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2	How to slow him down physically? I think you need to have a convo with him about expectations essentially. From your other comments you view not only sexy but any PDA as only for girlfriends/boyfriends - he might not assume that from saying “we need to slow down.” I know I didn’t assume that and I’m a woman. I think you should talk to him BEFORE the next activity meetup so he isn’t surprised or embarrassed if he tries to hold your hand, for example. State clearly and calmly that you reserve PDA for partners you’re committed to …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/19 01:02 AM
1	How to slow him down physically? Just be honest and he can accept it or move on. I don’t count dates or have any specific code for “when I’ll sleep with someone,” only when am I comfortable sleeping with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/19 11:34 PM
1	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss Eh from my experience, and convos with many females friends about the friend zone idea, there is not usually a choice of "friendzoning" a dude or not. Either we like a male friend enough to date them or not, based on how much we desire them- or don't. When confronted with a male friend who wants to take things passed friend, women might say they don't want to "ruin" the friendship and not risk dating... but everyone I know who says that just doesn't want that awkwardness- or to keep a violent re…	/r/seduction	13/03/17 05:59 PM
–	Why you should never worry about going for the kiss It's really more preference on the woman's side... I personally am not into kissing on the first date because I don't feel comfortable enough for intimacy that soon unless I knew the man for a while before dating. But as I've spent the last few years moving and having to build new friend groups I tend to go on blind dates or meeting through apps like OKCupid, so I have no relationship with the person. That's my personal preference, but not every woman feels the same.	/r/seduction	13/03/17 05:40 AM

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