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| 2 | Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation?I can only speak for myself on this bc every woman is very different. As a woman, I would absolutely never bring up sex in the middle of a non-sexual conversation. I don’t want some random dude to think he picks up on even the tiniest bit of a hint of interest in any way whatsoever. I’m married now, but I wouldn’t do this before either. The only time I would ever say something like, “No, it’s not going to happen,” would be when the man said something overtly sexually suggestive to me. And once I… | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | 25M, fed up with dating apps but I feel they're my only optionLol a handlebar mustache with the ends curled up is honestly a little epic. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | 25M, fed up with dating apps but I feel they're my only optionThis person is giving you some great advice. Please listen to some of the things he said especially. I agree with the no mustache. Unless you’re Ron Swanson, they generally aren’t the best. Beards are also good. Keep the rock aesthetic and change the hair a bit as he said. This is important. You don’t need to cut all of your hair off. In fact, it’s better that you don’t. Find a woman that you trust to teach you what to do with it. Women love men with great, long hair. And as another poster said,… | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?You don’t seem to understand the meaning of the word, “literally.” It’s impossible to call someone out on “bullshit” when the aforementioned “bullshit” is something that you’ve taken wildly out of context via fallacious argument. Anyone with half a brain can see it. Sorry. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?That’s exactly it. I’ve tried to explain a woman’s perspective on here before. Each time, I’ve explained the reason and given a solution that would provide a better outcome for the man. That’s when I realized that men don’t always come here for seduction techniques or tips. It’s more of a moral support group. I think that men and women who honestly want to discuss seduction should form another sub, or they retitle this one to “moral support for seduction fail.” | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?Nope. I don’t think either of those things. Those are both over-the-top slippery slope responses. Also, a crowded grocery store is the opposite of a captive audience situation. Either you have reading comprehension problems, don’t understand logical fallacies, and/or you’re a miserable man who is bitter with all women, and you know that you’re in one of the few places where some people might support your resentful perspective. | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 10:56 PM |
| -5 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?“Nobody’s gonna pull out their dick in front of you.” Too late. Sadly, I didn’t imagine the dicks. That’s the problem here. You think it’s my imagination. For me and for plenty of other women, it’s reality. I’ve had really disturbing shit happen to me—and much creepier than a dick flash. I would tell you to go out and meet women so that you could understand that it’s a real problem, but if you think that things like that don’t happen to women and believe they’re lying when they tell you that, ma… | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 02:52 AM |
| -14 | How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching?Women do not want to be a captive audience to a man’s approach/time to strike. Men may see this and think, “oh, a perfect opportunity to meet a nice woman.” Women see a field of red flags and will think, “oh no, this is the perfect opportunity for him to pull out his willy or decide to follow me home.” If you’re going to approach a woman, please do it in an area where there are plenty of people and plenty of exits. You would think this would be common sense, but honestly, there are so many times… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 7 | How MUCH Does Height Matter?A 6-inch heel is absurd in real life. If your woman is only buying 6-inch heels, she’s a stripper, and you probably never look at her shoes in the first place. | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusI second buying samples on eBay. I’m definitely way too into fragrances for my own good. But if you want something unique that actually smells good, maybe look at the notes of these and order samples if they appeal to you. (Most of these are more cold weather scents.) Jubilation XXV - Amouage Overture Man - Amouage Reflection Man - Amouage 02 L’Air du Desert Marocain - Tauer Perfumes Le Exclusifs de Chanel Coromandel - Chanel Chergui - Serge Lutens Eau Delle - Dyptique Black Phantom - By Killian… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 09:28 PM |
| 6 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusPlease, please be careful with the cologne. I’m a woman, and I adore fragrance. I collect them. I read an insane amount about them. That being said, please make sure that what you are using works with your body chemistry. Ask a trusted friend or two to smell you and make sure it isn’t off putting. Also, there are some fragrances that combine musk with either apple or bergamot. The majority of the population has no problem with this, but there is a sizable minority that find the combination, if n… | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Out of train wreck curiosity, I read part of some model’s biography bc it was supposed to be entertaining. At one point, Tommy Lee calls her and wildly exclaims that he’s currently jerking it to one of her photos. She talks about how she thought it was soooo funny and endearing. Imagine if some random dude (who wasn’t a subjectively attractive, millionaire, rock star who’s packing a python) that she casually knew called her and did this. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 03:26 AM |
| 11 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?Honestly, anything somewhat normal would work. The whole pick-up artist thing has been around too long, so as long as it wasn’t some negging or wearing down tactic, I wouldn’t care. A lot of people say that they are surprised to find out I like Star Wars—but come on, most people do nowadays. One day, a man standing near me at an event quoted a line to one of his friends. I laughed really hard at this as it fit the situation, and a fun conversation came from it (again, married). If you’re wonderi… | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?It does sound like something out of a crazy movie!! I’ve had friends go with me places, and they were like—I can’t believe this. I thought you were just being funny and exaggerating when you told us these stories. It happens so often that every time I go to the grocery store, my husband asks what creepy thing was said to me that day. I asked him the same question one day—what did they expect acting like that?? He said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. They must combine it with the who… | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 02:35 AM |
| 88 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?I’m a married woman and am always wearing my ring. It doesn’t stop a lot of men. I’m not suggesting that you are approaching married women at all. But even when I was single, I always had this experience: A good 50% of men that approach me end up saying something incredibly weird or inappropriate. The majority of these encounters do not start with the man being a creeper. Most of the time, he seems normal or perhaps somewhat socially awkward. After a few polite exchanges, he suddenly devolves in… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Does a girl want to fuck if she signs my HS yearbook?I think the women would be the recipient of the help. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Does a girl want to fuck if she signs my HS yearbook?If this isn’t a troll, either do one of two things: Stay far away from all women for a few years. Or Approach this woman and say, “You signed my yearbook; therefore, you must want my cock.” Make sure to video this interaction and post it on this sub. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 12 | Today I put on a sexy dress got dolled up BC I wanted to feel good about myself. Men noticed and all I wanted to do was approach one that caught my eye..This may seem like a weird question at first, but do you have a specific “look” that you give men when you are interested in them? When I say “look,” I don’t mean just a small smile and then instantly look away. It might be better if some of them men on here could explain it to you more thoroughly bc they are the ones who are actually reacting to it. (So if you are a man on here and you know what I’m talking about, please elaborate.) When I was single and interested in a conversation with a man,… | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:13 PM |
| 544 | I'm a 6 .. My new GF is a solid 9. Today in an argument she pointed out this as a fact. Is this a red flag?I really hate the idea of a “scale,” but if I am being honest, I am noticeably more attractive than my husband. It’s been pointed out to us many times by our “friends” and by strangers. People make the unoriginal comments asking how rich he is, what he did to get me, etc. I love the man to death. He’s hot, funny, and incredibly kind. (He even jokes about the hotness discrepancy.) But any time anyone makes snarky comments about it, I’m instantly all over him that much more out of spite. He’s my 1… | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.Oh dude, I was dating and got married way before 2017. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.It’s great bc one of the logical women in the group is a surgeon. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 12:26 AM |
| 14 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.I appreciate that you said “generally,” because it’s really important to know your audience. When I’m asking my husband a question about an issue, I’m asking him to brainstorm with me to solve it. I rarely discuss my emotions, and I strongly prefer that people not share serious emotions with me. I have a tough time with empathy, so if a friend is going through a difficult time, I’m the one the one that will make them dinner or run their errands. There are are a lot more of us (women who are less… | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Anyone seriously considered having multiple wives?I think that this is a fantastic idea and a 1 for sure. You should invite them both over and tell them pretty much the same thing that you’ve said here—but more poetic. I have prepared a poem for you to recite to them: Some people say I’m a douche, But I’m just a high value man. I swing from woman to woman Like a lewd and repugnant Tarzan. But I have selected you both Even though you’re jizz-stealing witches. What I’m clumsily trying to say Is that I want you both as my bitches. Girl 1 is my vix… | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Are women in the desperate phase (27 - 33) keen to hook up with men such as myself in their early 20s?With the exception of one friend, all of my friends who were both single and in that age bracket were the opposite of desperate. Also, with the exception of that same one friend, they were all single because they were either recently divorced or had broken off a long term relationship. Maybe it’s just my circle of friends, but we all (except for the one) had extremely low numbers (think—under 5). I have no idea where you got the idea that women in this age range were desperate, but every single … | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | 13 WAYS TO MAKE A WOMAN WANT YOUDon’t even try with this group. One OP maintained that women saying “I don’t need a man” meant one of two things—one being that she was a lesbian who couldn’t admit it to herself or her friends. I politely explained that this was not usually what it meant at all and offered actual instances when I had heard this statement used. Instead of listening, many of them went along with OP—agreeing that these women are definitely lesbians. That’s when I realized that this sub is mostly a circle jerk want… | /r/seduction | 17/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth it to try and go after the "I don't need no man, I got my girls" type of girl?As a woman, I ask you not to ignore this message. I’m not giving you conjecture. I’m giving you what I’ve experienced and seen many times over the years. I’m happily married now, but I would have been so absolutely grateful for actual advice on this type of thing—in my case, interpreting the opposite sex. This can mean several different things as most of you have already stated. Here goes: “I don’t need no man...bc I’ve been deeply hurt. I need a man who will not hurt me.” “I don’t need no man..… | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Girls and their Shit testsI agree with JetPillar on this. Sometimes we get busy. Sometimes it’s work. Sometimes a new season of The Last Kingdom comes out, and we forget other humans exist. Sometimes we get into a book or a research rabbit hole. Sometimes we start listening to Robert Plant sing, and we need some time alone. | /r/seduction | 14/05/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | The one shit test that will make or break youOP even said it was an inside joke and asked “what’s there to be mad at” taking their scenario into consideration. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | The one shit test that will make or break youMy husband and I troll each other all the time with this kind of stuff—especially in a fake attempt to make each other jealous bc neither of us are the jealous type. If my husband said this to me, I would tell him to put my number on it too so that she would at least have a choice. The question took me a second to register bc I haven’t been single in a really long time, but I would personally find gender to be a non-issue in this. A shit test is a shit test. I fail to understand why it would eve… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 0 | The one shit test that will make or break youYour “analysis” is way off. It had absolutely nothing to do with women controlling their words or actions. My comment wasn’t metaphorical. I see so many posts where people are trying to solve and understand every comment and action of their love interest—some more successfully than others. Lately I’ve seen quite a few from men who have declared that they know exactly what a particular woman wants. As a woman myself (and one who isn’t very emotional), I was imagining a physical wheel and that a w… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 0 | The one shit test that will make or break youI’m imagining a woman with a giant wheel (like Wheel of Fortune) and instead of amounts of money, there are random interactions. These would include positive interactions, neutral interactions, overtly negative interactions, ignoring a man for a an arbitrary period of time, and some of the aforementioned “shit tests.” Each day, the woman must spin the wheel and perform whatever interaction the wheel says. Now I’m imagining a bunch of dudes on this subreddit attempting to explain her thought proc… | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 06:53 PM |
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