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:10 AM
4

Damn this is true and for some reason I couldn’t figure that out until recently, Social Proofing is a real thing. Been dating since I was 15 and up until I was 23 I was in some type of close proximity environment (School, Work, Local spots etc). A year after that I worked solo for a bit and now I WFH. even with dating apps, hanging out with old friends, going to the gym, and even clubbing with friends. it’s still not as easy as it used to be...
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:40 AM
1

Good start but you better make a move or Atleast express more romantic interest or she’ll just see you as a friend (Yes you can get friendzoned from women off of dating apps)
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:26 PM
1

Use condoms Use condoms Use condoms Use condoms
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:12 PM
1

Still beat tho Sounds like she was just shit testing you or to see if you have a big ego or not
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:15 PM
31

I'm Esteban Julio Ricardo Montoya de la Rosa Ramírez
/r/seduction24/08/21 11:13 PM
3

Was at a club in Vegas and lost my friends, Asked this girl if she’s seen them and we ended up making out 5 minutes later And took her back to the room
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:14 PM
5

They just want good tips man, It's like being a car salesman They'll say anything for you to close the deal
/r/seduction18/08/21 12:38 AM
1

What I usually do is not save the number as a contact unless you go on a date with the girl or more than one date It saves the hassle of 5 "Amanda's" popping up lol
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:03 PM
2

According to his post history he's a Truck Driver now I remember a friend telling me it takes three months to get your CDL, So I'm assuming that
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:00 PM
1

It happens man, Happened to me back in 2018 and went home with the girl (I was nervous as hell) We ended up going from hookup buddies to dating for 6 months
/r/seduction04/08/21 06:17 PM
7

Yeah but OP needs to follow this like his life (Job) depends on it Fucking your coworker is one thing, But fucking your boss is a recipe for disaster
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:33 AM
90

My last relationship taught me that "sexual compatibility" is a real thing It's one of those things you think "Well other aspects of the relationship are fine so I guess I can live with a person who will only do missionary" Find someone open minded as you with a similar sex drive and save yourself the headache
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:16 PM
1

Dude could've been nervous, I've been in situations before were I'll end up in a girls bed and then I'm like "shit, what to do next?" and yes I unintentionally cock blocked myself a few times lol
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:14 PM
5

Y'all laugh but something similar like this worked with one of my friends, He matched with a girl and then messaged her months later (He was also doing some self improvement and hit the gym hard) and she apologized for not hitting him up earlier They we're making out a few days later.
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:11 AM
17

I have a friend who was deployed in the army, Left his bike unlocked on base and that shit got stolen It's sad even in a Warzone you can't trust your own brothers & sisters to watch your shit edit: US Army and they were deployed in Afghan
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:53 PM
1

I read OP's post in a Russian accent
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:49 PM
3

Definitely both, I have a lot of female friends and it has helped me in situations of "deciphering" a woman's words/actions. On top of that some of them can hook you up with their friends but don't be the guy who ALWAYS asks to be hooked up with their friends
/r/seduction14/07/21 03:26 AM
1

Uhhh congrats?
/r/seduction29/06/21 02:22 AM
1

It's definitely helped me with confidence, talking to the ridiculously hot girls and not getting intimidated, and "staying out of my head" But I won't sit here and preach it, Just try it for atleast one week and you'll feel a difference in everyday life
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:27 AM
1

Interesting, Thanks for your insight! Never knew in reality a taller girl would have less options even if she was a 7+
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:13 AM
1

Just curious, but how do you feel about dating guys slightly shorter than you? I'm 5'11-6'0, in shape and always had a thing for tall girls but in the back of my head I feel like I shouldn't even try since I would be insta rejected because I'm shorter than them But to answer your first questions, As a man I wouldn't mind if a woman approached me in real life, I would do what other women do: Accept and give number if I'm interested or kindly reject if I'm not and keep it moving Definitely give it…
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:52 PM
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Learn to ride a motorcycle and make it one of your personality traits Kind of in the process of doing this....Also watch shows/movies with Alpha Characters (Michael Corleone, Tony Montana, Harry Bosch, Don Draper, James Dean) and pick up on some of their behaviors It sounds cheesy but it's helped me and it's been working
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:47 PM
1

I give the guy props, But ego lifting is a serious no no and he could've gotten injured Guys in this situation: Pick a PR weight and pick a random doable rep number and go for the approach You don't want to end up in the hospital for the chance of getting a cute strangers number
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:50 PM
11

No shit it was sarcasm But I meant for anyone reading and wanting to know what to do in that situation
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:07 AM
30

in all seriousness try asking her out no more than three times max, after that I do a soft next where if she tried asking me to hang out I would probably say yes but I wouldn’t try asking her to hang out again after the Second or third time
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:01 AM
1

I'll PM you man! We're always looking for more guys
/r/seduction14/06/21 05:28 PM
2

Also have never had an issue with Lifestyles Skyn condoms But Non-Latex condoms are best since you never know if the girl you're sleeping with can be allergic to Latex
/r/seduction14/06/21 05:01 AM
1

Check messages
/r/seduction13/06/21 06:28 AM
1

Seems like I'm the only one LOL
/r/seduction13/06/21 04:28 AM
1

I'll PM you homie!
/r/seduction11/06/21 10:10 PM
2

Yes! Also I would've put my hand on her knee if I was you, If she doesn't try to move away then that's a solid green light and you should go for the kiss
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:22 PM
1

Respect
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:19 AM
1

Move on and approach more girls, The next one may really be into you But don't waste anymore of your time and energy on this one
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:59 AM
12

One thing I learned from reading Models: Dont judge a girl based on what she wears (goth, workout gear, colored hair etc.) Just approach if you think shes attractive and you want to meet her, Because yes even the ones who you deem as ugly will reject you too!
/r/seduction06/06/21 02:41 AM
8

Pretty simple: Just make a post stating your area, age and what you're looking to do (Night game, cold approach) I found 3 guys this way and we did some night game last week and got some numbers and dates. We plan on doing cold approaching on Thursday I see you're in the bay area, I live in So Cal or I would be down to go sarging (approaching) but goodluck, The bay is big so I'm sure you'll find someone!
/r/seduction06/06/21 02:38 AM
2

Models is great, I'm reading The Game by Neil Strauss right now but I think Models was way better and straight to the point I know The Game is more of an autobiography but some of the stories in the book are suspect
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:46 AM
0

As a man who got cock blocked by a milf because I "was young enough to date her daughter" I salute you!
/r/seduction03/06/21 10:51 PM
4

Wrong, I've had three LTRs I met off a dating app
/r/seduction01/06/21 09:51 AM
1

I'll PM you rn
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:53 PM
1

Also meant to send you my contact info in the PM but it says you have to respond, I'll get a group chat started
/r/seduction29/05/21 10:01 PM
1

I'll PM you homie, and same for me and the other guy.
/r/seduction29/05/21 09:58 PM
2

Just go for the girl but be respectful since her mom's right there Acknowledge the mom and be like "You must be her sister, nice to meet you both"
/r/seduction28/05/21 11:26 PM
4

Go for the 3 strike rule (More like the 2 strike rule in my book): Try to set up a hangout and if she flakes once then try again and if you're still interested then try for a 3rd time After the 2/3rd time then it's a hard next, Understand some girls just like to flirt for fun and love the attention but by doing this you can quickly separate the real from the fakes. Goodluck!
/r/seduction26/05/21 10:11 PM
4

Almost 8 years after losing my virginity and I still make this mistake
/r/seduction26/05/21 10:09 PM
6

Before I really got into Seduction/Game. I used to try and talk to girls at bars with a fake accent (I could do a few without laughing) and then halfway through the convo I would drop the accent to see their reaction Took me a while to realize this actually worked well because in my head I was doing it for fun and didn't have any expectations because surely no girl would take this seriously? Oh how I was wrong.
/r/seduction23/05/21 10:20 PM
1

I strive to get to the Tony Montana levels of not giving a fuck
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 06:11 AM
3

Orange County, CA I know a few hotspots that have a constant flow of 7-10s
/r/seduction19/05/21 03:44 AM
2

Stop watching porn
/r/seduction18/05/21 07:43 AM
3

It's gonna be a Hot girl summer
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:24 AM
1

Texted her and she read the message but never responded LOL Said fuck it, gonna do more approaches
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:19 AM
1

You laugh but I used that as an excuse to approach a girl and I got her phone number a few minutes later
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:48 PM
2

Maybe try cutting it down to once every week or once every 2 weeks? I was in the same situation and went from masturbating 3 times a week to maybe once every 2 weeks, Made me a lot more confident and motivated me to approach women
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:54 AM
1

Most will say Yes, But I found going in with a "loaded gun" helps me act on attraction and motivates me to escalate with her
/r/seduction14/05/21 09:49 AM
0

Don't forget that your strength and fighting skills are sold separately If you put Lebron and Mayweather in the ring then Lebron will get his ass beat despite being 3x the size of Floyd
/r/TheRedPill13/05/21 04:19 AM
2

Good luck and remember if you get rejected it's not always your fault, Just keep doing approaches
/r/seduction12/05/21 07:16 AM
3

Think I better let it go....
/r/seduction12/05/21 05:25 AM
1

Direct approaches has gotten me the best quality of women Indirect approaches has gotten me the most quantity of women
/r/seduction10/05/21 03:56 AM
29

I did this recently and regretted it even though I was the one who left her, Just trust your gut
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 03:21 AM
2

Practice and it'll become second nature
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:39 AM
14

I found that keeping my room clean makes me feel good and boosts my confidence, I doubt I'll meet a beautiful woman on the street and bring her back to my place an hour later but it's nice knowing I have a clean place if that ever happened LOL Also dress well everywhere you go, I don't mean Formal but atleast put effort in your appearance or wear a nice outfit
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:34 AM
1

Yes, Basically 4 months after the breakup and I was getting some dates and having success on my journey. I still cared but couldn't see myself getting back with her, Didnt think anything would happen because she was kinda cold to me on our hangout (later admitted it's because she was trying to read me), we went to a bar later and hooked up and she took it as we're getting back together, drove home feeling guilty as hell and then texted her 2 days later telling the truth. I had this desire in me …
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:20 PM
2

Don't make the mistake I did: Met up with my ex who kick started the whole self improvement thing in me, Slept with her, and then regretted it on the way home Other than that keep it up!
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:24 AM
6

Yep, Even though I've had some success on dating apps I stick to cold/warm approaching because of this. Much better success rate in real life.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 09:41 PM
22

For all guys in here: If any of your female friends have Tinder/Bumble/Hinge etc just go and see how many guys are in their DMs/Matches It'll literally be in the hundreds
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 07:16 PM
2

Just get out there and keep approaching, I got a cute girls number at the mall and texted her a day later and she read the message 10 minutes later and never responded (ouch) But that just motivated me to get back out there and do more approaches :)
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:30 PM
1

Dude kinda looks like Mark Manson
/r/seduction06/05/21 05:08 PM
3

Beautiful city, sadly I'm in the States but goodluck brother!
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:48 AM
1

Always shoot your shot, You never know
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:50 AM
2

Every dog has it's day baby, Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:14 AM
2

This, my ex was the 2nd option even though she has never tried giving a BJ and I would go down on her Let's just say sex got boring after a while and it was one of the reasons that lead to breaking up
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:18 PM
7

Try to cut porn out and masturbate once a week or once every two weeks, I'm not going to come here and preach No Fap/Semen Retention but I say atleast try going one week without fapping/porn if you already do it 3x a week or once a day etc. There are benefits you will see in everyday life, It's your choice to go down that rabbit hole
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:12 PM
3

Pretty sure that was a shit test and she was just trying to get a reaction out of you..... But honestly do better my guy, Go through my post history and I made a comment a few days ago that explained how I stopped giving the bigger girls a chance
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:00 PM
14

I guess I can thank Abundance Mindset and simply flipping the script that most girls play for not feeling bad about rejecting bigger girls anymore: At one point I liked dating bigger girls even though I wasn't that big myself and it was because I had low confidence and was scared of rejection, This story takes place a few months after I left my ex who was an 8 and was having a dry spell: So there I was after a few months of seriously hitting the gym, I wasn't the most super fit or strongest guy …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 11:39 PM
2

By that I mean before getting the number and leaving say something like "I'm gonna go meet a friend" or "I won't keep you long"
/r/seduction01/05/21 09:48 PM
5

Ouch that's a sad story, I'll take it as motivation to never settle for a big girl again and stick with a girl whose hobbies align with mine. Please get your bro back in the gym, best of luck!
/r/seduction01/05/21 07:46 AM
8

Man I hate to say but I was exactly like your buddy... After my last ex who was an 8 I realized my lifestyle isn't compatible with those big/ugly girls and I was wasting my time due to low confidence. I like to gym, Hike, as well as chill and play video games some days and now I just can't go back to the former, let him get a taste of quality and he'll come around.
/r/seduction01/05/21 05:06 AM
16

It works too lol, Did this at the mall and got a cute girls number. Trick is to just adapt to your environment and ask "where is the closest ____" and then go from there and try not to linger.
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:28 AM
16

I was serious, Most guys would just message her on Bumble and probably not even talk face to face until they set up a time to hangout or something
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:09 PM
11

More power to him if he keeps it moving and doesn't make a big deal, Earlier today I asked out the coffee shop cashier I've had a crush on for months... We made small talk before so I just went for it, got rejected and I'm still prepared to hit the shop for my coffee and just act like nothing happened the last interaction. It shows you're the bigger person and it didn't phase you.
/r/seduction30/04/21 06:14 AM
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Man that takes Balls, matching on bumble and then asking her out face to face Keep that same energy on the date!
/r/seduction30/04/21 06:12 AM
2

Atleast you recognized your mistake, owned up and know not to make it anymore. A good answer would have been "Wow really? I would guess somewhere around 21-23" This is coming from a 25 year old guy who has been on dates with older women. They LOVE to be told they're younger than they look, actually I think this rule applies to all women.
/r/seduction29/04/21 10:48 PM
1

Who cares, more power to you. I'm guessing they got a power Trip off of rejecting you (Not saying that's why you were rejected) and expected you to be down about it. Best thing is to keep your head up and keep it moving cause they lost on rejecting a high value man.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:38 PM
14

According to my friends yes but it's more of a pay wall now, My last 2 relationships came from Bumble so now I'm challenging myself to cold approach
/r/seduction26/04/21 09:46 PM
89

Lol this is facts, Told my female friends i have had a few dates recently and they just defaulted to "oh, did you meet her on bumble?" Nope, Told them I met these girls going up to them etc. And they were all surprised Just do it fellas, Don't cock block yourself
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:56 PM
4

older girls are underrated my friend, had a fun time with a 44 year old who took care of her body and could pass as 28-34 they know a few tricks and are less likely to play games like younger girls
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:09 AM
1

Good shit, Wish my gym did a social event like that. Would be cool to have new workout partners and attempt to connect with some cuties haha Use every interaction as a stepping stone to improve your game and it'll be second nature
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:28 AM
2

If you want a quick fuck then go drop ya dick off If not then just ignore the potential headache
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:35 AM
2

What's worked for me: "Can I dance with you?" Start dancing, If things heat up grab her hips, Then if y'all get close you can throw a compliment in her ear or offer to buy her a drink and take it from there
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:28 AM
8

Honestly just try to make small talk with them and escalate from there if she's matching the flirty energy, Don't want you to drop a pick-up line and some lady writes a complaint
/r/seduction18/04/21 11:57 PM
1

Thank you for reminding me OP, I should've asked this girl to dance on Friday... Context: At the bar with two of my female friends (old co-workers so no sexual interest) and I noticed these group of girls sharing our table (like atleast 4-5 feet away), Tried looking over and I think I caught the tall/cute one of them looking away when I tried to sneak some glances Go to the dancefloor later and two of them (Tall girl and her shorter curly haired friend who was also cute) out of the group of 3 ar…
/r/seduction18/04/21 10:51 PM
8

Thing with Hollywood celebrities is: They have money, status, looks most of the time, A purpose, social proof, Are in the spotlight so more people know of their exsistance That's more than enough for them to take a girl out and not worrying about fucking up
/r/seduction16/04/21 05:05 PM
4

it’s all about abundance mindset, Who gives a fuck if she said no he still had the balls to ask her and can keep it moving
/r/seduction16/04/21 03:14 AM
4

Well, Did you take her out/Drop ya dick off?
/r/seduction08/04/21 07:55 AM
1

Smoke show, Heavenly Blessed Beauty, zoo wee mama
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:54 AM
2

If you followed up with "So I can take you out on a date, Can I get your number?" Her: "Wow, so forward! Yes you can" You: "My name is ___" Simple as that Her: "Sorry not interested" You: "Alright, Just take it as a compliment" Or if she says she has a boyfriend, I usually say "Well he's a lucky guy" and then just keep it moving
/r/seduction31/03/21 03:44 PM
4

check out other girls when you guys are out in public or a try even approaching other girls, or tell her to cut the bullshit when she's talking about other guys in front of you Try this at your own risk
/r/seduction31/03/21 06:07 AM
2

Alright OP, what girl told you this bullshit?
/r/seduction29/03/21 11:18 PM
7

Just do it, Freshman year of college my cousin and a few of our friends made it a game to see how many numbers we could get in-between classes. Even if we got no's it was still a good confidence boost!
/r/seduction29/03/21 10:18 PM
1

Fellas and ladies, I kind of thought of a plan: I'm going to write my number down and at the end of tomorrows interaction just slide it over to her and say "Well if you want to go check out some cool Boba spots, We can plan something" I don't want to just ask for it on the spot especially since she's at work and I'm gonna say fuck it if she rejects me or not
/r/seduction29/03/21 10:15 PM
5

/r/MaleLivingSpace
/r/seduction28/03/21 12:59 AM
1

Drop your dick off
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:20 AM
5

Honestly either of those options would be awesome Personally I would go for the "you wearing it and sending a pic" approach or say you just full on surprising him, Dude will be harder than diamonds either way!
/r/seduction26/03/21 05:16 AM
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I'm gonna vouch for #4 on OPs tip and give you guys a reverse experience: Matched with this girl on Bumble, Her pics were kinda bad but she looked alright and she gave out her Instagram and everything seemed legit, I would say out of her whole IG there were maybe 4 good pics So fast forward to our first date she was a 9 in person but in her pics looked like a 5 or 6 at best and I was literally blown away lol. and to think I almost didn't message this girl back or plan a date with her based off o…
/r/seduction24/03/21 02:39 AM
14

Trust me if the girl doesn't want to kiss then you'll know in the span of 10 seconds after trying, Most girls just like the guy to go for it
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:51 AM
10

+1 for never doing movies on the first date: Back in Highschool i asked this girl out through Facebook (she went to a different school) and silly me picked movies for all 3 of our dates, no moves were made cause i was a pussy but i'm pretty sure if i at least put the moves on her it could've let to something. Never have made that mistake since then....
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:47 AM
3

Style also boosts confidence and the ladies love a guy who takes care of themselves and puts effort into how he dresses I started caring about style in High School and throughout my young adult life (24 now) I would say it has mattered: I still get compliments from guys and girls, Made friends who are Into clothes/sneakers, Been told by a few girls the first thing they noticed was my sense of fashion, girls know what to get me for gifts and I found it's easier to buy my lady a gift when I have n…
/r/seduction21/03/21 06:21 PM
2

Plan your escape route chico Other than that, bring a condom
/r/seduction20/03/21 05:37 PM
3

This, I went to a different School but would go to parties at my friend's school and made friends/met girls that way
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:51 AM
5

This is good, I am getting back into dating after getting out of a one-year relationship However before I would either try to get dates from girls through dating apps or trying to hit on girls at clubs. So now I'm challenging myself to give daygaming a shot or cold approaching girls I think are cute. Thanks!
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:43 AM
4

I have a lot of female friends, However it hasn't led me to try and hook up with my friends friends (Well this happened two times) Maybe it's just a personal thing: But I feel weird trying to hit on my female friends friend unless I think they're really attractive and have had a genuine connection Maybe it's because I don't want to ruin the friendship if me and the other girl don't work out? Idk
/r/seduction19/03/21 02:45 AM
1

Yesterday
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:53 AM
1

Nothing at all
/r/seduction16/03/21 01:13 AM
2

Judging by the name I'm pretty sure that's Tony Montana
/r/seduction06/03/21 03:51 AM
2

Okay mate for the first story it kind of sounds like she was pretending to know you so she could cut others in line and get in the party faster. If there was a line to get in then I’m pretty sure that’s what the case was. Second, yep she was being flirty that’s when you got a hit her with a silly answer like "My time machine I ordered" Third, again flirty or friendly but kinda hard to tell honestly man the only way to know if a girl is really flirting and into you is by getting to know her a lit…
/r/seduction25/02/21 04:07 AM
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