| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Q4M: Would you date a mediocre woman?No woman is mediocre if she loves you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a guy, personally I don't lose any sexual desire if I'm hungry or tired. When I'm really stressed, I lose some sexual desire, just a little bit. I'd say the only thing physically that affects a guys sexual desire is if he's sick. Personally if I have even the slightest head cold, all desire goes out the window. If Scarlet Johannson herself started flirting with me while I'm sick I'd probably just ask her for a Kleenex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm agnostic but I get along very well with religious people and I don't get along well with anti-theists. I also admire Christianity a lot despite not having any faith and adhere to a few Christian morals (ie no sex before marriage). I feel kind of hypocritical for preferring religious women without being religious myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.This isn't "pick me" behavoir, a lot of this is just being a good romantic partner. Everything you did is an absolute bare minimum for a man who wants to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:12 AM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Sex is inherent to having/being a meaningful partner. It sounds like you're implying that men have to pick one or the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:10 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.I'd say that you shouldn't even pursue relationships with these kinds of women in the first place. This is a clever way to get more out of these women, but it's still not good for you in the long run. It's an extremely common tactic for women to not "put out" until they can squeeze as much as they can out of a guy, even if the woman wants sex and is attracted to him. Sex should be about mutual attraction and love but for these women it's not. Eventually they're going to find a man they can squee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:52 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, there are some men who do the same double standard BS but the overwhelming consensus is that women can do whatever they want when it comes to these sorts of boundaries. How many times have you seen a post where a woman is upset her BF won't let her go out in a revealing outfit, and the replies are all saying she should dump him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI recently saw a video where this guy is interviewing a random couple on the street. He asks the woman if it's okay for her BF to be looking at pictures of girls in bikinis on social media, and obviously she says no. Then he asks her if it's okay for her to post pictures of herself in a bikini on social media, and she says it's okay. He points out the hypocrisy in that and she just says "it's different". What do you think? Personally I find it bewildering how men are expected to have basically n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Men are well known for being manipulative and charming in order to pick up women Your use of the term "well known" just further cements my point that this behavior can be seen a mile away. You use the same deceitful practices in order to get laid I don't, haven't had sex yet and don't plan on having sex without a woman who isn't okay with the possibility of having a kid, regardless of how many contraceptive methods we'd might use. I'm not going to contribute to a single parent household, and its… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.My point still stands that the single moms are the primary gatekeepers of sex and are choosing to make babies with these sorts of men, by ignoring deadbeat dad behavoir that rational people can see from a mile away. Currently, men want kids slightly more than women do, if single moms were to pair up these men, single parent households would be way less of an issue. Obviously teaching men to NOT sleep with women they don't see themselves having kids with is important, but it's just as important t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Child support is a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.The way I see it is, if you like something, but need a lot of prerequisites to like it, then you don't like it as much as someone who doesn't have as many requirements. Let's say there are two people who say they enjoy pizza. The first person will eat any kind of pizza, anywhere, anytime, even if it's cold, even if it's a little undercooked or burnt, even if it has toppings they don't like. The second person says they love pizza, but will only eat a very specific kind of pizza with certain toppi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.The way I see it is, if you like something, but need a lot of prerequisites to like it, then you don't like it as much as someone who doesn't have as many requirements. Let's say there are two people who say they enjoy pizza. The first person will eat any kind of pizza, anywhere, anytime, even if it's cold, even if it's a little undercooked or burnt, even if it has toppings they don't like. The second person says they love pizza, but will only eat a very specific kind of pizza with certain toppi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Women have immense power in the relationship market. Deadbeat/absentee fathers are a social plague, true, but women contribute to the problem just as much by choosing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:47 AM |
| 10 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Yes, we know women aren't paragons of virtue, like not even close. Women don't enjoy sex nearly as much as men do and they know this. Women use sex as a resource and they do hand it out for certain behavior. Sex has everything to do with reproduction and our survival as a species. Single mother homes are overwhelmingly responsible for producing violent criminals. Naturally people are concerned about broken families created by poor choices of sex partners, I don't want to get killed in a carjacki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Women hate being treated as a resource that is handed out for good behavior.Exactly. If women are tired of "nice guys" thinking of intimacy as some sort of reward, then women should stop acting like their mere presence is some sort of inherent gift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | People equate "ick" as a female phenomenon. I think men experience ick at the same level, it just manifests differently. The outcome/result is what causes controversy.Learning a woman is a "hoe" isn't an ick. "Icks" are really small, innocuous things like the way you pronounce something or the type of toothbrush you use. If a potential partner has a lifestyle or personality that you don't like, that's something else entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 07:08 PM |
| 6 | People equate "ick" as a female phenomenon. I think men experience ick at the same level, it just manifests differently. The outcome/result is what causes controversy.Pretty much the only way men get the "ick" is if a woman literally shits herself and sometimes even that doesn't make a man unattracted to a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleWhat unkindness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleThat's because your "point" has nothing to do with my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleUsing SSRI's is not living the best you can, nor is it trying your best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleI don't think friends and family provide the same social needs that a long term romantic partner does. They're extremely important, needed even, but having good friends and family members doesn't make people want a long term partner any less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleThat's not what I was saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singlesingle men may tend to neglect their friends and drop out each time they get a girlfriend Thats because generally, men have to put a lot more work into relationships than women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleNope, it's because of statistics. Good guess, though. https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6942a8.htm#:~:text=Antidepressant%20use%20was%20higher%20among,for%20both%20men%20and%20women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singlehttps://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/69/wr/mm6942a8.htm#:~:text=Antidepressant%20use%20was%20higher%20among,for%20both%20men%20and%20women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:56 PM |
| 0 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleI definitely think divorces and women historically getting more after a divorce would have a lot to do with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleIn my experience men have more hobbies than women do, whether they're single or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:49 PM |
| – | PPD women be like:Elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:39 AM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingAs a guy, women's distrust of men has made dating difficult in a few instances. One girl who I had been flirting with a lot would randomly bring up rape statistics or some news story about a man killing a woman. It was like she was trying to get me to say sorry about these, for some reason. She was obsessed over her distrust of men and yet she was trying to date men. It was really strange and it was an impossible hurdle to get over even though we had similar interests and were attracted to each … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:32 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of virgin women?As a virgin myself, I definitely want to date and eventually marry a woman who is also a virgin. It's a huge thing for me, more important than physical attractiveness even. Realistically it's going to be difficult to find a virgin woman at my age (27), and I wouldn't consider a woman completely undatable if she slept with just a few men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever approached or thought about approaching a guy you liked? If not, why?What do you mean by a "rare" sexual attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:58 AM |
| 9 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageWhat exactly do you mean by "eligible men"? How does a man become eligible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Adin Ross is the perfect example of what happens when young impressionable men take the red pillYou say he is bad for "lonely, radical and depressed young men". Have you ever questioned why these young men are lonely and depressed in the first place? The red pill doesn't make young men lonely/depressed. They were already that way and it gives them a purpose and an explanation as to why the world treats them the way it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:02 AM |
| 3 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?I just want to be loved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Do RP men who are extremely discouraged by dating ever consider how their attitudes come across to women?I absolutely consider it. I'm totally aware that I'd be considered some kind of disgusting, vile incel by like 80% of the women in the dating pool. Mainly because I believe that men don't owe women anything, rape culture isn't real and male privilege is practically nonexistent. But I'm also aware of how much resentment bluepilled women have towards men. And how much easier it is for them to get dates. Many women's bios on dating apps are straight up just insulting men and they can still get date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's career or level of educational attainment in a partner?Absolutely. I used to prefer college-educated women and thought it was attractive, but I've learned that college educated women with big careers (or higher level degrees) tend to make it their whole personality. It has nothing to do with wanting to date a woman who is less intelligent. I've just found that I don't always "vibe with" college educated women and many are downright rude or unpleasant to be with. I get along much better with women who only have a high school diploma. It's not like I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticThere's a statistical correlation between premarital sex partners and martial happiness. The more premarital sex partners you have, the less likely you are to be in a long lasting marriage. It has nothing to do with hedonism or ego or sexual desires. You can go ahead and call it that, but it doesn't change the fact that hooking up permanently damages your body's ability to pair bond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you really want a stay at home wife?Of course it would be difficult to raise a family on one income. No one is saying it isn't. But a lot of men (me included) would love to be able to spoil their wife so she doesn't have to work. The question you should be asking is why it's become so economically difficult to be able to have a stay at home wife, who is responsible for it, and what can be done to fix it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | What is considered a “High Body Count” ?It depends on her age and her attitude towards sex, but generally I'd say a woman my age (mid 20s) would have a high body count at 6 or higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:11 AM |
| 5 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?Jealously and insecurity don't have anything to do with it. Body counts closely affect marital satisfaction, and if you're looking for a lifelong, committed partner, their body count is something important to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:04 AM |
| 1 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?Not right away, but eventually, yes, especially before getting sexually intimimate. A medium body count wouldn't be a deal breaker, whats important is her attitude towards relationships and sex. If she gets mad about the question or breaks up because of it then it's clear we don't have the same relationship values and aren't compatible anyway. I'm not interested in women who have willingly damaged their ability to pair bond, and they're not interested in me either. Most of the times it's easy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills""Personality" is such a loose term that has been so overused that it means nothing. Everyone has a personality, no one has more or less personality than anyone else unless they're quite literally braindead. The question is what kind of personality. A guy who doesn't talk much or make jokes or is "suave" still has personality, he just is interested in other things, and is just introverted. And people who focus on the false idea that you can have a "bigger personality" are often manipulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 11:44 PM |
| – | Women and girls are reading the manosphere forums and subs, that makes them less likely to date.My friends and I have our own GroupChats where we collect especially heinous things men have said online about women or girls. We also share those with other women and girls we know The fact that you've made a hobby of specifically going out of your way to find stuff you don't like displays your unwillingness to date. If you want something you're not going to spend that much time looking for excuses to not do it. None of these forums made you less likely to date, it sounds like you're already co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do men assume good looking men are horrible to women and ugly men are nice to women?This isn't always the case obviously, but goog looking men often can get away with treating women while ugly dudes have zero chance with women if they're mean. There are still ugly men who treat women like shit regardless and there are good looking men who don't, they're just not nearly as incentivized to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't interested in becoming fathers because we have basically no rights when it comes to fatherhoodGetting a paternity test has everything to do with taking accountability. Also just because some scummy men leave their kids doesn't mean we should punish men who actually do want to be fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 05:12 AM |
| 6 | Men aren't interested in becoming fathers because we have basically no rights when it comes to fatherhoodThis, on the other hand, isn't one. It's not your child until it's actually born. Then how come someone who kills a pregnant woman can get charged with double homicide? And if someone attacks a pregnant woman and the fetus/baby/whatever dies, how come they can get charged with murder and not just assault? I'm not here to argue about whether abortion should be legal or not, because nobody on either side is going to change the other person's minds. But if a man gets a woman pregnant and she has an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:56 PM |
| -2 | Men aren't interested in becoming fathers because we have basically no rights when it comes to fatherhoodIt's one of those things thats difficult to determine what started it. Men don't talk about those things because we aren't expected to care or put in much input. But also the reason they aren't expected to put in much input is because they didn't start discussing those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:12 PM |
| -4 | Men aren't interested in becoming fathers because we have basically no rights when it comes to fatherhoodDefinitely not all men, but some of us. There are obviously still guys who take the risks or just get women pregnant without wanting to take care of the kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Because a lot of these guys have only met women who only offer sex, and in turn will only seek out women for that reason. They don't even realize women can offer them a lot more than sex. Deep down they want a women who are nice and smart and interesting but they don't even realize it, and it takes a while for them to realize this, so they might not immediately show interest in a woman who is like that. There's definitely still guys who genuinely only want sex. But there are many men who want pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Women have actively decided to fit into this role. Men may have some involvement (with creating porn sites and being pimps, etc.) But women voluntarily do this stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.Men often want sex, but it's not the only thing we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 07:44 PM |
| -1 | the "sexualization" of women is a two way street. Women profiting off their sexual attractiveness is part of the reason why some men see them as sex objects.There's definitely men who will sexualize women no matter what, but they're far fewer of them than people believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Men who genuinely are fans of Andrew tate can I ask u why?As a side note I think its really sad that someone can get a following from men solely by saying "I don't hate you for being male" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 10:26 AM |
| – | Do you like the opposite gender?I would say the short answer is yes. I like women, a lot. And not even necessarily in a romantic context. It can be refreshing and important to be around those of the opposite gender. What I don't like is how women choose to treat men. And how, as men, we are taught that literally everything we do is threatening even down to the way we walk, and how being in the same room as a women is invasive and how we should feel ashamed. How we're expected to do the heavy lifting and always solve problems a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 07:21 AM |
| 0 | It is very risky for a woman to be traditionalSo basically MGTOW but for women? Sure women can do this but they'd be hard pressed to find a mate when their entirely personality revolves around basically not wanting one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.I don't think women reward "creepy" or "a-hole" necessarily, but they do reward more attractive men regardless of their behavior. And attractive people (of either gender) can get away with that kind of behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Men are annoyed with women,but women are afraid of the potential of the collective power of men.They need men to enforce this though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What can someone do to look less intimidating?Why would you want to look less intimidating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 04:17 AM |
| -1 | Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevantSingle women have the highest rates of antidepressant use, single men have the lowest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The Wheel of Time and "Gender Essentialism", do you believe men think and feel completely different from women, and vice versa?Only certain people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Single men have the lowest use of antidepressants of all groups categorized by sex and marital status.Thank you. I've been saying this for a while, that antidepressant use should be taken into account when talking about happiness. (Not just for gender debates) r/TwoXChromosomes proudly says that single women are the happiest group while single men are the least happy, but they conveniently leave out the chasm of antidepressant use between the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your most important attributes in a women?If I'd have to order it that way, I'd say Personality Body count Age Weight Looks Career But personality is a really complex topic, and I'd argue that your body count is largely influenced by personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Men love whoresBased. I wish more women realized that sexual history is often a good indicator as to whether a man will be a good long term partner or not. And as a guy, a lot of men I know who liked to sleep around a lot are pretty crappy boyfriends/husbands. Not that every virgin guy is prince charming. But some dude who brags about fucking a ton of women in college certainly isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?I think a lot of men would be a hell of a lot happier, and would be able to focus on other things. There would be a lot of women who would be angry about not getting attention and make arguments as to why men should give women more attention, but finding a roundabout way to say it (i.e. Men not paying attention to women is a form of internalized misogyny) There would also be a lot of women who genuinely don't want any male attention and would be much happier about this. There would be some women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 06:28 AM |
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