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Dating After DivorceKillegos/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 03:58 PM
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Killegos/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 01:02 AM
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It’s the same as people being enlightened that they’re in a cult. Even if they realized it, the hardest thing for people to do for is admit they were wrong. People have a hard time being accountable to themselves let alone partners. That’s how it was with my ex, she’d been allowed to be who she was for so long that that there’s no way it could’ve been wrong the whole time. Even with BPD, Depression, PTSD, and three or four other diagnoses. Don’t worry it was I who was the crazy one.🙄
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 01:47 PM
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We’ll never know. Ask anyone we’re not supposed to know. Theres always an excuse to help justify their acts.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 04:05 AM
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She’s didn’t hurt me at all but has severely damaged my daughter.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 03:12 AM
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For sure. 3 protective orders and 16months of court process just to give up completely 6 months after settlement.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 10:08 PM
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For me and it’s still hard is not really knowing the how. How someone could put in a garden for so long. 6 months after finalizing a very deceitful and painful divorce she just abandons my daughter at school, remarries, and cuts off communication with our 9yr old all in a 3 month time span. Like why didn’t she just give full custody in the first place when clearly she didn’t want anything to do with our daughter. How is is so easy to just shrug a child off like that.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/25 04:00 PM
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I’m convinced as well at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 06:51 PM
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Easier said than done when I’m parenting in my own and can’t afford insurance for myself. So once I’m able it will get done.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 04:36 AM
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Honestly at this point I just want custody finalized so I don’t have to go to court over this any fucking more. I told the judge who my ex was and even provided plain evidence that I needed to have full custody from the start. The last time I spoke to the judge I plain looked him in the eye and said I told you so. It felt great, especially since I fired my me attorney halfway through the process and finished it on my own all the way to the settlement meeting.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 04:35 AM
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I feel that. Getting close myself as you can tell by my post.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 01:50 AM
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Sounds like a perfect combo!!! Def on my list in time.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 01:48 AM
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For sure where I’m at. The frustration is just the udder lack on self inflection and just self dishonesty these women have at what’s supposed to be a mature age. All these profiles I see across multiple platforms say “ make sure you’re really over your ex” or “ please have your shit together I’m looking for a man not a boy”. Yet they don’t even possess the current qualities themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 01:47 AM
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Right now I’m not even looking for sex so no worries. Plus my daughter’s on health insurance I’m not. I Make too much and not enough. Can’t afford $300 a month even from my employer at the moment. Healthcare.gov says that’s affordable on top of the rent I pay and other bills. I have full custody of my daughter with no child support because the “ strong independent woman” my ex was supposed to be abandoned my daughter at school, remarried and disappeared after I filed for change of custody. Oklah…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/25 01:42 AM
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That’s evident. Hence why I’m giving up on you all. I will focus on raising my daughter to not be the same. She will be empowered to be strong and empathetic and strive for a relationship that’s 100/100 not 50/50 even when it comes to friendships. I also instill in her that she’s not ever responsible for someone else’s happiness or mental stability. The notion that a relationship should be 50/50 denotes the each participant only need to put 50% effort into the relationship as opposed to 100%. TH…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:20 PM
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Even then you still gotta go through the bullshit again.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:08 PM
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Well and they just love looking a gift horse in the mouth. Even if your exactly what they’re looking for and a clear win a jackpot, they’d rather believe your a piece of shit like all the other bad choices they’ve made instead of accepting the win.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:06 PM
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Oh no!!! I must be a gold digger cause I’d like someone who has there own life together. After being the sole provider for a 10 year marriage, you’re right I’m gold digging cause I’d like someone who can share the financial load on excursions and dates. Someone who can meet me where I’m at as I’m and them. I’m totally a gold digger and looking to trap a women to be a step mom. GROW UP BRO GROW UP!
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:03 PM
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Hence why I’m not rushing into sex.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:14 PM
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Considering it. But not worrying about it until sex is actually a real thing on the table. I guess I’m the anomaly cause sex isn’t really my top priority. Done sticking my dick in crazy!
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:13 PM
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24-28 want sugar daddies where I live or want to start a family “ looking for husband material. PASS 27-34 I’ve found are way too delusional of the situation and who they are and are clinging to ex’s and past childhood trauma that they STILL have not worked out. Yet they consider themselves successful, powerful, stable women. PASS as of now due to the recent experiences. Marriage is off the table. I’m never falling for that scam EVER again. I don’t need a piece of paper and government abuse in o…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:11 PM
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I’m just slightly losing my mind over the gaul of these women. Posted this shortly after waking up and sending message to the latest one saying essentially “ kick rocks, you’re wasting my time and I don’t need to prove anything to anyone especially a childish person.”
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:07 PM
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One through Facebook dating, the others through old school charisma. Don’t feel bad for finding it hilarious. Honestly I find it funny too cause it’s just so juvenile and with all scenarios all I could think to myself was “ what a fucking joke this person is”
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:05 PM
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Exactly. My daughter is my main focus.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 05:04 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 04:01 PM
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Curved highway overpasses are very welcoming sometimes. The thing I always remember though is that while it would kill my pain it would bring immeasurable pain to my daughter and the rest of my family. I just can’t be responsible for that. It’s not very popular these days but I hold myself accountable for present and future decision even in death.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 05:24 PM
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100% get a lawyer. She may be working with you on good terms NOW but more often than not they’ll rack you at the last minute. Do your research however. Make sure the lawyer you go with has YOUR interests and wants as a priority. Don’t let them just skate by and do the minimum. You’re paying this person thousands of dollars to work FOR you MAKE THEM WORK!
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 04:24 PM
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She has her bad days which is to be expected. However I do have her in therapy cause not only did her mom not pick her up from school and not even text her for 3 months, she also got REMARRIED! ( all while having a protective order against me ) This new husband has 3 kids from with three women AND he a convicted violent felon. So while I with no record and full time job and being a single parent am more dangerous to her in her eyes than someone who’s STRANGLED A PREVIOUS SPOUSE ! All this makes …
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 02:26 PM
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So my EX put it one but two TPO’s in me. The crazy thing is she filed the second one after abandoning my daughter at school on her ( ex wife’s) week and ghosting communication for over a month. The protective order was only for her, and she stated I was stalking her. Kinda hard to do when I’m working full time and taking my daughter to all her games and hobbies and stuff. All complete with check ins and pictures with time stamps to prove where I was. Eventually we showed up in court and the judg…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/25 10:32 PM
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No way!! Only possible speed bump would be her deciding not to sign. Good news is she already told the judge she would so if she doesn’t I’ll just take her back to court.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 02:21 PM
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Already on it my guy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 12:45 PM
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Already on it. I’ve drafted the document now I just need to wait for CS calculations. Hopefully be finalized by end of month.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 12:44 PM
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Not being emo, rather being inquisitive to the ways of the ether. Heart broken for my daughter. I know this is the best thing for her but still, a child being let go at a young age by someone they loved. Someone they thought loved them just as much.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 04:45 AM
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Ever since, I find myself listening to “Alone” my bullet for my valentine. That song never hit more hard!!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 02:16 AM
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Thank man. Don’t know about deceiving my daughter by telling her her mother loves her. How could I? Her mother abandoned her at school for two hours before I got called, then found time to marry I guy but couldn’t find time to reply to a text. My ex even had her mother call my daughter at 10:00 pm and tell her she was dying. The txt read “ can you go somewhere private?” Before the call. The Ex’s family is ALL MONSTERS. Monsters clearly don’t know how to love. I’ll stay tough either way and be th…
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 02:16 AM
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Yeah a violent felon after trying to pin not one but 3 PO’s against me that all got thrown out because I’m organized and my counter evidence was better than her lack of. She accused my of assault and stalking and then married a guy who’s felony is Domestic Abuse by Strangulation!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/25 02:12 AM
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Actually I have emails from both mental states for each of the three times she’s left, as well as txt messages showing the varied irrational change in mindset. She has been diagnosed and has refused to take medications stating that she didn’t need them. I’ve also been the sole provider for our entire marriage as well as my daughters life. Also my wife has documented self harm and anger issues. We shall see.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 03:46 AM
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I’m in a similar boat right now with concerns myself. However my soon to be ex has left and abandoned my daughter and I twice and last time it was to a mental ward for self harm and other mental issues. She also has undocumented alcohol problems. So many people are telling me not to worried but I’m terrified.
/r/MensRights01/08/23 02:42 AM
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There are women out there that are actually MORE judgmental than this!!
/r/MensRights05/12/20 03:50 PM
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